Moral of story the grass aint always the greener on the otherside 🤷♀️ you need to make peace with yourself, heal, and move on. You can still turn your life around even if its alone.
Lady, no use of regretting it now. You reap what you sow. Move on and learn from your mistakes. Always move forward and don’t regret anything. On the bright side, you did your ex-husband a huge favor by leaving him. He would still be going to jail every day if he is still married to you. 😂
Thank you for sharing your story. I learned so much from listening to your story. Takes alot to admit your faults and i am goad that you can see them now. We all make mistakes especially when we were young. You and your ex probably got married young like most of us and thats why you always wondered if there were better out there. In the end, they are worse than what you started with. This is a great story! People will say whatever they want after hearing your story but i just want to thank you. 1) makes me love my husband more even though he drives me nuts at times. 😂 2) chasing the next high (guy) is never a good thing because those feelings are only temporary. 3) appreciate what you have and be thankful for the little things your spouse do for you on the daily. 4) believe it that there are too many under the bridge no good low life basters who still have not learn their lessons from first marriages. 5) don’t be so quick to jump to action when it can cause severe damage to your relationship(s). Thank you niam ntsuab teem, as always you dont disappoint.
If you are that unhappy, it's best to be alone. And regardless of how you and your husband feel about each other. You can't keep stop him from seeing and going to see his kids. Those are his kids, They will always come first, before you.
Niam tshuab teev aw kv hmoog kj neej neeg no es kv Nim zoo zoo siab Tias kuv Tus txiv TSI Tham hluas nkauj thiab kv niam Pog hlub hlub kuv es kv zoo siab heev li kv yuav tsi muaj hnub nrauj li os
You are the perfect example of WHAT NOT TO DO! You are a very selfish person from the get-go. You want something that is out of your reach and expect your husband to be something he's not. You deserve everything that happened to you. Please learn to love yourself and stop seeking advancement in others. Neeg siab phem thaum kawg yeej tau txoj kev phem. You are niam nkaum kub kaws is this centry.
It's ok we all make mistakes. You're not the only one who made a mistake like this. We don't know what's ahead of us but we can always learn from our past and accept it. It's going to be very hard but don't blame yourself too much. There was a reason why you went the path you did. Don't live a life with too much regrets. At the time, you did what you did because your ex husband couldn't meet your needs. Don't beat yourself up too much. I hope you find love and can find the strength to let go of your past. It's ok to be sad but make sure to love yourself and know that things happened for a reason. You deserve to be happy too, we all do. Take care.
You're looking for love and success in all the wrong places. You need to work on yourself and find your own success. You can't rely on someone else to bring you the life and success you seek. Stop making excuses and regretting all the past choices. They are all water under the bridge now.
Your biggest mistake was not appreciating a spouse who works hard to pay the bills. That’s the number one thing I look for in a spouse. Looks, the way they dress, their type of job means nothing if they are irresponsible, unfaithful, and reckless.
Sim neej no ces poj niam hmoob tsis sawm zoo tiag3 es ntshaw ntshaw cov txiv neej li no kawg es txhob chim chim os yuav tsum zoo siab nawb uas tau raws li nej poj niam hmoob lub niag siab ntshaw plias
First you are the bad one, absolutely 💯 %, But on second thought, glad you see your mistake. Remember no one can change you but yourself. Sister some mistakes can’t be undo, you can take this life lesson and not to repeat it. It is your heart the issue, not others. Acknowledging one’s mistakes is a first step towards a better life.
So what is the moral of your story? You only have regrets because your new marriage is failing yet you don't have any positive feedbacks/advices to your story.
Lol, it’s a karma and regret what she did to others that now she realize this current husband did exactly what she did to her ex. Her ex should be thx her current husband for teach her a lesson of don’t do to others what you don’t want others do to you. Heev neeg muaj heev tsim
Sometimes you make decisions in our lives that we just cannot take back. Whether it's for selfish reasons or immaturity reasons. While We're Young we think there's other opportunities out there for us. Sometimes there isn't sometimes there isn't. Sometimes the risk we take brings us a much more fulfilled life sometimes depending on what we did in the past to get there we end up reaping what we sow
Kuv ma pab koj tus txiv zoo siab tshaj nrauj dim ib tug poj niam zoo li koj os poj hmoob aw cas ho tau luag los hais li kov os neeg plam cas yog koj lawm thov kom ntuj muab txoj kev zoo rau tu zoo muab tu phem rau tu phem li koj
Ne ne2 yog cov poj niam lim2 hiam es ho mus tau lub neej tsis txog twg ko no ces kuj khoob cov txiv neej uas raug2 oj niam tsim txom qhov ntswg thiab mas paub lig heev lawm lau tus niam tsev
@@ThePrincessWorrior Agreed, but she’s always jumping from men to men. It would be great if she can be alone but most Hmong people always need a partner.
