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  • Опубліковано 17 жов 2021
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  • @StephIsColdG
    @StephIsColdG  2 роки тому +26

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    • @mysticmeno
      @mysticmeno 2 роки тому

      Nice video 🥶🫀

    • @123dan165
      @123dan165 2 роки тому

      Yo Steph are you going to talk about Britney Rennar saying 'hide your sons'?

    • @debow9739
      @debow9739 2 роки тому +1

      Steph is cold 4life my first every black content creator to get me on this awareness thanks lil bro I salute you

  • @DaquanWiltshire1
    @DaquanWiltshire1 2 роки тому +378

    All facts! But I got dragged on Twitter for saying this 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @AWEFussball
      @AWEFussball 2 роки тому +27

      Jesus loves you

    • @tjshammar7544
      @tjshammar7544 2 роки тому +5

      shut up daquan

    • @keyboard2758
      @keyboard2758 2 роки тому +41

      Daquan I knew you were redpill fromthe things you were saying but i didn’t know you watched Steph respect

    • @hunchocoles2146
      @hunchocoles2146 2 роки тому +21

      Yo Daquan I didn’t know you watch my dawg Steph videos

    • @samuelemmanuel9384
      @samuelemmanuel9384 2 роки тому +11

      Wow I'm surprised daquan is here

  • @MichaelDrift_
    @MichaelDrift_ 2 роки тому +422

    This is why self-improvement is so important as a man. As you improve, the more high-interest chicks you attract, and the more likely they'll WANT to give it up to you quick. Low-interest chicks who play around and stall are a result of you being low value. Stay focused gang!

    • @darnellwilliams8783
      @darnellwilliams8783 2 роки тому +2

      You should use that self improvement on yourself women do not want a guy sitting at HOME in his mother's computer in her home complaining. They want a sophisticated educated brotherhood me

    • @MichaelDrift_
      @MichaelDrift_ 2 роки тому +26

      @@darnellwilliams8783 “sophisticated” but mans said I was “in home” twice in the same sentence lmfao 🤣

    • @darnellwilliams8783
      @darnellwilliams8783 2 роки тому +1

      @@MichaelDrift_ I've dated many high value women you're a boy make I question if you've ever kissed a Woman

    • @jordanamritt7748
      @jordanamritt7748 2 роки тому +9

      Facts bro

    • @Oh_So_Based
      @Oh_So_Based 2 роки тому +4

      By "low-value" you mean low in looks right?

  • @iamtopflight3729
    @iamtopflight3729 2 роки тому +159

    Fellas don’t ever take these women out to eat UNLESS she showin u 100% interests, they want attention & validation.. be alpha y’all 💪

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +17

      Facts 💯 i’d be a fool to take a chick out that don’t have interest in me. There’s plenty betas out there whose doing that rn, and that’s the reason why they are easy to manipulate

    • @mikereacts6903
      @mikereacts6903 2 роки тому +3

      She *might* get a 4 for 4 from Wendy’s after I hit

    • @christianbenn316
      @christianbenn316 2 роки тому +1

      If she does,nt add anything to the table then cut her loose & move on.

    • @xaviertherealist8066
      @xaviertherealist8066 2 роки тому

      @@mikereacts6903 not even then bro

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 2 роки тому

      My name is Alpha

  • @sonnyjones313
    @sonnyjones313 2 роки тому +83

    I don’t understand what’s so sinister about a man wanting sex. Why is that a big deal? Every man wants sex whether they’re a “good man” or a terrible man.

    • @brosef9878
      @brosef9878 2 роки тому +42

      Cause these women don’t understand men at all

    • @AyKrax
      @AyKrax 2 роки тому +46

      Cuz they don't care about a man's needs & wants.

    • @cedaylejohnson997
      @cedaylejohnson997 2 роки тому +11

      Because they want us to think like them

    • @DialloMoore503
      @DialloMoore503 2 роки тому +8

      Nothing sinister about it. All of us are here because two people had SEX. People need to get over their hang ups.

    • @MrHwilRRR
      @MrHwilRRR 2 роки тому +5

      They want orbiters to provide free attention, money and emotional tamponage - in addition to good digging stick.

