I am a hindu south African and I just love listening to Solo with his wise advice. He speaks so well and so easy and interesting to listen to. Learning so much from you guys. Love your family ❤️🇿🇦
Awesome! God bless you family! I'm a single 21 young man. I learned that I need pursue God instilled passion in me, then God will do the rest concerning my spouse. ❤️
Solo is so right, people should protect their heart..I have been heartbroken and its no joke. If someone can spare themselves that pain, do it.. Trust in God, he knows what he's doing
💯 I agree I have experienced it as well and now I have true love for the past 10 years and it's been the best time of my life by the grace of god 🙏💙💜 thanks for your inspiring talks sarah and solo I agree and think it's important to reach our children especially our daughters to protect their hearts and allow god to guide them
🙌Thanks for the mention at the end. It led some folks toward the 1st video and the ones who came over had a lot of positive feedback! 👏We posted part 2 today and we're grateful y'all shared your time and insight with us!❤💪
You two are the cutest! What you said about singleness and dating was so encouraging to me. I’m a 28yo single foster mom who just bought my first home. I tend to feel like I’ll never find the man for me because he won’t want kids or someone who is so independent etc, but that’s a lie. Thanks for your encouragement to keep pursuing the work is has placed before me and the one the Lord has for me will come along. ❤️❤️❤️
I love you guys. My husband and I were married for 28 years before The Lord took him home. Things weren't always the best, and that's not surprising. Nothing is ever perfect. It is such a blessing, for me, to see how you both put The Lord first and love each other and your children so passionately. I hope I have that again but if I don't, I'll trust that He knows what's best. Thank you so much for bringing us into your life. God bless you! 🙏❤️
I pray that the Lord will continue to heal your heart concerning the loss of your husband. And it’s such a blessing to hear that you are still trusting the Lord he is so faithful to be what we need in the season that we need him the most keep trusting keep believing and he will give you the desires of your heart! That is my prayer for you in Jesus name!✝️🙏❤️
I’ve been married for 27yrs. My husband and I met in the Army. Two autistic sons and we’re still going strong. I’m so glad I found you website.😜😜💯💯🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Being in an interracial relationship myself, i am really grateful to see an older, mature couple like you guys giving some very good perspectives. Salamu nyingi kutoka Kenya 🇰🇪
Good morning Solo & Sarah, I thoroughly enjoyed this video this morning. Hopefully many young couples will see this and learn. So many times people get into relationships and don't have a clue how t be in a relationship. In my job, I have to talk quite a bit, but then on the other hand I have to really listen to what someone is trying to say. Things can get muddled up when we feel we are not being listened too. Congrats on your 18th year of marriage. What a blessing. My sister and her husband have been married 55 years and the one thing I and everyone around them notices is that they have such a great friendship. I was only married for 10 years, but out of that 10 years I got the best 4 blessings, my children. I have encouraged them to seek God in all their relationship goals. Thank you for this. God bless
I love the part about 'Guard Your Heart" - I've been using that with my 16 year old daughter for a few years as she navigates relationships. I honestly think that is one of the key factors missing from our sex ed teachings/health classes - whether in schools, homes, etc.. my reference is mostly schools - that they teach all the physical aspects of sex/relationships, but not the emotional aspects of it. With my daughter, our conversations have all been that above all, in all her choices she needs to guard her heart - that who ever she chooses to date, hold hands with kiss, etc will be a part of her heart forever - and are they worth it? Are they worth letting in and holding space in her heart? (Of course as a parent you want them to wait to date forever...until they are 30, right? but that isn't reasonable! But being flexible, giving guidance and offering love and support is the best we can do...)
Loved todays vlog, as usual. My husband & I celebrated 50 years of marriage on 6/6/2020. We were both 18 when we married. God has been faithful to see us through some pretty rough times, but has blessed us in a tremendous way. We have 3 children and 10 grandchildren! We love spending time together and with our family. ❤✝️
I went from one broken relationship to the next, I had very low self esteem after childhood abuse. Now after two terrible marriages I have finally been alone for 3 years at age 40 for the first time in my life. I am waiting on the Lord, if I get married or not I'm ok! Its crazy cause both of my marriages the husband would talk about the Bible and I thought, this is the one... Its a big difference from talking about God and living for God. I learned that the hard way because I was hard headed. It really is values and principles and walking it out with God, thank you so much for the video. Happy 18th Anniversary!
I had to leave a relationship a few months ago, and it was a long term relationship where I didn't go to the Lord about it first. I admit I did it the wrong way, but I'm doing it God's way now and letting him choose because I obviously don't know what I'm doing lol.
🤣🤣🤣 oh my goodness Solo! You just flipped my bad mood right around, we got married at 12 & even though it was illegal we did it anyway! Thank you thank you!!
you guys are such a blessing to watch. i have been married to my husband for 29 years and love him more and more each day. you both are soul mates and belong to each other. God Bless you both. love you and your family. thank you for sharing your wisdom!
