This lyric got me crying my eyes out. I moved out my homophobic abusive home and it’s so lonely and I have so many bad nights I wish I wasn’t alive and wishing I could change myself so my family will love me and these words really hit home
“does she know how proud i am she was created, with the courage to unlearn all their hatred?” is probably the most beautiful line of the album. makes me tear up every time.
Probably because this song makes them feel too sad. It's definitely my favorite from sour, but only listened to in moderation. It has a really nice meaning too.
i really relate to this song. my parents both went through child abuse. i view my dad as the "towhead blonde and eyes of salt who wore long sleeves because of his dad" and my mom is the girl she brings up "her parents hated who she loved, she couldn't wait to go to college, she was tired because she was brought into a world where family was merely blood" i am so proud of them for undoing the hatred of their parents, and raising me with so much love and compassion. it takes a lot of strength to break away from domestic violence, and mental abuse, and i'm so proud that "they had the courage to unlearn all of their hatred." mom and dad, i love you. and i hope that your're okay.
the line "does she know how proud I am she was created, with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred" brought me to tears, we live in an awful world with awful parents
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN please and tell me if its good /bad its in this Channels Playlist. I would love to hear back from you..❤❤💓.
Omg yes!!! When I heard this one in SOUR, it was refreshing because no other song was like this!!! IMO best song in the album. We love you Olivia and Hope Ur Ok!
The whole album is strong, but this is the only one that brought tears to my eyes. In all the others, she’s being wrenchingly honest about her own feelings, but this is different-this is compassion, and it’s beautiful.
When I first discovered this song, I was in a dark place. Now, the lines "God, I hope that you're happier today," hits me harder than ever. I am. I am so much happier.
i feel like i could cry every time she sings “does she know how proud i am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred”. this is so deep, so beautiful. thank you, olivia, for this entire masterpiece.
The “address the letters to the holes in my butterfly wings, nothing’s forever, nothing’s as good as it seems, and when the clouds won't iron out and the monsters creep into your house, and every door is hard to close” line, gives me chills 👀
@@JessicaGonzalez-ym8ur yeah I agree cause most of them are getting so much hate from their parents and I think it's for both cause sometimes parents never understand what their child is going through and they just emotionally and physically abuse them for no reason
hearing this as a gay teen about to graduate and leave a shitty family, “i love you and I hope that you’re ok” absolutely wrecked me (thanks to everyone who replied to this. so many angels out there 🤎)
when i hear this song, i think of my best friend. she passed away and whenever i hear the songs she loved it always reminds me of her. She really did have a lot of problems but she always assured us that it was gonna be okay. The day she passed away was around midnight and i barely woke up to find out that on my socials everyone was posting her. I literally couldnt stop crying the next day at school. "i love you, and i hope that ur ok." this will always hit hard.
This made me think of a friend who is passed on too. "I hope ur ok" is my way of saying that I hope she has found peace in the afterlife and that there is something out there beyond life. Sending you love
I am so sorry for your loss, really. I lost my best friend too. Many years ago. It's so fucking hard. I just want to remember you that love is eternal. Your love is eternal. And so is hers. ❤️
And also, family isn't just blood. You can choose who to call your family, don't stay with people who don't respect you and love your true self, all in the name of "blood", you deserve better 💖
"Address the letters, to the holes in my butterfly wings Nothing's forever, nothing is as good as it seems And when the clouds are ironed out And the monsters creep into your house And every door is hard to close." These words are beautiful. ❤
This album is a story, and this song is the conclusion of it. It first starts as beaten down, depressed, and then it goes to passive aggressive to angry. It ends where she’s healthier and realizes her own self-worth. A beautifully designed album.
This song made me appreciate my family sooo much more. we don't all grow up in a safe, loving and caring household/environment. I love you mom, dad, lil bro, and lil sis. So much
"her wings have holes in them bc things/people are missing.. in this case, specifically the people she’s lost touch with. she’s writing them letters basically saying “i hope ur okay”, so the letters are addressed to those holes (representing the lost people) in her own wings. it reminds me of the way people say they have a hole in their heart when they lose someone. i feel like she just loves butterflies so her wings are like her metaphorical heart. i could be completely off, but that’s how i think of it!" - tbhjustbored
This made me cry. So many people struggling and no one knows we care. So if you're reading this, we care and im sorry of what you have to endure, but one day, I hope you find your happy
This reminded me of a friend that I had in middle school who killed himself. He had a super tough childhood and still found a way to make everyone life and have a smile on his face. John, if you're out there somewhere, I hope you're doing ok.
I think we all had a friend at one point that randomly disappeared from your life. This song makes me think of them, and now I'm hoping that they're doing alright.
And I am that disappeared friend because I always have to move from one place to another because of my father's job u know I lost soo many friends in past 10 years I am 15 now
Ye I had this friend and it was her last day and she didn't tell me and on that day we had a argument and the teacher told us the next day that is was there last day.So I have to live with the last thing I did with her was a argument💔
This song is special to me since it reminds me of my old dog. My parents adopted her before I was born and she died in 2019. Right around the time COVID started. She had been with me my whole life up until I was 9-10. It’s been 4 years since she’s past and I still remember her being the best dog ever. I love you Isabella ❤ I hope your reading this from heaven.
This is my favorite song in the album. The rest of her songs are her expressing how she feels about breakups yet this one is her taking time to stop moping about her feelings and spread some love for people who need it more than her
" Address the letters , to the holes in my butterfly wings, nothings forever, nothings as good as it seem" This whole song is amazimgggg but this line for some reason really brings so much emotion
this song hits close to home as i've been emotionally abused by my parents and they hate who i love (im lesbian) this song is probably my favorite because of how much i relate
Nearly cried my eyes out listening to this bc it's so relatable. The 'they cared more about thr Bible than their own child' hit me hard bc Ik my parents will never accept me as Bi, and it HURTS so bad.
