@@jessikaaustin2638 what i mean is that u can say something like “ight guys im gonna go early my mom is in the hospital gotta visit her” and that one guy will say “simp lol”
0:36 You're courteous or kind to them but only because you expect something in return 1:19 You often defend them online only in hopes they'll notice you 2:03 They don't like you back but you continue to simp 2:31 Constantly trying to impress them 3:08 You're buying them things, doing favours, even though you're not close friends or partners 3:54 You put their needs way above yours, only because you want them to like you back Hope this was helpful
Everyone clowning on simps until they're single mothers, nearing 40, and start sagging and putting on weight lol Then it's like: "WhErE aRe ThE GoOd GuYs (simps/nice guys) at!?"
Simp -> obsession -> sadboi -> depression -> personal growth/learn from mistakes -> maturity -> not a simp anymore This is the process of my simp journey
You can't find Love without first making a friend. And you can't have friends without Respect. And if you can't respect your Crush, you will never have the Love you seek.
I'm simpin' for the animation style. Super adorable. Otherwise, I wouldn't be able to handle even a fraction of the attention that they get, and with all the real simps out there I would have a hard time trusting people unless I've know them for years
I'm a simp for fictional characters, but I know someone irl who is a simp for me even though he said that he "only likes me". All of these apply to this person of interest
Person of interest first time I've heard that by somebody not talking about somebody wanted for committing a crime but there could be more to this story I just don't know and it's none of my business.
IMHO I think one aspect of simping is the feeling of wanting to experience love and romance to it's fullest rather than genuinely having feelings for the other person. It's like being altruistic because we feel good so rather than the cause itself. There's a lot of high quality, good people out there but we don't go 'simping' to everyone. We like to simp and pursue someone particularly because it's fun. The total opposite would be to make no effort and get things served to you which is boring. That's why a lot of people who simp, when they succeed at getting what they want, they're no longer interested. The act of pursuing is the fun. The prize might not be so.
omg this brought back so much memories xD really cute drawing of Pewds , Marzia , Edgar and Maya! well done on informative video too. you are awesome :D
Never really been called a simp, but when "simp" first came around my mates and I called eachother simps for the jokes, although one has a *small* case of monomania on a feminine shark... But I don't think there would be many of the 9 million who would mind "simping" for this saintly voice and this channel. Nice video as always with a 10/10 rating. :D
Thank you to make this clear! People used this word so easily in almost anything that it makes other people mislead and misunderstood to an extent when people showing genuine love for someone, they become a simp according to this simpleton, it's really annoying...
the worst thing about social media and the "simping" is that you can't give a single compliment online to anybody without being called a simp... eg.: "nice dress" "SIIIIIMPPPPPPPP"
Depends on the community for sure, the only time I've been called a simp was entirely joking around, no actual assumptions that I was one. Also, in those cases of being truly called a simp just for giving actual honest compliments, it may just be the actual simp projecting their own behavior onto you.
Man, I made a lot of these mistakes in past relationships but I grew up without a father in my life and my Mom played both roles as the mother & father so I really lacked in the confidence department and that's why its mandatory that I get my life together and come back & rise above all of it.
I religiously follow Psych2go and PewDiePie only...Watching Animation of Maya, Edgar, PewDiePie and Marzia makes me soooo happy...Never thought that Psych2go is a bro...
It took watching this video for me to realize the term Simp has largely replaced the "Nice Guy" label for this behavior and thank goodness it has. I like to think I'm a genuinely nice person but I'd hesitate to say I'm a nice guy when the "Nice Guy" definition's floating around. Giving it a name that doesn't rely on contextual irony and sarcasm feels much clearer.
Sadly some do win over their crush in the end and some end up simpers. We don’t need to do favours for others and being called a simp does not justify people showing ingratitude. Simps are also people with feelings and dignity and do deserve some help and guidance as well so that they can succeed in winning the heart of someone
Yes I agree. About your first sentence, it mostly happens because of social influence and pressure, mostly from friends and sometimes some people who gives not carefully thought crush advices.
@@TheEarlyAstrotype1024 And lets not forget triangulation and negative impression management whereby some unpleasant people with some unpleasant motives triangulate the crush and the poor simp. In short, their black flag operations are just simply them projecting their fears , bias (bigotry even) and insecurities on simp and the crush or a potential relationship
wait, so you’re telling me i’m NOT a simp for showering my boyfriend with gifts and paying for his needs like a sugar mama? i freaking love to show him a lot of attention and give him stuff or help him out with the stuff he needs because it makes me happy to help him and giving him gifts is my way of showing my love.
What you're doing is fine but just let him know you support him and have faith in him... Men take their pride seriously they don't like getting help that's just the way we are.
