ALWAYS Expect WOMEN to have BACKUP OPTIONS when you're dating (she hides this from you)

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  Місяць тому +6

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  • @LegalLatinoHeat
    @LegalLatinoHeat Місяць тому +175

    If she walks away that's because there's another bull in the ring. Let her go and don't chase. If she comes back that's when the other bull left her.

    • @Bassoarno
      @Bassoarno Місяць тому +34

      There's always an other bull, even if the relationship is going great. But they're sleeping bulls, women keep feeding them once in a while (through social media pictures, girl night, co-worker...) , and will wake them up if the relationship fails.

    • @jflores85
      @jflores85 Місяць тому +9

      Then walk away again

    • @Clicksystems
      @Clicksystems Місяць тому +17

      @@Bassoarnoagree with this.
      Woman has barely spoken to me in months, aside from odd message here and there. She has a boyfriend.
      In the last week she’s been randomly messaging me and started sending me selfies of herself. One day messaged me at 6am just to say about the weather outside.

    • @G.sh0ts
      @G.sh0ts Місяць тому

      Only use her for recreational purposes only if you let her come back

    • @silvermine2033
      @silvermine2033 Місяць тому +14

      Never take her back if she walks away!

  • @julianterris
    @julianterris Місяць тому +53

    "Oftentimes, the deeper you get emotionally invested, the worse the outcome becomes..."

    • @MasculinityR
      @MasculinityR Місяць тому

      The deepest part of this video 🤝🏽

  • @thatguybill34
    @thatguybill34 Місяць тому +49

    *As long as you have OPTIONS, it shouldn't matter. Remember its just YOUR TURN Gents.*

  • @mattacosta4802
    @mattacosta4802 Місяць тому +52

    So... you can't TRUST them. Therefore you can never LOVE them. And that's how we create the broken home cycle on repeat. 💯

    • @thevoid5503
      @thevoid5503 Місяць тому +5

      It is what it is. It's what women want so just have the fun and then go.

    • @user-ni6ni4pk5r
      @user-ni6ni4pk5r Місяць тому +6

      Sadly , we can never love them purely

    • @jupiter7627
      @jupiter7627 Місяць тому +5

      Especially since social media came into the picture. And indeed, it is what it is. They also used to be fickle back in the day, but then there was more social cohesion and shame. There is no shame anymore, especially in the women's world.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      ​@@jupiter7627You understand this. You get what going on.

    • @ollieewin4757
      @ollieewin4757 18 днів тому

      I do love the self aware women. Women aware of their nature, love might be a strong word, appreciate them for what they are, the ones that aren’t self aware are often annoying. I was shocked when I realised what they really though, felt like a fool putting a being that responds to who you are on a pedestal, suddenly made no sense. They can bring a lot of wisdom and inspiration though, doesn’t always appear logical on the surface though

  • @starzgalaxy17
    @starzgalaxy17 Місяць тому +137

    They have backups because they can't be alone, men can be alone for years, honestly it shows how shallow and insecure women are

    • @zaynyt3420
      @zaynyt3420 Місяць тому +30

      its not insecure. Since the dawn of times they always needed men for protection, provisioning and stability. they are not meant to love you. They are here to secure the best option possible. The thing is Hypergamy is always ON meaning u cant escape this reality. Don't hate women for this. Just understand this is female nature and ur a man and its ur time to perform. Not everyone is going to be a winner in life. Accept the reality. Don't be bitter, even if it makes u uncomfortable. Learn that u should invest as much as possible in yourself

    • @jeffreyexposito3803
      @jeffreyexposito3803 Місяць тому +9

      She's not yours. It's just your turn basically.

    • @julianterris
      @julianterris Місяць тому +4

      Men and women both perceive each other as "shallow" because we're not even playing the same game.

    • @discorabbit
      @discorabbit Місяць тому +8

      @@zaynyt3420 you’re correct, but they are very insecure in addition to being hypergamous.

    • @eskanda3434
      @eskanda3434 Місяць тому

      @@discorabbitits not about being insecure they are weaker sex they need men for protection and security

  • @anthonyvasquezactor
    @anthonyvasquezactor Місяць тому +90

    A woman ALWAYS has endless options! And that's a good thing! It means you don't have to commit to her. You can still have fun with her and enjoy your freedom.

    • @vanessac1965
      @vanessac1965 Місяць тому +9

      Gross

    • @Pellegrino1
      @Pellegrino1 Місяць тому +20

      ​@@vanessac1965men have to adapt to modern woman 😪

    • @ValourFlame
      @ValourFlame Місяць тому

      But it's not gross that u women have back up options ?​@@vanessac1965

    • @user-xz1wy4to4o
      @user-xz1wy4to4o Місяць тому +8

      @@Pellegrino1 i don’t think it’s modern, i think it’s moreso a reversion back to their more primitive nature now that they are less bound to societal ideals due to the fall of religion and conservatism and the rise of more liberal ideals.