I prayed for the right man and 24 years ago I found him online in the old fashion chat room. He is a Cuban from Miami fl and I lived in the ozarks in Missouri. We have had hard times but learned how to build a marriage. The first advise I give others is don’t quit! Talk talk and sometimes scream. Make dates! Even if it is only a hour a week to spend together.
so encouraging. i’m single and 22, graduated college in may during this pandemic, and have moved back in with my parents. i’m so blessed in the ways that God has provided for me but it’s easy to forget He has a perfect plan when i’m working the same job i did in high school. thanks for the encouragement and reminder that He is holding me in every season and as long as im walking with Him, i’m going in the right direction.
My husband and I will celebrate our 51st anniversary on October 11, 2020. We were very young when we got married. I was 18, he was 22. We grew up together. Always had a good marriage. Now my husband has pancreatic cancer. It's been very hard this past year. We love each other so much. It's hard to think about the future. But we know that the Lord always takes care of us no matter what the outcome. We have 2 awesome daughters and 5 wonderful grandchildren. I wouldn't trade my life for anything.
Just a note for y’all. I have pursued what God had for me fulling expecting to get married because I’d heard from many Christian counselors/pastors that God would give you the desire of your heart. I’m now 64 years old unmarried woman and I had to continue with what Paul says in I Corinthians that it’s better to be single and be single minded for Christ, and that it’s better to marry than to burn (in sexual desire ). I am still single and still open if God wants me to marry, that He has a widower for me somewhere, but I’m still serving.
It takes a lot of humility to address that kind of rift. I’ve definitely experienced the same thing and I’m so grateful we were able to humble ourselves and just talk about it.
I love Solo ‘s point to “ guard your heart in ALL things because out of it we run all the issues of life.” I have heard it many times in my life; however, hearing it this morning it was a revelation. We hear scripture over and over, but at my age (70s) and after 53 years of marriage, today it was my take away today. I love you guys❣️
FrankysMa, I feel it almost jumped out at me. At our advanced years of being married it won’t probably make a huge difference in our relationships in the future. However, I do feel that us oldsters need to draw attention to it for the younger people who also watch Our Tribe of Many. It would have been wonderful to hear these Words when I was younger. I only hope these Wwords with Solo’s delivery strikes the same chord with younger people for whom it may make a difference.
Of course I respect your privacy but I would be interested to hear about Solo's upbringing and him finding God or having the calling to become a Pastor. Of course, only if Solo is prepared to discuss this. I love watching your videos x
I have been a mom for 9 years and I still struggle to stop and remember that the way my husband parents is just as valid. When I take the time to remind myself of that it helps us avoid unnecessary conflict 🙂.
I can relate to the cleaning issues! Love a clean organized house! You guys are honest and real that’s what I like keep it up! World needs more people like you!
What an inspirational vlog! The best marriage advice I've always heard is patience with each other and make time for each other no matter how hectic the world becomes around you.
I would love to see a video where you reminisce on memories of your wedding day/first few years of marriage and show some photos from it! Maybe on your next anniversary? Love watching you guys!
I love that this video was posted on my birthday! 🤣 Hubby and I had the same direction in life as well. It's brought us through 20 years and stronger everyday. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. 😊
This was so refreshing to watch. Some times being a single woman I see happy marriages and forget that marriage does have hardships and we all have struggles. I watch your channel because you all are so organized, peaceful and your family is beautiful . I want to be married some day and watching you all and hearing you all do these chats is so helpful. It’s hard to find good examples of God fearing people who are REAL about life but you all are masters are being real and classy. I truly love your channel and I’m grateful God has given you all this platform to be such a light and awesome examples of God fearing people
I've been so busy with out first year of virtual school, and working that I'm behind on soooo many videos and just got to watch this one! I wish someone would of told teenage me to guard her heart and wait for the one, and it's something that I've encouraged to both of my children! My husband and I will be married 2 years on the 13th, but we've been together for almost 9. It's encouraging to see that a couple I look up to has been honest and open with the fact that they've themselves had seasons or times in their relationship where it was hard and they had to reevaluate and come together to get through it! You guys are the best!
Taking a moment to say a prayer and give thanks for the love you are putting into the world. The guidance you are giving so many people out here. Sarah, I just feel comforted by your heart and wisdom.
I can’t imagine Solo with hair. My wedding anniversaries is August 16th. We have only been married 10 years though. Thank you for this video. I love watching you and your family
Thank you for all your Wisdom in what you say, you encouraged me exceedingly Solo , you both are amazing people and very balanced in Our God... your both beautiful people. GOD BLESS YOU!!
Your an inspiration to other couples, My ex husband was never into talking out our problems, our daughter was born premature 710g but 31 years later she has Blessed us with 3 Beautiful grandchildren, so my desire to have a big family was a later blessing and not what I expected in my own marriage. Thank you for sharing support Xxx
Listening to you speak, I realized how calm I felt. I didn't know if you knew you had this impact on people. I have been following your family (sounds creepy but it really isn't - lol) and have watched all of your videos. Thank you for sharing. You have a beautiful family!
You guys absolutely blow me away every single video you post. Our family has been going through a rough season and you both have reminded my husband and I that we are not in control and to have faith and hope. Thank you for all you do everyday. On a side note we just finished watching the Chosen first season and know that you and your tribe would love it. It's about how Jesus chose his apostles - it is so uplifting and amazing. Again, thank you for all that you do you guys are really making a positive impact which is so needed in this world today.
