My Neighbors Are Horrible People. What Do I Do? | Little Lessons with David Servant
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- In today's Little Lesson, David Servant answers a question submitted by a viewer who is facing a conflict with neighbors who are difficult to get along with. David offers practical and biblical advice for all viewers regarding how to love people who aren't very lovable. Learn more!
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God does not expect us to be treated with disregard , including being tormented by neighbors.
Yes and we have to see and resist the evil one who is working behind those horrible people and no hate the people.
Can't help hatinn them but for 7 years it's makin us numb but still troubled cause they taught their kids now their teenagers so we're still waiting for that miracle from God that my wife been prayin for
Well God must have disowned many of us, including me and my man. 13 years and going on. Prayed, told the truth involved the police, but yet nothing gets done. No end in sight.
Agreed.
Cast not ur pearls before swine
Crappy people dont change, not even through therapy
I like thenpart where he recommends offering to babysit their kids 😄 They'll be living there full time
This man is delusional. Notice how he *SMIRKS* when giving this "advice". He is very smug.
This is the truth . And trying to reason with them is dangerous the best solution is to stay away and lay low not to engage with them
The super crappy neighbors on my street moved about 10 months ago. I stood my ground, and like to think I had a part in putting them over the edge so they would move. He wanted to fight me but would never do it. I offered him a "Shot at the Title" a few times, but his nutzo wife kept coming out of the house to save him.
Why is it that the only men I've ever wanted to teach a lesson to were all about 5'5, 140lbs an complete spineless men.
They were Preoria, IL REDNECKS!!!!
There are two kinds of bad neighbours. Those that are wild and oblivious of their impact and perhaps unwilling to change. And then there's those that will do things to you/yours for the sole purpose of messing with you - they do this for attention and to enjoy your suffering. You do not approach those people with cakes, etc. No. That just gives them more fuel. Those kinds are evil at heart and there is no changing them.
Whenever my neighbors start fighting and cussing eachother out outside I go out and start mowing my yard and leaf blowing till they go inside 😂😂
My neighbor is very evils too. They called city, police, and animal control multiple time about my family. We tried to be nice and fix problems. They keep bringing more problems. It likes they don't have anything to do, too much time to mind other people business. It's unbelievable how people can be so evils.
I got a cake for those fools. Exlax chocolate. Be sure to add nuts and raisins for the full effect.
How do you deal with them ?
@@jackiehall__7275 how bad is it?
Neighbours who can't mind their own business and can't respect the fact that people need peace should go to hell
I disagree love doesn’t mean being bullied & disrespected especially where you live. Doing good just may be to stand up for yourself not to just be baggered. I had to tell a neighbors son to mind his business the other day because he spoke nasty to my guest at my house. I think it all depends on the situation. Sometimes you need to speak up to a bully.
Loving someone doesn’t mean being walked all over I use to think the same thing.
It means creating healthy boundaries in a loving way and speaking your mind when needed.
I have a neighbour who continuously calls on us to the condo board.
Our kids were climbing a tree, my brother dropped off books and parked behind us for 5 mins and my husband fixing the eavesdrop. She complained on all of us, which is absurd.
So the third time I knocked on her door and spoke straight to her explaining we don’t like to be called on multiple times about silly stuff specially since you already spoke to my husband about it the night before and the problem was fixed. I said I am not looking for trouble and we are respectful people. And if there is any issues to come speak with us.
She seemed to have liked that. So hopefully all works out from here on out. If not, I will continue creating boundaries.
@@sheenafrederick6683 yes love means speaking truth also!
I had a guest of a neighbor that stood by my door being nosy, staring inside my home, I said: "Hey stop that, don't do that, it's freaking rude". Don't you love mediocre people?
Thought so too, my neighbors from hell throwin stuff and saying bad things about my family, gossip and all too many bad things for 7 years. We don't have any close neighbors here been praying for 7 years to God for help but we're still here my wife's much affected cause she doesn't go out and socialize much now their kids inherited their nastyness and all
How did u do that without them kids tellin their parents lies then comin at us for nothing? I mean they say mean things every time they come around say bad again everyday we hear them shout mean words at us just for us to hear even if we ignore those parents still stand up for their kids even tho it's not good
That's a really bad advice.
If you have bullies as neighbors, stay away from them. I have evil neighbors. I know what I'm talking about.
This people enjoy to bully and laugh about me and gossip in whole village.
And people are on their side.
Their souls already belong to the evil side. No praying helps.
Just get your into safety.
Don't try please people of evil mindset, their brains are wired different.
I am suffering exactly the same issue in my neighbourhood. It is a terrible thing to deal with. It follows me around from place to place. I don't know why I attract evil gossip mongers and slanderers, but I do. I stay away from neighbours as much as I can and am thinking now about selling up and leaving. I avoid them, do not pray for them, but simply ask God to guide me away from the area, to a safer and more accepting place. Thank you for your comment.
