Huge Urban Outfitters Haul (Men & Women), Self Care Sunday + Brunch at Home | Julia & Hunter Havens

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  • Опубліковано 20 жов 2024
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    URBAN OUTFITTERS HAUL
    JULIA
    Dad Jeans (size 25) bit.ly/3acDtMc
    Cropped Sweater Turtleneck (XS) bit.ly/37kZxCj
    Green Patterned Cropped Thermal bit.ly/2IYFZdS
    Cropped Teddy Jacket bit.ly/3abNqcN
    Sherpa Shacket (Small) bit.ly/3oVLxF7
    Light Wash Mom Jeans (size 25) bit.ly/37n5df9
    Cream Blushes bit.ly/2WjbYbB
    HUNTER
    Blue Jeans bit.ly/2KunNcs
    Cord Shirts (Medium):
    Nude bit.ly/389eFlp
    Chocolate Brown (color is black online) bit.ly/389eFlp
    Green Chenille Sweater bit.ly/2Wgxqy7
    Plaid Quilted Shirt Jacket bit.ly/3mlv7Ek
    Oversized Sweaters (Beige & Grey-size Medium) bit.ly/3qYIgqm
    Tie Dye Hoodie bit.ly/38cdVMJ
    Record Player bit.ly/3nnlkyR
    📩 biz inquiries: jujhavens@gmail.com
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  • @HannahBanana154
    @HannahBanana154 3 роки тому +33

    goal for 2021: stop overthinking, lean in to more self-care activities and things that bring me joy with people I love

  • @KatieandMonica
    @KatieandMonica 3 роки тому +1

    This year I want to focus on my health... mind, body, and soul. Loving myself unconditionally. This past week we have donated tons to a local shelter "Martha's Village", as well as adopting for the season a family in need. Helping these individuals, families, and children have the items they need for the holiday. Making sure they have joy during the season as well.

  • @aishakaddi
    @aishakaddi 3 роки тому +11

    i love how Hunter edits in the giveaway segment into the most random spots in the vlog. I'm not being sarcastic it actually makes me laugh EVERY TIME bahahahahahaaaa

  • @elizabethjkline
    @elizabethjkline 3 роки тому +1

    My goal for 2021 is to bring passion back to my career as a speech-language pathologist. I've been stuck in a rut for the last 5 years and need to find that spark again! I got a head start on this goal by quitting my job before I even find another job. I've never been this risky before and I'm hoping it pays off. Mental health is what is most important anyways!

  • @caroline1655
    @caroline1655 3 роки тому +11

    My main goal for 2021 is building my interpersonal relationships. Writing letters to loved ones, calling people more, following up with people, etc

    • @nataschaeikeland1278
      @nataschaeikeland1278 3 роки тому

      What a great goal !!!

    • @samanthaworkman5340
      @samanthaworkman5340 3 роки тому +1

      I think this is such a great goal, definitely something I will be doing too...With this pandemic it’s been a whirlwind of emotional stress. Human interaction is so important especially with loved ones

  • @alyssaallen3987
    @alyssaallen3987 3 роки тому +1

    goose kept looking back at hunter for permission to take the treat lol so cute!!

  • @henashong
    @henashong 3 роки тому +72

    new goal for 2021: to be really healthy and have a positive relationship with my own body (:

  • @tiffanywxo
    @tiffanywxo 3 роки тому +1

    There’s so many goals since 2020 seemed like a write-off; first and foremost breaking the habit of sleeping in till late in the afternoon, getting back into working out (all gyms are closed currently here), and finally starting my UA-cam channel !!! You 2 definitely are some of the few UA-camrs that inspire me the most, much love ❤️

  • @lexihiggs8053
    @lexihiggs8053 3 роки тому +5

    I will neverrrrr get tired of vlogmas🤍 perfect way to end my night!

  • @jillianriviezzo896
    @jillianriviezzo896 3 роки тому +1

    I’m dyinggggg at the instapot insert. SUCH A GUY!! A for effort Hunter!