If your cheating life went well and you had success, you wouldn’t think twice about missing your ex husband. You really gave up your husband and kids for the steers. What a shameful life you chose.
You've made your mistakes like every human being on this earth. Don't punish yourself with your current husband. Move on to find your happiness. Nobody on this earth is perfect, even those that look down on you.
Sorry but not sorry. You made your choices. You’ve hurt him enough. Your ex is lucky you left him opening doors for him to a better marriage. Tsis yog txoj hmoov tsis sawm. Koj twb muaj txoj hmoo tau tus txiv zoo2 thiab hlub2 koj tab sis koj Tsis yeem txoj hmoo ntawd. The grass is not always greener on the other side. On a side note, you should love and respect yourself and evaluate your abusive relationship. You are still young. Go get an education, take time to get to know yourself first and don’t get into another relationship until you know what you want in life. Koj tus txiv zoo2 koj twb nrauj tau cas niag txiv siab phem no koj ho tsis muaj peev xwm nrauj tau ces yog npam xwb. Good luck to you.
U thought the grass is greener on the other side only to find a desert with no grass at all. Women, and men, like u will never be satisfied with what u have until THIS happens to u and then u live with regrets. That's ONLY when u start to appreciate what you had. If u hadn't divorced your 1st ex, you would be miserable forever and u would make his life miserable 100xs more forever.
It’s okay to be alone. Own up to your mistakes and move on. Ain’t nothing new, there’s other people like you out there. No one needs to know that you have change your ways now except your children. Stop holding on to your ex husband. Be alone and find happiness with yourself and your kids.
You have met your match! I'm so proud of you. Now I need a drink after hearing your story. Your are a very complicated person. If any that's all I got from here. You deserve everything that happened to you.
Ua txij nkawm nyob thaum sib nrauj poj niam lub siab phem tawm tuaj ces phem nkaus li tus phij nyuaj vais tab sis heev npaum cas los thaum kawg yeej muaj tus heev tshaj muab tua tau thiab txhob lim2 hiam mog cov me poj niam ua neeg nyob paub hnub no tsis paub tag kis lub neej yuav hloov li cas
Cas koj thiaj ysus txawj txaj muag tiag lau. Twb yog tim koj lub neej thiaj puas tsam no tseem khuv xim ua dab tsi na. Move on xwb txho. Khuv2 xim lawv taunted zoo lawm lasts is k koj os. Yog tus koj tsis zoo ces move on nrhiav tshiab xwb. Xu siab dhau lawm txhob hai los tias koj tus mi txiv txaj muag heev pob. Thaum ub koj twv muab koj tus txiv xa es hnub no koj yuav tuaj ntxias li ko kom koj tus txiv rov yuav koj no. Npau suav xwb os niam tais aw!
Luag niaj hnub hais tias ua zoo tau zoo ua phem tau phem ces li no ntag os lawv tsis yuav tag tias tau phem hauv dab teb tau phem saum neej teb lawm ntag nawj
Tus niam tsev aw....txhob tu siab os nawb koj twb rhuav tshem tau tus txiv ruam2 hauv koj lub neej thiab koj twb mus tau tus uas raws2 koj lub siab lawm txawm yuav iab thiab daw los ua ib siab nqos mus........
Lady, you deserve everything coming at you. Neeg tsis sawm zoo nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb
Agreed!
Moral of story the grass aint always the greener on the otherside 🤷♀️ you need to make peace with yourself, heal, and move on. You can still turn your life around even if its alone.
