One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood was becoming a mommy of two. I have a two year old and a four month old and I felt like I had to go through a grieving period of my daughter losing her only child spot and losing my full attention. I was afraid she’d feel like I replaced her. Super emotional pregnancy lol. One of my favorite parts of motherhood has been realizing that my love doesn’t get cut in half, it just grows bigger with two. Made my momma heart even more full. Thanks for the opportunity, Happy late Mother’s Day! ❤❤
I felt this too! I have a 2.5 year old and a 5 month old. I cried numerous times for my two year old when I became pregnant. Now my girls are my world and my two year old is the best big sister
Biggest obstacle I overcame was Postpartum Depression. I was hospitalized 11 months PP due to depression/Axiety/PTSD. Unfortunately I was in the hospital for 2 weeks and missed my baby first birthday. That was the hardest thing I've ever been through. I have overcome my PPD and have now celebrated 2 of mybabies birthdays. Its still a daily battle in my mind knowing I missed her 1st birthday. Every mom dreams of that day. My favorite part of motherhood is seeing the world through my babies eyes. It makes me more grateful and blessed.
One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced since becoming a mom is realizing how much growth I’ve needed emotionally. Learning how to give my children the things I didn’t have, as in emotional stability, is challenging but so rewarding. Probably my favorite part of motherhood is how much love is brought into my life, I grew up very isolated, so it’s such a blessing to have the love between my children and I. Happy belated Mother’s Day!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My biggest challenges i overcame in motherhood was overcoming addiction before i got pregnant. I got pregnant at 22 and now im married with 3 kids and my life is more than i couldve ever imagined! My favorite thing of motherhood is seeing my children grow and learn something new everyday and seeing them smile and happy. Theres no better gift than motherhood ❤ happy mothers day!
My biggest hurdle was definitely post partum depression. I went untreated for almost 4 years because of pride and what I was afraid people would think of me and I actually sadly fell into postpartum psychosis and almost had to be hospitalized. Proud to say I am a survivor! I got on meds for a year and changed my life in every way. I’m currently weaning off my meds and I love my life. Never thought I would see the day.
Biggest obstacle is convincing myself that I’m doing a good job. There are days I feel on top of the world super mom, and other days I feel like the world is falling on my shoulders. I’m not where I want to be, but I’m getting in a better mindset. One of favorite parts about motherhood is seeing my kids learn something new. I get overly proud of the smallest of milestones hahaha.
Biggest challenge I overcame is learning to love myself more to be better for my daughter, my favorite part about being a mom is just watching her grow, smile and laugh, and just learning about the world. Just being around her makes me so happy, she always knows how to make me laugh 😂 she’s quite the comedian and I love her so much ❤ so happy Mother’s Day everyone!
One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood was becoming a single mom while pregnant, pregnant when I was sharing my brother's house with his friends and having my daughter and moving to a new county with a newborn on my own. Somedays I thought I would die of tiredness. One of my favorite parts of motherhood is the bond and love that I have with my daughter, she's my best friend.
Happy mother's Day to you! 🌷 Biggest obstacle I've overcome with motherhood is finally letting someone watch my kiddo it took 2 years not it happened. Motherhood can be so hard but it's important to have alone time. One of my favorite things about motherhood is experiencing kiddos firsts! ❤
My biggest challenge I had so far in pregnancy I had really severe ppd and pp anxiety. I felt so alone, and wasn’t sleeping, barely eating it’s was so miserable. But my favorite part of motherhood is, what healing comes with it.
Going back to work (unexpectedly) after my divorce has been the biggest obstacle/ overcome! Favorite part is watching my son grow and change daily. He’s becoming his own person and it’s incredible to watch!!!!
One of the biggest challenges is telling myself is telling myself I’m good enough. As a mom I never feel like I’m doing enough or good enough. So constantly telling myself I’m doing a good job. Favorite part of motherhood is seeing them grow and seeing smiles on their faces. I love them so much
One of my biggest challenge was being a single mom at 23 . No car, new apartment, new job. I saved money, got my own car and did not leave my apartment! Now married to an amazing man who took my son as if he was his and with two daughters ! The best mom about being a mom is sharing love so pure with other little humans ❤️
Hi Brittany! I love you and your channel and I truly appreciate your wholehearted honesty and openness throughout your mother hood journey 🤍 the biggest challenge I overcame/am still overcoming is l e t t i n g go. I’ve learned I can’t control every aspect of my day, my children’s day, what happens in our day, or really much of anything when it comes to having a baby and a toddler. I’m learning to go with the flow more and more even though this totally doesn’t come naturally to me as a type A gal. On the flip side one of my favorite parts of motherhood is what my children teach me- they teach me each day to be patient and kind and that if I spill ice cream all over the floor “it’s no big deal mommy” lol😅
Still overcoming! But I would say I have overcome is letting others help me! I have a 3 year old and a 6 months old and my first PP was extremely difficult. I lost my dad.. it was covid season.. I went through a lot of changes. So I made it missions this time to let family help me so postpartum isn’t as hard this time around. Favorite part of motherhood is literally feeling like a superhuman. If I am proud of anything in life is being a mom. 😭😭
My biggest challenge as a mom is dealing with my own emotional regulation and realizing how much my own emotions play into how I parent my daughter. She is super sensitive and so am I and I have been working on my patience with her. My favorite thing about being a mom is watching the world through my daughter’s eyes. It has taught me whole new appreciation for the little things in life
One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood, was becoming a Mommy of two, while battling the grief from losing my Dad. My favorite part of motherhood, is watching my boys, seeing their relationship grow with their 7 year age gap, and the love that they have for one another is just next level. ❤ Happy Late Mothers Day 💕
The biggest challange I have overcome is letting myself not feel guilty when my daughter is away from me. I used to feel so bad being away from her, but now I let myself relax. The best part of motherhood is seeing the world through your child's eyes. Seeing them get excited learning about the world around them
Biggest challenges for me are becoming a solo single mum and trying to navigate what life look like now, also trying to explain (in age appropriate way) to my daughter where dad is now. The best thing about being a mum is seeing my daughter grow and all the little inside jokes we have together.
The biggest thing I overcame when I became a mom was the feeling that I wasn't cut out to be a mom, or didn't have what it takes. Absolutely not the case! We're all incredible and are more than enough! My biggest joy is seeing the world through my child's eyes. It has truely bought me so much joy and has made my world so much more vivid and colourful! Thanks for another great video, as always ❤
My biggest challenge that I overcame with motherhood is accepting that people will think what they think about how you raise your child and I will raise my child “gently” if I want to. My favorite thing in motherhood is watching my son grow and develop into his own person and it makes me soooo happy yet so emotional. ❤❤❤
Happy Mothers Day Brittany. As per usual you are such an amazing human and mother. Thank you for the giveaway! I don’t have insta. I only have Facebook. How sweet of you to give a giveaway. I agree 100%, big events are so stressful and are always such a letdown. Biggest challenge to overcome is finding a routine to balance my life as a mom with two kids. I have a 2 year old and a 4 month old and I’m only now figuring it out. The best part of being a mom is seeing my favourite little humans grow up. Watch my 2 year old learning and being so proud of herself. And seeing the beauty of my baby. Thank you.
