OUR BIRTH VLOG! Surprise gender reveal + birth complications
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- Hi Fam!!! Thank you for your patience with us, we have been recovering and getting in alllll the new born snuggles :) This weekend was a lot and had scary moments, but wow we are so in love with our beautiful son CJ, it was all so so worth it!!!
Welcome to the world Caleb John Howard! Born 7/23/23 at 10:14pm weighing 8 lbs 6 oz (mom was right!). Named after your dad and both grandpas - the three most important men in your life! Our son, you are incredibly loved.
Thank you all for following along on our pregnancy journey! We are so thankful for each and every one of you!
Love,
The Howards
Don’t apologize for being emotional when talking about what you went through. Labor and delivery is emotional on its own and you had a lot of things happen that aren’t “normal” in most L&D situations. I’m so sorry you had complications. But I’m so happy for you and your little family. He’s absolutely handsome and it’s so good to see you all doing so well now. ❤
Whether you felt pain or not, your body still went through a ton! Don’t feel like you need to downplay how hard it was for you ❤
In C-section you don’t feel the baby coming out but heck, after it, it hurts like crap 😅😂
@@hassie3475you can still feel pressure though, and while not necessarily what you’d call “painful” it can be extremely unpleasant for some
@@lucyjane2883 yeah had my first one after two vaginal births . You don't feel anything but that pressure can put anyone in discomfort and also leaving gas and air in your body after which does cause chest and shoulders pain. It's really hard to breath during surgery like that as well especially with the spinal block already.
I got put under for my emergency c section because my epidural stopped working so I didn’t even get to feel or see anything I didn’t even hear my babies first cry or hold him until I woke up😅 c sections are no joke and anyone that downplays c sections mamas never went through it! I feel like we had a similar birth experience, nothing broke my heart more than having to wait to meet your baby you waited all this time to meet
@@Auden236 yea emergency C-section I hear are a lot worst then a planned C-section because everything is rushed to get your baby out. On that Friday I went to my OB appointment they said to go to the hospital right away was told that I was going to be on fluids hoping that will fix the problem. But the ran test told me I would have a plan C-section on the morning because it wasn't working. During the C-section I heard the doctor saying yeah I'm so glad I did decide you having a C-section today and not at 37 weeks because he literally has no fluid left around him. I'm not still sure on the cause of that though never really remembered to ask or they never mentioned why. I was really just trying to breathe through the whole process because it was one of my greatest fears no lie. I physically hated the thought of being cut open while laying awake hoping I didn't bleed out or feel anything.
CJ instantly grabbing your face when you first held him was the most precious thing. He KNEW that was his Momma! Congratulations to the both of you! Sending prayers your way 🩷
Oh Abby, at 13:15 you had me sobbing! 😍🥹😭 There is nothing like seeing and holding your precious newborn for the first time! Congratulations you guys! Praise Jesus for this blessing!
I see God's faithfulness all over your birth story. CJ is precious. Love you guys and your channel.
Oh my gosh don’t be sorry for crying. Birth is intense and you’ve had an extremely intense experience. I’m so glad you’re all okay. I’m sure the joy you felt when you finally got to hold him was incredible. I know when I held my daughter for the first time it was magical. Wishing you all all the best ❤
You’re a warrior mama! Seeing you start to cry when you finally see and hear CJ cry my mama’s heart just started tearing up. You did it mama!!
Abby,I had a very similar birth experience with my first. Infection, pushing for hours, c-section, hemorrhage, baby in NICU. You need to know how strong you are! You are a warrior and heaven was definitely watching out for you! ❤ congratulations on the beautiful baby boy! He is lucky to have you as his mama!
When he touched her face I burst out crying. My little girl is sleeping on my chest as I watch this and it brought back all the feels from my birth 4months ago to the day.
Congratulations to you! ❤🎉
13:20 I lost it. I’m not a mom and might never be. But seeing this love is so inspiring. You two and Matt and Abbyare already the best parents and would definitely be people I’d look up to if I became a mama. Even without, I still look up to you guys. I’m 24 so it’s a good age range as well❤ happy happy birthday beautiful CJ! I hope you’re healing well Abby!