@@Sina-cg9oo yeah, he usually doesn’t accept the help unless he’s ready to “whore” himself out for cash lol, or if he’s coming over i’ll send him more gas money than needed just to make sure he has enough since he works part time and still goes to school. (when i say whore, i mean do car or manual work for people he knows)
@@Sina-cg9oo Everybody is different. Even men. That's not just the way they are, that's the way society expects them to be, and the way they are constantly pressured to act. Many men do like getting complements, support, faith, etc but not always because they need to have their egos stroked. Society tends to treat men like monsters, so I imagine most of the newer generations of men actually have little pride or sense of self worth. Those compliments aren't always fueling inflated egos and pride, they may instead be rekindling a man's sense of self worth.
My best friend is in full Simp mode. Even though this girl told him twice that she doesn't want a relationship, and she slept with another guy they know mutually (but he has excuses for that). He makes excuses for her all the time, ignores the glaring red flags, invites her to hang with him constantly. How can you want someone so badly, that you're willing to give up your self respect and dignity to try and get them to like you. It's just.. Disgusting.
I will admit that I used to be like this.... As a 15 year old. I'm 20 now and I've definitely grown out of that. If I like someone I'd just tell them and if they're not into me, I'll just move on and not waste my time trying anything. Not that I've "given up on love and life" though. I just see no reason to go out of my way. If the feelings mutual I'm glad. If it isn't, it doesn't bother me the way it used to.
I remember I tried too impressed this boy, I literally gave him gifts and gave him extra lunch😭 he told me thank you but I'm not interested. I was heartbroken but hey I was 5🤷🏽♀️
its has tiers bro if you dont talk to a girl thats below a simp if you casually talking to girls youre a chad and if you are some girls bff while having feelings for her youve reached simp tier (this comment is a joke)
I really thought I was, but I just match the energy of one. I kinda just spread it every direction. Which apparently is not simp behavior. (And I have my limits too.) So this was actually relieving and not depressing.
~ There was a boy who lived across the road from me nearly all my life. This boy simped for me for years.. I'm talking all through late Elementary school to adult years, even though he knew he had no chance with me. I did not return his feelings, yet he still simped to a pathetic level. That thing that he wanted in return was obviously physical intimacy.. Trust me, that wasn't going to happen.. He cried to every one because he couldn't get my affection and would get very jealous of *anyone* I romantically liked.. ~ When I did like someone, he would want to know everything about this person, and try to find ways to get me to hate the object of my affection.. and when I finally got a boyfriend, he tried all sorts of sneaky ways to try and break me and my boyfriend up, while trying to act like he was the "innocent victim".. He would constantly wanna know who I was talking to, who I liked, and he felt that he needed to be up under my a** 24/7.. A Simp can be very annoying to deal with, guys.. 🙄
"Clear they are not into you", thats where the Problem begins.. Not the people who like others are the Problem.. the people who are afraid of conflict not speaking their mind, ghosting you and later in blame you for the fact they ignored you are the Problem.. If someone is denied in getting clear signals how can you impove for your next approach? Ah and nice quote always on these topics.. "be yourself, there ist someone Out for you".. as far as i can tell beeing myself ist the reaseon people dont like me.. very funny!
My brother called me a simp after I gave a female friend a water bottle after she forgot it. Didn't know it was her bottle. She smiled at me when I went up to her with it and I asked her if it was because she likes me or was it just a 'I like you as a friend smile'. Unfortunately it was the latter, but at least I asked her about it before I turned into a simp.
I have seen pro wrestling fans go way overboard with all six of these. When the answer ends up being "no" they get vicious and hostile. Twice, it turned to stalking. Once, one simp got so bad when his crush Sonya Deville didn't reciprocate, he broke into her home and tried to stab her. She is still fighting this simp in court, and worse, so many "cops" actually scolded her for not wanting to date her simp, who was a total stranger and again, tried to stab her and broke into her house! There's another one in the Chicagoland region, he used to be on my Facebook list. He simped super hard for a young wrestler, young enough to be his daughter. He bought her a camera and all kinds of things. When she told him she wanted space, he started slut shaming her. I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I didn't speak up sooner.
I somewhat relate because validation from others is key for me because I see no value in myself. Not whether to laugh or cry. See the funny side or feel attacked and guilty... although I do try to be kind to others in general because it could save a life.
