How to start a Qur'aan reading / memorization routine for young children?
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- Опубліковано 11 бер 2019
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Today's question: 'I want to ask your advice with regards to Quran reading routine every morning. Children are 3 and 5.5 years old.'
1. Focus on the relationship with your child.
2. Establish routines in regards to sleep and meals first. Add Qur'aan reading routine next.
3. For young children start with listening to become familiar with the sound of recitation and with learning how to read Arabic.
4. Short sessions of 10 - 15 min max but be consistent and do it every day until they become second nature.
5. Avoid punishments and rewards, but rather make it a part of your natural flow of the day (same as you eat, sleep etc.)
6. Anchor the Qur'aan reading and recitation to something positive.
Hope this helps!
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Asslamu alaikum
My son is 9 years and Alhamdulilah doing hifz. Juzz amma about to finish. But as living in Europe , I find it hard ,how this will happen. I need schedule for him. That how can I help him when he will move to big surah in future. In shaa Allaah. 1st: how to cope with school studies and how to revise previous lessons while memorizing next and how much would be convenient time daily?
Wa alaikumu salaam!
May Allah make the journey of hifdh easy on you and him!
Does he have a teacher? If he is doing hifdh with a teacher, I'd recommend following their plan or making a plan with them.
If you're doing hifdh at home by yourselves, even better. You can have your own plan and not stress out. 💐
Juzz 'Amma is a great accomplishment and make sure to celebrate his success. Make sure it's EASY for him before you move on to harder/longer/newer stuff. Children need to feel confident and succesful. We don't want to overburden them with unrealistic expectations.
There is no rush in hifdh. I wish someone would have told me that when I was a mom of a 9 year old 😊 Maybe I need to make a video about 'Things we wish we had known' 😅
No rush. Even if the hifdh were to be 'finished' tomorrow - there is a life time of revision and daily recitation ahead of you.
Don't worry about big surahs in the future. Make sure he has a routine of learning and revising and you guys are enjoying that.
We follow the following system loosely. (I say loosely because each family has a different dynamic of what works for them and you need to figure out your own system.)
1. Revision of the most recent surahs (thats either the most recent page or eventually the most recent 5 pages memorized): this needs to be SOLID. If the child is struggling, we don't add anything new until this is strong.
2. Revision of everything memorized: we strive to revise everything within a week or 10 days. Its up to you how you split it. When they only know few surahs, this revision can be done every day. When they know more, it eventually gets to be half a juzz daily or even a whole juzz (or 3 etc).
If they are struggling with this revision, nothing new gets added, until they feel comfortable with this.
3. New ayahs/surah/page. This only gets added when both revisions are strong and solid .
There seems to be this chasing of new memorized stuff but often the older stuff gets forgotten. No rush 💐
I think these 3 parts or 2 parts should not take very long - if the child is attentative and you're both present mentally. Often THAT is the issue. Being focused and disciplined and in the routine of it.
Particularly when the revision gets to be weak, kids want to start avoiding it.
This is why my advice is to stick with the surahs until they are soo easy and to keep revising it while its easy before adding new stuff.
Its a lifetime journey. Small baby steps .
@@HifdhWithKids yes no rush. he has hafizah who give 30 minutes 5 days. but i think now a days one can memorize byself as so many recitations like ayman swed. on youtube and then once a week someone listen him and corrects him properly. but i feel its even more important then hifz that he understand islam as well. how can i teach him parallel? so he does nt get bored and i dont stress out as i am too learning as well. i feel that we are running out of time , if i could not teach him well then there is lots of attractions and filth around. obs: he is going non muslim school nearby, i tried some muslim schoon but right now its hard. so please advice according to our scnerio. yes often goes to sunday islamic center for 2 hours.
@@ummehaadi4184 you are NOT running out of time - you have a whole life time ahead of being your child's mother insha'Allah and of teaching him and practicing Islam...where is this fear coming from? I'd examine that and look at your triggers.
Prioritize your relationship with your child - come along side of him...spend time with him: not just showing Islam down his throat or warning him about the filth around him but rather doing stuff together, talking, playing, enjoying family time. Healthy family relationships and time spent together is WAY more important than enrolling them in a Muslim institution. Encourage a relationship in which he can share with you what happens at school without being judged or shamed - that will help him process what's going and not take it underground or engage in a double life where he has to hide from his parents.
@@HifdhWithKids sister can you contact me on my nr#? It take less time but would be great help for me might be. In shaa Allaah
I don't do private counselling.
Sister you are amazing alhamdulillah I found someone who did exactly what I did. Alhamdulillah that’s exactly how I worked 10 years ago and alhamdulillah Allah stw fulfilled my dream.