  • @nikih5181
    @nikih5181 3 роки тому +44

    Literally spoon feeding my baby as hunter says “sorry. I’m not spoon feeding my children” lmaoooo

    • @chelseaschmidt4417
      @chelseaschmidt4417 3 роки тому +1

      Hahahahahahhaa I loved this part! I know what he means but it’s funny to be in that stage of life and hear him say it haha

    • @nikih5181
      @nikih5181 3 роки тому +3

      @@chelseaschmidt4417 lmao ! Yeah I just looked at my baby and was like........ das ok baby he didn’t mean that lol 😂

  • @anjeliquecollins3440
    @anjeliquecollins3440 3 роки тому +17

    New goal for 2021: Is get into a nursing program, and finally have the courage to start a UA-cam channel about the journey (tips and advice).

  • @seankendrajames3299
    @seankendrajames3299 3 роки тому +20

    Over here in EST waiting for this vid to drop before I go to bed 🤗

  • @lifewithmarlow
    @lifewithmarlow 3 роки тому +3

    2021: Year of the heart! Work on the love I have for myself and others

  • @aliciazang4211
    @aliciazang4211 3 роки тому +17

    2021 Goal: Start journaling, writing my thoughts down every day. I often forget how I feel and tend to brush it off instead of trying to work on things that I a struggle with. Working on my mental health alllll 2021 ❤️

  • @shiannewilliams1322
    @shiannewilliams1322 3 роки тому

    Goal for 2021 is too get back to the basics! I’m 27 years old struggle to fold the laundry when it’s done, put away dishes after they’ve been washed, wash my makeup brushes every week(I know,gross) etc.
    One thing Julie&Hunter mentioned in a different vlog was f45 was working out for real life scenarios . Julia’s mindset about working out really spoke to me. She said she is not motivated to work out to get a “hot bod” but bc working out allows her body to perform the way she wants it to and I loved loved that! And so switching my mindset about working out is on my goal list too!

  • @bernicepujols9905
    @bernicepujols9905 3 роки тому +6

    a goal for me for 2021 is to be more active! I love seeing Julia stories at the gym. #goals

  • @kenziejewell2534
    @kenziejewell2534 3 роки тому

    one of my goals for 2021: to be more warm towards myself and others. ᠁ it’s vague, but it’s something so little that can tie into many other things that bring joy to oneself as well as others!
    love you guys! ❤︎

  • @anitabanitah116
    @anitabanitah116 3 роки тому +6

    hunter just casually slippin in the weather forcast 😅

  • @dragusha18
    @dragusha18 3 роки тому +2

    I love the fact that Hunter uses „we“ when he talks about his shirts and sweaters😍

  • @lisamarie6372
    @lisamarie6372 3 роки тому +11

    2021 goal: be present in the little moments & embrace being a first time mom come March ☺️❤️

  • @carolynberghuys4055
    @carolynberghuys4055 3 роки тому

    one of my goals for 2021 is to stop and smell the roses. the days go by so fast, we all get so caught up in work and whatnot and I want to make more of a conscious effort to be present and enjoy life’s mundane moments, cuz these are the “good old days”.

  • @danielladombrowski2442
    @danielladombrowski2442 3 роки тому +8

    New goal for 2021: live a healthier lifestyle and feel good about my body

  • @survivingfibromywhat2615
    @survivingfibromywhat2615 3 роки тому +1

    I love how he used the instant pot. Hahaha and how sweet she was when correcting him

  • @micaelamitchell2824
    @micaelamitchell2824 3 роки тому +6

    Been waiting all day for this 🙌🏼🙌🏼 my number one goal for 2021 is to give my body grace during the pandemic and learn to manage subconscious stress

  • @chloemorrell6709
    @chloemorrell6709 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to write down daily blessings/what i’m grateful for. & overall being more grateful for the small things through the day ❤️

  • @meyahwhite9067
    @meyahwhite9067 3 роки тому +9

    Goose is such a good boy ! 🐾❤️

  • @shuggybug
    @shuggybug 3 роки тому +1

    The look hunter gave you when you put your shoe on the table 😂😂😂👏🏻
    He’s like “you did not just do that...” 😂
    Priceless