Can we just talk about how pure Olivia's heart is, she wrote a song about her childhood friends and the fact that this song is just so vulnerable and also brutally honest and how real the story is. Can we just have a group hug now cause I am not okay after listening to this. I love you Olivia, and I am proud that you were created and brought into this chaotic world.
**hugging back** tw//mentions of pedophilia and homophobia - - - im struggling bc as a queer teen I don't want to date anyone because of having to feel the need to say hey its ok to be queer....also, my abusive mother wants to tell everyone I'm queer and when I say that's my decision tot ell them (because who knows if they're homophobic and if so will they hurt me) she says oh yeah I never told them u were gay or "all i told them was..." no wrong you say nothing...also stop gaslighting me. anyways life is hard being queer especially when ur own "I support gays, trans ppl work with me" mother doesn't accept u as being queer and accuses you of touching your sisters....which is pedophilia not being gay....i hate it here. i cant wait to leave.
This song hits differently when you have abusive parents and want to escape from them. Perhaps if I had children of my own, I wouldn't abuse them the same way my parents did.
You wouldn’t , I’m no contact with my parents, because they are and always have been abusive. Im a mum now … and do everything the total opposite to how I was raised. I tell them I love them (and mean it) a million times a day. I hug them. I SHOW them they are supported and loved, no matter what, my love isn’t conditional. I let them feel safe… you know I noticed only the other day, my kids have never had a nightmare… not one. My childhood was haunted by nightmares, fear of the dark… because my days were filled with fear too, we have the information, to do better. Love better… and stop the generational trauma. It ends with us.
drivers license: *depression* deja vu: *envy* good 4 u: *rage* brutal: *self-destructive* traitor: *mournful* 1sf, 3sb: *selfless* enough for you: *thoughtfulness* happier: *acceptance* jealousy, jealousy: *self-esteem* favorite crime: *blameful* hope ur ok: *open-minded* this album is so great!
I usually don’t comment on UA-cam videos, but this is to amazing not to comment. This is not a song for heartbreak, this is a song to help accept people for who they are and puts people who are put through a lot of horrible shit in their bad lives and it tells different ones. It is a very brilliant song. This is my favorite one of the album and most relatable for all people.
This album was about not being afraid to embrace the angry, bitter and sour emotions that come with loss and disappointment. It's only when we let them out that we make room for hope. I'm glad she ended this story on a hopeful song.
I know this song wasn’t directed towards me, but it saved my life with my family constantly putting me down the chorus saying do you know how proud I am you were created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred, god I hope that your happier today cuz I love you and I hope that your okay. It reminds me that their are some people in my life that care and love me ❤❤❤so thank you Olivia for this masterpiece ❤❤❤❤
Me to the random kid I made friends with on vacation when I was five: "don't know if I'll see you again someday but if you're out there I hope your ok"
This is my fav song off Sour. It feels like she's talking to us in a way y'know? “well I hope you know how proud I am you were created”. “God I hope you're happier today, because I love you and I hope that you're okay”.
"Address the letter to the holes in my butterfly wings nothing is forever nothing is as good as it seems and when the clouds won't iron out and the monsters creep into your house and every door is hard to close" This part always has me in tears this song makes me cry every time
Literally cannot even sing the lyrics “does she know how proud I am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of the hatred”. The beauty and depth of these words kills me everytime.
“middle school friend grew up alone she raised her brothers on her own” made me cry. The big sisters/brothers of the family should deserve more appreciation for how much they sacrifice and have to grow up so fast. As a big sister I can relate to this and it really hurts especially when your family doesn’t see what’s going on with yourself.
Yeah I get that but ik I grew up fast so they didn’t have to and I can live with that It also helped me be more prepared for life ik it made into the person that I am and my parents do appreciate me even if they don’t show it all the time lol
I agree as well. I have a bigger sister and I didn't realize how much of a responsible older sibling she was. My parents aren't the best in English and all taht and so my older sister would always help me with homework and studying. She was really smart and just about a few months ago she went to a foreign country to do medical school. I miss her now, and have a really hard time studying sometimes.
@@megantrow2295 same but I don’t regret it my younger siblings r like my babies but I had to start growing up by 5-6 and I thought I was so big by age 8 lol
This Song Is So Powerful, I Applaud Olivia For Releasing This Song This Song Is More Than A Song, It’s A Way Of Life (For Those Who Haven’t Noticed, This Song Made Me Cry)
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN. please and tell me if its good /bad its in this Channels Playlist I would love to hear back from you❤❤
Literally just learned who Olivia is today, and of all of her songs, this was the one that made me cry. I related to the others but I'm grown up, happy and married. So the other songs resonated like memories. This one pulls emotions I'll carry with me forever. There are so many old friends this song makes me think of.
It's so nice that Olivia is reaching out to the people in her past who she fell out of touch with and telling them how much she loves them and how proud she is of them. It just makes me love her even more.
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN please and tell me if its good /bad its in this Channels Playlist. I would love to hear back from you..❤❤💓.
the lyrics in this song are so mature and comforting, “where family is merely just blood” and “does she know how proud I am she was created? With the courage to unlearn all their hatred” I relate to this so much and this song is so underrated💜
I think this song is abt conan gray bc at 0:33 she mentions how to boy wore long sleeves bc of his dad. On Conan’s recent album the song summer child mentions how he used to wear long sleeves. Conans album reveals a lot about his abusive childhood and we all know that Conan and Olivia are close.
I lucky haven’t been under child abuse but during Covid-19, I feel into this darkness that led me to crying every night. I moved from my home I lived for my entire life to a place I’ve never heard of. I hated myself for not staying and being stupid for not enjoying my time there. I stated cutting myself and I could feel nothing so I would do it to the point I was in real pain so I could feel something other than hatred. Nobody knows how much I struggle with that hatred I’ve had for years. I found this song I just listened to it over and over. It’s helped so much to fight against myself. Thank you.
