in another 5 years, all this will be behind you. You wont need to cover coz you'll be healed 90 percent and in a new relationship living like everyone else. Amazing how the human mind and body heals itself given time and patience. I see many good prospects coming your way. Brave Heart, you'll be motivating and inspiring others in life too. God Bless YOU!!
Umm just to find out more haha i thought those burns will not fully recover as it is quite major. I think it would heal gradually but not fully to an extent.
i like your optimism but alas this will most probably be a lifelong issue.... she had 80% burn coverage and most of them looked like 2nd degree burns with some areas like her wrists and arms most likely more 3rd degree.... depending on the individual, the skin would heal but would also be quite fragile.... the skin can even crack with excessive movement or if the skin was not constantly moisturized.... it will be a battle for likely the rest of her life.... some people take to the grafts well and the appearance can be somewhat normal looking with very distinct edges, 9:07 some people start developing keloid like puffiness.... skin around the joints must always be exercised, massaged and moisturized.... it is really a tough lot to bear... a heavy burden for a young person to deal with....
lets be practical, she will never heal. My doctor told me her scars will remain. Sorry to side track to another story where Singaporeans pitied one young lady. Not sure if you guys remember, less than 20 years ago, a couple got married at the Hilton Singapore , that same night, while the bride was showering, the groom left the room and went to another floor, he then fell off the Hilton Singapore . The bride had alot of media attention, alot of support from our countrymen. She went back to live with her maiden family family because of her deeo sorrow. Periodically, when she temporary recovered from sorrow, there would be media upates. After some years, she jumped off a building. So i feel that, the media should leave Raybe alone , not keep pumping
@@user-ur8zb9xp7l i honestly do not agree with your correlation because one sounds to be an accident and the other an act of reckless abandon that did not pan out... it is not a popular subject in singapore but mental health is a real thing. everybody breaks if pushed hard enough. however, time is really a great medicine. it heals a great deal of trauma if used judiciously. assuming that the groom's accident was the main reason to offing herself years later, the bride-was likely left alone in her grief for too long.... you should never let a person with depression have too much time for idle thoughts.... fill the time with activities and be surrounded by cheerful watchful people.... distract the patient with responsibilities and do not let their minds wander uncontrollably. set goals with their interests previously and achieve them one at a time... show them that there is much more to achieve and do in life... life is tough now but everybody would be walking through it with them... the patient must feel needed and not ignored like damaged goods... the depressed person would most certainly lash out and want to be alone, wallowing in often destructive self-pity but the people around must hunker down and take the abuse. the proverbial "unpuncturable" rubber ball... my standard for self-pity should be 2 months max.... then the tough job of snapping the person out of this condition starts. it is likely not pretty and an emotional roller coaster for all parties involved, but it is what it is. if you "volunteer" to be the cheerleader, then you better have your own traumas wired up tight.... you would likely take on some of the patient's trauma through empathy... then time would kick in and do its thing.... how long would it take? as long as it takes.... there will then usually be a dramatic event or occurrence that would allow closure... this has to happen and then the light would be at the end of the tunnel.... would medication help? yes, but it is not a long term solution.... you would likely never "fix" the trauma, but the patient has to preferably address it head-on and seek that closure. the trauma has to be recognized. only then can that person compartmentalize and move on.... it is by no means an easy process... tough cases can test one's patience to the limit, but that emotional distress has to be recognized and honoured so instead of blaming the media, i would rather speculate that the people around her did not address her mental health adequately and kinda swept it all under the rug, the way asians like to do it... the western way would rather prescribe lots of medication and practically keep the depressed person in a borderline dream state. does not really help either.... all said and done, barring cases of physical biological and chemical imbalance in the brain, it is mainly personality and environment that can lead to these mental health issues. at one point, the patient would have to understand that whatever happened was truly unfortunate and they alone would have to suck it up and move on. everybody is around them rooting to lend a helping hand, but they have to stand up themselves and take it. in the case of raybe, i do not know her personally, but the very act that gotten her so badly burnt and her near miracle of surviving the healing process is nothing short of grit and heroism in my books. she is still unable to show her scars and she is not very religious about taking care of her condition now because she still has trauma yet to be addressed. she has a mindset that her life is effectively over... she is just trudging through the motions of life... it obviously did not help that she was also quite physically attractive and most women base their existence mainly on physical validation. all i can say is that i personally do not see those burn scars as a minus... her character outshines whatever has happened to her skin-deep. i truly believe that. she did not hesitate to sacrifice her well being for her partner.... in what other way can a partner prove their loyalty and love? if i ever met a girl like so, i can see past those scars and see the real person. i would encourage her that there was no need to cover up her story... stand tall and proud and understand that very few people would be able to act like her in a crisis... the scars do not diminish her as a person. i would tell her that she may not win the miss singapore pageant this lifetime because those pageants are for clueless people.... she is already in a league of her own with no competition in sight.... haiz.... i cannot help berating the fact that her partner did not value her enough to at least look out for his own well-being... he was a grown ass man.... this inevitable crash and burn (i do not strictly qualify it as an "accident" because it diminishes the stupidity of the driver's and gang of four's thought processes) was so unnecessary and avoidable...
Miss Oh...u r one of the bravest person i know..thanks for encouraging us with your vulnerability..and to your mommy too...my salute. and shoutout to your goodfriend Lynn
Hi Rabel,I read about the accident on the papers when it happened those years back. I do not know you and yet i felt your bravery and love for your boyfriend and friends when you rushed to help them. You have stayed in my mind all these years. Although i do not know you, i prayed daily for you to recover physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally even though i don't know your name.I just prayed for the young lady who got badly burnt. And how happy i was to see you on the video. Also to see you with a positive outlook in life. You are amazing.
She is asking for it. What they are doing is OUTRAGIOUS. Yet, she is specking out to be heroic. These will signal people to think what she is doing is cool.
@@ongernie7216imagine saying this to a person who has suffered so much? Imagine if this was said to you or a close loved one who has experienced this.
Wow what a beautiful story about an inspirational human being. Raybe Oh, you are already in the top 1% of incredibly selfless people in this world, and we should all aspire to have your spirit.