Biggest challenge: Postpartum recovery! I’m going through it for the second time right now. My little boy is one month today, my daughter is 3. Both times were rough for me physically. My favorite part of motherhood: I’ve really found myself in being a mom. I’m not as afraid to stand up for myself, especially when it’s something that affects my kiddos. I’m more confident, less worried about what people think of me, more kind to myself, more patient, I feel like I’ve learned so much. I love this version of myself since having become a mom. My littles make me better ❤
Biggest challenge I overcame as first time mom is knowing I am enough as a mama. Struggling with breastfeeding really tripped up my mental health and making it over that hurtle was so hard. Now as my baby just turned one I struggle with wanting to wean her off the breast and even that has been so heart breaking. But I’ve learned that if I listen to my babies cues and needs then I’m doing the best I can. Happy Mother’s Day!! Your videos have been so helpful in my new motherhood ♥️🫶🏼
One of the biggest challenges i overcame in motherhood was becoming a teen mom and then being a single mom for years. I'm now married...5 biological children...4 bonus children...just living my best mom life. ❤️
Thank you! One of the challenges of motherhood was loosing myself as far as self care. To the point showering wasnt a priority lol in the very thick of it but fortunately that time passed. My favorite thing is just being present and witnessing my daughter’s growth and development rt before my eyes. i just love her so much and i feel so lucky to watch her grow🥰
The biggest challenge was forsure feeling like a default parent// like I was giving up more than my husband! The most rewarding part is the love, the little hand reaching for mine, the wet kisses, the purpose! 🫶🏻 happy mothers day!
the biggest challenge is being a mother of 2, it takes up all my energy the best thing about being a mother is watching my children grow up and become beautiful, funny and so kind-hearted humans
I’ve been watching you since your teens and am in awe of the wonderful woman and mom you’ve become. One of my biggest challenges as a mom was (I’m now an empty nester) was navigating mental health issues with my daughter! Happy to say she’s thriving now but WHEW what a ride.
One of the biggest challenges I’m still learning to overcome is accepting my mommy body. Especially post-partum second baby, I’m having much more trouble navigating a new sense of self.
One obstacle I am avidly working on is self regulating my emotions. As a 1st time mom who struggles w their mental health it has been challenging learning how to create healthy mindset even during difficult times. Motherhood has taught me self compassion and to give myself grace. One of my favorite parts of motherhood is the relationship/bond I have with my son. It is different from any other relationship I’ve ever experienced. My son and I love to go on adventures (the park, zoo, museums)… making these memories together is so much fun and fulfilling. 💕 Good luck to you Brittany! & thank you for all of the advice & aesthetic you have brought to viewers like me! 💓
One of my biggest challenges was being diagnosed with cancer before she was 1. Chemo making me so sick and weak I couldn't do everything I wanted with her, but it's also what I have been grateful for the most...realizing how strong I can be for her and being grateful for every day. So thankful to see her grow up and learn new things every day.
The biggest challenge it's the sleep depravation, my kid it's over 3 years old and still wakes up at night 😭 but my favorite part it's to see her learning and becoming an independent little human, and loving that she still need me❤️ Happy mother's day Brit! 💖
One of the biggest challenges I e overcome in motherhood was losing my father suddenly 2 weeks before giving birth to my first daughter. Navigating grief during a time meant to be happy was very hard. One of my favourite parts about motherhood is watching my oldest daughter 2.5 interact with her sister 5 month old and seeing them adore one another.
Hi Brittany! I completely agree about Mother’s Day being like bdays, wayy too much anticipation when if it was low key we’d all probably enjoy it more! Anywho, I don’t have IG but I’ll still answer your questions: the biggest challenge I’ve overcome in motherhood is not reacting (still not perfect) and trying to give a level response even when I’m tired, upset, and overstimulated. The thing I love most about motherhood is that it’s given me a purpose beyond what I had before, and I have a built-in best friend for the rest of my life. 🩷 Happy Mother’s Day. You are truly an incredible mom!
Hi Brittany - I have been following you from down under and love your warm and honest content. My biggest challenge was to accept my true self, by facing my blind spots and accepting my limitations as a mother, wife and person. My biggest joy was to discover the enormous supply of love I had hidden and never knew how to let out.
I think I’m living through the biggest challenge at the moment. My boyfriend/baby daddy said he fell out of love with me just recently and we’re taking a break, but I’ve noticed it’s been hard for me to navigate my emotions since birth, and I’m now 20 weeks pregnant. It’s so hard finding my way while waking up and still having to be a good mom to my sweet 16 month baby girl. As well as giving her time with her dad when I’m a sahm and with her 24/7. The best part, is my girl 🩷 I love seeing her grow into her personality, and know what she wants/needs. I’m amazed by how smart she is and everything she picks up on. I’m so proud of myself at the end of the day when she is asleep by bedtime, I know she has a full tummy and heart, and that her day was full of laughter 🩷 I’m glad you enjoyed your Mother’s Day! Marianaa_martinez
The biggest challange I’ve overcome as a mom was to learn how to thrive not just survive after the birth of each of my kids (2 under 2). Came across your videos when I was pregnant with my first during COVID and felt so isolated, so thank you for being with for me through it all!
My baby boy Wes is almost 10 months now! Biggest challenge I overcame after becoming a mom is taking care of myself while taking care of my baby and finding some good rhythms. A lot of time my health (mental & physical) would be placed on the back burner and I’d find myself very burnt out and unhealthy. Now I have found some great rhythms that work to keep myself healthy so that I can be the best mom to my baby boy!
One, u love your videos and have been watching since I was pregnant, with my now 3.5 year old! And two, my biggest challenge, similar to you, was learning how to be a single Mum, learning how to go from being a wife, to a Mum, to having days when you don’t have any label when your child is gone. My partner was also abusive, so learning to love myself and appreciate and admire self. I am so happy admire my strength and courage! My biggest blessing and favourite thing about my daughter, is her pure happiness and joy! The joy she brings me and brings the world around her!
My biggest challenge I overcame in motherhood was learning that I was not my mother. I know a little bit of context is needed. My mother was not present and to this day still unavailable. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to love my two beautiful daughters because I was never shown how to love. It took me 2 1/2 years to realize when someone told me they have never seen children so happy to know I have done my best and that they know I love them with all my heart. My favorite part about motherhood is the ability to see my babies grow into wonderful humans and grow their own personalities. ❤
I can’t say that I’ve completely overcome this challenge but I have made leaps and bounds of progress. The comparison game is crazzzzzy in motherhood. I didn’t realize I’d have to address and readdress this so often. I’d be in the middle of having the most fun with my kiddos and a thought of comparison would come up and start to ruin the moment. I want the best for my children and I’m truly doing the best that I can. And I know so many other moms are in the exact same boat. ❤
Biggest challenge, figuring out how to be a single parent and get back to work while not having any help from their father. 2&3 years old, it's been rough but it's working for now. It also makes every night cuddling before bedtime just the best part of every single day. Happy mother's day!