Wow. I don’t think I’ve ever heard someone’s birth story being so close to mine. I’m so sorry for all that you went through. I know how hard it was for me recovering mentally and emotionally and I truly feel for you sister💔 But the Lord brings us comfort. The Lord makes us lay down in green pastures and walks with us in the valley of the shadow of death. There is His grace and glory written into this birth story and I am so so happy for you and Caleb❤
Thank you so much Abby for sharing your story. The fact that you endured so much with labor and recovery, you never once complained unlike this other couple on YT. I like how you said It Is What It Is shows your kindness and character. You are definitely going to be an awesome mom. Baby CJ is an absolute doll. Congrats to you and Caleb. 💙💙💙
Congratulations! My little one is 9 weeks old and I felt all your emotions right with you watching your story. Birth is overwhelming but the biggest blessing one can receive.
Love how you are open about your faith. You're an inspiration to me as a new mom myself to a sweet boy. ❤
I’m currently pregnant with our second little boy and was sobbing watching this and knowing as a momma how hard that was to not be with him right away!! I’m so sorry that was how your labor went but thank God you’re both okay and he’s here and safe! I know you’ve had time to heal and recover now but I’m still sending you a big mom to mom hug and letting you know you did absolutely amazing and what a story and a testament to the faithfulness of Jesus!! Congratulations you guys he’s beautiful!!
Crying right along with you! The roller coaster that is labor and delivery is WILD! My first was an emergency c section also and I ended up having a panic attack during it and thought that my heart was going to stop. 4 years later and that experience still hasn’t stopped me from having 2 more kids(VBACs) with much smoother deliveries. Women go through so much, congrats on a healthy baby and mama!
I'm so glad you are both okay! God was totally with you guys and I can't imagine not being able to see my baby for that long and you have a total right to cry. Don't apologize. Love you all!
Congratulations!!! Seeing you hold him for the first time had me tearing up😢
That moment was so precious 🥰
And praise the Lord that CJ is healthy! And that you are healing!
8 weeks ago I hemorrhaged during my delivery and had to be taken into surgery right after birth. I feel your pain and the emotions of being taken away from your child! It was something
I, too, had to surrender to the Lord. Sadly three days after discharged I had to be readmitted due to infection! Things you never think will happen but you see God’s faithfulness and strength carry you in ways you never imagine! You did it! Congratulations!
Oh abby, I'm so proud of you for pushing through such an amazing and treacherous experience! You handled CJ's birth liken a champ and I can only hope to be as brave as you are when I have my first kiddo! God bless your gorgeous family!
Girl!! Literally the SAME thing happened with my daughters birth!! 🥲🥹💙 you’re so strong mama! 🥲
I cried along with you! I pray that you have a peaceful postpartum recovery and SO many snuggles with your little man ❤️
Hello precious Angel!!!! Welcome to the world. Congrats to CJ n Abby
I’m so glad you have a beautiful healthy baby boy! Watching you see your son for the first time had me in tears! I had a traumatic birth as well, I lost one of my twins and my other daughter is still in the nicu and getting to hold your baby for the first time is the best feeling. Best of wishes to you guys and you’re gonna be the best parents ❤️❤️❤️
This literally brought me to tears. God is sooo good!! God bless Caleb, Abby and CJ!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Abby ,you and Caleb inspire me so much ,your faith is awesome 👏🏼God bless you and your adorable baby
Precious baby CJ 😍 What an amazing gift you’ve been given! Congrats on your sweet boy! Thinking of you as you heal Abby in all ways physically, emotionally, & mentally. Soak up these moments even though hard days exist keep in mind CJ isn’t meaning to do anything on purpose to annoy/irritate/frustrate you guys. He’s just a little one trying to figure out this big world with the guidance from his fave people mom & dad. Hugs to you all!
I'm so sorry you had to be separated from CJ, but so thankful that you both recovered well. 🤍 He is precious!
My heart could burst when you got to see and hold him for the first time ❤️ Congratulations ❤ & thank you for sharing.
God bless you guys! That’s so much to go through and you handled it with so much grace. Welcome to the world baby CJ!❤
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your birth story 🩵 CJ is so sweet, and God is so good!!!