@@jamest4682 I feel the same. Like bad luck following me. I agree with you, best is to move away.
I don't have that option for now.
And it may take me a while.
So I try stay away from now.
All bad experiences have made me a loner in life.
It's sad but what to do.
All I can do is what you suggested pray for bring me to a better place. Pray for keep me save and my dog.
Hope for you that things get better soon.
Stay safe and stay away from bad people. 💗
true.
Amen!!! 💯💯💯💯
Psalm 91 my friend. The key to it is 2 Corinthians 1:20. Humbly claim those promises in Psalm 91 daily.
Shalom
I try. But I just don't speak to them. Love doesn't mean that you have to speak I guess. Oh, and I fought one of them just to let them know I ain't to be bullied. And if these people have ANY good in them I rarely see it.
I am sorry you are going through this, is your neighbor on drugs by any chance?
I also almost fought one of my neighbor, and I also don’t speak to them bc I always hear their gossips and how shitty they are.
I thought I was all alone in this. Feels a relief to know there are so many out there struggling with similar to I.
Fyirewall your not alone to many assholes out there
Yep...mine are passive aggressive jerks.
Building a fence to separate them from me this Spring.
@@SoberIrishman hi....yes we put up a very high and long fence.
@@grettalemabouchou6779 figuring out mine here soon....thx!
Ours a junkies you cant have a conversation with . When i tried about a broken noisey windmill she went of her nut. Then egged our cars . So i cut the huge tree where the branches hides her crab out house and lit it up like the mcg . She now has 2x layers of sheets and whatever she can find on her windows 😂 also a very expensive tip run cause my partner was smart enough to leave the tree branches whole (some over 3m) .
The intentions in this video are good but it doesn't work this way. Neighbors gang up on people they don't like and cause emotional and sometimes physical distress to the victim. Ignore them. It's a waste of time and energy. Avoid and ignore. Trying to be nice actually makes it worse in most cases.
The physical injury is terrible 😢 my neighbor tried to stab me to death 2 weeks ago because we share the same skin tone and he feels he is entitled to my money and resources because of it . I told him to fuvk off and since he is “alpha “ and a female heard me tell him off he had to kill me . His ego couldn’t stand it
@@yamiyo6050 neighbors can make life miserable. I've never been stabbed by a neighbor. Get out of there when you can.
If you have a violent, crazy neighbor, Please Do Not bring them a pie and offer to babysit.
Now you just invited your abuser into your life and opened the door to a dangerous situation. A man in Florida was recently shot to death by a neighbor for trimming trees on the property line. Stay Far Away from combative neighbors.
Our neighbors wants to know everything about us. I can't stand with it anymore because in everything that we do they will always listen and watch us and not letting us have peace.
I hear you, I have the same kind of neighbors who are exactly the same way. Believe me they act like they are the FBI, they know where you've been and where your going. Been there, and done that.
Not only that but they sit there and literally watch my every move going to get the mail to strapping my daughter into her carseat when we leave .
I'm dealing with this type of neighbor. The adult daughter has no filter and tells me things I know her family wouldn't want her telling me bc she lets it slip that they are constantly spying on us. They know things like what time we left and how long we are gone and would text me anytime I got a package on my porch literally the second the mailman dropped it off. I finally made it obvious I think it's weird they notice so much about me lol which I think embarrassed them and they have left me alone lately
I’m literally going thru this situation currently
@@shannskiichanceskii7736 so am I, it is so sad that we have neighbors like that. Please be careful, and never let your guard down.
I'm sorry sir that does not help especially if they're narcissistic the more they do no more they resent you and the more they become more belligerent. They love to bully . You cannot let your light shine but somebody that has a mindset that's not going to move. No Love and stop blaming their childhood. You're barking up the wrong tree. Can tell you from experience
I had to put up with neighbors. The best way may to pack up and leave. If you can. They hold grudges. They spy on you. They laugh at you. They got no boundaries.
Yeah that's what i am going through too but i can't leave because i don't have money and my family are narcissist who hate i am about to be homeless while these stupid noise neighbors are laughing
This is all good, in theory. In practice, if you have neighbours from hell, you are fucked. How do I know? because my neighbours are abusive incorrigible scum. If you do nice acts, they see it as weaknesses, and become more abusive. It's their nature.
I have horrible next door people, I do not even want to call them neighbor. But, what comes around goes around is absolute truth, that's what I believe.
Same here. I can’t wait for these mooches to disappear
I have both sides trying to drive me out cause one wanted to buy my house THEY HATED US BEFORE WE WERE HERE AND DID NOT KNOW US THEY PLANNED DRIVE OUT BEFORE WE GOT HERE
@@jaimejohnson1772 my main plan is to move away eventually and buy a house on corner so I only have 2 chances of possibly having a nieghbor that is a raised wrong piece of trash.
