I miss you mom. We all miss you…

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  • Опубліковано 7 тра 2021
  • My mom passed when I was 22. I wasn't ready. I think about her every day. The healing process is ongoing and I'm grateful to the many people who have supported it. And part of my healing has been to recognize the way I have grown into the man she knew I could be.
    If your mom died before you were ready, I hope this supports your healing. If you are grieving for the death of any loved one, I hope this supports your healing.
    Much love. You are not alone in your grief.
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  • @psychologyis
    @psychologyis  3 роки тому +199

    If you're grieving for your mom today, I hope this video supports your healing process and reminds you that you are not alone in your grief.

    • @xinglan500
      @xinglan500 Рік тому +5

      Thank you so much for the video. It helps a lot.

    • @myrnamason1634
      @myrnamason1634 Рік тому +3

      Thank you for this. My mom just passed a month ago. I’ll always miss her.

    • @andrewbriggs5248
      @andrewbriggs5248 Рік тому +4

      I miss you so much mom

    • @richardratt4791
      @richardratt4791 Рік тому +2

      Thank you, for this.

    • @uilikoasino9529
      @uilikoasino9529 Рік тому +2

      💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @vuyelwamichellekona4383
    @vuyelwamichellekona4383 11 місяців тому +68

    5 years later I'm still grieving. Turns out it doesn't get better with time

    • @pumpkinqueen21
      @pumpkinqueen21 8 місяців тому +15

      Hugs 💜
      I truly believe my mother ripped out part of my soul & happiness to take with her. This pain is torture 💔

    • @vuyelwamichellekona4383
      @vuyelwamichellekona4383 8 місяців тому +9

      @pumpkinqueen21 I can relate, however I have decided that the best way to honor her is to be the best version of myself and to spend the rest of my days making her proud 💓her legacy lives on

    • @PyroSpartan1337
      @PyroSpartan1337 8 місяців тому +6

      She died in March, 5 months into her passing. My wife and I had a child 2 months ago and she looks exactly like her. My daughter and I are only 3 days apart from our birthdays. She'll always know about her grandmother.

    • @PyroSpartan1337
      @PyroSpartan1337 8 місяців тому +6

      ​@@pumpkinqueen21We're all here for each other. I feel exactly the same way, part of me left when she left.

    • @PyroSpartan1337
      @PyroSpartan1337 8 місяців тому +4

      ​@@vuyelwamichellekona4383Her legacy lives on in you, as well as our mothers to us. ❤

  • @klloh5012
    @klloh5012 8 місяців тому +19

    Worst pain of my life. My mother is the pillar of my whole life. I am so not prepared to say goodbye to her…

  • @yael3982
    @yael3982 6 місяців тому +30

    This video made me cry before I even got out of bed.
    I lost my mom on 18.05.23.
    Leaving me alone in this world at 18 years old.
    I love you so much mom

    • @qeytmyok2473
      @qeytmyok2473 6 місяців тому +6

      Sending you light and healing i lost mine last year😢

    • @leahartlee29
      @leahartlee29 3 місяці тому +4

      Oh sweetie I'm so sorry! When I lost my mom 3 years ago, I found a few things that helped in my grief. Jo McRogers is a grief therapist, and her free videos here on youtube helped a LOT. I read the book Motherless Daughters the legacy of loss by Hope Edleman, but it was more for younger women who lost their mom young like you. I kept a grief diary, writing my feelings and what I miss, what she was like, etc. and I watch videos by Matt Fraser Psychic Medium. I hope these things help you and anyone reading this. Peace and love to you.

    • @katherinekowaliw8597
      @katherinekowaliw8597 3 місяці тому +4

      I lost my mom the same day. Sending you love, you are not alone in this pain.

    • @donovanwatson6812
      @donovanwatson6812 22 дні тому +2

      I lost my mom a few months after my 17th birthday

    • @user-cs5hb2jt4w
      @user-cs5hb2jt4w 21 день тому

      Sweetie I will pray for you, . I just took for granted that my Mama would always be there especially because she always had an answer to everything. My Mama died grieving my two brothers, now I grieve them all. And I was BLESSED, with two ladies my Granny and my Mamaw.

  • @joannamariebalisi263
    @joannamariebalisi263 Рік тому +25

    I love you ma. Everyday I feel lonely without you. Home makes no snese without you.

  • @vanessacastanon6922
    @vanessacastanon6922 Рік тому +51

    I lost my mom on 04/01/23. Nothing feels the same without her. I don’t feel complete I talked to my mom everyday . It’s hard knowing she will never pick up the other line.

