Dear future kids ,I will never do the same as my parents doing with me...I will never yell you for low marks in school , never compare you with anyone , never underestimate you , never will tell you that you can't do it....I will always support you...❤️🥺
they are making you hard like a rock, if you go in negative way then what is difference btw a animal and human. you cant recreate them , rest relationship can created again n again
You are right di ,par ham jab paisa kamana na sikhe tab tak toh hame iss toxic aur hamari parents ki ghulami karni hi padegi.parents are always selfish and harami . i fully experienced with this things it is truly right.
You know anjali when i was struggling with my career issues my father stopped talking with me my mother always insult me behind my back in front of relatives and never appreciate me in front of relatives today am assistant Registrar in IGNOU...and surprisingly everything is changed so its all conditional love!!
My father's one of the common sentence... told by them... or felt daily by me... *" agar is ghar mein rehna hai... to meri tarah raho... warna abhi yaha se nikal jao"*
Right 🥺 Suna tha ki jo maa bap hote h n bo apne bacho ki khushi ke liye duniya se ladd jate h 😖😖afsos ye lines bs fairytales me ho ti h reality me to maa baap duniya or samaj ki khushi ke liye apne bacho se ldd rhe h... 🥺 I am also faced these kind of prblms becoz of a toxic parents 😭😭😭.. My life became hell 😭😭😭
Bilkul sach h ye lines dii ..."all your feelings "..yes exactly it's my feelings ,I can totally relate with this story ...maine bahut baar khud ke saath galat bhi kiya coz i'm so depressed but jbse maine aapko sunna start kiya h kaafi cheeze better hui h bahut accha feel hota h aapki baato se bilkul aisa lagta h jaise koi hme smjh rha ho har baar nye tareeke se hamare un purane jakhmo pr bhi marham lga rha ho jisse ham andar hi andar ghut rhe h vaise to mai jyada kisi se baat bhi nhi krti but aaz ye likh rhi hu ki khud ko lge ki aapse baat ho rhi h ..thank u so much didu for this nd u r a perfect mentor for us 🤗❤️...
You are right..... My mom always get mad on me without any reason.... Even she live 1 or 2 week without talking to me I m totally frustrated with such parents they respect my job not me... today I'm jobless and they disrespect me... Sometimes I think, I want to escape any far place from my home with my bf.... & then I think even I can't trust on any bf
U re r8 siso... Why girls always have 2 suffer..... Just want 2 ask why? Why only girls..... Even I'm also facing same kinds of situations which u re facing r8 Now.... 😞 #toxic patents make life hell....
True mera bhi yahi haal hai, diii ek maa baap aache mil jate toh hamari life bhi aachi ban jati hame apne maa baap Ko esa karte huye hamare sath dekha hai toh bf pee kya khak bharosa hoga. Ye duniya parayi lagne lagi hai
Finally someone has courage to say this in India where emotional manipulation in the name of sanskaar drama abuse narcissism in the name of morality & hum bade hain to we can do anything wala who is at its peak. People are so brainwashed here, literally by movies so called religious businessman babas & tired by society pressure. Our past generation is so wounded their emotional wounds are so deep & suppressed I just hope & pray we all can break Toxic cycles here & not be the carrier of wounds passing to future generations. Understanding Psychology listening to lil spiritual content (whatever we like) understanding individuality it's ok we all are different is very important.
You are right sister. I'm dealing with toxic parents. They don't allow me to wear western clothes . They don't allow me to talk to my friends. They abuse me and sometimes beat me. I'm so depressed and hopeless. 🙂
Hat's off to you ruby first of all o love your voice, jo aapne likha hai haina UA-cam pe aisa koi content nahi la sakta mein aapki jitni tareef karu utni kam hai mere pass words nahi hai kuch likhne ke liye yrrr ye video dekhne ke baad mera ander darr baith gya hai future aur family dono ko leke, aapki video dekhne ke baad mein bahut nuetral state mein hu kya likhu mein aapki tareef mein mere pass words nahi hai aapne meri ankhein khol di hai thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart i love your thinking , perspective, vision your thoughts gaved me a new vision to see life love you yrrr, mujhe nahi pata aap asal zindagi mein kaisi insaan hai lekin mein ek baat aapse kah sakti hu aapne mujhe zindagi jeene ka naya matlab sikhaya hai isss video ke through love you yrrrrrr. Maine iss video ko download kar liya hai mein daily basis pe dekhungi isse video ko sone se pehle, last mein ek sentence yahi kahungi "aankhein khol di aapne meri " Thank you yrrrr
Heads of you. You are the real hero . I still 16 but i fell very discusting around my parents😞I wish I will never do the same with my children and will provide them every thing
Sailing in same boat . I wasted 25 lakhs becuase of my father to build a asset and now he has turned that into libality since he was a govt employee and does not know how to do anything . Since they have always lived a easy life and don't even understand that the need of times. If someone talks about money they laugh it off . Disgusting.now i am under debt becuase of them . And the worst part is the entire bulding is just depreciation year on year and in current times there is so much uncertainty. But they won't understand it .since they are getting pension for doing nothing all there life .
Every words touched and felt deep in the heart. I honestly want to salute for sharing and having such a courage to share this to this fake world. May God bless you with everything you deserve 🙏🏻
Dear future kids...I will never ever critisise you for not becoming best in everything,I will never compare you with other children,I will never curse you because of your tiny mistakes,I will always support you for your dreams no matter what,I will always teach you to learn not to compete everytime with others,I will never let you suffering in depression and anxiety,I will always support you in your downfall or failure....I will never do the same as my own mother is doing with me now!!