You’re so strong mama !! It’s all worth it ! 💙 I just gave birth to my baby boy on Aug 10th, labored for 17 hours with 3 failed epidurals, first 24 hours were amazing im so great full I got to spend it with him ! He unfortunately had jaundice 3 separate times, spent about 4 days in pediatrics going through photo therapy, it was wild and a rough time for us all 😣
Just now watching this! Mama I am with you, I shared a very similar experience with you just a few weeks ago with the birth of my son. Failure to progress, c-section, NICU. It was incredibly stressful and I am still recovering from it emotionally. We have our sweet babies and they love us and know we love them so much too. Praise God we made it through, you are beautiful and so is your little boy ❤️
I love how y’all praise God every step of the way. Congratulations on your sweet boy.
I'm so proud of you for pushing through such an amazing and treacherous experience! You handled CJ's birth liken a champ. God bless your gorgeous family!
Bless your heart Abby! It was tough watching you struggle talking not being able to see him right away. It broke my heart 🥺 I’m glad everyone is happy and healthy!
You are so incredible!! You getting to hold CJ for the first time made me cry! 🥲
Complications or not, birth is a lot to process!
Aw so happy for you guys, 3 baby boys in the Howard family such fun!!
Beautiful baby boy. 🩵Beautiful family. 🌟 Praise God. 🙏🏻
This is such a beautiful story. Cried watching this praise the Lord for your health sweet momma! 🤍🤍
Thank you for sharing your story! I had my baby on July 21st, I couldn't imagine what you went through not being able to be with him.
I'm glad you are all happy and healthy. Congratulations on your baby boy!
That moment you got wheeled in to see cj and started crying made me ball it was such a beautiful yet painful feeling I couldn’t imagine going through what you had you’re an amazing woman very very strong I’m glad recovery is going so well❤❤❤
Thank you!🤍 that’s a moment I will never forget!!!
Omg i cried along with you. Im due in November amd just thinking about meeting my baby makes me so emotional 🥹😭 you're a trooper! Im so glad both you and baby are healthy. May God bless your family 🙏 thanks for sharing with us ❤
Don’t ever apologize! I went through almost the same thing with my son. It sucks when you can’t see your baby when you’re the one who should be there. Thank God you are well and baby is too. CS are no jokes! Much love and Blessings!
This is so precious!! So happy he is here safe and you are recovering well!
C-sections and any complications keeping you from your baby afterwards is so tough!! I’m so glad you all are doing great!!
Omg when baby CJ reached up and touched your face 🥺🥺🥰🥰😍😍 he so needed you! Great job mama!
I had a similar experience of not getting to see my baby after my c-section. The best advice I read was that it is ok to morn the loss of the experience you didn't get to have. It was hard. It was hard for a long time. And that baby is 14 and it is still hard knowing how hard that whole post process was.
Awe, this was so perosnal. Thanks for sharing this with your UA-cam family! ❤️ God is great! Glad you CJ got better and you as well.🙏
Did you have anyone else in there with you for delivery?
Discovered you guys from Matt and Abby podcast, so happy for you having such a sweet boy, wishing you all the best
Oh my gosh, this is almost the exactly what happened to me when I delivered my son in February! I was induced, labored for over 24 hours and pushed for over 2 hours; thankfully no longer because I was so worn out, exhausted, and falling asleep between contractions. But he was also stuck, his head wasn’t coming through. He was born with a literal cone head. I hemorrhaged during my C-section but didn’t have as hard of a recovery. My son ended up in the nicu overnight later that day due to his sugar. It’s so nice to hear someone with a similar story, but I’m so sorry that yours was so hard. Even having your baby in the nicu for such a short time is so hard and emotional, I cried bringing him there and when we had to leave him there. You did awesome mama, you brought that little bundle of joy into the world in such a hard and exhausting way, and now you get to enjoy so many moments and memories. My son is 6 months old and the absolute biggest blessing to my life, he makes everyday so happy and special.
I had a double failed induction and unplanned C-section with my first on July 7th! I only had three contractions in total. There’s no wrong way to become a mama ❤️ welcome baby
You’ve absolutely won our hearts. Welcome, CJ
Thank you for sharing!! I had such a similar birth story!! 48 hours after starting cytotec, I had to go in for a C-section! My baby also had blood sugar issues and was admitted to the nicu when he was 24 hours old. When my husband wheeled me to the nicu, I WEPT! He is 6 months old now and I still feared up watching you go through it! It’s hard but pat yourself on the back for going through it!!
Congratulations!! He is so precious. You have nothing to be sorry about. You went thru alot and in the end it was worth it because of that precious little boy. Congratulations again! 💙⚾️💙
he is sooo beyond beautiful!!! congratulations you guys!!!!!