I know a guy like this, there’s this woman he’s had “feelings for”, for years. Supposedly it started back before high school, they were friends and he caught feelings. Well something almost happened between the two of them but they ended up going separate ways. Life went on, they married other people. End of of story right? Nope as luck, fate, whatever you want to call it, had it; they met up again after they both were divorced. Old feelings came up, mostly on his part and he took it as a sign that it was fate. So they started hanging out, not sure about what happened from there because I’m not sure I got the whole story but I’m pretty sure nothing happened. Fast forward a year or two, he got a job where she worked. He constantly talked about her. Liked, commented, and tagged her in everything on Facebook. I asked him from time to time about how it was going and if he’d asked her out yet. He’d say stuff like “Ooooh…no I haven’t yet. Besides I think she’s seeing somebody.” He once told me he thought she was getting back with her ex, I asked him what made him think that and he says “I know it sounds creepy but I’ve been stalking her in Facebook, found out she has another account and she has a pic of the two of them there.” I was like “Ooooh” gradually I began to suspect this was a one sided deal and maybe that was something she wanted him to believe so he’d leave her alone. Fast forward a few months to recently, he invited her to go out with us to see Spider-Man. She was enthusiastic about it at first then she changed her mind and backed out. He eventually quit his job and got a new one, he talked about her less and less. Then one day he asks me “What would do about that situation? Is this obsession?” I eventually told him the truth I said “Yeah I think it is and I think you’ve been friend zoned. If it were me, I’d move on because clearly she doesn’t want to be with you. I know it sucks but sometimes that’s just the way it goes. So if I were you I’d back off and see what happens. See if she noticed your absence, it’s not like she doesn’t know how to get in touch with you. My advice is just to let it go and move on.” He took that pretty well but around Christmas he informed me, “I’m gonna do something stupid. I’m going to go give her, her and son Christmas presents.” I was like ooook. And that was that, I don’t think anything came out of that. He still tags her in stuff and comments here and there, but nearly as much as he used to. Hopefully he has moved on from that but I don’t know for sure. I’m pretty sure he’s depressed and stuff but it’s just something he’s going to have to work through.
Had to double take on whether this was a Psych2Go video or a Pewdiepie video. I watch both channels all the time. Now if this video also featured Sive and Belle Dalphene I’d be twice as impressed. If you know you know.
Unfortunately creators treat their supporters that are kind to them, like they are after them sexually or for attention and behave extremely toxic. My former favorite UA-camr basically did that to me, and I will never go out of my way to be nice to anyone ever again. The most anyone ever gets is civil, no encouragement, no compliments, nothing. It only got me treated like crap.
Same here. I feel like I only have one true friend at my course which is why when they had a party without me and it was all a fat misunderstanding that I felt so hurt and offended. We've been friends since. I still can't trust them like I used to though to be honest.
As much as I fought against my intent being to just doing it, I always had a hope to have it reciprocated/recieved back. Yup have definitely been simping. Especially when I had simped I simply wanted simpathy which is a simptom.
I hate the word "simp". It tends to be used far more broadly than the context of this video, which basically refers to what I'd describe as a white knight, a doormat, and a Nice Guyᵀᴹ. In online discourse, "simp" is basically slapped onto _any_ guy who's nice to a woman, regardless of whether or not his overtures are excessive.
Bro I get called a simp every single day- I don’t even need this video T-T I know this already- (although it’s kinda both for crushing on someone and a simp at the same time)
I tried to be simp with my beautiful crush. My crush wanted my attention. So I gave my attention to her. It took forever for me to play mind games with her. But I ended up sleeping with her every night because we genuinely fell in love each other.
I'm in the same situation too but my crush has a bf and I haven't hung out with her for 2 months now after telling her how I fell about her. I know she likes me too but i guess she ain't tryna cheat/leave the bf.
Psych2go really just calling out people pleasers and naming them simps for a lot of these. It's an actual problem usually caused by mental abuse, differentiate them if you're going to talk about it (though I would've recommend that either)
I simp to no one, I keep myself to myself, I'm not desperate for a girlfriend at all. I'm a man who stands for motivation and ambition and nothing more, p.s. I'm actually shy to ladies.
Simping is wayyy older than the internet. Simp means Someone Ignorant of Mack Principles. Mack is also old slang, basically means the opposite of simp.
This is completely off topic to the video, but recently I found this mobile game called "Amaru: The Self-Care Virtual Pet" I thought it was just a game where the pet cares for its needs while I get to play with it, but it's actually a whole app about self care and honestly, I'm enjoying it. The narrative little practices they have are helpful and they even have a way to customize Amaru with different colors, wings, patterns, etc. And Amaru is so fricken cute!
I didn't simp to anyone. When I have a crush to someone, I usually am interested to what they're doing, following them simply because they shared my interests. Now, I have a crush, but I wouldn't go that far for them. 🙂
Following as in Twitter or some other social media or creepy stalker type follow. Not for one of those choices it would probably be best if you didn't follow them. Your freedom depends on it
Does that friend show any signs of simping? Sometimes people project their behavior onto others. I have a few ex-friends that I eventually figured out were simping on me & they sometimes tried to make things sound like I was the one with a toxic behavior.
I realize now that I was a huge simp for my last crush. Whoops! Good thing I got rejected though. It got me to take a minute to cool off. Glad that happened because it turns out he's incredibly sexist, homophobic, and has an ego the size of the sun! And the weird part is, there were so many red flags that I mistook for personality traits I find attractive. Big yikes!
Agree to disagree.. simps are the most kind and genuine people.. only seeking friendship.. a manipulating person does what you're saying.. buy you things.. say things they don't mean to get what they want..
I only saw the title and my only thought is that this is a late April Fools day video. Haven't watched a second of it yet, it's paused on an ad, but I just know it is.
Ngl I am definitely a simp, everytime I got a crush on someone I do the exact things that are shown in this video and I hate it to be a simp. I don’t want to be a simp, but the problem is i don‘t know how I should stop simping. I mean I can’t just start ignoring them and things like that, right? What should I do
Any pewdiepie fan's out there? Bro fist.
