"And what makes it worse is... you would have loved me if you met me first" --- If You Met Me First | Eric Ethridge --- Official Audio : • Eric Ethridge - If You...
Great song. I wonder if it's how God feels. All of us too caught up in who we're holding on too. If we reached for God first, that love would be more than enough. Focusing on how things could have been distracts from what can be now. A real relationship with God. Press into God and God will press into you. Maybe in this place maybe in this time, if we love God first.
@V-Rex I know that's why I started with "I wonder..." I never said that's what the song was about. Only trying to look at things from deeper perspectives. You're right though it is just another love song.
Thank you! 😭😭 So needed a spiritual turn on that right now, I had been going through the comments, literally getting my heart battered with all these unrequited love stories strewn across. Now I'll go and pour that sadness into a prayer so god feels loved🌸🤭
Aaron I wish more people would read your comment. That was very well articulated and 100% accurate we need to focus on God and not the situation! He heals us!
Your timing is always the right one God, let YOUR will and not my will be done!! I lay down my life in your hands and I believe that when the timing is right, you'll show me the spouse I'm meant to marry! Meanwhile, I'll keep on glorifying you alone & finding ways to better honor you Lord, before we can come together as one entity to worship you with the praise that's only YOURS! 🙌❤️ "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
Dot dot curve I'm not religious, but what happens, happens for a reason. You'll meet someone some day who will make you thankful that every twist and turn in your fate brought you to them, including this.
We could never really have the one we love.. unfair but it's how life works. Im so jealous to its eating me up.. for 10 years i love someone but he could never love me back is what hurts 😔
It's also true time heals, so God Bless you! Funny thing is, she's the one who told me we must have known each other in a former life. She knew... I think this experience is for us to learn to truly love ourselves; to grow our faith; & to try to be the best we can be when we love again.
@@Mkhan-cw9rx That's kinda the thing I'm confused over, do I really want to get over that person or just take the leap and see what happens. What if in my head it seems impossible, but in reality if I speak up everything can change.
That moment when you bump into a stranger and you spend minutes together, even though it's a few seconds then both of you go on your own ways, but both of you are always looking back.
I remember when someone special from my past said like this song to me, "if you met me first, maybe you'll be by my side right now", it's so crazy you know I almost crying hear this song.. 😭
I've always build a wall around my Heart "" but felt it. Crumble when God made me fall in Love again "" I pray. that my Heart does not. Break again "" 💞
Never would I ever thought I'd write a comment about him. But, this song just reminds me of everything about him. Everything that could have happened... if only we tried. If only he met me first. Maybe in a different life... we'll work out.
You're the creator of your reality. All you need is to dare to take that one step and leap of faith towards the love of your life. There are people who make it work and same percentage who never try. It's always good to try until the end of time, rather regret loosing the love of your life.
Swear that in another life you will love me ever. But in this life I just always stand behind you, see your happiness, your sadness, you problems, your difficulty, your sucess. Im right here for you bae
This song is exactly what's happening in my life right now. There is this guy. We are both with someone and yet we look at each other like lovers do and he makes my heart skip a beat and he gets nervous and shy when I am around.
Came across this in my song suggestion whilst chatting to the one I wish had met me first! 😥 another lifetime I know we would have been together our circumstances now means we never will! Just cant bear to break 2 other hearts! 💔 heartbreaking I will always love you G and a place in my heart will always be yours! Until we get our other lifetime I will love you in silence xxx
Ours is different. We met. We meet. But I must say it’s very very difficult for us. We both work in aviation and scheds aren’t always on our side. This song really doesn’t picture us so well but I feel this everytime I miss him. I really miss you , babe and we will fight for our fate... this fate.
I met the love of my life but it just wasn't the right time. So I'll go through life thinking of how it could have been praying we get more than one love like that. Those who found the ones they were meant to find have no idea how truly lucky they are....
Even if you met him first he wouldn't have loved you...You and him are not meant to be together. He's a lesson, a part, a beautiful phase but still, no matter the circumstances or situations you two are not meant to be. Because if he were, even if he met you last he'd be yours.
lts hurts to love someone n not to be loved back but loving smone but never meant to be together is much more hurting. superb lyrics heart soothing n heart breaking song
UA-cam keep on recommending me this for weeks but I never open it s I was in no mood listening to a song which will made me sad as I judge it by the title.. And day before it recommend me again and this time I do open and listen and then I realised how good is this song. And now it's my current favorite song. Thank you UA-cam. And God bless the singer composer
@@Claymore1977 Yeah, there's no such thing as, FATE, just people who make bad decisions! Every one thinks that they'll fall in love, but how meny people ever get a chance at it? You only get one shot at life people; you are not special! Be humble and you'll be happy; take what little good you can get and you'll never regret a thing!