    • @pumpkinqueen21
      @pumpkinqueen21 8 місяців тому +7

      Hugs, hugs, & more hugs 💜
      I just lost my Mother & she was also my bestfriend on 8/12/23- it honestly feels like she took part of my soul with her & I’m lost without her 💔
      I am so sorry & I hope our mothers are both watching down on us 😇🥰😇

    • @sherrylechaton6924
      @sherrylechaton6924 8 місяців тому +3

      I lost my mom 1/14/22. I miss her so much…😢

    • @pumpkinqueen21
      @pumpkinqueen21 8 місяців тому +2

      @@sherrylechaton6924 hugs 💜

    • @DarthCyren
      @DarthCyren 8 місяців тому +5

      For all of you in that club, I am sorry. I only had my Mom for 34 years - I wish I'd had her for much, much more.

    • @PyroSpartan1337
      @PyroSpartan1337 8 місяців тому +3

      I lost mine on 3/28/23. We used to smoke together since I was 15. I'm 27 now. I miss her everyday and just wish I could come home from work and roll her one. I miss her so much. She was the one I would tell everything to. The things I'd give up just to do that one more time.

  • @andthenaherocomesalong
    @andthenaherocomesalong 8 місяців тому +22

    i lost my mom on 09/24/23, and i am still devastated and absolutely terrified that i have to live without her. ❤

    • @JamesWilliams-ok3il
      @JamesWilliams-ok3il 7 місяців тому +1

      How are you doing today I hope you have a great and beautiful day today and my name is James more and how is the weather over there

    • @GregStClair-ry5rn
      @GregStClair-ry5rn 6 місяців тому +2

      8/12/23 for me. It's still tuff!

  • @enerjeffic
    @enerjeffic 7 місяців тому +24

    I can't believe I wanted to watch this so bad. I lost my mom when I was 11 over 50 years ago. The results, including my dad's resulting alcoholism, completely destroyed my life. If she'd have been there everything would be different. She was the only person that has ever truly stood up for me. I love you Mom!

  • @mm5478
    @mm5478 7 місяців тому +15

    I lost my mom during my first deployment. It's been nearly 20 years but I grieve her still. ASNF - a son never forgets.

    • @princessmarry2343
      @princessmarry2343 2 місяці тому +1

      Also a daughter 😣🥺

    • @mm5478
      @mm5478 2 місяці тому

      @@princessmarry2343 You are 100% correct. Apologies for the glaring oversight. ADNF.

  • @mysmileforyou
    @mysmileforyou 8 місяців тому +33

    I have lost my mom this week because of suicide. So many signs yet we never noticed until now. The amount of hate i feels towards myself is... Not sure why im writing this but no place to go

    • @neonbluewolf3338
      @neonbluewolf3338 4 місяці тому +2

      Me too…

    • @mysmileforyou
      @mysmileforyou 4 місяці тому +2

      @@neonbluewolf3338 im sorry to hear that

    • @Marie-zn7ij
      @Marie-zn7ij 4 місяці тому +2

      Me too sending love y’all’s way

    • @joelm4847
      @joelm4847 4 місяці тому +1

      @@mysmileforyouwhat are the signs

    • @lilidlamouche
      @lilidlamouche 4 місяці тому +6

      Poor thing... I really hope you're okay. I hope you're better... I wish i could hug you

  • @faitht3643
    @faitht3643 7 місяців тому +10

    The greater the love, the deeper the grief. They say time heals all wounds but that's not true. With time, you just develop a way to cope with the grief better. They say grief is just love with no place to go.

  • @sensualsloth
    @sensualsloth 8 місяців тому +12

    It's only been 7 days but each day i awaken to the knowledge that she is no longer with me and it feels like I've lost her all over again. I miss you so much my beautiful mommy 💔🥺😭

  • @Tyramakena
    @Tyramakena 11 місяців тому +24

    I thought of my mum today, and could not stop tears of love from flowing. It hurts so much

  • @MrsZzz
    @MrsZzz 8 місяців тому +9

    I broke down this morning after being strong for so long. This Friday will be 2 years since my mama passed away from damn covid. She died right in the middle of my pregnancy with my baby girl. I forced myself to put on a strength that I didn't know I had for my unborn as well as my older children who'd just lost their grandma a vs my dad who lost the love of his life. Then, 8 months to the day after my mom passed, my husband's mom passed away as well making me even harder on myself to be strong for everyone. Today I am heavily pregnant with my last child. There's a whole lot of hard stuff going on in my life and I am feeling so overwhelmed. My mama was my best friend in the world. I miss her every single day. This video was right on point and sure opened the flood gates. I let out a much needed cry. My broken heart goes out to everyone who has lost their dear mom. God bless, comfort and guide every one💕

  • @marksquires8457
    @marksquires8457 11 місяців тому +21

    My Mom passed away suddenly Feb7/23. I miss her so much, not a minute goes by without thinking about her, we were very close and she was my best friend. I found this video and watched it so many times. It’s exactly right. Thank you for the video and I’m sorry for your loss.

