I’m not even finished watching this, but I totally get you on this! You lost everything all at once, and that may not have felt like trauma, but to your brain and body it was a huge shock. Then to have the baby in that new environment, it was entirely life changing.. I can’t believe people tell you not to complain or worry. Just keep being real, this year has been tough and no need to sugar coat that. I feel for you, and pray for your family. 💗
My heart breaks for you being away from your family and trying to adjust to all this stuff. Irs sucks they kill us all! I pray your mom can come here soon! And they need to give you your green card!! We are with you Yara we love you and your family!
Your feelings and frustrations are valid. Even if someone’s has it harder than you, doesn’t mean your issues are not real. Everyone needs a village around them for love and support, not just about financial support. I hope you can get your visa or your mom can get a visa to see you soon.
Benjamin and Akinyi just posted about her Green Card experience. It took a very long time for her to get her Green Card as well. Benjamin called their congresswoman to speed things along.
Yara you are very strong and such a good mama!! I would have such a hard time being away from my family and would never be able to be home without my husband while raising my girls. You are doing an amazing job!
I’m so happy to hear Jovi is so supportive that is amazing, also that’s an amazing gym where you can see your baby make sure she’s good and you get some self-care time and Baby gets her socializing time it’s perfect she don’t need to be with you 24/7 LOL
I understand you very well when you say about being sad, because nobody from you family is there with you ,helping you with you daughter. When I arrived in Italy after I married, I had two kids, and I was lonely with my husband who work 10/12 hours at day . Was very very difficult when I give birth on the second child ,I don't have anybody to help me , and my wonderful husband did all the possible he can do to help me when already was tired from work . I understand you perfectly when you say that at the party, or every were you go ,you must take you daughter with you . I do the same , and even when I went to the doctor I take it with me ,or even when I worked helping my husband in his business. And now they have 13 years the first and 11 years the second , and here I am strong than more women I meet, and I wish God bless you and be strong and will you see how powerful you will be in the future, looking back when you're lonely to fight by yourself in a country what is not yours. I wish you the best ,you are not lonely ,be strong. Big hug from Italy.
Yara listening to you miss your family is soooo normal. Your eyes twinkle when you talk about your husband or your baby. The holidays are hard when you are far from home. You have come to the united states and you are hard working and driven and learned the language. Good things are coming don't you worry. I would be proud to have you as a citizen and wish I could give you your green card. Such a sweet young lady! So nice to listen to your journey
We are both from UK and Germany and we both miss our families still after 20 years of living here., thanks giving and Christmas and any gathering so we totally get it
I am so sorry Yara! You are such a misunderstood girl. People think u are rude or a complainer but if I were in your shoes I would be way more worse. I hate waiting for anything to do with the government and/or attorneys. It takes forever. Just know I feel your pain! I am so sorry. I would miss my mama too. Stay strong and know that I am praying for u and I feel for you! Xoxoxoxox Angie
Hi! I’m also an immigrant but from France. I just got my nationality a few months ago. I relate with not having family around and during the holidays it gets even harder. I also live in NOLA metro. Sometimes I think of creating a local group for us immigrant women, so we can meet up over coffee and talk about all our issues freely. 💕
Hey Yara I totally get it my family it's far away and I miss them so much I get homesick 😔 and I know my husband's family it's my family but I still feel lonely . We're going through the same and I feel like I'm still getting used to life here in the US.
Yara if you have your EDA card ( work permit ) you are allowed to leave the country. They just make you fill out paperwork when you come back in the US. I also did the K1visa process, and as soon as I got my EDA card I was out of here!!! I couldn’t wait to go back home for a visit. I know how hard it is, but then adding on the pandemic on top of all of it, I’m sorry. I hope you get your green card soon! ♥️
Honey, it’s ok. You miss your Mom! And I just know she misses you and wants to see Mylah. I can’t imagine all you’re going through just to be in the USA. I hope you get all your documents that you need so you can go see your Mom and she can come and stay with you. Things are all messed up because of the Corona virus. I’ll be praying for you. 🙏 I think one of the hardest things to do is to leave your child with someone that you do not know- like daycare. My two children are 38 & 39 but I remember the awful feeling of having to leave my babies to go to work. Hang in there Yara! You’re an excellent Mom and a good person. Soon things will get better for you. Sending a big hug from California.
Yeah right thank you for sharing your feelings and I hope that you receive the positivity that we share to you very well. There are people here that understand how you feel and we are here to support you no matter what. 💜
I am so happy that you are happy! You and your mother will be together soon and knowing you have done it the right way will give you peace of mind. Not having to look over your shoulder or think who might be at your front door.
Aww, Yara, I know things are feeling extremely hard, and no one can truly understand how alone you feel without your mom, without you’re family, you’re support system, especially around the holidays, & jovi’s family or friends events, which can trigger those emotions even more. And I’m sorry that you have to endure that pain of missing you’re Mama❤️🩹 But I’ll say this, we’ve all watched you flourish in the states, and we watch how hard you work your ass off for everything, and how your such a wonderful Moma yourself❣️ I know it’s easier said than done, but please try to remind yourself that you WILL get your GREEN CARD and you WILL be reunited with your Moma, family and friends. God will bless you with that, & there’s no doubt about that! And I can promise that reunion will be the best feeling (after having Myla of course) but you WILL have that moment when everything & that last hurtle of having to wait so long for your GC, that you will burst into tears of happiness & have that feeling of overwhelming feeling of joy love, appreciation & COMPLETION 💜 And you’ll look back at everything you were able to overcome, the highs, the lows, and everything in between, all the hard work you put in & the life you’ve built, the family you’ve created, the businesses you’ve built- And finally the GC that you DESERVE…. You’ll say to yourself “ Thank God” cuz you never gave up, you kept pushing forward, and YOU’LL have everything including you’re MOMA❤️🤍 Yara, I’m wishing nothing but the best for you and you’re family & I personally can’t wait to see the look on you’re face when you’re life & heart is full of abundance💕 It will be so beautiful to see✨We’re rooting for you! Keep your head held high, cuz you’re day is coming… And all you’re supporters will be there to rejoice in that celebration 🥂💫💯🕊 Sending love, light, positivity and blessings your way😌 Xxo- 🦋
It must be very hard, especially at this time of year with Thanksgiving and Christmas being so much about family! Maybe you could reach out in your area to other Ukrainians? 💚
It’s a difficult time now. I was raised in another country. As an American, I felt very lonely when we returned to the US. I hope things improve for you.