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this is the video for that one friend that uses “simp” wrongly every time
Exactly lol
There is also old meaning of "simpleton".
most of the internet
I guarantee nobody is taking the word simp seriously. 99% its being used ironically. Your friend using it 'wrong' is probably intentional
@@jessikaaustin2638 what i mean is that u can say something like “ight guys im gonna go early my mom is in the hospital gotta visit her”
and that one guy will say “simp lol”
What pissed me off is that people think I'm simping while I'm courteous in general, to all my friends.
Facts
Yep
Just ignore them. Most likely that makes them the "simp" instead.
That are just idiots,you are courteous to everyone of your friends not just one,they are most Likely to be the simps
don't care what others think just be yourself
As a simp I confirm I qualify for all these in regards to fictional characters.
Honestly same 😩
*As a
@@holliepao Join me in my quest for the Fictional characters simps band wagon™
Yet nobody has gotten far into the video...
@@gonhunter3994 thank you for pointing out that typo!
Imagine getting called a simp with this soft and fluffy voice. It is not bad at all.
If you like this fluffy voice, please check out this video: ua-cam.com/video/oYSw73PDih8/v-deo.html
@@Psych2go That was pretty slick.
@@birdsfly7199 what is slick
@@suvlin5916 Slick in this context means seamless, like a good segue or ad transition that flows from A to B well.
Oof
0:36 You're courteous or kind to them but only because you expect something in return
1:19 You often defend them online only in hopes they'll notice you
2:03 They don't like you back but you continue to simp
2:31 Constantly trying to impress them
3:08 You're buying them things, doing favours, even though you're not close friends or partners
3:54 You put their needs way above yours, only because you want them to like you back
Hope this was helpful
Thanks
I have only #6
#6
Awesome im not a simp
@@Kamix98PL Bro, #6 is the least fun.
I just love how your animators could literally summon any fandom regardless of what's the video is about 😂
Exactly!
LMAO IKR
With create power, they also have wholesomeness.
With great power, comes great responsibility.
I'm patiently waiting here for Death Note or Steins;Gate characters in the thumbnail.
I never thought I'd see this channel talk about SIMPING LOL
Ikr??
It is a very prominent problem today, which must be remedied.
Literally 😭
Lmao
Which topics should we do next?
"It's not simping if you marry them."
-Felix Kjellberg
Still can be, but it's more complicated
Everyone clowning on simps until they're single mothers, nearing 40, and start sagging and putting on weight lol
Then it's like: "WhErE aRe ThE GoOd GuYs (simps/nice guys) at!?"
@@jakobrose8278 comments like that is what doesn't make you a genuine "nice guy" 😛
@@victoriavaldivia515
... But I'm not tho lol
PewDiePie 👌
“The difference is in the intention” yess what a great distinction. I don’t think I truly understood this until this video 🙏🏽
What was your interpretation of that statement?
@@Psych2go Maybe they simp for you…
@@kel8658 lmao
I’m not sure if I’m a simp but I have gone through a few sad times but you and your voice has helped ❤️❤️❤️
*I am a SIMP*
*Super Intense Minecraft Player*
@@skirigari I was about to reply with that lol
I hope you’re doing well 💜
I really like tom Felton
No offence but… aren’t you simping with this comment? 😅😂👉🏼👈🏼
As an ex-simp, the best way out I'd say is to make it satirical, fight it with comedy and then look back to how ridiculous you are being lol
Nice tactic
*You do realize that only increases the cringe a thousandfold.*
Lmaooo i did that too
@@TheRisingStorm316 more reason to stop honestly
@@bryce4650 Yeah
Simp -> obsession -> sadboi -> depression -> personal growth/learn from mistakes -> maturity -> not a simp anymore
This is the process of my simp journey
😌🙏🏼
If that special person in your life is responsible for your smile, please be responsible with their heart. Have a blessed & productive day
You can't find Love without first making a friend. And you can't have friends without Respect. And if you can't respect your Crush, you will never have the Love you seek.
So I'm not a simp, but I definitely put my loved ones' happiness and such WAY above myself lol
That's totally ok! Just remember to take care of yourself too 😊
Your own happiness is just as important
same...
Same 🥲
and self respect, before giving away for those who doesn't deserved.
Side note: People can lead you on in the friend zone and exploit your simping.
I've had that happen to me a few times, I must admit. It's not a pleasant experience to find out you've been led on.
Used to be. Then my heart got mercilessly shredded. NEVERMORE.
I'm simpin' for the animation style. Super adorable. Otherwise, I wouldn't be able to handle even a fraction of the attention that they get, and with all the real simps out there I would have a hard time trusting people unless I've know them for years
Thank you :) Would you like to see more of this animation?
@@Psych2go yes I would :)
I'm a simp for fictional characters, but I know someone irl who is a simp for me even though he said that he "only likes me". All of these apply to this person of interest
Person of interest first time I've heard that by somebody not talking about somebody wanted for committing a crime but there could be more to this story I just don't know and it's none of my business.