    • @addiyolla3611
      @addiyolla3611 Місяць тому

      @@user-xz1wy4to4o 100%

  • @zackoroworks
    @zackoroworks Місяць тому +41

    They will call you their 'soulmate' and say they still love you all while playing you like a fiddle to get her 'main' guy back. Finally putting the puzzle together is the most painful sh. Sometimes you realize even though you knew her for 2 or 3 years the other guy had always been there hiding in plain sight.

    • @rhuiden4086
      @rhuiden4086 Місяць тому

      Most of these harlots are naturally 304s. The only thing they truly cherish would be their offspring.

    • @Gdhdjejgfsbh
      @Gdhdjejgfsbh Місяць тому

      That's why I don't believe in bullshit concepts like soulmate . Bla bla bla . Seeing the world with my raw vision and intellect it makes sense how we have been designed by nature . I feel disgusted .

    • @mura0
      @mura0 Місяць тому +4

      this notion of "we know each other for 3 years" means absolutely nothing. For them is like 3 minutes.

  • @jeffreyexposito3803
    @jeffreyexposito3803 Місяць тому +22

    The moral of the story is that women are terrified of being alone . She will always have a secret stash of men in the background as backups even while you are the guy shes most interested in. Thats just a bitter pill you must swallow in the dating world.

    • @mura0
      @mura0 Місяць тому +3

      this is changing quickly. I have met lots of chicks who are ok with being alone(not wanting relationship). They have good jobs and the seed of feminism helps them with that. What they have usually is a couple of fuck buddies and that's all. The ones that are terrified of being alone usually are the ones is a bad financial situation so they look desperately for the guy who will stabilize them.

    • @user-uc7qb1su4e
      @user-uc7qb1su4e Місяць тому +3

      @@mura0have f buddies isn’t being alone lmfao, that’s called stringing multiple people along

    • @mura0
      @mura0 Місяць тому

      @@user-uc7qb1su4e I was very clear with being alone as not being in a relationship.

    • @jeffreyexposito3803
      @jeffreyexposito3803 7 днів тому

      ​@@mura0These types of career oriented women are never alone. They may appear alone but they usually have a FWB guy sometimes an ex who is blowing her back every so often.

  • @thomasfontaine3002
    @thomasfontaine3002 Місяць тому +17

    Who cares about them. Just love your life

    • @Adrian101882
      @Adrian101882 Місяць тому +6

      This is the answer. If you need a woman to love your own life, you’ve already failed.

  • @KGBPov
    @KGBPov Місяць тому +19

    "A woman will destroy an entire empire cause shes bored"

  • @nohate9692
    @nohate9692 Місяць тому +25

    I like this Dude..He's a true coach ..he teaches fundamentals & technique at the highest level..He's the Cus D'Amato of the game

  • @mojoe6396
    @mojoe6396 Місяць тому +14

    that why men should have backup options too. Fair play.

  • @giovannipantorno884
    @giovannipantorno884 Місяць тому +51

    And most men dont have a single option. I know handsome guys out there and aint had a girl in years. Outrageous

    • @davidkovachi2827
      @davidkovachi2827 Місяць тому +8

      Those men may be handsome to you but woman see men differently. I am not the best looking guy but you would not believe the beautiful woman I have been with. Dont have a lot of money either. Dont have a nice car.

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson Місяць тому

      @@davidkovachi2827so what’s your MO

    • @bullshido2614
      @bullshido2614 Місяць тому

      ​@@davidkovachi2827 word brother, I am close to 50 now, I went over 150 bodycount, from models, to literal blueblood's, I only avoided married women, unless I found after the sex, in which case I ran for the hills.. I hooked up with most of "unattainable ones" during periods when I was broke/totally penniless/even homeless, I rebuilt my life 4 times so far - this is 5th ... recovered from illness recently...
      each time everything went to shit due to external factors out of my control, till I settled down when I got about 30 ... Life happened ... I was making good money again, and then I got really kicked in the balls over and over (by life not by my woman) .... eventually it was too much, I lost too many loved ones, had health issues, and she left me when I was at the lowest point in my life (lost whole family basically and 5 closest friends died tragically in a short timespan)- I wasn't there with them in the accident only because I've gone soft and committed to her completely, I let her run the show, and the more I commited (and had really bad luck with work and health) the worse our relationship went till she left me at my lowest.
      Our kids are with her, she got into affair after years of being alone, since I am back, she's into me again, I am okay with coparenting with her, our kids are ... well our kids!
      I would never get back with her, even tho we have great relationship, we do have sex occasionally, but I am focusing on myself, so I can be best father to my kids, ofc I will always support her, unless she marries somene else ... then it's up to the new guy, meanwhile I am enjoying life, I travel, I sex0r 20-35 year olds, spend quality time with my kids and even with my ex wife - "the love of my life" (my ass).
      If you want successful monogamous relationship (which doesn't mean you can't fuck other chicks, as long as she a) never founds out or lacks for anything ... and I mean emotionally rather than material - you're good, or b) if she's okay with it, and knows that you are fully committed "her" man .... as long as she does her part) never stop working on relationship, but don't just give and give - do not reward bad behaviour, do be a gentleman and a bad boy at the same time, fuck her good, and make her aware that you are ready to walk out the doors/kick her out the moment she disrespects you, be gentle, but be a man, be firm, don't get into fights, force her to talk, never stop flirting with her/ or keeping the romance alive, a romantic gesture at the right time can wok wonders - as long as she is committed, if you do it right, the other man will be invisible for her. I]if she gets flaky - turn to teasing/humor and force her to open up, and work on it, long term functional relationship requires work on both sides. If she isn't willing to put the work in-- kick her to the curb and move on.
      IMPORTANT: TIME SPENT APART IS GOOD FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS, try to bring a bit of mystery/surprises into the relationship, be a leader, not a follower. By all means make her happy by giving her what she needs - which is very different from what she SAYS she needs...
      In bed -make her crazy and talk about it, don't be a guy who learns about sex from porn, learn how to please the women - foreplay is actually the main course, from my experience, rare are the gals that like pounding for 3 hours.... become a master of pussy eating and finger play... know her body from hair to toes and what turns her on.
      Be a man.