Ty for sharing this. I did the same thing, and you made me feel less alone. You are enough, and you'll be okay. I hope you're doing better, I love you.
As a trans guy who lost my family and was kicked out at 17 this song really hits close to home. It’s lonely and I have to tell myself to get over it Bc I can’t let it drag me down. This song lets me know someone in the world is thinking of people just like me and I’m not alone. Thank you Olivia.
As a Christian i want to tell you this, what happened to you it's not ok and not all Christians are like that, we are all sinners so we shouldnt do that to others. Jesus still loves you and he wants to talk to you genuinely, he can help you ❤️ (I'm assuming you got kicked out of your house because religion, if it's not because of that, this message still counts ❤️)
I’m so so proud of you, and I’m so sorry for anyone who tried using the Bible as an excuse to hurt you. My God loves you, and I love you too ♥️ you are so strong and I hope that you’re okay :)
Knew a boy once, when I was small A tow-head blond, with eyes of salt He played the drum in the marching band His parents cared more about the Bible Than being good to their own child He wore long sleeves 'cause of his dad And somehow, we fell out of touch Hope he took his bad deal and made a royal flush Don't know if I'll see you again someday But if you're out there, I hope that you're okay My middle school friend grew up alone She raised her brothers on her own Her parents hated who she loved She couldn't wait to go to college She was tired 'cause she was brought Into a world where family was merely blood Does she know how proud I am she was created With the courage to unlearn all of their hatred We don't talk much but I just gotta say I miss you, and I hope that you're okay Address the letters to the holes in my butterfly wings Nothing's forever, nothing is as good as it seems And when the clouds are ironed out And the monsters creep into your house And every door is hard to close Well, I hope you know how proud I am you were created With the courage to unlearn all of their hatred God, I hope that you're happier today 'Cause I love you, and I hope that you're okay
My favorite part is the ending. The ending with just some slow light music & a very faint chatter. It’s a combo of peaceful & calm as well as sounds like the good ending credits to life. This song was so amazing liv
Omg omg I have a couple of her stages written down All I want- Wanting a dope bf Drivers License- breaking up with the dope bf and missing him a bunch Deja Vu- Being mad at the dope bf because how could he, she was so good to him Good 4 U- Wtf bro how are you over me already- imma pretend I'm over you Happier- U finna regret breaking up w me, but I guess I'm learning to get over it (Miss girl crying inside) ALSO SHE NEEDS TO LET OUT APOCALYPTIC CRUSH
Address the letters💌 To the holes in my butterfly wings🦋 Nothing’s forever🥺 Nothing’s as good as it seems😔 And when the clods won’t iron out☁️ And the monsters creep into your house👺 And ever door is hard to close🚪 MY FAVORITE PART OF THE WHOLE SONG! I LOVE OLIVIA!💟
This made me cry. I have a friend who’s dad is in jail, and his mom abandoned him. He lives with his aunt on his dads side of the family and I just think this is something everyone needs to hear. ❤
“Hope he took his bad deal and made a royal flush.” This lyric is her favorite lyric she’s ever written. Don’t let the meaning of that line go over your head. Edit: For those asking what it means. Even though he was dealt a bad set a cards within life, meaning even though he was being abused by his father and his life was anything but easy, she hopes he made a royal flush. A royal flush in poker is uncommon, but extremely powerful; you can easily win with such a hand. So Olivia meant that, despite his tough life, she hoped he persevered and found something positive to come out of it; she hoped HES was happy right now. That he had triumphed in this figurative card game. His life is represented by the card game.
I think its the outside perspective that really hit. Just the idea that someone out there, that isnt close to me, genuinely cares, for someone reason really gets me. Not many songs bring me to tears.
I'm not a fan, really, of Olivia Rodrigo's type of genre but I'll be honest: this song has me enchanted and I'll be giving a look to the album. Beautiful song ❤
I am so sorry. You really deserve better. God loves you for you so who cares what other people think because we’re all sinners at the end of the day. Ily girl
I’m so sorry my love 🥺 as a Christian myself I can say we shouldnt show hate towards anyone. a lot of the times people judge out of hatred rather than showing love and kindness as Jesus did and spreading the word of God with love
It's not really sad, more like hopeful and optimistic, and just accepting things as they are right now while hoping for a better future 🌱, this is the last song in the album which means it is about acceptance and hope after feeling everything after the break up, olivia is so smart 😭
@@jessemaricarlon1246 yeahhh I agree, that's what I'm sayinggg :)) and also why is your question so random?? 😭😭 But no, I don't even no who or what that is, but my name is actually based off Melanie Martinez's character, Cry Baby 😁
“does she know how proud i am she was created, with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred” PLEASE
ikr i was already crying at the line about long sleeves and then this line hit me like a bus😭
CRYING
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My thoughts EXACTLY
This lyric got me crying my eyes out. I moved out my homophobic abusive home and it’s so lonely and I have so many bad nights I wish I wasn’t alive and wishing I could change myself so my family will love me and these words really hit home
“does she know how proud i am she was created, with the courage to unlearn all their hatred?” is probably the most beautiful line of the album. makes me tear up every time.
I love that lyrics so much it’s so beautiful.
very beautiful it made me sob because it helped my friend soo much
me too.
Yes. Or "his parents cared more about the bible then being good to their own child"
I was thinking the same
i don’t know why people put this song last in their rankings. this is a masterpiece and needs to be heard.
Your right I love Olivia so much she changed my life and gave me a better mind set and saved my life so I thank her .