    • @710MaryJane
      @710MaryJane 10 місяців тому +1

      ❤ Sorry😢 for your loss Mark. She’s your Guardian Angel. 😊

    • @marksquires8457
      @marksquires8457 10 місяців тому +1

      @@710MaryJane thanks for the nice words, I appreciate it

  • @richardhudak4571
    @richardhudak4571 6 місяців тому +7

    I lost my mom over 20 years ago and I still MISS HER N CRY
    ( MOM I MISS YOU )

  • @tootallzz
    @tootallzz 6 місяців тому +9

    20+ yrs gone thanks to ALS and I still cry like your little boy Mom. Life is so cold and painful without you💔

  • @maryscheitler2488
    @maryscheitler2488 2 місяці тому +3

    I've never read or heard anything more accurate in describing how I've been grieving for my mom since I was 14 years old. My kids...my kids deserve their grandma. I have needed her so much and now I'm almost 42. But I still need her.

  • @christopherford3175
    @christopherford3175 Рік тому +10

    I lost my mother December 2021 she was my best friend, everyday is hard without her but today has been the hardest since shes passed and i dont understand why.

    • @carolmusselman8859
      @carolmusselman8859 Рік тому +4

      I'm grieving the death of my Mom on 5/1/22, and I was struggling with depression before she died, so I'm just trying to get through the long days

  • @heavenrose1111
    @heavenrose1111 Рік тому +18

    I lost both my parents during the pandemic. It feels like I can’t relate to anyone these days. I realized that I didn’t have the relationships and support I needed. I’m trying to build new ones. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏽

    • @Tyramakena
      @Tyramakena 8 місяців тому +1

      Hugs

    • @Ruijie-gg4yn
      @Ruijie-gg4yn 7 місяців тому +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss, 😢but you have to stay strong 💪

    • @leahartlee29
      @leahartlee29 3 місяці тому +1

      I lost dad just before the pandemic in early 2020, and mom started having health problems as a result she couldn't sleep at all, and she got a uti and went into sepsis, was saved and was in the Hospital but somehow died 4 months later at the Recovery place. She seemed to be getting better so it was a shock. She knew she was going to die that day as she didn't want me to visit, when she lived for my visits as I visited every day. She said honey you don't have to come today and when I asked why she said : "honey you need a break," and I said but mom I want to see you and she said "no honey, not today, just call me. " I talked to her on the phone that morning, and she said she loved me and I told her I loved her but we always said it. She died that afternoon. I called again, because I knew I wasn't going to see her, and that was when they found her. The day before when I saw her I was telling her how I wanted to get there sooner, but her sister called and kept on yacking and wouldn't let me off of the phone.... she interrupted me and said urgently: "Listen, honey, we don't have much time!" which she had never done before and I thought it odd. She KNEW!

  • @austinmwarangu3639
    @austinmwarangu3639 11 місяців тому +5

    I lost her 7yrs ago such a beautiful soul. It broke me down that I started taking drugs to cumb the pain n I regret every moment of it am addicted to this day. I hope she was here see me record my 1st song n now it's about her. I have a family that loves and cares for me but still miss her every passing day. May she rest in eternal peace inshallah 😭💗

  • @cynthiakotyluk9957
    @cynthiakotyluk9957 3 місяці тому +4

    It will be 9 years without mom. Still miss her every single day. I love you, mom

  • @erickhernandez9954
    @erickhernandez9954 Рік тому +21

    My mom passed on December 16 2021 due to Cancer . I’m 25 and I swear not a day goes by that I don’t think I’m coming home to see her smile sitting at the table waiting to tell me “Ya Llegaste Mijo” (you already home) but I love you mom and this video is beautiful!

  • @gemmargaretisidoro6166
    @gemmargaretisidoro6166 8 місяців тому +6

    I miss her. I lost her because of vehicular accident and the man behind it is free out there while we grief and figuring out how can we live again. It will never be the same anymore. I can't wait to go after her...

  • @riskhemlangkharbithai
    @riskhemlangkharbithai Рік тому +13

    I miss my mom so bad 😭

  • @tawnyahall1548
    @tawnyahall1548 6 місяців тому +5

    I just lost my mom sept 30th 2023 and I got back home a day too late she passed a day before I was able to make it home I feel so broken a piece of me is gone forever you were ny best friend my everything you showed me what true love really means you showed me what it is supposed to feel like to be protected by someone because you protected me always ❤I wish I could have protected you the same 😢I love and miss you forever mommy and keep dancing in the sky like you always danced here with us keep playing your music until we meet again mom I love you so much

  • @chantelmccullough5264
    @chantelmccullough5264 Рік тому +7

    I love you so much Mom ❤ I love you forever....