  • @Amber-ij7tv
    @Amber-ij7tv 3 роки тому +14

    Yesss! My Julia and Hunter time. Every evening my husband asks “Why do you always listen to Kanye’s song at night?” Because the saxophone in your intro 😭🥰😂

    • @courtneyannehope
      @courtneyannehope 3 роки тому +1

      omg my hubby says the same thing 😭😂

    • @Meeshhhh
      @Meeshhhh 3 роки тому

      Omg it’s Kanye?? Lol I would’ve never guessed

    • @Akhona3
      @Akhona3 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂

  • @maddiedudash9150
    @maddiedudash9150 3 роки тому

    2021 goals - reach out to loved ones more often! I’m such an introvert & sometimes struggle w/ reaching out to friends & family first.
    Become an athlete ;) but actually, focus on making healthier decisions!
    Stop overthinking sm!!

  • @keelythomas9264
    @keelythomas9264 3 роки тому +9

    2021 goals: -continue educating myself on respectful parenting! -reclaiming a workout routine! - Start making UA-cam videos again! ❤️

    • @luvdisneyworld
      @luvdisneyworld 3 роки тому +1

      Love that! I just bought “No drama discipline” and loving it so far

  • @shanteltrevizo1692
    @shanteltrevizo1692 3 роки тому

    my new goal for 2021: put myself first in ways i never have. like saving money for future me, eating better, and just overall doing things to benefit me in the long run!

  • @ashleyvalencia826
    @ashleyvalencia826 3 роки тому +8

    Goal for 2021: Is to be more intentional. Staying true to myself and making sure I take frequent self care/mental health days.

  • @emmahope6951
    @emmahope6951 3 роки тому

    Hi Julia and hunter // a huge goal of mine this year is to become comfortable being alone.
    I’ve always been surrounded by people and I really want to finally be comfortable with my independence. I’m in a new city with my dream job and I want to make the most! Love you both!

  • @kendratic
    @kendratic 3 роки тому +3

    Goal: making myself a priority and scheduling me time.

  • @victoriamirandaa
    @victoriamirandaa 3 роки тому

    one of my goals for 2021 is to be more “body positive.” this goes hand in hand with trying to start a workout routine/ eating more healthy🤍 love you guys!!!

  • @spaceygracie8333
    @spaceygracie8333 3 роки тому +6

    I never clicked on something so fast in my life lol. I’ve been in love with Vlogmas! I’m going to be so sad when it’s over 😢
    One of my main goals is to be more motivated not just in working out but in everyday situations. I procrastinate all the time and I just want to be motivated to push myself and to not push things aside, to do it as it comes. Also to push myself out of my comfort zone. I’m very shy and I’m not very good at meeting new people so I’d love to be more social.

  • @sferreirai5
    @sferreirai5 3 роки тому

    New goal for 2021 is cherish more time with family. I think this year with all the social distancing and not being able to do as many family gatherings really thought me the importance of not taking my family for granted and cherishing each moment with them.

  • @hollymaxwell-stevenson5205
    @hollymaxwell-stevenson5205 3 роки тому +12

    Goal for 2021: to stop apologising so much - be myself and own it!

  • @daisylopez2261
    @daisylopez2261 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for this 2021 is to continue with my self-care. Self-care in many ways, being accepting with myself. & just choosing positive thoughts over negative thoughts. 💭

  • @breahbender7848
    @breahbender7848 3 роки тому +12

    Take time to complement random people at the grocery, mall, etc. (in a nice/not creepy way)!! Lol

    • @colleencraig2856
      @colleencraig2856 3 роки тому +4

      Me too!! It’s so crazy how a little kindness can go a long way!

    • @julesburford7455
      @julesburford7455 3 роки тому +4

      I do this all the time!!! It’s my favorite thing because I know how much it means to me when a stranger does the same so love doing it to others and making their day!!

  • @nicolemaddocks1063
    @nicolemaddocks1063 3 роки тому

    2021: the year for the heart and soul
    I loved your talk the other night, saying that 2020 has been the year for your bodies and that 2021 will be the year of the heart. After such a crap year, a year for the heart and soul is exactly what we need. My goal is to fill both my heart and my friends and families hearts with more joy, love and peace ❤️

  • @justinesilva1104
    @justinesilva1104 3 роки тому +5

    My goal for 2021 is to focus on inner self love and realize that all I really need is myself to be happy (:🤎

  • @carmmdanielle
    @carmmdanielle 3 роки тому

    One of the goals I have for 2021 is to start really taking care of myself and putting me first.