Not this one actually, they hate 'enough for you' more
I AGREE
I KNOW RIGHT
Probably because this song makes them feel too sad. It's definitely my favorite from sour, but only listened to in moderation. It has a really nice meaning too.
i really relate to this song. my parents both went through child abuse. i view my dad as the "towhead blonde and eyes of salt who wore long sleeves because of his dad" and my mom is the girl she brings up "her parents hated who she loved, she couldn't wait to go to college, she was tired because she was brought into a world where family was merely blood" i am so proud of them for undoing the hatred of their parents, and raising me with so much love and compassion. it takes a lot of strength to break away from domestic violence, and mental abuse, and i'm so proud that "they had the courage to unlearn all of their hatred." mom and dad, i love you. and i hope that your're okay.
Your parents are so strong they sound like great parents
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❤ 0:43 0:47
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the line "does she know how proud I am she was created, with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred" brought me to tears, we live in an awful world with awful parents
then they blame everything wrong they did on us
yes
That line hit me hard.
Literally
Not all parents are awful but if urs r bad to u remember to trust in God through it all
“does she know how proud I am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred”🥺
That made my cRY
amazing
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN
please and tell me if its good /bad
its in this Channels Playlist.
I would love to hear back from you..❤❤💓.
that line gave me chills
@@gabrielcaraballo2247 uyyuyj kimOK
The lyrics in this song are just so… mature and so beautifully written. It’s honestly one of the best if not THE best song on the album
Omg yes!!! When I heard this one in SOUR, it was refreshing because no other song was like this!!! IMO best song in the album. We love you Olivia and Hope Ur Ok!
The whole album is strong, but this is the only one that brought tears to my eyes. In all the others, she’s being wrenchingly honest about her own feelings, but this is different-this is compassion, and it’s beautiful.
Jesus loves you ❤❤❤
When I first discovered this song, I was in a dark place. Now, the lines "God, I hope that you're happier today," hits me harder than ever. I am. I am so much happier.
That part played just now right when I read those words
I hope one day I be happy too. Darkness is surrounding and chasing me everywhere.
@@sierra2038 I know what you mean...
@@stqrry.cosmxs Ofc. It's all reused stories. Just a different cast
@@sierra2038 wdym?
imagine knowing olivia as a child and listening to this only to realize it's about you.. IM SOBBING
I hope the people she sang about will hear this song
I would be screaming sis
this- 😭
ITS SO SAD WTF
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i feel like i could cry every time she sings “does she know how proud i am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred”. this is so deep, so beautiful. thank you, olivia, for this entire masterpiece.
Same everytime that comes up I almost cry 🥴
For real. This was really important
Her parents hated who she loved. So powerful. Such a great song.
i cried xd
im in tears rn i can relate to part of the 2nd verse
"Nothings forever٫ Nothings as good as it seems" OMG THAT HITS HARD😭
Fr
Yessssssssssss
Me with all my friendships
that line gets my tears drip down my cheeks
fr
The “address the letters to the holes in my butterfly wings, nothing’s forever, nothing’s as good as it seems, and when the clouds won't iron out and the monsters creep into your house, and every door is hard to close” line, gives me chills 👀
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Basically the bridge
All kids deserve parents but not all parents deserve kids😔
is this song is for parents?
@@faizasahf this song is about people in the lgbtq+ community and mental health I think
@@JessicaGonzalez-ym8ur yeah I agree cause most of them are getting so much hate from their parents and I think it's for both cause sometimes parents never understand what their child is going through and they just emotionally and physically abuse them for no reason
yes
Still obsessed with this quote-
hearing this as a gay teen about to graduate and leave a shitty family, “i love you and I hope that you’re ok” absolutely wrecked me
(thanks to everyone who replied to this. so many angels out there 🤎)
You got this!!! 🥰
Proud of youu
I may not know you, but just know that ily bestie, take care of urself, you'll be fine, I promise 🥰
You’ve got this!!! I’m proud of you
I'm so proud of you. You'll make it, I promise. Sending all the love♥️
This generation is so much kinder than the one I was born into. Glad to see it.
This is so wholesome
Well you can still act in the same way and get the good treatment of this generation :)
unpopular opinion: this is the best song on her album
Facts cannot be unpopular nor an opinion
Well it’s mine
@@Littlerat1 same
It's mine as well
This is the deepest, most well-written song on the album
"Does she know how proud I am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred"
I'm crying rn
That line brought tears to me too
ya me 2
i sobbed for 20 min
Same
Crying with you
"his parents cared more about the bible than being good to their own child" i almost cried
i literally bawled my eyes out.
It’s so relatable 😓
So blasphemous. The Bible points to the only good in the world...Jesus Christ
@@JayyVee41 the only good in the world really ?
The Bible has a very graphic verse about people who hurt children actually. So they probably didn't care as much about the Bible as they thought.
when i hear this song, i think of my best friend. she passed away and whenever i hear the songs she loved it always reminds me of her. She really did have a lot of problems but she always assured us that it was gonna be okay. The day she passed away was around midnight and i barely woke up to find out that on my socials everyone was posting her. I literally couldnt stop crying the next day at school. "i love you, and i hope that ur ok." this will always hit hard.
im so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss. 🥺🥺🥺
This made me think of a friend who is passed on too. "I hope ur ok" is my way of saying that I hope she has found peace in the afterlife and that there is something out there beyond life.
Sending you love
I am so sorry for your loss, really.
I lost my best friend too. Many years ago. It's so fucking hard.
I just want to remember you that love is eternal. Your love is eternal. And so is hers.
❤️
I hope you're ok. I couldn't imagine losing one of my bffs.
2 years later i'm listening to the whole album again - still know every single word. 💜
Fr
same
"She was tired cuz she was brought in to a world where family was merely blood" this hits so hard man:(
Frrrrrrrrrr
exactly
i don't get it??
@@awkwardlyshypotato6848 it’s about family and how the only connection they really had was blood... iykyk tbh
@@Ivuxoxo dang now I'm sad
"She was tired coz she was brought into a world where family was merely blood" love this. Family members can be toxic too
preach 👏
Yes yes yes!!!