You both give a lot of wise advice! I remember when you got the house cleaners and how it made such a difference. Glad you got that help to alleviate something that was obviously stressing you out. I love your big family!
my husband and I were married before but like you mentioned we did it differently and your right communication is so paramote. we've been together 39yrs and we love each other even today. oh and I love Solo's no hair choice he pulls it off well. love you guys
What a sweet and genuine video. There's no doubt that both your commitments to the Lord has brought many blessings to this union. And both of your upbringing's as well. I truly enjoy listening to both of you. God Bless and keep you for all the days of your life.
You guys are adorable! I totally agree with so much you said about marriage. I get asked a lot how my husband and I have stayed together for almost 40 years and I usually say that you have to be understanding of the other person and they of you. Compromise often and pray together. lol
My husband and I have been married 48 years. We married fairly young, I was 20 and my husband was 25. We met at work. I was in college and he was a recent college grad. We only knew each other 9 months before we married. We are Catholic and married in the church. I agree that the most important thing in a marriage is sharing the same values, principles and communication is key. Date night is so essential and we still have date night after all these years. We only had two children, but were blessed with our wonderful grandchildren and together they make quite a brood. I love watching your channel. You are such wonderful people and have such a lovely family. Honestly, you amaze me in every way. Bless you all. ♥️♥️♥️
My husband and I have been married 43 years! I remember when our girls were small, we would take them to a state park and play, hike and fish. We didn’t have much money so that was a way that we could spend good family time together. The park was just a few miles from our home so it was an easy “trip”. You and Solo have such good advice and I truly love your family! God bless y’all!
Love watching you guys talk! My husband and I have been together 13 years and our proposal wasn’t fancy at all! We both knew we wanted to be married and so when we started dating that was our purpose. I had been in other relationships before and when you meet the right person you really do “just know” 🤷♀️ I wish I could tell my younger self that the others didn’t matter. You know teenagers/young adults don’t listen though 🤣
I’m 57 my husband is 59 we have been married for 38 years this year. He was injured in the falklands before we married and has suffered with PTSD for 39 years. I was on my own with my kids although he was there, he couldn’t cope . We are still together tho, we have 3 adults, 7 grandsons and 1 granddaughter. Love to watch your channel. Stay safe and god bless you all xxx
I love listening to you both talking , you are anchors and Rocks for each other , so nice to hear you remembering and laughing together xxxx we are coming up on 40 years of marriage now and the most important thing we have found is communication and humour xxxx it seems like you have discovered it too xxxxx 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Hey Sarah n Solo, A bit of trivia for you or old wives tale - the man's head of hair or lack of is determined by what his mothers father's head of hair or lack of was like !! So whatever head of hair your grandfather on your mum's side had determines what your's will be like, comes from your mum's side of the family. Has been a true indicator in my family, Cheers Claudia from Esperance Western Australia
Happy 10th Anniversary Sarah and Solo Your Both So Amazing. I Love Your Kids As Well. There So Independent And Great. Keep Up The Great Work God Always Has Your Back.. God Bless You All
I lost my husband in 2008. We would've been married 22 years in December. I miss him a lot. Cherish these memories and times together! 💕 You both are inspiring with a wonderful family. God bless u both and your sweet family.
Thank you for sharing your dating story. My husband and I each dated others before meeting each other, and it does bring some "baggage" with you. We are teaching our children to wait until they are mature enough to be able to handle the ups and downs of a relationship. Casual dating is so popular, but in the end, someone gets hurt, and that hurt usually is carried into the next relationship, and so on.
Solo and Sarah, what a pure, beautiful very honest video. Your warmth really does shine and I so love your family sharing your lives with us. I could never put in to words how I am lifted up after watching your videos and I just can't stress enough how beautiful it is for me to see. Thank you a million times over. Kathy from Windsor Ontario Canada.
Having God as first in your individual lives and as a couple and family has served you well. Sarah, Girl, how do you have so many babies and keep your figure? I had one child who has long grown up and I am still blaming the loss of my figure on the oregnancy!! Seriously, it is a pleasure to watch your ease and respect in your videos. Thank God for being a good example to the world. Yes, I know nobody is perfect. Peace & Blessings
It's always fun to hear the two of you speak about your lives. Yes, marriage can be work. Not that hard if you made some initial agreements. In our home I was an at home Mom until my kids went off to college. I had several part time jobs until my husband retired in 2014. Whoa, that's when a new challenge began. We needed to try to plan our lives differently. I was ready to travel more, see our family and friends more and share more time together. We do take care of our property, inside and out. But my husband is always looking for more projects.
Finding your channel helped me re-discover my faith. It helped me get closer to God. When I watch you and your family I feel Jesus in my heart, and for that I need to thank you!! ❤️
Hehehe, ya'll are so sweet. Goodness gracious, what a lot ya'll took on. And how blessed ya'll are. Hubby and I are proud parents to two grown sons. Married 40 years. Wish we had 12 like ya'll did. That's what life is, isn't it? Family, children, chaos in the home, love in the home. So blessed to have found your channel.