  • @cooperstrenz5680
    @cooperstrenz5680 3 роки тому +32

    2021 goal: invest in me- my mental and physical health!

  • @claribelcarbajal9644
    @claribelcarbajal9644 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 tor remove anything and anybody weighing me down. Leaving a bad vibes behind me and welcoming positivity and good energy ❤️

  • @erikaramsland5913
    @erikaramsland5913 3 роки тому +3

    2021 goal: start my dream job and be successful, while still focusing on time for myself 🥰

  • @allisoncottrell7077
    @allisoncottrell7077 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to really focus on my health. I love how you guys are so open about your health/fitness journey and it’s so motivating! It’s so important to take care of yourself! Love you guys 💕

  • @ElizabethDavisVlogs
    @ElizabethDavisVlogs 3 роки тому +3

    “Juj stole it from me I didn’t even get a chance to wear it” 😂😂😂 me as a wife one day

  • @sydneygilmore6083
    @sydneygilmore6083 3 роки тому

    One of my goals next year is to push myself to become the person i envision. To get outside my comfort bubble and to not just care about myself so much but for others as well ❤️❤️

  • @taylorphippssimons
    @taylorphippssimons 3 роки тому +3

    one of my goals for 2021 is literally to freakin floss my freakin teeth. i start this every year. and every year by december, i realize I have miserably failed lolz

  • @valverdearce
    @valverdearce 3 роки тому

    Julia with her hoodie she’s just the cutest human 🥺❤️

  • @Livijojo29
    @Livijojo29 3 роки тому +11

    Goal for 2021: To stop being so hard on myself and finish writing my book!

  • @IrisNecoleTv
    @IrisNecoleTv 3 роки тому

    One of my Goals for 2021 is to be more consistent in every aspect my life. I was told it’s the difference between being great and being common.

  • @iaminteriorsbyanamatiz
    @iaminteriorsbyanamatiz 3 роки тому +25

    Btw, love the intro. Does anyone else say “love that” with Julia?

  • @kayladaniellesmith4655
    @kayladaniellesmith4655 3 роки тому

    lol Noah's like dad I really want it as he patiently waits for your permission. Such a good goosey!!!

  • @lastlaugh2023
    @lastlaugh2023 3 роки тому +6

    closet tryon : oH My...y'all really be liking them jeans all up in yo zubbidoo. 🐫🤣🤣🤣

  • @devonraybuck4632
    @devonraybuck4632 3 роки тому

    I have multiple mini goals for the new year but my main goal for 2021 is to start saying NO to other people and work on my wants/needs. I constantly drop what I am doing to help others and it’s led to an unhealthy habit, both mentally and physically. Sometimes, I care wayyyy too much and it consumes me. I will concentrate on what benefits me (esp mentally) but not in a selfish manner.

  • @ecleopatra123
    @ecleopatra123 3 роки тому +6

    My goal this year is to: ready the Bible even more and to teach my daughters to protect their armor spirit everyday so they could be prepared in life ♥️ 👍

    • @MsTorrie82
      @MsTorrie82 3 роки тому

      This is everything!!! I love it.

  • @emilymiller4689
    @emilymiller4689 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to try and worry less about the future and appreciate the present. The last year has really made me realize that life is always going to be unpredictable and I need to take it day by day 💗

  • @heenapalwala7637
    @heenapalwala7637 3 роки тому +5

    Going back to school after 15 years! This year is about self growth; physically, mentally, and spiritually

    • @colleencraig2856
      @colleencraig2856 3 роки тому

      Good for you!!! I hope school goes well for you !!! :)

  • @daniellemalles5285
    @daniellemalles5285 3 роки тому +1

    Goals for 2021 are to be kinder to myself, appreciate the small things in life and move on from negativity of 2020.😊🙌🏼👍🏻🥰🙏

  • @taylorrivera6464
    @taylorrivera6464 3 роки тому +4

    My 2021 goal is to finish my last 2 semesters with straight A’s which also includes taking OChem & Micro Bio 🙂🙂 pray for me

  • @casandraortega3363
    @casandraortega3363 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to work on myself, mentally and physically. I want to be more productive throughout my days and I also want to go to the gym so I can feel better seeing that Julia and hunter do it all the time!