  • @BrooklynMadeMarcel
    @BrooklynMadeMarcel 2 роки тому +22

    Literally ghosted a chick recently she said I wouldn’t get no 🐱 “maybe after like 6 date” yeah I’m good on that. You’re not gonna waste my time with that bs.

    • @mctreasure
      @mctreasure 2 роки тому +4

      Lol 6 dates, smh. 😂 Like she got a playbook/formula. The disrespect

    • @yaboyreggie_
      @yaboyreggie_ 2 роки тому

      @@mctreasure me and my roommate give females 3 days after that she done for unless she is a classmate or a coworker.

    • @okkAdrian
      @okkAdrian 2 роки тому +1

      SIXX DAAAATEESSS?! NAHHH she WILDIN

    • @gurugamer8632
      @gurugamer8632 Рік тому

      @@okkAdrian whats wildin mean

    • @okkAdrian
      @okkAdrian Рік тому

      @@gurugamer8632 lol it’s a NY thing, wildin means in context “ you gotta be kidding me right now “

  • @michaelluciano2411
    @michaelluciano2411 2 роки тому +160

    Thanks for the knowledge stephiscold. These days going on a date is like going on a job interview that your paying for.

    • @blazecosko7506
      @blazecosko7506 2 роки тому +9

      LOL

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +20

      💯 these low value chicks want men who make 6 figures, meet their standards, make them happy, and to be f’ckn Superman 😂 I’ll just be the villain because it’s no way I’m hell I’m doing that bs

    • @dannypalmer3581
      @dannypalmer3581 2 роки тому +5

      Why are you paying on the first date

    • @aceboogie8959
      @aceboogie8959 2 роки тому +3

      Stop going on them

    • @MaseratiHolla
      @MaseratiHolla 2 роки тому

      💯

  • @righteousmasculine
    @righteousmasculine 2 роки тому +122

    I’m 34 with no kids I’ve dated some good and some ratchet women. Some old and some younger
    The more I got into my Bible and Bible plans I only have a desire for a certain type of woman a GODLY and Christ like woman I pay more attention to red flags and I’m all about a spiritual connection if a woman reveal in public things that should only be revealed in the bedroom or behind closed doors I can’t marry a woman like that

    • @thegreatestofalltime513
      @thegreatestofalltime513 2 роки тому +25

      This facts bro. I only talk to women who have a relationship with God if not I don’t even waste my time

    • @traceym4100
      @traceym4100 2 роки тому +7

      And hopefully.. u're not expecting to get the sweet watery guts on the first date. From a woman who has a relationship with God. How are u on this clowns page?

    • @righteousmasculine
      @righteousmasculine 2 роки тому +4

      @@thegreatestofalltime513 bro that real man I’m on the same plane ✈️ I been watching this show called black love and it’s about positive couples who have been married a long time regardless of how society is I’m putting it in my mind and manifesting that I will get there one day I was reading and one of the plans said prepare yourself for marriage while you’re single and also learn about fatherhood while working on your purpose and getting close to GOD. It’s certain music women and certain things I’ve lost a appetite for because they aren’t of GOD it’s crazy but the more I got in his word the more I felt the spirit moving through me and maturing me

    • @jordansmith4139
      @jordansmith4139 2 роки тому +3

      🙏🙏

    • @aydenbelcourt6035
      @aydenbelcourt6035 2 роки тому +8

      I feel you I want a real spiritual connection physical don't last forever.

  • @SegaSavageMusic
    @SegaSavageMusic 2 роки тому +153

    You can have what ever you want in life. All of us have the power to manifest our thoughts into reality. Anything you want you just have to think about it then act on your thoughts to manifest reality. Same goes for that girl you want. It's all in your mind.

    • @Shadowstrike54
      @Shadowstrike54 2 роки тому +42

      Y'all need to get this manifesting BS out of here. You can sit in your dark room in your mothers house and manifest all you want, if you don't get out there and stack your bread and make yourself something of value, the only thing you will manifest is busted nuts from females you will never touch

    • @joshua7508
      @joshua7508 2 роки тому +8

      You’re right but it’s easier said than done . there are steps that need to be taken, in order for the manifestation to be successful. Most people can’t pull it off. It has to eat you alive in order for you to go for it. It has to be that feeling of life or death. That’s why people that have nothing are usually the most ambitious . It’s because their manifestations their imagination . The dream is all they have. You have to find your reason . You have to ask your self why ? You can change what you do but you can’t change what you want.