Lady, no use of regretting it now. You reap what you sow. Move on and learn from your mistakes. Always move forward and don’t regret anything. On the bright side, you did your ex-husband a huge favor by leaving him. He would still be going to jail every day if he is still married to you. 😂
Koj mas thiaj yog tseem tseem maum dev Liam txwv tiag...
Thank you for sharing your story. I learned so much from listening to your story. Takes alot to admit your faults and i am goad that you can see them now. We all make mistakes especially when we were young. You and your ex probably got married young like most of us and thats why you always wondered if there were better out there. In the end, they are worse than what you started with.
This is a great story! People will say whatever they want after hearing your story but i just want to thank you.
1) makes me love my husband more even though he drives me nuts at times. 😂
2) chasing the next high (guy) is never a good thing because those feelings are only temporary.
3) appreciate what you have and be thankful for the little things your spouse do for you on the daily.
4) believe it that there are too many under the bridge no good low life basters who still have not learn their lessons from first marriages.
5) don’t be so quick to jump to action when it can cause severe damage to your relationship(s).
Thank you niam ntsuab teem, as always you dont disappoint.
You ruined your own marriage! Cheaters will always cheat. Karma is real when you met your matched.
Yus yog tus neeg siab phem ces yus lub neej yeej mus tsis txog txij twg.
If you are that unhappy, it's best to be alone. And regardless of how you and your husband feel about each other. You can't keep stop him from seeing and going to see his kids. Those are his kids, They will always come first, before you.
Niam tshuab teev aw kv hmoog kj neej neeg no es kv Nim zoo zoo siab Tias kuv Tus txiv TSI Tham hluas nkauj thiab kv niam Pog hlub hlub kuv es kv zoo siab heev li kv yuav tsi muaj hnub nrauj li os
This story make me feel so proud to be married to my beloved husband, my high school sweetheart, my soul mate.
Right, me too!!! AMEN🙏🥰❤
ca kj lub neej nim zoo kiag li kv lub thiab nco tu qub tsaj qhv hai tau
You are the perfect example of WHAT NOT TO DO! You are a very selfish person from the get-go. You want something that is out of your reach and expect your husband to be something he's not. You deserve everything that happened to you. Please learn to love yourself and stop seeking advancement in others. Neeg siab phem thaum kawg yeej tau txoj kev phem. You are niam nkaum kub kaws is this centry.
Koj yog 1 tus pojniam liam heev.
😊😊😊
Wow cas nws yuav ua tau tshaj ua luaj li thiab o...muab ua phem dhau lawm o lawv
Txoj kev ntshaw txiv zoo nraug ntshaw txiv muaj nyiaj ntshaw txiv txawj sib ua ces nyuam qhuav haum li koj xwb tseem tsawg
A good lesson to be learned...If you have a loving spouse right now; grass is not greener on the other side!
MAY PLEASE TELL MY STORY NEXT?..”Txiv 🐕 yog Txiv NEEJ Moob”
It should be kuv cov txiv hmoob yog txiv dev. Lol.
Txhob tham zoo dua.cas tsis txaj muag tseem tham tawm thiab,
This. If this was my egg, I keep quiet.
It's ok we all make mistakes. You're not the only one who made a mistake like this. We don't know what's ahead of us but we can always learn from our past and accept it. It's going to be very hard but don't blame yourself too much. There was a reason why you went the path you did. Don't live a life with too much regrets. At the time, you did what you did because your ex husband couldn't meet your needs. Don't beat yourself up too much. I hope you find love and can find the strength to let go of your past. It's ok to be sad but make sure to love yourself and know that things happened for a reason. You deserve to be happy too, we all do. Take care.
You're looking for love and success in all the wrong places. You need to work on yourself and find your own success. You can't rely on someone else to bring you the life and success you seek. Stop making excuses and regretting all the past choices. They are all water under the bridge now.
A hoooooo will always be a hoooo let this be a lesson to all women don't be a hooooo hahah but I love hooosssss haha
They always say you’ll never find happiness if you can’t appreciate what you already have.
Your biggest mistake was not appreciating a spouse who works hard to pay the bills. That’s the number one thing I look for in a spouse. Looks, the way they dress, their type of job means nothing if they are irresponsible, unfaithful, and reckless.
It’s ok to start loving yourself and be alone. You don’t need a man to be happy. Don’t need a husband to complete your life.
Niag tsov Tom poj Niam...