  • @They_luv_Her713
    @They_luv_Her713 Рік тому +16

    My mom passed away in 2016, when I was only 6 and she was only 25. At the moment I was to young to realize I would never see my mom again, and now I think about the things she has missed and will miss, like how she did get to see me graduate kindergarten and won’t get to see me graduate high school. But I miss you mom and I will always love you.

  • @jamesking4089
    @jamesking4089 10 місяців тому +12

    I lost my Mom December 17th 2022. She was the rock of our family. I'm sad every day. I miss her so much. I don't think I will ever get over my grief.

  • @user-bn7ds4ep5s
    @user-bn7ds4ep5s 10 місяців тому +9

    I lost my mama in 2016 it’s still hard on me I turned 20 today and all I can say is mama I made it and the person that made this video thank u it helped me a lot Iv listened to this 56 times already thank u

  • @troybressi7043
    @troybressi7043 Рік тому +13

    I lost my mother when I was 10 yrs old and this video express the emotions I feel everyday thank you for posting this video.

  • @1nfinitune533
    @1nfinitune533 11 місяців тому +6

    I still have memories of the very moment my mom passed. I remember seeing her lifeless body in bed, eyes still wide open. Knowing i was never gonna see her again. That i would never feel her hugs again. I would never be able to kiss her again. Wish her goodnight. It's been 4 years now. And i still miss her as much now as i miss her the day of her funeral.
    I love you mom. Rest easy. I'll see you again one day.
    11th December 1959- 24th April 2019

  • @sweetness345
    @sweetness345 7 місяців тому +4

    I miss my mum ❤! I say these every time 😢

  • @laureenrobinson3233
    @laureenrobinson3233 Рік тому +13

    Today is my mom’s birthday. I miss her terribly. She was my everything. We were practically the same person. We could read each others mind. When she was passing and starting the morphine (she had multiple myeloma so had many broken bones) she asked that I stay by her side and never leave her. She said I was the only one who will sense her needs when she couldn’t speak so I did. I would’ve done that anyway. When she took her last breath, a part of me left with her. I love you mama. Happy birthday ❤️‍🩹🎂 God bless you! We’ll see each other again

  • @markpilon744
    @markpilon744 6 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for this beautiful video. I lost my mom/best friend on January 4th 2023. I still cry every day, as I'm typing this the tears are flowing down my face. I miss her so much, lost without her.

  • @dislikebutton966
    @dislikebutton966 2 роки тому +10

    I miss you mom, i love you so much😭❤️

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Hello it work I can't believe I'm with my love again after so many years of break-up🏃🏃,...,, he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words and it works within 48hours..

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      @*✛2349155456138👈♻️♻️≧﹏≦亲爱的你好*...

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Wh'atsap him.....

  • @SM-mq2rv
    @SM-mq2rv Рік тому +9

    I lost my mom in 1993 to breast cancer. I was only 12 years old. And, now 30 years later, I still cry when I think about her. I miss her so much. I love you mom

    • @therese9294
      @therese9294 Рік тому +3

      Mine too, same disease, I was 11 and it's so hard to push the days and years without her...

    • @gr33nxx
      @gr33nxx Рік тому +3

      So sorry to hear that. RIP to all the family people lost along the way.

  • @MrGlossyEdits
    @MrGlossyEdits 9 місяців тому +3

    Missing a part of myself everyday your gone momma duck, I love you! ❤

  • @chisty4436
    @chisty4436 Рік тому +5

    I miss my mum the pain makes me sometimes vomit. I try to find a way to bring her back by thinking. Life is a bitter sweet blessing for sure

    • @leahartlee29
      @leahartlee29 3 місяці тому

      I still talk to my mom and it might help if you did too. Remember, they are in another dimension, thanks to Matt Fraser Psychic medium ( here on UA-cam) and Jo McRogers the grief therapist,( also free videos here on youtube) there is help for when it overwhelms you so much. Peace & love to you.

  • @farraha3200
    @farraha3200 10 місяців тому +4

    A GRIEF that will never end will never end till death🥺🥺

  • @YOOJOONKANG
    @YOOJOONKANG 5 місяців тому +7

    I can never imagine what it'd be like without my mother in my life. But I really thank you for this video. It made me realize how much more I should be appreciating my parents that are in my life.