Your feelings are valid 100% - you clearly are a sweet person. I find it so sweet that you said you consider us your friends, us who adore you Yara are always going to support you :) Things will get better - you will be able to see your family once again soon!
Yara you are such an inspiration my daughter is currently engaged to a man from Iran . We live in USA watching you and Jovi has been so encouraging to me as a mom and has taught me how to love and support my daughter through the process of getting her fiancé to America . We are now in the waiting game of waiting to be called for his interview and trying to sorta plan a wedding the best we can ! Just remember you are amazing and you and Jovi are my favorite couple .
I 100% get it Yara. You feel welcomed there, but you also feel isolated because they are not your family that you miss. With your blood family love is unconditional. I understand your heart is a little heavy and sad...
Thank you for making this video! It can be so hard to live in another country. I am American but live in another country with my fiancé and I FEEL YOU GIRL! I can't imagine how you must be feeling with a new baby as well... you are so strong and you're doing a great job. Watching this video, I now realize that so many people are feeling how I am feeling on those days when I just miss my family and home country so much. Life throws so much stress your way in general, but especially when you decide to make a big move and make your dreams come true like you are doing. It will get easier with time, and in the meantime just know that so many people are in awe of you and support your journey. Much love to you!
Oh! Yara. You are the sweetest person on earth ever. You have every right to be disappointed with certain results that by now should have been completed by the authorities. What an amazing asset you are to your country. I truly admire Your honesty respect & love that definitely shines through your beautiful heart and your gorgeous face. What an inspiration to all. It’s such a thrill that you acknowledge Jovi & gave him the best acknowledgement in your life. This proves that you put others before yourself. It’s hurting my friend that you have not seen your mum. Mum’s your best friend. Ok enough from me. I hope I haven’t bored you. But I love & look fw to your videos. Enjoy your day. From your Aussie friend. Hugs to Myla.
You’re not alone in your feelings, Yara. I have a sister in law that moved here from Colombia and is in your same situation but hopefully things will speed up for you to get your visa. If your mom would be able to visit you that would help so much! ((Hugs))
Darling! I feel the same! I know exactly how u feel. U are strong beautiful woman. So keep Focus. It will change. Keep Positive. U will see yr Family soon!
I’ve been in America for 7yrs and my family haven’t met my two kids. The holidays are the hardest for me as well. Yara you are doing well and I hope you get to see your family soon.
Awww, I feel for you. I didn't see my daughter and grandson for a year because of this covid, and we live in the same state, so I can only imagine. I sure hope your mom gets to come here as soon as possible. You are such a likeable good person, hope you find more friends. I was a single parent, not sure what I would have done without my families help. I am now a grandma, 57. You have a right to your feelings. BTW, love your Christmas decorations 🎄
I understand you so much I miss Europe soooo much and my family and my friends is just so different here ! And I’m a military wife but from Italy 😂😂😂 miss someone that babysit my baby 😂
I feel for you, I wasn’t home for 2 years because of covid and I cried a lot! I don’t live near any family just my hubby and it’s sooo hard:( I will pray for you to gain the strength to get through this! 🥲
Sending you lots of love and light from Texas 💖💖💖 I hope you see your family soon ❤️ maybe you should talk to a counselor until you can see your family again 💘 sending you so many good vibes Texas loves you sweetie 😙
See a counselor there is a stigma with mental health but we need to break that! My husband is also a immigrant and I have a lot of immigrant friends so I understand what you’re going through it is hard! He is now a citizen so it just takes time it’s so hard when you have your life in the governments hands.
Your panicking Yara! Don’t! It will work out,things are so slow. It’s frustrating and I panic about stuff also but it will all work out. With the Christmas and family problem ,all the Christmas shows are everybody is happy and people tell you stories about their family .Don’t listen their a lot of people who have no family, I lost my whole family.If I could just tell my Mom I love you on the phone would be the best gift. So don’t worry ,fix the tree and enjoy your baby and the people who are around you.God Bless
Hi Yara, I have moments of intense empty, lonliness and it's an awful feeling. I lived abroad with my family far away under different circumstances than yours but still I feel you, I understand your sadness at not physically being with your Mom and your family in Ukraine. It's wonderful that Mylah loved seeing the other kids, that you can have a little break at the same time and work out etc. We, your "subs" aren't physically with you but I hope we bring some comfort to you. ❤
Share away, it does you good to get things off your chest. I can tell by your voice that you are so sad about your family and missing them So much. I think you’re an amazing mom and you’re doing a great job with your business. Hang in there!
Oh Yara, as very difficult as it is to be separated from your family, your mother must be over the top proud of you . You don’t complain , you share your feelings, that is healthy. You are already a welcome part in this country, but I am anxious for you and your mother to spend time together with Myla. Thank you for sharing, I will keep you and both families in my prayers . Stay safe
You are loved. You came to this country on the show and many people fell in love with you. You have that “it” factor that will take you far in life. I only wish for your sake whether you go to Ukraine or your family can come to America that you get to spend some time with the people that you love. I am glad you vlog. Keep up the good work.
I’m sorry Yara that you had to wait so long for your mama to either come and visit or you be able to go. I hope this holiday season gives you the gift of freedom to be able to go back home and enjoy time with all your family.
I miss that too - loving, nice family, Yara. But they are in another country. I have some family here but they do not see me regularly. Thank you for sharing.