Truth don't count now days, you can speak it, preach it, forward it, and flaunt it. The truth got me no where. Yeah God knows it, but it don't help to remedy the issue. You can speak the truth till your blue in the face, and yet they lie and still get away with it. Three of my neighbors have criminal records, but yet the law its self believes them over the truth. Can't win, and can't afford to move sadly.....
@@hollytimlick9470 it’s a pretty sad what goes on in this world
You don't need to prove yourself to nobody especially with bad neighbors that don't like you. Just stay away from negative people.
Ok ✅ moving it’s simple
Exactly and not everyone is going to be your friend it’s a shame some people can’t mind their own business and get along I’ve got white trash neighbours who act like kids and they won’t change
That is great advice. My wife is always saying don't give them your power. We are unable to do anything and are constantly bombarded with cracktivity from 12 until 7 am. It sucks to have this going on right outside of our door.
You could be putting someone in danger with your "Just go over ".policy
i have a neighbor who sells drugs in front of my house, i confronted him and things almost became violent, i called the cops now he doesn't sell drugs in front of my house, his kids do ranging from ages 7-14. he also has a dog that shits in my yard, the only thing i can think of since the police won't help is to build a better fence and get a gun, which i think is better advice than bringing them a pie and therefor inviting them into your life.
can we just stop for a second and think how great is your life and neighborhood when your advice is bring the monster sweet food, it borderline delusional advice and possibly irresponsible.
You call the cops and you sue them. That is the only thing that works. As for yards I don't care. Looks don't matter it's the actions that are bothersome.
the cops wont do anything.
@@suecline3162 Yes. I had a terrible experience. And cops did nothing. I am a 24 years old woman who lives alone and tries her best to work and study but look. They are very disgusting people. I dont want to move out. I dont know what to do. I dont know how their behaviours end up
@@sekermavi101 I'm so sorry you're going through this. Make sure you document everything and please try to move away from there.
I fight back against my vile neighbours. There is no point to be respectful, as that is a strange language to them.
Please pray for me and noisy upstairs neighbors. They make a lot of noise and have a large dog 🐕! Please pray they will stop making so much noise. They are annoying. Pray they will be quiet 🤐 as a mouse 🐭 in Jesus name, Amen.
Try and see if you can move. They are not going to change. Be well.
I'll pray for you...
I had the same problem but with 7 dogs
@@rickschlessenger3464agree
Why do all self-righteous Bible thumpers think it’s all about peace and love? They always seem to forget about the old testament, The wrath of God.
I have entitled neighbors who literally butcher my avocado trees... The ones my dad who passed away last year had planted. It's utter disrespectful in so many ways. May all of Hell have a field day with them ALL!!!! My property is MINE!!! I called the county and they agreed what I'm doing is within the law of keeping Hialeah green and healthy, the neighbors are in the wrong!!!! Entitled morons should not be tolerated. You have the right to fight back!!!! Remembered even Jesus has limits to his tolerance. He flipped tables at the money changers at church.
My neighbor had stolen from my trash bin, kicked it over in his frustration, masked himself to destroy our cameras, and just when we confronted him of this we later we targeted by someone who threw poop at our house. We have evidence that it was him but the cops statements are
“Your cameras didn’t see him do it, we can’t do anything”
“This man is wearing a mask, we can’t do anything”
“Just because he walks from his house, kicks your trash, then walks back to his house doesn’t mean we can do anything”
And I’m praying for a divine intervention because I am this close to not being a Christian about this
I have neighbors who t
Express hostility about me in third person and stomp on the floor when I walk around my own apartment. I've never seen or met them though which is really upsetting.
Same problem
try having crackheads and drunks in your building and let them Camp up under your window listening to your business so they can harass you for money, And follow you to the store to see if you'll buy something just to harass you for money, or when decide to go for a walk, and they follow you around and harass you for money. Or even order something they'll be right there with the person at door with your delivery, and my favorite sending someone to your door to find out who lives in your apartment while trying to find out if your significant other is by herself, Whlie your apartment complex office does nothing about it. And don't get me started with the corrupted maintenance.
Try and move.
im sorry your having this problem, l had this too with my ex neighbour...
It’s busy bodies spreading lies to their favor. Nothing is ever their fault! It’s all about them acquiring more people to believe their insane lies to benefit their goal of destroying your integrity. It’s all in their screwed up head. Your just caught up as a victim, in their messed up head for now. After you, there WILL BE ANOTHER VICTIM!
My neighbors leave me alone because they know I have guns
Mine don't care.
