"It's about teasing people into believing that you still have that much hope left for something life changing." he seems so fucking sad. it breaks my heart.
yeah, i can listen to him for hours...he's a deep and intelligent guy...a model in life for me i can say i wish all of us would find a person like ville is...
This is the song that can rip my heart out, and now I know why, after watching this video. He smiles, as he reveals to us how he's been hurt...that's how you know that song was real. People who hurt, smile to cover. Love the song and the artist.
Stunning song. The meaning really hits home. Its not only girls who play games (as ville says) but guys also play games too. From my experience, this has happened to me too many times. Such a Beautiful bitter song. Written by a beautiful human being x
Such a poet, a very deep soul with the incredible ability to say exactly how not just he, but many of us, feel or have felt. Recently got back into HIM and every song just sends chills through me. He is one of a kind 🖤
It looks like Ville held on to this song for quite a while and after hearing this it makes sense to me why I instantly connected to it and not to the other new songs. My heart did the picking and it came just as natural as breathing because this is the Ville I fell in love with... The lyrics, the melody and all the emotions felt like pouring from my own heart. While listening to it for the very first time I felt like Ville gave my heart a voice...
I whish for you better times to come soon. At the moment Ville sings to me "for you" , the version from uneasy listening, as lullaby every evening......so sweet...
I heard this song for the first time in the accoustic version....and I couldn´t help it, I just started to cry, because I felt his pain through his words. I love him, his songs are like mirrors of my soul. I hope, he will find the love he is searchin for, because he deserves it!
I’ve always been captured by sincerity, deep and honesty of VV emotions he’s so capable to share and exchange in such a natural human way. Lovely and so rare! 🌹
To so many girls out there, Ville is their image of an ideal man. It's hard to understand how he, being so open as he is, still has troubles finding something true. How much hope does that leave the rest of us? .. Anyways, Disarm Me is one of my favorite songs of his.
Because they fetished him and they don't know him completely... So when they grasp his intentions the illusions that they made for themselves are long gone and they can see that he is a human being not a doll that they worshipped
@@HoudaOussous Smart answer that applies to the majority of its admirers. But I doubt that this also hold true to women who know all sides of his personality because they lived with him.
@Jacques De Molay HaHa it's funny, isn't it? Most of them want him now that he's up on a stage, in front of a camera... when he was a "regular bum" like anyone of us they judged him and dumped him... People in general sicken me... everyday is a new disappointment when it comes to people... very very few people that are worth a damn
Think we all can relate to this song. For Ville to express what he,s has gone through makes me love him more. To talk openly and honestly is truly amazing. He has feelings too. I absolutely love the lyrics to this song. Thank you Ville Valo and HIM for producing something so deep and real. 🖤🖤
perfection in my eyes,in music is to reach the point you can write while feelling the sound of the word,then singed in the way that the melody get into the ears touching the soul...to be able to put all emotions in a song and make a world see your soul...and then to find yourself between the the lines...he does that.Perfect.
oh man...I just cry over this video..Ville seems so sad:( . I think he definetly need some love. some real women who will stands up for him everytime , everywhere no matter what.a woman who will return his faith for love.woman who will love him for what he is for his beaufiful personality..he deserve the whole love of this world. I really hope he will find love he is writting about in his songs .. Ville we all love the way you are...
I love him and this band more than my life. Some of the greatest, yet most painful memories connect me to them. Truly great artists, poets and musicians.
I liked the goth rock love metal the best of all the styles. I like some of the songs from this album and tears on tape, but I miss hearing some of the older stuff from 2001-2007. But must say even as H.I.M has been experimenting with different styles they still seem to come up with a song that I really like
saw them in birmingham on the 19th of match omg amazing and this song gave me so many butterflys when they performed it. the whole crowd just went silent. LOVE HIM!
