Before you go decide on a Filipina as your future partner, go live there single for 3 months and see if you like the food, weather, pests, garbage, dogs-roosters-karaoke, and overwhelming smell of sewage. There are so many better Asian countries to meet a partner. Not only are they far more comfortable in every way, but they are actually cheaper than the Philippines. Equally visit places like Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, and others. Then you can make a decision based on your own personal experiences and not opinions on UA-cam with possible alternative motives.
I agree with you - Thanks to Paul and Mia's videos, they helped me identify one person who was just claiming to love me but in reality, was trying to scam me for money. Luckily for me, I already had my guard up from their videos and she never saw a single penny. All these videos about scammers are real and while I had a good time online with her, at least it didn't cost me anything
@@satoshi_yukamoto841 thats not a problem. I need a woman who wish a lot of kids, I need very family oriented woman I accept if her family needs like USD 250 monthly
What these guys say in front of camera, for utube views, and what REALLY goes on off camera in their married relationships over the next several years will be very interesting. These vlogs won’t age well.
That last joint piece of advice was so important. If you show up and the extended family are all there for the big meal you are expected to pay for, and this is a surprise for you, it is a disrespectful situation. How rude and presumptious, but filipinos do this. It may not be her doing. They might have imposed it on her and she didnt want to make a scene and stop it. Be fair to her and say it will never be acceptable for this scene at any time. That way, if it happens, you should have a quick sidebar and ask her what led up to it. If it is a first meeting, you should absolutely be prepared to walk away. Here is the trick: be prepared for this scene, even though you told her not to. Have it in your mind as you are about to meet. Otherwise you may get caught up in the moment and swept along to an expensive bill paying for people you dont know. Worse than that, you have set a bad precedent. If you with a group of filipinos, and you are wondering who will pay the bill, assume it is you.
We are compassionate people and helping another person is not wrong. Just say "begging is a form of employment". We see it in the states. Beggars at the expressway exits. You will never know if its going to work out. At any given time they could end it.Just like in the states. Just like everywhere else men are walking away from women.
Hi Paul & Mia, Thx for a very informative topic & blog. A couple more things to mention, there isn’t a good major private hospital, or taxis, jeepney s in Dumaguette.
After hearing that Gio abandoned his children I can't watch him anymore. Maybe it's not true but until he addresses the issue I'm going to assume it is.
I don’t completely agree with girls having much more options these days. Yes they do have cellphones and better ways to connect but younger guys generally don’t last and they are just for fun temporarily. And some of the Filipinas who actually wanna settle and upgrade their lifestyle will most likely need to deal with the older guys because the young won’t last. Or their budget won’t last.
That temporary fun with unlimited amount of guys may last for years until she'll become a single mom. And she may wish to continue even if she is 40 with 8 kids from different fathers.
@@manchesterr85 Thousands of men come to find a filipina, hundreds of thousands sx tourists pretending for looking wives. Millions on dating apps regardless of location. Create a female profile and see yourself.
You have to lead with money and increase slowly just as she should lead with flirting and increase with segs. You show you're willing to invest in her, she shows you she's willing to be intimate with you.
My comments are automatically deleted on Gio's channel. But, good points here. I always refer back to the Sternberg's triangle (psychology) that show Passion (genuine burning desire) is mandatory for romantic love. Commitment (usually involving money) is defined as non-love. Platonic fun (part of Intimacy) is the friend zone. As shown on Hoe_Math channel's zones chart, you can't fun, status, or friend zone your way into Passion. So, it boils down to transactional relationships 99% of the time and ROI isn't so good anymore. "Only-Chads" are loved. All other's it's Only-Simps in one form or another.
Well true to a certain extend, however there is Passion even in Age gap relationships as women here look at expats as a prize not just because of security but also due to there different looks. Of course if you are 75 years old overweight with a 21 year old model I will agree with you :)
It sucks because it seems like in general cases were hardwired to go for appearances first. But I can't speak for all, there are definitely people who are not shallow and can fall in love from how they see the person from the inside. It's a complicated topic.
@@marchoman1776 It might help to look at the statistics on the topic of looks. Romantic love (not every type of love) is largely looks driven (based in evolutionary psychology). Channels like Wheat Waffles shows the basics of this. As women mature, security (not romantic love) become more important.
Yes I retired (Again), back in the Philippines. Not sure still where we will end up eventually. We are also looking at maybe moving to Europe as our Final destination.
@@paulsasianadventure8050 Oh ok i see but honest i would stay in the Philippines since you have a Filipina wife. taking her to another country where you both will be foreigners. You will lose the advantages a local has in the Philippinnes.