What about next door neighbours who purposely are abusive and really nasty despite trying to reach out to them in love?? But they don’t want to know..I’ve prayed for them for years when I’m alone with God and always pray Gods blessings over them and for their salvation but they are just getting louder and nastier and purposely going out of their way to try to wind my husband and I up. My husband isn’t a Christian ( I got saved shortly after we married) and he’s getting to the point he wants to jump over the fence in frustration but I’m trying my best to keep him calm and tell him not to rise to it as that’s what they want… any advice would be appreciated x
Unless you’re in a homeowners association you need to mind your own business about what peoples yards look like. How can you claim to be a Christian and call people white trash? It is definitely none of your business if they keep deciding to have kids. A real Christian knows that God said to be fruitful and multiply. Whoever wrote this letter does not sound like a Christian.
From my personal experience, move if you can, and talk to the neighbor before you buy a house.
Exactly.
Wise advice.
Yes I can’t sell my house because no one will buy if they see what is going on😟
@@shersartwork Yep// look at my junk pile neighbors video.. and they see nothing wrong with it.. The rest of the Street is SPOTLESS
My neighbors hate me out of jealousy and because I speak out against their rudeness. They try to use corncobs as the excuse. She is a narcissist.
My neighbour just screamed in my face because I asked her to stop screaming and swearing at nothing all day every day
What if someone's neighbour
is controlling and unstable in
the mind, making an approach
risky and futile, then what?
This my story my neighbours are disturbing us when we cook something they gives us bad wishes and they always disturb us copy us wacthing us what can I say more I just hate them they deserve hell that is point and I don't know who they are but they are all devil's.
same my neighbour also. they r all psychopaths
@@rejiths1434 same I just call the police to my neighbor he only scream at me when my husband is not around
I felt this a little too much hahah
I live in a condo and I can’t wait for the economy to get better so I can move. I am tired of the HOA rules and my nosey neighbors. I have bern here for almost 4 years and I have had to put up with the ones next to me who thought it would be ok to just place their items on my patio and rinse off their mats on my patio without asking. Because I travel a lot for work , they thought it would be ok to just do what they want since I’m not home all the time. The others on the other side of me has a guy who is 40. Acts 10. I’m
Not sure if he had some brain injury or is mentally challenged but he likes to do things like state out loud what I’m doing. So if I drop my keys he says “ uh oh your keys dropped ! But he does that with every move I make. It’s very strange. I can’t wait to move and purchase a place far from neighbors
Jesus didn’t say you should kill your self for your uncivilised neighbours. If they like sinning and have no empathy, you’re just losing your time and will just get more abuse. Tried to be nice. But they only take more and more.
keep it simple. Neighbors are just a reminder of the tragic aspect
of our human condition
Amen 🙏🏽 🎉remove them from all energy positive or negative the silent treatment works 🙏🏽🙌💥💯✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
What if someone's neighbour
is controlling and unstable in
the mind, making an approach
risky and futile, then what?
How about if I put a sign: "Rules of the house: No entitlement, no ingrates, no rude, no jerks, no nosy, no staring, no users, no shaddy. I just hate entitled people. You know the type of neighbor that never exercise the basic civil manners, never say hi, hello, a head nod greeting, but they approach you and ask you out of the blue: "what do you do for a living?". Really? "Say hi first". But anyway, I don't answer their rude question, or if I am in the mood, I say "I work somewhere". Never cares about me, but ask me where I work, stares at my window, And I have been very nice to many neighbors, it does not work, it's a lot deception. So I have gave up being nice. Now I keep to myself to keep them in their place. The nicer I am, more disasters, I have been nice so many times to different neighbors, different locations, it does not work, the more you bend, the more it shows the underwear.
It does not make sense to be nice to anyone. It just get u into trouble
I have a terrible neighbour who plays loud music all the time! She uses subwoofers every week, causing me headache, anxiety , loss of sleep and frustrations! I tried my best to communicate with her at the first place, be kind and be polite. But she just does not care how other people feels. Don't understand why she is so selfish 🤬 it's ridiculous....
So sorry to hear. Have you reported it or concerned about the backlash? Sorry you are going through this…
@ms.auburn6946 turn about is fair play.
Haven't watched yet however I'm hoping to get a suggestion that works because my PTSD getting me ready to flip and abuse both their faces.
dude came in my yard and told me he was gonna bust my nose
i said thems mighty tall words for a man to say standing in another mans yard .
he immediately stepped back into his .
i then told him it gonna be very embarrassing to have to tell everyone you got you butt handed to you by an old skinny dude .
The only way NOT to lose is NOT to play
They will still come after you.
Rick. This is the problem. We can’t even live in our own house in peace. Can’t be living next to nosy neighbors. Just remember to call the authorities if anything bad happens.