And also, family isn't just blood. You can choose who to call your family, don't stay with people who don't respect you and love your true self, all in the name of "blood", you deserve better 💖
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@@Anna_2605 I'm sorry but Aelin-
"Address the letters, to the holes in my butterfly wings
Nothing's forever, nothing is as good as it seems
And when the clouds are ironed out
And the monsters creep into your house
And every door is hard to close."
These words are beautiful.
❤
"Where family is merely blood"
Best line of the song
This album is a story, and this song is the conclusion of it. It first starts as beaten down, depressed, and then it goes to passive aggressive to angry. It ends where she’s healthier and realizes her own self-worth. A beautifully designed album.
ALSO THE LAST 10 SECONDS START DOING THE DRIVERS LICENSE BEEPS AGAIN. IT GOES FULL CIRCLE AAA
THIS IS WHOLESOME
@@kathrynhughes2532 OMG YES AHHDHIAUD
"his parents cared for the bible more than their own child"
"her family hated who she loved"
this hits harder than an earthquake
Ikr and I live in cali 🧍♂️
@@aylinperez4328 wow
true, i can relate to it af😭
i'll stay in my closet thank you
I kinda don’t get it what does it mean by “cared more for the Bible”
This song made me appreciate my family sooo much more. we don't all grow up in a safe, loving and caring household/environment. I love you mom, dad, lil bro, and lil sis. So much
"her wings have holes in them bc things/people are missing.. in this case, specifically the people she’s lost touch with. she’s writing them letters basically saying “i hope ur okay”, so the letters are addressed to those holes (representing the lost people) in her own wings. it reminds me of the way people say they have a hole in their heart when they lose someone. i feel like she just loves butterflies so her wings are like her metaphorical heart. i could be completely off, but that’s how i think of it!" - tbhjustbored
This made me cry. So many people struggling and no one knows we care. So if you're reading this, we care and im sorry of what you have to endure, but one day, I hope you find your happy
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Omg tysm I'm crying 😢 😊
litterally in tears 😪 love you
Thank you so much
:)
The “I cried” button🤠👋🏽🥲
Been crying
Every time I hear the “Does she know how proud I am you were created, with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred”
This reminded me of a friend that I had in middle school who killed himself. He had a super tough childhood and still found a way to make everyone life and have a smile on his face. John, if you're out there somewhere, I hope you're doing ok.
Rip to him.... He is in a better place 😥🕊
This is a hug in a form of a song🥺😭❤️
Fr
Ikr
The pause between 'I miss you' and 'I hope that you're okay' destroys me every time, I'm crying
me too
Me too when I first heard it I was sobbing
@@usernatallie same
literally started sobbing when she said “i hope she knows im proud” cause it made it feel like she was proud of me ily sm olivia
❤🥺
mee too i rlly needed that lyrical hug😭
i just got the time to listen to the full album and i was fine right up until that lyric. now i’m absolutely sobbing in the middle of the night.
@@Daisy-oe7hh nah cause me too 😭
im proud of you too
This song always makes me emotional ..this is one of her BEST songs hands down ..her lyrics hits you always
I think we all had a friend at one point that randomly disappeared from your life. This song makes me think of them, and now I'm hoping that they're doing alright.
mhm 100%
hi becca, i miss you, and i hope that ur okay :)
This makes me think of my current friend
And I am that disappeared friend because I always have to move from one place to another because of my father's job u know I lost soo many friends in past 10 years I am 15 now
Ye I had this friend and it was her last day and she didn't tell me and on that day we had a argument and the teacher told us the next day that is was there last day.So I have to live with the last thing I did with her was a argument💔
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"Does she know how proud I am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred"
Theres nothing else but tears in my face
SAME I'M BAWLING😭😭😭
Same here
That part was when I started to tear up
SAMEE LITERALLY OUCH
what you guys said 😭😔
Hi! It's me in my breakdown listening to this song. Maybe I'm just a memory of my childhood friends, things change, I miss them and I luv them....
This song is special to me since it reminds me of my old dog. My parents adopted her before I was born and she died in 2019. Right around the time COVID started. She had been with me my whole life up until I was 9-10. It’s been 4 years since she’s past and I still remember her being the best dog ever. I love you Isabella ❤ I hope your reading this from heaven.
Stop your making me cry more than the song :((((
“does she know how proud i am that she was created” i absolutely needed that. THANK YOU OLIVIA
PLEASE YES. SAME. THATS HITS ME.
Lol i was listening to that lyric as I as read that 🤣🤣
Beautiful songwriting ❤
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That hit different 💯
I rlly think it if the most powerful line 😭😭😭
low key getting anxiety because I wanna hear all the songs at the same time but can't
ikr
Same😭
honestly
sameee
me too
My daughter loves you so much she cries when she listens to your music
My daughter does too
THIS IS THE MOST UNDERRATED SONG EVER HOW DO PEOPLE SKIP IT????!!!
Imagine if the drummer boy and Middle school friend are listening 😭
Edit: Also her songwriting is genius
Kinda the point
hope this song reaches them 😭
if i was him i would be so happy to be in one of olivia's songs
hi blink 💜
My ex literally is a drummer boy 😭
i don’t think she understands how many people she’s helped just with this song.
😌😌
She helped me
i love her sm 😿
Hi
Yeah😭🦋💖
This is my favorite song in the album. The rest of her songs are her expressing how she feels about breakups yet this one is her taking time to stop moping about her feelings and spread some love for people who need it more than her
" Address the letters , to the holes in my butterfly wings, nothings forever, nothings as good as it seem"
This whole song is amazimgggg but this line for some reason really brings so much emotion
“she was tired cause she was brought in to a world where family was merely blood” well that hits different when u have a family issue....
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Awhhh:(( Remember that Olivia loves you sm💜💜
Omg Joy!! 💚💚💚💚💚
Not there being tears in my eyes-
literally ..........
