I am so proud of this lady making the right choice from the being. This is how we women should be tough. It hurts but do not settle 4 second best. The best is 4 last . It the real meant to be
Tsis yos tìm txoj hmoo os tim tej laog txoj kev tsis ncaj nceeg thiab tsis vam meej xwb tu siab rau cov laog txoj cai vim tsis tsis muaj Kev kawm Kev paub ces ua neej maob dub ua neej thiaj li Tsis vam meej
Neb zaj dab neeg Tu siab heev li. Nrog neb zoo siab uas thaum kawg neb sib tau lawm tiag thov yawm saub vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau neb kom tau nyb ua ke sib hlub mus ntev o
Tsiv ntsawm pab koj tu siab kawg os tab si zoo qhov ua koj tau rov los yuav nwg ib zaug rau yav laug nrog meb zòo siab os lov xav kom kuv tau ib zaug li koj thiab os
hmoob txoj nyuag cai quav dev paug thaum ub ce yeej ntxim ntxub li no os txoj nyuag cai es muab niam tij txi kwv no ce yog dev npua cai xwb thiab yog ib qho phem tshaj plaws li ..
What a sad story but happy for you both at the end you both still have last chance to be with each other and telling each other how much you guys miss each other
Niam log tug ntxhais nyob kj sab log puag yog kj tug ntxhais og lov thoob thoob li kj og kv nyiam nug kj cov neeb neeg heev li o ro ro siab hiag og kv yuav caum kj o
So sad for these old generation that were forced into niam tij txis kwv. The women had no choice and those men too but it's mostly sad for the women because most men end up marrying a niam yau.
The only way to fight these OGs is being matured and strong. If you have to pay for your own wedding, do it. Your brother's death is not your fault so you cannot be punished for it. You paid the price because you are Hmong and young. I am Hmong but i hate Hmong culture because of these. I can't imagine being in your shoes. Thanks for sharing.
It's sad 3 ways. Tge only at fault here is your father. He held your brother's wife back from moving on, he forced you to marry someone you did not love. Back then we had to listen and be obedient to our parents. It's never too late to find love and move on.
I hate how the elders keep saying “if your gf loves you she’ll wait for you” as if women and girls back then has a choice. Many times women and girls were forced into marriages, bride-napped, etc, but it’s their fault for getting married? They got forced into marriage but it’s them who don’t love their bf’s that’s why they got married? Don’t make any sense
I agree with you elders don’t care about their children feeling they want their way but they don’t understand each person have their love life? Why make your children burden their pain or they end up commit suicidal. Hmong culture back home needs to change these traditional of make your son marry his sister in law. Is too embarrassing and he want to marry the one he chose not the one they choose is not fair at all. I wouldn’t marry to my boyfriend to be his 2nd wife hack lNo!!! I don’t care about my reputation about what people say. One husband one wife in this life don’t be 2nd or 3rd wife to no one. You born one time in this earth you want to be the first and only Good job girl. Do what make you happy not make them happy and you depressed.
Such a sweet story. What an honorable man, I 👏👏 you for your determination. I'm glad you both found each other again and able to love in the last chapter of your story. ♥️♥️
Kv ma g nyiam hmoob txoj cai ua muab txi rau niam tij no kiag li kwv muaj kwv hlua nkauj zoo ho niam tij lo g xav yuav kwv vim li ca hmoob ho coj li no yav no lawm tov thov kom txhob muaj ntxiv lawm cia nyia yuav tu nyia hlub xwb thiaj li xav ua neeg nyob thiaj g tu2 siab os hmoob aw
Vim tej laus txoj niag kev siab phem yuam neeg Es koj thisj tau Thaum laus xwb los yeej zoo lawm Peb hmoob tiam no cas yuav phem thisb siab phem ua luaj os hmoob aws
Tsi tim txoj hmoo los daim ntawv tabsi tim koj ua tsi tau txiv xwb. Txhob muab Liam rau txoj hmoo. Thov txhob muab niam tij txis kwv lawm xwb tiam tshiab no...yuav tau hloov kev li kev cai yam tsi tsim nyog siv lawm.
Women and girls were viewed as commodities to be sold and bartered. Simply put, your father having already paid for such, did not want to lose the daughter-in-law for nothing so he forced you to marry her.