Once he said, he can bring out his feelings only in songs. Perhaps his girls don´t listen to his songs, or he sings them, when it´s too late.... And the hope for the rest of us? puuuuh.....what a question.....do you know this feeling, when you´re in the middle of a crowd of people and feeling lonesome as the only human on earth?
i was reading the most liked comments and the first one i see from Severusshe reminds me of how i felt about the song for sum reason i took a liking to this song a bit more than the others and theres just sumthing magical about the lyrics the melody and his voice all put together =)
I bet that when this guy was just a "regular nobody" trying to find his voice and trying to find his form of expression, people called him all kinds of names, crazy comes to mind, and girls leaving him for "not being focused" or whatever crap people say. Now that he's big time and is up on a stage everybody wants to be his friend. Must be a very brutal process going through that and realizing most people are not worth a damn. Nobody helps you to get where you need to go, well very very few do, but everybody loves to be around the end result. Society and people in general sicken me to the bone.
@hispoisongirl36 you don't sound rediculous hun i think you know how i feel about this man too :) he has the most amazing way with words..the way he explains his thoughts and feelings gives me chills and just inspires me so much...he is incredible..
@mirona4288 I ABSOLUTELY love these lyrics at the end.. it's that part in the song that is so RAW and Gut wrenching Emotion.. GOD.. Thinking about it just makes my skin tingle...
Who are these women he's talking about and when can I give them a good shake for an opportunity missed? Of course, I'm not blind to the fact that to play love's game takes two, and it makes me wonder who Ville truly is to have such fun and misfortunes, likewise, but it seems to me that I'm one of those who love so faithfully and blindly that I'd be the one getting hurt all the time. I don't understand relationships these days. The song touches me but I still can't relate.
I can only imagine how many people (not just women) judged him and called him "too crazy", but now that he's up on a stage, in front of a camera, these people worship him and want to get close... Everybody wants to be close to the final end product but very very few are there to the slow building process. People sicken me.
@Severusshe I think he holds on to all his songs, i remember reading something about the song Passion's Killing Floor saying he wrote the song in the 80's or early 90's
This is the first time I listen to this since me and my ex broke it off whom I already bought a ring for and she completely stab me in the back, she tried very poorly to get me thrown in prison, I just realized it's mainly the woman's point of view in the chorus, at least for me it is I always look like a lost puppy hence I was very disarming to her and they made her feel less empty, I also feel like "tell me how you love me with all of your heart no" is heard during all the breakups more telling me to Let Her Go basically, and I broke all the rules being the one-sided party, and then the bit at the end tell me how much it hurts my love and tell me how my kiss can change your world that's just her gloating over leaving me hanging, bragging about how much control she has over me or did I should say I dunno...
I mean he says it's about past girls and what not, but than at almost the 3 minute mark he starts getting a little chocked up and says it's about "people pulling the carpet from under you" so maybe the Bam video has a little truth to it
What happened with bam? Tbh I've lost track over the years of that guy after Ryan passed he just changed and I use to be a big fan but idk his changed a lot I sorta don't like it
Bam put up a video a couple months ago saying that this song was about him, Ville and Bam apparently haven't talked to each other for years and after Ryan died Bam got really depressed obviously and I guess finally came to the realization that he's destroyed a lot more than what he's built in friendships over the years, He put up a second video stating that he's finally ready to admit that he was wrong and ready to go on with his life and hopefully recoup a friendship with Ville and get back to skateboarding and being more productive again. I've always been a fan of Bam and it's sad to see someone who for years you think has it all, actually doesn't.
Nice song's and nice voice Ville, but what's rong with your eyes? You are looking every where for love but in rong places. '' Loveing me with all your heart no more! '' Nice, as i sad wash your eyes with lot of soap believe me you can see much more.