Kinda weird to be glorifying this lady, who was encouraging her friends to speed and race their cars. People who do that are no different from murderers. I feel sorry for her, yes, but some people are going overboard with their praises like she is some messiah 😂
I loved how this movie was edited, especially the end when she revealed her face - it doesn't matter what she "looks like" because she's always beautiful!
May God bless and uphold you brave girl from challenges through recovery , life rebuild . May God’s light shine on you and your family for each and everyday Amen 🙏💪❤️
世上只有妈妈好！Glad to know that you are so strong for your family and yourself especially for your mum. Always be positive and look forward for a better tomorrow.Keep it up Raybe you are doing great!
I don't always leave a comment on UA-cam but I am really touched by her actions & impressed with her strong will. It will really be a mentally challenging period for her but her mature acceptance of reality will allow her to experience a world more beautiful than before. All the best Raybe!
Thank you Raybe for sharing your story. I know the journey is so tough and long but your bravery is inspiring. I agree with what you said at the end that some times it's better to do a painful thing than to regret, and that everything happens for a reason, whether good or bad, they are important chapters in our story and we have to own it and just keep moving forward. That spoke to me in this low season of my life. Thank you and my blessings to you. Yes I would love to hear you sing getai some day!
Jiayou Raybe! You have one of the most beautiful souls I know of. I hope your skin will slowly heal with the advancement in medical technologies. Regardless, you are incredibly brave and beautiful in my eyes. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and letting us understand and learn from your perspectives and experiences. Lotsa love for you and your family ❤
your late boyfriend drove recklessly like a racer and killed other lives in the car. he was inconsiderate and a murderer. u still loved love & miss him ?? smh...
What a Brave and wonderful human being you are- your words have loving wisdom too. I have much to learn from you in embracing the different experiences of life.
Raybe, I wish you well and I am cheering for you. Please bless the world with your voice, we would love to hear you sing again. Praying for your full recovery ❤
You are one of the bravest and strongest person I have seen. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the nightmare and pain she went thru seeing you like that. Thank you for living your life courageously whether it is for yourself or your mom, and facing your future with such determination and positivity. All the best to you Raybe. Your live ahead will be one shining one. Be well and stay well. ❤
as mother myself, i would have been embarassed of myself not teaching my kid well. Instead of staying and acting mature like adult, encouraging speeding and dangerous act that highly causing not only self danger, but to public too. It was so damn lucky that it was in a period of no people around the street, else many other would have been killed too
Thank you for those comments highlighting her mistakes done in the past. Those lives lost and their reckless actions cannot be condoned. And thank you to those comments citing she is promoting herself and that this video is to glorify her. Firstly, I hope you watched fully this 23min documentary before commenting. The content were mostly facts on when, how the unfortunate incident unfolded and her progress thus I do not understand how it glorifies her. Of cos you are entitled to your own views and comments. It is your prerogative. Secondly, I wish if you ever make any grave mistakes, society will be kind upon you. Raybe, if you are reading this, continue to be brave, keep the past as your compass check to stay humble but never let it hold you down with fear of judgement. People will judge you all the time, before your accident, after your accident. Now you are given another chance, remember to pay it forward. There will always be people negative towards you, thank them for the feedback graciously and carry on good works. Will keep you in prayers that you receive more positive strength and energy!
the point is if you are telling a stories, you tell the full stories, not selectively ignoring one the most critical point in the stories. its like you are trying to tell a spiderman stories on how uncle ben died, but you intentionally ignore the critical story point that peter letting go of the thief, which indirectly causing the death of uncle ben. This is one crusial and critical puzzle of the stories and greatly impact how the stories unfold. In this case, the stupid act of involving/encouraging stupid act is not even mentioned here, hence you cant blame people for accusing the channel for glorifying the story, the output of the video is literally glorying it regardless of its actual intention.
The title of this documentary is Restart thus I reckon the producer’s focus is on how Raybe continues her life after the incident, educating the public on the current medical abilities and status to help burnt patients, how the mental and psychological health of the patient, as well as all surrounding factors attributed, impacting burn victims including Raybe, Results varies and they try to explain the extent of how the patients are affected physically and psychologically. Glorifying is defined as praise and admiration given, which to some extent, given what Raybe has been through, it is already a painful punishment which deemed by some, she deserves praise for courage to move forward - working hard to reconcile with herself. Exactly what happened in Spider-Man, Peter had to accept the mishap has happened, the loss of his uncle Ben so he could forgive the robber/thief, move forward to become a hero himself in helping others. It is easier to wallow in depression and stay broken, instead of fighting the pain and suffering - some people prefer to just do nothing, just stay sad and drowse in self pity. Perhaps you can write in to Mediacorp and ask them to start another documentary series - Regrets I understand your point but relevant context here is of paramount importance. Bluntly, Raybe is just a subject example of focus to fulfill what the documentary is attempting to drive the message to the audience - burnt patient overcomes all odds. We know mental health can be over rated at times (strawberries gen) but we cannot deny suicides and suicide crimes are increasing, perhaps someone in depression could find glimmer of hope to find courage to face reality, forgive themselves or others and find positivity to carry on with life.
What courage and tenacity! Raybe, I truly salute you! Although I have never met you, you have been an inspiration of selflessness, bravery and perseverance to me. You are a light to this world! Don't listen to the haters who focus only on the speeding and the accident. You risked your life trying to save your friends, and you weathered the pains of recovery. That is love and courage that haters can never see.
Praying for your recovery.. you are still as beautiful as ever. Embrace yourself and get over your past. As long as you live, there's always hope. Just believe that there's a better tomorrow.
Hi Raybe! Thank you for sharing your story. It shows us how frail life can be, yet also, how strong the human spirit is. Rooting for you. May strength & resilience always light your way. 生命有时很脆弱，但你好勇敢。绝境生出勇气，涅槃重生的你，依然美丽。 ❤💙
Let us not forget the said car accident. Reckless driving under influence of alcohol, who could have harmed the lives of others, be it whatever extent the damage could have been. Why was such an act condoned in the first place. Basically, if not for the accident, everyone involved would have gotten away scott free. I'm glad there are signs out there to remind us that drink driving is dangerous. Keeps our roads safe drivers! Be responsible
@@xxueniiwhat dangerous activity she did? It’s her boyfriend driving recklessly and under influence. She did nothing? In fact, the only “reckless” action she did is to rush into a burning vehicle trying to save her boyfriend and other friends. This so called “reckless” action, many, including me, will deem as brave.