My parents are selfish They just want Marks and money from me They don't care about me to which problems I am going through Whenever I used to eat food they were like "ha ha khau khau maa baap ko ese hi bojh dete rahoo" Due to this I used to spend my time lonely and I am trying to get the job and be a self dependent
Nhii apne parents apa nu Stand krna Chaude aa apne mumma Papa Chaude aa k Jo asi kam Krde Aa mere bchee Mere to vdiya banan Apa Nu Oona di respect krni chahidi Jdo apa Vdiya Number lake Aade aa Exam C Mumma Papa Bhout khush Hunde aa Jina Mumma papa nai Apne te jinna Passe Lagaye aa apna Ve thoda Sochna Chahida aa Dear Plz Apne mumma papa Nu Selfish nhi Smjna Chahidda Oona krke hi apa Is duniya te aa Apne Vadde Sister Smjh k Ikk Varr is tara krke dekhio Pehla mai ve is tara sochdi se per idha nhi hunde Jida apa Sochde aa Be Kind❤
I don't know what is right and wrong kyu ki mai khud hi aapne life se bhut pare San hu pta nhi kab sab kuch thik ho ga kabhi lgta hai mai aapne mom or dad ko bahut pareshan krti hu to kabhi lgta hai ki aapna life bhi to jina hai mujhe mujhe bhi kuch chahiye aapne life se
I can understand your feelings sometimes they don't want to hurt us but unfortunately they did . From that we get affected, but leave this things from your mind. Parents just want to make you independent and you can struggle all alone. They want to see their children well settled not money or marks. Their expectations is they want to see their child bright future nothing else. But I will give you advice that just go to parents and sit with them and discuss about your feelings you really will feel good and I hope your parents will understand. What the main thing is we both i.e. parents as well children have to understand both of us. Or if your parents still ignored you , then you have to make decisions from your heart that one day you will make proud to your parents till then you will struggle, you fell down and you are the only one who have to stand and again try to achieve your goal. Sorry to give too much advice but it's just my opinion 🙂
Is duniya me ab koi bhi mujhe sachcha nhi lagta aur na hi achcha lagta h...ye kaliyug h...yahan kaun pyar ki boli bol kar hmara istemal kar le koi nhi janta...sab kahte h ki maa baap kabhi apne bachchon ka bura nhi sochte...kuchh maa baap apni thinking forcefully apne bachcho pe thopte h...jab koi insaan bachcho ko achcha lagta h to wahi apne bachcho ke man me us insaan ke prati hate spread karne ka kaam karte h...jab bachche apni feelings kisi aur se share karte h to wo muh Fula ke baith jaate h ki wo mera beta/beti hoke kisi aur se apni feelings share kar rha h...jabki wo bachcha bahut pahle hi baar baar unse apni feelings share kar chuka hota h aur wo baar baar unhe ignore kar dete the...jis age me bachcha thik apni zindagi jee nhi paa rha hota h us age me maa-baap t.v. pe chal rhe movie ke ek scene me jisme ek adult beta apne maa-baap se thik se behave nhi kar rha hota h us scene ko apne bachcho ko dikha ke uske andar ke maasumiyat aur uske confidence ki dhajjiyan uda dete h...yahan tak bhi man nhi bharta to aas paas ke ladko se compare Kiya jaata...agar us ladke ne apne ghar me kuchh bura kiya to hume bhi usi ke base pe dekha jaata h aur achcha kiya h to hume nicha dikhaya jaata h...kabhi apne bachcho ke andar chhipi abilities aur uski good thinking ko appreciate nhi karte...jisse wo bachcha adult me age me aakar apne hi parents ke khilaf apne man me bure thoughts bna leta aur is baat ka blame bhi wo log uspe dalte ki wo pahle to aisa nhi tha...jabki wahi log apni negative thoughts uske andar daal chuke hote h...ab aur hum kya kahe....jitna kahenge duniya hume hi bura kahegi ki ye apni parents ki disrespect kar rha h...jabki sach ye h ki koi nhi janta ki hamare man me ye bure thoughts unhone hi spread kiye h...warna pahle wo jo bhi kahte the hum maan liya karte the...kaash hamare andar na feelings hoti aur na hi emotions hote to aaj bhi hum usi baat ki sach maante jo wo kahte h...ek bachcha jab bada ho jaata h to wo sirf itna hi chahta h ki uske parents unki baaton ki bhi respect kare...uski bhi apni ek soch hoti h jise sunkar apni ray de lekin wo to sidha apna decision suna dete h ki hum galat h...jisse uske andar khud ke prati bhi hate aa jaata h ki uske parents ko kabhi koi bhi baat achchi nhi lagti to usme hi khamiyan h....pta nhi jo main kah rha hu wo koi samajh paayega ya nhi...bahut se log h jisne mujhe hi is baat ke liye doshi thehra diya h...meri life me koi nhi jisse main apne man ki baat ya problem share kar saku...shayad main galat hu 💔
First time I listened something like this , astonishing , u r talking the most intelligent way , I can feel every word you said and I am crying from inside , I was so much traumatised from my childhood
Dear Future Kids, I will never ever compare you with anyone, will teach you what's right and wrong, will make you a secular person, will not bring religions in your way, will not fear about the society, will trust you more than outsiders. I will always support you 💓
Really your voice aa well as those lines which you have told in this video it's touches my heart and make me understand the real meaning of parents, thank you for your inspirational quotes.