    • @MasculinityR
      @MasculinityR Місяць тому

      ​@@jeansollot6419"No matter the success, always stay a student"

    • @COSkywatch
      @COSkywatch Місяць тому

      @@davidkovachi2827 Women are attracted to how you make them feel. Looks is just a door in.

  • @ebenezerquartey188
    @ebenezerquartey188 Місяць тому +40

    Not all of them. Some make it clear knowingly and unknowingly. Let them talk long enough and they will expose the truth.

    • @maahnu2313
      @maahnu2313 Місяць тому +4

      Most

    • @FirstName-qr2ke
      @FirstName-qr2ke Місяць тому +7

      they never tell the truth haha

    • @shadeedholmes
      @shadeedholmes Місяць тому +8

      @@FirstName-qr2ke naw do if you pay attention

    • @airsoftdude36
      @airsoftdude36 Місяць тому +1

      @@FirstName-qr2keYeah they do. Don’t judge a woman just sit back and listen and they’ll tell you everything

  • @wtning10
    @wtning10 Місяць тому +27

    "Men are in love, women are in business." This is so true, I don't think it's a generational thing.
    Casey is right, it is mother nature. Even in 60s 70s, women willing stick to one man are out of necessity, due to lack of job opportunities. So it's purely based on survival. Love, loyalty are fictional. Loyalty runs out as soon as the benefits stop. We are animals after all. It's not anyone's fault, not men, not women, it's just God's doing.

    • @addiyolla3611
      @addiyolla3611 Місяць тому +2

      100%

    • @Gescobar009
      @Gescobar009 Місяць тому +1

      So true. Well said. I've never blamed anyone. I've just bowed my knee to the one doing all this. Always respected the rules that Mother Nature has set forth

    • @_itshadee
      @_itshadee Місяць тому +1

      Yes we all animal trying to paint ourself angel or someone more special than all that God made... Animals mate when the season are called and move on but Man re-write their own script which is where the issue sterm from

  • @BlackSmith304
    @BlackSmith304 Місяць тому +5

    Perfect tie in topic: Explain how women will go on other dates with these backup options, and then return to you with more effort and enthusiasm, due to realizing that you're the best option after comparing. Backup options actually make you look better if you're the more attractive, charismatic, masculine and better sexual option. Comparison boosts you up when you're the better man.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      True, but are you OK with her sleeping with other guys? Then wanting to slither into your bed like the snake she is to give you an STD? Body-counts gross me out. I wouldn't want her back.

  • @nerozero_
    @nerozero_ Місяць тому +9

    In my humble opinion, nowadays, in their 20s, they are optimized for hedonism, and when they hit the Wall, they are optimized for survival.

  • @TurrkeySlap
    @TurrkeySlap Місяць тому +3

    It doesn't matter. Just keep busy doing your things. OYS, and never stop leveling up! 💪💪💪 Focus on your goals and yourself, that should be the main part of your life anyway.

  • @painter8237
    @painter8237 Місяць тому +3

    It’s another testament to them not being fully committed even when they say they are. A man’s only retaliation to this is to never give them commitment in the first place. Consider your own survival, as in the survival of your mental and emotional health, you put that in jeopardy once you start investing in her too much and your heart becomes vulnerable. So, play their game on them. Date multiple women, keep your opinions open, and don’t allow yourself to get too close to any of them, always. The only relationship security is your ability to get the next one.

  • @kevin75c
    @kevin75c Місяць тому +9

    You and the other content creators are both right. Women operate off of emotion and survival. The survival provokes the emotion.