@@lowpull622 You have no idea what there's a such thing as. Nobody does. Could be fate, could be god, could be whatever. The rest of your post is sound advice though.
You guys, love is such a strange thing. Its painful, sweet, selfless, patient, kind and bittersweet, yet it will always be one thing; essential. We all need to love and to be loved. Have hope, like I am trying to. You will find that person for you!
Just as this recently, I had my first experience of breakup. I've never thought it would've affected me that much but it did. And I think this song depicts clearly how it slowly grew cold and then away we go. It's like all the emotions and good feelings like love, affections, trust, etc. just been stripped out of my soul.
If it's too late let it like this.In love we don't have first or last coz it may come at any time, at any moment .If we r positive , open minded person , beginnings in love always exists. 1 thing we need to remind is the real love or the fake love for power title n money.
I have fallen in love but it was always one sided. It hurts so much. But I do not think someone deserves someone like me or they'd ever feel the same way or I fear love. So I'll happily be in the crowd falling in love with a soul while their soul is happy with someone else.
Daaaaaamn.... I’m going tru a divorce and can’t even listen to this song because I know some else is is out there for me. Someone that’s going to make me happy.
Love trust and faithfulness will come the test its all in the package no matter who you are so if you goin thru like something like this...its a test for you and god wants to see how tough you are with his test😊
I didn't know that I was trying in vain. I didn't know that I was going to meet someone I could Express my love too,and I didn't know I would be listening to this song tonight with tears running my cheeks
It has been nine years and I still feel the same for you maybe in this life we didn't work but I'm hoping in the next life we do but you will always be the best memory that's ever happened to me every now and then when I think of you bring a smile to my face to you, Joseph Villa wherever you are 💔
Many people said the life depended on the fate. Sometimes, we can change our fates if we have strong enough to change from both. "If" you met me first that is reason.
My heart has been yurs from the moment i met yu. No one can help who they fall inlove with. My heart only beats for you. Yur so beautiful and amazing. Its unreal how much I love you and I appreciate everything you've done for me.
Well it's been 7 years I still check your Instagram everyday, 7 years since the last we said our goodbyes, but I still daydreaming you everyday, I thought we could be together through the rest of our lives but
Now I know Google is nosy AF I'm literally going through this exact same thing right now..... But its okay ☺️ I'm fine it hurts but I'll heal and I hope who ever is going through this too knows that they'll be okay
This touches me so much...I Feel everything....It hurts so much when you lose your mate...and you know it! Incredible that you can feel this much though music... Thank you so much! This song made my day! Ached my heart at how much I could hear it in your voice...hope you find happiness :) *shyly smiles*
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*_I will not regret UA-cam recommending this to me..._*
Agreed
True!! S♡ related
Any way, i am exceptional!😄😄
Same here
Me too
Tears rolled down, the lyric catches exactly what I'm going through....
Same 😩
Me too :'(
Me too. It is annoying
Me too
Same
Please God, don't make me meet and fall in love with someone who's not meant for me💔Amin
too late for me...
WeebArmy #47 Amin is actually the arabic/Islamic equivalent to Amen. Same meaning.
Amen!!!
Doing that right now. With the wrong woman and can’t get out of this hole that I’ve dug.
Amen, I have that thought prayer all the time. I don't know if its too late
Great song. I wonder if it's how God feels. All of us too caught up in who we're holding on too. If we reached for God first, that love would be more than enough. Focusing on how things could have been distracts from what can be now. A real relationship with God. Press into God and God will press into you. Maybe in this place maybe in this time, if we love God first.
Wow. That's really something.
@V-Rex I know that's why I started with "I wonder..." I never said that's what the song was about. Only trying to look at things from deeper perspectives. You're right though it is just another love song.
Thank you! 😭😭
So needed a spiritual turn on that right now, I had been going through the comments, literally getting my heart battered with all these unrequited love stories strewn across. Now I'll go and pour that sadness into a prayer so god feels loved🌸🤭
I need God now more than ever.
Aaron I wish more people would read your comment. That was very well articulated and 100% accurate we need to focus on God and not the situation! He heals us!
Reading through the comments... it Hurst to see a lot of people who's not with the person they love!!! It's just sad😢
maria etorma we're on the same side 😣
Me too. I love this really awesome woman but I am always too late
I'm one 😢
Love works in mysterious ways i guess..
