I admit that i would'nt have met the ex at all if i were OP. His dad is probably disapointed because he was fearing his son to fell head over for that woman again. And let's be honest; OP's dad may be aware of his wife and daughter scheme about getting OP and his ex back together.
She used him to pay for her schooling but now that she is done she wants to trade up. When it did not work out she tried to crawl back to his financial safety. But once burned, twice shy. Good for him for seeing through it. She will always be his childhood friend but they are no longer children
Mom and sister want OP to meet ex for the ex's benefit. It sucks that they don't care about OP at all. OP's brother is just messing with him which is funny. Dad has it right, no words and just walk away. OP should not have taken the meeting. OP is ok past it and cheating ex doesn't deserve closure let alone a second chance.
To be honest OP was indeed a simp and a slight doormat for going to meet Sarah and not going LC with his mom and sister. I still don’t know why the mother would still care for the woman who cheated on her son, OP should have told Sarah off
I get the dad but sometimes you have to pick up your battles. Pissing off his mom and sister was probably not worth it. At least now they can't bug OP anymore. Good on OP. Hope he's doing OK.
I agree. I'm not saying he should date someone for the sake of it, but by staying single, he is sending the message that he is still not over his ex. That's probably why his mom and sister have the guts to try to get him back with his ex.
@@chrystylord2324 Oh please, the only reason mom did it was because she was concerned about her image with her social group because the ex's mom has a big influence. Mom & sis just sided with his ex and showed where their loyalties lay, they're pathetic.
Good story, but.... What guys keep forgetting is, when these women come crawling back, you can use them as FWB's They don't have to know you're putting them in that category till you find someone more permanent.
Well, on OP's case he doesn't need Sarah for a FWB situation. He already has a hot Romanian girlfriend and has a job where he travels the world, so he wouldn't be there to take advantage of it anyway.
OP is NTA and owes neither the ex nor his pathetic, drama inducing family.
He disappointed his father by simping.
And his littler brother too.
The most non ghosting ghosting story you'll read today....
I admit that i would'nt have met the ex at all if i were OP. His dad is probably disapointed because he was fearing his son to fell head over for that woman again. And let's be honest; OP's dad may be aware of his wife and daughter scheme about getting OP and his ex back together.
She used him to pay for her schooling but now that she is done she wants to trade up. When it did not work out she tried to crawl back to his financial safety. But once burned, twice shy. Good for him for seeing through it. She will always be his childhood friend but they are no longer children
Nta. Why should it take her having to break someone's heart to become a better person?
Mom and sister want OP to meet ex for the ex's benefit. It sucks that they don't care about OP at all. OP's brother is just messing with him which is funny. Dad has it right, no words and just walk away. OP should not have taken the meeting. OP is ok past it and cheating ex doesn't deserve closure let alone a second chance.
I probably wouldve met my ex for juicey details then ghosted him too who doesnt love a good drama karma
To be honest OP was indeed a simp and a slight doormat for going to meet Sarah and not going LC with his mom and sister. I still don’t know why the mother would still care for the woman who cheated on her son, OP should have told Sarah off
Mom was only concerned about her image amongst her social group.
You would be the asshole if you didn’t ghost her!!
I get the dad but sometimes you have to pick up your battles. Pissing off his mom and sister was probably not worth it. At least now they can't bug OP anymore. Good on OP. Hope he's doing OK.
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I'd suggest fwb just to get it off your chest since ur not sounding serious about your gf and ex wife is putting out anyway
What a wonderful story. Op us funny AH but still hurting, he needs to open his heart to love someone à better stronger woman.
I agree. I'm not saying he should date someone for the sake of it, but by staying single, he is sending the message that he is still not over his ex. That's probably why his mom and sister have the guts to try to get him back with his ex.
@@chrystylord2324 Oh please, the only reason mom did it was because she was concerned about her image with her social group because the ex's mom has a big influence. Mom & sis just sided with his ex and showed where their loyalties lay, they're pathetic.
Good story, but....
What guys keep forgetting is, when these women come crawling back, you can use them as FWB's
They don't have to know you're putting them in that category till you find someone more permanent.
Well, on OP's case he doesn't need Sarah for a FWB situation. He already has a hot Romanian girlfriend and has a job where he travels the world, so he wouldn't be there to take advantage of it anyway.
@johnbutler1323
Yes. You're right in this case.
My comment was a general observation for the majority of guys that mope around after a break up.