  • @taylorirving1847
    @taylorirving1847 3 роки тому +3

    2021 goal: pay off student loans and focus on my career goals!!

  • @Ria_n_Brian_93
    @Ria_n_Brian_93 3 роки тому +1

    Awww, Noah is such a good doggie❗️🐶 He sees the treat on the counter but he seems to wait until he’s given permission to get it. 🥰

  • @jordyg1648
    @jordyg1648 3 роки тому +13

    My new goal for 2021: stop spending money on things i don’t need! (Aka Amazon 😂) and to oh off my two credit cards 😑

    • @sid66188
      @sid66188 3 роки тому +2

      Girl you got this! That was my goal for this year and I did it!

  • @krystalh6194
    @krystalh6194 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to be healthier mentally and be HAPPY. This year has really opened up my eyes to what's really important. First step was resigning from my toxic work environment to be a travel nurse. I am actually on my first assignment now and although SUPER nervous, its so liberating and a great way to end 2020 and start off 2021.
    Love your channel.

  • @oliviacieri2309
    @oliviacieri2309 3 роки тому +5

    Goal for 2021: learn how to invest in the stock market and really focus on growing my finances in 2021!

  • @vinitakalia3837
    @vinitakalia3837 3 роки тому +1

    2021 goal: to put myself first and show my appreciation for the people i love the most because 2020 has taught us that life is so unexpected ❤️

  • @emaleerice5558
    @emaleerice5558 3 роки тому

    To keep pushing myself even when I feel like its time to give up. It's the most rewarding thing, working hard at something and reaping the benefits. Y'all push me to be a better human being everyday, search for someone in a relationship who truly loves me, and to work hard at the things I love to do.

  • @Laladriscl
    @Laladriscl 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to work on my anxiety and work/life balance. I really want to learn to take time to step away from work and truly enjoy the day-to-day.
    Loving these positive/deep thinking questions for these giveaways! Y’alls kindness just shines through 💕

  • @yeyatatiana2076
    @yeyatatiana2076 3 роки тому

    I love how he appreciates you and acknowledges you. Like how he just thanked you for the fruit salad. He didn't have to but he did, that's what ❤️. Happy holidays guys. I'm taking self love up a notch this year in 2021. 🎄⛄✨

  • @kelseyjames9008
    @kelseyjames9008 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to be more PRODUCTIVE. I plan to start my days earlier and make the most of out of every hour. I also plan to actually designate rest days during the week. Don't want to burn myself out. You guys inspire me with with the routines. Love it!

  • @gabrielleduda8219
    @gabrielleduda8219 3 роки тому

    2021 goals: be spontaneous and travel when I can especially since this crazy year has limited traveling so much. take more time to hang out with friends i haven't seen in so long because of quarantine. smile and say hi to every person I walk past (wearing masks 24/7 has reminded me of how important small gestures are!!). tell my family and friends how thankful I am to have them in my life more often.

  • @silviagarciaswaun6530
    @silviagarciaswaun6530 3 роки тому

    One of my goals is to write more and stay consistent and intentional with my writing
    ❤️

  • @paigedenney6155
    @paigedenney6155 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to focus on self care and personal development! So much motivation comes from these vlogs, I love y’all! ❤️

  • @paigemcgaffick
    @paigemcgaffick 3 роки тому

    2021 goal: to really focus on myself and my mental and physical health. I feel like I’ve really put it on the back burner when my dad passed away and I’m ready to start changing my life around in all aspects!

  • @lexihiggs8053
    @lexihiggs8053 3 роки тому +1

    One of my biggest goals for 2021 is for my fiancé and I to purchase our first home together ❤️

  • @adasegura9850
    @adasegura9850 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 is to nail down my French, I recently started to take lessons and am absolutely in loveee with the language and sm hoping it’ll be a kind of bonding experience for my mother-in-law/ husband’s grandmother..so excited!!