"Does she know how proud I am she was created"
this is all it took to make me cry
That line gets me every time
Samee I'm sobbing
this song hits close to home as i've been emotionally abused by my parents and they hate who i love (im lesbian) this song is probably my favorite because of how much i relate
hey, i hope u know ur valid
@@allaboutmika thank you!
Nearly cried my eyes out listening to this bc it's so relatable. The 'they cared more about thr Bible than their own child' hit me hard bc Ik my parents will never accept me as Bi, and it HURTS so bad.
Same dude and I don't think I'll ever come out
@@JJisjusttiredoflife you never have to if you aren’t comfortable!!
I can't explain how much this song heals me when i cry
everyone: talking bout her other songs
me: sobbing over this one.
Me too🥺❤️
This song is pretty good as u said my favourite is good 4 uuuuu..
I know it actually made me cry😭💗
Glad to see we're all in the same boat😅 and I hope all of you guys are okay as well
literallyyy 😭
Can we just talk about how pure Olivia's heart is, she wrote a song about her childhood friends and the fact that this song is just so vulnerable and also brutally honest and how real the story is. Can we just have a group hug now cause I am not okay after listening to this. I love you Olivia, and I am proud that you were created and brought into this chaotic world.
**hug**
*Hugs you tightly, while crying*
@@Pienosch *hugs back while crying*
**hugging back**
tw//mentions of pedophilia and homophobia
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im struggling bc as a queer teen I don't want to date anyone because of having to feel the need to say hey its ok to be queer....also, my abusive mother wants to tell everyone I'm queer and when I say that's my decision tot ell them (because who knows if they're homophobic and if so will they hurt me) she says oh yeah I never told them u were gay or "all i told them was..." no wrong you say nothing...also stop gaslighting me. anyways life is hard being queer especially when ur own "I support gays, trans ppl work with me" mother doesn't accept u as being queer and accuses you of touching your sisters....which is pedophilia not being gay....i hate it here. i cant wait to leave.
*hugs*
This song hits differently when you have abusive parents and want to escape from them. Perhaps if I had children of my own, I wouldn't abuse them the same way my parents did.
"I hope you know how proud I am you were created, with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred" :)
I wish the best for you my friend
@@jenniie_333 that's sweet! Also hope person above is ok
I hope you’re okay❤️
You wouldn’t , I’m no contact with my parents, because they are and always have been abusive. Im a mum now … and do everything the total opposite to how I was raised. I tell them I love them (and mean it) a million times a day. I hug them. I SHOW them they are supported and loved, no matter what, my love isn’t conditional. I let them feel safe… you know I noticed only the other day, my kids have never had a nightmare… not one. My childhood was haunted by nightmares, fear of the dark… because my days were filled with fear too, we have the information, to do better. Love better… and stop the generational trauma. It ends with us.
hugsssss
I always skipped this song, now that i understand the lyrics and i see how deep it is, i love it.
drivers license: *depression*
deja vu: *envy*
good 4 u: *rage*
brutal: *self-destructive*
traitor: *mournful*
1sf, 3sb: *selfless*
enough for you: *thoughtfulness*
happier: *acceptance*
jealousy, jealousy: *self-esteem*
favorite crime: *blameful*
hope ur ok: *open-minded*
this album is so great!
so true and thats why driver's license. daja vu, brutal, and jealosy, jealosy speak to me on a personal leval
yeah is great
yes it's cool
So true man, u commented what i was thinking
I think happier: selfish
“his parents cared more about the Bible than being good to their own child, he wore long sleeves cuz of his dad”
you.did.not.had.to.kill.me.like.that
Hello Billie eilishes wife
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just to clarfy, why does he wear long sleeves...it's s-self harm, yeah?
@@letskillorphans2629 lmao hello🙈🙈
@@papaya3642 I’m not sure but I believe it is..
@@billieismywife3129 that hits close to home
I usually don’t comment on UA-cam videos, but this is to amazing not to comment. This is not a song for heartbreak, this is a song to help accept people for who they are and puts people who are put through a lot of horrible shit in their bad lives and it tells different ones. It is a very brilliant song. This is my favorite one of the album and most relatable for all people.
This album was about not being afraid to embrace the angry, bitter and sour emotions that come with loss and disappointment. It's only when we let them out that we make room for hope. I'm glad she ended this story on a hopeful song.
I'm so proud of liv
Me too
we all are.
Yes
Not you everywhere
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the fact this song is the one with the lowest stream is truly a HATE CRIME.
It is my favorite of the album😍
it's my favorite song off of sour & deserves all the love
everyone's probably too emotionally exhausted by now haha. she had us feeling the whole spectrum
it's my favorite in the album and has the biggest message
joking abt hate crimes 🤨
I know this song wasn’t directed towards me, but it saved my life with my family constantly putting me down the chorus saying do you know how proud I am you were created with the courage to unlearn all of their hatred, god I hope that your happier today cuz I love you and I hope that your okay. It reminds me that their are some people in my life that care and love me ❤❤❤so thank you Olivia for this masterpiece ❤❤❤❤
“Nothings forever, nothings as good as it seems” that’s so true.
This is the way to end an album, she's thanking the people she lost touch with and not wasting tears on someone who doesn't deserve it
PERIOD
The moment literally everyone has been waiting for 🤣
Heyyyy fellow miraculous!🐞🐈⬛
Yupppp
Yea, frr
ahhhh you're profile pic-
Yeah🤣
this song is so underrated
it's not underrated anymore, I'm so happy that this songs is finally recognizable that it's become trend on tiktok ❤
As a gay kid growing up in a homophobic school where I'm bullied every day I needed this rn more than ever
I hope you're okay as well
Me to the random kid I made friends with on vacation when I was five:
"don't know if I'll see you again someday but if you're out there I hope your ok"
🥺
my exact story lol
YES😭
Yesss my story exactly
Romans 8:18-
“The pain you’ve been feeling cannot compare to the joy thats coming”
This is my fav song off Sour. It feels like she's talking to us in a way y'know?