Bams email has 3 sevens, and the song says turning 3 sevens into three sixes, and not long before the song was made Ville asked bam for adderal so bam got him some and ville started having an athsma attack, look up letter to ville valo, its a letter to ville valo from bam being read out by one of bams friends on video, there is two parts of the video
This isn't true, Ville has confirmed it is not about Bam. Bam is just a paranoid obsessed idiot. Ville has talked about 666 and 777 for years. He likes the symbolism of the numbers.
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"It's about teasing people into believing that you still have that much hope left for something life changing."
he seems so fucking sad. it breaks my heart.
He isn't wrong, though.
yeah, i can listen to him for hours...he's a deep and intelligent guy...a model in life for me i can say
i wish all of us would find a person like ville is...
This is one of the saddest interviews of Ville's that I've seen. Damn.
This is the song that can rip my heart out, and now I know why, after watching this video. He smiles, as he reveals to us how he's been hurt...that's how you know that song was real. People who hurt, smile to cover. Love the song and the artist.
Stunning song. The meaning really hits home. Its not only girls who play games (as ville says) but guys also play games too. From my experience, this has happened to me too many times. Such a Beautiful bitter song. Written by a beautiful human being x
I always pass out when he smiles. Took me forever to watch this entire video.
This man is a fucking ARTIST. We need more people, like Ville, to be recognized in the music industry.
"you can waltz to it.." god if only :') Ville will always be the love of my life, and his perfection on the phisical ground has nothing to do with it.
Such a poet, a very deep soul with the incredible ability to say exactly how not just he, but many of us, feel or have felt. Recently got back into HIM and every song just sends chills through me. He is one of a kind 🖤
Now I understand why this song as painful vocals.....♥
It breaks my heart just to think his throat might hurt, imagine how i feel about his heart...
What's worse is when you know exactly what he's going through when he talks about it. It's just horribly uncanny.
It looks like Ville held on to this song for quite a while and after hearing this it makes sense to me why I instantly connected to it and not to the other new songs.
My heart did the picking and it came just as natural as breathing because this is the Ville I fell in love with...
The lyrics, the melody and all the emotions felt like pouring from my own heart. While listening to it for the very first time I felt like Ville gave my heart a voice...
What an incredible human being
He's so beautiful... inside and out ;)
I whish for you better times to come soon.
At the moment Ville sings to me "for you" , the version from uneasy listening, as lullaby every evening......so sweet...
his words are so beautiful...
I heard this song for the first time in the accoustic version....and I couldn´t help it, I just started to cry, because I felt his pain through his words. I love him, his songs are like mirrors of my soul. I hope, he will find the love he is searchin for, because he deserves it!
I’ve always been captured by sincerity, deep and honesty of VV emotions he’s so capable to share and exchange in such a natural human way. Lovely and so rare! 🌹
This is in my Top 3 HIM songs. It's also the best power ballade I've ever heard
To so many girls out there, Ville is their image of an ideal man. It's hard to understand how he, being so open as he is, still has troubles finding something true. How much hope does that leave the rest of us? .. Anyways, Disarm Me is one of my favorite songs of his.
Because they fetished him and they don't know him completely... So when they grasp his intentions the illusions that they made for themselves are long gone and they can see that he is a human being not a doll that they worshipped
I guess he has been cursed, there's no explication for it!
But I'll heal his heart, he just needs to know me...👍
😂😂😂😂
The answer? He’s a scorpio.
@@HoudaOussous Smart answer that applies to the majority of its admirers. But I doubt that this also hold true to women who know all sides of his personality because they lived with him.
@Jacques De Molay HaHa it's funny, isn't it? Most of them want him now that he's up on a stage, in front of a camera... when he was a "regular bum" like anyone of us they judged him and dumped him... People in general sicken me... everyday is a new disappointment when it comes to people... very very few people that are worth a damn
Awh who the hell would lie to him about loving him. I love him and I just get to see him sing and watch his videos!!!!
this song is definitely for broken hearts I have had my share in the worst way but only love can break a heart and only love can mend it too.