  • @cassidysquires8518
    @cassidysquires8518 3 роки тому

    New goal for 2021: to live in the moment! I’m such a go go go person I never stop to realize good moments while they’re happening. I always look back like wow I should’ve enjoyed that more.

  • @hannaheyerman318
    @hannaheyerman318 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to build the confidence to go after what I know I truly want! Personal life, career, etc, I'm bossing up in 2021!!

  • @zariadshante6836
    @zariadshante6836 3 роки тому

    One of my goals in 2021 is to be more consistent in many aspects of my life such as my Instagram, friends, my relationship, and self care.

  • @victoriapolito4653
    @victoriapolito4653 3 роки тому

    My goals for 2021 is to prioritize my mental health, save money & continue working out consistently! love you guys!!!

  • @AllieHarrington
    @AllieHarrington 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to start working out. Your workout videos have really inspired me to be more active and let loose sometimes. I tend to get so caught up with everyday life and work that I forget life is too short!!! Thanks for motivating me!

  • @shelbywalling2296
    @shelbywalling2296 3 роки тому

    GOOSE WAS SO RESPECTFUL😍😢he was like no I can’t get the treat until you say it’s okay...such a good dog

  • @l4eternal
    @l4eternal 3 роки тому +1

    Julia woke up and immediately judged and fixed your cooking set up 😊😂

  • @kealeerains2647
    @kealeerains2647 3 роки тому

    One of my 2021 goals is to be more confident in who I am and the path that I am on!

  • @loralei5481
    @loralei5481 3 роки тому

    My goals for 2021 is to stay financially stable and comfortable and not have to worry about paying bills on time. It’s been a rough year! Thank y’all for making me smile everyday of December :)

  • @dawnsellitti7968
    @dawnsellitti7968 3 роки тому

    I watch you guys daily. We all have the virus, at home 🙏 thankfully. Thanks for content, you guys rock.

  • @amandalewis2329
    @amandalewis2329 3 роки тому

    Goal for the new year: learn to love myself and my body, take care of my body, become an “athlete” like you guys ❣️

  • @micheladigesu7161
    @micheladigesu7161 3 роки тому

    my goal for 2021: to heal and focus on healing in every way, whether that be physical, mental and/or emotional... 2021 will be the year of recovering and healing! Love you guys!

  • @oliviaredmann5803
    @oliviaredmann5803 3 роки тому

    one of my biggest goals for 2021 is to be more sustainable in all aspects! using less single use plastic, switching to washable/reusable makeup cotton pads, metal straws, reusable cups, etc!

  • @billthebostongent
    @billthebostongent 3 роки тому

    My goals for the upcoming year is to finish my Bachelors Degree and also just have a more positive attitude and outlook on life🙏🏽If your reading this, your blessed to still be here♥️

  • @NickSavannah
    @NickSavannah 3 роки тому

    An important goal for 2021 for me would be to set more goals for myself including being more active & taking care of my body!

  • @chloewallace4040
    @chloewallace4040 3 роки тому

    goal for 2021: being more positive towards myself. acknowledging all that I have and are able to do! I have been watching y’all for what seems like forever now and it makes me so happy to see you guys grow on UA-cam! You deserve it🖤

  • @kristengraf7900
    @kristengraf7900 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to spend more time outside (hiking, biking, walking, swimming) etc. COVID has made me realize how refreshing being outside is.

  • @monikadimarzo
    @monikadimarzo 3 роки тому

    My goal for 2021 - continue my fitness journey and to stay consistent in the gym as it makes me feel the best physically and mentally! Also to not sweat the small stuff and always remain grateful! ✨

  • @mckenziebradley4802
    @mckenziebradley4802 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is to really love myself and to stop doubting myself and realizing my potential.

  • @JessieFritz
    @JessieFritz 3 роки тому

    One of my goals for 2021 is finding (some) balance. I started working for myself at the end of this year and I’m really struggling with overwhelm so focusing on some balance will be helpful 😁