My husband and I celebrated our 23rd anniversary on August 8th. I was 18 and he was 20, we were so young but determined to make it work. And there was some trial and error over the years but honest communication is everything, our relationship is better than ever.
Wow... at first I wasn’t very interested in this video (to be honest, the title threw me off) but I needed this more than you know.. I’ve been married for 14 years.. just had our 5th baby and our marriage has never been this strained... My husband and I have always had great communication until this past year... it’s definitely a problem that we need to fix!! Thanks for the honesty guys!!!
This video is so encouraging! Thank you for being open on how marriages can have "rough seasons", and the wisdom on how to stay connected. 💗 I'd just like to know who the friend couple is that says they never argue...they must have a different definition. Maybe they have "discussions"?? 🤣😉😜
Oh my goodness!!! I cannot get enough of you all. Calm, common sense & above all else, Godly. So pretty, all of you!!! Yes, I just called Solo pretty 😳 Your whole family!!! I used to call my Fallen Marine son pretty because he was & because it annoyed him 🤣 God bless you all!!!💙🙏🏼💙
I had prayed for 13 yrs for who God had for me and my (now) husband had prayed for 20 yrs for his spouse. The wait was AGONIZING, but my husband is the perfect man for me. We have been married for almost 3 years now and met on a dating site. It was a long distance relationship, but God made it work. Only dated for 7 months before marrying. We were ready!!
Love you both! You guys make a wonderful couple. I’ve been with my husband for a total of 19yrs and 15yrs married. We have just one beautiful 17yr old daughter. We did it backwards 😬 we had a baby first then married. I love hearing your stories. I started watching your channel, right after my dad passing that’s two years ago. Some how while I was mourning Sara and Solo voice was so soothing in my hardest moments. Hope one day you guys get to visit Los Angeles, CA Thank you.
Loved the video! Your anniversary is my birthday. 😄 I wish I would have had the foresight at your age to wait for my husband. I hope our marriage is as blessed as yours! We have 5 kiddos that we are raising up in a blended family both spiritually, racially, and biologically. We are trying to instill in them good values and a love of the Lord. Thank you all once again for sharing your wisdom, insight and parenting advice!
I am a hindu south African and I just love listening to Solo with his wise advice. He speaks so well and so easy and interesting to listen to. Learning so much from you guys. Love your family ❤️🇿🇦
Awesome! God bless you family! I'm a single 21 young man. I learned that I need pursue God instilled passion in me, then God will do the rest concerning my spouse. ❤️
Solo has the most beautiful voice and accent I have ever heard. I love to listen to him speak.
I agree! He should make audio books. I'd buy them all!!! Xx
I totally agree. I could listen to him all day.
Solo is so right, people should protect their heart..I have been heartbroken and its no joke. If someone can spare themselves that pain, do it.. Trust in God, he knows what he's doing
Yes He does!
💯 I agree I have experienced it as well and now I have true love for the past 10 years and it's been the best time of my life by the grace of god 🙏💙💜 thanks for your inspiring talks sarah and solo I agree and think it's important to reach our children especially our daughters to protect their hearts and allow god to guide them
Love your open talks. Married 34 years and I needed the reminder. Thank you
We always need a reminder, don't we??!!
Solo has learned, “Happy Wife, Happy Life”.
Happy spouse, happy house. I just heard this and love how it includes both people in the marriage. 🙂
🙌Thanks for the mention at the end. It led some folks toward the 1st video and the ones who came over had a lot of positive feedback! 👏We posted part 2 today and we're grateful y'all shared your time and insight with us!❤💪
You two are the cutest!
What you said about singleness and dating was so encouraging to me. I’m a 28yo single foster mom who just bought my first home. I tend to feel like I’ll never find the man for me because he won’t want kids or someone who is so independent etc, but that’s a lie. Thanks for your encouragement to keep pursuing the work is has placed before me and the one the Lord has for me will come along. ❤️❤️❤️
Solo should be on Ted Talk. He’s a wise man.
I totally agree
Good looking couple
Definitely,I love listening to him talking he has such a soothing voice
Seriously. Solo, please consider it. 🙏🏼
Ted Talk is in my opinion to worldly. There are other Christian platforms that would be more pleasing.
“There’s a lot to show for how long we’ve been married” Me: yeah, all dem kiddos! Solo: “there’s 2 of me!” 🤣🤣🤣 what a dad thing to say! I love it! 😂
I love you guys. My husband and I were married for 28 years before The Lord took him home. Things weren't always the best, and that's not surprising. Nothing is ever perfect. It is such a blessing, for me, to see how you both put The Lord first and love each other and your children so passionately. I hope I have that again but if I don't, I'll trust that He knows what's best. Thank you so much for bringing us into your life. God bless you! 🙏❤️
I am a widow who remarried two years ago. If your heart is open God will put a new love on the path for you to discover when you're ready.
Thanks for sharing!
I pray that the Lord will continue to heal your heart concerning the loss of your husband. And it’s such a blessing to hear that you are still trusting the Lord he is so faithful to be what we need in the season that we need him the most keep trusting keep believing and he will give you the desires of your heart! That is my prayer for you in Jesus name!✝️🙏❤️
I am sorry to hear about your husband!! My heart goes out to you!!!