Please Hmong people, stop with the niam tij txi kwv if one of them doesn’t agree with it. Also I don’t agree with the way how others in the family make the choice for someone who isn’t home at the time. Although this story started years ago, we have to stop this tradition because it’s the 21st century now. Most of the stories that you hear nowadays with kidnapping wives and niam tij txi kwv tends to not have a satisfying life for both.
I feel like the man intentionally wanted two wives his niam tij and his gf, he could’ve divorce the niam tij of his title but he wanted to hit 2 birds with 1 stone. His gf very smart to marry someone else.
Hmoob txoj niag kev cai niam tij txis kwv mas cas yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj li lau ntxub dhau lawm os. Kuv mas ntxub koj txiv dhau lawm os koj niag niam tij dev ntawv los cas yuav ntshaw koj ua luaj thiab os ntuj aw ntxim ntxub dhau lawm os luag twb tsis yeem yuav yus es yuav khaus nceb ua luaj li lau yis niaf txiv twb tuag lawm es tseem yuav mus txeeb luag tus hluas nraug yuav thiab lau ntuj es cov niag niam tij khaus nceb ntawv na yus tsis yuav ces yeej tsis muaj neeg yuam yus li mos vim yus los twb ntshaw2 niag kwv xwb los mas.
Right? Wonder why she took him while his all old and stinky, but not when his was still young and strong? Whether it’s then or now, she is m still 2nd best to him anyways.
I hate these niam tij txis kwv stories so much. So nasty! Your dad was an a$$ for forcing you. And your sil too. I don't understand how a sil could lay down with a bil. I'm glad your gf didn't stay and be a second wife bc her life would have been miserable.
Txhob tu siab rau koj tus kheej tej laus muab txoj sia los twv lawm ces leej twg los yeej khiav tsis dhau.
Zoo kawg sib txhawb nawb
I am so proud of this lady making the right choice from the being. This is how we women should be tough. It hurts but do not settle 4 second best. The best is 4 last . It the real meant to be
Tsis txhob tos thaum laus lawm os.
Ua cas yuav tu siab ua luaj li os. 😭😭😭 uas nkauj ua nraug mam nyuaj tshaj.
Hais zoo kawj li
Tsis yos tìm txoj hmoo os tim tej laog txoj kev tsis ncaj nceeg thiab tsis vam meej xwb tu siab rau cov laog txoj cai vim tsis tsis muaj Kev kawm Kev paub ces ua neej maob dub ua neej thiaj li Tsis vam meej
Neb zaj dab neeg Tu siab heev li. Nrog neb zoo siab uas thaum kawg neb sib tau lawm tiag thov yawm saub vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau neb kom tau nyb ua ke sib hlub mus ntev o
This is the only man with true honor and feelings.
Tsiv ntsawm pab koj tu siab kawg os tab si zoo qhov ua koj tau rov los yuav nwg ib zaug rau yav laug nrog meb zòo siab os lov xav kom kuv tau ib zaug li koj thiab os
hmoob txoj nyuag cai quav dev paug thaum ub ce yeej ntxim ntxub li no os txoj nyuag cai es muab niam tij txi kwv no ce yog dev npua cai xwb thiab yog ib qho phem tshaj plaws li ..
kob cov me ab ntxim hlub txhaj niam laus
Niam ntsuab teev koj cov 3 tug ntxhia ntxim hlub heev os zoo nkauj kawg lis 😊❤️❤️
What a sad story but happy for you both at the end you both still have last chance to be with each other and telling each other how much you guys miss each other
Zoo siab uas neb los sib tau rau yav laus 💞💏
Niam log tug ntxhais nyob kj sab log puag yog kj tug ntxhais og lov thoob thoob li kj og kv nyiam nug kj cov neeb neeg heev li o ro ro siab hiag og kv yuav caum kj o
Tu2 siab kawg li os ..niam laus
Nthawv tsis raug tsis yog ntawv tsis raug
Haj haj
Neb hmoov yeej los sib hlub thaum laus nrog neb zoo siab kawg
At least you guys still have a chance this life time to married each other. So happy for you guys.
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Wow! Such sad love story but I'm so glad they still have a second chance at love. This is like a Cinderella story...happy ending.
So sad for these old generation that were forced into niam tij txis kwv. The women had no choice and those men too but it's mostly sad for the women because most men end up marrying a niam yau.
Wow so happy they got back together. God gave them a 2nd chance. Stupid hmong tradition to make the younger brother marry the older brother's wife.