IMHO I think one aspect of simping is the feeling of wanting to experience love and romance to it's fullest rather than genuinely having feelings for the other person. It's like being altruistic because we feel good so rather than the cause itself.
There's a lot of high quality, good people out there but we don't go 'simping' to everyone. We like to simp and pursue someone particularly because it's fun. The total opposite would be to make no effort and get things served to you which is boring. That's why a lot of people who simp, when they succeed at getting what they want, they're no longer interested. The act of pursuing is the fun. The prize might not be so.
Think positive, because thoughts are like the steering wheel that moves our life in the right direction.
Wow I love this
Well said thx u
omg this brought back so much memories xD really cute drawing of Pewds , Marzia , Edgar and Maya! well done on informative video too. you are awesome :D
Never really been called a simp, but when "simp" first came around my mates and I called eachother simps for the jokes, although one has a *small* case of monomania on a feminine shark...
But I don't think there would be many of the 9 million who would mind "simping" for this saintly voice and this channel.
Nice video as always with a 10/10 rating.
:D
Nice pfp of a rose you have.
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate simp
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate oof sorry didn't mean to offend you I didn't mean it in a mean way
@@justsomegirlwithamoustache it's okay. 😊 No worries. Let's start over: it's nice to meet you and you have a pretty pfp yourself.
Let me guess: Gura? XD
Thank you to make this clear!
People used this word so easily in almost anything that it makes other people mislead and misunderstood to an extent when people showing genuine love for someone, they become a simp according to this simpleton, it's really annoying...
“Have you ever been called a simp?”
All the times.
No worries. We understand. :)
the worst thing about social media and the "simping" is that you can't give a single compliment online to anybody without being called a simp...
eg.:
"nice dress"
"SIIIIIMPPPPPPPP"
Depends on the community for sure, the only time I've been called a simp was entirely joking around, no actual assumptions that I was one. Also, in those cases of being truly called a simp just for giving actual honest compliments, it may just be the actual simp projecting their own behavior onto you.
For sure. Keep being nice, people with common sense will appreciate it lol
Never thought I would see Psych2Go talk about simping lol
I was even surprised to see PewDiePie in there, even Marzia!
Did you guys notice Maya and Edgar?
@@Psych2go sure did!
@@Psych2go Definitely!
Man, I made a lot of these mistakes in past relationships but I grew up without a father in my life and my Mom played both roles as the mother & father so I really lacked in the confidence department and that's why its mandatory that I get my life together and come back & rise above all of it.
I think we should have stop using words SIMP because it just sounds like toxic words for some people, and many people use it for wrong purpose.
I religiously follow Psych2go and PewDiePie only...Watching Animation of Maya, Edgar, PewDiePie and Marzia makes me soooo happy...Never thought that Psych2go is a bro...
Glad you like it :) Is this your favorite video so far?
@@Psych2go Tbh, the topic wasn't that helpful to me but the animation, yes:))..The whole video was cute and well made!
It took watching this video for me to realize the term Simp has largely replaced the "Nice Guy" label for this behavior and thank goodness it has. I like to think I'm a genuinely nice person but I'd hesitate to say I'm a nice guy when the "Nice Guy" definition's floating around. Giving it a name that doesn't rely on contextual irony and sarcasm feels much clearer.
Sadly some do win over their crush in the end and some end up simpers. We don’t need to do favours for others and being called a simp does not justify people showing ingratitude. Simps are also people with feelings and dignity and do deserve some help and guidance as well so that they can succeed in winning the heart of someone
Yes I agree. About your first sentence, it mostly happens because of social influence and pressure, mostly from friends and sometimes some people who gives not carefully thought crush advices.
@@TheEarlyAstrotype1024 And lets not forget triangulation and negative impression management whereby some unpleasant people with some unpleasant motives triangulate the crush and the poor simp. In short, their black flag operations are just simply them projecting their fears , bias (bigotry even) and insecurities on simp and the crush or a potential relationship
This is a great topic that needs to be talked about more, nice video
So, I found out I'm not a simp for anyone, not even fictional characters. What a relief! And how useful this vid was. Thx so much psych2go 😄💛
... And here I thought SIMP meant Squirrels In My Pants.
... Yes, that was a Phineas and Ferb reference. Yes, I am proud of it.
I mean the song does fit with the characters who the song is about .
You should be
I like that meaning for simp way better lol
As you should
I thought exactlly the same brotha
wait, so you’re telling me i’m NOT a simp for showering my boyfriend with gifts and paying for his needs like a sugar mama? i freaking love to show him a lot of attention and give him stuff or help him out with the stuff he needs because it makes me happy to help him and giving him gifts is my way of showing my love.
I see you're doing these things for his own good. I consider it a good intention. People better not call you a simp for helping.
What you're doing is fine but just let him know you support him and have faith in him... Men take their pride seriously they don't like getting help that's just the way we are.