Babe you have the most beautiful, soothing voice and pair of eyes. Pls believe me when I tell you I can tell how captivating and charismatic you are. ❤️ That’s something I think the accident didn’t manage to take away from you and that is what most important too! Sending love 🩷
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story, Raybe. You are one of the bravest and selfless women I have known in this world. Time will heal everything, you can do it!❤
Rayne Oh,U Are A Very Brave Girl Keep Fighting.When I heard the news I keeping praying for u.U make it of cause many difficulties, stress,pains u suffering during the recovery stages.Thanks Doctors ,nurses n many people who help u through the difficulties time.🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪
You have a beautiful heart and personality. You have a valuable place in society. May you discover fulfillment and achieve great successes and satisfaction in your life.
I suffer from arthiritists and the pain is unberable but i cant imagine the pain you went through and the surgeries you undergone..brave woman..God bless!!!❤❤❤
the hubris and consequences of a misspent youth.... when the.story first broke, i was saddened and angry about this totally avoidable and stupid accident... i was glad that innocent bystanders were not hurt and the casualties deserved what they got.. play stupid games and win stupid prizes.... still, i was quite taken aback as to how she tried to save the people and got injured.... my heart goes out to her.... i am totally awed by her strength of character and bravery... i sincerely do not even know if i could do the same if i were in a similar situation... this woman is a total keeper. i hope that she will find love again and her spouse could easily see past the scars and only notice her true beauty. i for one feel that she should complete her healing and wear her scars proudly. sure, people would do a double take but they are not scars of shame, rather badges of honour. her selfless valiant attempt alone is heroism seldom seen in this era. i paradoxically feel that she should have been a tad more selfish and spared her personal safety a little more thought. before any woke fairies decide to lament about me calling out the facts and addressing the proverbial elephant in the room, i am not trying to speak ill of the dead, but i sincerely state that her shockingly irresponsible and stupid jackass of a boyfriend really did not deserve her. i am critical and harsh because he was an educated, grown ass man that should have known loads better. the aftermath and grief of a monumentally stupid decision that loved ones are still paying for and likely continue for the rest of their lives. so, a cautionary tale of pain is not temporary and glory is not forever either... we take risks in our youth but we must always have at least one toe on the ground so that we can walk away from failed attempts. i wish ms raybe the very best, truly close this chapter of her life and move on.... her inner beauty has far outshone whatever has happened to her skin deep... any man would be lucky to take home a gem like her....
@kushpreetdiamonique8825 it was fortunate that no passerby or innocents were hurt... that whole area was dotted with restaurants, cafes and drinking holes. can you imagine coming out of dinner and getting mowed down or having some drinks and a car comes crashing into the establishment? furthermore, i do not believe that the driver had not shown signs of such rash and brainless tendencies in the past... he was no stranger to idiotic impulses and likely had an ego to match. all his friends, and raybe included, failed to recognize or distance themselves from this dangerous cocktail of brashness and machismo... it was precisely all the failures on so many levels from so many people that led to this disaster.... i am not saying that the people around him were culpable, just calling out that if everybody had had their head screwed on right that night, this crash would likely not have happened. his friends would not have been in the car trying to beat F1 lap times, there would then be no reason to "test" his car.... even if he did decide to test his car and crashed, at least the others would be alive.... raybe would still have attempted to save him though.... oh well.... i guess it was not obvious to raybe... i am not a stranger to risk taking. i used to teach scuba and i parachute when i was younger, i do enjoy racing too but i had never done it on public roads. i have in my lifetime met numerous egotistical yahoos that think that they are THE MAN. these are the exact same people that get into trouble and spoil the trip for everybody.... they are cool until they are not. i may appear especially harsh but history keeps repeating itself... the only way to protect yourself from reckless stupidity is to distance yourself from it. of course you yourself can subscribe to this exciting lifestyle of carefree abandon, but as this cautionary tale portends: you can always do you, just don't overestimate your abilities and drag others into your, in this case, BBQ party. i read in the news report that the group was in a friend's restaurant eating and drinking before the crash.... was alcohol involved? i do not really pity the driver or his friends.... at least they had an exhilarating 2 laps before they crashed and how many people can actually say that they passed after a great last meal, an exhilarating adrenaline high and went out with a bang? you make your bed and you have to lie in it... they had their fun but their families and especially raybe is stuck with the aftermath forever... this was told to me long ago by a fellow parachutist: "the sky is never the limit.... the ground is."
@@hawwusong74 you are correct ; the neighbourhood living in nearby hdb said this group and their friends had driven a few rounds before tge accident. And this young lady was there to support her boyfriend's act / hobby. There is an earlier video of the cars zooming past her , either filmed by herself or her girlfriend.
@@user-ur8zb9xp7l most youths that do these tatts usually belong in one of two catagories... they are either in some sort of a gang, which has fallen quite out of favour in modern singapore, or have pretty low self-esteem at some stage of their lives... the outward display is to instill a sense of awe and admiration in the viewer... however in the asian context, most people sub-consciously reject and judge the person for having tatts.... first thing to come to mind is "gangster" or "wayward good-for-nothing".... to be fair, i have seen really nice work and the tastefully done ones are really masterpieces but those are really few and far in between.... i did do my own little survey through the years and most people with big tatts do regret it later in life, especially those with full sleeves or those peeking out of the neck.... those that cannot be easily covered by clothes... if you want to be a rebel, you have the freedom to do so, but you have to accept the social stigma and rejection from the silent and "not-so-cool" majority... nobody would ever outwardly say it to your face, but rest assured you lose a whole lot of credibility and nobody would take you seriously. yes, it is totally judging a book by its cover but it is how people size people up.... also understand that you would look like a droopy sack and a total dork when you hit your late 40s-50s.... 😅
Thank you for sharing this amazing journey with us. It brought me to tears knowing the pain you had gone through & are still going through, both physically & emotionally. Kudos to your family & friends, especially your mum. She’s such a good example for all mums out there! The world is indeed beautiful & you have a long life ahead to continue your discovery! Stay strong & be well Raybe!