Comforting to know I'm not alone as my neighbours upstairs just can't be bothered and irritably inconsiderate. Early mornings and late nights kept storming away like elephant feet worn on. Totally ridiculous. Feedback once and never wanna do it again. But feeling real unbalanced about it and why should I be the one suffering from noise impact that affects my sleep. I pray with all my heart that it's either they move out or they shall have a taste of their own medicine !
My neighbors are children raising children and know absolutely nothing about owning property. They do not even know there's such thing as zoning codes. They currently have family living in RVs on their property with a loud generator running one of the RVs. It's been insane living next to them. I can't wait to move. It's not even possible to have a normal conversation with them to resolve things because they are just not that with it. So, we are just biding our time until we can move - and this time to a place with more land with no neighbors in site, God willing!
I hope you can move soon for your own safety and mental health from these horrid people.
@@rickschlessenger3464 Thank you for your kind words. (
@@tmb9126 Stay strong. There are better things waiting for you.
I have bullied for neighbors. I’m turning to the dark side and will rid of them.
We just had a horrible experience with our neighbors/relatives (yes) . They harassed us by kicking our doors and shouting foul languages outside our house for all the neighborhood to hear! It's traumatizing for my husband and I. And during those times and inspite the horrible things they did to us, we remained SILENT and instead report them to authorities and did a blotter on them. It's so hard coz our houses are so close and the fact that they are our relatives make it even worse. We didn't stoop down to their level by doing what they did to us (shouting and cursing). We instead pray for them that they may someday, enlightened by God. But I must admit praying for the people who have wronged you IS PRETTY HARD! So, to some people who are struggling with this kind of situation, let's keep the faith and never allow these kind of people to abuse us and manipulate us. 💪
Mrs. Neri, I hope you can move soon. Do not let them know of your plans. Just disappear one day. Be well.
You think this person is better than the neighbor is what it sounds like. This is a bad sermon...
What if u will do nice to them and thy are narsists ??you will become their supply super empathic person
Wow, David.
Just wow…😳
Do NOT tell a complete stranger to offer to babysit another Complete Stranger’s children?!
Don’t go over there!!
Omgosh…David, you are so out of touch.
This is definitely not your area.
This is actually creepy.
My apartment's neighbour was fine for about a year but he had an argument about someone who moved his mess off the public stairwell and since then he's been a nightmare. He shouts and threats in the middle of the night, he bangs on doors, bangs on walls, and basically does everything he can to spoil the peace
He's a selfish old man who drinks too much and probably smokes meth (he goes quiet for a few days and then out of nowhere he's an argumentative paranoid mess for a few nights) but you can tell he's doing it to provoke and I think the best thing is to blank him and ignore him so he doesn't get the attention he craves. If I lose any more sleep because of this man I'll have to leave when the lease is up
I'm here because I'm so drained from the stress this neighbor puts me through on a daily basis...she is just a hateful person that yells out obscenities EVERY time I step out my front door!!
Get a gas powered leaf blower whenever she starts cussing and acting a fool and go blow leaves till it drowns out her screams. that's what I do to my neighbors. then they take there crap back inside.
record it and show management 🙏sorry your dealing with sh!tty people im going through the same ish
@@nicosmith5590 She moved 2 weeks ago, and I was able to get my older sister in!! So happy 😁
@@ZetaLove that's awesome!🙏⚡🎶🎉🎉🎊🥳
We should be able to have peace at home✌️
Glad things worked out✨
🍵
I can't take anymore of this and my kids are such good kids, but nothing ever gets better.
I love where I live, it states in our lease in black and white that we are not to harass, or be a nuisance to the residence or it is a violation of the lease agreement. Period.
Call, social services. Depending on the situation, professionals may decide they r unfit ppl or irresponsible as such
HOW DO HUMAN BEINGS BELIEVE THIS MAN ACTUALLY KNOWS WHAT HIS FELLOW HUMAN BEINGS NEED TO BE DOING? shocking! completely and totally shocking.
Report to the police and let them handle the foolishnes. No love to the sons of Satan.
I disagree with that, he should make sure those people are not dangerous and staying away is wise
Thank you so much. I am not Christian but I love your energy and wisdom. I have a bad neighbor living above me who cleans their balcony brooming without dust pan and leaving my balcony dusted. They clean their carpets on the railing by beating it and again leaving my balcony dusted. Before living here, I loved my balcony and imagined having a cup of tea on my balcony. I even installed a swing on balcony. But this is never happening with uncertain dusting from above. They have an infant, I don’t want to deal with them. Is being patient with this gets them overlook my priorities? I am a student and I live alone, I don’t know what to do.