  • @oneiros1401
    @oneiros1401 Місяць тому +5

    5:20 Even if you hypothetically knew what the other person was thinking, they can change their mind on a dime years down the road. Happens all the time, one day she wakes and divorces you.

  • @theysayisagorilla
    @theysayisagorilla Місяць тому +5

    Thats easy to assume and deal with. The part i dont like is how most will tell u the exact opposite. It makes it impossible to believe anything u say after that and being able to trust, for me is huge.

  • @gedward86
    @gedward86 Місяць тому +6

    REALEST shit ever spoke on YT

  • @andrecavalier2046
    @andrecavalier2046 Місяць тому +4

    They always have to optimize for dopamine as well

  • @LSMasta
    @LSMasta Місяць тому +2

    Makes sense that they would even though their quota is to be the loyal ones. Theres a girl Ive known for a while and even though shes already in a relationship, she seeks out my guidance on new experiences shes never had before and personal stuff complimenting my intelligence while flat out saying you always have an answer and apologizing for bothering me so much. She really entrusts me and my judgments. In my head im like, " aint this suppose to be your boyfriends job?"

  • @danieljohn6186
    @danieljohn6186 Місяць тому +4

    Keep talking fact son, am always watching and listening to you son

  • @HiCHRIIS
    @HiCHRIIS Місяць тому +2

    You always deliver the best content Brother, much love to everyone !!

  • @COSkywatch
    @COSkywatch Місяць тому +4

    Human nature is really sad and we are always worried about survival.

  • @Alexfieldmusicofficial
    @Alexfieldmusicofficial Місяць тому +3

    Man, you really opened my eyes with this one

  • @edenfieldjared0
    @edenfieldjared0 Місяць тому +1

    ONE OF YOUR BEST TRUE FACTS i WISH i WOULD HAVE SEEN THIS YEARS AGO

  • @AhmadOsman-sw2bb
    @AhmadOsman-sw2bb Місяць тому +1

    I second everyword you said for I have literally lived and experienced similar thoughts and relationships and came up with the exact same conclusions . Keep it up brother I really appreciate you ! All the best for what ever you do in your life . 🥂 cheers !

  • @anuragsharma65622
    @anuragsharma65622 Місяць тому +7

    Casey you give me a new life bro❤

  • @SolomonicLineage
    @SolomonicLineage Місяць тому +15

    As long as her body count above 1 she is no longer capable of genuinely pairing emotionally there's a reason why in scripture/ancient times men only married virgins.

    • @timonalexandr151
      @timonalexandr151 Місяць тому +1

      This is the truth. But it's best kept a secret. Let these people mess around with the 3o4's and exchange their herpes and hpv infections. Very few good women with the V card out there as it is.

    • @addiyolla3611
      @addiyolla3611 Місяць тому +6

      100%

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      Unless you're dating middle-schoolers or fatties, you're not going to find a virgin these days. And if you did, you could never believe she was telling the truth.

    • @timonalexandr151
      @timonalexandr151 Місяць тому +2

      UA-cam or someone else (?) deleted / shadowbanned my comment. I wrote the truth.

    • @kingclampz6081
      @kingclampz6081 Місяць тому

      Well too bad basically every woman in the western world alone is higher than just 1 body count 🤷‍♂️ gotta adapt

  • @xorvion1883
    @xorvion1883 Місяць тому +6

    Sad that I know this is true because I’m talking to a girl right now who has great BF and she is “contempt" wity her situation but flirts and texts with me often and she knows my intentions. Keep sobering em up with knowledge casey. see you in the next one 💪

    • @mura0
      @mura0 Місяць тому +1

      seen and heard many stories like that and she probably has other guys like you on her whatsapp. I know a girl who's engaged rand says is in love with other two guys. One of these guys asked her to be his GF and she accepted. She's the girl am seeing best friend's. They both dentists. Guess what, trust absolutely no one...I said no one.

    • @Gescobar009
      @Gescobar009 Місяць тому

      I had a girl tell me she had a boyfriend. It's cutthroat out here..

    • @mura0
      @mura0 Місяць тому

      @@Gescobar009 going out with a very needy girl so I had to tell her I had a GF just so that she wont bother too much and she still fine with it.

  • @rayawake
    @rayawake Місяць тому +2

    Absolutely true

  • @Stefan-vc2ef
    @Stefan-vc2ef Місяць тому +22

    These videos are painful because I know it’s the truth

    • @silvermine2033
      @silvermine2033 Місяць тому +3

      Yep! Your mind tries convincing you that it isn't true, when in reality you find out that it is.

  • @maxhung69
    @maxhung69 Місяць тому +3

    the best solution is to find a woman who knows you're her best option. the relationship will evolve smoothly if you want it to because she's motivated to keep you happy. it's happened to me 3 times in my life. hopefully, I'll have one more/last chance

    • @user-fc1zw3yh7k
      @user-fc1zw3yh7k Місяць тому

      Yes. I'm blessed to have this right now and I usually suck with women. This girl kisses my ass lol its so good

    • @ShinMiura8
      @ShinMiura8 Місяць тому

      How? You're only the biggest fish in a bowl, until you're put in the pacific ocean😅 that's what social media do.