@@kushpreetdiamonique8825 Everybody makes mistakes, many people sped in their younger days. Lots of people had been ticketed every SINGLE day. Not many people had to pay for it this way. People like you without any heart should learn to shut up!
@@fantasytky28 then all those beer, liquor, wine and sports car manufacturers should close down! Anyone with a heart would have forgiven them long ago! It has been years! Grow some brain!
@@crystal2484 u lacking brain cell? I said drunk + overspeeding. No one fking care if you drunk alone Can't read or comprehend? And yeah we have no heart, but the even worse one are people that cheer drunk driving and overspeeding
Even though I'm a man, I couldn't help but tear up watching your video. You're incredibly strong woman, and it really shows that true beauty in a woman comes from her spirit and strength inside. Keep your head up and stay strong-there are so many good things ahead for those who keep pushing forward. 🙏
Raybe you command respect !! I admire your courage and especially your truth love, which is impossible to find in this troubled world. I certainly wish you the best of health and please keep up your courage always ! God bless you always !!
Really inspiring. As much as we see she has to deal with confidence issues and the burns she sustained, we tend to forget she also had to deal and accept the fact that her fiancee passed in the tragedy. To me, she is a strong warrior, a fighter, and such strong mental health. Surrounded with her wonderful family and her good friend who is always there for her. All the best Raybe, may you continue to find the strength to do what you like and enjoy!!!
Raybe, I admire you for your courage to move on and learning to accept what has happened. You really have my respect. Something happened to my face and eventhough I’m recovering im still unable to accept the new me 100 percent yet. After listening to your story I hope I will be able to learn to accept the new me and to let go of the past.
You are an amazing person, for what you have done and what you have gone through. I don't know if I would be able to go and save someone like what you did. And how you managed to survive the aftermath. You are definitely one of the most beautiful person in the whole world!
It’s heart wrenching to see anyone going through these. You’re so brave! Thanks for being an inspiration and for the timely reminder that the world is beautiful. 活在当下。❤
She's no hero. She participated with the racing activities many many times something she and this documentary failed to addressed. She WAS there participated and recording the race... Spare me the BS la.... THANKFULLY there were no innocent bystanders. FOREIGN TALENTS HERE !
Kinda weird to be glorifying this lady, who was encouraging her friends to speed and race their cars. People who do that are no different from murderers. I feel sorry for her, yes, but some people are going overboard with your praises
in another 5 years, all this will be behind you. You wont need to cover coz you'll be healed 90 percent and in a new relationship living like everyone else. Amazing how the human mind and body heals itself given time and patience. I see many good prospects coming your way. Brave Heart, you'll be motivating and inspiring others in life too. God Bless YOU!!
Umm just to find out more haha i thought those burns will not fully recover as it is quite major. I think it would heal gradually but not fully to an extent.
@@lmaolol8986 my doctor ever mentioned this case, the scars are will remain , colour will fade.
i like your optimism but alas this will most probably be a lifelong issue.... she had 80% burn coverage and most of them looked like 2nd degree burns with some areas like her wrists and arms most likely more 3rd degree.... depending on the individual, the skin would heal but would also be quite fragile.... the skin can even crack with excessive movement or if the skin was not constantly moisturized.... it will be a battle for likely the rest of her life.... some people take to the grafts well and the appearance can be somewhat normal looking with very distinct edges, 9:07 some people start developing keloid like puffiness.... skin around the joints must always be exercised, massaged and moisturized.... it is really a tough lot to bear... a heavy burden for a young person to deal with....
lets be practical, she will never heal. My doctor told me her scars will remain.
Sorry to side track to another story where Singaporeans pitied one young lady.
Not sure if you guys remember, less than 20 years ago, a couple got married at the Hilton Singapore , that same night, while the bride was showering, the groom left the room and went to another floor, he then fell off the Hilton Singapore .
The bride had alot of media attention, alot of support from our countrymen. She went back to live with her maiden family family because of her deeo sorrow. Periodically, when she temporary recovered from sorrow, there would be media upates.
After some years, she jumped off a building.
So i feel that, the media should leave Raybe alone , not keep pumping
@@user-ur8zb9xp7l i honestly do not agree with your correlation because one sounds to be an accident and the other an act of reckless abandon that did not pan out... it is not a popular subject in singapore but mental health is a real thing. everybody breaks if pushed hard enough. however, time is really a great medicine. it heals a great deal of trauma if used judiciously. assuming that the groom's accident was the main reason to offing herself years later, the bride-was likely left alone in her grief for too long.... you should never let a person with depression have too much time for idle thoughts.... fill the time with activities and be surrounded by cheerful watchful people.... distract the patient with responsibilities and do not let their minds wander uncontrollably. set goals with their interests previously and achieve them one at a time... show them that there is much more to achieve and do in life... life is tough now but everybody would be walking through it with them... the patient must feel needed and not ignored like damaged goods... the depressed person would most certainly lash out and want to be alone, wallowing in often destructive self-pity but the people around must hunker down and take the abuse. the proverbial "unpuncturable" rubber ball... my standard for self-pity should be 2 months max.... then the tough job of snapping the person out of this condition starts. it is likely not pretty and an emotional roller coaster for all parties involved, but it is what it is. if you "volunteer" to be the cheerleader, then you better have your own traumas wired up tight.... you would likely take on some of the patient's trauma through empathy... then time would kick in and do its thing.... how long would it take? as long as it takes.... there will then usually be a dramatic event or occurrence that would allow closure... this has to happen and then the light would be at the end of the tunnel.... would medication help? yes, but it is not a long term solution.... you would likely never "fix" the trauma, but the patient has to preferably address it head-on and seek that closure. the trauma has to be recognized. only then can that person compartmentalize and move on.... it is by no means an easy process... tough cases can test one's patience to the limit, but that emotional distress has to be recognized and honoured
so instead of blaming the media, i would rather speculate that the people around her did not address her mental health adequately and kinda swept it all under the rug, the way asians like to do it... the western way would rather prescribe lots of medication and practically keep the depressed person in a borderline dream state. does not really help either....