    • @Pimp-Master
      @Pimp-Master 2 роки тому +1

      What bullshit.

    • @shynepo5867
      @shynepo5867 2 роки тому +5

      Think about a million dollars but put in no action THINK real long..... Biggest load of bullshit I've ever heard

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +1

      Bro the first part is right, but your thought can’t make a girl change for you in reality.

  • @nathanplant9893
    @nathanplant9893 2 роки тому +142

    "Successful people do what unsuccessful people are not willing to do. Don't wish it were easier, wish you were better." --Jim Rohn

  • @malcolmwhite72
    @malcolmwhite72 2 роки тому +77

    Listen to your inner selves, gentlemen. Assess the situations or topics you are avoiding dealing with, and have a conservation with yourselves. If you realize that you cannot overcome an issue, and you feel that something out of your control is preventing you from having the ability to solve it - accept it. Sometimes life throws impossible situations our way, and accepting them is part of the human experience. Most people have a strong intuition, and know themselves more than they think they do. Listen to your instincts.

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +4

      💯 that’s the truth bro! Human instincts never lie. I rather listen to myself than believe what Any chick tells me‼️ her actions will show me the truth.

    • @darrenjoness2397
      @darrenjoness2397 2 роки тому

      Brilliantly put!!

  • @austinlouis3139
    @austinlouis3139 2 роки тому +40

    Bro the face in the thumb nail “Im boutta BUUUUHH”💀

  • @Lan96
    @Lan96 2 роки тому +165

    I’d rather be the manipulator before I ever get manipulated

    • @melly_7258
      @melly_7258 2 роки тому +8

      😂😂😂😂

    • @melly_7258
      @melly_7258 2 роки тому +16

      Dis man a demon 😂😂😂😂

    • @AyKrax
      @AyKrax 2 роки тому +20

      You got 3 options be the hammer, the nail, or stay on the sidelines

    • @Kirbystare1992
      @Kirbystare1992 2 роки тому +1

      Wouldn’t anyone? Lol

    • @c.l.9344
      @c.l.9344 2 роки тому +5

      Manipulation is the subtly of witchcraft.

  • @sithe7577
    @sithe7577 2 роки тому +7

    I told myself fuck dating and having a relationship. I’m focused on my career progression, finishing college getting my body right, as well as my finances💸. When you grow num to your sexual desires, the harder it is for a woman is to control you.

  • @davidpugh2942
    @davidpugh2942 2 роки тому +65

    Definition of a SIMP: SHE IS MY PURPOSE
    You’re welcome guys!! Stay strong KINGS.

  • @iverse9723
    @iverse9723 2 роки тому +35

    I feel like once you as a man become financially stable….having a nice career… going on vacations every year…. living a social life of abundance women will come to you fellas… but here’s the thing women will never tell u they want u for the lifestyle up front they gonna lie & say they don’t care about money

  • @hectorrico8661
    @hectorrico8661 2 роки тому +29

    When she says "I gotta get to know you better.". That translates to "You gotta wait 2 or 3 dates until I friendzone you.".

    • @e84fresh
      @e84fresh 2 роки тому +1

      So fucking true. “I like to take things slow.”

  • @StevekatThomanov
    @StevekatThomanov 2 роки тому +26

    No guts no dates G.

  • @primeminister87
    @primeminister87 2 роки тому +14

    A Simple summary from this video , understanding the interest level of a woman you’re interested in . If a woman is really attracted to a you , things should come effortlessly for you . If the woman attraction for you is bare minimum or nothing at all , understand your taking a chance of wasted time and being used . To my brothers , continue to grow and improve , everything will fall in place .

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh 2 роки тому +38

    Guess what, I've never gotten it from a chic I took on date, always the ones I don't. Point is, when she want it you don't have to do anything. When you have to, she don't want to and WILL take what she can from you. So I stop doing dates.

    • @cedricmiller4370
      @cedricmiller4370 2 роки тому +7

      Agreed I don't do dates it's 2021 don't be feeding them fattening them up so another man can smash them on a empty stomach

    • @bikosankara7417
      @bikosankara7417 2 роки тому +2

      💯

    • @yesyoucan7877
      @yesyoucan7877 2 роки тому

      No cap. She don’t gotta give it up the first time I come over or she comes over. But if we vibing and it’s like my 4th or 5th time coming over and we still ain’t f yet… she’s getting blocked and I’m leaving early.