Yara, your a real sweetheart . I have been following you through your journey. You and Jovi have something very special and also a beautiful child. I hope your green card comes very soon so that you can finally see your mama. 🤗
The immigration process is very frustrating at times. It always takes a long time and there is the cost as well. You are doing all the right things and it will come eventually. They are already slow as hell with the processing then covid is mixed in with that also. Stay strong you will get your residency in the end. 💪 😊 That gym seems so cool. Glad you found it and can get out of the house for a little break. Sending love & hang in there. ❤
Awww Yara, you made me cry. I really hope you get your green card soon. One thing I will say…. I bet your Mam is super proud of you! What a beautiful inside & out, kind & caring lady you are. Much love from 🇬🇧 xx
Yara, I am happy to hear that gym time is working for you, for your spirits! I can relate to feeling lonely and feeling somewhat on the outside looking in, esp during family gatherings...The more you create your own new traditions while also still mixing BOTH family traditions together- I think it will help with your feeling homesick. Nothing can replace being with ppl in person, but I pray for your Green Card soon! Good things come to those who wait. You deserve it, and I love your videos, You make me feel like a friend. I enjoy these videos of you being real and honest. Jovi, good for you trying to find ways for Yara to continue making USA feel more like "home". It's one thing to not be near family, its another when you CANNOT visit even if you have the time and funds. Try adopting a mixed Christmas of traditions and also, Jovi have you ever thought of learning to speak her native language? I'm NOT telling you what to do, but it may make your family feel more cohesive esp. since Myla will most likely know that language too. Love you Yara you are an amazing and special person.
It’s understandable that your having a hard time adjusting. Be patient and file for a visa for your mom to come to the U.S. Everything eventually will fall into place. PATIENCE is what you need to concentrate on keep yourself busy and stop dwelling on what can’t be helped at this time. Stay positive Yara we all love you!
That's my only concern about international relationships - if they work, someone ends up sacrificing a lot.........it's the everyday contact/visits with our friends and family that is more important than we realise. Best wishes to you Yara :) Have you considered moving closer to Jovi's parents? I'm sure his parents would love to babysit for you.... You are such a great Mum, Yara - and I can tell what a lovely person you are!
Yara many of us intelligent people understand. That would be so hard. Wishing you a good mood for the holidays. Hang in there. You're awesome. This will pass.
I just LOVE when you post, You are so BEAUTIFUL and the baby is getting so BIG, she's so adorable, yes WE ARE your friends on here, so feel free to vent or share ANYTHING, and F them trolls/haters!!! You have wayyyyyyy more people that love you then those that are haters, they just have NO LIFE, and see that you are happy and wish they could be happy. There's a saying misery loves company!!! Love you 😍 💗 💓
Yara you are so Beautiful and so Blessed! You and Jovi have really grown closer and it shows. I am happy for you that you have adjusted so well living your new life as a wife and mother in the USA. Now for your mom to come meet her granddaughter in person then I say you will be set💖 Merry Christmas to You Jovi and Mila🎄🎅🏻 💜Diane from California
Yara im happy you broughtt this up. Jovi loves you. Keep your cash til you get confirmation. Best to be safe than sorry. Good luck my friend 😇💙😁 and be persistent.
I’m kind of going through the same thing, I recently moved to a new province, I’m a single mom and I feel lonely. I miss my family and my sister. If I’m not working I’m home with my daughter so I have no free time to meet a guy or friends for that matter. Being a mom is so hard and being away from your family is so tough. I didn’t have my mom around when my daughter was born or as she was growing up and that was the hardest thing ever. Your mom should be there 😢 I feel so bored and I really want to meet a guy but have no clue how to even start that process 🥴
I lived away in California for 5yrs and although I lived on the beach in San Diego & life couldnt have been better I still missed and longed for my "home" & family in Nova Scotia Canada... I eventually moved back home and it was bittersweet really. Not saying about you leaving the US just meaning I know how it feels to a certain degree altho I know it's harder for you like you said re: new country/language/lifestyle/ways of life etc...! It can be very hard missing family, friends, familiarity, your home! So happy to hear that gym sounds awesome! And congrats on all ur accomplishments this far!!🎉🌈💖
This is good to share with others to know and understand about your feeling lonely missing your family. And to hear from you having a great husband, your Babygirl. How you love is the biggest ever and feeling grateful. I pray for you and your family and your mom all be together. I am very proud of your progress in life and thank Jovi for being a great dad and supportive. Blessings 🙏🏽
I'm so happy you found that gym. It gives you some time plus it helps Myla so much to socialize with other kids. That thought that you can be deported but have Myla stuck here is so terrifying but I think Jovi would bring Myla to follow you if that happened so try not to worry about losing her. Can TLC help with the green card? Maybe you need a different lawyer??? A back up lawyer? We do love you and your family and wish you the best. Edit-- as an after thought, maybe Julia's lawyer has better connections than your lawyer. Because that's how the world really works.
She can also get ahold of whoever is in their congressional district along with senators. Have someone help her (can be her lawyer) to draft her paper work up, provide evidence of paper work submited, and then submit a formal letter to said congressman/congresswoman. Not politicizing anything but Trump administration and the crack down on immigration across all board, along with covid, has put a major halt. Fun fact (don't know if the current administration has done away with this) if you sponsor K1, you are now financially obligated for life. The terms were 10 years.
I completely understand how you feel and I can speak from experience but honestly, Sweetie, you are going to have to involve yourself in Jovi’s family wholeheartedly so that you won’t feel as the “outsider”. Once you do that you will always feel apart from the family rather than a part of the family. Sending hugs.
It’s good Yara that you keep yourself busy so time passes fast. I can understand your frustration, keep praying for your green card to be approved soon.
I totally understand what you are going through, Yara. It took me almost a year and a half to get my green card. When I got my green card my mother was in the hospital about tho pass away(also, I was 7 months pregnant). I was able to show her my green card and then she passed a few days later. The hardest part about the whole situation was that she died 2 months before my son was born. She never got the chance to meet him. 😔. I now live with my husband and his parents. My mother in law gets to see and spend everyday with my son, it is so sweet. But at the same time so sad and emotional for me. I get so upset that my mother never got to meet my son, that she didn't get to see him grow and that she is missing out on so much. I love my in laws and my life but it hurts so much. So, I understand how it is that your family isn't there with you and seeing your baby grow or getting the support from them. It has been a little over 2 years now that my mother passed and it only seems to be getting harder for me to keep her memory alive and for me to move forward with things. I know things are good. Just a little sad. Sorry for the long comment but I hope it helps to know that you are not alone and that your feelings are very valid. And that it's good to ask about them.