“well I hope you know how proud I am you were created”. “God I hope you're happier today, because I love you and I hope that you're okay”.
Ughhhh Ik I’m literally in tears😫
I love her so much 😩
Same
ABSOLUTELY! She loves us & hopes we're ok. 💖
this song had me full out sobbing it really is the best one
"Address the letter to the holes in my butterfly wings nothing is forever nothing is as good as it seems and when the clouds won't iron out and the monsters creep into your house and every door is hard to close" This part always has me in tears this song makes me cry every time
Literally cannot even sing the lyrics “does she know how proud I am she was created with the courage to unlearn all of the hatred”. The beauty and depth of these words kills me everytime.
“middle school friend grew up alone she raised her brothers on her own” made me cry. The big sisters/brothers of the family should deserve more appreciation for how much they sacrifice and have to grow up so fast. As a big sister I can relate to this and it really hurts especially when your family doesn’t see what’s going on with yourself.
And knowing you will never get a childhood back. For them.
Yeah I get that but ik I grew up fast so they didn’t have to and I can live with that
It also helped me be more prepared for life ik it made into the person that I am and my parents do appreciate me even if they don’t show it all the time lol
Same i will never get that childhood back i grew up fast like when i was 8
I agree as well. I have a bigger sister and I didn't realize how much of a responsible older sibling she was.
My parents aren't the best in English and all taht and so my older sister would always help me with homework and studying. She was really smart and just about a few months ago she went to a foreign country to do medical school. I miss her now, and have a really hard time studying sometimes.
@@megantrow2295 same but I don’t regret it my younger siblings r like my babies but I had to start growing up by 5-6 and I thought I was so big by age 8 lol
olivia saying “well i hope you know how proud i am you were created” always makes me ball freaking cry bc sometimes i honestly just need to hear that
honestly same though
im honestly so proud of you, thank you for staying with us
I am so proud of you, you got this
same
Anytime you need to hear it, I am sending whispers your way - I am so proud you were created!
This Song Is So Powerful, I Applaud Olivia For Releasing This Song
This Song Is More Than A Song, It’s A Way Of Life
(For Those Who Haven’t Noticed, This Song Made Me Cry)
this hit hard . i lost so many friends . keep on thinking if they remember me or are they ok . no song has hit me this hard
This song really hit different “does she know how proud I am that she was created” THAT WAS SO SWEET OLIVIA OMG
:'(((
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN.
please and tell me if its good /bad
its in this Channels Playlist
I would love to hear back from you❤❤
I CRIEDDDD
The person underneath me will be renamed tom later In their life
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Literally just learned who Olivia is today, and of all of her songs, this was the one that made me cry. I related to the others but I'm grown up, happy and married. So the other songs resonated like memories. This one pulls emotions I'll carry with me forever. There are so many old friends this song makes me think of.
It's so nice that Olivia is reaching out to the people in her past who she fell out of touch with and telling them how much she loves them and how proud she is of them. It just makes me love her even more.
I just tried making my own song inspired by her its called CUT ME DOWN
please and tell me if its good /bad
its in this Channels Playlist.
I would love to hear back from you..❤❤💓.
agree, this song is so beautiful
@@sumonazee6182 literally that a lie, I’ve seen like 100 people saying that!
the lyrics in this song are so mature and comforting, “where family is merely just blood” and “does she know how proud I am she was created? With the courage to unlearn all their hatred” I relate to this so much and this song is so underrated💜
I think this song is abt conan gray bc at 0:33 she mentions how to boy wore long sleeves bc of his dad. On Conan’s recent album the song summer child mentions how he used to wear long sleeves. Conans album reveals a lot about his abusive childhood and we all know that Conan and Olivia are close.
There's a certain quality with Olivia's music and voice that is unique only to her
Omg first !!
Exactly! Also, good to see you here too 😁
I see you everywhere, bro.
You can say this about most people. Every human is different.
@@treerover5376 exactly. 💀
shes sick for making this bridge THAT good
omgg hiii
SO SICK AND TWISTED
Ikrrr !
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Yup
I lucky haven’t been under child abuse but during Covid-19, I feel into this darkness that led me to crying every night. I moved from my home I lived for my entire life to a place I’ve never heard of. I hated myself for not staying and being stupid for not enjoying my time there. I stated cutting myself and I could feel nothing so I would do it to the point I was in real pain so I could feel something other than hatred. Nobody knows how much I struggle with that hatred I’ve had for years. I found this song I just listened to it over and over. It’s helped so much to fight against myself. Thank you.
Ty for sharing this. I did the same thing, and you made me feel less alone. You are enough, and you'll be okay. I hope you're doing better, I love you.
This song is UNDERRATED af. It’s one of my fav song.
As a trans guy who lost my family and was kicked out at 17 this song really hits close to home. It’s lonely and I have to tell myself to get over it Bc I can’t let it drag me down. This song lets me know someone in the world is thinking of people just like me and I’m not alone. Thank you Olivia.
I´m so sorry, hope everything gets better, I send you all my love and support
i’m a trans guy too. i hope ur okay
As a Christian i want to tell you this, what happened to you it's not ok and not all Christians are like that, we are all sinners so we shouldnt do that to others. Jesus still loves you and he wants to talk to you genuinely, he can help you ❤️ (I'm assuming you got kicked out of your house because religion, if it's not because of that, this message still counts ❤️)
i’m so sorry u deserves the world 🥺💖
I’m so so proud of you, and I’m so sorry for anyone who tried using the Bible as an excuse to hurt you. My God loves you, and I love you too ♥️ you are so strong and I hope that you’re okay :)
"I hope that you're okay"
"I miss you and I hope that you're okay"
"I love you and i hope that you're okay"
Things are hitting different...