  • @ericmiller2078
    @ericmiller2078 8 місяців тому +4

    My mom passed in April 2016. Doctor said she needed to lose weight so she had the weight loss surgery and had a heart attack. The doctors put her in a medical induced coma and she never woke up. I didn't even get to say goodbye goodbye

  • @neiltaylor6443
    @neiltaylor6443 Рік тому +7

    Thankyou,it’s been eleven years since we lost our beautiful,gentle,caring mum. Think of her everyday.Time does heal… the only thing is you can’t fast forward,it has to be lived through day by day and as each day passes it’s like a stick repairing a wound.The stichescwilll break sometimes and need repairing and the scar will always be there but you will heal and recover,God bless you all and your loved ones hold them close today and tell them how much they mean to you.❤️🙏🏾

  • @alexan2821
    @alexan2821 3 роки тому +41

    My mom passed in december. I was 23 at the time and not a day goes by that I don't feel like I need her. Thank you for this video.

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  3 роки тому +7

      Oh my goodness...my heart is with you Alexa. Sending so much love. Thank you for sharing.

    • @vanessaespericueta9371
      @vanessaespericueta9371 3 роки тому +4

      Sending so much love your way Alexa ❤️❤️❤️💜

    • @jc9795
      @jc9795 2 роки тому +3

      I’m 14 and i still have my mom but im so scared for the future and to lose anyone in my family .

    • @viton6382
      @viton6382 Рік тому +4

      My mom go in April 2021 🙏

    • @BangchansOreos
      @BangchansOreos 3 місяці тому +1

      My mom passed away 5 days before my 22nd birthday its so so hard

  • @Alex-rx2cm
    @Alex-rx2cm Рік тому +9

    my mother passed away when I was two and im 18 now.
    my dads girlfriend keeps telling me to stop using her as an excuse to be sad, that my family lost her too. she doesn't understand how it feels to grow up without a mother

  • @joshuacaraway4811
    @joshuacaraway4811 7 місяців тому +6

    Its been four years since I lost my mom I'm 17 now and I always watch this whenever I start to miss her

  • @VIBESHXRD_CZA
    @VIBESHXRD_CZA Рік тому +10

    My mom passed away when I was 6 it’s been 7 year without you mama I love you ❤️

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Hello it work I can't believe I'm with my love again after so many years of break-up🏃🏃,...,, he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words and it works within 48hours

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Wh'atsap him...

    • @VIBESHXRD_CZA
      @VIBESHXRD_CZA Рік тому +3

      No df ☠️

    • @JJKnows
      @JJKnows Рік тому +5

      She’s watching y now don’t worry you will see her one day when your time comes and don’t give up she’s watching u and she’s proud of you for what u have become now and she will be always watching u and she’s happy for u

    • @VIBESHXRD_CZA
      @VIBESHXRD_CZA Рік тому +4

      @@JJKnows omg thank you 🥹

  • @abhishekmathewvarghese7036
    @abhishekmathewvarghese7036 Рік тому +11

    I was 23 and mommy was 49. A second time cancer came... only, this time it made sure to complete its job and snatch her away from us. Its been hardly 2 months now. We're still reeling. We are still mourning. We are still trying to move on. Still in shock. Still in denial.

  • @spacewatcher968
    @spacewatcher968 Рік тому +6

    I lost my mother when I was 8 years old to a brain tumour that killed her instantly I didn't even have time to say goodbye to her cos I was at school 30 years later I still miss her so much and think of my children that never knew there amazing nanny

  • @PoojaSingh-jv5zx
    @PoojaSingh-jv5zx 6 місяців тому +5

    1months on and the grief still hits hard

  • @patg7150
    @patg7150 Рік тому +30

    This is perfect! You put into words that I was never able to put together so perfectly for almost 23 years now. I still feel this way. Thank you for this!!

  • @sharonpryor7994
    @sharonpryor7994 2 місяці тому +3

    It's been 2 years 4 months. And it's still so much pain. She was old, tired, sick and ready to leave. I get that. But I'll never get over it. She was amazing.
    Id give anything for a sign from her.

  • @jeremystanley216
    @jeremystanley216 Рік тому +6

    I lost my mum 3 weeks ago I still can’t believe it she was my rock and my everything I love and miss her so much

  • @Rat_King_Reviews
    @Rat_King_Reviews 8 днів тому +3

    1:44 Never been this affected by any video in my life or ever related to one this much and I'm a grown adult man that literally just burst into tears at that point in the video and I couldn't even cry at her funeral and just sat numb.
    Nothing prepared me for losing my mother and barely 3yrs later I still struggle.
    Thank you for this video ❤

  • @ncordsant
    @ncordsant 10 місяців тому +6

    My mom passed away last January and I miss her so much 😢

  • @xs732
    @xs732 Рік тому +6

    My parents passed away in a span of three weeks. I miss them so much.