@@Sina-cg9oo yeah, he usually doesn’t accept the help unless he’s ready to “whore” himself out for cash lol, or if he’s coming over i’ll send him more gas money than needed just to make sure he has enough since he works part time and still goes to school. (when i say whore, i mean do car or manual work for people he knows)
@@Sina-cg9oo Everybody is different. Even men. That's not just the way they are, that's the way society expects them to be, and the way they are constantly pressured to act.
Many men do like getting complements, support, faith, etc but not always because they need to have their egos stroked. Society tends to treat men like monsters, so I imagine most of the newer generations of men actually have little pride or sense of self worth. Those compliments aren't always fueling inflated egos and pride, they may instead be rekindling a man's sense of self worth.
My best friend is in full Simp mode. Even though this girl told him twice that she doesn't want a relationship, and she slept with another guy they know mutually (but he has excuses for that).
He makes excuses for her all the time, ignores the glaring red flags, invites her to hang with him constantly.
How can you want someone so badly, that you're willing to give up your self respect and dignity to try and get them to like you. It's just.. Disgusting.
Me during the video: "That character looks like Pewdiepie." After reading the comment below the video: "Yep! Saw that coming." Love your videos~!!!
Haha! Did you like this video? :P
@@Psych2go It's very unique that I learned something new. Thank you for making it for us~!!😍😍😍 I'm more of your big fan~!
I will admit that I used to be like this.... As a 15 year old. I'm 20 now and I've definitely grown out of that. If I like someone I'd just tell them and if they're not into me, I'll just move on and not waste my time trying anything. Not that I've "given up on love and life" though. I just see no reason to go out of my way. If the feelings mutual I'm glad. If it isn't, it doesn't bother me the way it used to.
Psych2Go: Are you a simp?
Me: *Furiously takes down the hundreds of posters of fictional characters off my wall*
I always viewed a simp as someone who sacrifices their self worth and dignity for another person who doesn’t reciprocate.
I remember I tried too impressed this boy, I literally gave him gifts and gave him extra lunch😭 he told me thank you but I'm not interested. I was heartbroken but hey I was 5🤷🏽♀️
I'll bet you that now that time has passed and if he gets hungry, he'll feel bad for turning you down back then. 😊
Or he probably just eats :/
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate or he just askes his parents to make him food, its kinda toxic how people force relationships onto everyone
no offense
@@hasargel none taken. I was kidding about the eating extra lunch, but just didn't want her to feel sad at the same time.
@@hasargel right!
Pewdiepie MUST react to this vid
Let’s make it happen!!!!
I never thought I would see the word simp on this channel.
Edit:does this count to fictional characters too because then yes I am a simp
🤦♀️ ✅ ..."and talk to someone about your SIMPtoms, before they worsen".
I don't even talk to girls so how am I going to be a simp
its has tiers bro
if you dont talk to a girl thats below a simp
if you casually talking to girls youre a chad
and if you are some girls bff while having feelings for her youve reached simp tier
(this comment is a joke)
I really thought I was, but I just match the energy of one. I kinda just spread it every direction. Which apparently is not simp behavior. (And I have my limits too.) So this was actually relieving and not depressing.
Me before watching this video: *yes, yes I am*
Me after this video: *I still am*
~ There was a boy who lived across the road from me nearly all my life. This boy simped for me for years.. I'm talking all through late Elementary school to adult years, even though he knew he had no chance with me. I did not return his feelings, yet he still simped to a pathetic level. That thing that he wanted in return was obviously physical intimacy.. Trust me, that wasn't going to happen.. He cried to every one because he couldn't get my affection and would get very jealous of *anyone* I romantically liked..
~ When I did like someone, he would want to know everything about this person, and try to find ways to get me to hate the object of my affection.. and when I finally got a boyfriend, he tried all sorts of sneaky ways to try and break me and my boyfriend up, while trying to act like he was the "innocent victim".. He would constantly wanna know who I was talking to, who I liked, and he felt that he needed to be up under my a** 24/7.. A Simp can be very annoying to deal with, guys.. 🙄
PewDiePie and Martzia really got me...😂😂
My god. Never thought Pysch2Go would be so direct and bold. I like it.
I nearly died laughing when i just saw the title and pewdiepie, BROFIST😂😂❤️👍 but really good video actually explaining it right 😊👍 #pewdiepie
Haha! Glad you liked the reference! :D - Cindy
"Clear they are not into you", thats where the Problem begins.. Not the people who like others are the Problem.. the people who are afraid of conflict not speaking their mind, ghosting you and later in blame you for the fact they ignored you are the Problem..
If someone is denied in getting clear signals how can you impove for your next approach?
Ah and nice quote always on these topics.. "be yourself, there ist someone Out for you".. as far as i can tell beeing myself ist the reaseon people dont like me.. very funny!
The most unexpected notification I've seen.
I needed this definition because i had no idea what a Simp was... Now I know that I have never done that.