Damn look at them titties ( . Y . )👀
Think we all can relate to this song. For Ville to express what he,s has gone through makes me love him more. To talk openly and honestly is truly amazing. He has feelings too. I absolutely love the lyrics to this song. Thank you Ville Valo and HIM for producing something so deep and real. 🖤🖤
perfection in my eyes,in music is to reach the point you can write while feelling the sound of the word,then singed in the way that the melody get into the ears touching the soul...to be able to put all emotions in a song and make a world see your soul...and then to find yourself between the the lines...he does that.Perfect.
oh man...I just cry over this video..Ville seems so sad:( . I think he definetly need some love. some real women who will stands up for him everytime , everywhere no matter what.a woman who will return his faith for love.woman who will love him for what he is for his beaufiful personality..he deserve the whole love of this world. I really hope he will find love he is writting about in his songs .. Ville we all love the way you are...
Ville is love
And love is Ville ♡♡
One of my fav songs by him
he's so sweet :) long live...his infernal majesty :X
I love him and this band more than my life. Some of the greatest, yet most painful memories connect me to them. Truly great artists, poets and musicians.
You can see how much he loves this song🥺
Everytime I watch this damned video I cry. I feel so bad for him and it makes me angry. And this song is so good. Damn, there I go, tears.
I liked the goth rock love metal the best of all the styles. I like some of the songs from this album and tears on tape, but I miss hearing some of the older stuff from 2001-2007. But must say even as H.I.M has been experimenting with different styles they still seem to come up with a song that I really like
what a cool fucking dude. mad respect
saw them in birmingham on the 19th of match omg amazing and this song gave me so many butterflys when they performed it. the whole crowd just went silent. LOVE HIM!
Once he said, he can bring out his feelings only in songs. Perhaps his girls don´t listen to his songs, or he sings them, when it´s too late....
And the hope for the rest of us? puuuuh.....what a question.....do you know this feeling, when you´re in the middle of a crowd of people and feeling lonesome as the only human on earth?
i was reading the most liked comments and the first one i see from Severusshe reminds me of how i felt about the song
for sum reason i took a liking to this song a bit more than the others and theres just sumthing magical about the lyrics the melody and his voice all put together =)
Boys play games too Ville!
2018 ♥️
This song is the most beautiful thing I ever heard!
I'm a huge fan of ballads and this was a well executed piece. Sick ass ballad to blow your brains out to.
I bet that when this guy was just a "regular nobody" trying to find his voice and trying to find his form of expression, people called him all kinds of names, crazy comes to mind, and girls leaving him for "not being focused" or whatever crap people say. Now that he's big time and is up on a stage everybody wants to be his friend. Must be a very brutal process going through that and realizing most people are not worth a damn. Nobody helps you to get where you need to go, well very very few do, but everybody loves to be around the end result. Society and people in general sicken me to the bone.
beautiful.
This one is my favorite from the Screamworks album.
@hispoisongirl36 you don't sound rediculous hun i think you know how i feel about this man too :)
he has the most amazing way with words..the way he explains his thoughts and feelings gives me chills and just inspires me so much...he is incredible..
Your not alone ville, I too have had past flames play those games with me..
@mirona4288 I ABSOLUTELY love these lyrics at the end.. it's that part in the song that is so RAW and Gut wrenching Emotion.. GOD.. Thinking about it just makes my skin tingle...
I finally get it! and I love this man!
You're absolutely right :)
Who are these women he's talking about and when can I give them a good shake for an opportunity missed? Of course, I'm not blind to the fact that to play love's game takes two, and it makes me wonder who Ville truly is to have such fun and misfortunes, likewise, but it seems to me that I'm one of those who love so faithfully and blindly that I'd be the one getting hurt all the time. I don't understand relationships these days. The song touches me but I still can't relate.
I can only imagine how many people (not just women) judged him and called him "too crazy", but now that he's up on a stage, in front of a camera, these people worship him and want to get close... Everybody wants to be close to the final end product but very very few are there to the slow building process. People sicken me.