I’ve been married for 27yrs. My husband and I met in the Army. Two autistic sons and we’re still going strong. I’m so glad I found you website.😜😜💯💯🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
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We have 3 kids with autism. It is Really a lot of work
Being in an interracial relationship myself, i am really grateful to see an older, mature couple like you guys giving some very good perspectives.
Salamu nyingi kutoka Kenya 🇰🇪
Good morning Solo & Sarah, I thoroughly enjoyed this video this morning. Hopefully many young couples will see this and learn. So many times people get into relationships and don't have a clue how t be in a relationship. In my job, I have to talk quite a bit, but then on the other hand I have to really listen to what someone is trying to say. Things can get muddled up when we feel we are not being listened too. Congrats on your 18th year of marriage. What a blessing. My sister and her husband have been married 55 years and the one thing I and everyone around them notices is that they have such a great friendship. I was only married for 10 years, but out of that 10 years I got the best 4 blessings, my children. I have encouraged them to seek God in all their relationship goals. Thank you for this. God bless
Thanks for sharing!
I love the part about 'Guard Your Heart" - I've been using that with my 16 year old daughter for a few years as she navigates relationships. I honestly think that is one of the key factors missing from our sex ed teachings/health classes - whether in schools, homes, etc.. my reference is mostly schools - that they teach all the physical aspects of sex/relationships, but not the emotional aspects of it. With my daughter, our conversations have all been that above all, in all her choices she needs to guard her heart - that who ever she chooses to date, hold hands with kiss, etc will be a part of her heart forever - and are they worth it? Are they worth letting in and holding space in her heart? (Of course as a parent you want them to wait to date forever...until they are 30, right? but that isn't reasonable! But being flexible, giving guidance and offering love and support is the best we can do...)
Loved todays vlog, as usual. My husband & I celebrated 50 years of marriage on 6/6/2020. We were both 18 when we married. God has been faithful to see us through some pretty rough times, but has blessed us in a tremendous way. We have 3 children and 10 grandchildren! We love spending time together and with our family. ❤✝️
Beautiful!
Wowee!! Congratulations xx
I went from one broken relationship to the next, I had very low self esteem after childhood abuse. Now after two terrible marriages I have finally been alone for 3 years at age 40 for the first time in my life. I am waiting on the Lord, if I get married or not I'm ok! Its crazy cause both of my marriages the husband would talk about the Bible and I thought, this is the one... Its a big difference from talking about God and living for God. I learned that the hard way because I was hard headed. It really is values and principles and walking it out with God, thank you so much for the video. Happy 18th Anniversary!
Sounds like you are in a good place now. God will lead you as you trust Him and listen to council. Thanks for sharing!
I had to leave a relationship a few months ago, and it was a long term relationship where I didn't go to the Lord about it first. I admit I did it the wrong way, but I'm doing it God's way now and letting him choose because I obviously don't know what I'm doing lol.
So glad He does!
No question.... just love how your family is so into the moment and goes with the flow
🤣🤣🤣 oh my goodness Solo! You just flipped my bad mood right around, we got married at 12 & even though it was illegal we did it anyway!
Thank you thank you!!
hahahaha that cracked me up as well lol.. you guys are so funny.
I’ve been binge watching your channel for a month now. Y’all have a beautiful family
you guys are such a blessing to watch. i have been married to my husband for 29 years and love him more and more each day. you both are soul mates and belong to each other. God Bless you both. love you and your family. thank you for sharing your wisdom!
I prayed for the right man and 24 years ago I found him online in the old fashion chat room. He is a Cuban from Miami fl and I lived in the ozarks in Missouri. We have had hard times but learned how to build a marriage. The first advise I give others is don’t quit! Talk talk and sometimes scream. Make dates! Even if it is only a hour a week to spend together.
so encouraging. i’m single and 22, graduated college in may during this pandemic, and have moved back in with my parents. i’m so blessed in the ways that God has provided for me but it’s easy to forget He has a perfect plan when i’m working the same job i did in high school. thanks for the encouragement and reminder that He is holding me in every season and as long as im walking with Him, i’m going in the right direction.
Solo is so inspiring. You can see how close he walks with the Lord.
My husband and I will celebrate our 51st anniversary on October 11, 2020. We were very young when we got married. I was 18, he was 22. We grew up together. Always had a good marriage. Now my husband has pancreatic cancer. It's been very hard this past year. We love each other so much. It's hard to think about the future. But we know that the Lord always takes care of us no matter what the outcome. We have 2 awesome daughters and 5 wonderful grandchildren. I wouldn't trade my life for anything.
Just a note for y’all. I have pursued what God had for me fulling expecting to get married because I’d heard from many Christian counselors/pastors that God would give you the desire of your heart. I’m now 64 years old unmarried woman and I had to continue with what Paul says in I Corinthians that it’s better to be single and be single minded for Christ, and that it’s better to marry than to burn (in sexual desire ). I am still single and still open if God wants me to marry, that He has a widower for me somewhere, but I’m still serving.