*intense flashbacks of Candace singing*-
tHeRe aRe - *SqUiRreLs iN mY pAnTs!*
Featuring 2 guys in the park
My brother called me a simp after I gave a female friend a water bottle after she forgot it. Didn't know it was her bottle. She smiled at me when I went up to her with it and I asked her if it was because she likes me or was it just a 'I like you as a friend smile'. Unfortunately it was the latter, but at least I asked her about it before I turned into a simp.
A simp also stands for
S-Super
I-Idol
M-Mature
P-Person
I have seen pro wrestling fans go way overboard with all six of these. When the answer ends up being "no" they get vicious and hostile. Twice, it turned to stalking. Once, one simp got so bad when his crush Sonya Deville didn't reciprocate, he broke into her home and tried to stab her. She is still fighting this simp in court, and worse, so many "cops" actually scolded her for not wanting to date her simp, who was a total stranger and again, tried to stab her and broke into her house! There's another one in the Chicagoland region, he used to be on my Facebook list. He simped super hard for a young wrestler, young enough to be his daughter. He bought her a camera and all kinds of things. When she told him she wanted space, he started slut shaming her. I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I didn't speak up sooner.
I fuckin died when I got the notification
I somewhat relate because validation from others is key for me because I see no value in myself. Not whether to laugh or cry. See the funny side or feel attacked and guilty... although I do try to be kind to others in general because it could save a life.
To tell you the truth the word simp has lost meaning with how much it’s thrown around. Can’t even give a compliment without being called a simp.
I know a guy like this, there’s this woman he’s had “feelings for”, for years. Supposedly it started back before high school, they were friends and he caught feelings. Well something almost happened between the two of them but they ended up going separate ways. Life went on, they married other people. End of of story right? Nope as luck, fate, whatever you want to call it, had it; they met up again after they both were divorced. Old feelings came up, mostly on his part and he took it as a sign that it was fate. So they started hanging out, not sure about what happened from there because I’m not sure I got the whole story but I’m pretty sure nothing happened. Fast forward a year or two, he got a job where she worked. He constantly talked about her. Liked, commented, and tagged her in everything on Facebook. I asked him from time to time about how it was going and if he’d asked her out yet. He’d say stuff like “Ooooh…no I haven’t yet. Besides I think she’s seeing somebody.” He once told me he thought she was getting back with her ex, I asked him what made him think that and he says “I know it sounds creepy but I’ve been stalking her in Facebook, found out she has another account and she has a pic of the two of them there.” I was like “Ooooh” gradually I began to suspect this was a one sided deal and maybe that was something she wanted him to believe so he’d leave her alone. Fast forward a few months to recently, he invited her to go out with us to see Spider-Man. She was enthusiastic about it at first then she changed her mind and backed out. He eventually quit his job and got a new one, he talked about her less and less. Then one day he asks me “What would do about that situation? Is this obsession?” I eventually told him the truth I said “Yeah I think it is and I think you’ve been friend zoned. If it were me, I’d move on because clearly she doesn’t want to be with you. I know it sucks but sometimes that’s just the way it goes. So if I were you I’d back off and see what happens. See if she noticed your absence, it’s not like she doesn’t know how to get in touch with you. My advice is just to let it go and move on.” He took that pretty well but around Christmas he informed me, “I’m gonna do something stupid. I’m going to go give her, her and son Christmas presents.” I was like ooook.
And that was that, I don’t think anything came out of that. He still tags her in stuff and comments here and there, but nearly as much as he used to. Hopefully he has moved on from that but I don’t know for sure. I’m pretty sure he’s depressed and stuff but it’s just something he’s going to have to work through.
F to pay respect
Had to double take on whether this was a Psych2Go video or a Pewdiepie video. I watch both channels all the time.
Now if this video also featured Sive and Belle Dalphene I’d be twice as impressed. If you know you know.
This was me in my teens over a couple of lads in school. I was so pathetic. I now know my worth and no one is worth pining over
A bro fist for every PewDiePie fan out there
👊🏻
@@Psych2go 👊
Unfortunately creators treat their supporters that are kind to them, like they are after them sexually or for attention and behave extremely toxic. My former favorite UA-camr basically did that to me, and I will never go out of my way to be nice to anyone ever again. The most anyone ever gets is civil, no encouragement, no compliments, nothing. It only got me treated like crap.
When you think you're pimpin' but in fact you're only simpin'.
*Sad simp noises*
Simp? Codependent? People pleaser? Narcissist? Aren't we all seeking external validation (love, status, money, power, etc.)?
Don’t need to watch the video, short answer: Yes, I am a simp, minus the seeking attention bit of it, I’m like- 90% of what a simp is-
So it seems that it comes down to changing the way you think in some cases to create an overall change in behavior. Mental discipline.
I'm not a SIMP, I just look at friendship deeper and differently than the "average" person. Hence, why I'm not quick to call anyone my friend.
Same here. I feel like I only have one true friend at my course which is why when they had a party without me and it was all a fat misunderstanding that I felt so hurt and offended.
We've been friends since. I still can't trust them like I used to though to be honest.