Biggest obstacle to overcome would be the process of finding out my daughter has Autism. She’s such a bright little girl! Watching my 3-year old son learn the different ways to play with her and watching him try so hard to protect her is one of the most amazing things to witness as a momma! Happy Mother’s Day! ❤ **I don’t have instagram or any social media but I do have an email 😆
Biggest struggle I overcame in motherhood was mom-guilt, started with not being able to breastfeed as my little one could not latch (thank you for your video btw on encouraging all mom's that at the end of the day what matters is baby is fed and happy, whether breast or bottle feeding) and also mom-guilt associated with pursuing your careers/dreams. I'm so happy, and proud at the same time, to see how my daughter mature, grow up and become a wonderful person each day. Happy mother's day to everyone, and thank you to all the mom's who's doing a wonderful and amazing job of taking care of your family! 🎉❤
First of all I love your content, feels like you are super real with us! What I had to overcome was really bad postpartum depression and anxiety, I feel like it kind of stole those newborn moments from me. What I am most grateful about being a mommy is watching my little human grow and learn and being one of his favorite people. (For now) 😅
Omg how fun! One of my biggest struggles with motherhood is mom guilt! I need to work to give them a good life but when I work I’m not with them. It’s such a hard cycle. But I know all my hard work will be worth it. Also watching them grow up so quick is so exciting but soo heart wrenching 🥹😭 My absolute favorite thing about being a mom is just that unconditional overwhelming love and connection. There is no love like the bond between a mother and her babies 🥹😭🩷
Love this video! Well done Mama on raising such a confident girl with such a secure attachment that she can enjoy her independence !!❤ My biggest obstacle is learning to navigate the whole Mum guilt and accepting that filling my cup/self care is JUST as important as the unconditional, knows no bounds love, energy and care I show my 2 year old and 4 month old every single day - inherent people pleaser over here and I see this as ‘selfish’ which I know sounds ridiculous but it’s something I’m trying to work on so I don’t burnout and be the best version of me for my babies 🙏🩷💙 xx
The hardest part of motherhood for me was finding out at 35 weeks pregnant that my son had hydrocephalus, I was petrified because in that moment I didnt know what that meant for him - fastforward 2 years hes an amazing wonderful little boy - yes theres lots of surgeries, but he overcomes them so well. Hes the biggest blessing and the best thing that has happened to me and my husband. I want to spread his bravery and his smiles everywhere I go. Happy mothers day 🌻
One of my biggest challenges was having a colic baby that woke up every single hour for the first year of life and me and my husband moved to a different country when my son was 5 months old. I had to learn to do it all on my own but now he is three and is the happiest kid in the whole world I made a literal mini me and he is the smartest kindest little boy.
Biggest challenge for me has been not having a village. And my favorite thing is everything. I’m truly so proud of myself for overcoming every challenge by myself. 💗💗💗
Happy motherers day! One of the biggest challenges I've had to over come as a mother was last year I had to be the strongest for them and not let her know our world was falling apart. being abandoned by my girls father when I was 33 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby girl. He had us drive across the country to relocate for work then told me he was in love with someone else there and left us homeless with nothing but a suitcase. Now a year later in our own apartment and everything they could ever need. I did it. My favorite thing is to be able to have all the moments with them and all the cuddles 💕 makes any hard days better.
Biggest challenge: getting over postpartum. It was a struggle to have my child be with other people. I needed to be with him at all times. I hated myself so much and I’m happier now. Favorite part: watching my son grow and learn new things. Knowing I’m his best friend and he’s mine. I will also love him no matter what…. I don’t have instagram. ❤
I am a cycle breaker in motherhood. I have been able to cycle break physical and emotional abuse as well as addictions. Motherhood has been the same as opening an onion within myself and truly uncovering who I am and then learning to love me by loving my daughter the right way! My biggest obstacle has been believing in myself the right time and not questioning who I am!
My biggest challenge was facing my mental health problems. Dealing with severe anxiety, postpartum depression. Also trying to have a good relationship with baby daddy who also have a depression.
I think the biggest challenge I have overcame during. My motherhood is taking care of my mental health because motherhood has somehow opened a lot of my inner child 's wounds and I have to work a lot on healing Myself healing my inner child while raising my son so I'm very proud that I never let my old patterns or my limiting beliefs affect my journey of motherhood
One of my biggest challenges was how much my relationship with my partner suffered and working on it, although we are together and I couldn't consider it any other way, it is DIFFCULT. Also my favourite part is just seeing another human being grow and change, and how much love I can have for my child. ❤
One of the biggest challenges was being pregnant with an almost 3 year old. I am not a good pregnant woman, I had pelvis issues throughout my pregnancy which made it so I had a hard time walking, couldn’t lift over 10lbs, couldn’t sit on the floor or anything which made it very difficult with a toddler. I felt like I wasn’t able to play with him like he wanted me to and of course he didn’t understand why. Once baby came out, it was a lot better. My partner is very good at grabbing baby and letting play with our son… my favourite thing about motherhood is the unconditional love that you have for your kids. It’s almost a surreal feeling. What a gift it is to be able to experience this type of love🥰 Thank you for the opportunity to win this giveaway🩷
Favourite thing about motherhood is I grew up without family really so I finally feel like I have family cause of my little girl Biggest obstacle has been learning to regulate my own emotions as I have been through a lot of trauma growing up. You don’t realise how unregulated you are till you have a child
The struggle is real! As a mother, self sacrifice was the biggest challenge. I’m an older mother in my forties and never thought motherhood was possible for me. I owned and operated my business of 20 years and when I had my daughter I was forced to close my doors. My priorities got dramatically shifted. I lost a lot of independence and sacrificed a life I worked so hard to create. I’d do it all over a million times because nothing better than being a mama and watching my beautiful daughter thrive.
The hardest part was breastfeeding and staying strong. The best part is seeing her smile, laugh and enjoy the world around her! My little is 20 months 😢
My biggest challenge as a mother rn is navigating a safe space and place for my toddler to explore not just in the home environment but also in the community. Without always telling them. “No” or “don’t do that” lol
For me, as an immigrant was and still are the most challenging part-to be far away from relatives/parents without any even tiny bit support/help. And sure thing motherhood is just a biggest gift indeed, yes, I’m kinda alone but the same time while my lil one around-I’m never alone. Thank you for all your video, for motivation, inspiration 🤗 Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers here
Biggest challenge was having my 1st baby in a homeless facility (hubby lost his shop and covid meant we both couldnt work in our choosen fields and we lived in a homeless place) was 21 but it really made me loose my identity. My body belonged to my little one and me and hubby didnt really have a sense of belonging.
My biggest challenge: healing my inner child tra*ma My favorite part: feeling complete and whole. That “warmth” and “love” I was searching for is no longer. THIS IS ALL I NEEDED ALL ALONG. With or without a partner, this child will forever make me whole.
The biggest challenge since becoming a Mom was going back to work and having my 12 week old go to daycare. It ended up being a blessing for both of us but was SO hard initially. The best thing about being a Mom is having someone that counts on you and makes you smile with the silly things they say. Also, getting hugs and kisses from her are priceless 🥰 @theaudreysampson
The biggest obstacle I had after postpartum was probably not knowing where my style or taste fell anymore because I was so different after having a baby. But also, when I hit the one-year mark, I also had a really hard time struggling with my hormones made me pretty angry mood swinging and I was awful to get along with when I was ovulating still going through that 2 1/2 years later lol
I had to experience birth and not have family or friends around for the first 2 years of my sons life. The pandemic really messed up my first time experiences. I truly know what love is and now my life revolves around him and everything I do is for him and it's the best part about being a mom.