Same problem
Dealt with that too. Pollitely piped up when she started. Got yelled at because my dog "constantly" barks. Not sure what her balcony dirt hitting mine had to do with dog. So I empathize a lot here. Sometimes being kind does not work. 😢 Maybe a kind note. I do not think ANY of them actually have a clue it gets all over balconies and not the ground.
My neighbor used to live alone and we never had a problem. Her live in boyfriend brought a large and his tinkering habits.
Our driveways are 6 ft apart and the vette got a crack in the door last year, they refuse to admit it. Just going have a fence put between the driveways because it isn't going to get better.
I just moved into another state and I’ve been here for 2 months and just this Friday my neighbor teenage boy stole my son basketball from our backyard, I never see his parents, I’m currently really mad and things are running through my mind but I don’t want to go to jail!!
My neighbors and I were friends... Key to their home friends. As the morals decline so did their behavior. They know I'm a Christian and they even went to church for almost a year. Unfortunately, they now are very "woke" and my young son is losing his friends too. We are really struggling on how to engage with them yet also not cosign their behavior. They recently had a Pride Party (they're all straight) and we were invited. We went only to realize it was a themed party. We politely left after some hellos. How do I guard my child and my own heart when my neighbors/friends are actively rebelling against God?
By isolating
I too am dealing with new neighbors who moved in they park in my space let their puppy Pitt bull get out(which I was nice and stupid enough to stop from running away because I’m an animal lover) the construction was noisy and they park their vehicles under my windows because I don’t have a vehicle. Which wakes up my toddlers! They let their trash bag roll down by my house then just left it there and I put it back in front of their house! (I didn’t want them to think I would keep doing things for them without a simple thank you)I’m praying and trying to keep my composure and have little to no contact with them but they live so close there’s less than 10 feet of space! I ask for prayers to be able to move soon! They have loud parties all night! They leave their puppy in the house for hours and overnight and all it does is bark! Their house sat empty for the entire 6 years we lived here so I’m not used to this! I know I’m supposed to love my neighbor but they are inconsiderate and intolerable! The way people act now days I think it’s best for me to keep my distance!
Mostly the solution is to move a place with distant neighbors. Humans are just 🙄 loud 📢
It sounded like you said we get to Heaven by being a good neighbor? It's through faith in Christ alone.
New LLC hud housing it’s for the money 💰 worse than homeless ❤🎉
How to handle your neighbour who disturb your front compound. They like to park their cars in my area. I hate it..they bully all the old folks by parking their cars at their houses too.
And they say they Christians 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Glad you aren't a judge!
PlZ pray for me... Iv the most evil neighbour's.... They practice witchcraft.... I would love them to just leave me alone
crazy that I youtube dealing with conflict with neighbors and this sound sounds like my neighbors and I live in Idaho. Mine have 6 kids, 2 untrained German Shepard dogs who also bark all day, get out constantly and have scared the neighbors and my dogs have gotten into fights with theirs. I've spent a year being neighborly, I liked them for the most part. I bought a bike rack for their kids so that they didn't throw their bikes around, I offered free dog training ( I'm a dog trainer and train my dogs for dog sports), I've fixed their fence etc so that dogs won't get out. They just don't take it serious and I had to get landlord involve and give them very clear boundaries with their dogs. I don't want them to be homeless, I just want them to rehome the dogs, or put time and money into training, which isn't gonna happen.
I have three annoying neighbors that never want to give people privacy if they are out on the front porch. Evertime I'm out they come out the same time or I'm out first they are there. Coincidence? Even if it is 530 in the morning if I want to be out walking the dog before anyone else is out. They look like they don't have jobs. And seem like quiet toxic type people because they know we are annoyed by them by us always giving them dirty looks.
@justinw7323 I live in the same kind of situation. I pay rent, but have no privacy. And 7 grown men within 100 feet of me don't have jobs. Wtf?
This video made me laugh but my neighbor is way beyond miserable for me to approach him at all, I'll continue documenting everything he's doing and likely I'm not paying rent January 🤷🏾♀️
I am going through this for the first time. It is a horrible experience 0:59
Oh, and I just got new neighbors right next door about a week ago. I will wave, but that's it for 6 months. If it gets ugly, I'm sending the f'in message!
Hope it doesn't.
My neighbor play freaking loud music around 10:00 at night everyday how can you help because they are addicted with ….. ! I don’t care disrespect neighbor .
I’m sorry but I don’t agree with you. My neighbor has a DEVIL in him. I’m an old woman of 67 and he’s a Man man maybe 50 to 60. I can see the hate in him. I’m actually afraid of him but refuse to give him the pleasure of knowing that! Which makes him madder at me. I’m going to try to not have anything else to do with him. Unless it’s court ordered. I’m on the titter-totter of calling the police. Because I feel and see hate in his eyes and action , and conversation with me.
Who wants NOT to protect a lonely Woman against a Bully in the neighborhood?