all said and done, barring cases of physical biological and chemical imbalance in the brain, it is mainly personality and environment that can lead to these mental health issues. at one point, the patient would have to understand that whatever happened was truly unfortunate and they alone would have to suck it up and move on. everybody is around them rooting to lend a helping hand, but they have to stand up themselves and take it. in the case of raybe, i do not know her personally, but the very act that gotten her so badly burnt and her near miracle of surviving the healing process is nothing short of grit and heroism in my books. she is still unable to show her scars and she is not very religious about taking care of her condition now because she still has trauma yet to be addressed. she has a mindset that her life is effectively over... she is just trudging through the motions of life... it obviously did not help that she was also quite physically attractive and most women base their existence mainly on physical validation. all i can say is that i personally do not see those burn scars as a minus... her character outshines whatever has happened to her skin-deep. i truly believe that. she did not hesitate to sacrifice her well being for her partner.... in what other way can a partner prove their loyalty and love? if i ever met a girl like so, i can see past those scars and see the real person. i would encourage her that there was no need to cover up her story... stand tall and proud and understand that very few people would be able to act like her in a crisis... the scars do not diminish her as a person. i would tell her that she may not win the miss singapore pageant this lifetime because those pageants are for clueless people.... she is already in a league of her own with no competition in sight....
haiz.... i cannot help berating the fact that her partner did not value her enough to at least look out for his own well-being... he was a grown ass man.... this inevitable crash and burn (i do not strictly qualify it as an "accident" because it diminishes the stupidity of the driver's and gang of four's thought processes) was so unnecessary and avoidable...
Miss Oh...u r one of the bravest person i know..thanks for encouraging us with your vulnerability..and to your mommy too...my salute. and shoutout to your goodfriend Lynn
would have been even better if there was not speeding encouraging in the first place
@@fantasytky28would have been better if the world we live in is perfect ; would’ve, could’ve, should’ve…..
May God be with you and your family always.Amen!🙏🕯️🌹
Hi Rabel,I read about the accident on the papers when it happened those years back. I do not know you and yet i felt your bravery and love for your boyfriend and friends when you rushed to help them. You have stayed in my mind all these years. Although i do not know you, i prayed daily for you to recover physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally even though i don't know your name.I just prayed for the young lady who got badly burnt. And how happy i was to see you on the video. Also to see you with a positive outlook in life. You are amazing.
She is asking for it. What they are doing is OUTRAGIOUS. Yet, she is specking out to be heroic. These will signal people to think what she is doing is cool.
@@ongernie7216imagine saying this to a person who has suffered so much? Imagine if this was said to you or a close loved one who has experienced this.
Brought tears to me watching this. I wish you and your family all the best Raybe. Jiayou.
o mai... same?
Wow what a beautiful story about an inspirational human being. Raybe Oh, you are already in the top 1% of incredibly selfless people in this world, and we should all aspire to have your spirit.
Kinda weird to be glorifying this lady, who was encouraging her friends to speed and race their cars. People who do that are no different from murderers. I feel sorry for her, yes, but some people are going overboard with their praises like she is some messiah 😂
@@aaastooges Ya she so selfless untill she didn't think what is the consequence of joining her friends for street racing.
I loved how this movie was edited, especially the end when she revealed her face - it doesn't matter what she "looks like" because she's always beautiful!
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. Your strength to push through is admirable. You are such a strong woman, Raybe.
妳依然漂亮善良，依然有迷人的魅力。妳真的很棒，加油！大家共勉之 💪
May God bless and uphold you brave girl from challenges through recovery , life rebuild . May God’s light shine on you and your family for each and everyday Amen 🙏💪❤️
No need to have a beautiful face. Just have a beautiful heart 🧡💛
Keep going, Raybe. I'm rooting for you! Your story is truly inspiring, and your resilience and optimism are remarkable.
世上只有妈妈好！Glad to know that you are so strong for your family and yourself especially for your mum. Always be positive and look forward for a better tomorrow.Keep it up Raybe you are doing great!
I have full of respect for you Raybe, I wish you all the best and happiness you deserve
True. True!!! Be strong to overcome this hardship. These always a light at the end of the tunnel. Just don't give up. We will be all supporting u❤
I don't always leave a comment on UA-cam but I am really touched by her actions & impressed with her strong will. It will really be a mentally challenging period for her but her mature acceptance of reality will allow her to experience a world more beautiful than before. All the best Raybe!
祝勇敢的你早日康复，完成你的愿望..加油❤
Raybe Oh, strive on 加油!
Seriously you are one brave lady you have my full respect! all the best in life 👍
勇敢的女孩子、你还很年轻，勇往直前去实现梦想吧、我们永远支持你🤗😘
Thank you Raybe for sharing your story. I know the journey is so tough and long but your bravery is inspiring. I agree with what you said at the end that some times it's better to do a painful thing than to regret, and that everything happens for a reason, whether good or bad, they are important chapters in our story and we have to own it and just keep moving forward. That spoke to me in this low season of my life. Thank you and my blessings to you. Yes I would love to hear you sing getai some day!
Jiayou Raybe! You have one of the most beautiful souls I know of. I hope your skin will slowly heal with the advancement in medical technologies. Regardless, you are incredibly brave and beautiful in my eyes. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and letting us understand and learn from your perspectives and experiences. Lotsa love for you and your family ❤
Thank You for sharing your story. You are still such a Beautiful Human inside and out! Jiayou!
Thanks for stepping out of your comfort zone and sharing your story. Take care and jiayou!! 🙌
Thanks for showing us how one can be brave and positive despite what you've been through. I Wish you the best in your recovery journey!
Thank you for sharing Raybe! You are one courageous and strong girl. I wish you nothing but the best to enjoy life to the fullest 🙏🙏
your late boyfriend drove recklessly like a racer and killed other lives in the car. he was inconsiderate and a murderer. u still loved love & miss him ?? smh...
Such incredible willpower and positivity. May you and your family be blessed with peace and love!
Thank you for being a brave girl and giving us the courage to live through all difficulties in life.
One of the best things I’ve watched for awhile!
I wish I can have only half the strength you have Raybe. Keep going girl!
Their exchanges beween 10:03 to 10:36 are very subtle and pragmatic but super touching. A very classical exchange of asian tough love.
Very fortunate and very courageous girl.
Thank you for your story.
