Four Pieces Of Advice To Ignore To Level Up In Friendship

Standard advice can hold us back from reaching our potential and attaining our desires. We have to examine advice and understand what that advice assumes about where we're coming from, and you'll find that a lot of it is not meant for you. Here are four pieces of advice you can ignore if making great friends hasn't come easily to you, because all these pieces of advice assume friendship comes easily to you.
Advice to ignore:
1. Don't social climb 0:20
2. Be authentic 2:06
3. Make the best decisions for your financial future (as if we don't need a balance of both friendship and financial wellbeing!) 3:11
4. Always do altruism out of caring for others, and never to improve your position socially 6:09
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[@AlexPolsag]

I've been thinking like this for a while, and it's kind of depressing and demotivating. At this point making friends sounds like just another chore on my shoulders and I'm very tired

[@Sahalielove]

Best of luck to you. Definitely prioritize rest if you need to, then make some friends when you have the energy to. I’ll be talking about how having friends is important for health in some future videos.