Thankyou veryyy muchh Tumne sb problems hi dur krdi Agr ye video nhi dekhti to syd m kuch... Pr ab mujhe sb smjh aagya h ki kya krna h or kya nhi or kya shi h or kya nhi Once again thnx yrr❤
Sache maa baap wo hote hai jo chahe khud kaise bhi ho lekin apne bachcho ko ye sikhate hai ki beta tum apni zindagi jaise jeena chahte ho jiyo. Jo apno bachcho ko woh jaisi zindagi jeene chahte hai jeene ki izajat dete hai. Wo hote hai sachche maa baap. Badkishmati se sirf main jaanta hoon ki main kya feel karta hoon. But I decided i will leave this house forever.
Yes u r true dear 😍 But I m so lucky because my Mom Dad gives me all freedom to live my life in my ways. They both loves me so much and me too. ❤️They always supports me in each and every thing😍😘 I remember, for my freedom my parents fights with our relatives. The society (relatives) always tell them that she is a girl so don't give her much freedom but my mom dad never worried about it 💯🔥 They both are my bestfriend, my love & my world🌍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥💯💯💯 I hope, everyone should gets Mom Dad like my Mom Dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am also very lucky like you sister☺️☺️. My mother and father supports me very much for everything . Most of the times my parents say to me that " tujhe jo karna hai tu kar jo career lena hai vo ke jitna padhna hai tu padh chahe uske liye hume ye ghar ya khud ko bechna kyun na pad jaye " I feel so blessed that god give me such a loving, caring and supportive parents🙏🙏🙏 Touchwood
Really I have seen alot of videos but the reality is in your video family support is really important and when your parents compare u even when you are trying your best then you just get shattered 💔💔
Your every word is true. I have personally experienced it in my life. Currently I am 40 and have experienced toxicity of my parents since the age of 10. Currently I am completely detached and living a free life of my own. 👍👍👍
Yes my dad is very toxic ...vo mujhe kabhi nahi samajthi..unke ego ki waje se mere mom ko sahi vakth par sahi treatment nahi mila...nd 2 saal pehle mom ki maut hogayi...ap teek kehraraha hai..vo apni zindagi se parishaan hokar dusarom ki zindagi control karne ayi...lekin mere zindagi ko unki hath ki katputhli mai bilkul nahi banne dungi
Right dear ek baat bolu main ish dunia me na koi nahi hota hai appna ajj kal koi vhi bas voh log appna hone ka dikhawa karte hai lekin mujhe asa lagta hai ki appne toh voh hota hai na joh har dard taklif samajhe lekin yaha toh koi vhi nehi hai meri zindagi toh asi hi hai koi nahi hai meri 🙂
My parents are not that like....infact my mom supported me in my hard times...even many times I was fainted but it is she who kept me alive....she always stand besides me like I didn't want to do job and took a drop for other career option....it is she who agreed with my decision....she never forced me to do marriage....she never felt like I am not doing anything in life infact she know I will do something good in life... that's why she never pressurized to something else which I don't like..
Thank you so much dii🙂 aapki iss video ne meri itni help ki h k m aapko words m nhi bta sakti mere pas words nhi h aapko thanks kahne k liye❤️ love you dii
Today I asked my mom that why they can't give me freedom and she said tujhse Jada duniya Dekhi hai Maine Kon tujhe bhadka Raha hai ye sb Kon Tere dimag me bhar Raha hai ye sb I simply said no one!! But you!! And she started her emotional dialogue and I had to lose the argument cause agr main kuch or kehti to shayad wo or emotional ho jati or main villain!!
Is video se mujhe meri ek achi quality sikhne ko mili 😁 ki mai bhi maa baap ka kirdar nibha chuka hu sirf 22 ki age me hi kafi logo ke liye thank you bhola for giving me this opportunity and thank you Ruby didu for your clarification 🤗
I can understand this very well sometimes they don't want to hurt us but unfortunately they did . From that we get affected, but leave this things from your mind. Parents just want to make you independent and you can struggle all alone. They want to see their children well settled not money or marks important for them. Their expectations is they want to see their child bright future nothing else. But I will give you advice that just go to parents and sit with them and discuss about your feelings you really will feel good and I hope your parents will understand. What the main thing is we both i.e. parents as well children have to understand both of us. Or if your parents still ignored you , then you have to make decisions from your heart that one day you will make proud to your parents till then you will struggle, you fell down and you are the only one who have to stand and again try to achieve your goal. Now a days this is the main reason of stress of children, I will suggest talk with your parents once and if still they don't want to listen you. Choose a mentor who will understand you in every situation or else you talk with your family members whom you most believe. Sorry to give too much advice but it's just my opinion. I hope from my comment you will understand 🙂
Tisha...i find these people as lost soul...they self pity...one cannot confirm his or her's misfortunes as others. Parents are not ur choice but they are everything...money n marks are material achievements. Its only for a moment. Life that u lead is their sacrifices...i really feel that this is a misleading video by a teenager and i find it not worth appreciating
I do understand.. That they want best for me... I know they suffered a lot for me... I know today my life is because of them.but that doesn't mean i have to do what they want because its not in my control too.. I can't control my life, i can't let my life go according to my plans.. Because it never goes the way we want it to....one failure of my life... Let me understand that parents also can't be with u.. In ur downs... They let out their pain, anger, frustration on me.. But what about me... My pain, anger, frustration with theirs.. How m i gonna handle this... And those harsh words , those intolerable words...a person will choose to die before listening those.. Everything has a limit...if they can't support me in my downs... When i don't have anyone.....then... Isn't it better to die.... Then struggling and fighting everyday with with life and tolerating all these... People say... Dying will hurt ur parents... What about the pain they are giving....