I have huge respect for you Raybe. May you only encounter wonderful things in life from now on. Please stay safe, healthy and happy.
What a Brave and wonderful human being you are- your words have loving wisdom too. I have much to learn from you in embracing the different experiences of life.
Raybe, I wish you well and I am cheering for you. Please bless the world with your voice, we would love to hear you sing again. Praying for your full recovery ❤
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Allahu Akbar
All the best Raybe! Sending you love virtually! you're truly admirable! ❤❤❤
I wish you from now on having all the best things in your life. You truly deserve all the happiness. Stay strong!
Jiayou! You are an inspiration to all of us. Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story with all of us.
Why? Inspired to be an AH LIAN?
感謝你沒有放棄 現在更珍惜生命的你帶著陽光照亮周圍 你很勇敢很努力很善良 願你能一生平安 別人的評論無法避免 但你的生活由你做主 你還很年輕 努力勇敢面對你還未走完的人生 一切會更好的 ❤
You are one of the bravest and strongest person I have seen. As a mother myself, I cannot imagine the nightmare and pain she went thru seeing you like that. Thank you for living your life courageously whether it is for yourself or your mom, and facing your future with such determination and positivity. All the best to you Raybe. Your live ahead will be one shining one. Be well and stay well. ❤
as mother myself, i would have been embarassed of myself not teaching my kid well. Instead of staying and acting mature like adult, encouraging speeding and dangerous act that highly causing not only self danger, but to public too. It was so damn lucky that it was in a period of no people around the street, else many other would have been killed too
Thanks for sharing! You are a beautiful Soul❤️
Your bravery, inner strength will be your greatest asset towards your recovery. My sincere blessing to you and your family in rebuilding your life.
You have a kind and beautiful soul. wishing you all the best and universe will give you the best arrangement!
Thank you for those comments highlighting her mistakes done in the past. Those lives lost and their reckless actions cannot be condoned. And thank you to those comments citing she is promoting herself and that this video is to glorify her.
Firstly, I hope you watched fully this 23min documentary before commenting. The content were mostly facts on when, how the unfortunate incident unfolded and her progress thus I do not understand how it glorifies her. Of cos you are entitled to your own views and comments. It is your prerogative.
Secondly, I wish if you ever make any grave mistakes, society will be kind upon you.
Raybe, if you are reading this, continue to be brave, keep the past as your compass check to stay humble but never let it hold you down with fear of judgement. People will judge you all the time, before your accident, after your accident. Now you are given another chance, remember to pay it forward. There will always be people negative towards you, thank them for the feedback graciously and carry on good works. Will keep you in prayers that you receive more positive strength and energy!
the point is if you are telling a stories, you tell the full stories, not selectively ignoring one the most critical point in the stories.
its like you are trying to tell a spiderman stories on how uncle ben died, but you intentionally ignore the critical story point that peter letting go of the thief, which indirectly causing the death of uncle ben.
This is one crusial and critical puzzle of the stories and greatly impact how the stories unfold.
In this case, the stupid act of involving/encouraging stupid act is not even mentioned here, hence you cant blame people for accusing the channel for glorifying the story, the output of the video is literally glorying it regardless of its actual intention.
The title of this documentary is Restart thus I reckon the producer’s focus is on how Raybe continues her life after the incident, educating the public on the current medical abilities and status to help burnt patients, how the mental and psychological health of the patient, as well as all surrounding factors attributed, impacting burn victims including Raybe, Results varies and they try to explain the extent of how the patients are affected physically and psychologically.
Glorifying is defined as praise and admiration given, which to some extent, given what Raybe has been through, it is already a painful punishment which deemed by some, she deserves praise for courage to move forward - working hard to reconcile with herself.
Exactly what happened in Spider-Man, Peter had to accept the mishap has happened, the loss of his uncle Ben so he could forgive the robber/thief, move forward to become a hero himself in helping others.
It is easier to wallow in depression and stay broken, instead of fighting the pain and suffering - some people prefer to just do nothing, just stay sad and drowse in self pity.
Perhaps you can write in to Mediacorp and ask them to start another documentary series - Regrets
I understand your point but relevant context here is of paramount importance. Bluntly, Raybe is just a subject example of focus to fulfill what the documentary is attempting to drive the message to the audience - burnt patient overcomes all odds.
We know mental health can be over rated at times (strawberries gen) but we cannot deny suicides and suicide crimes are increasing, perhaps someone in depression could find glimmer of hope to find courage to face reality, forgive themselves or others and find positivity to carry on with life.
Thanks for covering this! I have been wondering how she is!!! This is one strong gurl! Jiayou Raybe!
can't imagine the courage needed... to step out again... really strong girl
Your goodness will be remembered in heaven and earth. May God bless you abundantly and continue to be your guiding light
You're the most beautiful person in the world. Thank you for inspiring us.
You are so so brave for sharing your story! Continue to live life to the fullest and we hope you return to the stage you enjoy!
在当今社会，很少有内心如此坚强，美丽的女性了。
What courage and tenacity! Raybe, I truly salute you! Although I have never met you, you have been an inspiration of selflessness, bravery and perseverance to me. You are a light to this world!
Don't listen to the haters who focus only on the speeding and the accident. You risked your life trying to save your friends, and you weathered the pains of recovery. That is love and courage that haters can never see.
You are a very strong woman! May God bless you and your family and never give up!
Inspirational story. She deserves all the best that life can give to her and then some!
take videos of people speeding is inspirational?
@@daw146exactly
Praying for your recovery.. you are still as beautiful as ever. Embrace yourself and get over your past. As long as you live, there's always hope. Just believe that there's a better tomorrow.
看了真的心痛到不行。很佩服你的勇气和勇敢，继续加油！❤
任何的伤痕也无法遮蔽你那颗坚强、勇敢、善良的心所散发的美丽，希望你能早日康复，加油！！！
Hi Raybe! Thank you for sharing your story. It shows us how frail life can be, yet also, how strong the human spirit is. Rooting for you. May strength & resilience always light your way. 生命有时很脆弱，但你好勇敢。绝境生出勇气，涅槃重生的你，依然美丽。 ❤💙
Let us not forget the said car accident. Reckless driving under influence of alcohol, who could have harmed the lives of others, be it whatever extent the damage could have been. Why was such an act condoned in the first place. Basically, if not for the accident, everyone involved would have gotten away scott free. I'm glad there are signs out there to remind us that drink driving is dangerous. Keeps our roads safe drivers! Be responsible
Who condoned their actions? And the involved definitely did not get away scott free, they paid the ultimate price and so did their loved ones.