1.5k likes and no replies?😂
hearing those words made me bawl cause I never hear them
Knew a boy once, when I was small
A tow-head blond, with eyes of salt
He played the drum in the marching band
His parents cared more about the Bible
Than being good to their own child
He wore long sleeves 'cause of his dad
And somehow, we fell out of touch
Hope he took his bad deal and made a royal flush
Don't know if I'll see you again someday
But if you're out there, I hope that you're okay
My middle school friend grew up alone
She raised her brothers on her own
Her parents hated who she loved
She couldn't wait to go to college
She was tired 'cause she was brought
Into a world where family was merely blood
Does she know how proud I am she was created
With the courage to unlearn all of their hatred
We don't talk much but I just gotta say
I miss you, and I hope that you're okay
Address the letters to the holes in my butterfly wings
Nothing's forever, nothing is as good as it seems
And when the clouds are ironed out
And the monsters creep into your house
And every door is hard to close
Well, I hope you know how proud I am you were created
With the courage to unlearn all of their hatred
God, I hope that you're happier today
'Cause I love you, and I hope that you're okay
My favorite part is the ending. The ending with just some slow light music & a very faint chatter. It’s a combo of peaceful & calm as well as sounds like the good ending credits to life. This song was so amazing liv
EVERYONE BE LIKE: “This is my favorite.... no wait this one”
HAHAHAHAHA SO TRUE
no but fr though i can’t decide
Fr
EXACTLY
literally
Liv really made the last song about acceptance, the final stage of grief.
Omg omg I have a couple of her stages written down
All I want- Wanting a dope bf
Drivers License- breaking up with the dope bf and missing him a bunch
Deja Vu- Being mad at the dope bf because how could he, she was so good to him
Good 4 U- Wtf bro how are you over me already- imma pretend I'm over you
Happier- U finna regret breaking up w me, but I guess I'm learning to get over it (Miss girl crying inside)
ALSO SHE NEEDS TO LET OUT APOCALYPTIC CRUSH
@@filo4854 deja vu is more like olivia song of "hey dont copy what you did with me with your new girl but i still miss those times"
Yeah, I thought the point of the ep was about the stages. Like SOUR= stages of unhappy relationships.
Address the letters💌
To the holes in my butterfly wings🦋
Nothing’s forever🥺
Nothing’s as good as it seems😔
And when the clods won’t iron out☁️
And the monsters creep into your house👺
And ever door is hard to close🚪
MY FAVORITE PART OF THE WHOLE SONG! I LOVE OLIVIA!💟
This made me cry. I have a friend who’s dad is in jail, and his mom abandoned him. He lives with his aunt on his dads side of the family and I just think this is something everyone needs to hear. ❤
“his parents cared more about the bible, than being good to their own child” THIS HITS HARD
FR T-T
Literally the story of my life
Disrespectful
literally
THIS SOUNDS GAY
“Hope he took his bad deal and made a royal flush.”
This lyric is her favorite lyric she’s ever written. Don’t let the meaning of that line go over your head.
Edit: For those asking what it means. Even though he was dealt a bad set a cards within life, meaning even though he was being abused by his father and his life was anything but easy, she hopes he made a royal flush. A royal flush in poker is uncommon, but extremely powerful; you can easily win with such a hand. So Olivia meant that, despite his tough life, she hoped he persevered and found something positive to come out of it; she hoped HES was happy right now. That he had triumphed in this figurative card game. His life is represented by the card game.
What does it mean?
I’m kinda confused, could you explain its meaning?
@@Lina-bb1ps it's a card game reference poker I think
Royal flush is the best move you can get in a poker game. So I’m guessing the line means making the best out of the worst thing you have
@@Lina-bb1ps it’s the best hand you can get in a game of poker lol
I think its the outside perspective that really hit. Just the idea that someone out there, that isnt close to me, genuinely cares, for someone reason really gets me. Not many songs bring me to tears.
I'm not a fan, really, of Olivia Rodrigo's type of genre but I'll be honest: this song has me enchanted and I'll be giving a look to the album. Beautiful song ❤
“His parents cared more about the Bible than being good to their own child” as a bi daughter with a homophobic dad imma just say that shit hit hard
@@spacegrl13 ty so much it means a lot to me 🤍
I am so sorry. You really deserve better. God loves you for you so who cares what other people think because we’re all sinners at the end of the day. Ily girl
@@valeg2352 🤍🤍🤍 good point 😀
I feel the same
I’m so sorry my love 🥺 as a Christian myself I can say we shouldnt show hate towards anyone. a lot of the times people judge out of hatred rather than showing love and kindness as Jesus did and spreading the word of God with love
unpopular opinion: this song hope ur ok, is the saddest in the album.
It's not really sad, more like hopeful and optimistic, and just accepting things as they are right now while hoping for a better future 🌱, this is the last song in the album which means it is about acceptance and hope after feeling everything after the break up, olivia is so smart 😭
@@crybaby5564 yeah but it still doesn’t fail to make me tear up
@@crybaby5564 yeah not really sad but more on realistic but with an optimistic approach.. can I ask if your name is based on disms "Cry Baby"?
@@jessemaricarlon1246 yeahhh I agree, that's what I'm sayinggg :)) and also why is your question so random?? 😭😭 But no, I don't even no who or what that is, but my name is actually based off Melanie Martinez's character, Cry Baby 😁
i think the saddest is tratior because its so realatable
I love the fact that in every Olivia 's song there's a whole story she's telling us like reading a diary wrote about someone's life...
Such a beautiful song, everyone can relate, beautiful message of empathy and care for others. Love Olivia 💜
When we think no one cares about us, there’s always someone hoping we’re doing well
❤😭
Offgunjn
Well im sure i don't have that person
Yes!
*“not everyone will love you, but the ones that* *do will love you a lot”*