  • @monkeygirl_0443
    @monkeygirl_0443 Рік тому +7

    My mom past away March 16 2018 it has been 4 years people say it gets better but it never does

  • @MM-ul3ns
    @MM-ul3ns 5 місяців тому +7

    I miss you mom. I can’t believe you are gone. It still feels surreal that I can’t just call you to tell you how much I love you. This video is so true all my future joys are tainted with sadness because I can’t share it with you. Even in my dreams when I see you, I am tormented by my conscious that I will wake up. I am not sure why I am compelled to put my feelings on a UA-cam post perhaps it might it help or maybe not. Everyone tells me that time will heal but all it does it makes me realise day by day how much I feel alone. I love you mom.

  • @angieramirez6612
    @angieramirez6612 2 місяці тому +4

    No matter where your mom is… she will always be looking down on you… speak in private your struggles and needs. You will have the right person to your life to help and provide. God always listens and there’s always an Angel sent from heaven to gaurd over each and everyone of us…. Allow your Angel in more than demons.

  • @katelyngrider2306
    @katelyngrider2306 Рік тому +10

    I'm 13 and my mom died after almost two years of fighting cancer and I miss her all the time. Sometimes I feel like I can't even get out of bed because it hurts and I feel like I didn't call her enough. I feel like I didn't reassure her that I didn't blame her for missing so many things while she was in the hospital. Plus my sister recently gave birth and my mom never got to meet him.

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  Рік тому +2

      So sorry Katelyn… Hope you find the strength today. ♥️

    • @MrsZzz
      @MrsZzz 2 місяці тому +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss sweetie. Please don't be hard on yourself. Your mom loves you immensely. Make her proud, live a full and happy life in her honor. God bless you.❤

  • @GrahamWild
    @GrahamWild Рік тому +35

    This is how, I feel everyday, full of grief even after 21 years of losing my mum.

    • @patg7150
      @patg7150 Рік тому +4

      I know how you feel everyday!. The world and life haven't been the same since that day. Stay strong!

    • @GrahamWild
      @GrahamWild Рік тому +4

      @@patg7150 thank you

    • @UTuberoni
      @UTuberoni Рік тому +2

      ❤️ 🙏

    • @janegray1539
      @janegray1539 Рік тому +2

      Today is the day that marks the sixth year my mother has been gone... I lost her when I was 13 years old. I'm older now and it still feels like it happened yesterday. I have to know...does it ever get better? Will I ever be ok again?

    • @cyd3716
      @cyd3716 Рік тому +2

      Same. 21 years for me as well and it still hurts so much 😢

  • @masterovr5308
    @masterovr5308 2 роки тому +9

    Just watching this video is making me cry. I don't ever want to loose my mom. Sometimes we fight and yell at each other but she still loves me very much I don't apreciate her sometimes but she wants the best of me when I grow up. I didnt realize my mother's love and importance until I watched your video thank you for that. I want to cherish my time with my mother whil she is still alive.

  • @vernontaulbee9487
    @vernontaulbee9487 Рік тому +6

    I miss her so much. It's been almost 4yrs and it still kills me inside.

  • @Dineskii
    @Dineskii 11 місяців тому +6

    I lost my mommy suddenly 4/28/2023. Weeks before my college graduation. I’m first generation college student and she was SO excited to see me walk. I can’t help but think of how she won’t get to see her grandchildren and they won’t have a grandma 😢 She was only 40. I love you Mom! My Guardian Angel. I’m still in disbelief. Grief sucks. God bless you all.

    • @joelm4847
      @joelm4847 4 місяці тому +1

      What happened

  • @traciepleinis2401
    @traciepleinis2401 Рік тому +6

    It's been almost 3 yrs since my mom has been gone and I still have some if the hardest days and I feel so alone because I don't have her to physically talk to .

  • @pottymouthstarseed6315
    @pottymouthstarseed6315 Рік тому +12

    So beautifully said, big hugs to all of you who can relate!

  • @OBSweat
    @OBSweat Рік тому +5

    My mom passed when i was not even in school yet im in 5th grade now but i cant get over it

  • @vanessaespericueta9371
    @vanessaespericueta9371 3 роки тому +20

    My mother struggles with addiction ... this said every word I’ve ever wanted to say .
    She may not be in heaven but I lost her years ago. This helped me .
    I’ve replayed this many many times now.
    Thank you for sharing your story to help others write their story .

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for sharing as well! ♥️

  • @lorettadilecce68
    @lorettadilecce68 4 місяці тому +3

    I lost my mom 25 years ago today ( Jan 6, 1998)
    I miss & think about her everyday.
    Love u Mom ❤

  • @jayxx._mm2
    @jayxx._mm2 Рік тому +9

    To be honest, my grandma is of course not my mother, but she passed away at March 22, 2023.... I just miss her and my dad just tried to save her because he was a doctor, but him and his 3 siblings didn't regret it because all of them already said their last words to my grandma...