🙋🏻♀️ Hi! 😊 Biggest challenge: Accepting that, as ready as I thought I was to be a mom, I wasn't even close to being prepared for all that comes mentally! I love to talk openly with new moms to let them know they are not alone. Love that you do that too! Momming is hard, but when you stop to take the time to enjoy the smallest things, that's when you'll find the biggest joys. Today it was watching my 3 yr old trying to remove an eye boogie. Random and extra adorable 😂
Hi there, on of the biggest challenges I've faced was having to be a single mother and still overcoming all obstacles.. My son is now 14 years old and I couldn't be more proud.. My favorite part of being a mom is definitely bringing a decent well mannered young man into this world.. From a very proud mom.. ❤
Biggest challenge I overcame and still am is going through a separation when my son was 2. It has now been a year and I am still learning to navigate co parenting relationship with his dad. It was extremely hard for me as my son was through IVF and when we finally had him I thought my family would be complete. Now that he’s turning 4 in October its getting harder to explain the coparent dynamic. I am so grateful to be his mom and to be able to be called a mom as I never thought I would be. You inspired me in my journey through single motherhood and I want to thank you! I do not have social media for the entry
Thank you Brittany, your thoughtfulness is very admirable. One of the biggest challenges in motherhood is one I am still going through. I am a senior dental hygiene student in a very demanding program. My mother is my child care for my soon to be 3 year old, and she was recently diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer. My oldest brother came down from Alaska where he lives with his family since he's in the military. He offered to take care of my daughter in Alaska for me to focus on our mother, my studies, my national board exam, and husband. Although I am extrenmely grateful for him and his amazing wife, I cannot tell you how much I miss my sweet girl. She returns next week in time for my graduation on the 26th of May. Its been the longest 5 weeks of my life thus far, side note I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant. Now, onto the bright side of motherhood! The joy and true love she has blessed me with. Her giggles and kindness is intoxicating. Knowing I always have someone by my side is such a treat. Thank you again Brittany, I love your content, stay true to you, as thats what I love most about you. P.s. I don’t have an instagram…hopefully I can still be considered. Thanks doll.
Biggest challenge I’m (currently working on) overcoming: respecting my 20yr old daughter’s no-contact boundary. Quick backstory- always a single Mama with full-custody, bio-father isn’t listed on the birth certificate, never given child support or been involved in any capacity. I have been clean/sober for the last over 15yrs, but my daughter’s working through her own feelings. Favorite part of motherhood: the truest love, deepest joy, learning experiences & growth that comes from parenting. Biggest blessing of my life is that my daughter changed me forever for the better. She is my soulmate & absolute love of my life. l don’t have social media anymore but have followed you for years & hope my entry will still be considered. It was the loneliest & hardest Mother’s Day yet for me, my Mama passed away 5yrs ago from Ovarian Cancer & was the first Mother’s Day with no communication from my daughter… the distance from both my own Mama & the one who calls me their Mama, was almost more than I could take. Hoping for happier years ahead & always sending love your way Britt! ❤❤❤
@feycreature Tbh, I’ve just had a really hard time accepting my new body. I miss my old body and even though I know it’s the same body and it did a beautiful thing creating life; it doesn’t feel like home. But I’m not paying to get these stretch marks lasered off my belly button until I know I’m done making more babies 😂
Biggest challenge that I’ve been overcoming (still working on) is dealing with chronic vertigo/stress symptoms since labor. I’ve really not been the same since and my daughter is 2.5 years… it’s hard trying to be present and focus on being joyful and happy in every moment with her while dealing with all these health issues. 🩵🥺 I don’t want to miss a moment though and although im not perfect, I’m trying. Being a mom is the greatest accomplishment and joy of my life. I have more confidence and purpose than ever before. My daughter has molded and shaped me into a better human. I’d be lost without her! 🥹
Feeding my babies was my biggest challenge. The fear of under feeding my babies was ever present and left me with severe anxiety. I was pumping around the clock, sleep deprived and have intrusive thoughts - therapy was the only way I overcame it. Rationally I know ‘fed is best’, but geez, I really couldn’t get past all the ‘breast is best’ messaging that was pushed so hard on this new mum.
Don’t expect to win, haven’t even seen the prize yet 😂 but i thought I would answer your question anyway! Challenge - I split up with my kids dad in January. And deciding to split the family unit was by far the hardest thing I have ever done. There are so many unknowns and uncertainties. It was just a very hard pill to swallow. (Just to add - the kids have adapted amazingly. My daughter is so young she didn’t really seem to take on too much and my son claims he is “lucky because he has 2 houses” and I think their dad and I’s relationship has benefited from being apart) My favourite part of motherhood - it’s a toss up!! I LOVED breastfeeding and having that experience with both of my babies (they both took to it like pros luckily). It was just such a special time that i can’t really describe in words. BUT, I also LOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEE watching them learn something new - to see their faces finally understand what I’ve been saying or watching their pride as they achieve something they have practiced is the best feeling in the world….. ACTUALLY sorry I change my mind and can’t be bothered deleting- my favourite thing is when my son says “I love you mummy” or if I say it to my daughter she puckers up for a kiss -- there’s no better feeling in the world Just watched the rest of the video - sorry I don’t have insta - WELL DONE TO THE WINNER!!!!!!
One of the biggest challenges I overcame on becoming a mother is leaving my abusive relationship for the good of me and my child and it was the best decision I’ve ever made in my life.
One of my biggest challenges has been breaking generational norms? Behaviours? If that’s that you’d call them. Parenting differently to how I was raised and finding the courage to advocate that. My daughter and Arrow actually share the same birthday. Same year too! Your pregnancy content is what originally brought me to your channel 💜 @leannebaynes
The biggest challenge I had to overcome, was realizing my daughters father and I were not meant to be together. I was basically alone during my pregnancy and post partum, despite her being a planned pregnancy, I was basically a single-married mother of two, after having my first child if that makes sense. Deciding to leave was so hard, but the older she got, the more it hit me that the relationship was NOT it, and I didn't want that to be what she modeled relationships after. Best decision I ever made, but it was sooo difficult uprooting my entire life, with a one year old, and fighting PPD.
My biggest obstacle has been learning to be a mom of 2 and splitting my time between my newborn and my toddler ! And the biggest blessing of being a mom is hearing my kids laugh and smile it literally melts my heart! 🥰 I found you when I was pregnant with my first and I’ve never looked back you helped me get through so many different stages in my now toddlers life ! Thank you ❤️ _onevillage
One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood was becoming a mommy of two. I have a two year old and a four month old and I felt like I had to go through a grieving period of my daughter losing her only child spot and losing my full attention. I was afraid she’d feel like I replaced her. Super emotional pregnancy lol. One of my favorite parts of motherhood has been realizing that my love doesn’t get cut in half, it just grows bigger with two. Made my momma heart even more full. Thanks for the opportunity, Happy late Mother’s Day! ❤❤
I don’t have an instagram unfortunately. I could make one if I need to! 😅💕
Awe I remember this feeling sooooo well 🥹🤍 sending love, your doing great!
@@sadiebarnes4291 thank you so much!! 🥲
I totally have this feeling right now. I’m glad you shared your perspective. I feel a little better!
I felt this too! I have a 2.5 year old and a 5 month old. I cried numerous times for my two year old when I became pregnant. Now my girls are my world and my two year old is the best big sister
Biggest obstacle I overcame was Postpartum Depression. I was hospitalized 11 months PP due to depression/Axiety/PTSD. Unfortunately I was in the hospital for 2 weeks and missed my baby first birthday. That was the hardest thing I've ever been through. I have overcome my PPD and have now celebrated 2 of mybabies birthdays. Its still a daily battle in my mind knowing I missed her 1st birthday. Every mom dreams of that day.