G tsim nyog kiag li
Zoo siab neb tseem sib tau yav thaum laus no es Thov kom neb nyob laus nkoos ib txhis.
Tsis cuag tus yus hlub.
Thaum pib es pib tsis tau los thaum laus los tseem nco ntsoov tias yuav tsum muaj thaum xais li no ces kawg li lawm nrog zoo siab nrog.
The only way to fight these OGs is being matured and strong. If you have to pay for your own wedding, do it. Your brother's death is not your fault so you cannot be punished for it. You paid the price because you are Hmong and young. I am Hmong but i hate Hmong culture because of these. I can't imagine being in your shoes. Thanks for sharing.
It's sad 3 ways. Tge only at fault here is your father. He held your brother's wife back from moving on, he forced you to marry someone you did not love. Back then we had to listen and be obedient to our parents. It's never too late to find love and move on.
I hate how the elders keep saying “if your gf loves you she’ll wait for you” as if women and girls back then has a choice. Many times women and girls were forced into marriages, bride-napped, etc, but it’s their fault for getting married? They got forced into marriage but it’s them who don’t love their bf’s that’s why they got married? Don’t make any sense
I agree with you elders don’t care about their children feeling they want their way but they don’t understand each person have their love life? Why make your children burden their pain or they end up commit suicidal. Hmong culture back home needs to change these traditional of make your son marry his sister in law. Is too embarrassing and he want to marry the one he chose not the one they choose is not fair at all. I wouldn’t marry to my boyfriend to be his 2nd wife hack lNo!!! I don’t care about my reputation about what people say. One husband one wife in this life don’t be 2nd or 3rd wife to no one. You born one time in this earth you want to be the first and only Good job girl. Do what make you happy not make them happy and you depressed.
Such a sweet story. What an honorable man, I 👏👏 you for your determination. I'm glad you both found each other again and able to love in the last chapter of your story. ♥️♥️
Kv ma g nyiam hmoob txoj cai ua muab txi rau niam tij no kiag li kwv muaj kwv hlua nkauj zoo ho niam tij lo g xav yuav kwv vim li ca hmoob ho coj li no yav no lawm tov thov kom txhob muaj ntxiv lawm cia nyia yuav tu nyia hlub xwb thiaj li xav ua neeg nyob thiaj g tu2 siab os hmoob aw
Nice family picture May.
The intended only a few years now 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 po 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🐱😂🐱🐱😂😂😂😂
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Vim tej laus txoj niag kev siab phem yuam neeg Es koj thisj tau Thaum laus xwb los yeej zoo lawm Peb hmoob tiam no cas yuav phem thisb siab phem ua luaj os hmoob aws
Tuaj teb chaws Mekas no ces dim txoj kev sib txis lawm mas
Cas tus niam tij no es ntshaw tus kwv luaj thiab. Tsis ntshaj tsam lwm nub lawv tsis hlub yus los cas
Zoo mloog kawg!
Tsi tim txoj hmoo los daim ntawv tabsi tim koj ua tsi tau txiv xwb. Txhob muab Liam rau txoj hmoo. Thov txhob muab niam tij txis kwv lawm xwb tiam tshiab no...yuav tau hloov kev li kev cai yam tsi tsim nyog siv lawm.
Koj hais tsawg dhau lawm os
What a beautiful story.
No, weak man
G tau laus npaum li cas pauj
😭😭
Such a cute story!!!
Women and girls were viewed as commodities to be sold and bartered. Simply put, your father having already paid for such, did not want to lose the daughter-in-law for nothing so he forced you to marry her.
May i love this picture!! You all are beautiful!!
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Phauj may, your daughter so beautiful
Please Hmong people, stop with the niam tij txi kwv if one of them doesn’t agree with it. Also I don’t agree with the way how others in the family make the choice for someone who isn’t home at the time. Although this story started years ago, we have to stop this tradition because it’s the 21st century now. Most of the stories that you hear nowadays with kidnapping wives and niam tij txi kwv tends to not have a satisfying life for both.
Amen! I 2nd that!
Not anymore in America's
Txhob tusiab vim peb hmoob txoj niag kev pluag thiab txoj niag kev phem lim liam tsim lwm leej lwm tus lub siab lub ntsws.
When you loves someone ua niam pestsawg lo yeej ua li.