Ville seems pretty intoxicated in this video. Glad he's made it past this phase in his life. Heartbreak does that to the best of us!
I thought it was done drinking way before this I know this was around the time he quit smoking and was on to energy drinks
@Severusshe I think he holds on to all his songs, i remember reading something about the song Passion's Killing Floor saying he wrote the song in the 80's or early 90's
He looks tired. He's smiling a lot, though.
@rockmusicangel69 oh, well thank you for correcting me. could have sworn he said in an interview he started it like 20 years ago
Nice song;
this is awesome hearing him speak about each song...but where is Katherine Wheel???? cant seem to find it
@Severusshe he did, but an album is just like a movie. you have to have the right elements to make it work
Well, Ode to Solitude in Chains is my theme song at the moment. :)
I experienced the same thing... It's destructive
This just happened to me, a women brings up ur hopes and just like that leaves u lonely,
@versatildoom he started writing that one in 1997.
Who the fuck disliked this???
This is the first time I listen to this since me and my ex broke it off whom I already bought a ring for and she completely stab me in the back, she tried very poorly to get me thrown in prison, I just realized it's mainly the woman's point of view in the chorus, at least for me it is I always look like a lost puppy hence I was very disarming to her and they made her feel less empty, I also feel like "tell me how you love me with all of your heart no" is heard during all the breakups more telling me to Let Her Go basically, and I broke all the rules being the one-sided party, and then the bit at the end tell me how much it hurts my love and tell me how my kiss can change your world that's just her gloating over leaving me hanging, bragging about how much control she has over me or did I should say I dunno...
I couldn't understand what he said at the end :( but damn he's awsome!
He said: to reanimate the frozen mood distance
@hispoisongirl36 you don't sound rediculous hun i think you know how i feel about this man too :)
I can't understand what he says ! x_x
Goshh, i would give all my l o v e to You..🖤😉 Especialy so grown up now😉
I mean he says it's about past girls and what not, but than at almost the 3 minute mark he starts getting a little chocked up and says it's about "people pulling the carpet from under you" so maybe the Bam video has a little truth to it
What happened with bam? Tbh I've lost track over the years of that guy after Ryan passed he just changed and I use to be a big fan but idk his changed a lot I sorta don't like it
Bam put up a video a couple months ago saying that this song was about him, Ville and Bam apparently haven't talked to each other for years and after Ryan died Bam got really depressed obviously and I guess finally came to the realization that he's destroyed a lot more than what he's built in friendships over the years, He put up a second video stating that he's finally ready to admit that he was wrong and ready to go on with his life and hopefully recoup a friendship with Ville and get back to skateboarding and being more productive again. I've always been a fan of Bam and it's sad to see someone who for years you think has it all, actually doesn't.
@hispoisongirl36 u don't sound ridiculous at all.that;s just the fuckin tryth.VILLE IS PERFECT
@lenchan95 actually he doesnt look tired he looks high as fuck! haha everyone knows he's a huge pot smoker!
Nice song's and nice voice Ville, but what's rong with your eyes? You are looking every where for love but in rong places. '' Loveing me with all your heart no more! '' Nice, as i sad wash your eyes with lot of soap believe me you can see much more.
No one realizes this song is about Bam Margera
+Pierce The Sammii how do you know that it is about bam?
Bams email has 3 sevens, and the song says turning 3 sevens into three sixes, and not long before the song was made Ville asked bam for adderal so bam got him some and ville started having an athsma attack, look up letter to ville valo, its a letter to ville valo from bam being read out by one of bams friends on video, there is two parts of the video
This isn't true, Ville has confirmed it is not about Bam. Bam is just a paranoid obsessed idiot. Ville has talked about 666 and 777 for years. He likes the symbolism of the numbers.
No bam posted a UA-cam video called a open letter to ville valo when he was all drunk saying this is about him but its not