Yes it is so sad 🙁
Your timing is always the right one God, let YOUR will and not my will be done!! I lay down my life in your hands and I believe that when the timing is right, you'll show me the spouse I'm meant to marry! Meanwhile, I'll keep on glorifying you alone & finding ways to better honor you Lord, before we can come together as one entity to worship you with the praise that's only YOURS! 🙌❤️
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart
and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6
Amen. 😊
I believe 💞
I’m actually glad that I met Him first.
Amen
Amen
I don't know. But this song is happening to me right now. I mean the title catches my eyes. Please God let me know. I'm so jealous as hell everytime 💔
Dot dot curve I'm not religious, but what happens, happens for a reason. You'll meet someone some day who will make you thankful that every twist and turn in your fate brought you to them, including this.
Same here.
We could never really have the one we love.. unfair but it's how life works. Im so jealous to its eating me up.. for 10 years i love someone but he could never love me back is what hurts 😔
Ur not alone. 😭. Happening to me same exact thing too.
I feel you bro..
The second hardest thing in the world to deal with is knowing you can't have the one you want. The first, was meeting them...😭
Yep that is why I know UA-cam wants to see me suffer. This video perfectly sums up my relationship with my crush/friend
D Austin you'll get over that person in time
It's also true time heals, so God Bless you! Funny thing is, she's the one who told me we must have known each other in a former life. She knew...
I think this experience is for us to learn to truly love ourselves; to grow our faith; & to try to be the best we can be when we love again.
@@Mkhan-cw9rx That's kinda the thing I'm confused over, do I really want to get over that person or just take the leap and see what happens. What if in my head it seems impossible, but in reality if I speak up everything can change.
D Austin first of all what's your age and hers , are you or her married to other ppl ?
That moment when you bump into a stranger and you spend minutes together, even though it's a few seconds then both of you go on your own ways, but both of you are always looking back.
Dear God please protect him. I dont need him to be mine. Just keep him safe please.
Oh gods...this hit me in the feels so hard right now. WTF do you do when you love someone else and you feel trapped where you are...
Try your best to move especially if that person doesn't feel anything back, it may take forever but it's to do to keep your self from getting hurt.
Wondering the same thing.. :(
Just go and stop wasting your time 🙈 go be with the One you love ❤️
You will regret it later if you don’t go after what your heart wants ... you can’t get back wasted time 😔
@@shytowngrlme5362
That's right!!! Love is by far more destructive than hate.... Never waste good love....
so damn relatable. loving someone from a distance when they have no idea about your feelings, arent even your friends, is too hard and painful.
Rewarding that he or she is your friend at least..
oh UA-cam recommendations WANTS TO MAKE ME CRY 😭 Oml this song hit me so hard.
Same here hhh
And it hits even harder if you are going through something like its in song 😭
Love how he's so certain she'd love him if she met him first
I remember when someone special from my past said like this song to me, "if you met me first, maybe you'll be by my side right now", it's so crazy you know I almost crying hear this song.. 😭
I've always build a wall around my Heart "" but felt it. Crumble when God made me fall in Love again "" I pray. that my Heart does not. Break again "" 💞
I'm already in tears then there's this song and I can't help to silently sing along .. surprises me that somehow I felt comfort 😥
Please jesus , protect him even his not meant for me . I still care !
hello
😭😭
kamusta ka?
Are you sure you really care about him
Did you want him back
it's happening to someone,,, but dey wud have worked out if she met him first.... dis song z so amazing
Never would I ever thought I'd write a comment about him. But, this song just reminds me of everything about him. Everything that could have happened... if only we tried. If only he met me first. Maybe in a different life... we'll work out.
You're the creator of your reality. All you need is to dare to take that one step and leap of faith towards the love of your life. There are people who make it work and same percentage who never try. It's always good to try until the end of time, rather regret loosing the love of your life.
Swear that in another life you will love me ever. But in this life I just always stand behind you, see your happiness, your sadness, you problems, your difficulty, your sucess. Im right here for you bae
Never let your past or a broken heart keep you from moving on.... leave the past behind... its not coming back.....
this reflects my situation and emotions so literally that I'm in tears
If you Love someone Truly, then the only thing you want for them is to be happy... even if it’s Not with you ...
This song is exactly what's happening in my life right now. There is this guy. We are both with someone and yet we look at each other like lovers do and he makes my heart skip a beat and he gets nervous and shy when I am around.
His voice is like heaven I saved it to my favorites within the first minute.
Im speechless. Just crying 😞
Came across this in my song suggestion whilst chatting to the one I wish had met me first! 😥 another lifetime I know we would have been together our circumstances now means we never will! Just cant bear to break 2 other hearts! 💔 heartbreaking I will always love you G and a place in my heart will always be yours! Until we get our other lifetime I will love you in silence xxx
I feel that
Thank you soo much for this song. It hit's a lot of bells and whistles for me.