My favorite part of motherhood is seeing the world through my babies eyes. It makes me more grateful and blessed.
So sorry you went through what you did, glad you are healing
I'm so sorry that you went through that, especially during a milestone. I'm glad that you're here and that you're doing better ❤
One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced since becoming a mom is realizing how much growth I’ve needed emotionally. Learning how to give my children the things I didn’t have, as in emotional stability, is challenging but so rewarding. Probably my favorite part of motherhood is how much love is brought into my life, I grew up very isolated, so it’s such a blessing to have the love between my children and I. Happy belated Mother’s Day!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My biggest challenges i overcame in motherhood was overcoming addiction before i got pregnant. I got pregnant at 22 and now im married with 3 kids and my life is more than i couldve ever imagined! My favorite thing of motherhood is seeing my children grow and learn something new everyday and seeing them smile and happy. Theres no better gift than motherhood ❤ happy mothers day!
My biggest hurdle was definitely post partum depression. I went untreated for almost 4 years because of pride and what I was afraid people would think of me and I actually sadly fell into postpartum psychosis and almost had to be hospitalized. Proud to say I am a survivor! I got on meds for a year and changed my life in every way. I’m currently weaning off my meds and I love my life. Never thought I would see the day.
Good luck to all the moms for winning the give away ❤❤❤
Biggest obstacle is convincing myself that I’m doing a good job. There are days I feel on top of the world super mom, and other days I feel like the world is falling on my shoulders. I’m not where I want to be, but I’m getting in a better mindset.
One of favorite parts about motherhood is seeing my kids learn something new. I get overly proud of the smallest of milestones hahaha.
Biggest challenge I overcame is learning to love myself more to be better for my daughter, my favorite part about being a mom is just watching her grow, smile and laugh, and just learning about the world. Just being around her makes me so happy, she always knows how to make me laugh 😂 she’s quite the comedian and I love her so much ❤ so happy Mother’s Day everyone!
One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood was becoming a single mom while pregnant, pregnant when I was sharing my brother's house with his friends and having my daughter and moving to a new county with a newborn on my own. Somedays I thought I would die of tiredness. One of my favorite parts of motherhood is the bond and love that I have with my daughter, she's my best friend.
Happy mother's Day to you! 🌷
Biggest obstacle I've overcome with motherhood is finally letting someone watch my kiddo it took 2 years not it happened. Motherhood can be so hard but it's important to have alone time.
One of my favorite things about motherhood is experiencing kiddos firsts! ❤
My biggest challenge I had so far in pregnancy I had really severe ppd and pp anxiety. I felt so alone, and wasn’t sleeping, barely eating it’s was so miserable. But my favorite part of motherhood is, what healing comes with it.
That white outfit is giving major Mean Girls era energy and I love it
Going back to work (unexpectedly) after my divorce has been the biggest obstacle/ overcome! Favorite part is watching my son grow and change daily. He’s becoming his own person and it’s incredible to watch!!!!
One of the biggest challenges is telling myself is telling myself I’m good enough. As a mom I never feel like I’m doing enough or good enough. So constantly telling myself I’m doing a good job. Favorite part of motherhood is seeing them grow and seeing smiles on their faces. I love them so much
One of my biggest challenge was being a single mom at 23 . No car, new apartment, new job. I saved money, got my own car and did not leave my apartment! Now married to an amazing man who took my son as if he was his and with two daughters ! The best mom about being a mom is sharing love so pure with other little humans ❤️
Hi Brittany! I love you and your channel and I truly appreciate your wholehearted honesty and openness throughout your mother hood journey 🤍 the biggest challenge I overcame/am still overcoming is l e t t i n g go. I’ve learned I can’t control every aspect of my day, my children’s day, what happens in our day, or really much of anything when it comes to having a baby and a toddler. I’m learning to go with the flow more and more even though this totally doesn’t come naturally to me as a type A gal. On the flip side one of my favorite parts of motherhood is what my children teach me- they teach me each day to be patient and kind and that if I spill ice cream all over the floor “it’s no big deal mommy” lol😅
Still overcoming! But I would say I have overcome is letting others help me! I have a 3 year old and a 6 months old and my first PP was extremely difficult. I lost my dad.. it was covid season.. I went through a lot of changes. So I made it missions this time to let family help me so postpartum isn’t as hard this time around.
Favorite part of motherhood is literally feeling like a superhuman. If I am proud of anything in life is being a mom. 😭😭
My biggest challenge as a mom is dealing with my own emotional regulation and realizing how much my own emotions play into how I parent my daughter. She is super sensitive and so am I and I have been working on my patience with her. My favorite thing about being a mom is watching the world through my daughter’s eyes. It has taught me whole new appreciation for the little things in life
One of the biggest challenges I overcame in motherhood, was becoming a Mommy of two, while battling the grief from losing my Dad.
My favorite part of motherhood, is watching my boys, seeing their relationship grow with their 7 year age gap, and the love that they have for one another is just next level. ❤ Happy Late Mothers Day 💕
Challenge - finding myself again.
Favourite part - living life through their eyes and watching them develop their own unique personalities.
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The biggest challange I have overcome is letting myself not feel guilty when my daughter is away from me. I used to feel so bad being away from her, but now I let myself relax. The best part of motherhood is seeing the world through your child's eyes. Seeing them get excited learning about the world around them
Biggest challenges for me are becoming a solo single mum and trying to navigate what life look like now, also trying to explain (in age appropriate way) to my daughter where dad is now. The best thing about being a mum is seeing my daughter grow and all the little inside jokes we have together.
The biggest thing I overcame when I became a mom was the feeling that I wasn't cut out to be a mom, or didn't have what it takes. Absolutely not the case! We're all incredible and are more than enough!
My biggest joy is seeing the world through my child's eyes. It has truely bought me so much joy and has made my world so much more vivid and colourful!
Thanks for another great video, as always ❤
My biggest challenge that I overcame with motherhood is accepting that people will think what they think about how you raise your child and I will raise my child “gently” if I want to. My favorite thing in motherhood is watching my son grow and develop into his own person and it makes me soooo happy yet so emotional. ❤❤❤
Happy Mothers Day Brittany. As per usual you are such an amazing human and mother. Thank you for the giveaway! I don’t have insta. I only have Facebook. How sweet of you to give a giveaway. I agree 100%, big events are so stressful and are always such a letdown.
Biggest challenge to overcome is finding a routine to balance my life as a mom with two kids. I have a 2 year old and a 4 month old and I’m only now figuring it out. The best part of being a mom is seeing my favourite little humans grow up. Watch my 2 year old learning and being so proud of herself. And seeing the beauty of my baby.
Thank you.
Biggest challenge: Postpartum recovery! I’m going through it for the second time right now. My little boy is one month today, my daughter is 3. Both times were rough for me physically.