"dont try for perfection, just make it done" a line like this you said. I was forcing to make correct tajweed. from now i will make him reading with less perfection. day by day he will become perfect InshaAllah. after i get annoyed, i came to UA-cam and search how to teach quran for kids
I'm so so happy you posted this video!!!! Thank you so much Sister❤ may Allah protect you and preserve you and your family!!!
May Allah reward you in this life and the next. I appreciate you taking the time to do this video. Barakallahu feeki 🌹
Please don’t stop to do this type of advice
Alhamdulliah, Much needed this is the ONLY VIDEO that actually talked about how to start hifdh for your child. Sister this is a great sadqa jariya, tremendously helped can't emphasize enough!!
(I have a 2 year old he's my first child , I want to do so much I want to give him all the deen but I just don't know where or how to start )
Taqaballahu minki
Please keep uploading videos we really need them !!
Assalamualaikum.. my daughter has just turned 2yr old. I want to teach her the right Deen but don't know how to start. I started to make her read alphabet when she was 1.5 yr old & ma sha allah she knows few alphabets and is still learning. Would you help me, what is ur approach I teaching ur child?
Love this. Very helpful. Jazakillah khiar 🌹💕
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I really love your channel ma shaa Allaah. I cannot wait for some more content in shaa Allaah. I am also on a Hifdh journey with my children, coming across your channel is a blessing Alhamdulilaah.
JazakaAllaahu khair sis xx
Salaam from uk have not learned quran yet or how too just english translation THE CLEAR QURAN JZK FOR YOUR VIDEOS 😊
Mash Allah. Such an informative and helpful video. JajakAllah khairan sister.
Very helpful of you sister!
JazakAllah hu khair.
May Allah reward you for any benefits we derive from your help!
Yes please do more of family routines for hifth. I am struggling and I want to teach them at home. My kids are 7 and under and I don’t know what to do.
Jazakillah Khayr Ukhty
Awesome piece of solid advice. Loved how it's concise, yet answers the topic at hand sufficiently. Definitely looking forward to more content on here!
-- Sumreen
Sumreen Wasiq Thank you for your support! Hopefully we’ll have more videos up soon insha’Allah.
jazakhallahukhair ♥️!
Mashaa’allah tabarakallah
Nicely said👍🏻
Hearing you talk reminded me of the old good days... may Allah bless you💕
Ma Sha Allah
Excellent video!
alhamdulillah there is someone share about this. Yes, you are right we found rarely this kind of tips.
I hope i got some other insert of video in real, could be the process how the kids memorize or show how the kids with its nature sometimes refuse but then back to accept the routine.
may Allah reward u sister
MashaAllah!
Jazakallahu Khairan
Please keep guiding us. It will help a lot of mothers.
JazakiAllahu khairan for your kind message. It's not easy for me to record frequently but we will try to be more regular. The kids are still on their lifelong journey with the Book od Allah alhamdulillah.
Ma sha Allah! Loved this!
Ishrat Khawja Thank you for your support! You were one of my motivatations when yoy posted that sisters’ talk show. 😀
@@HifdhWithKids awww ma sha Allah! That's brilliant! And your video has pushed me to get back into it too subhan Allah! Do you have any recommendations for UA-cam vids of recitation for little ones (3 and 5 year olds). I'd also love to know about routines and tips for older kids muraja'ah (maybe in future videos). May Allah reward you for this.
want more videos like this
Hmmmm
This is exactly what I search
My children 1 1/2 and 4 years old eant to learn
But I dont know how to teach
I myself am still learning
how to read arabic
And i bought books and watch videos but I am struggle
Asalamualaykum sister. That's exactly what I am doing. Taking them to school and listening to short surahs. Doing chores in house they read surahs.
Keep it up insha'Allah, even if it's small, it'll be worth it in the end!
Jzk.so much for this...I want to stat hifz with my kids but don't know where to start at
Salam alikum wa rahamtullah wa barakatuh
Sister first Jazak allah kirren for vedio
Am struggle with time manage special with school time they are 4 and 6 years ?
I know in the morning is best time is early morning but that will make them tired sleepy in school day ?
I have a 6 year and a 4 year old, both my children are in two different surahs and levels, how do I balance that ? Thankyou so much for doing this video, this is amazing. I have been searching for a while now how can I start the kids with the quran journey.
Each child has their own unique ability and pace. Try your best not to compare them with each other - that only increases siblings rivalry and creates resentment. Each child had their own unique path so its ok if they are on different surah. You give them time accordingly. Check out my other videos insha'Allah.
Asalam o Alaikum dear.
I want to start hifdh at home with my kids age 10 and 8.
Watn Zirkus...!!!
سبحان اللە
Same tips for a teen?
You are right . Where are you from?