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After 2 months of separation my wife has agreed to meet with me and have a conversation. What topics are safe to discuss during a separation and which topics are not?
Great analogies! Described my feelings in this moment. Been following your videos religiously for a little over a month now. You’re advise was the only advise that truly works in a healthy way. I made progress then messed up a week ago now the pain and separation is truly setting in. Everything is falling apart. I want to be accepted into your program. It’s my darkest times in my 31 years of life and I feel that your process is truly the only way to massively grow from this pain. Thank you for what you are doing.
So I finally got to the point of where outcome didn’t matter and I was just putting into practice what I learn here. Thinking and adding my own twist as right now is not the financial time. Talked to the wife for an hour on the phone, I was actually the one to end it, she is okay with texting more, and I really got to paraphrase and understand her for once. Geoffrey is a success story.
I sympathize with a couple others in that i WISH so badly i could afford it. I've done the Masterclass and might even so it again soon. But finances are tight for me...and i wish i had the money to invest
I wish I could afford you're program :( having just had knee surgery and having a mortgage to pay, I have to prioritize. Just sucks cause I could use the help.
Hi JamesBaylizz, Feel free to use this link below to join my free Master class, and if this is the direction you wish to pursue, schedule a call with a member of my team. relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
Man it’s been about 7-8 weeks and she was starting to like my posts, then I didn’t do anything, my bday passed she ignored me. So I reached out and she was still cold so I backed off again… not sure if I even have the ability to contact her without making her block me. When she ignores me I just back off. Not sure what to do
@@GeoffreySetiawan yes I can first of all. Her unfollowing me shows that she was sending a message to me. So I reached out. But I rushed and asked to meet up instead of just saying something positive. She got an instantly negative impression and basically stopped responding. So she didn’t block me or tell me to stop messaging her. Rather ignored. Almost like saying. “Go back and try again” so I stopped and now I’m starting to truly see what I have been doing. I’m pretty controlling in that I’d even suggest we meet up. I should’ve just congratulated her on her recent successes and kept things cordial. I want to take a week to say anything but it’s Easter. I thought maybe reaching out to wish her a good day may be “too needy” but also it’s very normal and human. Feel like if I do that and then take a beat then at least I can end on a positive note. But I think that’s a good idea. So I’m guessing it probably isn’t in this context
@@GeoffreySetiawan I feel like her unfollowing me and responding so cold after so long is kind of that pain that I needed to really really take this to the next level. I definitely feel differently about this now. Like I can’t even feel upset anymore now I’m just unbelievably curious as to how to fix this. And I feel like I’m not afraid anymore. More like absolutely determined
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts? Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> urlgeni.us/YTTSRYSWDS
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🎉 To see how all my clients have achieved massive success through dire & hopeless circumstances, click here! ua-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
After 2 months of separation my wife has agreed to meet with me and have a conversation. What topics are safe to discuss during a separation and which topics are not?
Great analogies! Described my feelings in this moment. Been following your videos religiously for a little over a month now. You’re advise was the only advise that truly works in a healthy way. I made progress then messed up a week ago now the pain and separation is truly setting in. Everything is falling apart. I want to be accepted into your program. It’s my darkest times in my 31 years of life and I feel that your process is truly the only way to massively grow from this pain. Thank you for what you are doing.
Jeff, this, is your finest podcast ❤ thank yo so much
So I finally got to the point of where outcome didn’t matter and I was just putting into practice what I learn here. Thinking and adding my own twist as right now is not the financial time.
Talked to the wife for an hour on the phone, I was actually the one to end it, she is okay with texting more, and I really got to paraphrase and understand her for once.
Geoffrey is a success story.
I love this interview.
Great talk on untethering
Geoffrey what’s your thoughts on the 3 attachment styles and their impact in relationships?
Hi Jake - I have a video on this already. If you search "Geoffrey Setiawan Attachment Styles", you will find it :)
@@GeoffreySetiawan oh bet didn’t know that thank you
I sympathize with a couple others in that i WISH so badly i could afford it. I've done the Masterclass and might even so it again soon.
But finances are tight for me...and i wish i had the money to invest
I need the program.
Get it. I’m saving my money right now. It’s wayyyyy more about attracting back your partner. IT’s everything
Do you still have a Facebook chat page?
I wish I could afford you're program :( having just had knee surgery and having a mortgage to pay, I have to prioritize. Just sucks cause I could use the help.
Hi JamesBaylizz,
Feel free to use this link below to join my free Master class, and if this is the direction you wish to pursue, schedule a call with a member of my team.
relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
Man it’s been about 7-8 weeks and she was starting to like my posts, then I didn’t do anything, my bday passed she ignored me. So I reached out and she was still cold so I backed off again… not sure if I even have the ability to contact her without making her block me. When she ignores me I just back off. Not sure what to do
Keep working on yourself.
@@yanabi83 got it
Can you see any key takeaways from Ryan's story on how he approached things to achieve his results?
@@GeoffreySetiawan yes I can first of all. Her unfollowing me shows that she was sending a message to me. So I reached out. But I rushed and asked to meet up instead of just saying something positive. She got an instantly negative impression and basically stopped responding. So she didn’t block me or tell me to stop messaging her. Rather ignored. Almost like saying. “Go back and try again” so I stopped and now I’m starting to truly see what I have been doing. I’m pretty controlling in that I’d even suggest we meet up. I should’ve just congratulated her on her recent successes and kept things cordial. I want to take a week to say anything but it’s Easter. I thought maybe reaching out to wish her a good day may be “too needy” but also it’s very normal and human. Feel like if I do that and then take a beat then at least I can end on a positive note. But I think that’s a good idea. So I’m guessing it probably isn’t in this context
@@GeoffreySetiawan I feel like her unfollowing me and responding so cold after so long is kind of that pain that I needed to really really take this to the next level. I definitely feel differently about this now. Like I can’t even feel upset anymore now I’m just unbelievably curious as to how to fix this. And I feel like I’m not afraid anymore. More like absolutely determined