I love vulnerable chats like these. Also, I want to comment on the body image part because it makes me sad knowing that everyone, especially women and young girls, have issues with their bodies. I have never looked at another person and thought “oh, their body looks so bad” or “have they gained weight?” Because it’s so disrespectful and irrelevant. It’s one of the main reasons I try to stay away from tiktok, it’s very sad. I think everyone is beautiful and worth more than the size, shape, or height of their body. Try not to worry so much about it, and certainly don’t let another human dictate how you feel about yourself. You’re greater than you think. :) thanks for the video Cary’s!! (Sorry for the long comment lol)
This related to the “girl pretty” vs “boy pretty” girls won’t notice the change because we know how much society puts us down so we always just see them as pretty,where as “boy pretty” will notice the smallest stretch mark that they didn’t see before pop up and will cause so many issues for themselves or have others give them a hard time because they are told that this woman(or man) has to look a certain way and it’s so unbelievably toxic
A thing that helped me A LOT with my body image was looking at different people (girls especially) and actually noticing how beautiful they all looked to me. They all had different bodies (short, tall, curvy, super fit, thin...) but no matter what I always felt like they were beautiful. Each body was just right for the person it belonged to. I tried to direct this neutrality towards my body as well, to feel as I'm just part of a group of BILLIONS of people, and EVERYONE has his/here own body, and that's ok. It's just bodies. What matters about ourselves is our heart, our kindness, our curiosity, our uniqueness. Our body really is the least interesting thing about us. And each body is just a body, beautiful in its own way.
deleting TikTok and Instagram was the best choice I’ve decided last year. I‘m a sensitive, empathic person and for me it was so stressful using those social platforms and it led me to overthink. I would recommend it to everyone who is feeling overwhelmed with all these stupid trends going around. Also it is really bad for your brain searching for dopamine on your phone. My fear was being left out when it comes to deleting social platforms. But there are many other ways to stay connected without damaging yourself. (Podcasts, reading, UA-cam in some ways,…) For me it was a good choice and I would recommend it.
Same!!! I deleted them 3-ish months ago and at the start i didn't really notice the difference aside from having this weird twitch to scroll but it's crept up on me now. I feel so much less anxious and so much happier in my body and myself - I also started feeling like a cool person again aha (and I have so much more time!! like SOOOO MUCH). I was so worried i would feel less connected to my friends (esp. as I moved interstate for uni) but I actually have never spoken to my friends more than I do now. Its' the best thing i've ever done for myself and i would recommend it 1 million times over to anyone as well!
Me too 🤍 I deleted Snapchat and twitter in addition not just tik and instagram and that was 6 months ago, I’m so proud of myself and proud of you 🤍 I want to live without my phone 🥹
what you said about body image is SO important. i went through the exact same thing my first year of college and experienced similar feelings of disliking my body. it's such a shitty feeling, but i appreciate you mentioning it bc it is so wildly normal. your body at 20 isn't going to look the same as it did when you were 16 as you grow up and your metabolism slows. i also think the transition of moving out and cooking/feeding yourself can definitely affect your relationship with food, weight, and your body.
Bro that's y everyone workout everyday or day after day, it's easy bro 1 hour of workout, just not get boring & don't waste ur time just using social media more, use that time to workout before go to bed, i tried it & I'm succeeded myself 😂
i so appreciate your vulnerability!! with regards to the body image issues, 2nd puberty is so real. i’m 20 now but when i was 18 the same thing happened to me and i felt super insecure, but as i grow i feel all of my features settling in more to being a woman, and my proportions evening out. it’s okay and normal to gain weight, your beauty is innate and your body will always be in flux
i loved this video!! i'm also entering womanhood and i'm not having a good relationship with my body lately. with this, you inspired me to appreciate my body as it is. thank you so much for posting tonight, you made me feel a lot better ❤
It’s crazy how people always hate something about their bodies when it is not even noticeable to others. Even models who seem to be so confident and comfortable in their bodies have days when they just wish they could change a curve or a size or something, and nobody’s ever satisfied. Literally nobody can fit the “perfect image” because it doesn’t exist. Trying to be healthy and keep your body alive is all that matters.