@@AvengeBasketball yea. Paid the price but yet glorified? 🤔
It’s hardly glorifying, seeing how much she has lost. If anything it’s a cautionary tale to others on the very real consequences.
@@orrac1e then the title should change to "does she regret taking part in dangerous activities that everyone was sensible enough not to?"
@@xxueniiwhat dangerous activity she did? It’s her boyfriend driving recklessly and under influence. She did nothing? In fact, the only “reckless” action she did is to rush into a burning vehicle trying to save her boyfriend and other friends. This so called “reckless” action, many, including me, will deem as brave.
Beautiful strong Raybe, you deserve the best ❤ God is with you , we are all rooting for you
Babe you have the most beautiful, soothing voice and pair of eyes. Pls believe me when I tell you I can tell how captivating and charismatic you are. ❤️ That’s something I think the accident didn’t manage to take away from you and that is what most important too! Sending love 🩷
Thank you for sharing your inspiring story, Raybe. You are one of the bravest and selfless women I have known in this world. Time will heal everything, you can do it!❤
Rayne Oh,U Are A Very Brave Girl Keep Fighting.When I heard the news I keeping praying for u.U make it of cause many difficulties, stress,pains u suffering during the recovery stages.Thanks Doctors ,nurses n many people who help u through the difficulties time.🙏🙏🙏💪💪💪
You have a beautiful heart and personality. You have a valuable place in society. May you discover fulfillment and achieve great successes and satisfaction in your life.
So inspiring. ❤ thank you for sharing your story with us, you’re so brave❤
I suffer from arthiritists and the pain is unberable but i cant imagine the pain you went through and the surgeries you undergone..brave woman..God bless!!!❤❤❤
the hubris and consequences of a misspent youth.... when the.story first broke, i was saddened and angry about this totally avoidable and stupid accident... i was glad that innocent bystanders were not hurt and the casualties deserved what they got.. play stupid games and win stupid prizes.... still, i was quite taken aback as to how she tried to save the people and got injured.... my heart goes out to her.... i am totally awed by her strength of character and bravery... i sincerely do not even know if i could do the same if i were in a similar situation...
this woman is a total keeper. i hope that she will find love again and her spouse could easily see past the scars and only notice her true beauty. i for one feel that she should complete her healing and wear her scars proudly. sure, people would do a double take but they are not scars of shame, rather badges of honour. her selfless valiant attempt alone is heroism seldom seen in this era. i paradoxically feel that she should have been a tad more selfish and spared her personal safety a little more thought. before any woke fairies decide to lament about me calling out the facts and addressing the proverbial elephant in the room, i am not trying to speak ill of the dead, but i sincerely state that her shockingly irresponsible and stupid jackass of a boyfriend really did not deserve her. i am critical and harsh because he was an educated, grown ass man that should have known loads better. the aftermath and grief of a monumentally stupid decision that loved ones are still paying for and likely continue for the rest of their lives.
so, a cautionary tale of pain is not temporary and glory is not forever either... we take risks in our youth but we must always have at least one toe on the ground so that we can walk away from failed attempts. i wish ms raybe the very best, truly close this chapter of her life and move on.... her inner beauty has far outshone whatever has happened to her skin deep... any man would be lucky to take home a gem like her....
@kushpreetdiamonique8825 it was fortunate that no passerby or innocents were hurt... that whole area was dotted with restaurants, cafes and drinking holes. can you imagine coming out of dinner and getting mowed down or having some drinks and a car comes crashing into the establishment? furthermore, i do not believe that the driver had not shown signs of such rash and brainless tendencies in the past... he was no stranger to idiotic impulses and likely had an ego to match. all his friends, and raybe included, failed to recognize or distance themselves from this dangerous cocktail of brashness and machismo... it was precisely all the failures on so many levels from so many people that led to this disaster.... i am not saying that the people around him were culpable, just calling out that if everybody had had their head screwed on right that night, this crash would likely not have happened. his friends would not have been in the car trying to beat F1 lap times, there would then be no reason to "test" his car.... even if he did decide to test his car and crashed, at least the others would be alive.... raybe would still have attempted to save him though.... oh well.... i guess it was not obvious to raybe...
i am not a stranger to risk taking. i used to teach scuba and i parachute when i was younger, i do enjoy racing too but i had never done it on public roads. i have in my lifetime met numerous egotistical yahoos that think that they are THE MAN. these are the exact same people that get into trouble and spoil the trip for everybody.... they are cool until they are not. i may appear especially harsh but history keeps repeating itself... the only way to protect yourself from reckless stupidity is to distance yourself from it. of course you yourself can subscribe to this exciting lifestyle of carefree abandon, but as this cautionary tale portends: you can always do you, just don't overestimate your abilities and drag others into your, in this case, BBQ party. i read in the news report that the group was in a friend's restaurant eating and drinking before the crash.... was alcohol involved?
i do not really pity the driver or his friends.... at least they had an exhilarating 2 laps before they crashed and how many people can actually say that they passed after a great last meal, an exhilarating adrenaline high and went out with a bang? you make your bed and you have to lie in it... they had their fun but their families and especially raybe is stuck with the aftermath forever...
this was told to me long ago by a fellow parachutist: "the sky is never the limit.... the ground is."
@@hawwusong74 you are correct ; the neighbourhood living in nearby hdb said this group and their friends had driven a few rounds before tge accident.
And this young lady was there to support her boyfriend's act / hobby. There is an earlier video of the cars zooming past her , either filmed by herself or her girlfriend.
@@hawwusong74 "THE MAN" in this case had a tattoo on his chest !! OMG.