  • @wealthyasamindframe1946
    @wealthyasamindframe1946 2 роки тому +9

    All day... Always go where you celebrated and never where your tolerated.

  • @treexkzknaxkz
    @treexkzknaxkz 2 роки тому +213

    Stop wasting ya time with most these chicks, she’ll string u along and take advantage of your lust for her for as long as possible. Don’t receive damage from a chick who’s a savage

    • @righteousmasculine
      @righteousmasculine 2 роки тому +38

      This is exactly how dudes turn savage you have to date a woman with the same morals as yourself and it requires seeking the lord and letting him bring that woman into your life

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +11

      💯 I rather invest my time doing something that would benefit me later in life other than giving these 304’s attention 👑

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +8

      @@righteousmasculine facts bro ‼️

    • @amarson2322
      @amarson2322 2 роки тому +3

      @@mzzsoldier25yearsago65 facts

    • @EzeICE
      @EzeICE 2 роки тому +2

      @@mzzsoldier25yearsago65thank you, well said bro!!!

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +45

    If a girl isn't interesting in the guy then they shouldn't be going out in the first place. You have some crazy dudes out there and they can lose their lives to those guys once they used them

    • @anthonyfam5469
      @anthonyfam5469 2 роки тому +14

      They going to learn one day. I agree with you.

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +18

      Exactly bro that's why I told my older cousins if I'm going out with someone that I don't like WTF is the point of going out in the first place people need to WAKE UP

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +18

      @@anthonyfam5469 Exactly bro. They think using a guy for his time and money is a joke. But it won't be funny anymore when they meet a guy who is trigger happy or a dude who would kill just for being offended.

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +15

      @@Liqo315 Real talk fam. You even have women believe that since they have male friends, they think that some of those male friends should take them out on a date aka friendship dates. Why should I as a man go on friendship dates? That's bogus and furthermore we shouldn't even be friends with chicks because most of the time they're not real friends. They're selfish. Friendships should be two sided but women want it to be one sided from our end.

    • @anthonyfam5469
      @anthonyfam5469 2 роки тому +8

      They probably do that stuff because the last guy hurt them and they are using the next guy to boost their ego up. They use that guy because they don’t want to be alone and until they find another guy they really like and then. Bam. Ghost the rebound guy like an ugly sweater in the closet.

  • @shaynwilliams8973
    @shaynwilliams8973 2 роки тому +41

    She shows low interest I show even lower. I just don't care. 🤷

    • @dondada8603
      @dondada8603 2 роки тому +7

      Shit hit home 👌 mimic her behaviour when she show low interest.

  • @pkmnchampionryan8870
    @pkmnchampionryan8870 2 роки тому +104

    If women are allowed to go for what they want, men are allowed too.

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +11

      Bro they will call men Misogynistic for having certain types 👀🤦

  • @ronaydin353
    @ronaydin353 2 роки тому +5

    Steph 100% agree I met a chick in the gym she actually talked to me first and we started vibing We went out the first day somewhere to the same day she gave it up and I been hitting it every weekend thats the type of girl I think that deserves a date when ever we go out its half. I pay half she pays and I get the guts and she even got me a present for Christmas lol She also texted me randomly saying she was thinking about me waned to get serious with me but I am not interested In a relationship at the moment but all in all she respects that she is cool as fuck never met anyone like her its very rare to meet chicks like that now a days I took alot of ur advice thanks Man I appreciate it🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯 and she fine as fuck I like how she is on her grind too she write books and she is a lawyer slim thick and all that. Its u who made it happen Thanks bro🙏 I smashed alot of women but now I know how to control them mentally

  • @tysoinspirational80
    @tysoinspirational80 2 роки тому +30

    Sell them the dream just like they sell us fellas. They play checkers we play chess!

    • @gurugamer8632
      @gurugamer8632 Рік тому

      Why are women holding back on intimacy but not on restaurants and gifts?