@@prativajena3230 it's totally my situation. But as I said you have to prove your parents that whatever you decided you did correct. You have to believe yourself. I can totally understand that sometimes parents don't want to understand us. But we can't change their perspective. So what I did that I believe myself and I know I can prove them wrong. Not to win arguments, but for that I am also capable. Never say to die. Think others person who are too have drastic situation then us. Then they also take that decision to die, NO. They try , fall, fail and at last achieve their goals. Don't forget that Thomas Edison so many times it took him 10,000 attempts to perfect. However rather than accepting failure 9,999 times he is quoted as answering questions on his failures as rather: 'I have not failed. That's my opinion. Now it's your choice you want to choose difficult path and keep your life very well or just to finish this beautiful life.😊 Sorry for this much 🙂. I am no one to give you advice but just want to clear your doubts regarding this.
@@tishakoley5037 you don't have to say sorry you didn't say anything wrong ... Actually.. I don't want to die.. But i m not afraid of failure or falling... Neither do i want to die because of this.. Its just that... Everytime i take a step forward.. Their words pull me back 2 steps... I know its hard to trust.. They can choose not to trust me... But... Those words... Are really intolerable... Anyways...will try to tolerate till i can.. If not then god knows .. You too.. Take care.. Be strong and believe you can do it!! All the best...
First time literally first time I found someone who talked about the other side of the coin also .... Parents are right ....but NOT ALWAYS 🚫🙅🙅♀️.......thnx for this video ....my tears 😭 got some place to come out
It's well said that "STRICT PARENTS CREATE GREAT LIARS "
Dear future kids ,I will never do the same as my parents doing with me...I will never yell you for low marks in school , never compare you with anyone , never underestimate you , never will tell you that you can't do it....I will always support you...❤️🥺
Same here
they are making you hard like a rock, if you go in negative way then what is difference btw a animal and human. you cant recreate them , rest relationship can created again n again
💜💜💜💜💜💜
Mai v apne baccho ko hamesha support krungi
Me too
You are absolutely right ...I m dealing with toxic parents 🙂
Sister parents are never toxic just try to understand them and behave good with them they also love you and live happy with them ☺
Same
You are right di ,par ham jab paisa kamana na sikhe tab tak toh hame iss toxic aur hamari parents ki ghulami karni hi padegi.parents are always selfish and harami . i fully experienced with this things it is truly right.
You know anjali when i was struggling with my career issues my father stopped talking with me my mother always insult me behind my back in front of relatives and never appreciate me in front of relatives today am assistant Registrar in IGNOU...and surprisingly everything is changed so its all conditional love!!
@@Kevin-xb4zv true bahiya mere kahani kuch esi hii hai
Atleast mere parents se mujhe ye sikhne mila ke mujhe kesa parent nahi banna hai !!
Same here
Same here 😞
same here
Mujhe bhi
Same here 😢
Right sis ,
' Maa-Baap se sirf sharir milta hai zindagi nahi '🥺😭 Aapki ye lines mujhe hamesha yaad rahegi
first time i hearing bitter truth ....Hats off to u 👏👏👍👍💐💐
My father's one of the common sentence... told by them... or felt daily by me... *" agar is ghar mein rehna hai... to meri tarah raho... warna abhi yaha se nikal jao"*
To nikl jana hi acha rehta hai....
Same to you
Right 🥺
Suna tha ki jo maa bap hote h n bo apne bacho ki khushi ke liye duniya se ladd jate h 😖😖afsos ye lines bs fairytales me ho ti h reality me to maa baap duniya or samaj ki khushi ke liye apne bacho se ldd rhe h... 🥺
I am also faced these kind of prblms becoz of a toxic parents 😭😭😭..
My life became hell 😭😭😭
Bilkul sach h ye lines dii ..."all your feelings "..yes exactly it's my feelings ,I can totally relate with this story ...maine bahut baar khud ke saath galat bhi kiya coz i'm so depressed but jbse maine aapko sunna start kiya h kaafi cheeze better hui h bahut accha feel hota h aapki baato se bilkul aisa lagta h jaise koi hme smjh rha ho har baar nye tareeke se hamare un purane jakhmo pr bhi marham lga rha ho jisse ham andar hi andar ghut rhe h vaise to mai jyada kisi se baat bhi nhi krti but aaz ye likh rhi hu ki khud ko lge ki aapse baat ho rhi h ..thank u so much didu for this nd u r a perfect mentor for us 🤗❤️...
You are right..... My mom always get mad on me without any reason.... Even she live 1 or 2 week without talking to me
I m totally frustrated with such parents they respect my job not me... today I'm jobless and they disrespect me... Sometimes I think, I want to escape any far place from my home with my bf.... & then I think even I can't trust on any bf
U re r8 siso...
Why girls always have 2 suffer.....