your content is exactly what i need to bring me back down to earth. i suddenly get reminded of how beautiful life can be and of all the infinite possibilities in front of me
as a 23 year old girly, the second puberty thing is so true!!! even in your 20s, you will grow more into your own body if that makes sense. it is tough to watch yourself change like that when you do not expect it, even if other people don't seem to notice. but just like you said, i guess it is part of "womanhood" and just being a human in general. love that you spoke so openly about it :)
this is the most comfortable video over the past weeks,like I literally felt the warm and comfort,it was easy to relax in this kind of cozy atmostphere,it's like you're talking to your best friend about everything,and you feel support and all the kidness,and also i should mention the location,it is really great,especially the moment with the sun,it was so beautiful the sun,you,nature and you talking about important things in life,and i really love how mature you've become,all of your advices are really helpful and meaningful
absolutely no words for how much the conversation about body image meant to me. i'm not going to ramble into specifics as to why i listened to that section w tears in my eyes but thank you so much for talking about those topics for us. like thank you thank you thank you!
i love your videos sm. out of all the amazing people you are one of the few who are my age and that means a lot having someone who i similar in age and also at uni. much love thank you for being here
i feel like i really needed this video and it feels really nice to know that someone else is going through the same thoughts and feelings as me. it also reminds me how much i appreciate my friends and loved ones who are there for me 💕 thank you
these tiktok trends are getting out of hand. i never ever thought of smile lines as an insecurity. i didn't even know they were a thing. now i can't go to uni wo wearing concealer and i caught myself trying not to smile. all because of a random tiktok video. thank god i realised where that was going but i can't even imagine how someone who's extremely sensitive about their body, might be dealing with it... thanks for the video Cary !! this week has been so stressful with school and economical struggle and so many other things. so i'm rlly grateful for this video. it makes me less anxious knowing that it's not just me going through this womanhood thing. love u sm and have a nice stay at home
my personal advice on relationship is to date your friend. honestly i kinda always had the mindset that you shouldn't date someone to just have a bf or gf, so my first relationship happened when i was 18 with my friend. time passed and even though we've been a couple for quite a while now we're stll like bestest friends of each other whuvh in my opinion is a key to keeping a relationship healthy and trustworthy
I relate so much to how my mood is affected by Winter. Ive been trying to romanticize it but it's been hard 😞 Thank you for being open about body image.
The overthinking’s advice is TRUE, trust me journal is the most effective way to decrease overthinking. And the most important is believe in yourself 🫶🏻
favourite forest fairy! thank you for being so open and speaking out such vulnerable things! feels like you are my best friend who is always here to have a sister-sister talk! love you
Has everyone seen all those comments asking people are they ‘acoustic’ and then calling them ‘restarted’… it’s actually so embarrassing how our generation are and how offensive these TikTok trends are😞
I never gave you my standard uni advice Carys. Not that the state of me there would be much to go on. It's more what I should have done. 1) is know the escape routes to the country. I know you get back to Cymru a lot but I mean The Peaks and stuff. (2) Cheap bike. Expensive lock. as for SAD, I've got one of them fancy lights than you can get quite cheap.
One thing I noticed about people living in cold countries or in Europe in generally there mood goes down on winter because it becomes foggy and dark all the times but here in Morocco the winter season is so good idk how to really explain it but u can go out while it’s raining and still see the Sun and it doesn’t rain all times and when u go outside people are always smiling and laughing it is such a mood actually.
holy shit. i found myself nodding along to your words, smiling knowingly and laughing all throughout this video. on youtube, we see so many people trying to “keep it real” but everything you said in this video was so reassuring to hear and made me feel like there are people in this whole world out there who think like me. thank you SO much for this caz, ppl say this a lot but i genuinely felt like i was directly in a conversation with you like on facetime or something. sending u all my love
Since I was 20 (33 now), i gained and lost a little more weight 7 times, the first times it went away by its own, the last time (turning 30) i had to do something. but the weight is back again for 2,5 years now already and I try to embrace it, dress it so that it looks good the way it is.
This happened to me I spent nearly the whole time of being 18-19 in Canada and when I came back to the uk all my friends were saying how differently I looked and again it was I was eating differently but it was difficult mentally to put that weight on and for my body to change
Nothing wrong with a women not being a size 6-10 , nothing more beautiful then a women being comfortable in themselves no matter what size you are! Coming from a man 42 ❤
Can’t BELIEVE she’s keeping up this fake accent charade. And yall continue to believe it! Listen to her say “like” at 5:19, it’s so so SO American. Wake up people.