Oh, Yara!!! I adore you!! You just keep getting prettier and you have a beautiful heart. You have always been my favorite 90 day girl - the prettiest, sweetest, best dressed and classiest! Please don't change. I am lonely too, Yara. I have no family etc. So, I understand you too well. I don't think you will have any problem getting your green card at all. I can't wait until you can go see your mom again. Sending you heart healing hugs and lots of love from me and all of your friends!!! ❤
I immigrated from Sweden to the US 22 years ago, but I did not marry until 10 years later, before I married I would go back and forth a lot on the 6 month tourist visa. But one day I flew into the US and got taken to the side in the customs and they said I had been in the US too often and that I had to go back to Sweden and either be in the US less often or for my bf to start being in Sweden more. I begged and cried to please let me in for at least a little, 30 mins later the guy said, ok this is what we gonna do. I'm gonna give you entry to the US for 3 months.. In those 3 months you gonna have to figure out if you want to marry this guy or if you want to stay in Sweden much more. So we got a immigration lawyer first of all, they can give you so much answers so quick. I asked him if we marry in a month do I have to leave to Sweden until I get the green card, (or the permanent resident card that you get first)? He said, I'm not suppose to say this but if you marry you don't have to leave the country, but you also cant leave the country until you get your permanent resident card which can take a year or two. If I would decide to go back to Sweden after those 3 months I would be stuck in Sweden until I got my permanent resident card. You basically get a permanent resident card after a year or so, then you get the green card after like 3 or 4 years. I decided to stay in the US, so I could not go back home for a few years. I also did not want to risk going to the airport to fly anywhere inside of the US, cause they might see that you are overstayed, even though you are married. I would go on vaccation inside of the US with amtrak, the train. It was the only way until I got the permanent resident card. Point here is, they can not deport you if you are married and have the permanent resident card or greencard. You also can go to Ukraine for up to 6 months, not more. If you go to Ukraine for more then 6 months then they can deny you entry because they see it as if you live in Ukraine and not the US. I have gone to Sweden almost every year before the pandemic for 5.5 months and never had a issue. They probably will ask you when you re enter the US why you stayed there so long. But there is nothing they can do about it unless you are over there for more then 6 months. If you got questions, please get a immigration lawyer, it puts your mind at ease so much.
I hope you get to see your family soon. Even moving across in the same country is hard. I can't imagine not having the option to go see my family especially around the holidays and with a baby.
We love you, Yara, and feel like you're a part of our American "family." We're also so happy that Jovi is a good husband, we thought he would be. It would be wonderful to see your mom come to America for a visit, I hope she can travel here one day. We pray for you and your family. Many blessings to you!
My heart breaks for you not being able to see your family. I have 3 grandkids and I cannot imagine not being able to meet them when they were born snd to spend time with them. You are a wonderful mama Yara and I pray you get your green card soon
You are doing so good being patient for your green card, and working hard for your family's futures! Your Momma must be really proud of you! You and Jovi are badass and solid parents, Mila and your family are very lucky to have a smart, strong, beautiful person on their team❣ High five 👏 on keeping up on building all your accomplishments and I pray you will be able to travel safely ASAP!!❣
Yara 😢 you are not the only one in this situation. I am in the same as you. I am from Venezuela living here for almost 3 years. I got married with my husband the last year in February , we started the process on May last year . My first lawyer was a mess. She keeps my documents for almost 6 months and she never could fill out because some form that was before with the Trump Government and she didn’t know was she was doing , also she made some mistakes .I fired her . We just could introduce the documents on April this year and I still don’t have work permit . I heard that they are taking time in processing all of the requests. Also I know a lot of people that have getting problems renewing their work permit . Anyway, I understand you is so hard being far away from the family 😢, also this process take long time . I can’t work , I can’t drive and is depressing this waiting.
Your a strong women! Missing your Mom and family just shows what a wonderful person you are! We do feel your pain and I hope you will be able to either go see your Mom or for her to come see you soon. Holiday are always harder but stay strong and your day will come. God Bless!
We came here at the same time , I received my greencard this January . But I traveled to see my family on the combocard , as long as you have evidence of marriage you will be fine ! Check your work permit , if the bottom is saying “ serves as I-512 advance parole “ you are good to go and see your family and return back to the US . And file to expedite your greencard . It’s worth a try , that’s how I received my combocard . And your greencard application won’t be suspended if you have the combocard ! And you always file for I-512 . Всё будет хорошо
I’m sorry you are feeling so stressed out, but please calm down. You will get your green card, it’s just everything is so messed up with the gov. right now. When I immigrated to USA, during the time my documents were hung up also, because of the massive storm. The storm wiped out the area where I was doing my documents and everything was tied up for an extra six months. So please if you want to talk to someone who’s been down this same road…..send my a message.
I’m not even finished watching this, but I totally get you on this! You lost everything all at once, and that may not have felt like trauma, but to your brain and body it was a huge shock. Then to have the baby in that new environment, it was entirely life changing.. I can’t believe people tell you not to complain or worry. Just keep being real, this year has been tough and no need to sugar coat that. I feel for you, and pray for your family. 💗
I agree with us entire post. We live and pray for you, Yara.
My heart breaks for you being away from your family and trying to adjust to all this stuff. Irs sucks they kill us all! I pray your mom can come here soon! And they need to give you your green card!! We are with you Yara we love you and your family!
Your feelings and frustrations are valid. Even if someone’s has it harder than you, doesn’t mean your issues are not real. Everyone needs a village around them for love and support, not just about financial support. I hope you can get your visa or your mom can get a visa to see you soon.
Stay strong, you have a great life and Jovi has changed, we prayed for you
Benjamin and Akinyi just posted about her Green Card experience. It took a very long time for her to get her Green Card as well. Benjamin called their congresswoman to speed things along.
It makes sense to be missing home & family during the Holidays! I will pray that your green card comes soon Yara! Stay strong!
We all adore you and are rooting for you, Yara! Thank you for sharing your heart ❤
Yara you are very strong and such a good mama!! I would have such a hard time being away from my family and would never be able to be home without my husband while raising my girls. You are doing an amazing job!
I'm Canadian and I remember living in Mexico for 2 years and it was lonely.