Just want 2 ask why? Why only girls..... Even I'm also facing same kinds of situations which u re facing r8 Now.... 😞 #toxic patents make life hell....
True mera bhi yahi haal hai, diii ek maa baap aache mil jate toh hamari life bhi aachi ban jati hame apne maa baap Ko esa karte huye hamare sath dekha hai toh bf pee kya khak bharosa hoga. Ye duniya parayi lagne lagi hai
@@lakdawalatasneem6581 feeling that being a #girl is one of the bad Curse 4 any girl who is facing this type of critical issues... 😞
Same dear.
@@AnjaliGupta-io2tc true yaar
Finally someone has courage to say this in India where emotional manipulation in the name of sanskaar drama abuse narcissism in the name of morality & hum bade hain to we can do anything wala who is at its peak. People are so brainwashed here, literally by movies so called religious businessman babas & tired by society pressure. Our past generation is so wounded their emotional wounds are so deep & suppressed I just hope & pray we all can break Toxic cycles here & not be the carrier of wounds passing to future generations. Understanding Psychology listening to lil spiritual content (whatever we like) understanding individuality it's ok we all are different is very important.
Our generation of parents will be best
Every single line touch my heart and it's today's reality of the world, I'm also dealing with toxic parents 😓😓😓
I m crying from starting to end😔😢 aapne sab meri mann ki baat boldi ...di u r great god bless you n aap ko life m bhut jyada success mile❤
You are right sister. I'm dealing with toxic parents. They don't allow me to wear western clothes . They don't allow me to talk to my friends. They abuse me and sometimes beat me. I'm so depressed and hopeless. 🙂
Every line is based on the reality of the life and your voice is very sweet ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes absolutely right 👍
Thank you for making this video we need to understand that toxic parents exists....
Touchwood I got that type of parent which gave me freedom to do what I wanna do and have full trust on me and even I feel THE LUCKIEST.😀
U are lucky di
Yes me too😀
Every line defines my life and every situation. Just the reality of today's life. So proud that someone could say our feelings in these words. ❤❤❤❤❤
Hat's off to you ruby first of all o love your voice, jo aapne likha hai haina UA-cam pe aisa koi content nahi la sakta mein aapki jitni tareef karu utni kam hai mere pass words nahi hai kuch likhne ke liye yrrr ye video dekhne ke baad mera ander darr baith gya hai future aur family dono ko leke, aapki video dekhne ke baad mein bahut nuetral state mein hu kya likhu mein aapki tareef mein mere pass words nahi hai aapne meri ankhein khol di hai thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart i love your thinking , perspective, vision your thoughts gaved me a new vision to see life love you yrrr, mujhe nahi pata aap asal zindagi mein kaisi insaan hai lekin mein ek baat aapse kah sakti hu aapne mujhe zindagi jeene ka naya matlab sikhaya hai isss video ke through love you yrrrrrr.
Maine iss video ko download kar liya hai mein daily basis pe dekhungi isse video ko sone se pehle, last mein ek sentence yahi kahungi "aankhein khol di aapne meri "
Thank you yrrrr
I have dealt with toxic parents since my 20s. Now I am 40 and still struggling.
Heads of you. You are the real hero . I still 16 but i fell very discusting around my parents😞I wish I will never do the same with my children and will provide them every thing
Independent Bano koi tumhe nicha nhi dikha sakega , log kamzor ko dabate hai , majboot ke saamne to bhagwaan bhi jhukta hai
Sailing in same boat . I wasted 25 lakhs becuase of my father to build a asset and now he has turned that into libality since he was a govt employee and does not know how to do anything . Since they have always lived a easy life and don't even understand that the need of times. If someone talks about money they laugh it off . Disgusting.now i am under debt becuase of them . And the worst part is the entire bulding is just depreciation year on year and in current times there is so much uncertainty. But they won't understand it .since they are getting pension for doing nothing all there life .
Yes u r right..... Sometimes we lost our identity becoz of our parents & feel as if we r useless & end up with anxiety, depression in our life
Every words touched and felt deep in the heart. I honestly want to salute for sharing and having such a courage to share this to this fake world. May God bless you with everything you deserve 🙏🏻
Yes very right every words great ❤
Every lines defines my life and my situations. Thank you so much for making this video..❤❤❤
Dear future kids...I will never ever critisise you for not becoming best in everything,I will never compare you with other children,I will never curse you because of your tiny mistakes,I will always support you for your dreams no matter what,I will always teach you to learn not to compete everytime with others,I will never let you suffering in depression and anxiety,I will always support you in your downfall or failure....I will never do the same as my own mother is doing with me now!!
