I was afraid of putting myself out there until early 2018. I was at a point where I had nothing to lose, and therefore didn't care what people thought of me. I started doing videos and posting them to social media. Even though they were really bad when I first started nothing bad happened to me. This taught me that there wasn't anything to fear and now that I am in a better place, I still am able to post content because I learned that there isn't anything to fear.
This was great, thanks, been searching for "how to handle social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.
This has been so helpful! I get really awkward in life when I'm suddenly thrown in the light. It's not that I don't have anything to say but it happens so suddenly that I get into panic mode. I particularly liked the part of visioning what would Badass Ria do? Would she be this bold about her opinion and not shrink away just to keep from upsetting people? The answer is YES! It's so simple to put a third person narrative - it makes me feel less pressure because well, I'm not hurting people, Badass Ria is just doing what she wants, she deserves that! (Of course not hurting people while I do this haha) Thank you so much for this video ❤
Indeed, I am very shy but ever since I discovered you Dr. Aziz through your UA-cam channel I have improved tremendously. Before I don't have the courage to even talked to people nor entering stores and offices now I can do it with confidence. I started February of this year and I consciously forced myself to go out daily. Thank you so much.
Good video! Positive visualization is really powerful, but we must put our contemplations into constant practice. There is a moment where we can test the boundaries or keep to ourselves. This time during social isolation is tough because we are all separated by a physical boundary. One thing that I struggle with is reaching out to people over social media, text or call. Time to start visualizing exciting and meaningful conversations over the phone!
Dont know if anyones realised this yet but I recently watched fightclub and it reminds me of what Tyler durden would do instead of the narrator while ofcourse not being too extra but sends off sort of the same message to me in a good way. Thanks even years later.
Your videos are super awesome man. The way you present the information is very comical and easily receptive and you also explain things really well. Your real life scenarios are realistic. A lot of youtubers give the most cliché, repetitive, vague advice on topics like this but your style is very precise and easy to understand. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom
Good for you helping people like me gain confidence. I really don’t know what I would do without good people like you. I need help putting myself out there and this is such great advice!
Omg flip the frame! Off course! I have a relative who sees people as centre of attention/ attention seekers when they get themselves out there. So I always stop myself from getting out there! I haven't promoted my published book, coaching services etc because of fear of being seen as an attention seeker! But yes off course it's a total game changer to flip the frame! She doesn't like people receiving positive attention and I think that's weird and silly! Flipping the frame! Feels SO much better. Thank you! I love your videos! 🙏
@@GetMoreConfidenceI like people like you because your like that good brother figure that helps us out make us feel better about ourselves when we are down.
What you do after watching this video matters the most and i hope dr aziz you make a video on that because lot of us watch your videos we get motivated for few minutes and later forget everything and never ever take action. I really hope you make a some type of magical video explaining what to do after getting the knowledge from your videos
AHHH TY TY SM ima try to be badass me when i approach people now ! Also i really really like what you said about what if the other person had a bad reaction like it's all about perspective dude. Like what i just came to say blah blah, nothing weird about that.. ugh yess this helps a lot. Once again tysm!!!
You should have a telegram channel or something where you put these types of challenges weekly/monthly and people could report back how they're doing. More people would actually take action when they have a group of like minded people doing it with them. I think it would only do good for your business as well, there's some online self improvement related communities i'm involved in, where there's tons of people who would love this concept! There's so much theory related content related to self- improvement which causes some people to become addicted to self- help content but never take actual action. This could be an antidote to that! :)
As all videos are awesome and interesting, I am lost among them. I started watching differents videos with different subjects. In this video I appreciated how your tips are outstanding.
Hi Aziz, I wanted to ask if you would make a video sometime on standing up for yourself while keeping rapport. I find that the more I read 'Not Nice' the more powerful I feel, but I still shy away from speaking up for myself or if I do I notice that I say it with a somewhat of a smile and lower tone of voice than I would normally speak in, like not stern. What is your take on this?
I was afraid of putting myself out there until early 2018. I was at a point where I had nothing to lose, and therefore didn't care what people thought of me. I started doing videos and posting them to social media. Even though they were really bad when I first started nothing bad happened to me. This taught me that there wasn't anything to fear and now that I am in a better place, I still am able to post content because I learned that there isn't anything to fear.
Way to go Jason, keep up the great work!
@@GetMoreConfidence Thank you!
This is wild cuz I just post a status saying I'm in a good mood and people will tell me to kill myself lmao
Even tho your videos were bad you put yourself out there and that’s cool you stepped out of your comfort zone.
i just wanna thank you with all my heart
Right back at ya'!
This was great, thanks, been searching for "how to handle social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some great things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.
May you have the courage to be who you are and to know on a deep level that you’re awesome.
YES!
yes yes! putting yourself out there boldly, freely makes SUCH a difference!
Yes!
This has been so helpful! I get really awkward in life when I'm suddenly thrown in the light. It's not that I don't have anything to say but it happens so suddenly that I get into panic mode. I particularly liked the part of visioning what would Badass Ria do? Would she be this bold about her opinion and not shrink away just to keep from upsetting people? The answer is YES! It's so simple to put a third person narrative - it makes me feel less pressure because well, I'm not hurting people, Badass Ria is just doing what she wants, she deserves that! (Of course not hurting people while I do this haha) Thank you so much for this video ❤
Thank you for this awesome share Ria!
Great advice as always.
Although lately it feels like my courage is going down a lot. Probably my lack of leaving the house is to blame...