I’m so happy to hear Jovi is so supportive that is amazing, also that’s an amazing gym where you can see your baby make sure she’s good and you get some self-care time and Baby gets her socializing time it’s perfect she don’t need to be with you 24/7 LOL
I understand you very well when you say about being sad, because nobody from you family is there with you ,helping you with you daughter. When I arrived in Italy after I married, I had two kids, and I was lonely with my husband who work 10/12 hours at day . Was very very difficult when I give birth on the second child ,I don't have anybody to help me , and my wonderful husband did all the possible he can do to help me when already was tired from work . I understand you perfectly when you say that at the party, or every were you go ,you must take you daughter with you . I do the same , and even when I went to the doctor I take it with me ,or even when I worked helping my husband in his business. And now they have 13 years the first and 11 years the second , and here I am strong than more women I meet, and I wish God bless you and be strong and will you see how powerful you will be in the future, looking back when you're lonely to fight by yourself in a country what is not yours. I wish you the best ,you are not lonely ,be strong. Big hug from Italy.
Hey 💜 looking beautiful as always, blessings to you and your family.
Yara listening to you miss your family is soooo normal. Your eyes twinkle when you talk about your husband or your baby. The holidays are hard when you are far from home. You have come to the united states and you are hard working and driven and learned the language. Good things are coming don't you worry. I would be proud to have you as a citizen and wish I could give you your green card. Such a sweet young lady! So nice to listen to your journey
I hope you can become a citizen. I pray for your family and someday they can visit you here.
We are both from UK and Germany and we both miss our families still after 20 years of living here., thanks giving and Christmas and any gathering so we totally get it
Яра, дорогая, не извиняйся за свои чувства. Делясь ими ты помогаешь многим. Желаю тебе счастья
I am so sorry Yara! You are such a misunderstood girl. People think u are rude or a complainer but if I were in your shoes I would be way more worse. I hate waiting for anything to do with the government and/or attorneys. It takes forever. Just know I feel your pain! I am so sorry. I would miss my mama too. Stay strong and know that I am praying for u and I feel for you! Xoxoxoxox Angie
Hi! I’m also an immigrant but from France. I just got my nationality a few months ago. I relate with not having family around and during the holidays it gets even harder. I also live in NOLA metro. Sometimes I think of creating a local group for us immigrant women, so we can meet up over coffee and talk about all our issues freely. 💕
Hey Yara I totally get it my family it's far away and I miss them so much I get homesick 😔 and I know my husband's family it's my family but I still feel lonely .
We're going through the same and I feel like I'm still getting used to life here in the US.
Awww you are the sweetest! I am praying you will see your momma soon🙏❤️
Love you Yaraaaa 💗 You are such a strong woman, more than you realize!!! 💗💗💗
Yara if you have your EDA card ( work permit ) you are allowed to leave the country. They just make you fill out paperwork when you come back in the US. I also did the K1visa process, and as soon as I got my EDA card I was out of here!!! I couldn’t wait to go back home for a visit. I know how hard it is, but then adding on the pandemic on top of all of it, I’m sorry. I hope you get your green card soon! ♥️
Honey, it’s ok. You miss your Mom! And I just know she misses you and wants to see Mylah.
I can’t imagine all you’re going through just to be in the USA. I hope you get all your documents that you need so you can go see your Mom and she can come and stay with you. Things are all messed up because of the Corona virus.
I’ll be praying for you. 🙏
I think one of the hardest things to do is to leave your child with someone that you do not know- like daycare. My two children are 38 & 39 but I remember the awful feeling of having to leave my babies to go to work.
Hang in there Yara! You’re an excellent Mom and a good person. Soon things will get better for you. Sending a big hug from California.
Yeah right thank you for sharing your feelings and I hope that you receive the positivity that we share to you very well. There are people here that understand how you feel and we are here to support you no matter what. 💜
I am so happy that you are happy! You and your mother will be together soon and knowing you have done it the right way will give you peace of mind. Not having to look over your shoulder or think who might be at your front door.
Aww, Yara, I know things are feeling extremely hard, and no one can truly understand how alone you feel without your mom, without you’re family, you’re support system, especially around the holidays, & jovi’s family or friends events, which can trigger those emotions even more. And I’m sorry that you have to endure that pain of missing you’re Mama❤️🩹 But I’ll say this, we’ve all watched you flourish in the states, and we watch how hard you work your ass off for everything, and how your such a wonderful Moma yourself❣️ I know it’s easier said than done, but please try to remind yourself that you WILL get your GREEN CARD and you WILL be reunited with your Moma, family and friends. God will bless you with that, & there’s no doubt about that! And I can promise that reunion will be the best feeling (after having Myla of course) but you WILL have that moment when everything & that last hurtle of having to wait so long for your GC, that you will burst into tears of happiness & have that feeling of overwhelming feeling of joy love, appreciation & COMPLETION 💜 And you’ll look back at everything you were able to overcome, the highs, the lows, and everything in between, all the hard work you put in & the life you’ve built, the family you’ve created, the businesses you’ve built- And finally the GC that you DESERVE…. You’ll say to yourself “ Thank God” cuz you never gave up, you kept pushing forward, and YOU’LL have everything including you’re MOMA❤️🤍 Yara, I’m wishing nothing but the best for you and you’re family & I personally can’t wait to see the look on you’re face when you’re life & heart is full of abundance💕 It will be so beautiful to see✨We’re rooting for you! Keep your head held high, cuz you’re day is coming… And all you’re supporters will be there to rejoice in that celebration 🥂💫💯🕊 Sending love, light, positivity and blessings your way😌 Xxo- 🦋
It must be very hard, especially at this time of year with Thanksgiving and Christmas being so much about family! Maybe you could reach out in your area to other Ukrainians? 💚
It’s a difficult time now. I was raised in another country. As an American, I felt very lonely when we returned to the US. I hope things improve for you.
Your feelings are valid 100% - you clearly are a sweet person. I find it so sweet that you said you consider us your friends, us who adore you Yara are always going to support you :) Things will get better - you will be able to see your family once again soon!
Mylah, is a well adjusted little one...good job, momma!