  • @RichFitnessVSO
    @RichFitnessVSO 2 роки тому +55

    That’s crazy I saw this being shared and one of the simps from my high school disagreed with with it. But this is the guy who ASKS his gf for kisses

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +22

      He'll learn the hard way g 🤣

    • @righteousmasculine
      @righteousmasculine 2 роки тому +16

      😂😂😂😂maaaaaan

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +13

      I'm in high school myself I see this everyday and most of the people I know do this every time 🤦🏿‍♂️😂😭

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +7

      @@thedeanogaming facts bro 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @darnellwilliams8783
      @darnellwilliams8783 2 роки тому

      @@thedeanogaming you will you should buy a dog

  • @shawavy2897
    @shawavy2897 2 роки тому +5

    I can’t stand when we’re just having fun and then out of nowhere they want to be a relationship and then when you do they more than likely self sabotage it !

  • @blazinglion-h8c
    @blazinglion-h8c 2 роки тому +26

    Yo! The thumbnail was hilarious, bruh! 😂😂

  • @jayrandomprojects
    @jayrandomprojects 2 роки тому +32

    Everybody wants something out of the deal. Doesn't matter if it's business or dating.
    And the funny thing is that women are well aware of this. Why does going Dutch on a first date usually kill the chances of a second date? Because women want something in return for the time she spends with a man.
    Similarly, a man wants something for the money he spends on a woman. In his case, he wants intimacy. Maybe he doesn't expect it on the first date but he wants it in the near future.
    Why is that soo hard to understand?

    • @mctreasure
      @mctreasure 2 роки тому +5

      Oh they understand, but the game is in acting/pretending they don't. Plausible deniability, that way they can eat their cake and still have it.

    • @gurugamer8632
      @gurugamer8632 Рік тому

      Why are women holding back on intimacy but not on restaurants and gifts?

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton 2 роки тому +37

    This man speaks the Gospel 💪🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @sphinxnose960
    @sphinxnose960 2 роки тому +17

    "oh my god he stepped on it :(" 🤣🤣 you hell bruh

  • @EzeICE
    @EzeICE 2 роки тому +9

    Yooooo we straight up need a South Park version of Steph is Cold, with other characters like Sweet Watery Wendy, Blue Pill Bob, Buhster Bennington. That shit would be lit AF!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @corygg3911
      @corygg3911 2 роки тому +1

      Buhster Bennington 😂

  • @omegagamer8589
    @omegagamer8589 2 роки тому +16

    Man this female thing too hard just hit the gym, work and save my money

    • @Santana2163
      @Santana2163 2 роки тому +3

      I feel you. Do that and if you eventually find a good girl, see how it plays out. Don’t lose focus

    • @dondada8603
      @dondada8603 2 роки тому +2

      😂😂 i felt that bro...hit the gym work hard and safe money...point blank period.

  • @SebastianSpeaks
    @SebastianSpeaks 2 роки тому +3

    Fax. I actually mentioned that under the comments. You have to look at her interest levels Gee 💪🏽 if she had low interest on the first date then don't take her out on the second. Period.

  • @jboymontel1
    @jboymontel1 2 роки тому +7

    The cat poop analogy was spot on!!!

  • @carnage9480
    @carnage9480 2 роки тому +37

    Watching stephiscold upload videos everyday and watching Eric Thomas videos everyday and applying it to your life will make anybody COLD

    • @kingzayyyx
      @kingzayyyx 2 роки тому +5

      Absolutely bro💯

    • @mhlengindlovu8450
      @mhlengindlovu8450 2 роки тому +3

      Bro, 9:40 I had a girl I was just having fun with on the side, she wanted to be my main girl so she started doing dumb stuff like stopping me in the middle of s3x, taking my digging stick out and asking me if I love her? I just put only clothes and listened earphones by the laptop. She then gives up the s3x, after I finished I kicked her out. She texted me about 4 days asking if I was around I said I’m around from 8 in morning till I leave in the afternoon. She then says I see and hasn’t said ish since. She wants me to chase her and stuff. I’m too cold man, that won’t happen.

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому

      Fr bro I watch ( Stephiscold, Mj getright, and Fitx) the information that they give is beneficial and that’s no cap 🧢‼️

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +1

      @@mhlengindlovu8450 you cold asf bro 💯 I don’t understand why these f’ckn 304’s be wanting relations when we just use each other’s for one thing 🤷‍♂️ they see a man in a relationship and want him to treat them like that. Girls never just want the digging stick they want everything that comes with it😒 but they won’t have that with me 💯 I’m just here for one thing, and that’s to dig her guts out then hit the door 🚪

    • @matchhunter7012
      @matchhunter7012 2 роки тому

      i will check eric thomas out.