My favorite part of motherhood: I’ve really found myself in being a mom. I’m not as afraid to stand up for myself, especially when it’s something that affects my kiddos. I’m more confident, less worried about what people think of me, more kind to myself, more patient, I feel like I’ve learned so much. I love this version of myself since having become a mom. My littles make me better ❤
Biggest challenge I overcame as first time mom is knowing I am enough as a mama. Struggling with breastfeeding really tripped up my mental health and making it over that hurtle was so hard. Now as my baby just turned one I struggle with wanting to wean her off the breast and even that has been so heart breaking. But I’ve learned that if I listen to my babies cues and needs then I’m doing the best I can. Happy Mother’s Day!! Your videos have been so helpful in my new motherhood ♥️🫶🏼
One of the biggest challenges i overcame in motherhood was becoming a teen mom and then being a single mom for years. I'm now married...5 biological children...4 bonus children...just living my best mom life. ❤️
Thank you! One of the challenges of motherhood was loosing myself as far as self care. To the point showering wasnt a priority lol in the very thick of it but fortunately that time passed. My favorite thing is just being present and witnessing my daughter’s growth and development rt before my eyes. i just love her so much and i feel so lucky to watch her grow🥰
The biggest challenge was forsure feeling like a default parent// like I was giving up more than my husband! The most rewarding part is the love, the little hand reaching for mine, the wet kisses, the purpose! 🫶🏻 happy mothers day!
the biggest challenge is being a mother of 2, it takes up all my energy
the best thing about being a mother is watching my children grow up and become beautiful, funny and so kind-hearted humans
I’ve been watching you since your teens and am in awe of the wonderful woman and mom you’ve become.
One of my biggest challenges as a mom was (I’m now an empty nester) was navigating mental health issues with my daughter! Happy to say she’s thriving now but WHEW what a ride.
One of the biggest challenges I’m still learning to overcome is accepting my mommy body. Especially post-partum second baby, I’m having much more trouble navigating a new sense of self.
One obstacle I am avidly working on is self regulating my emotions. As a 1st time mom who struggles w their mental health it has been challenging learning how to create healthy mindset even during difficult times. Motherhood has taught me self compassion and to give myself grace.
One of my favorite parts of motherhood is the relationship/bond I have with my son. It is different from any other relationship I’ve ever experienced. My son and I love to go on adventures (the park, zoo, museums)… making these memories together is so much fun and fulfilling. 💕
Good luck to you Brittany! & thank you for all of the advice & aesthetic you have brought to viewers like me! 💓
One of my biggest challenges was being diagnosed with cancer before she was 1. Chemo making me so sick and weak I couldn't do everything I wanted with her, but it's also what I have been grateful for the most...realizing how strong I can be for her and being grateful for every day. So thankful to see her grow up and learn new things every day.
The biggest challenge it's the sleep depravation, my kid it's over 3 years old and still wakes up at night 😭 but my favorite part it's to see her learning and becoming an independent little human, and loving that she still need me❤️
Happy mother's day Brit! 💖
One of the biggest challenges I e overcome in motherhood was losing my father suddenly 2 weeks before giving birth to my first daughter. Navigating grief during a time meant to be happy was very hard. One of my favourite parts about motherhood is watching my oldest daughter 2.5 interact with her sister 5 month old and seeing them adore one another.
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Hi Brittany! I completely agree about Mother’s Day being like bdays, wayy too much anticipation when if it was low key we’d all probably enjoy it more! Anywho, I don’t have IG but I’ll still answer your questions: the biggest challenge I’ve overcome in motherhood is not reacting (still not perfect) and trying to give a level response even when I’m tired, upset, and overstimulated. The thing I love most about motherhood is that it’s given me a purpose beyond what I had before, and I have a built-in best friend for the rest of my life. 🩷 Happy Mother’s Day. You are truly an incredible mom!
Hi Brittany - I have been following you from down under and love your warm and honest content. My biggest challenge was to accept my true self, by facing my blind spots and accepting my limitations as a mother, wife and person. My biggest joy was to discover the enormous supply of love I had hidden and never knew how to let out.
I think I’m living through the biggest challenge at the moment. My boyfriend/baby daddy said he fell out of love with me just recently and we’re taking a break, but I’ve noticed it’s been hard for me to navigate my emotions since birth, and I’m now 20 weeks pregnant. It’s so hard finding my way while waking up and still having to be a good mom to my sweet 16 month baby girl. As well as giving her time with her dad when I’m a sahm and with her 24/7.
The best part, is my girl 🩷 I love seeing her grow into her personality, and know what she wants/needs. I’m amazed by how smart she is and everything she picks up on. I’m so proud of myself at the end of the day when she is asleep by bedtime, I know she has a full tummy and heart, and that her day was full of laughter 🩷
I’m glad you enjoyed your Mother’s Day!
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The biggest challange I’ve overcome as a mom was to learn how to thrive not just survive after the birth of each of my kids (2 under 2). Came across your videos when I was pregnant with my first during COVID and felt so isolated, so thank you for being with for me through it all!
My baby boy Wes is almost 10 months now! Biggest challenge I overcame after becoming a mom is taking care of myself while taking care of my baby and finding some good rhythms. A lot of time my health (mental & physical) would be placed on the back burner and I’d find myself very burnt out and unhealthy. Now I have found some great rhythms that work to keep myself healthy so that I can be the best mom to my baby boy!
Happy past Mother's day and white outfit look gorgeous. My white outfits only for one time with toddler.
One, u love your videos and have been watching since I was pregnant, with my now 3.5 year old! And two, my biggest challenge, similar to you, was learning how to be a single Mum, learning how to go from being a wife, to a Mum, to having days when you don’t have any label when your child is gone. My partner was also abusive, so learning to love myself and appreciate and admire self. I am so happy admire my strength and courage! My biggest blessing and favourite thing about my daughter, is her pure happiness and joy! The joy she brings me and brings the world around her!
My biggest challenge I overcame in motherhood was learning that I was not my mother. I know a little bit of context is needed. My mother was not present and to this day still unavailable. I was afraid I wouldn’t be able to love my two beautiful daughters because I was never shown how to love. It took me 2 1/2 years to realize when someone told me they have never seen children so happy to know I have done my best and that they know I love them with all my heart. My favorite part about motherhood is the ability to see my babies grow into wonderful humans and grow their own personalities. ❤
I can’t say that I’ve completely overcome this challenge but I have made leaps and bounds of progress. The comparison game is crazzzzzy in motherhood. I didn’t realize I’d have to address and readdress this so often. I’d be in the middle of having the most fun with my kiddos and a thought of comparison would come up and start to ruin the moment. I want the best for my children and I’m truly doing the best that I can. And I know so many other moms are in the exact same boat. ❤
Biggest challenge, figuring out how to be a single parent and get back to work while not having any help from their father. 2&3 years old, it's been rough but it's working for now. It also makes every night cuddling before bedtime just the best part of every single day. Happy mother's day!
Biggest obstacle to overcome would be the process of finding out my daughter has Autism. She’s such a bright little girl! Watching my 3-year old son learn the different ways to play with her and watching him try so hard to protect her is one of the most amazing things to witness as a momma! Happy Mother’s Day! ❤
**I don’t have instagram or any social media but I do have an email 😆
Biggest struggle I overcame in motherhood was mom-guilt, started with not being able to breastfeed as my little one could not latch (thank you for your video btw on encouraging all mom's that at the end of the day what matters is baby is fed and happy, whether breast or bottle feeding) and also mom-guilt associated with pursuing your careers/dreams.
I'm so happy, and proud at the same time, to see how my daughter mature, grow up and become a wonderful person each day.
Happy mother's day to everyone, and thank you to all the mom's who's doing a wonderful and amazing job of taking care of your family! 🎉❤
First of all I love your content, feels like you are super real with us!