Congratulations!! CJ is so adorable and you are such a strong mama!
He is soo beautiful. This video brought me to tears. So happy everyone’s okay. You’re so strong Abby! God is good, thank you for sharing your journey 🤍
Don't apologise for crying lovely. Your feelings are totally valid and the lord is on your side xx
Wow. I was in tears during this. One because it reminded me so much of my first birth with my son. Just about the same situation with him getting stuck and me getting an infection. But we were so thankful to have him. My next pregnancy my dr advised me to do a c section because of how it went with my first. And that was great. I felt more energetic and walking around the next day. praising the Lord! So don’t fear this will happen over and over. I also had twins after my daughter lol. So sending hugs. Because I know how it hit you hard not to see your precious baby boy. He’s so beautiful. You look great. So happy for you guys! Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to seeing more videos! ❤❤❤
Your genuine soul is such a precious gift you share with us. Thank you for letting us be a part of your world! Welcome, Baby CJ! Go Momma & Daddy! :)
You have really wholesome videos, love your aura and positivity and the way you and Caleb are unashamed for the Lord✨ thank you for sharing your birth story with us, praise God both you and baby are well and healthy. I’m a first time mom and also didn’t have the best l&d experience and I was so fragile those PP weeks that followed trying to un-pack it all.. go you mama you did amazing! God ordained you and Caleb to be CJ’s parents and you both are doing amazing! 💖
I’ve been excited for this video for weeks! Thank you for sharing this! Congratulations to your beautiful family
My soon to be mama heart broke for you when you talked about not being able to see him right away😓 I am so happy that there was a happy ending! You are one strong mama 🩷 thank you for sharing! God is so good.
Don’t feel bad about crying! Abby does it all the time lol! You are both great mamas! I can’t tell you the worst is over as being a mom always has its ups and downs but it’s the best, only second to grand parenting! Blessings to you and your new family.
Awww that is so hard not to see him for so long 😢
I’m glad you see the positive in it. Praying for a continued recovery ❤
We were in the hospital at the same time! I had my baby on July 25th. I’m so glad you were able to have a healthy baby despite the complications. Here’s hoping your recovery is going smoothly ❤️❤️
Congratulations Caleb & Abigail!! CJ❤❤ I really thought you we’re having the first Howard girl! 😂
Praying for smooth recovery and healing!
It's wild how much Caleb sounded like Matt when he said it's a boy! I'm so stinken proud of you guys!
I gave birth to my first 9 August 2023 and was also taken for an unexpected C-Section. Unfortunately my little girls head couldn't fit past my last pelvic bone so despite pushing for an hour and being fully dilated we had to go into theater which really scared me.
Busy watching this with my baby girl in my arms and I cannot imagine how it felt not being able to see your baby for so long. I hated the hour and a half I had to wait.
Congratulations on your baby boy. May he bring so much joy and happiness into your lives
Thank god you were at the hospital and not doing a homebirth ❤
So glad you both are doing fine. Congratulations with a beautiful baby boy ❤
Wow momma Thank God you and baby boy are healthy and home!!! Much blessings!!!! AMEN!!! Enjoy every little thing about parenthood and the newborn phase has to offer.🎉🎉🙏🏽🥳🙏🏽🥰
Birth trauma is very real!!! Your birthing story reminds me so much of my first birth except I didn't have a c section, even though I should've! I was induced, had the Foley balloon, contractions weren't consistent nor strong enough to push my son down, 5 hours of pushing (two, 2.5 hour sessions of pushing), meconium staining, retained placenta, hemorrhaged, 105.0 fever from infection from the hospital letting me go almost 20 hours past my water breaking, then manual extraction from retained placenta! Then I had complete bladder incontinence for almost a full week. It honestly still haunts me to this day 5.5 years later even after having a second birth. I really need to see a therapist for my birth trauma but today is my birthday and today my son started kindergarten so I am super blessed that me and my baby are alive and well!
Congratulations on your little CJ!