  • @ZayDeyknow
    @ZayDeyknow 2 роки тому +32

    11:49 Steph caught that lag spike 🤣

  • @DarkZemX
    @DarkZemX 2 роки тому +10

    Bro this dude StephIsCold is Hilarious when describing things 😂. Speaking straight truth too! 💯

  • @xkidinsanityog634
    @xkidinsanityog634 2 роки тому +3

    That cat analogy is DEEP

  • @redouaneortiz4917
    @redouaneortiz4917 2 роки тому +12

    The 🐈 poop 💩 example had me dying 🤣

  • @thedeanogaming
    @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +124

    **Beta doing everything right for a girl who don't like him by buying flowers, taking her out on dinner dates and being nice**
    Girl:"You're so sweet. I only like you as a friend"
    Beta:"You can't do this to me. I've done everything right for you, I took you out for dinner, I buy you flowers............
    YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I SACRIFICED!!!!!"

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +30

      Damn not Norman osborn 🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂😭

    • @thedeanogaming
      @thedeanogaming 2 роки тому +24

      @@Liqo315 🤣😂🤣 Norman's super villain origins.

    • @righteousmasculine
      @righteousmasculine 2 роки тому +45

      This is how women end up getting killed forreal I don’t respect no beta male but at the same time women need to stop playing games with those type of men

    • @Liqo315
      @Liqo315 2 роки тому +8

      @@thedeanogaming 😂😭🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @Xandontlikeme
      @Xandontlikeme 2 роки тому +12

      why you think stan lee put super heros against themselves 💊

  • @ChicoTooCold
    @ChicoTooCold 2 роки тому +4

    Every time this man posts, I don’t know why, but I wanna go work out. Fuck it, arms for the third time this week.

  • @hazelmash8238
    @hazelmash8238 2 роки тому +10

    Men should just start avoiding such things, if you want s3x from a girl and you're willing to spend money on her, be straightforward with her once and for all. If she refuses then leave even though u want it sooh bad coz at the end of the day, u gonna get played and lose your money for nothing. This is because women will always finesse when given the chance, if you take her out on a date and spend your money and she dont give it up, its not fair on you and you lost but that's coz u allowed it to happen. If you really like a girl go on a date thats 50/50 or the park, if she really likes you she'll agree if she dont ull see... Stop spending money if theres no guarantee u gon get it...

  • @terencewright9972
    @terencewright9972 2 роки тому +2

    Chase money & focus on improving yourself instead of chasing women

  • @BLAC_TV
    @BLAC_TV 2 роки тому +1

    Dating is so frustrating today I’d rather be alone rather than deal with the difficulty

  • @mikeruck2888
    @mikeruck2888 2 роки тому +1

    "You can't be 100% upfront" I don't want to get too far into detail...but this is a MAJOR key.

  • @taravellacane
    @taravellacane 2 роки тому +7

    Hahaha the cat analogy and StephisCold face 😂😂😂

  • @Dazer35
    @Dazer35 2 роки тому +62

    Marriage is obsolete in America 🇺🇸 🚩

    • @manishdas6525
      @manishdas6525 2 роки тому +2

      lol its obsolete in the whole world in the east bich be more manipulative XD

    • @Comeswoopfam
      @Comeswoopfam 2 роки тому +1

      Some Simps are still getting married. Very few tho

    • @iam_champ
      @iam_champ 2 роки тому

      Forget it if you’re in the west

  • @bartjenkins8161
    @bartjenkins8161 2 роки тому +10

    The comments under that post from women were what was most appalling, they have absolutely no shame

  • @itzaelcolin9247
    @itzaelcolin9247 2 роки тому +3

    Steph, you too cold bro. Keep dropping gems. Stay frosty 🥶

  • @rickjay2011
    @rickjay2011 2 роки тому +2

    Steph...I don't know if you read comments fam, but I just want to salute you. I wish I had this knowledge when I was your age. You are wise above your years, and ahead of the game. Stay cold!