    • @maxhung69
      @maxhung69 29 днів тому

      @ShinMiura8 be the best you can be. make the most of your talents n opportunities. it's your life so make the most of it n get the best you can. i have graduate degrees from Stanford n University of Chicago. I've worked in investment banking, management consulting (McKinsey and BCG), asset management. also, before marriage, I kept in good shape. because of what I had to offer, I knew i was the prize (his language) n my girlfriends always brought taking our relationships to the next level

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 Місяць тому +8

    All of this is actually straight from a narcissits playbook.

    • @Deron8564
      @Deron8564 Місяць тому

      What is a "narcissits" ? A selfish person who never stands up and who only loves his sofa?

  • @fahadorky
    @fahadorky Місяць тому +3

    This is such a hard pill to swallow.

  • @marcross52-95
    @marcross52-95 25 днів тому

    Many women I've seen and know have mentioned Casey's exact point.

  • @holyenforcer8200
    @holyenforcer8200 Місяць тому +21

    Woman will eventually run out of options eventually

    • @stefanmolejo4578
      @stefanmolejo4578 Місяць тому +2

      Absolutely...in addition to their "options" *for the most part* are a bunch of fuqin busted - buster azz options!

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      They can't hide. The Wall will chase them down. They all hit the Wall!

    • @Avicena-tf5uj
      @Avicena-tf5uj Місяць тому +4

      lol wrong. This is their paradigm. They never run out of options.

    • @Adrian101882
      @Adrian101882 Місяць тому +7

      They won’t run out of options, but what they will eventually run out of are options they actually deem worthy, and this is when she faces that dark phase in her life when she must choose between settling or being alone.

    • @stefanmolejo4578
      @stefanmolejo4578 Місяць тому +7

      @Avicena-tf5uj yeah they never run of *low value* options....ofcourse

  • @rythmjc3
    @rythmjc3 Місяць тому +1

    Same goes for men too, it goes both way

  • @Urbancorax2
    @Urbancorax2 Місяць тому +4

    here is the second part of the equation. Women operate in "survival mode" (having backup options), so men have (or must have and exercise) their "survival mode" too: having multiple women just in case if one of them become unsuitable for having his kids. It became normal for women exercise their right to "survive", meanwhile men are programmed to do the opposite (wich is extremely unbinificial to men in the end of the day).

  • @bennyanthro4891
    @bennyanthro4891 Місяць тому +2

    Bro looks like he’s at the cantina drowning his sorrows haha🥃🍻

  • @cristian.ilie.018
    @cristian.ilie.018 Місяць тому

    Great 🔥💪🏻⬆️!

  • @Rico-RR
    @Rico-RR Місяць тому +1

    Facts.

  • @SteveDobbs-hj7fc
    @SteveDobbs-hj7fc Місяць тому +15

    This is on point and goes to show you relationships is just a game to be played and not taken seriously.
    In my experience if you’re dating someone the way to nip this in the bud is by sleeping with someone else, a prior fling is the best option in my opinion, have her on the back burner to sleep with anytime your woman acts out of line. I slept with a prior fling once to teach the girl I was dating a lesson, not ok to hang with other guys one on one while you’re dating me. She never did it again.
    The way to beat this is by having backup options yourself. Usually it’s the secondary women, single moms and divorced women, you can easily make these an option. But make sure they are beautiful.

    • @carlosemiralonso7997
      @carlosemiralonso7997 Місяць тому

      The beautiful part is subjetive, you can just convince a woman you seeing that the other option is better. Just like that.

    • @SteveDobbs-hj7fc
      @SteveDobbs-hj7fc Місяць тому

      @@carlosemiralonso7997 nah they start making justifications why the other chick didn’t really count. “She wasn’t even that good looking.” It may even justify her decision that you can’t land other attractive women.

    • @carlosemiralonso7997
      @carlosemiralonso7997 Місяць тому

      @@SteveDobbs-hj7fc OMG. True, if they think you can't land a beautiful woman... Hahaha, disaster.

  • @flowerpower2726
    @flowerpower2726 Місяць тому

    Cool I keep options too

  • @ArjunaKunti
    @ArjunaKunti Місяць тому

    After this long monologue, the bartender:
    "Sir, this is a bar, please order something."

  • @ankee1951
    @ankee1951 Місяць тому +3

    I understand this now , thank you casey , i use to get bitter at this but now i see that they do this subconsciously for survival, like a animial would

  • @davidbarrozo6621
    @davidbarrozo6621 Місяць тому

    Oh shit. Highly true for those women who are narcissists. I think the ones that have been hurt by them are completely different, as I feel different now than i did when I first got with mine. I am much more empathetic not just the cognitive empathy narcs put out.