You’re lucky she still married you at the end, I don’t think I would of I was her. Lol 😂 best wishes to you both! 👍🙏
Peb hmoob txoj cai uas muab niam tij txis kwv siv tsis tau, vim poj niam lub cev txawj puas. (Yog tus niam hluas es tus txiv laus mas zoo saib dua).
Yog koj 2 tug ntxhais no, koj puas kam? Kev xav xwb.
Yog koj tseem yuav koj tus hluas nkauj rau thaum hluas thia ces ntshe koj tus poj niam tau 5% kev hlub los ntawm koj xwb lauj thaum Aw.....
Tu niam tsev tsi xav kom kj tsi xob niag hnu xev dab neeg ua rau 3 lub neej tsi sib hau
I am so glad you guys got to be together at older age. Your love was ment to be.
XYOV CAS PEB COV HMOOB PHEEJ NYIAM 2 NIAM TIJ TXIS KWV, COV LAUS MAS THIAJ RUAM, TEJ HLUAS MAS MUAJ 2 KEV NYUAJ SIAB, KEV NTXHOV SIAB, KEV TU SIAB, TSIS PAUB QHIA RAU LEEJTWG, NROG NEB ZOO SIAB UAS THAUM KAWG ES NEB TSEEM MUAJ LUB ZOO CAIJ ROV LOS SIB TAU, ZOO TSHAJ PLAWS LI OS YAWM TXIV AW!!!!
Aww I love happy ending 🥰
Koj tus brother twb tuag lawm ne ua cas koj txiv koj niam yuav siab phem ua lauj li
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Kj tus qub hlaus nkauj ruam tshaj thiaj rov qab yuav kj yog kv mas yuav tus tshiab zoo dua
I feel like the man intentionally wanted two wives his niam tij and his gf, he could’ve divorce the niam tij of his title but he wanted to hit 2 birds with 1 stone. His gf very smart to marry someone else.
Yeap, thaub ham tsis xav tau 2 les es. Tsis li ces yeej xaiv tus uas thaub tias hlub thiab nyiam tshaj plaws lawm los mos.
This old people are very bad let your son married your brother wife it's not right very bad mother and father 👎👎👎👎👎
These OG had bad thought and nasty tradition also shares in same bed?? Hack No!!!
Kv tsi nyiam hmoob txoj cai niam tij txis kwv kiag li
Koj cov ntxhais rog rog xwb
What a happy ending.
Nad ej me aw tus tod puas yog koj niam tais os ?
Hmoob txoj niag kev cai niam tij txis kwv mas cas yuav ntxim ntxub ua luaj li lau ntxub dhau lawm os. Kuv mas ntxub koj txiv dhau lawm os koj niag niam tij dev ntawv los cas yuav ntshaw koj ua luaj thiab os ntuj aw ntxim ntxub dhau lawm os luag twb tsis yeem yuav yus es yuav khaus nceb ua luaj li lau yis niaf txiv twb tuag lawm es tseem yuav mus txeeb luag tus hluas nraug yuav thiab lau ntuj es cov niag niam tij khaus nceb ntawv na yus tsis yuav ces yeej tsis muaj neeg yuam yus li mos vim yus los twb ntshaw2 niag kwv xwb los mas.
Why not, hluas tshaj ces yuav xwb mos. mus tom ntej kawg tau thaub laus or ua niam 2,3, or 4 lawm xwb ne
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Kj mas ruam tshaj Xum kho hluas nkauj yog kv mas kv xum kho niam tij yuav kv tus hluas nkauj
Cas tsis hnov hais lus li
What a wrongful conviction in life? It is not worth for her to wait for you, man.
Right? Wonder why she took him while his all old and stinky, but not when his was still young and strong? Whether it’s then or now, she is m still 2nd best to him anyways.
I hate these niam tij txis kwv stories so much. So nasty! Your dad was an a$$ for forcing you. And your sil too. I don't understand how a sil could lay down with a bil. I'm glad your gf didn't stay and be a second wife bc her life would have been miserable.
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I don’t think your girlfriend love you enough.. she just like you not love you.. hehehehehe
Not true. I think she made the right decision because I wouldn't want to share my man with another woman.
@@microbiologist50 I agree. Glad she stands her ground.
He didn’t love her enough either. She was 2nd choice then and now. Niam tij was the haib tshaj for thaub; she got experience and established man😄
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