    • @suwu916
      @suwu916 2 роки тому

      He does trust me

  • @EVisuals24
    @EVisuals24 2 роки тому +6

    Thumbnail got me dead 💀💀 you a fool for that one

  • @yannickmukendi4364
    @yannickmukendi4364 2 роки тому +4

    Nothing but facts when Steph said women will mess up a fun situation. I’ve had this happen a few times, we having sex and hanging out for months and now she wants to switch it up getting in her feelings.

  • @carolynmcintyre2199
    @carolynmcintyre2199 2 роки тому +3

    It’s the consistency for me!

  • @richardpremium9701
    @richardpremium9701 2 роки тому

    My Mom showed me how good guys finish last, but they do finish!!
    My mom gave her youth to the men who were married or emotionally unavailable
    And when her box was all used up and she was 50yrs old..
    She found a old rich guy from church to pay her bills for a year when she had no job for a year period.

  • @itssdonnie8280
    @itssdonnie8280 2 роки тому +4

    What a nice bday present thanks for this steph

    • @bluud583
      @bluud583 2 роки тому +1

      It's my birthday too fam more life

  • @ThUnfilteredGamer_
    @ThUnfilteredGamer_ 2 роки тому +60

    Just like they play illusions and mind games with you, ya have to do the same bro’s she’s not going to just let you hit if you don’t at-least give the appearance of y’all being in a relationship in the future

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +4

      And that’s facts bro! If men want chicks to go crazy for them they need to play the same type of games. Men shouldn’t waste no time on a chick who’s not giving them guts up 🤷‍♂️ because I guarantee you she will let big Bobby and rayray the don hit with no hesitation.

  • @navy1743
    @navy1743 2 роки тому +4

    The sound track though🔥

  • @im_jjp
    @im_jjp 2 роки тому +12

    he got it wrong. gotta direct it to the men taking these women on second dates. lmao. dudes if she don't want you move on man. keep it moving

  • @quizzyondemand
    @quizzyondemand 2 роки тому

    You a king my bro.. Thats solid af, I see yo video getting better and better.. Music and message! 1Mili subs.. I cant lie.. IM UNLOCKING MY MIND AND LOCKING MY FEELINGS !

  • @tevingibbons517
    @tevingibbons517 2 роки тому +1

    bro u ain't lying

  • @jrvazbakerboy
    @jrvazbakerboy 2 роки тому +8

    Men wouldn’t have this problem if only dealing with women with genuine interest and attraction for them. Dates (especially dinner) are not currency for sex.
    Genuine interest and attraction is the only override for hypergamy and time wasters. What you think “break rules for the alpha” means? It means because she has genuine interest and attraction for him, he ain’t even gotta take her out!

  • @c.l.9344
    @c.l.9344 2 роки тому +7

    Proverbs 31 woman over jezebel.
    The rare gem over the cubic zirconia.

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 2 роки тому +11

    Stop wasting all your time on these chick's and stay on your purpose so you can become colder and successful in life 💯 never give these chick's free attention and validation 💯 if she has low interest In you should cut her off quick and focus on the chick's that has high interest 💯

  • @ams1200
    @ams1200 2 роки тому +1

    Steph thanks for the wake up call!

  • @emmanuelmwangi2514
    @emmanuelmwangi2514 2 роки тому +3

    Fellas Being nice to a woman always ends with you having the short end of the stick.Remain On your PURPOSE ITS THAT SIMPLE FELLAS.👌stay on your grind.

  • @captain8286
    @captain8286 2 роки тому +5

    Facts all day every day

  • @Xandontlikeme
    @Xandontlikeme 2 роки тому +5

    only 8 minutes late n he got straight to it with no intro
    *Cold*

  • @98DEB
    @98DEB 2 роки тому +3

    “We don’t do that over here” lmaooo

  • @richardporter9003
    @richardporter9003 2 роки тому +8

    That thumbnail goes in the hall of fame🤣🤣

  • @drekewright1817
    @drekewright1817 2 роки тому +2

    Marriage and relationship are obselete in America I rather be the manipulator than being manipulated by women Steph u are speaking facts might as well call you pastor Steph 🥶💯

  • @SAMUELLBENTA
    @SAMUELLBENTA 2 роки тому +3

    That background track us banging🔥 what is it?

  • @venchefit
    @venchefit 2 роки тому

    Every video Steph drops he tells the truth. You will understand more when you have experience.