  • @ShinMiura8
    @ShinMiura8 Місяць тому

    "i'm not happy anymore or i fell out of love" that's all it takes for them to leave you then two weeks after on a new relationship😅🤣 Love is not a feeling, they knew it but still operate with their emotions.

  • @alanwakeup3344
    @alanwakeup3344 Місяць тому +3

    "Gift"

  • @gman5069
    @gman5069 Місяць тому

    Truth any attractive women always has options and back up options when I was in my 20s I remember getting so mad when I found out she was with another guy she slept with or already has. Now at 40 jus accept the fact u will most likely be one of many dudes she sleeps with. If u did everything right. And don't expect a relationship either because that will take way longer for her to decide. U wanting it won't change it. If u decide u invested enough into it. And not getting what u want u jus walk away and move on to the next. No way ur ego, pride and feelings won't be affected dealing with women so get use to it now. This is also why as a man u need to have goals and a life outside of women. .and let them come to you as much as possible...and taking a break if u exhausted from them is totally healthy and normal. It's a game and Ferris wheel that goes on and on ...and u decide when to get off ...

  • @ButlerM5
    @ButlerM5 Місяць тому +4

    I do miss 17 minutes videos. Those now are soo fucking short. At the notes wall game was strong

    • @CaseyZander
      @CaseyZander  Місяць тому +7

      I’ve made two short ones, there’s hundreds of longer ones on my channel.

    • @fahadorky
      @fahadorky Місяць тому +1

      @@CaseyZanderI like the shorter videos more tbh.

  • @MoneyTary26
    @MoneyTary26 Місяць тому +4

    Own your women‼️ Stope being scared of taking control. Communicate your demands and set your relationship up in a way that she will not have a chance to cheat on you. We know all women cheat, just dont give her freedom and space. If she really likes ypu she will submit, if she dont she will rebel and probly leave you. Its ok atleast you found out early

  • @cmysharingan
    @cmysharingan Місяць тому +2

    None of her behavior benefits any of the men she's attempting to get things from for whatever reason she is doing what she's doing; that's the biggest thing to remember. She is out for herself, and herself only. Any care or love you think she's showing you is to get what she needs or wants, that's it. Don't get lost in the illusion, because that's what it is.

  • @GettingGood
    @GettingGood Місяць тому +2

    facts, "talking with a chik" shes got a few on the burner Iv seen em even met some of them, do they get as much access as I? Probably not, is a dude doing less for her and getting the same access as I? Maybe so, do i have other options lined up? Nope, but i dont let her know that and i hint otherwise. Luckily i have a bit of "social status" so its easy for her to believe but a guy be busy out here and these girls want M.E.A.T. (money, energy, attention, and time, shout out CGA ! ) Protect your self gentlemen!

  • @js5189
    @js5189 21 день тому

    I just want to find a woman and start a family but sh*t is so hard today.

  • @noahwilliams5429
    @noahwilliams5429 Місяць тому

    Damn. Its rough out here. Time to blast tren

  • @zuzuzuzu2133
    @zuzuzuzu2133 Місяць тому +5

    It's better when you look at the camera when youre speaking - no hate, just an opinion.

  •  Місяць тому +6

    don't date if you do not want seconds. what a shame.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому +3

      Oh, those seconds are going to be sloppy these days. Very sloppy!

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson Місяць тому +1

      Make sure u wear a rubber dude. They been around like a record woo woo

  • @bobbruce4135
    @bobbruce4135 Місяць тому +4

    This is truth. In the past, we weren't told this. We fell for a girl that had more experience (from Chads) we weren't told about. We thought they loved us. Then, when we least expected it after several years, she monkey branched to someone she had been seeing for some time. Most of us are just orbiters and are nothing more than utilities (for her survival as stated here). Therefore, Own Way is the only way. I've met zillions of men and co-workers who were divorced failing to understand mother nature is not something to marry.

    • @Stefan-vc2ef
      @Stefan-vc2ef Місяць тому +3

      Facts brother

    • @_itshadee
      @_itshadee Місяць тому

      Yes bro the knowledge in Spiritual kingdom is that no one owns anyone here on earth not even your children... The earlier we understood this more peace we have

  • @moheganson
    @moheganson Місяць тому

    expect the worst, hope for the best

  • @BrokenHeart-oy1ru
    @BrokenHeart-oy1ru Місяць тому

    Hey Casey, How to escape friendzone?

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson Місяць тому +1

      Stop being their friend

    • @LSMasta
      @LSMasta Місяць тому

      I would like to hear his take on this question, but the best answer is to understand that you put yourself in that friendzone by simply allowing it. Friendzone all happens in a very similar sequence: Guy meets a girl he's over heels for(controlled by his lust) and is already becoming emotionally invested. They talk for a bit and she senses the immediate attachment signaling you've probably never experienced a woman in her range so you're lower on the totem pole than her. Therefore, she has complete control over you and your emotions so she will take advantage of that and suck up all the attention and services you're willing to provide while not giving you what you wanted in the first place so you're stuck in limbo getting jealous when she expressed interest in another dude.
      Solution: Don't target women you go coocoo for, but the ones you're on the fence about. Train yourself to see all the 9s and 10s as the other 5s and 6s as if they aren't any more special. The dynamic will switch as her trying to pursue you.