It takes a lot of humility to address that kind of rift. I’ve definitely experienced the same thing and I’m so grateful we were able to humble ourselves and just talk about it.
I love Solo ‘s point to “ guard your heart in ALL things because out of it we run all the issues of life.” I have heard it many times in my life; however, hearing it this morning it was a revelation. We hear scripture over and over, but at my age (70s) and after 53 years of marriage, today it was my take away today. I love you guys❣️
Great video but this was the best point made. Im happily married 34 years and a lot of wisdom in this.
FrankysMa, I feel it almost jumped out at me. At our advanced years of being married it won’t probably make a huge difference in our relationships in the future. However, I do feel that us oldsters need to draw attention to it for the younger people who also watch Our Tribe of Many. It would have been wonderful to hear these Words when I was younger. I only hope these Wwords with Solo’s delivery strikes the same chord with younger people for whom it may make a difference.
Sarah I can totally see how you have been with Solo for so long! He’s such a great husband and father! I just love watching you guys together! 🥰
I met my fiancé on OkCupid! We’re getting married tomorrow after 3 years together!!
Congratulations!🎊
🎉Aww, congratulations!
Met my boyfriend on POF and it’s going on 3 years together. Took awhile to find him though, lots of dating ..
I met mine on okcupid as well 7 years ago.
Woow
Of course I respect your privacy but I would be interested to hear about Solo's upbringing and him finding God or having the calling to become a Pastor. Of course, only if Solo is prepared to discuss this. I love watching your videos x
My grandma and granddad had 13 kids but that was in the 50' and 60's. I love watching you guys and God bless your beautiful tribe.
You two are amazing, you are so genuine and real! Your advice is spot on and everyone could learn so much from you.
Stay well 😘
I have been a mom for 9 years and I still struggle to stop and remember that the way my husband parents is just as valid. When I take the time to remind myself of that it helps us avoid unnecessary conflict 🙂.
I’m 63 years old .. I would have loved to have seen this video and advice when I was 18 years old . Xx
My favourite family. Your couple advice is so helpful.. I've been married 34 years with 4 children and still relate to you both so much!!
You two are so real and down to earth.So much appreciated in this world!!!Solo and sarah fabulous
I can relate to the cleaning issues! Love a clean organized house! You guys are honest and real that’s what I like keep it up! World needs more people like you!
Thanks!
I'm so inspired by the 2 of you! I'm in an interracial marriage and have been married for 11 years. We met online through All 🙂
What an inspirational vlog! The best marriage advice I've always heard is patience with each other and make time for each other no matter how hectic the world becomes around you.
I would love to see a video where you reminisce on memories of your wedding day/first few years of marriage and show some photos from it! Maybe on your next anniversary? Love watching you guys!
I love that this video was posted on my birthday! 🤣 Hubby and I had the same direction in life as well. It's brought us through 20 years and stronger everyday. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. 😊
This was so refreshing to watch. Some times being a single woman I see happy marriages and forget that marriage does have hardships and we all have struggles. I watch your channel because you all are so organized, peaceful and your family is beautiful . I want to be married some day and watching you all and hearing you all do these chats is so helpful. It’s hard to find good examples of God fearing people who are REAL about life but you all are masters are being real and classy. I truly love your channel and I’m grateful God has given you all this platform to be such a light and awesome examples of God fearing people
I love Solo's "hair style"!! It suits him perfectly!
Thanks for all the great tips.
Thank you for sharing your marriage advice I’ve been married 38 years and it’s always good to hear advice to work on marriages to keep them going
“I’m unemployed, I live with my parents... will you marry me “.... I literally hollered😂😂😂😂😂😂. Your husband’s sense of humor🤣🤣🤣🤣
I cackled 😆😁🤣
I agree Solo is very funny
Fingerprints and nose prints on the windows-my family calls them Love Prints
That would make for a great quote on on a wall hanging
🧡love it
Yes!!!!!
Cute
I say the same when it comes to a dog's paws or licking the glass, lol. 🐕 ❤
I've been so busy with out first year of virtual school, and working that I'm behind on soooo many videos and just got to watch this one! I wish someone would of told teenage me to guard her heart and wait for the one, and it's something that I've encouraged to both of my children! My husband and I will be married 2 years on the 13th, but we've been together for almost 9. It's encouraging to see that a couple I look up to has been honest and open with the fact that they've themselves had seasons or times in their relationship where it was hard and they had to reevaluate and come together to get through it! You guys are the best!
Taking a moment to say a prayer and give thanks for the love you are putting into the world. The guidance you are giving so many people out here. Sarah, I just feel comforted by your heart and wisdom.
Thanks for the prayer!
Love the balance you have found with each other❤
Too cute!! Awesome teamwork on marriage and parenting.🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Thanks!
I can’t imagine Solo with hair. My wedding anniversaries is August 16th. We have only been married 10 years though. Thank you for this video. I love watching you and your family
Y’all are a beautiful example of a healthy marriage!! God bless. Thank you for being on UA-cam!!!
Thank you for all your Wisdom in what you say, you encouraged me exceedingly Solo , you both are amazing people and very balanced in Our God... your both beautiful people. GOD BLESS YOU!!