Yara you are such an inspiration my daughter is currently engaged to a man from Iran . We live in USA watching you and Jovi has been so encouraging to me as a mom and has taught me how to love and support my daughter through the process of getting her fiancé to America . We are now in the waiting game of waiting to be called for his interview and trying to sorta plan a wedding the best we can ! Just remember you are amazing and you and Jovi are my favorite couple .
I 100% get it Yara. You feel welcomed there, but you also feel isolated because they are not your family that you miss. With your blood family love is unconditional. I understand your heart is a little heavy and sad...
Thank you for making this video! It can be so hard to live in another country. I am American but live in another country with my fiancé and I FEEL YOU GIRL! I can't imagine how you must be feeling with a new baby as well... you are so strong and you're doing a great job. Watching this video, I now realize that so many people are feeling how I am feeling on those days when I just miss my family and home country so much. Life throws so much stress your way in general, but especially when you decide to make a big move and make your dreams come true like you are doing. It will get easier with time, and in the meantime just know that so many people are in awe of you and support your journey. Much love to you!
Sending you love and light. Praying for you to have your green card ASAP. Praying you are reunited with your beautiful family.
Oh! Yara. You are the sweetest person on earth ever. You have every right to be disappointed with certain results that by now should have been completed by the authorities. What an amazing asset you are to your country. I truly admire Your honesty respect & love that definitely shines through your beautiful heart and your gorgeous face. What an inspiration to all. It’s such a thrill that you acknowledge Jovi & gave him the best acknowledgement in your life. This proves that you put others before yourself. It’s hurting my friend that you have not seen your mum. Mum’s your best friend. Ok enough from me. I hope I haven’t bored you. But I love & look fw to your videos. Enjoy your day. From your Aussie friend. Hugs to Myla.
You are a very normal and good Mom! Every Mom needs some ‘me’ time just so you can relax and chill!
Thank you for sharing ,wish somehow your mom could come see you and your family or you just get to go visit in your country..
Bless you bunches💐
You have worked hard and you have earned respect! Do not apologize. You followed all the rules! Give yourself the credit you deserve.
so happy i found your channel, i think you are so strong and i hope your mom gets to meet mylah soon. love these types of videos keep being you ❤️
You’re not alone in your feelings, Yara. I have a sister in law that moved here from Colombia and is in your same situation but hopefully things will speed up for you to get your visa.
If your mom would be able to visit you that would help so much! ((Hugs))
Darling! I feel the same! I know exactly how u feel. U are strong beautiful woman. So keep Focus. It will change. Keep Positive. U will see yr Family soon!
I’ve been in America for 7yrs and my family haven’t met my two kids. The holidays are the hardest for me as well. Yara you are doing well and I hope you get to see your family soon.
Awww, I feel for you. I didn't see my daughter and grandson for a year because of this covid, and we live in the same state, so I can only imagine. I sure hope your mom gets to come here as soon as possible. You are such a likeable good person, hope you find more friends. I was a single parent, not sure what I would have done without my families help. I am now a grandma, 57. You have a right to your feelings. BTW, love your Christmas decorations 🎄
I understand you so much I miss Europe soooo much and my family and my friends is just so different here ! And I’m a military wife but from Italy 😂😂😂 miss someone that babysit my baby 😂
I feel for you, I wasn’t home for 2 years because of covid and I cried a lot! I don’t live near any family just my hubby and it’s sooo hard:( I will pray for you to gain the strength to get through this! 🥲
Sending you lots of love and light from Texas 💖💖💖 I hope you see your family soon ❤️ maybe you should talk to a counselor until you can see your family again 💘 sending you so many good vibes Texas loves you sweetie 😙
See a counselor there is a stigma with mental health but we need to break that! My husband is also a immigrant and I have a lot of immigrant friends so I understand what you’re going through it is hard! He is now a citizen so it just takes time it’s so hard when you have your life in the governments hands.
Your panicking Yara! Don’t! It will work out,things are so slow. It’s frustrating and I panic about stuff also but it will all work out. With the Christmas and family problem ,all the Christmas shows are everybody is happy and people tell you stories about their family .Don’t listen their a lot of people who have no family, I lost my whole family.If I could just tell my Mom I love you on the phone would be the best gift. So don’t worry ,fix the tree and enjoy your baby and the people who are around you.God Bless
Stay strong, sweetie!! You’re doing great!! 🤍
Hi Yara, I have moments of intense empty, lonliness and it's an awful feeling. I lived abroad with my family far away under different circumstances than yours but still I feel you, I understand your sadness at not physically being with your Mom and your family in Ukraine. It's wonderful that Mylah loved seeing the other kids, that you can have a little break at the same time and work out etc.
We, your "subs" aren't physically with you but I hope we bring some comfort to you. ❤
Share away, it does you good to get things off your chest. I can tell by your voice that you are so sad about your family and missing them So much. I think you’re an amazing mom and you’re doing a great job with your business. Hang in there!
Oh Yara, as very difficult as it is to be separated from your family, your mother must be over the top proud of you . You don’t complain , you share your feelings, that is healthy. You are already a welcome part in this country, but I am anxious for you and your mother to spend time together with Myla. Thank you for sharing, I will keep you and both families in my prayers . Stay safe
You are loved. You came to this country on the show and many people fell in love with you. You have that “it” factor that will take you far in life. I only wish for your sake whether you go to Ukraine or your family can come to America that you get to spend some time with the people that you love. I am glad you vlog. Keep up the good work.
I’m sorry Yara that you had to wait so long for your mama to either come and visit or you be able to go. I hope this holiday season gives you the gift of freedom to be able to go back home and enjoy time with all your family.
I miss that too - loving, nice family, Yara. But they are in another country. I have some family here but they do not see me regularly. Thank you for sharing.
Yara, your a real sweetheart . I have been following you through your journey. You and Jovi have something very special and also a beautiful child. I hope your green card comes very soon so that you can finally see your mama. 🤗
The immigration process is very frustrating at times. It always takes a long time and there is the cost as well. You are doing all the right things and it will come eventually. They are already slow as hell with the processing then covid is mixed in with that also. Stay strong you will get your residency in the end. 💪 😊
That gym seems so cool. Glad you found it and can get out of the house for a little break. Sending love & hang in there. ❤
Awww Yara, you made me cry. I really hope you get your green card soon. One thing I will say…. I bet your Mam is super proud of you! What a beautiful inside & out, kind & caring lady you are. Much love from 🇬🇧 xx
Yara, I am happy to hear that gym time is working for you, for your spirits! I can relate to feeling lonely and feeling somewhat on the outside looking in, esp during family gatherings...The more you create your own new traditions while also still mixing BOTH family traditions together- I think it will help with your feeling homesick. Nothing can replace being with ppl in person, but I pray for your Green Card soon! Good things come to those who wait. You deserve it, and I love your videos, You make me feel like a friend. I enjoy these videos of you being real and honest.