My parents are selfish
They just want Marks and money from me
They don't care about me to which problems I am going through
Whenever I used to eat food they were like "ha ha khau khau maa baap ko ese hi bojh dete rahoo"
Due to this I used to spend my time lonely and I am trying to get the job and be a self dependent
Nhii apne parents apa nu Stand krna Chaude aa apne mumma Papa Chaude aa k Jo asi kam Krde Aa mere bchee Mere to vdiya banan Apa Nu Oona di respect krni chahidi Jdo apa Vdiya Number lake Aade aa Exam C Mumma Papa Bhout khush Hunde aa Jina Mumma papa nai Apne te jinna Passe Lagaye aa apna Ve thoda Sochna Chahida aa
Dear Plz Apne mumma papa Nu Selfish nhi Smjna Chahidda
Oona krke hi apa Is duniya te aa
Apne Vadde Sister Smjh k
Ikk Varr is tara krke dekhio
Pehla mai ve is tara sochdi se per idha nhi hunde Jida apa Sochde aa
Be Kind❤
I don't know what is right and wrong kyu ki mai khud hi aapne life se bhut pare San hu pta nhi kab sab kuch thik ho ga kabhi lgta hai mai aapne mom or dad ko bahut pareshan krti hu to kabhi lgta hai ki aapna life bhi to jina hai mujhe mujhe bhi kuch chahiye aapne life se
I can understand your feelings sometimes they don't want to hurt us but unfortunately they did . From that we get affected, but leave this things from your mind. Parents just want to make you independent and you can struggle all alone. They want to see their children well settled not money or marks. Their expectations is they want to see their child bright future nothing else. But I will give you advice that just go to parents and sit with them and discuss about your feelings you really will feel good and I hope your parents will understand. What the main thing is we both i.e. parents as well children have to understand both of us. Or if your parents still ignored you , then you have to make decisions from your heart that one day you will make proud to your parents till then you will struggle, you fell down and you are the only one who have to stand and again try to achieve your goal. Sorry to give too much advice but it's just my opinion 🙂
Mera bhi yahi haal hai
Is duniya me ab koi bhi mujhe sachcha nhi lagta aur na hi achcha lagta h...ye kaliyug h...yahan kaun pyar ki boli bol kar hmara istemal kar le koi nhi janta...sab kahte h ki maa baap kabhi apne bachchon ka bura nhi sochte...kuchh maa baap apni thinking forcefully apne bachcho pe thopte h...jab koi insaan bachcho ko achcha lagta h to wahi apne bachcho ke man me us insaan ke prati hate spread karne ka kaam karte h...jab bachche apni feelings kisi aur se share karte h to wo muh Fula ke baith jaate h ki wo mera beta/beti hoke kisi aur se apni feelings share kar rha h...jabki wo bachcha bahut pahle hi baar baar unse apni feelings share kar chuka hota h aur wo baar baar unhe ignore kar dete the...jis age me bachcha thik apni zindagi jee nhi paa rha hota h us age me maa-baap t.v. pe chal rhe movie ke ek scene me jisme ek adult beta apne maa-baap se thik se behave nhi kar rha hota h us scene ko apne bachcho ko dikha ke uske andar ke maasumiyat aur uske confidence ki dhajjiyan uda dete h...yahan tak bhi man nhi bharta to aas paas ke ladko se compare Kiya jaata...agar us ladke ne apne ghar me kuchh bura kiya to hume bhi usi ke base pe dekha jaata h aur achcha kiya h to hume nicha dikhaya jaata h...kabhi apne bachcho ke andar chhipi abilities aur uski good thinking ko appreciate nhi karte...jisse wo bachcha adult me age me aakar apne hi parents ke khilaf apne man me bure thoughts bna leta aur is baat ka blame bhi wo log uspe dalte ki wo pahle to aisa nhi tha...jabki wahi log apni negative thoughts uske andar daal chuke hote h...ab aur hum kya kahe....jitna kahenge duniya hume hi bura kahegi ki ye apni parents ki disrespect kar rha h...jabki sach ye h ki koi nhi janta ki hamare man me ye bure thoughts unhone hi spread kiye h...warna pahle wo jo bhi kahte the hum maan liya karte the...kaash hamare andar na feelings hoti aur na hi emotions hote to aaj bhi hum usi baat ki sach maante jo wo kahte h...ek bachcha jab bada ho jaata h to wo sirf itna hi chahta h ki uske parents unki baaton ki bhi respect kare...uski bhi apni ek soch hoti h jise sunkar apni ray de lekin wo to sidha apna decision suna dete h ki hum galat h...jisse uske andar khud ke prati bhi hate aa jaata h ki uske parents ko kabhi koi bhi baat achchi nhi lagti to usme hi khamiyan h....pta nhi jo main kah rha hu wo koi samajh paayega ya nhi...bahut se log h jisne mujhe hi is baat ke liye doshi thehra diya h...meri life me koi nhi jisse main apne man ki baat ya problem share kar saku...shayad main galat hu 💔
Heart touching...... Kash sblog iss baat ko smjh jaate..... Aapne Jo v btya... Kadva hai prr Sach hai
Right...❣️❣️❣️❣️ understanding is very very very important to know other feelings
First time I listened something like this , astonishing , u r talking the most intelligent way , I can feel every word you said and I am crying from inside , I was so much traumatised from my childhood
Parents never understand your feelings i am daily dealing with my toxic parents 🙂💔
Same here 😢
Same here 🥺
Same here 😢
Same bro 😅
agree 👍 you always explain about facts.. during listening it's like healing process inside my soul..God Bless
Absolutely right and l agree your thinking about it.
Dear Future Kids, I will never ever compare you with anyone, will teach you what's right and wrong, will make you a secular person, will not bring religions in your way, will not fear about the society, will trust you more than outsiders. I will always support you 💓
The bitter truth of life 🥺
Ruby saari baatein dil se nikli batein hain... ❤️
Every line is based on the reality of my life
Same
Me too
Thank God i got a parents who always supports me I am so lucky thank u so much mummy papa
Every line is real about me and maybe many others and aap bhoot achcha explain karte hain. Thanks a lot it is really very helpful
Bhot bhot achi or Sachi bt boli God bless you
You are absolutely right dear ...I'm dealing with this type of parents 😢...