What I had to overcome was really bad postpartum depression and anxiety, I feel like it kind of stole those newborn moments from me.
What I am most grateful about being a mommy is watching my little human grow and learn and being one of his favorite people. (For now) 😅
Happy Mothers' Day, beautiful, Brittany! ❤
Omg how fun!
One of my biggest struggles with motherhood is mom guilt!
I need to work to give them a good life but when I work I’m not with them. It’s such a hard cycle. But I know all my hard work will be worth it.
Also watching them grow up so quick is so exciting but soo heart wrenching 🥹😭
My absolute favorite thing about being a mom is just that unconditional overwhelming love and connection.
There is no love like the bond between a mother and her babies 🥹😭🩷
Love this video! Well done Mama on raising such a confident girl with such a secure attachment that she can enjoy her independence !!❤
My biggest obstacle is learning to navigate the whole Mum guilt and accepting that filling my cup/self care is JUST as important as the unconditional, knows no bounds love, energy and care I show my 2 year old and 4 month old every single day - inherent people pleaser over here and I see this as ‘selfish’ which I know sounds ridiculous but it’s something I’m trying to work on so I don’t burnout and be the best version of me for my babies 🙏🩷💙 xx
The hardest part of motherhood for me was finding out at 35 weeks pregnant that my son had hydrocephalus, I was petrified because in that moment I didnt know what that meant for him - fastforward 2 years hes an amazing wonderful little boy - yes theres lots of surgeries, but he overcomes them so well. Hes the biggest blessing and the best thing that has happened to me and my husband.
I want to spread his bravery and his smiles everywhere I go.
Happy mothers day 🌻
One of my biggest challenges was having a colic baby that woke up every single hour for the first year of life and me and my husband moved to a different country when my son was 5 months old. I had to learn to do it all on my own but now he is three and is the happiest kid in the whole world I made a literal mini me and he is the smartest kindest little boy.
Biggest challenge for me has been not having a village. And my favorite thing is everything. I’m truly so proud of myself for overcoming every challenge by myself. 💗💗💗
I’m in the hospital about to give birth to my first born and watching your vlogs is so calming in between contractions 🥹 happy mamas day everyone!
Your so beautiful thanks for being you and being so real with us all ❤
Happy motherers day! One of the biggest challenges I've had to over come as a mother was last year I had to be the strongest for them and not let her know our world was falling apart. being abandoned by my girls father when I was 33 weeks pregnant with my 2nd baby girl. He had us drive across the country to relocate for work then told me he was in love with someone else there and left us homeless with nothing but a suitcase. Now a year later in our own apartment and everything they could ever need. I did it. My favorite thing is to be able to have all the moments with them and all the cuddles 💕 makes any hard days better.
Biggest challenge: getting over postpartum. It was a struggle to have my child be with other people. I needed to be with him at all times. I hated myself so much and I’m happier now.
Favorite part: watching my son grow and learn new things. Knowing I’m his best friend and he’s mine. I will also love him no matter what…. I don’t have instagram. ❤
I am a cycle breaker in motherhood. I have been able to cycle break physical and emotional abuse as well as addictions. Motherhood has been the same as opening an onion within myself and truly uncovering who I am and then learning to love me by loving my daughter the right way! My biggest obstacle has been believing in myself the right time and not questioning who I am!
My biggest challenge was facing my mental health problems. Dealing with severe anxiety, postpartum depression. Also trying to have a good relationship with baby daddy who also have a depression.
I think the biggest challenge I have overcame during. My motherhood is taking care of my mental health because motherhood has somehow opened a lot of my inner child 's wounds and I have to work a lot on healing Myself healing my inner child while raising my son so I'm very proud that I never let my old patterns or my limiting beliefs affect my journey of motherhood
One of my biggest challenges was how much my relationship with my partner suffered and working on it, although we are together and I couldn't consider it any other way, it is DIFFCULT. Also my favourite part is just seeing another human being grow and change, and how much love I can have for my child. ❤
One of the biggest challenges was being pregnant with an almost 3 year old. I am not a good pregnant woman, I had pelvis issues throughout my pregnancy which made it so I had a hard time walking, couldn’t lift over 10lbs, couldn’t sit on the floor or anything which made it very difficult with a toddler. I felt like I wasn’t able to play with him like he wanted me to and of course he didn’t understand why. Once baby came out, it was a lot better. My partner is very good at grabbing baby and letting play with our son… my favourite thing about motherhood is the unconditional love that you have for your kids. It’s almost a surreal feeling. What a gift it is to be able to experience this type of love🥰
Thank you for the opportunity to win this giveaway🩷
Favourite thing about motherhood is I grew up without family really so I finally feel like I have family cause of my little girl
Biggest obstacle has been learning to regulate my own emotions as I have been through a lot of trauma growing up. You don’t realise how unregulated you are till you have a child
Biggest challenge, juggling a toddler and a baby lol Favorite part of being a mom is all the little moments and getting to know who my daughters are 🥰
The struggle is real! As a mother, self sacrifice was the biggest challenge. I’m an older mother in my forties and never thought motherhood was possible for me. I owned and operated my business of 20 years and when I had my daughter I was forced to close my doors. My priorities got dramatically shifted. I lost a lot of independence and sacrificed a life I worked so hard to create. I’d do it all over a million times because nothing better than being a mama and watching my beautiful daughter thrive.
The hardest part was breastfeeding and staying strong. The best part is seeing her smile, laugh and enjoy the world around her! My little is 20 months 😢
My biggest challenge as a mother rn is navigating a safe space and place for my toddler to explore not just in the home environment but also in the community. Without always telling them. “No” or “don’t do that” lol
For me, as an immigrant was and still are the most challenging part-to be far away from relatives/parents without any even tiny bit support/help.
And sure thing motherhood is just a biggest gift indeed, yes, I’m kinda alone but the same time while my lil one around-I’m never alone.
Thank you for all your video, for motivation, inspiration 🤗
Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers here
My biggest challenge has been learning to adjust to life with 2 under 2 and finding time for me.
Biggest challenge was having my 1st baby in a homeless facility (hubby lost his shop and covid meant we both couldnt work in our choosen fields and we lived in a homeless place) was 21 but it really made me loose my identity. My body belonged to my little one and me and hubby didnt really have a sense of belonging.
My biggest challenge: healing my inner child tra*ma
My favorite part: feeling complete and whole. That “warmth” and “love” I was searching for is no longer. THIS IS ALL I NEEDED ALL ALONG. With or without a partner, this child will forever make me whole.
I love the yellow dress no belt.
The biggest challenge since becoming a Mom was going back to work and having my 12 week old go to daycare. It ended up being a blessing for both of us but was SO hard initially. The best thing about being a Mom is having someone that counts on you and makes you smile with the silly things they say. Also, getting hugs and kisses from her are priceless 🥰 @theaudreysampson
The biggest obstacle I had after postpartum was probably not knowing where my style or taste fell anymore because I was so different after having a baby.
But also, when I hit the one-year mark, I also had a really hard time struggling with my hormones made me pretty angry mood swinging and I was awful to get along with when I was ovulating still going through that 2 1/2 years later lol
I had to experience birth and not have family or friends around for the first 2 years of my sons life. The pandemic really messed up my first time experiences. I truly know what love is and now my life revolves around him and everything I do is for him and it's the best part about being a mom.