I had my baby 9 months ago via emergency c-section! So grateful! Wish you and your beautiful family all the best! He is precious! Love watching your videos! 🧡💚💙
I also had complications after my c section in March that kept me from my NICU baby for 12 hours and it was so, so difficult! Your feelings are valid and I’m so glad you all healed ❤️
Congratulations to you both!! Abby, you did beautifully, and I'm so happy for you and your family. I gave birth to my son, Westyn, on 7/19/23, and our birth experiences were similar in many different ways. You are so strong, and I'm sooo thankful to see you both home safe, healthy and continuing to do well!! Praise God!!! Welcome Baby CJ!!!💙💙💙💙
My last baby and I didn't get to spend a lot of time together right after he was born. It was a great, normal delivery, but he had a heart murmur and they wanted to keep him monitored. Since my recoveries are super slow, I didn't see much of him and even though we were both fine and dandy it is emotionally rough to be separated from someone you have been aching to hold in your arms and who has been a part of you constantly for 9 months!
Congratulations Caleb and Abby, CJ is so cute 🎉 ❤
Thank you for sharing your raw story!!! Little CJ is beautiful!
Congratulations, I am so happy everything went well and baby is doing great. He's beautiful❤ and you don't ever have to be sorry for crying. It's a natural thing your body go through when you're sad, so no worries. Everyone's human. Bless you guys ❤
You are a warrior and so is little dude! He is so precious! ❤
You are so strong!! Labor and delivery can be so hard for some and easier for others, everyone’s labor and deliveries are so different. Every body is different! So proud of you mama!!❤❤❤
Congratulations! Welcome to the world CJ! It'll be so cute to watch him and his cousin August grow up together.
I also had an emergency c section then my second was scheduled c section. Both my babies did great after birth. No complications with my friend but my second I had an out of body experience after my c section in recovery. Similarly I lost a lot of blood and fluids. Once I got fluids back & the anesthesia wore off so I could move around on my own I was great.
Enjoy every minute, it's all worth it.
Congratulations! I was sobbing watching this. It IS a lot to go through and, in the moment, you have no idea what’s going to happen. I had a difficult time after my twins were delivered too… so I can empathize with all you went through. It only gets better!
You’re so strong Abby! Sounds like you went through so much , I’m So happy you and baby and are doing well now. Beautiful boy!! Congratulations!
Ahh I have been waiting for weeks now to watch this vid !! So excited to watch it ❤ and congratulations on your baby boy 🎉🎉
You were great momma ❤❤❤ you did amazing and baby CJ is the cutest little thing 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍 congratulations mom and dad!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Congratulations!! I'm glad that everything went great after what you went through. My daughter in law had done similar issues 10 years ago with their 3rd. Baby had to go to NICU and mom insisted my son stay with the baby. My dil was hemorrhaging and just an aid was with her. She called for help but my dil was losing so much blood that the aid shoved a towel up her you know what. My dil had to have 2 transfusions and had a very bad uterine infection. They were both in the hospital for over a week. His sister's were 16 months and 2 1/2. So 3 babies. I stayed with them for over a month and the other grandma came to trade off. CJ is precious. I'm so glad I found your channel.
Wow what a journey! I’m so happy it all ended happy. You are such a trooper. Little CJ is worth it for sure. Congratulations!!!!!!!!❤
😂😂😂 Caleb wouldn’t let me bring a butter knife hahaha
Thanks for keeping this so real! hope the emotions settle soon ❤
Wow. Thank you for sharing your raw birth story. You are a warrior! Congrats on your baby boy! May you both continue to recover and become stronger each day! 🙏👏💙
I’m so sorry you went through so much!!! It is wild all the things a woman has to go through especially on so little sleep! I had an unplanned c-section + an infection + 8 days in the hospital last year and it has taken a while to process it all. Will be praying for your recovery and your family in this new chapter!
My step-daughter and husband bday is 7/23. Prayers for you all. So glad your both here safely.
He is adorable. Congratulations ❤
Congratulations that’s amazing. I love that you tell everyone that you were not feeling all this stuff. That’s good bc so many would be dramatic. Welcome CJ he is adorable so much hair. Congratulations ❤
I’m so glad God kept his hand on you and your baby. You done amazing and he’s precious!❤️
Congrats we are so excited for y'all and excited to see the journey unfold. Thankful that God is soo good.
I’m shocked you got to leave the hospital so much during the process! I agree the foley bulb wasn’t that bad. It didn’t work for me, and I had to have it done twice 😅
You are so strong! Thanks for sharing your story! You have such a positive outlook from a scary situation. So glad everything turned out ok and your family is beautiful!