  • @mYGod1993
    @mYGod1993 2 роки тому +9

    we all wanna BUST! 🤣🤣💯

  • @pimpedoutgeese4584
    @pimpedoutgeese4584 2 роки тому +1

    Damn Steph!!! You and I are so damn like minded dawg!!
    Other content creators in the space aren’t quite hitting the truth like this.

  • @lile1912
    @lile1912 2 роки тому +2

    LMFAOOO THE THUMBNAIL 😭😭😂

  • @debow9739
    @debow9739 2 роки тому +13

    I always say , men create the situation so with that being said if you envision a situation and approach a women if you are not walking away with # that means she doesn't find you interesting sexually 🤔so when interactions Don t go your way no matter good or bad you cannot put that women or situation as primary cause you will start to pedestalize the broad!!!!!!

    • @mzzsoldier25yearsago65
      @mzzsoldier25yearsago65 2 роки тому +4

      FACTS 💯 chicks in today’s society don’t deserve to be on a pedestal

  • @fishteaches
    @fishteaches 2 роки тому +6

    The cat metaphor tho ong😭

  • @Barbiewurlde
    @Barbiewurlde 2 роки тому

    Love the background music

  • @twanwill1749
    @twanwill1749 2 роки тому +2

    If a chic is giving you low interest vibes over the phone don’t take her out to eat it’s that simple.

  • @Rickidaone
    @Rickidaone 2 роки тому +2

    Steph looks like a South Park character at the end

  • @mngunicfiso2156
    @mngunicfiso2156 2 роки тому

    MAN THIS NIGGA STEPH IS THE BEST AND BY FAR IN 2021 I PERSONALLY THINK THIS IS THE COLDEST VIDEO HE MADE ON FEMALE NATURE...BEST EVER😁👊👌

  • @fatcheeseburger100
    @fatcheeseburger100 2 роки тому +1

    I fw da new soundtrack bruh lls 😂

  • @thechosen1880
    @thechosen1880 2 роки тому +3

    Another great video💪🏿

  • @sipagain
    @sipagain 2 роки тому +3

    Good shit keep it up preach

  • @minutescouldsaveyoupercentormo
    @minutescouldsaveyoupercentormo 2 роки тому +1

    The thumbnail got me turnt 😂😀

  • @odwangqavu4098
    @odwangqavu4098 2 роки тому +3

    😭😭🤣🤣🤣didn't expect the ending 🤣

  • @player1966
    @player1966 2 роки тому +1

    That cat simile was gold

  • @JDMTuner39
    @JDMTuner39 2 роки тому +2

    “That is GAAAAAYYY” shit had me die and come back twice 🤣🤣

  • @rahflee2301
    @rahflee2301 2 роки тому +1

    11:50 😂 I paused you before you even almost said that

  • @ApWiz-ph7mz
    @ApWiz-ph7mz 2 роки тому

    It ain’t ur pencil it’s how u write ur name , good content homie Brooklyn in da building 💯💯💯💯

  • @poondae407
    @poondae407 2 роки тому

    I’m Dealing with this right now lol . I needed the reminder 💪🏾

  • @celestialsounds8313
    @celestialsounds8313 2 роки тому

    That instrumental is ❄❄❄❄❄❄🌨🌨🌨🌨🌨🌨🌨

  • @williambradley3601
    @williambradley3601 2 роки тому

    @stephiscold been following you this year. I respect you, mjgetright, and ams perspective bout women.

  • @Donbanks45
    @Donbanks45 2 роки тому +2

    Talk your shit steph 💯

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY 2 роки тому +2

    Too much truth. Dang. These videos are the shit 🙌😎😊👍

  • @kp1266
    @kp1266 2 роки тому

    A phrase I use is “You know what it is” meaning 2+2=4. Innate attraction must be there to pursue.

  • @dailyselfimprovementredpil4671
    @dailyselfimprovementredpil4671 2 роки тому +2

    in my opinion for the most part sex is just sex and either it's good or bad she aint got nothing that you have experienced before therefore if I go on a date with a woman I'm not expecting sex I'm just expecting to spend good time with somebody I don't prioritize her sex I want her to prioritize mine and the only way to do that It's to act like her sex is irrelevant because in a way ..... a woman's sex is not that big of a grand prize like most men make it out to be