  • @goofytunes1
    @goofytunes1 Місяць тому

    bulls eye

  • @ArisenMind
    @ArisenMind Місяць тому

    Oooof....your theory here isnt really good. We all have bad videos at some point. Keep up the good work

  • @Gescobar009
    @Gescobar009 Місяць тому

    I remember looking at this chick across the table as she told me all these dirt things she wanted to do to me, and I told her "You're a bad girl." And she jokingly said ""Who's a good girl? Huh? Who's a good girl?"

  • @Gdhdjejgfsbh
    @Gdhdjejgfsbh Місяць тому

    And men optimise for Death . Just makes sense .

  •  Місяць тому

    This is what MYSTERY said many years ago. Do you know his work? :)

  • @Jack.Freitag
    @Jack.Freitag Місяць тому

    Casey have you ever grown out your hair?

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh Місяць тому

    1:25 yes, they live in survival mode but their ACTIONS are triggered by how they FEEL/their emotions. A woman will think logical, but when she acts it's based on her emotions/how she feels. Eg. survival instinct is, the guy has money, stable home, good job/business BUT, there are a lot of women around him, has 2 baby bothers, he can get loud. Survival says, yes he is good for survival, but her LOGIC says he can be toxic or bad, has 2 baby mothers BUT HE MAKES ME FEEL GOOD. And ALL LOGIC & SURVIVAL INSTINCT DISAPPEARS for how he makes her FEEL.

    • @mrbabyhugh
      @mrbabyhugh Місяць тому +1

      no, in this situation she is NOT with him because of his ability for her to survive with his provision, she is with him because how he makes her FEEL, because he is fun, he is desired etc etc. He cheats on her, there is a guy with equal or more money she is venting to about it, he likes her, BUT SHE STAYS WITH THE GUY BECAUSE OF HOW HE MAKES HER FEEL, the one she vents to does not move her EMOTIONALLY, she feels no "spark". I am VERY SURE MANY MEN HAVE HEARD THIS no spark argument.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      ​@mrbabyhugh Yes. I have "no sparked" many women. 😂

    • @FashionFramez
      @FashionFramez 29 днів тому

      @@mrbabyhugheven if she’s already your gf? And you been dating for 9 months and she show high interet

  • @abdalrahmanmahmoud9209
    @abdalrahmanmahmoud9209 Місяць тому

    Why is it the more you understand women the more painful it is?

    • @_itshadee
      @_itshadee Місяць тому

      😂😂 The problem is that what we have been condition to belive is not the reality of Man and woman kingdom.. If you want to understand this so clear, watch what other animals are doing... No condition apply to what they re doing...

  • @Sports590
    @Sports590 Місяць тому +1

    Stop Simping Guys. ✋️
    It's the Easiest Job in the World 🌎 to get and sleep with Women
    But, it's the Hardest Job in the World 🌎 to keep even one of them fully loyal to you.

  • @spruce5123
    @spruce5123 Місяць тому +3

    This really sounds like a particularly self destructive and chaotic lifestyle.

  • @soundscaperecordings1111
    @soundscaperecordings1111 Місяць тому +1

    Im dating a girl currently that i really like things are going great had about 8 dates sex, lots of kisses cuddlrs rtc. I feel myself falling for her and im reluctant to go on dates with other women as i belive it bad karma.
    I want yo ask her how she feels about being exclusive but i know thay this is something that the woman should bring up.
    Thoughts?

    • @CitiesOfAsh
      @CitiesOfAsh Місяць тому +6

      You just answered your own question

    • @oscargonza2748
      @oscargonza2748 Місяць тому +6

      It's her job to push the relationship further if she's genuinely attracted to you, if you try you'll be in for a rude awakening, bruh

    • @philipramsden4975
      @philipramsden4975 Місяць тому +4

      You don't say anything. She has to bring up the relationship talk. If you bring it up she's gonna dip

    • @carlosemiralonso7997
      @carlosemiralonso7997 Місяць тому

      Women are the gatekeepers of s3x so your work is only to sleep with them. IF you pass friendzone you are already getting everything you need from her.
      No label will change what you get from her. If you thinking everything will be better once you level up the relationship to a "exclusive" you are deadly wrong.
      What's happening with you is that you are investing emotionally in her. Which is okey if you are marry already... but as you said you only are casual with her...
      Rude awakening, she probably have other options so you need to be exclusive only when she decided you are the one. (She decided this, not you)