Damn... My heart is crushed i can't breathe. Not really... Im so sad. Love this song.
Give yourself the time to heal! You deserve all the happiness in the world!
I haven’t found a song that genuinely makes me sad within the first 2 lines in forever. Beautiful.
Ours is different. We met. We meet. But I must say it’s very very difficult for us. We both work in aviation and scheds aren’t always on our side. This song really doesn’t picture us so well but I feel this everytime I miss him. I really miss you , babe and we will fight for our fate... this fate.
I met the love of my life but it just wasn't the right time. So I'll go through life thinking of how it could have been praying we get more than one love like that. Those who found the ones they were meant to find have no idea how truly lucky they are....
I don't even know why UA-cam recommended this song to me but it is good and brings up memories.
Even if you met him first he wouldn't have loved you...You and him are not meant to be together. He's a lesson, a part, a beautiful phase but still, no matter the circumstances or situations you two are not meant to be. Because if he were, even if he met you last he'd be yours.
The Light Of My Life- BTS i love what you said
@@yuukifurugaki Pain makes you understand a lot of things.
I believe in twin flames
Wow, this song is touching my heart so hard. Such situations really hurt.
Why is this song so true? I relate to it so much!! :’( It’s hard loving someone you can’t have.
I feel it so much😢
I wish i wake up one day in the morning that you're not the man who i love anymore . Forget you for good.
Every line is bulls eye 💔😭
lts hurts to love someone n not to be loved back but loving smone but never meant to be together is much more hurting. superb lyrics heart soothing n heart breaking song
I always wished to meet you again Jo! I would have loved you first before anyone else!
UA-cam keep on recommending me this for weeks but I never open it s I was in no mood listening to a song which will made me sad as I judge it by the title.. And day before it recommend me again and this time I do open and listen and then I realised how good is this song. And now it's my current favorite song. Thank you UA-cam. And God bless the singer composer
maybe that person was never meant for you and it's better this way for both of you.
or maybe it's not...who knows.
@@Claymore1977 Yeah, there's no such thing as, FATE, just people who make bad decisions!
Every one thinks that they'll fall in love, but how meny people ever get a chance at it?
You only get one shot at life people; you are not special!
Be humble and you'll be happy; take what little good you can get and you'll never regret a thing!
Starlight Moon gone as in passed away?
Starlight Moon you think you love him but when you find the one you will know you love him.
@@lowpull622 You have no idea what there's a such thing as. Nobody does. Could be fate, could be god, could be whatever. The rest of your post is sound advice though.
You guys, love is such a strange thing. Its painful, sweet, selfless, patient, kind and bittersweet, yet it will always be one thing; essential. We all need to love and to be loved. Have hope, like I am trying to. You will find that person for you!
UA-cam recommending me this is the best thing that happened today. I love the song.
Some of these pin point exactly what I was thinking and feeling lately
Just as this recently, I had my first experience of breakup. I've never thought it would've affected me that much but it did. And I think this song depicts clearly how it slowly grew cold and then away we go. It's like all the emotions and good feelings like love, affections, trust, etc. just been stripped out of my soul.
I feel that
It's bad
I have listened to this song a hundred times. This song is literally happening to me with my crush. It hurts so much.
This is my new favourite song! I'm in love with this song!
Eric Ethrich sings this beautiful song listen to the words beautiful
If it's too late let it like this.In love we don't have first or last coz it may come at any time, at any moment .If we r positive , open minded person , beginnings in love always exists.
1 thing we need to remind is the real love or the fake love for power title n money.
Omg this song relates so much to me right now... Been nearly 6yrs and yes he would have loved me first... Damn
Wooow! This was also in my recommendations and it hit me right in my feelings....now I can't stop listening.
I have fallen in love but it was always one sided. It hurts so much. But I do not think someone deserves someone like me or they'd ever feel the same way or I fear love. So I'll happily be in the crowd falling in love with a soul while their soul is happy with someone else.
Same here..
I wonder why it's always like that, you love someone but they don't love you the same
I feel you buddy.. I feel emotional hearing this song
Same
If it were not meant to be, dont feel sad. Someone better out there for you.
Das Wunder der Liebe ist immer da.🥰😊😘
I hope will meet soon 😉 praying for the right man to be part of my life forever 😍
Daaaaaamn.... I’m going tru a divorce and can’t even listen to this song because I know some else is is out there for me. Someone that’s going to make me happy.