It’s a sad and scary world out there. Old people are not safe!
Most of my neighbors are connected to my celphone😄They have a copy of my messages and all. Watching me inside my Unit. Any advise?😎
My neighbor can to move next to you. You’re brave if you can deal with my malicious neighbor.
Oh that does not sound like bad neighbors!!! My elderly neighbor died and family members inherited the house the day of the funeral one try to run me over when I was sweeping up the grass from the street. Then they kept turning in my driveway so I sent them a Christmas card asking them could they please not turn in my driveway explained why. They didn’t like it my state called the police. Then they opened up a business in their home and I have 20 cars roughly every day seven days a week slamming car doors playing bass yelling and screaming horns blowing an extreme amount of trash everywhere. Oh did I mention they like to turn around in my driveway too and run over my flower bed. Then they turned around and got a pitbull and they let it loose and just stand there and watch it come in my yard and do nothing. And every time the delivery trucks come the people that come to pick up their orders or people walking in the street the dog will bark. When I come outside they tell me that I need to go back inside. And just the other day one of their customers or friends decided they were going to come in my yard and give me the gun shooting symbol. How do you deal with that?
Sher’s artwork. If it’s true. That sounds bad. Could you move??
I wish our neighbor was that good, she shoots at us, has dumped pig manure and garbage next to our house, putting up spite fences, three gates across the road, its horrible we're living in fear of Our Lives, and it's been in the court system now for going on 3 years.
I ended up back homeless again, because of bad neighbors.
Living in a Village often gets annoying ....because of the Gossip !;
sadly in California big cities neighbors cocoon and ignore others.
My neighbour puts on her shoes and jumps on the floor...she lives alone and she is white.I am black..since I moved in here she has tormented me night and day.I called the police more than 50 times...she screams from 10 pm until 6am.Then she sleeps until 3pm.I am living here 13 years.I went over there with cakes and all.
Nalini. That is rather bad. It can happen anywhere I suppose. Hope the situation gets better…
Sometimes lead is the solution
Be really, really loud when she's sleeping, every time.
I wish and pray I never hv to see them.
I've got an upstairs lunatic making my life a misery, has a ring door bell on his house door and won't step foot outside while making my life a misery all throughout the night every night. Actually feel as if I'm in an asylum.
I won’t hurt hem unless they give me that chance. I love people but some people a full of demons.. am not Jesus although I believe in the word. Am not gonna step down so someone can make my life miserable.
I absolutely agree. Some people truly are full of demons, like my upstairs neighbors.
Sounds to me like this guy complaining has no idea the blessings he has living next door. The dogs next door although May crap in the yard are excellent security additions. And with all those extra children I can only imagine the number of angels that are standing all about that house. And instead of you complaining perhaps you could be the Good Samaritan and say hey if you'd like I could clean up around the yard or offer a hand in whatever you would like to have me do.
He sure doesn’t give much good advice
Love thy neighbor as yourself. It's easy to love someone when they are loving you back and playing by the rules , but loving the difficult neighbor is what God expects you to do, and He will give you strength to do it 🙏🙏😇
That strength is almost non existent I have been bullied by my neighbors and they're old and young every day and my family who lives with me didn't believe they said it's all in my head for years. Now I stress eat and shut down
Yeh what a dumb comment . God is happy our property is being destroyed and we have to pay for it . What bullshit. Taoism . Its about balance . Good and evil . Do upon others what others do to you and your allljeezzyy lol
You have no reason loving someone who doesn’t love you. If your neighbour doesn’t actually behave like you and normal people, your only duty is to save your soul.
going through this right now until I'm able to move. Praise God for the strength He provides!
She YELLED my son "r*ped" her and "m*lests CHILDREN!"-AFTER praying loudly for ME. ?! I do NOT know how to handle THIS "Christian" properly consistently. I am also unable to "love thy neighbor as thyself". I have no warmth after 4 summers of assault and abuse-not even pity in me. 😢
I live in an apartment and live on the 1 floor and on the 3 floor lives a orthodox jewish family and the kids are annoying asf the scream make noises and put there bicycle on the front of the apartment and they have like 10 kids or more sorry for my bad grammar
I live in a condominium that faces a row of trees that has many birds. Really delightful. However, I have neighbors several doors down that I have never met. Whenever, I open my sliding glass doors to enjoy the outside they persist in saying really offensive things and making ugly sounds. I have no idea what their problem is. It is as if they have to make ugly sounds. I don't know if it is because they are mentally ill or what. What can you do about their ugly attitudes or at least get them to shut up and not direct their ugliness towards our property. Ruining the zen of an otherwise peaceful place. I really don't want to talk to them as I feel that would be encouraging their horrible behavior.