    • @soundscaperecordings1111
      @soundscaperecordings1111 Місяць тому

      Cheers boys. Yeh I figured that much. I'll keep my cool and wait it out 🙏👌

  • @p9a9r21
    @p9a9r21 Місяць тому +2

    Respectfully I must disagree. Women "optimizing" for survival via hypergamy has been the SOP for women for millennia long before the introduction of the Internet and social media.
    Back in the 50s, 60s, and 70s women practiced hypergamy, but on a much more limited and manageable basis. The feminist movement began to give women the abilities to provide for their own survival by education and participation in the workforce alongside men.
    Modern women still operate on the SOP of hypergamy but not for survival but to satisfy their social media malformed image of what they believe they "deserve".
    Modern women have a rooster of men because various social media platforms support them doing so. Yes, modern women may have different men for different needs but this is not optimizing for survival because they recognize the inherent instability of their choices. Modern women falsely rely on the presumption the sheer number and accessibility of men via social media expressing interest in her on social provides optionality or choice of an idealized male (666) supplanting the survival her female forebearers sought to obtain through ONE MAN.
    This operation of hypergamy by modern women is further supported by the attitudes women express toward marriage during their most youthful and fertile ages. It is extremely common for young women (18 - 28) to express their intentions to pursue careers, education, ,"finding themselves" or "living their best (single) lives. These are not intentions or goals keyed to survival but self-actualization.

    • @SteveDobbs-hj7fc
      @SteveDobbs-hj7fc Місяць тому

      I have to agree with this. It’s not about survival but more about their own ego fulfillment. The man is a mirror. She needs every good quality she sees in a man and the attention from that said man.

    • @p9a9r21
      @p9a9r21 Місяць тому

      @@SteveDobbs-hj7fc
      Thank you for your comment.
      There is another aspect of modern women's maladaptive application of their hypergamy via social media and other dating platforms I couldn't add due to the extended length of my previous comment.
      As Casey correctly points out, hypergamy is an evolutionary social response. Its purpose is enhancing a female's and her offspring's probability of survival by securing the strongest and most capable male in her social group.
      But as with other evolutionary adaptations in nature, misapplication typically leads to decreased survival and other deleterious outcomes.
      One negative outcome modern women's maladaptive application of hypergamy in dating compromises their pair bonding with a capable male through excessive sexual relations. Modern women's exercise of feminine liberation by delaying child birth to pursue career and educational aspirations compounds this impact. Modern women's fertility curve has been on a down slope since the late 1970s.
      But the negative consequences of modern women's maladaptive use of hypergamy extends beyond their gender to males. Modern women have mistakenly equated increased numbers of potential males with a higher probability of making an optimized choice. Males are aware they are in a virtually limitless pool of selectees to decrease their participation and efforts in competition for females. This response decreases a female's ability to make an informed optimized choice.
      Modern women's abuse of social media platforms invariably leads to their over concentration on a limited pool of the most desirable males.
      And since males on these social media platforms have access to an artificially enlarged pool of interested females their desires to secure the best female is also severely undermined.

    • @SteveDobbs-hj7fc
      @SteveDobbs-hj7fc Місяць тому

      @@p9a9r21 it’s mainly because of social media and how relatively safe our world has become. A lot of “nice guys” would destroy you in fight, and could protect you and they would be able to prove it because they had to due to dangerous environment in the past. GSP is a great example.
      Now they only see perceived masculine traits because that’s the only thing they can go off of.
      Casey is right though it’s supposed to be about survival. But it has become more vane, more about a woman’s worthiness. She needs options as a perceived safety net for her ego in case the high value man drops her, or if she finds better she gets fresh new supply of validation.
      Think of women as vampires, desperate and blood thirsty for blood, in which case it’s validation in the form of attention. Once she knows she’s sucked you dry I.e. commitment, being more available, reciprocating she basically becomes bored and wants the new guy. Little does she know she will get withdrawals and will not find the pure blood she got from you and will come crawling back begging.
      True story.

  • @PatrickKobeForever
    @PatrickKobeForever Місяць тому +1

    First time disagreeing with you my man.. it’s a feeling+ hypergamy… just look at people like kaka the soccer player, or Scottie pippen. Rich attractive guy gets cheated on all the time now

  • @BarryChub
    @BarryChub Місяць тому +1

    casey giving women no accountability again. what a valiant white knight.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      I'm with you 100%. Casey tells us not to simp, then does so himself. He doesn't want to hold them accountable. He excuses their unethical behavior.

  • @ValourFlame
    @ValourFlame Місяць тому +1

    🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮 just stay single

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 Місяць тому

      There's 2 toes you can turn to. Camel toes or MGTOWs.

  • @Brascobadboy
    @Brascobadboy Місяць тому +1

    Broke back cowboy. Hurt by women. Chooses men now

  • @ValourFlame
    @ValourFlame Місяць тому

    Cowbay Casey back in the office 🤜🫷

  • @Lore788
    @Lore788 Місяць тому +1

    🫣😆🥰👍