Jovi, good for you trying to find ways for Yara to continue making USA feel more like "home". It's one thing to not be near family, its another when you CANNOT visit even if you have the time and funds. Try adopting a mixed Christmas of traditions and also, Jovi have you ever thought of learning to speak her native language? I'm NOT telling you what to do, but it may make your family feel more cohesive esp. since Myla will most likely know that language too. Love you Yara you are an amazing and special person.
It’s understandable that your having a hard time adjusting. Be patient and file for a visa for your mom to come to the U.S. Everything eventually will fall into place. PATIENCE is what you need to concentrate on keep yourself busy and stop dwelling on what can’t be helped at this time. Stay positive Yara we all love you!
That's my only concern about international relationships - if they work, someone ends up sacrificing a lot.........it's the everyday contact/visits with our friends and family that is more important than we realise. Best wishes to you Yara :) Have you considered moving closer to Jovi's parents? I'm sure his parents would love to babysit for you.... You are such a great Mum, Yara - and I can tell what a lovely person you are!
Love your little family, keep up the story telling about your life🎀
Yara many of us intelligent people understand. That would be so hard. Wishing you a good mood for the holidays. Hang in there. You're awesome. This will pass.
Aaaaww love you Yara! You are so real and genuine. You are also such a strong lil woman!!
Your so beautiful it will get better ..USA is the way to go. God will help u get home to c your family. Trust in him. One day at a time
I just LOVE when you post, You are so BEAUTIFUL and the baby is getting so BIG, she's so adorable, yes WE ARE your friends on here, so feel free to vent or share ANYTHING, and F them trolls/haters!!! You have wayyyyyyy more people that love you then those that are haters, they just have NO LIFE, and see that you are happy and wish they could be happy. There's a saying misery loves company!!! Love you 😍 💗 💓
I hope as soon as you can visit your family even try move closer to them
Yara you are so Beautiful and so Blessed!
You and Jovi have really grown closer and it shows. I am happy for you that you have adjusted so well living your new life as a wife and mother in the
USA. Now for your mom to come meet her granddaughter in person then I say you will be set💖
Merry Christmas to You Jovi and Mila🎄🎅🏻
💜Diane from California
Yara im happy you broughtt this up. Jovi loves you. Keep your cash til you get confirmation. Best to be safe than sorry. Good luck my friend 😇💙😁 and be persistent.
You are so sweet. Your a great mom and it’s great Myla has kids to interact with. You need your time too. Your a great wife. Just a beautiful person
Hope soon is gonna come!!!!Don't give up 🙏 We love you
I’m kind of going through the same thing, I recently moved to a new province, I’m a single mom and I feel lonely. I miss my family and my sister. If I’m not working I’m home with my daughter so I have no free time to meet a guy or friends for that matter.
Being a mom is so hard and being away from your family is so tough. I didn’t have my mom around when my daughter was born or as she was growing up and that was the hardest thing ever. Your mom should be there 😢
I feel so bored and I really want to meet a guy but have no clue how to even start that process 🥴
I lived away in California for 5yrs and although I lived on the beach in San Diego & life couldnt have been better I still missed and longed for my "home" & family in Nova Scotia Canada... I eventually moved back home and it was bittersweet really. Not saying about you leaving the US just meaning I know how it feels to a certain degree altho I know it's harder for you like you said re: new country/language/lifestyle/ways of life etc...! It can be very hard missing family, friends, familiarity, your home!
So happy to hear that gym sounds awesome! And congrats on all ur accomplishments this far!!🎉🌈💖
By the way you always looks absolutely stunning!!!
I haven’t been home in two years too; is sad, I hope you get your greencard soon!
🙋♀️ Hi from cold 🥶 snowy ❄ Saskatchewan 🇨🇦 I'm really happy to hear that Myla and you have found a gym you both enjoy 🥳
This is good to share with others to know and understand about your feeling lonely missing your family. And to hear from you having a great husband, your Babygirl. How you love is the biggest ever and feeling grateful. I pray for you and your family and your mom all be together. I am very proud of your progress in life and thank Jovi for being a great dad and supportive. Blessings 🙏🏽
I'm so happy you found that gym.
It gives you some time plus it helps Myla so much to socialize with other kids.
That thought that you can be deported but have Myla stuck here is so terrifying but I think Jovi would bring Myla to follow you if that happened so try not to worry about losing her.
Can TLC help with the green card?
Maybe you need a different lawyer???
A back up lawyer?
We do love you and your family and wish you the best.
Edit-- as an after thought, maybe Julia's lawyer has better connections than your lawyer.
Because that's how the world really works.
She can also get ahold of whoever is in their congressional district along with senators. Have someone help her (can be her lawyer) to draft her paper work up, provide evidence of paper work submited, and then submit a formal letter to said congressman/congresswoman. Not politicizing anything but Trump administration and the crack down on immigration across all board, along with covid, has put a major halt.
Fun fact (don't know if the current administration has done away with this) if you sponsor K1, you are now financially obligated for life. The terms were 10 years.
I completely understand how you feel and I can speak from experience but honestly, Sweetie, you are going to have to involve yourself in Jovi’s family wholeheartedly so that you won’t feel as the “outsider”. Once you do that you will always feel apart from the family rather than a part of the family. Sending hugs.
It’s good Yara that you keep yourself busy so time passes fast. I can understand your frustration, keep praying for your green card to be approved soon.