Getting out of the house is the first step to putting yourself out there. :)
Indeed, I am very shy but ever since I discovered you Dr. Aziz through your UA-cam channel I have improved tremendously. Before I don't have the courage to even talked to people nor entering stores and offices now I can do it with confidence. I started February of this year and I consciously forced myself to go out daily. Thank you so much.
Good video! Positive visualization is really powerful, but we must put our contemplations into constant practice. There is a moment where we can test the boundaries or keep to ourselves. This time during social isolation is tough because we are all separated by a physical boundary. One thing that I struggle with is reaching out to people over social media, text or call. Time to start visualizing exciting and meaningful conversations over the phone!
Don't forget video conferencing! See my latest video on that.
Visualize success 🙌
For sure!
Dont know if anyones realised this yet but I recently watched fightclub and it reminds me of what Tyler durden would do instead of the narrator while ofcourse not being too extra but sends off sort of the same message to me in a good way.
Thanks even years later.
This video is so underrated. Your advice is real, practical and effective!
I appreciate that!
Your videos are super awesome man. The way you present the information is very comical and easily receptive and you also explain things really well. Your real life scenarios are realistic. A lot of youtubers give the most cliché, repetitive, vague advice on topics like this but your style is very precise and easy to understand. Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom
I'm so glad you're finding it helpful!
IM GONNA DO IT
DO IT : )
ua-cam.com/video/AiKZth5iBz4/v-deo.html
This was an amazing perspective/video. I found myself self reflecting on every point you said. Thank you!
Good for you helping people like me gain confidence. I really don’t know what I would do without good people like you. I need help putting myself out there and this is such great advice!
Happy to help!
Omg flip the frame! Off course!
I have a relative who sees people as centre of attention/ attention seekers when they get themselves out there. So I always stop myself from getting out there! I haven't promoted my published book, coaching services etc because of fear of being seen as an attention seeker!
But yes off course it's a total game changer to flip the frame! She doesn't like people receiving positive attention and I think that's weird and silly! Flipping the frame! Feels SO much better.
Thank you! I love your videos! 🙏
Awesome breakthrough! What is your book about?
@@GetMoreConfidenceI like people like you because your like that good brother figure that helps us out make us feel better about ourselves when we are down.
I would love this if I could rather than simply liking. THANK YOU! “What would badass me do?” yessss!!!!!
Dating life, I utterly suck in that.
It's time to get your game on Carlos! :)
Get More Confidence hahah yeah!
Im working on speaking whats on my mind more and im starting to answer more open discussion questions in college which helps me a bit.
That's awesome! Keep up the great work moving forward!
What you do after watching this video matters the most and i hope dr aziz you make a video on that because lot of us watch your videos we get motivated for few minutes and later forget everything and never ever take action. I really hope you make a some type of magical video explaining what to do after getting the knowledge from your videos
I have a video for you on just that topic! ua-cam.com/video/iwjjjkOYaQM/v-deo.html
AHHH TY TY SM ima try to be badass me when i approach people now ! Also i really really like what you said about what if the other person had a bad reaction like it's all about perspective dude. Like what i just came to say blah blah, nothing weird about that.. ugh yess this helps a lot. Once again tysm!!!
You're very welcome!
Great video! Thank you so much. I gotta use this when I am scared of being myself
You can do it John! Let me know how it goes.
Be Badass in everything
#LifeGoals :)
You're brilliant thank you❤
You should have a telegram channel or something where you put these types of challenges weekly/monthly and people could report back how they're doing. More people would actually take action when they have a group of like minded people doing it with them. I think it would only do good for your business as well, there's some online self improvement related communities i'm involved in, where there's tons of people who would love this concept!
There's so much theory related content related to self- improvement which causes some people to become addicted to self- help content but never take actual action. This could be an antidote to that! :)
I'm working on something just like that, and more!
As all videos are awesome and interesting, I am lost among them. I started watching differents videos with different subjects.
In this video I appreciated how your tips are outstanding.
Thank you!
Hi Aziz, I wanted to ask if you would make a video sometime on standing up for yourself while keeping rapport. I find that the more I read 'Not Nice' the more powerful I feel, but I still shy away from speaking up for myself or if I do I notice that I say it with a somewhat of a smile and lower tone of voice than I would normally speak in, like not stern. What is your take on this?
I just put this on my list of videos to make. Thanks for the idea!
Thanks for making such a great video.
Another great video!!
Thanks for sharing!!
My pleasure!
Thank you soo much bro 🤞🏿
💯
I don’t lack confidence, i literally don’t know what it means to “put myself out there”. Just looking for answers bro
thank you so much
Great Stuff!
Great video
Thanks!
powerful
Let me know how applying this information work for you!
Thank you so mush Dr ..... first comment hhhhhhhh ....
Heyyooooo...FIRST! :)
Lol my name is jack and that was literally me xD
:)
Haha get out there badass Jack !!
well i can speake up or talk to peopel i dont know
but whenevver someone knows me i have problems keeping contact if i know otherd know me
That's very common. It's a higher level of intimacy.
❤❤
7:31 hahahaha
:)
If you are WEALTHY, MOST women do not care WHAT VD you have. Be honest.
I think that is a story you're telling yourself that isn't as true as you believe it is.
Hello can u plz reply to my comments on ur videos pleaseeeee? xxx
I absolutely do as many as I have time for. Hopefully at least one will be yours! (Does this one count? :) )
Saw ur all ur replies thanksss ♥️