As much as I fought against my intent being to just doing it, I always had a hope to have it reciprocated/recieved back. Yup have definitely been simping. Especially when I had simped I simply wanted simpathy which is a simptom.
I'm a lonely man but thank God I don't have even the remotest kinship with simps.
I hate the word "simp". It tends to be used far more broadly than the context of this video, which basically refers to what I'd describe as a white knight, a doormat, and a Nice Guyᵀᴹ. In online discourse, "simp" is basically slapped onto _any_ guy who's nice to a woman, regardless of whether or not his overtures are excessive.
I agree and it's annoying, judgemental, guilt and shame inducing, and discouraging.
Apart from saving him the embarrassment, should i point out to my friend that he is a simp, like are there any psychological effects for simping?
Bro I get called a simp every single day- I don’t even need this video T-T I know this already- (although it’s kinda both for crushing on someone and a simp at the same time)
I tried to be simp with my beautiful crush. My crush wanted my attention. So I gave my attention to her. It took forever for me to play mind games with her. But I ended up sleeping with her every night because we genuinely fell in love each other.
That’s a happy ending! Success Simp!
@@Psych2go thank you.
This is a very useful piece of admirable information that I may someday put forward to be of usage.
@@MemeDealer-ls6pf good luck and I know you will succeed. All I did was trust my intuition. My intuition was telling me that she liked me too.
I'm in the same situation too but my crush has a bf and I haven't hung out with her for 2 months now after telling her how I fell about her. I know she likes me too but i guess she ain't tryna cheat/leave the bf.
Psych2go really just calling out people pleasers and naming them simps for a lot of these. It's an actual problem usually caused by mental abuse, differentiate them if you're going to talk about it (though I would've recommend that either)
Cope
In my youth, I had been a simp. I admit this and understand this, but I’ve grown out of that phase of my life and I’m a better now because of it.
Congrats, bro
I simp to no one, I keep myself to myself, I'm not desperate for a girlfriend at all. I'm a man who stands for motivation and ambition and nothing more, p.s. I'm actually shy to ladies.
Now i realise i use to do this to a girl back in school and didn't know it was simping.
Most guys do that when we're young, don't feel too bad!
Simping is wayyy older than the internet. Simp means Someone Ignorant of Mack Principles. Mack is also old slang, basically means the opposite of simp.
This video is extraordinarily cuteeee!!!
Which was your favourite part?
@@Psych2go everything about it 😭😭. The narration particularly ❤
Keep y’all’s heads up peeps. Only person you got to simp for is yourself. Look in the mirror and give that reflection a huge mhua
Okay yeah, guess I'm not doing simp behaviors, like my friends said. Thank gooood ( ~ o ~) Thanks for the video!
This is completely off topic to the video, but recently I found this mobile game called "Amaru: The Self-Care Virtual Pet"
I thought it was just a game where the pet cares for its needs while I get to play with it, but it's actually a whole app about self care and honestly, I'm enjoying it. The narrative little practices they have are helpful and they even have a way to customize Amaru with different colors, wings, patterns, etc. And Amaru is so fricken cute!
this is such a random video but im not complaining
I didn't simp to anyone. When I have a crush to someone, I usually am interested to what they're doing, following them simply because they shared my interests. Now, I have a crush, but I wouldn't go that far for them. 🙂
Following as in Twitter or some other social media or creepy stalker type follow. Not for one of those choices it would probably be best if you didn't follow them. Your freedom depends on it
3:36
My favourite bit of this vid
See what they did there? 😂
I love how UA-cam reccomend this to me
I've been called a simp by my friend, even though I don't really have any signs shown here thankfully lol
Same
Does that friend show any signs of simping? Sometimes people project their behavior onto others. I have a few ex-friends that I eventually figured out were simping on me & they sometimes tried to make things sound like I was the one with a toxic behavior.
I hate when some idiots calls some people simp when they just treat people well and respectful its difference between being simp and good person
I realize now that I was a huge simp for my last crush. Whoops!
Good thing I got rejected though. It got me to take a minute to cool off.
Glad that happened because it turns out he's incredibly sexist, homophobic, and has an ego the size of the sun!
And the weird part is, there were so many red flags that I mistook for personality traits I find attractive. Big yikes!
Noice, u dodged a bullet
@@daisymayz8496 I did
Agree to disagree.. simps are the most kind and genuine people.. only seeking friendship.. a manipulating person does what you're saying.. buy you things.. say things they don't mean to get what they want..
Psych2Go encountering all these internet Simps after revealing themselves 🤣😂 You guys have a team full of Hot babes and I’ll simp for y’all easily.
I only saw the title and my only thought is that this is a late April Fools day video. Haven't watched a second of it yet, it's paused on an ad, but I just know it is.
👍
Guess my friends have been lying to me
I'm not a simp.
Ngl I am definitely a simp, everytime I got a crush on someone I do the exact things that are shown in this video and I hate it to be a simp. I don’t want to be a simp, but the problem is i don‘t know how I should stop simping. I mean I can’t just start ignoring them and things like that, right? What should I do