  • @animecuts813
    @animecuts813 Рік тому +7

    6 months on and the grief still hits hard

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  Рік тому +2

      Thanks for sharing. Hope you’re able to find some peace today…

  • @valcrist7428
    @valcrist7428 10 місяців тому +3

    I'm with my mom until she turned 72 and passed away this year (2023) last May.. I knew she was getting older and weaker.. but I WAS NEVER READY TO LOSE HER and wanted her in my life as long as possible.. even that is impossible in THIS EARTH..
    It seems Unreal that I don't have my mom anymore and questioning the meaning of life.. My only hope is to meet her again when I departed.. together with my Dad and Rest of the Family. I will try to live as much as I can in a positive way for now until the day comes that I departed..

  • @Ktm-jas
    @Ktm-jas Рік тому +3

    Love to all the ppl here.

  • @momspikin9536
    @momspikin9536 Рік тому +6

    I just my mom a few hours ago,I don't know if I'm going to survive this😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  Рік тому +1

      Glad you found us here. You are not alone!♥️

  • @CarloTurner-vl7rl
    @CarloTurner-vl7rl 22 дні тому +2

    RIP Freda 🕊️ I wish that i would have had the absolute Honour of meeting you but i want you to know just how much i love and respect you for everything that you ever did for your Beautiful Daughter Bella, she loves and misses you so much, but she also knows that she will be with you, her Daddy and Tunie again one day in the future but in the meantime i solemnly promise you and your Husband that i will love your Beautiful Baby Girl and guard her with my life for you when Bella and myself are finally together in person, God Bless you Freda love always and forever from Carlo ❤️🙏❤️.

  • @Lycanthropic.21
    @Lycanthropic.21 3 місяці тому +4

    But I needed you maa, in every moment of happiness, every moment of sadness, every time I succeed, every time I fail...I badly needed you maa. There's no one left, there's nothing left...Life is so lifeless without you maa. Miss you so much 🥺💔

  • @tamarabond2026
    @tamarabond2026 4 місяці тому +4

    First Christmas without my mom....I miss her

  • @youko9587
    @youko9587 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank-you so much❤

  • @SusieHall-vr6yd
    @SusieHall-vr6yd 5 місяців тому +4

    This made me cry. I lost my mom Feb.2005. They say it gets easier with time. But I can tell you for me it's just getting harder. I STILL NEED MY MOM TODAY. I miss her so much.😭😔

  • @delseymelville4300
    @delseymelville4300 Рік тому +4

    I lost my mom last year September and it hurts like hell everyday

  • @samdickenson5852
    @samdickenson5852 Рік тому +4

    Aw so sweet. I never got to know my biological mother. I have a loving adoptive mother but there is always a part of me that feels missing, or damaged and poisoned. From what I heard of my biological mother, she was an alcoholic and suffered and made others suffer because of it. I came to hate alcohol for that and wanted revenge on it. But as some say revenge is like a poison. I let it go after a few years but the damage had been done to my spirit. I think my biological mother is dead now, but some times I feel like she is still watching over me, encouraging me not to become like she was and hurt the ones I love. It hurts and I will probably have it for the rest of my life.

  • @sadefortune600
    @sadefortune600 Рік тому +4

    I miss my mother so much! 😭 my mom died on February 15th 2023 by a seizure in her sleep. 😭😭😭 my heart aches because she’s gone and I won’t be able to hug her anymore but I’ll always tell her I love her.❤ #ripmysweetgirl

  • @user-lw1nc1bt4r
    @user-lw1nc1bt4r 5 місяців тому +4

    6 years later im 15 lost her when i was 9
    i cant leave it behind me people think i can but i just CANT

  • @faizalmusa7462
    @faizalmusa7462 2 місяці тому +2

    Losing my mum was the hardest thing i had ever to go through. Ppl say the time heals everything but I don't agree with that statement. My family tried to push me out of my sadness and pretend it was not a big deal, telling me to move on, telling me to be strong. i am so lost without her. everything seems meaningless. I cant find joy in anything. I miss you mum 😭😭😭 I love you so much!

  • @danijelaradanovic9827
    @danijelaradanovic9827 Рік тому +5

    I lost my mom little more then a month ago. Everything happend so fast, in like 3 weeks. She was really sick in the end, still we were hoping she'll get better, but.. I miss her soo much, i am not sure how I'll survive. Still can't believe she's not here anymore, and want to call her and talk to her, tell her about my day, thinking I'll see her when I come home.. I wish I'd told and showed her more often how much I appreciate and love her, but I hope she knew that. Mum I love you so much and will miss you forever. 💔😔

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  Рік тому +2

      Hopefully today you find some moments of peace and able to celebrate your mother.