I totally understand what you are going through, Yara. It took me almost a year and a half to get my green card. When I got my green card my mother was in the hospital about tho pass away(also, I was 7 months pregnant). I was able to show her my green card and then she passed a few days later. The hardest part about the whole situation was that she died 2 months before my son was born. She never got the chance to meet him. 😔. I now live with my husband and his parents. My mother in law gets to see and spend everyday with my son, it is so sweet. But at the same time so sad and emotional for me. I get so upset that my mother never got to meet my son, that she didn't get to see him grow and that she is missing out on so much. I love my in laws and my life but it hurts so much. So, I understand how it is that your family isn't there with you and seeing your baby grow or getting the support from them. It has been a little over 2 years now that my mother passed and it only seems to be getting harder for me to keep her memory alive and for me to move forward with things. I know things are good. Just a little sad. Sorry for the long comment but I hope it helps to know that you are not alone and that your feelings are very valid. And that it's good to ask about them.
Awww I understand ♥️♥️♥️
You’re so sweet you deserve everything gods blessed you with
Oh, Yara!!! I adore you!! You just keep getting prettier and you have a beautiful heart. You have always been my favorite 90 day girl - the prettiest, sweetest, best dressed and classiest! Please don't change. I am lonely too, Yara. I have no family etc. So, I understand you too well. I don't think you will have any problem getting your green card at all. I can't wait until you can go see your mom again. Sending you heart healing hugs and lots of love from me and all of your friends!!! ❤
I immigrated from Sweden to the US 22 years ago, but I did not marry until 10 years later, before I married I would go back and forth a lot on the 6 month tourist visa. But one day I flew into the US and got taken to the side in the customs and they said I had been in the US too often and that I had to go back to Sweden and either be in the US less often or for my bf to start being in Sweden more. I begged and cried to please let me in for at least a little, 30 mins later the guy said, ok this is what we gonna do. I'm gonna give you entry to the US for 3 months.. In those 3 months you gonna have to figure out if you want to marry this guy or if you want to stay in Sweden much more.
So we got a immigration lawyer first of all, they can give you so much answers so quick. I asked him if we marry in a month do I have to leave to Sweden until I get the green card, (or the permanent resident card that you get first)? He said, I'm not suppose to say this but if you marry you don't have to leave the country, but you also cant leave the country until you get your permanent resident card which can take a year or two. If I would decide to go back to Sweden after those 3 months I would be stuck in Sweden until I got my permanent resident card. You basically get a permanent resident card after a year or so, then you get the green card after like 3 or 4 years. I decided to stay in the US, so I could not go back home for a few years.
I also did not want to risk going to the airport to fly anywhere inside of the US, cause they might see that you are overstayed, even though you are married. I would go on vaccation inside of the US with amtrak, the train. It was the only way until I got the permanent resident card. Point here is, they can not deport you if you are married and have the permanent resident card or greencard. You also can go to Ukraine for up to 6 months, not more. If you go to Ukraine for more then 6 months then they can deny you entry because they see it as if you live in Ukraine and not the US. I have gone to Sweden almost every year before the pandemic for 5.5 months and never had a issue. They probably will ask you when you re enter the US why you stayed there so long. But there is nothing they can do about it unless you are over there for more then 6 months. If you got questions, please get a immigration lawyer, it puts your mind at ease so much.
I hope you get to see your family soon. Even moving across in the same country is hard. I can't imagine not having the option to go see my family especially around the holidays and with a baby.
We love you, Yara, and feel like you're a part of our American "family." We're also so happy that Jovi is a good husband, we thought he would be. It would be wonderful to see your mom come to America for a visit, I hope she can travel here one day. We pray for you and your family. Many blessings to you!
My heart breaks for you not being able to see your family. I have 3 grandkids and I cannot imagine not being able to meet them when they were born snd to spend time with them. You are a wonderful mama Yara and I pray you get your green card soon
Yara, you are a good Momma and a fantastic wife. And I love that I can say you live in my state Louisiana! 💋🧚🏻♀️❤️🇺🇸
You are doing so good being patient for your green card, and working hard for your family's futures! Your Momma must be really proud of you! You and Jovi are badass and solid parents, Mila and your family are very lucky to have a smart, strong, beautiful person on their team❣ High five 👏 on keeping up on building all your accomplishments and I pray you will be able to travel safely ASAP!!❣
I hope you get your green card soon to visit your family. Yara I enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing.
your not alone❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending a big 🤗 hug
what's your case status now? you should try reaching out and asking why it's taking that long
Yara 😢 you are not the only one in this situation. I am in the same as you. I am from Venezuela living here for almost 3 years. I got married with my husband the last year in February , we started the process on May last year . My first lawyer was a mess. She keeps my documents for almost 6 months and she never could fill out because some form that was before with the Trump Government and she didn’t know was she was doing , also she made some mistakes .I fired her . We just could introduce the documents on April this year and I still don’t have work permit . I heard that they are taking time in processing all of the requests. Also I know a lot of people that have getting problems renewing their work permit . Anyway, I understand you is so hard being far away from the family 😢, also this process take long time . I can’t work , I can’t drive and is depressing this waiting.
Oh girl… we gotch-you!!!!! Talk to us anytime!!!! I adore you! You are everything that’s “right” of 90-day fiancé!!!! 💙💙💙💙
Your a strong women! Missing your Mom and family just shows what a wonderful person you are! We do feel your pain and I hope you will be able to either go see your Mom or for her to come see you soon. Holiday are always harder but stay strong and your day will come. God Bless!
We came here at the same time , I received my greencard this January . But I traveled to see my family on the combocard , as long as you have evidence of marriage you will be fine ! Check your work permit , if the bottom is saying “ serves as I-512 advance parole “ you are good to go and see your family and return back to the US . And file to expedite your greencard . It’s worth a try , that’s how I received my combocard . And your greencard application won’t be suspended if you have the combocard ! And you always file for I-512 . Всё будет хорошо
Yara your a sweetheart!
Honey
I love you so much. Your a wonderful young lady
Praying you get your green card. I dont see why you won't
I’m sorry you are feeling so stressed out, but please calm down. You will get your green card, it’s just everything is so messed up with the gov. right now. When I immigrated to USA, during the time my documents were hung up also, because of the massive storm. The storm wiped out the area where I was doing my documents and everything was tied up for an extra six months. So please if you want to talk to someone who’s been down this same road…..send my a message.
You sound like you are VERY homesick!