I saw spotted it thru his white shirt, in one of the newspaper photo
@@user-ur8zb9xp7l most youths that do these tatts usually belong in one of two catagories... they are either in some sort of a gang, which has fallen quite out of favour in modern singapore, or have pretty low self-esteem at some stage of their lives... the outward display is to instill a sense of awe and admiration in the viewer... however in the asian context, most people sub-consciously reject and judge the person for having tatts.... first thing to come to mind is "gangster" or "wayward good-for-nothing".... to be fair, i have seen really nice work and the tastefully done ones are really masterpieces but those are really few and far in between.... i did do my own little survey through the years and most people with big tatts do regret it later in life, especially those with full sleeves or those peeking out of the neck.... those that cannot be easily covered by clothes... if you want to be a rebel, you have the freedom to do so, but you have to accept the social stigma and rejection from the silent and "not-so-cool" majority... nobody would ever outwardly say it to your face, but rest assured you lose a whole lot of credibility and nobody would take you seriously. yes, it is totally judging a book by its cover but it is how people size people up.... also understand that you would look like a droopy sack and a total dork when you hit your late 40s-50s.... 😅
@@hawwusong74 perhaps THE MAN was one of them.... At his funeral, they had ordered electric neon light flowers and rav their motor cars !!
You are a very brave girl. Please stay strong. You are always our inspiration.
Jiayou Raybe. Wishing you and your family all the best. You’re strong and beautiful. There’s a long way ahead of you. 🥳💪👍
很佩服你的勇气 不管是愿意冒险还是继续生活下去的勇气 你真的很厉害 希望你会越来越好 加油❤
Thank you for your courage to share what you've been through. Please continue to live well!
Thank you for sharing this amazing journey with us. It brought me to tears knowing the pain you had gone through & are still going through, both physically & emotionally. Kudos to your family & friends, especially your mum. She’s such a good example for all mums out there! The world is indeed beautiful & you have a long life ahead to continue your discovery! Stay strong & be well Raybe!
Thanks for sharing Raybe, you're one brave soul and you have a wonderful support from your family and friends. I wish you speedy recovery!
Love conquers all fear. She is a beautiful human being. We wish her a good future ahead.
Continue to be as strong and as brave as you have been Raybe
Dear Raybe, thank you for keeping those of us who were worried about you updated.
@@kushpreetdiamonique8825 Everybody makes mistakes, many people sped in their younger days. Lots of people had been ticketed every SINGLE day. Not many people had to pay for it this way. People like you without any heart should learn to shut up!
@@crystal2484people with heart wouldnt have drunk+ overspeeding in the first place
@@fantasytky28 then all those beer, liquor, wine and sports car manufacturers should close down! Anyone with a heart would have forgiven them long ago! It has been years! Grow some brain!
@@crystal2484 u lacking brain cell? I said drunk + overspeeding. No one fking care if you drunk alone
Can't read or comprehend?
And yeah we have no heart, but the even worse one are people that cheer drunk driving and overspeeding
Even though I'm a man, I couldn't help but tear up watching your video. You're incredibly strong woman, and it really shows that true beauty in a woman comes from her spirit and strength inside. Keep your head up and stay strong-there are so many good things ahead for those who keep pushing forward. 🙏
Wishing raybe the best in recovery. Live strong and God bless always 🙏🏻
加油！祝勇敢的你早日康复！
Raybe you command respect !! I admire your courage and especially your truth love, which is impossible to find in this troubled world. I certainly wish you the best of health and please keep up your courage always ! God bless you always !!
Admired her strength and positivity towards life. It takes a lot and not many can do what she is doing. 加油!!!
Really inspiring. As much as we see she has to deal with confidence issues and the burns she sustained, we tend to forget she also had to deal and accept the fact that her fiancee passed in the tragedy. To me, she is a strong warrior, a fighter, and such strong mental health. Surrounded with her wonderful family and her good friend who is always there for her. All the best Raybe, may you continue to find the strength to do what you like and enjoy!!!
Raybe, I admire you for your courage to move on and learning to accept what has happened. You really have my respect. Something happened to my face and eventhough I’m recovering im still unable to accept the new me 100 percent yet. After listening to your story I hope I will be able to learn to accept the new me and to let go of the past.
秀惠，祝福你早日康复🙌🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻❤❤❤❤❤❤❤感恩医生和医护人员的用心治疗🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing your story, you are so strong, it is such an inspiration !
你很勇敢。加油。祝你幸福，早日康复。
May God bless you always with the best possible future.
You deserve the very best for your humanity, courage and selflessness.
LOVE YOUR GETAI PERFORMANCE.. GREAT FAN... HOPE YOU FULLY RECOVERED N SING FOR US....我的偶像
You are an amazing person, for what you have done and what you have gone through. I don't know if I would be able to go and save someone like what you did. And how you managed to survive the aftermath. You are definitely one of the most beautiful person in the whole world!
很心疼你 ❤。一定要加油！
You are kind and so brave. I am incredibly inspired.
Such a brave girl. Speedy recovery and take care.
What a brave girl, stay strong and god bless. Hope you recover well
It’s heart wrenching to see anyone going through these. You’re so brave! Thanks for being an inspiration and for the timely reminder that the world is beautiful. 活在当下。❤
Raybe, you are so inspiring and positive. I hope you will continue to recover well and go onstage again. 最近工作不順利 看了你的視頻真的有很大的啟發 祝你永遠快樂幸福
thought i'd drop a comment here to say you're awesome Raybe! Wishing you a speedy recovery and we're all rooting for you
She's no hero.
She participated with the racing activities many many times something she and this documentary failed to addressed.
She WAS there participated and recording the race...
Spare me the BS la....
THANKFULLY there were no innocent bystanders.
FOREIGN TALENTS HERE !
Ikr. The title itself very misleading... what regret to SAVE beloved. More lik regret participating in dangerous activity that costed lives
Can’t process what you have gone through. But God will always by your side. Stay true to yourself !❤
oh my … you are amazingly strong. Am glad you have your eyes intact!
Thank you for sharing your story. All the best to you and take good care of yourself.
Jiayou... You are a strong lady.
always support u
love u
please return to singing,
Really hope to see u on stage again.
love ur singing
Incredibly selfless and courageous. Be proud of your battle scars, they are medals of your heroism and bravery. 💪🏻
Kinda weird to be glorifying this lady, who was encouraging her friends to speed and race their cars. People who do that are no different from murderers. I feel sorry for her, yes, but some people are going overboard with your praises