Sim neej no ces poj niam hmoob tsis sawm zoo tiag3 es ntshaw ntshaw cov txiv neej li no kawg es txhob chim chim os yuav tsum zoo siab nawb uas tau raws li nej poj niam hmoob lub niag siab ntshaw plias
why do we think the grass is greener out there??? you won't get to this stage if you just water your own garden, nuture and water it smfh
Hi what’s your fb? Or number you cute
Cov poj niam coj li koj coj no mas peb cov txiv neej hmoob mas ntxub tag ib sim neej li nawb
I could never understand why people can leave a good person but can’t leave a bad one 🤦♂️
It's called Hmong noj quav nyuj laus!
Agreed!!!
He he haw
Koj yuam kev loj kawg nkaus tus me niam tsev koj tus qub txiv yog ib tug neeg siab ntev ntev zoo zoo kawg pab koj tu siab os viv ncaus
Ho yau ca nim yuav hia tia Yog daim ntawv na niag neeg Tsi tsim txiaj xav tau ntau Xwb txhob liam rau daim ntawv os yom os
Neeg npam yeej nyiam coj tus kheej mus piav qhia teb chaws
First you are the bad one, absolutely 💯 %, But on second thought, glad you see your mistake. Remember no one can change you but yourself.
Sister some mistakes can’t be undo, you can take this life lesson and not to repeat it.
It is your heart the issue, not others.
Acknowledging one’s mistakes is a first step towards a better life.
Txhob khuv xim lawm os..nov lau kev khaum kev npam os
Haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim.
Qub dev qub ntxiab qub neeg qub siab txawm yuav ua poj nrauj tsawg lo yeej tsis kawg yog av tsis lig ces yeej tsis hloov li kawg os
Wow this lady is just crazy one thing after another great thing you learn your lesson…
Koj nhriav nyiaj xwb koj tsis nhriav kev hlub thiab lub neej zoo. Koj yog tus tsim kev phem mas tsis tsim nyog koj pheej txeeb menyuam mus los.
So what is the moral of your story? You only have regrets because your new marriage is failing yet you don't have any positive feedbacks/advices to your story.
Lol, it’s a karma and regret what she did to others that now she realize this current husband did exactly what she did to her ex. Her ex should be thx her current husband for teach her a lesson of don’t do to others what you don’t want others do to you. Heev neeg muaj heev tsim
Only regret when ur next life was not what u wanted too bad for u
Ruam dhau os koj na. Neeg g sawm zoo txhob hais² thiaj g raug thuam os
Vim txoj kev khaus xwb txhob Liam rau txoj moo. Xav tias txoj kev zoo Nyob yuav kav ib txhis
Sometimes you make decisions in our lives that we just cannot take back. Whether it's for selfish reasons or immaturity reasons. While We're Young we think there's other opportunities out there for us. Sometimes there isn't sometimes there isn't. Sometimes the risk we take brings us a much more fulfilled life sometimes depending on what we did in the past to get there we end up reaping what we sow
Kuv ma pab koj tus txiv zoo siab tshaj nrauj dim ib tug poj niam zoo li koj os poj hmoob aw cas ho tau luag los hais li kov os neeg plam cas yog koj lawm thov kom ntuj muab txoj kev zoo rau tu zoo muab tu phem rau tu phem li koj
I've heard a lot of stories about bad girls. You git to be on the top of that list.
Koj tau raws nkaus li koj txoj kev ntshaw lawm ma tus niam tsev...
Niam Ntsuab teev koj mas nim yog ib tug kws muaj tswvyim thaam txug tuabneeg tej neej mas kuj zoo noog hab lomzem kawg le os nawb thank you
Tiam no ntuj nyob qis2 tus txijnkawm twg siab phem ces npam sai2 kawg li. Ua neej yeej muaj teebmeem, txomnyem yuav tsum uv kom dhau. Mloog niam/txiv kwvtij neejtsa hais 1 txhia txhob coj cwjpwm twmxeeb ua kom zoo yus siab xwb, neej thiaj tsis puas tsuaj.