Thank you UA-cam.. lately you rcommend me so many good musics
Love trust and faithfulness will come the test its all in the package no matter who you are so if you goin thru like something like this...its a test for you and god wants to see how tough you are with his test😊
This song reminds me of someone. I am glad I am not hurting anymore. Because now I can see the beauty of such a connection.
This song describes what I'm feeling right now. It hurts so bad. Huhu. I'm hopeless.
I didn't know that I was trying in vain. I didn't know that I was going to meet someone I could Express my love too,and I didn't know I would be listening to this song tonight with tears running my cheeks
Wow this song hits you in the feels for sure😯💖
suprised how song can put up tears in your eyes so easily...
It has been nine years and I still feel the same for you maybe in this life we didn't work but I'm hoping in the next life we do but you will always be the best memory that's ever happened to me every now and then when I think of you bring a smile to my face to you, Joseph Villa wherever you are 💔
Beautiful song! Thank you for sharing!
It breaks my heart💔💔💔 and tears rolled 😢😭while listening to this ❤❤❤
Wow...! Love this song. 💘❤
Beautiful song ❤❤
omg your voice sound so great i like the most😍😍🤗🤗👌👌
In a different place and time ..
Maybe in another life ~ ... 💘
The words of this song are so emotional & beautiful 🌟
This song touch the core of my heart. My heart is shattered into pieces 💔😭😢
This song hits something in me. And it hurts to know that i can never have whom i truly love.
Eric Ethridge's song. Nice ❤️
I can't believe i haven't heard this song till now !!! This amaziiingggg
Omg this is on point to a t. He is described my situation perfectly
So very true and well written... Thnks UA-cam for recommending... Listening for the first time.. This is about me 😊
It do hurts
When you love somebody with all your heart
And they don't even know💔💔💔
Beautiful song
I love his voice and his words. His words are heart tearing and his voice makes me wanna cry
Beautiful song! Amazing lyrics!👍♥️
This is one of my favorites song.
And the lyrics touched me SOOOOOO much. 😢💓👊💥
Many people said the life depended on the fate. Sometimes, we can change our fates if we have strong enough to change from both.
"If" you met me first that is reason.
My heart has been yurs from the moment i met yu. No one can help who they fall inlove with. My heart only beats for you. Yur so beautiful and amazing. Its unreal how much I love you and I appreciate everything you've done for me.
It's a beautifully written song our naive heart wouldn't want to know the truth
What a great song. Hits deep.
Well it's been 7 years I still check your Instagram everyday, 7 years since the last we said our goodbyes, but I still daydreaming you everyday, I thought we could be together through the rest of our lives but
Dian Novita just say it now dude.
If it's meant to be it will be if not you can finally move on
@@hellbringer1478 hm I always try but.. Maybe I didn't try hard enough ╮(╯3╰)╭
@@me_diannovita if you really want someone whole universe conspire you to get to that person. So don't loose hope give a very hard try
@@me_diannovita I can recommend you to a powerful man who help me bring back my ex not less than 24 hours
@@me_diannovita just text him on whatsapp
is there a movie with this as a theme song? if none, whyyyyy?!??! this is just so beautiful for a movie theme song😭😭😭😍😍
In a different place and time
Maybe in another life
I'll bet that baby you and I would have worked....
😔 😢 💔
I would have been youre Peter Pan💋
@tinker bell it does resonate with me
In a different life, where we are both cats...
@@ryanpalmer6316 😂
Now I know Google is nosy AF I'm literally going through this exact same thing right now..... But its okay ☺️ I'm fine it hurts but I'll heal and I hope who ever is going through this too knows that they'll be okay
Mwape Chanda thanks man...
Love it. Sounds like my story.
I can't even count all the times i thought about the line i'd never cross, but i've crossed that line in my head...💖
I always wonder, what would it feel like to be loved by you? You being single, not taken and inlove with somebody else.. 💔
Hilangkan rasa mengeluh lelah atau pun suudzonagar kita bs empaty, dgn sgl keluhan yg mengakibat kan kita akn sll ragu
If history was rewritten with me instead of unfulfilled mystery and drama.
This touches me so much...I Feel everything....It hurts so much when you lose your mate...and you know it! Incredible that you can feel this much though music... Thank you so much! This song made my day! Ached my heart at how much I could hear it in your voice...hope you find happiness :) *shyly smiles*
Why is this so perfect for that love triangle feels?
Thank you for this song. Thank you.💙🙏
As soon as i hear this song.. Wow! I love it..😍It reminds me of my first love.but than it makes me to tears😢..its a really beautiful song..