It's not always same with every neighbour. Once we gave a banana to the little girl of my neighbourhood, the girl ate the banana but left the peel of the banana in my garden. Her mother was there too and she didn't bother to throw the peel of banana in the bin and took away her daughter inside.
Are you insane? Its a banana peal who cares
Giving banana or whatever gift to the neighbours doesn't mean you clean their garbage also whatever is thrown in your garden .
@@kalpanapardasani7 Banana peel is good for gardens. I find it strange you be giving young kids gifts, sounds creepy
Bananas are good for the garden and decompose so best to have a discussion with them first
Very good.
I don’t know. Going over there after being neighbors for a while (he said they keep having kids so I imagine years) doesn’t sound too wise, especially if you bring up Jesus and how he’s worked in your life. People like that are going to be insulted: “Oh you’re a Christian so you’re better than me?” Just pray they’ll move away
This is my point of view. Some will agree with me others may not agree with me. It’s no secret that life is challenging, however, life isn’t impossible to solve either. In the Bible (NKJV) God says in the book of Leviticus Chapter 19 Verse 18, “You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbour as yourself: I am the LORD.” Now, this scripture tells me that God wants us to treat our neighbours the same way we’d like to be treated. We should be peaceful to everyone around us including our obnoxious neighbours, to please God and to give ourselves a great chance of getting into Heaven with God, his angels and other Godly souls. Of course, it’s never easy to live near difficult neighbours. Sometimes God take us out of our fiery situation, other times he comes into our fiery situation and protects us. God was the fourth man in the fire in Biblical times when God defended 3 men in the fire. Those men were never burnt once. The Devil is our real enemy, who operates behind certain people. Satan needs God’s permission before he can do anything to us. We don’t need to fear. If you’re listening to the Lord’s silent voice and he tells you to speak with your neighbours, you should do so, however, if God tells you not to approach your neighbours, then ignore them and carry on with the rest of your life. If we can just try our best to learn to see everyone as well as our neighbours through God’s lens we would do more good than harm and God will bless us more than we could ever imagine. I could go on and on, but I’d be commenting until the cows come home. What God says goes; it’s as simple as that. God wants peace and harmony people. 😇🙏✝️
We are not fighting humans but evil spirits indeed! ♟
Great advice.
Thank you.
My neighbors keep yelling at me about how i’m going to hell and how in need to find jesus.. But i am christian. They just don’t believe it 🤦🏼♂️ My neighbors are full grown adults acting this way
I have a neighbor who even though I asked her not to has petted and fed and welcomed my dogs on her property now informs me she no longer wants my dogs on her property and wants them gone .she's is a condescending atheist who speaks to me like I'm a fool I've lived there for 30 years she's been there since last June and the land has been vacant till now .I'm trying to be a Christian but it's is very hard .now I have to tie up or pen up dogs that have ran loose on 200acres .
My experience with bad neighbors has been that they simply don't care what anyone thinks about their behavior. They feel it's their home/property and they can live as loud, smelly, obnoxious, etc. as they want. Our neighbors on two sides of our yard are destroying our common walls by overwatering. It's literally crumbling our side of the wall and they refuse to do anything about it...including stopping the watering that is causing the problem. I wanted to file a lawsuit against them to get them to pay the thousands of dollars it would cost to professionally repair and seal our side of the wall. But, after paying $15 to download the court forms, I realized it wasn't a winning situation. They could refuse to sign for certified summons letters, so I'd have to pay to have them served the court summons in person...not to mention having to pay about $50 to file in small claims court (per neighbor). Then, they could not show up in court, which means we'd need to pay to file default paperwork and serve that to them. If we won our case, they could still refuse to pay and we'd have to pay a company to collect our money, and finally, they could declare bankruptcy, and it would be all for nothing. OR...we could just take the insult/injury and try to fix the wall ourselves. We can't change our neighbors, but we can change how we respond to them. Instead of fighting, we can do what we can to improve the situation. James 1:20 says, "for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God." We are trying to move now and hope to find a place with enough acreage to not be living so close to someone so that many of the problems we deal with now will not be an issue. It's soooo important not to get mad, whatever you do. I've gotten mad before and it really makes everything so much worse.
Just be aware that those of us who live in rural areas with 20 acres or more have neighbors who shoot guns and make all kinds of noise. So, just moving away may help for a while, but it only takes one evil person to move into the neighborhood to create grief.
@@gybx4094 I'm sure that's true.
My ugly neighbours follow me around the house, copy me, torment me, record me and show landlord .. I have been informed by the landlord, and they literally think I live beneath them I hate this guys so much I can’t wait to leave these goofs alone I’ve even posted multiple times and put em on blast with their names plastered everywhere lol… when I move out I’m egging their house and throwing teepee on their huge pine trees lol might key their cars or worse idk 🤷♂️