It's a different story when the table is turn around... you reap wat you sow
Ne ne2 yog cov poj niam lim2 hiam es ho mus tau lub neej tsis txog twg ko no ces kuj khoob cov txiv neej uas raug2 oj niam tsim txom qhov ntswg thiab mas paub lig heev lawm lau tus niam tsev
You left your txiv tsev for a bunch of txiv devs 🙄🙄🐶
Koj hlub koj pab txiv tub ces Koj twb tau zoo os me Koj niam 🤣🤣🤣
Tus mes Viv ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas koj ces lug dhaus lawm os Viv ncaus Cia los nrog peb ua poj nrauj thiaj tsi khib peb mas viv ncaus
Everyone make bad decision. At least she admitted and realized her mistake. Thank you for sharing. May you are very good story teller.
You messed up, but instead of longing for the past you need to leave your current husband and go find someone else that will treat you better.
Or be alone.
Why need a guy, when no guy would fulfill her desires anyway
@@ThePrincessWorrior Agreed, but she’s always jumping from men to men. It would be great if she can be alone but most Hmong people always need a partner.
You don’t need a husband like your current husband. You can live alone
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😊😊
Now you admitted your faulty inner greedy then it wast too late.
If your cheating life went well and you had success, you wouldn’t think twice about missing your ex husband. You really gave up your husband and kids for the steers. What a shameful life you chose.
Koj Yog niag pog xyob txhiaj. Hu police rau txhua tus Neeg kom koj yeej
Tab sis Koj Yog tus swb txhua yam
Qhuav Ntxim xwb os koj na
POJLIAB AWARD OF THE YEAR!!! Koj mam keej thiab ntse tshaj plaws!!!
You've made your mistakes like every human being on this earth. Don't punish yourself with your current husband. Move on to find your happiness. Nobody on this earth is perfect, even those that look down on you.
Sorry but not sorry. You made your choices. You’ve hurt him enough. Your ex is lucky you left him opening doors for him to a better marriage. Tsis yog txoj hmoov tsis sawm. Koj twb muaj txoj hmoo tau tus txiv zoo2 thiab hlub2 koj tab sis koj Tsis yeem txoj hmoo ntawd. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
On a side note, you should love and respect yourself and evaluate your abusive relationship. You are still young. Go get an education, take time to get to know yourself first and don’t get into another relationship until you know what you want in life. Koj tus txiv zoo2 koj twb nrauj tau cas niag txiv siab phem no koj ho tsis muaj peev xwm nrauj tau ces yog npam xwb. Good luck to you.
Koj yog 1 tug poj niam liam tsis tsim txiaj.xuaj2 li koj thiaj zoo li koj
kj yog ib tug poj niam siab dev es tau txiv zoo ho g xav hlub ces nyuam ntxim xwb os
U thought the grass is greener on the other side only to find a desert with no grass at all. Women, and men, like u will never be satisfied with what u have until THIS happens to u and then u live with regrets. That's ONLY when u start to appreciate what you had. If u hadn't divorced your 1st ex, you would be miserable forever and u would make his life miserable 100xs more forever.
It’s okay to be alone. Own up to your mistakes and move on. Ain’t nothing new, there’s other people like you out there. No one needs to know that you have change your ways now except your children. Stop holding on to your ex husband. Be alone and find happiness with yourself and your kids.
Cov poj niam lim hiam li ko mas muaj kev khaum kev npam
You wanted a ever one man. Now you got it. So don’t complain.
Thov hais dua ib zaug ntxiv cov poj nrauj yuav tsum muab Nyiaj txhua txhua zaus rau tus txiv cov me nyuam thaum menyuam tuaj xyuas koj tus txiv neb vim lawv hlub lawv cov menyuam tshaj lawv hlub koj thiab tsis txhob nroo txog koj tus txiv yug childspport vim yuav yug nws tus poj niam thiab luag hlub tshaj hlub koj
Kuv khuv xim tus hlub2 kv tsaj li thb os niam tsuab teev aw xyov puas muaj txoj hmoo tau tsib nw lm os🥺🥺🥺🥺
You have met your match! I'm so proud of you. Now I need a drink after hearing your story. Your are a very complicated person. If any that's all I got from here. You deserve everything that happened to you.
that mean men who chose this woman then chose jail cuz she always call the police for her husband. a cheater woman will be a cheater forever.