Hii Carys! I know I’m late to this video but I couldn’t leave without dropping this comment ! YOU HONESTLY HAVE NO IDEAAA HOW MUCH THIS PARTICULAR VIDEO helped me ! I’m going thru a break up rn and you practically gave me a lil much needed therapy session 😭this was soo affirming and helpful ! You might not even read this … but just know that your vid brought a smile on my face when I was having a bad day tysmmm 😭🫶🏻🫂Ilysm ❤
I love how real Carys is. I would love to see videos of her doing some mundane stuff (like baking) and talking about life stuff. It makes you realise that a lot of people feel the same or go through the same things in life🫶
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I love vulnerable chats like these. Also, I want to comment on the body image part because it makes me sad knowing that everyone, especially women and young girls, have issues with their bodies. I have never looked at another person and thought “oh, their body looks so bad” or “have they gained weight?” Because it’s so disrespectful and irrelevant. It’s one of the main reasons I try to stay away from tiktok, it’s very sad. I think everyone is beautiful and worth more than the size, shape, or height of their body. Try not to worry so much about it, and certainly don’t let another human dictate how you feel about yourself. You’re greater than you think. :) thanks for the video Cary’s!! (Sorry for the long comment lol)
This related to the “girl pretty” vs “boy pretty” girls won’t notice the change because we know how much society puts us down so we always just see them as pretty,where as “boy pretty” will notice the smallest stretch mark that they didn’t see before pop up and will cause so many issues for themselves or have others give them a hard time because they are told that this woman(or man) has to look a certain way and it’s so unbelievably toxic
You are an angel of a person. If everyone was like you the world would be a very nice place ♥︎
A thing that helped me A LOT with my body image was looking at different people (girls especially) and actually noticing how beautiful they all looked to me. They all had different bodies (short, tall, curvy, super fit, thin...) but no matter what I always felt like they were beautiful. Each body was just right for the person it belonged to. I tried to direct this neutrality towards my body as well, to feel as I'm just part of a group of BILLIONS of people, and EVERYONE has his/here own body, and that's ok. It's just bodies. What matters about ourselves is our heart, our kindness, our curiosity, our uniqueness. Our body really is the least interesting thing about us. And each body is just a body, beautiful in its own way.
You make me feel sm better about myself and you honestly feel like a big sister to me, love u sm
deleting TikTok and Instagram was the best choice I’ve decided last year. I‘m a sensitive, empathic person and for me it was so stressful using those social platforms and it led me to overthink. I would recommend it to everyone who is feeling overwhelmed with all these stupid trends going around. Also it is really bad for your brain searching for dopamine on your phone. My fear was being left out when it comes to deleting social platforms. But there are many other ways to stay connected without damaging yourself. (Podcasts, reading, UA-cam in some ways,…) For me it was a good choice and I would recommend it.
Same!!! I deleted them 3-ish months ago and at the start i didn't really notice the difference aside from having this weird twitch to scroll but it's crept up on me now. I feel so much less anxious and so much happier in my body and myself - I also started feeling like a cool person again aha (and I have so much more time!! like SOOOO MUCH). I was so worried i would feel less connected to my friends (esp. as I moved interstate for uni) but I actually have never spoken to my friends more than I do now. Its' the best thing i've ever done for myself and i would recommend it 1 million times over to anyone as well!
Me too 🤍
I deleted Snapchat and twitter in addition not just tik and instagram and that was 6 months ago, I’m so proud of myself and proud of you 🤍
I want to live without my phone 🥹
what you said about body image is SO important. i went through the exact same thing my first year of college and experienced similar feelings of disliking my body. it's such a shitty feeling, but i appreciate you mentioning it bc it is so wildly normal. your body at 20 isn't going to look the same as it did when you were 16 as you grow up and your metabolism slows. i also think the transition of moving out and cooking/feeding yourself can definitely affect your relationship with food, weight, and your body.