Really your voice aa well as those lines which you have told in this video it's touches my heart and make me understand the real meaning of parents, thank you for your inspirational quotes.
Each and every line touch heart me 💯🙂💗
Wow.. You explained such harsh reality very beautifully 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜👌
You are so true n its been so toxic that it's becoming suicidal😢😢😢
Absolutely everything is right you have touched the 💓
Thankyou veryyy muchh
Tumne sb problems hi dur krdi
Agr ye video nhi dekhti to syd m kuch...
Pr ab mujhe sb smjh aagya h ki kya krna h or kya nhi or kya shi h or kya nhi
Once again thnx yrr❤
Right👍😒 every child need a good parents to understand him care him 😔
You are absolutely right.... Im also facing all that problems
Bitter but absolutely Truth yaar💕😢
You are really very very truly 🙏
its big truth, I m also dealing with toxic parents🙂
Sache maa baap wo hote hai jo chahe khud kaise bhi ho lekin apne bachcho ko ye sikhate hai ki beta tum apni zindagi jaise jeena chahte ho jiyo.
Jo apno bachcho ko woh jaisi zindagi jeene chahte hai jeene ki izajat dete hai.
Wo hote hai sachche maa baap.
Badkishmati se sirf main jaanta hoon ki main kya feel karta hoon.
But I decided i will leave this house forever.
Same feeling 💔
Same
You are absolutely right sis...
My parents never understands me 💔
Yes u r true dear 😍
But I m so lucky because my Mom Dad gives me all freedom to live my life in my ways. They both loves me so much and me too. ❤️They always supports me in each and every thing😍😘
I remember, for my freedom my parents fights with our relatives. The society (relatives) always tell them that she is a girl so don't give her much freedom but my mom dad never worried about it 💯🔥 They both are my bestfriend, my love & my world🌍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥💯💯💯
I hope, everyone should gets Mom Dad like my Mom Dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am also very lucky like you sister☺️☺️. My mother and father supports me very much for everything . Most of the times my parents say to me that " tujhe jo karna hai tu kar jo career lena hai vo ke jitna padhna hai tu padh chahe uske liye hume ye ghar ya khud ko bechna kyun na pad jaye " I feel so blessed that god give me such a loving, caring and supportive parents🙏🙏🙏 Touchwood
Kaashhhh bs ek din k liye mujhe b aese parents milte bsssss 1 din k liye....😅☺️☺️
Really I have seen alot of videos but the reality is in your video family support is really important and when your parents compare u even when you are trying your best then you just get shattered 💔💔
U are absolutely right......I have toxic family.....
Your every word is true. I have personally experienced it in my life. Currently I am 40 and have experienced toxicity of my parents since the age of 10. Currently I am completely detached and living a free life of my own. 👍👍👍
One of the best video on UA-cam 👍
Yeah they made me a new person someone jisko mai khud nhi pehchan paa rhi
Thank you All parents should watch such videos, people should know difference betwn right and wrong
Really heart'😢 touching this video 😢😢😢
"Touchwood"❤️❣️
You're all words very heart 💓 touching. Your every video words link my life.. sister i think you also feel This, who I feel about the 🌎 huminity.
Superb yrrrr…..🤩such a beautiful poetry 😇…….true linesssss
They had broken 💔 me completely 😢
Sachme Rona aagaya aapne sahi kaha
You are absolutely right didi ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
I am so lucky ....😊 .kyunki mere parents ne mujhe hamesha support kiya h😊
Aapne sahi kha dee Thank you so much ☺☺
Just Thank You
I know my limits now
moral-If I want to be free I need to be independent😐😐😐
Yes my dad is very toxic ...vo mujhe kabhi nahi samajthi..unke ego ki waje se mere mom ko sahi vakth par sahi treatment nahi mila...nd 2 saal pehle mom ki maut hogayi...ap teek kehraraha hai..vo apni zindagi se parishaan hokar dusarom ki zindagi control karne ayi...lekin mere zindagi ko unki hath ki katputhli mai bilkul nahi banne dungi
Right dear ek baat bolu main ish dunia me na koi nahi hota hai appna ajj kal koi vhi bas voh log appna hone ka dikhawa karte hai lekin mujhe asa lagta hai ki appne toh voh hota hai na joh har dard taklif samajhe lekin yaha toh koi vhi nehi hai meri zindagi toh asi hi hai koi nahi hai meri 🙂
😊..Mam ap video jldi jldi laya kro,,bahut kuchh sikhne ko milta hai ,,,apse ,,,love you mam😍
Beautiful heart touching lines.
I want to become the best mom for my children in the future ❤
Even if I can't get child I will adopt a child ❤😊
Heart touching❤...kash soblog iss baat ko samajh jate😢
Is se ache to dusman hote hai koi kasar nai chhodte bacho ko barbad karne me😢
Thank you I needed to hear this❤
Thank u so much di itne acchi bat batane ke liye kass hummnbbi smghe or mamma papa bhi🤞🙂
But my parents is very supportive. I am very lucky to have them in my life.❤❤❤
My parents are not that like....infact my mom supported me in my hard times...even many times I was fainted but it is she who kept me alive....she always stand besides me like I didn't want to do job and took a drop for other career option....it is she who agreed with my decision....she never forced me to do marriage....she never felt like I am not doing anything in life infact she know I will do something good in life... that's why she never pressurized to something else which I don't like..