Your an inspiration to other couples, My ex husband was never into talking out our problems, our daughter was born premature 710g but 31 years later she has Blessed us with 3 Beautiful grandchildren, so my desire to have a big family was a later blessing and not what I expected in my own marriage. Thank you for sharing support Xxx
Listening to you speak, I realized how calm I felt. I didn't know if you knew you had this impact on people. I have been following your family (sounds creepy but it really isn't - lol) and have watched all of your videos. Thank you for sharing. You have a beautiful family!
Thanks!
I am an old relic and I could sit and listen to you two for another full video like this one. Thank you so much. 💙
LOVED the chat. i have a request: solo, can you talk about how you came to christ and how you became a pastor.
You guys absolutely blow me away every single video you post. Our family has been going through a rough season and you both have reminded my husband and I that we are not in control and to have faith and hope. Thank you for all you do everyday. On a side note we just finished watching the Chosen first season and know that you and your tribe would love it. It's about how Jesus chose his apostles - it is so uplifting and amazing. Again, thank you for all that you do you guys are really making a positive impact which is so needed in this world today.
You both give a lot of wise advice! I remember when you got the house cleaners and how it made such a difference. Glad you got that help to alleviate something that was obviously stressing you out. I love your big family!
You two are so wise, and blessed!!!! It's wonderful!
my husband and I were married before but like you mentioned we did it differently and your right communication is so paramote. we've been together 39yrs and we love each other even today. oh and I love Solo's no hair choice he pulls it off well. love you guys
Each video i watch i enjoy more.Could listen to you both talk all evening.
Thank you for sharing. I married the 2nd boy I dated. We were married 51 years. He just passed in May. God bless you both.💖
What a sweet and genuine video. There's no doubt that both your commitments to the Lord has brought many blessings to this union. And both of your upbringing's as well. I truly enjoy listening to both of you. God Bless and keep you for all the days of your life.
My favorite UA-cam couple/family x
They are so Grounded Beautiful real i guess..
Very refreshing...
Beautiful family 💜🌱🌹🌱🌞
Janette Hinchliffe Definitely mine too. X
You guys are adorable! I totally agree with so much you said about marriage. I get asked a lot how my husband and I have stayed together for almost 40 years and I usually say that you have to be understanding of the other person and they of you. Compromise often and pray together. lol
My husband and I have been married 48 years. We married fairly young, I was 20 and my husband was 25. We met at work. I was in college and he was a recent college grad. We only knew each other 9 months before we married. We are Catholic and married in the church. I agree that the most important thing in a marriage is sharing the same values, principles and communication is key. Date night is so essential and we still have date night after all these years. We only had two children, but were blessed with our wonderful grandchildren and together they make quite a brood. I love watching your channel. You are such wonderful people and have such a lovely family. Honestly, you amaze me in every way. Bless you all. ♥️♥️♥️
Thanks for sharing and answering questions. I’m a new subscriber. Happy Anniversary!!
Guys, as a single woman looking for my
God-fearing husband, I really learned a lot! Wise counsel!!!
Bless you both, relationship/marriage goals. You both compliment each other perfectly as a couple and I think your children compliment you both too.
My husband and I have been married 43 years! I remember when our girls were small, we would take them to a state park and play, hike and fish. We didn’t have much money so that was a way that we could spend good family time together. The park was just a few miles from our home so it was an easy “trip”. You and Solo have such good advice and I truly love your family! God bless y’all!
Don't need money to have fun, that's true!
Love watching you guys talk! My husband and I have been together 13 years and our proposal wasn’t fancy at all! We both knew we wanted to be married and so when we started dating that was our purpose. I had been in other relationships before and when you meet the right person you really do “just know” 🤷♀️
I wish I could tell my younger self that the others didn’t matter. You know teenagers/young adults don’t listen though 🤣
I’m 57 my husband is 59 we have been married for 38 years this year. He was injured in the falklands before we married and has suffered with PTSD for 39 years. I was on my own with my kids although he was there, he couldn’t cope . We are still together tho, we have 3 adults, 7 grandsons and 1 granddaughter. Love to watch your channel. Stay safe and god bless you all xxx
I love listening to you both talking , you are anchors and Rocks for each other , so nice to hear you remembering and laughing together xxxx we are coming up on 40 years of marriage now and the most important thing we have found is communication and humour xxxx it seems like you have discovered it too xxxxx 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Yes....you have to keep laughing!
Hey Sarah n Solo, A bit of trivia for you or old wives tale - the man's head of hair or lack of is determined by what his mothers father's head of hair or lack of was like !! So whatever head of hair your grandfather on your mum's side had determines what your's will be like, comes from your mum's side of the family. Has been a true indicator in my family, Cheers Claudia from Esperance Western Australia
Happy 10th Anniversary Sarah and Solo Your Both So Amazing. I Love Your Kids As Well. There So Independent And Great. Keep Up The Great Work God Always Has Your Back.. God Bless You All
They have been married 18years.
I lost my husband in 2008. We would've been married 22 years in December. I miss him a lot. Cherish these memories and times together! 💕 You both are inspiring with a wonderful family. God bless u both and your sweet family.