Bro that's y everyone workout everyday or day after day, it's easy bro 1 hour of workout, just not get boring & don't waste ur time just using social media more, use that time to workout before go to bed, i tried it & I'm succeeded myself 😂
i so appreciate your vulnerability!! with regards to the body image issues, 2nd puberty is so real. i’m 20 now but when i was 18 the same thing happened to me and i felt super insecure, but as i grow i feel all of my features settling in more to being a woman, and my proportions evening out. it’s okay and normal to gain weight, your beauty is innate and your body will always be in flux
i loved this video!! i'm also entering womanhood and i'm not having a good relationship with my body lately. with this, you inspired me to appreciate my body as it is. thank you so much for posting tonight, you made me feel a lot better ❤
it feels like i’m listening to a podcast, i love this
i felt seen on this video. im constantly scared for the future and my physical appearance so this helped a lot :)
love every second of it
It’s crazy how people always hate something about their bodies when it is not even noticeable to others. Even models who seem to be so confident and comfortable in their bodies have days when they just wish they could change a curve or a size or something, and nobody’s ever satisfied. Literally nobody can fit the “perfect image” because it doesn’t exist. Trying to be healthy and keep your body alive is all that matters.
your content is exactly what i need to bring me back down to earth. i suddenly get reminded of how beautiful life can be and of all the infinite possibilities in front of me
as a 23 year old girly, the second puberty thing is so true!!! even in your 20s, you will grow more into your own body if that makes sense. it is tough to watch yourself change like that when you do not expect it, even if other people don't seem to notice. but just like you said, i guess it is part of "womanhood" and just being a human in general. love that you spoke so openly about it :)
Thanks
this video felt like a nice, little cozy chat with you. it warmed me from inside.
literally such a great video xx
this is the most comfortable video over the past weeks,like I literally felt the warm and comfort,it was easy to relax in this kind of cozy atmostphere,it's like you're talking to your best friend about everything,and you feel support and all the kidness,and also i should mention the location,it is really great,especially the moment with the sun,it was so beautiful
the sun,you,nature and you talking about important things in life,and i really love how mature you've become,all of your advices are really helpful and meaningful
absolutely no words for how much the conversation about body image meant to me. i'm not going to ramble into specifics as to why i listened to that section w tears in my eyes but thank you so much for talking about those topics for us. like thank you thank you thank you!
This video really made me felt more okay about being an overthinker thanks Carys, a lot of love from paris
i love your videos sm. out of all the amazing people you are one of the few who are my age and that means a lot having someone who i similar in age and also at uni. much love thank you for being here
Who the hell is this guy replying to everyone with a fake Carys Rachel account and then deleting the comment??
Where are you ? I can't imagine winter without snow....
You are so beautiful. I think that you look more beautiful than the last time I saw you in England's amazing nature. Synchronicity. 🌹
i feel like i really needed this video and it feels really nice to know that someone else is going through the same thoughts and feelings as me. it also reminds me how much i appreciate my friends and loved ones who are there for me 💕 thank you
these tiktok trends are getting out of hand. i never ever thought of smile lines as an insecurity. i didn't even know they were a thing. now i can't go to uni wo wearing concealer and i caught myself trying not to smile. all because of a random tiktok video. thank god i realised where that was going but i can't even imagine how someone who's extremely sensitive about their body, might be dealing with it... thanks for the video Cary !! this week has been so stressful with school and economical struggle and so many other things. so i'm rlly grateful for this video. it makes me less anxious knowing that it's not just me going through this womanhood thing. love u sm and have a nice stay at home
I liked the video even before watching it haha
Hi Bob! MEOWWW
Thanks
my personal advice on relationship is to date your friend. honestly i kinda always had the mindset that you shouldn't date someone to just have a bf or gf, so my first relationship happened when i was 18 with my friend. time passed and even though we've been a couple for quite a while now we're stll like bestest friends of each other whuvh in my opinion is a key to keeping a relationship healthy and trustworthy
Makes my day when you make new vlogs Carys Rachel❤️
I relate so much to how my mood is affected by Winter. Ive been trying to romanticize it but it's been hard 😞 Thank you for being open about body image.
Goodmorning ❤
Thanks
carys I love you with my soul
Love you 😘
U looks so beautiful ❤
The overthinking’s advice is TRUE, trust me journal is the most effective way to decrease overthinking. And the most important is believe in yourself 🫶🏻
Thank you sm for this. You’re beautiful inside and out Cary’s!! We love u :)
you're really pretty🍉
Nice speech girl.
Thanks
Have a great weekend from Madrid spain.☺👍
i like your existence.