Damn true🥺🥺🥺🥺🖤I'm bearing their torture 😔😔
Bilkul sahi hai har line👌👏
Thank you so much dii🙂 aapki iss video ne meri itni help ki h k m aapko words m nhi bta sakti mere pas words nhi h aapko thanks kahne k liye❤️ love you dii
Today I asked my mom that why they can't give me freedom and she said tujhse Jada duniya Dekhi hai Maine Kon tujhe bhadka Raha hai ye sb Kon Tere dimag me bhar Raha hai ye sb I simply said no one!! But you!! And she started her emotional dialogue and I had to lose the argument cause agr main kuch or kehti to shayad wo or emotional ho jati or main villain!!
May be are are right.
But I m so lucky to have parents like this ❤️
yes,you are write I believe on you.
U r telling very truth ma'am. 👍👍👍
Every line based on the real life 🤍🤍
Right
Evry line is true. Thanks❤
Iam proud of my parents.. kyuki mere parents mujhe kabhi band kr ni rakha... Har wqt freedom dya .. they support me always... Thank u maa papa ..
U are lucky broo
Thanks you so much dear di for amazing video....😍😍😍🤩🤩👍🔥🔥😊❤️🙏🙏🙏you are right...di😊❤️👍💯💯
Bitter truth of present society 😧
Is video se mujhe meri ek achi quality sikhne ko mili 😁 ki mai bhi maa baap ka kirdar nibha chuka hu sirf 22 ki age me hi kafi logo ke liye thank you bhola for giving me this opportunity and thank you Ruby didu for your clarification 🤗
Great...... heart touching!
I can understand this very well sometimes they don't want to hurt us but unfortunately they did . From that we get affected, but leave this things from your mind. Parents just want to make you independent and you can struggle all alone. They want to see their children well settled not money or marks important for them. Their expectations is they want to see their child bright future nothing else. But I will give you advice that just go to parents and sit with them and discuss about your feelings you really will feel good and I hope your parents will understand. What the main thing is we both i.e. parents as well children have to understand both of us. Or if your parents still ignored you , then you have to make decisions from your heart that one day you will make proud to your parents till then you will struggle, you fell down and you are the only one who have to stand and again try to achieve your goal.
Now a days this is the main reason of stress of children, I will suggest talk with your parents once and if still they don't want to listen you. Choose a mentor who will understand you in every situation or else you talk with your family members whom you most believe.
Sorry to give too much advice but it's just my opinion. I hope from my comment you will understand 🙂
Tisha...i find these people as lost soul...they self pity...one cannot confirm his or her's misfortunes as others. Parents are not ur choice but they are everything...money n marks are material achievements. Its only for a moment. Life that u lead is their sacrifices...i really feel that this is a misleading video by a teenager and i find it not worth appreciating
I do understand.. That they want best for me... I know they suffered a lot for me... I know today my life is because of them.but that doesn't mean i have to do what they want because its not in my control too.. I can't control my life, i can't let my life go according to my plans.. Because it never goes the way we want it to....one failure of my life... Let me understand that parents also can't be with u.. In ur downs... They let out their pain, anger, frustration on me.. But what about me... My pain, anger, frustration with theirs.. How m i gonna handle this... And those harsh words , those intolerable words...a person will choose to die before listening those.. Everything has a limit...if they can't support me in my downs... When i don't have anyone.....then... Isn't it better to die.... Then struggling and fighting everyday with with life and tolerating all these... People say... Dying will hurt ur parents... What about the pain they are giving....
@@prativajena3230 it's totally my situation. But as I said you have to prove your parents that whatever you decided you did correct. You have to believe yourself. I can totally understand that sometimes parents don't want to understand us. But we can't change their perspective. So what I did that I believe myself and I know I can prove them wrong. Not to win arguments, but for that I am also capable. Never say to die. Think others person who are too have drastic situation then us. Then they also take that decision to die, NO. They try , fall, fail and at last achieve their goals. Don't forget that Thomas Edison so many times it took him 10,000 attempts to perfect. However rather than accepting failure 9,999 times he is quoted as answering questions on his failures as rather: 'I have not failed.
That's my opinion. Now it's your choice you want to choose difficult path and keep your life very well or just to finish this beautiful life.😊
Sorry for this much 🙂. I am no one to give you advice but just want to clear your doubts regarding this.
@@tishakoley5037 you don't have to say sorry you didn't say anything wrong ... Actually.. I don't want to die.. But i m not afraid of failure or falling... Neither do i want to die because of this.. Its just that... Everytime i take a step forward.. Their words pull me back 2 steps... I know its hard to trust.. They can choose not to trust me... But... Those words... Are really intolerable... Anyways...will try to tolerate till i can.. If not then god knows .. You too.. Take care.. Be strong and believe you can do it!! All the best...
@@prativajena3230 great decision! You really will get more than you expected. You too all the best for future.
Beautiful thought
Dd aap ki aur mero thought kitna similar he ye vdo se pata chala i am suffering from mental issue. ye to meri he bat jaisi lag rha he love u❤
I am fully agree with this. ❤❤❤❤
First time literally first time I found someone who talked about the other side of the coin also ....
Parents are right ....but NOT ALWAYS 🚫🙅🙅♀️.......thnx for this video ....my tears 😭 got some place to come out