🙋🏻♀️ Hi! 😊 Biggest challenge: Accepting that, as ready as I thought I was to be a mom, I wasn't even close to being prepared for all that comes mentally! I love to talk openly with new moms to let them know they are not alone. Love that you do that too! Momming is hard, but when you stop to take the time to enjoy the smallest things, that's when you'll find the biggest joys. Today it was watching my 3 yr old trying to remove an eye boogie. Random and extra adorable 😂
Hi there, on of the biggest challenges I've faced was having to be a single mother and still overcoming all obstacles.. My son is now 14 years old and I couldn't be more proud.. My favorite part of being a mom is definitely bringing a decent well mannered young man into this world.. From a very proud mom.. ❤
Happy mother's day
Biggest challenge I overcame and still am is going through a separation when my son was 2. It has now been a year and I am still learning to navigate co parenting relationship with his dad. It was extremely hard for me as my son was through IVF and when we finally had him I thought my family would be complete. Now that he’s turning 4 in October its getting harder to explain the coparent dynamic. I am so grateful to be his mom and to be able to be called a mom as I never thought I would be. You inspired me in my journey through single motherhood and I want to thank you! I do not have social media for the entry
Thank you Brittany, your thoughtfulness is very admirable. One of the biggest challenges in motherhood is one I am still going through. I am a senior dental hygiene student in a very demanding program. My mother is my child care for my soon to be 3 year old, and she was recently diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer. My oldest brother came down from Alaska where he lives with his family since he's in the military. He offered to take care of my daughter in Alaska for me to focus on our mother, my studies, my national board exam, and husband. Although I am extrenmely grateful for him and his amazing wife, I cannot tell you how much I miss my sweet girl. She returns next week in time for my graduation on the 26th of May. Its been the longest 5 weeks of my life thus far, side note I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant. Now, onto the bright side of motherhood! The joy and true love she has blessed me with. Her giggles and kindness is intoxicating. Knowing I always have someone by my side is such a treat. Thank you again Brittany, I love your content, stay true to you, as thats what I love most about you. P.s. I don’t have an instagram…hopefully I can still be considered. Thanks doll.
mom challenge- figuring out a ever evolving balance
most fav part of being a mom- having a purpose
Biggest challenge I’m (currently working on) overcoming: respecting my 20yr old daughter’s no-contact boundary. Quick backstory- always a single Mama with full-custody, bio-father isn’t listed on the birth certificate, never given child support or been involved in any capacity. I have been clean/sober for the last over 15yrs, but my daughter’s working through her own feelings. Favorite part of motherhood: the truest love, deepest joy, learning experiences & growth that comes from parenting. Biggest blessing of my life is that my daughter changed me forever for the better. She is my soulmate & absolute love of my life. l don’t have social media anymore but have followed you for years & hope my entry will still be considered. It was the loneliest & hardest Mother’s Day yet for me, my Mama passed away 5yrs ago from Ovarian Cancer & was the first Mother’s Day with no communication from my daughter… the distance from both my own Mama & the one who calls me their Mama, was almost more than I could take. Hoping for happier years ahead & always sending love your way Britt! ❤❤❤
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Tbh, I’ve just had a really hard time accepting my new body. I miss my old body and even though I know it’s the same body and it did a beautiful thing creating life; it doesn’t feel like home. But I’m not paying to get these stretch marks lasered off my belly button until I know I’m done making more babies 😂
Yes, that was super tough for me as well!!
Biggest challenge that I’ve been overcoming (still working on) is dealing with chronic vertigo/stress symptoms since labor. I’ve really not been the same since and my daughter is 2.5 years… it’s hard trying to be present and focus on being joyful and happy in every moment with her while dealing with all these health issues. 🩵🥺 I don’t want to miss a moment though and although im not perfect, I’m trying.
Being a mom is the greatest accomplishment and joy of my life. I have more confidence and purpose than ever before. My daughter has molded and shaped me into a better human. I’d be lost without her! 🥹
Feeding my babies was my biggest challenge. The fear of under feeding my babies was ever present and left me with severe anxiety. I was pumping around the clock, sleep deprived and have intrusive thoughts - therapy was the only way I overcame it. Rationally I know ‘fed is best’, but geez, I really couldn’t get past all the ‘breast is best’ messaging that was pushed so hard on this new mum.
Where do I sign up for Mother’s Day island tho?!?!? 🤣🥰🥂🌅
Turns out my biggest challenge to overcome is actually getting pregnant 😞 2 years trying to conceive and nothing. So tired.
Biggest challenge was becoming a single mom having a CO parent just vanish
Favorite is watching them become their own true selves ❤
Don’t expect to win, haven’t even seen the prize yet 😂 but i thought I would answer your question anyway!
Challenge - I split up with my kids dad in January. And deciding to split the family unit was by far the hardest thing I have ever done. There are so many unknowns and uncertainties. It was just a very hard pill to swallow. (Just to add - the kids have adapted amazingly. My daughter is so young she didn’t really seem to take on too much and my son claims he is “lucky because he has 2 houses” and I think their dad and I’s relationship has benefited from being apart)
My favourite part of motherhood - it’s a toss up!! I LOVED breastfeeding and having that experience with both of my babies (they both took to it like pros luckily). It was just such a special time that i can’t really describe in words. BUT, I also LOOOOOVVVVVEEEEEE watching them learn something new - to see their faces finally understand what I’ve been saying or watching their pride as they achieve something they have practiced is the best feeling in the world…..
ACTUALLY sorry I change my mind and can’t be bothered deleting- my favourite thing is when my son says “I love you mummy” or if I say it to my daughter she puckers up for a kiss -- there’s no better feeling in the world
Just watched the rest of the video - sorry I don’t have insta - WELL DONE TO THE WINNER!!!!!!
Where is your dresser from @ 1:39? It is soooo cute!!
One of the biggest hurdles I overcame was to realize how much growth it actually is needed for me to be a parent. I don't have IG tho :(
One of the biggest challenges I overcame on becoming a mother is leaving my abusive relationship for the good of me and my child and it was the best decision I’ve ever made in my life.
One of my biggest challenges has been breaking generational norms? Behaviours? If that’s that you’d call them. Parenting differently to how I was raised and finding the courage to advocate that.
My daughter and Arrow actually share the same birthday. Same year too! Your pregnancy content is what originally brought me to your channel 💜
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The biggest challenge I had to overcome, was realizing my daughters father and I were not meant to be together. I was basically alone during my pregnancy and post partum, despite her being a planned pregnancy, I was basically a single-married mother of two, after having my first child if that makes sense. Deciding to leave was so hard, but the older she got, the more it hit me that the relationship was NOT it, and I didn't want that to be what she modeled relationships after. Best decision I ever made, but it was sooo difficult uprooting my entire life, with a one year old, and fighting PPD.
@BrittanyBalyn-On_TeIe-Gram Am I getting punkd or is this you babe @brittanybalyn
My biggest obstacle has been learning to be a mom of 2 and splitting my time between my newborn and my toddler ! And the biggest blessing of being a mom is hearing my kids laugh and smile it literally melts my heart! 🥰
I found you when I was pregnant with my first and I’ve never looked back you helped me get through so many different stages in my now toddlers life ! Thank you ❤️ _onevillage
so many comments and no one's leaving their ig handles 🤣