Respect.
favourite forest fairy! thank you for being so open and speaking out such vulnerable things! feels like you are my best friend who is always here to have a sister-sister talk! love you
Has everyone seen all those comments asking people are they ‘acoustic’ and then calling them ‘restarted’… it’s actually so embarrassing how our generation are and how offensive these TikTok trends are😞
ur talks in trees is definitely ur thing and i love this
I never gave you my standard uni advice Carys. Not that the state of me there would be much to go on. It's more what I should have done. 1) is know the escape routes to the country. I know you get back to Cymru a lot but I mean The Peaks and stuff. (2) Cheap bike. Expensive lock.
as for SAD, I've got one of them fancy lights than you can get quite cheap.
One thing I noticed about people living in cold countries or in Europe in generally there mood goes down on winter because it becomes foggy and dark all the times but here in Morocco the winter season is so good idk how to really explain it but u can go out while it’s raining and still see the Sun and it doesn’t rain all times and when u go outside people are always smiling and laughing it is such a mood actually.
In the beginning it sounds like there are horses galloping around. It's actually nice
u are so beautiful soul, I don't feel that lonely when i watch your videos, thank you Carys♥♥
You're not the only one. I think the same as you, love...and i know what you're going through.
I wish you the best beautiful :)
holy shit. i found myself nodding along to your words, smiling knowingly and laughing all throughout this video. on youtube, we see so many people trying to “keep it real” but everything you said in this video was so reassuring to hear and made me feel like there are people in this whole world out there who think like me. thank you SO much for this caz, ppl say this a lot but i genuinely felt like i was directly in a conversation with you like on facetime or something. sending u all my love
i love these videos
Since I was 20 (33 now), i gained and lost a little more weight 7 times, the first times it went away by its own, the last time (turning 30) i had to do something. but the weight is back again for 2,5 years now already and I try to embrace it, dress it so that it looks good the way it is.
I love this ❤
❤love this
Okay. Ur vlogs are actually free therapy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💐
so honest
would love to see a more in depth video about journalling!
i love you so much
i love you. thank you for this video i love listening to you talk
All things you said in this video were so helpful and important🫶🏻 I love this kind of videos
u are the best
This happened to me I spent nearly the whole time of being 18-19 in Canada and when I came back to the uk all my friends were saying how differently I looked and again it was I was eating differently but it was difficult mentally to put that weight on and for my body to change
every thing in this video is amazingly pretty 🥹💗 you're stunning!!
thank you for this video 💌 love your advices
it feels like i'm talking to a friend. thank u!
Love what you said on body image 🫶🏻
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I dont know Y but I love u girl , keep going
hey, I like very much everything you say!
i will be there for you
Thank you so much for this video Carys ❤
thank you Carys you inspire me so much❤️❤
You hoenstly bring me so much peace
Nice , where you from?
can't wait for this video carys!
i haven't seen you in a while
Loved it. Thank you 🤍
Hello. Can you please tell where are you from or what is your English accent? I really love how it sounds 🫶🏻
She's from Wales💓
@@doorlangejan9104 thnak you a lot ♥
First view!!!!
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this was a really lovely video, thank you so much for sharing
i am first
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Nothing wrong with a women not being a size 6-10 , nothing more beautiful then a women being comfortable in themselves no matter what size you are! Coming from a man 42 ❤
Your videos are always so calming to me
Free 🇵🇸
Can’t BELIEVE she’s keeping up this fake accent charade. And yall continue to believe it! Listen to her say “like” at 5:19, it’s so so SO American. Wake up people.
I am definitely not American 😭
This comment is so funny wtf
Hii Carys! I know I’m late to this video but I couldn’t leave without dropping this comment ! YOU HONESTLY HAVE NO IDEAAA HOW MUCH THIS PARTICULAR VIDEO helped me ! I’m going thru a break up rn and you practically gave me a lil much needed therapy session 😭this was soo affirming and helpful ! You might not even read this … but just know that your vid brought a smile on my face when I was having a bad day tysmmm 😭🫶🏻🫂Ilysm ❤
putting periods at the end of every title and/thumbnail is the cringiest trend of 2020s, careful not to cut yourself on that narcissistic edge
I love how real Carys is. I would love to see videos of her doing some mundane stuff (like baking) and talking about life stuff. It makes you realise that a lot of people feel the same or go through the same things in life🫶