  • @Mangekage
    @Mangekage 3 місяці тому +3

    I’m 16 and lost my mommy a little over a month ago.
    I tend not to think about it as that’s what keeps me from crying.
    But sometimes even the smallest thing I see reminds me of her.
    I see the color yellow, the sun, or a sunflower and think of her beautiful blonde hair.
    I will keep telling people I’m okay because I feel there’s nothing someone can say to me that’ll help me.
    Please cherish your mom❤️‍🩹

  • @takezoaudio
    @takezoaudio 6 місяців тому +3

    my mother passed on oct 11th, just 2 weeks ago. i thought time will make the pain and sadness
    lessen; it has not. she was 89 and suffering at the end. so, it was her time and now she suffers
    no more... but i miss you so much mom. i miss your smiles and unconditional support. unable to
    speak you squeezed my hand so hard minutes before you passed. i love you with all my heart
    and soul, mother.

  • @randiebueno2460
    @randiebueno2460 Рік тому +5

    My passed away in September 2020 I was 17 at the time, it was the worse thing I could have ever gone through she was my everything my whole world, I didn't know how I was going to go on with my life without her. This is everything I wish I could have told her. I love you so much mom.

  • @lars-son6411
    @lars-son6411 2 роки тому +5

    Thanks for that..

  • @kimberlyjonesgarcia
    @kimberlyjonesgarcia 11 місяців тому +5

    I lost my Momma 07/20/2021. She passed in my arms of cancer. Never have I felt a pain this strong

    • @BangchansOreos
      @BangchansOreos 3 місяці тому +1

      My mom passed away in my arms due to to a sudden cardiac arrest I'm so broken....

  • @Hope-fv3kf
    @Hope-fv3kf 3 місяці тому +3

    I was 32. ...37 yrs ago. I miss my mom

  • @optimist_introvertiert_nam7271
    @optimist_introvertiert_nam7271 2 роки тому +5

    I miss u mom..
    I hope you are happy now :)

  • @shaniquecoetzee1711
    @shaniquecoetzee1711 2 роки тому +9

    iam am 14 now and lost my mom a few moths ago. it pains me to know that i will never be able to see her cry seeing me on my wedding day, seeing me get ready for prom, helping me through my fist heartbreak. I hate life without her.

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you for sharing this with us. May you continue to find strength! ♥️ I sense you’re someone your mom was very proud of.

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Hello it work I can't believe I'm with my love again after so many years of break-up🏃🏃,...,, he do alot of work okay.., and keep to his words and it works within 48hours..

    • @olusonaomolola7943
      @olusonaomolola7943 Рік тому

      Wh'atsap him.....

  • @christinespellman8041
    @christinespellman8041 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for saying these words. Sends me crying

  • @nansambateddie9021
    @nansambateddie9021 6 місяців тому +3

    My mum he go at work and the first time in my heart is so much for mum I mis you mum he I miss your mom, he always got to work. I still at home I miss mom. Everyday I pray for her

  • @user-nn8nc6mc4u
    @user-nn8nc6mc4u 4 місяці тому +3

    9 years later and it still hurts💔😭

  • @user-bx7sj2xv9c
    @user-bx7sj2xv9c 5 місяців тому +4

    I lost my mum only 3 months ago, on the 1st of August and this just broke me

  • @arunamohite7704
    @arunamohite7704 Місяць тому +2

    My mom loves me so much her love is unconditional. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @cheyanedezarn4484
    @cheyanedezarn4484 2 роки тому +18

    This is everything I wanted to say to my mom. I lost her last May, just 5 days before my 17th birthday and I can’t help but think about all the things I have to go through without her, like my wedding and having children. I also graduate in 5 months and I don’t want to because I want her to be there with me.

    • @psychologyis
      @psychologyis  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you for sharing this with us. Truly sorry for what you’re enduring. I hope you find a place within to celebrate that graduation!

    • @dislikebutton966
      @dislikebutton966 2 роки тому +3

      I feel you. I lost my mom last year, she was only 56yo. The moment i get kids, im gonna be so sad because my mom cant meet my kids anymore

    • @camsavvva6102
      @camsavvva6102 Рік тому +7

      Hey bud, I know how you feel. My mom was my best friend. She passed away in a car accident about a week ago. 4 days before my 19 birthday. It's really hard but just know she will be with you everywhere you go. She will guide you

    • @Skydiver63
      @Skydiver63 Рік тому +3

      🥲She's so very PROUD OF YOU! TRUST ME! YOU MADE HER DREAMS COME TRUE!!!

  • @durrtyd8379
    @durrtyd8379 Рік тому +3

    This hots me so hard. It's been a year since she has passed.i didn't get to say goodbye. How do I cope. How do I press on. It gets worse more and more. I miss you mom.