You’re tasting your medicine. It’s all your doing no one else
Ua txij nkawm nyob thaum sib nrauj poj niam lub siab phem tawm tuaj ces phem nkaus li tus phij nyuaj vais tab sis heev npaum cas los thaum kawg yeej muaj tus heev tshaj muab tua tau thiab txhob lim2 hiam mog cov me poj niam ua neeg nyob paub hnub no tsis paub tag kis lub neej yuav hloov li cas
I don’t understand this new trend of sending the husband to the relatives! It is the most absurd idea!
Koj yog ib tug poj niam phem kawg. Yus ntshaw muaj nyiaj ces yus mus khwv xwb.
Npam los más vim yus txoj kev ua phem ne.
Koj tsis hlub koj tus txiv es koj npam lawm xwb os tus viv ncaus
Luag tej laus 1 txwm hais tias luam zoo thawj ntsug es txij nkawm zoo thawj tug no ne paub lawm los pob zaum no na.
Got what you desired, so what’s the problem. I never understand this woman’s problem. Sorry can not turn back time. Good luck.
Tej laus hais tias , Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tswj, phem neeg muaj phem neeg tsim. Yog tiag2 laiv.
Yus ua phem ce yus yeej tau qhov phem os
Cas koj thiaj ysus txawj txaj muag tiag lau. Twb yog tim koj lub neej thiaj puas tsam no tseem khuv xim ua dab tsi na. Move on xwb txho. Khuv2 xim lawv taunted zoo lawm lasts is k koj os. Yog tus koj tsis zoo ces move on nrhiav tshiab xwb. Xu siab dhau lawm txhob hai los tias koj tus mi txiv txaj muag heev pob. Thaum ub koj twv muab koj tus txiv xa es hnub no koj yuav tuaj ntxias li ko kom koj tus txiv rov yuav koj no. Npau suav xwb os niam tais aw!
Kaw ib tug ce tìm lawv kaw ob tug ce tìm yu phem dua
tus poj laib koj mas luag tsis paub luag thiaj li yuav koj xwb os yog kuv ces yeej tsis yuav koj li os
Koj mas thiaj lim hiam tiag tiag pab koj txaj muag kawg kiag
Niag maum dev liam ntawd koj deserves what you got koj txoj kev npam los txog koj lawm os niag dev liam tshaj qhov liam
Txhob muab liam rau txoj hmoo os, yog vim koj lub siab thiab koj tus kheej yeej yog neeg liam thiab khib xuab xwb.
Let this story be a lesson for those ladies or men out there that have the same thoughts. As the old saying, dev tsis sawm zoo.
I don't feel sorry for this lady. She took advantage of her husband. Yeah, you old him many lifetimes.
Tsis txhob khuv xim os. Koj twb tau qhov koj ntshaw lawm nev
Ruag tiag2 🙄🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
It’s not luck, or npam. You made choices. You made your bed, now lay in it!
kuj nrauj kiag pov tseg xwb yuav ua dab tsi no g nrauj tam sim no los lwm hnub koj laus mi ntsis ces nws yeej yuav nrauj koj thiab ov
Luag niaj hnub hais tias ua zoo tau zoo ua phem tau phem ces li no ntag os lawv tsis yuav tag tias tau phem hauv dab teb tau phem saum neej teb lawm ntag nawj
Tus niam tsev aw....txhob tu siab os nawb koj twb rhuav tshem tau tus txiv ruam2 hauv koj lub neej thiab koj twb mus tau tus uas raws2 koj lub siab lawm txawm yuav iab thiab daw los ua ib siab nqos mus........
Koj pheej ntshaw txiv hnav xam koos thiab muag insurance nes
Ma.koj txhob Hai seev seev as thiaj zoo mloog
You may have heard a proverb the dog carried a piece of meat walk across a wood log above the river.
Cas tseem muaj plhus tuaj piav qhia ntiaj teb no hnov koj txoj kev qias neeg thiab naw…..
Koj yog kev npam xwb vim koj lim hiam thiaj npam li kos .
She told her story in hopes of helping others. The grass isn't always greenier on the other side. A story for people to learn from.
Koj yuam kev laws os 🙂
Nog tag ua tau ib npo kev npia kev kawm tsau kuv
ohhyooo😮
npam xwb os. ua ua poj laib ces niam pog thiaj tsi xam muaj.