Thank you for sharing your dating story. My husband and I each dated others before meeting each other, and it does bring some "baggage" with you. We are teaching our children to wait until they are mature enough to be able to handle the ups and downs of a relationship. Casual dating is so popular, but in the end, someone gets hurt, and that hurt usually is carried into the next relationship, and so on.
So true!
Met my husband online ;) then he moved from Grece to here, together since 2009, he came here in Canada in 2012, and we married in 2016 💞
Solo and Sarah, what a pure, beautiful very honest video. Your warmth really does shine and I so love your family sharing your lives with us. I could never put in to words how I am lifted up after watching your videos and I just can't stress enough how beautiful it is for me to see. Thank you a million times over. Kathy from Windsor Ontario Canada.
“We need to spend more time intentionally ” 👏🏻👏🏻 love that reminder. We just reached ten years (and four living kids);
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Having God as first in your individual lives and as a couple and family has served you well. Sarah, Girl, how do you have so many babies and keep your figure? I had one child who has long grown up and I am still blaming the loss of my figure on the oregnancy!! Seriously, it is a pleasure to watch your ease and respect in your videos. Thank God for being a good example to the world. Yes, I know nobody is perfect. Peace & Blessings
It's always fun to hear the two of you speak about your lives. Yes, marriage can be work. Not that hard if you made some initial agreements. In our home I was an at home Mom until my kids went off to college. I had several part time jobs until my husband retired in 2014. Whoa, that's when a new challenge began. We needed to try to plan our lives differently. I was ready to travel more, see our family and friends more and share more time together. We do take care of our property, inside and out. But my husband is always looking for more projects.
Finding your channel helped me re-discover my faith. It helped me get closer to God. When I watch you and your family I feel Jesus in my heart, and for that I need to thank you!! ❤️
Hehehe, ya'll are so sweet. Goodness gracious, what a lot ya'll took on. And how blessed ya'll are. Hubby and I are proud parents to two grown sons. Married 40 years. Wish we had 12 like ya'll did. That's what life is, isn't it? Family, children, chaos in the home, love in the home. So blessed to have found your channel.
Enjoyed watching this! My parents have been married almost 51 years (it will be 51 years in December!)
My husband and I celebrated our 23rd anniversary on August 8th. I was 18 and he was 20, we were so young but determined to make it work. And there was some trial and error over the years but honest communication is everything, our relationship is better than ever.
Both of you are natural speakers,i love hearing you guys talk.im enjoying these Monday chats.thanks
Monday chat on Thursday😂
@@OurTribeofMany OMG 😂 what day is it? Anyway Sara i love to hear you and Solo speak❤️
Celebrating 20 years on the 19th. I love hearing your perspective on marriage and your experiences. You guys are such a cute couple and very honest.
Happy Anniversary to you!
Wow... at first I wasn’t very interested in this video (to be honest, the title threw me off) but I needed this more than you know.. I’ve been married for 14 years.. just had our 5th baby and our marriage has never been this strained... My husband and I have always had great communication until this past year... it’s definitely a problem that we need to fix!! Thanks for the honesty guys!!!
This video is so encouraging! Thank you for being open on how marriages can have "rough seasons", and the wisdom on how to stay connected. 💗
I'd just like to know who the friend couple is that says they never argue...they must have a different definition. Maybe they have "discussions"?? 🤣😉😜
Oh my goodness!!!
I cannot get enough of you all.
Calm, common sense & above all else, Godly.
So pretty, all of you!!!
Yes, I just called Solo pretty 😳
Your whole family!!!
I used to call my Fallen Marine son pretty because he was & because it annoyed him 🤣
God bless you all!!!💙🙏🏼💙
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You are so right! I was raised by Christian parents, but I was thrown out into the world. Love you both! ❤️
I had prayed for 13 yrs for who God had for me and my (now) husband had prayed for 20 yrs for his spouse. The wait was AGONIZING, but my husband is the perfect man for me. We have been married for almost 3 years now and met on a dating site. It was a long distance relationship, but God made it work. Only dated for 7 months before marrying. We were ready!!
My advice is take one step at a time. It takes time to adjust and get a routine down. But you'll get there in time.
My husband and I have been married for 38, We got Sep 11 1982. What I say about marriage is both have to give a 100%. God Bless you
Love you both! You guys make a wonderful couple.
I’ve been with my husband for a total of 19yrs and 15yrs married.
We have just one beautiful 17yr old daughter. We did it backwards 😬 we had a baby first then married. I love hearing your stories. I started watching your channel, right after my dad passing that’s two years ago. Some how while I was mourning Sara and Solo voice was so soothing in my hardest moments. Hope one day you guys get to visit Los Angeles, CA
Thank you.
Loved the video! Your anniversary is my birthday. 😄 I wish I would have had the foresight at your age to wait for my husband. I hope our marriage is as blessed as yours! We have 5 kiddos that we are raising up in a blended family both spiritually, racially, and biologically. We are trying to instill in them good values and a love of the Lord. Thank you all once again for sharing your wisdom, insight and parenting advice!
Thanks for sharing!
Oh I am dying! We really are old but don't feel like it at 42 years married. But, seriously we are so, so blessed!