It’s much harder than UA-camrs say. There are millions of cute girls in Philippines but you need to have confidence to approach and make a connection. The hard part is getting any girl to take a foreigner seriously. Just to a date from online could take weeks; prepare to get ghosted and catfished. Just take your time. 3 weeks is not even close to enough and most of the girls online will waste a ton of your time with zero payoff. Just do the in person thing. I’m a younger fit guy, even I can’t get a super hot girl here. It’s an uphill battle. Optimize your instagram or she won’t be interested
What? your young and fit and cant get a fit girl in the Philippines? Where do you live in the Philippines? I agree with you though its not AS easy as most youtuber's pretend it is, but its still way easier than the west
@@paulsasianadventure8050 He must be crazy. Im 36, swedish software engineer on roids (i know i know) and getting girls in PH is the easiest shit ive ever done in my life LOL
Paul, serious question. You probably heard this many times. Why you not make your wife pregnant? If there is a technical reason than you can ignore my comment but if everything is healthy than you are doing your wife injustice by letting her stay childless.
Just don't ask them what they want.
Just tell them what you want.
Don't become a Captain-Save-a-Ho.
Before you go decide on a Filipina as your future partner, go live there single for 3 months and see if you like the food, weather, pests, garbage, dogs-roosters-karaoke, and overwhelming smell of sewage. There are so many better Asian countries to meet a partner. Not only are they far more comfortable in every way, but they are actually cheaper than the Philippines. Equally visit places like Vietnam, Laos, Cambodia, and others. Then you can make a decision based on your own personal experiences and not opinions on UA-cam with possible alternative motives.
I agree with you - Thanks to Paul and Mia's videos, they helped me identify one person who was just claiming to love me but in reality, was trying to scam me for money. Luckily for me, I already had my guard up from their videos and she never saw a single penny. All these videos about scammers are real and while I had a good time online with her, at least it didn't cost me anything
They are not as family oriented
@@isaacabraham212 cool you won't have to support her family then, awesome!
@@satoshi_yukamoto841 thats not a problem. I need a woman who wish a lot of kids, I need very family oriented woman
I accept if her family needs like USD 250 monthly
Thanks for the advice guys …
What these guys say in front of camera, for utube views, and what REALLY goes on off camera in their married relationships over the next several years will be very interesting. These vlogs won’t age well.
What I find funny is they're telling you to dress well whilst they're dressed like every broke bum tourist who's on their two week vacation 😂.
They also used to preach about never getting married then go do exactly the opposite 😂
@@ShadowTurnip-p1z and no tats
They said don't marry single mothers but they do. What's the purpose of the video? Get more views & Earn pocket money from UA-cam?
That last joint piece of advice was so important. If you show up and the extended family are all there for the big meal you are expected to pay for, and this is a surprise for you, it is a disrespectful situation. How rude and presumptious, but filipinos do this. It may not be her doing. They might have imposed it on her and she didnt want to make a scene and stop it. Be fair to her and say it will never be acceptable for this scene at any time. That way, if it happens, you should have a quick sidebar and ask her what led up to it. If it is a first meeting, you should absolutely be prepared to walk away. Here is the trick: be prepared for this scene, even though you told her not to. Have it in your mind as you are about to meet. Otherwise you may get caught up in the moment and swept along to an expensive bill paying for people you dont know. Worse than that, you have set a bad precedent. If you with a group of filipinos, and you are wondering who will pay the bill, assume it is you.
Thanks for the comment
We are compassionate people and helping another person is not wrong. Just say "begging is a form of employment". We see it in the states. Beggars at the expressway exits. You will never know if its going to work out. At any given time they could end it.Just like in the states. Just like everywhere else men are walking away from women.
Spot on Paul 100% !!! Best advice.and the harsh Truth! Cheers as always
Hi Paul & Mia,
Thx for a very informative topic & blog. A couple more things to mention, there isn’t a good major private hospital, or taxis, jeepney s in Dumaguette.
You've upgraded from pickup lines to relationship guidelines.
After hearing that Gio abandoned his children I can't watch him anymore. Maybe it's not true but until he addresses the issue I'm going to assume it is.
Just go there and be real and be yourself.
Be kind and respectful and as they said, be a man.
I don’t completely agree with girls having much more options these days. Yes they do have cellphones and better ways to connect but younger guys generally don’t last and they are just for fun temporarily. And some of the Filipinas who actually wanna settle and upgrade their lifestyle will most likely need to deal with the older guys because the young won’t last. Or their budget won’t last.
That temporary fun with unlimited amount of guys may last for years until she'll become a single mom. And she may wish to continue even if she is 40 with 8 kids from different fathers.
@ unlimited amount of guys? Where? Compared to the amount of single Filipinas, the number of foreigners is much less. Especially in the province.
@@manchesterr85 Thousands of men come to find a filipina, hundreds of thousands sx tourists pretending for looking wives. Millions on dating apps regardless of location. Create a female profile and see yourself.
@@manchesterr85 No. Google the numbers, x100 looking for them remotely.
You have to lead with money and increase slowly just as she should lead with flirting and increase with segs. You show you're willing to invest in her, she shows you she's willing to be intimate with you.
My comments are automatically deleted on Gio's channel. But, good points here. I always refer back to the Sternberg's triangle (psychology) that show Passion (genuine burning desire) is mandatory for romantic love. Commitment (usually involving money) is defined as non-love. Platonic fun (part of Intimacy) is the friend zone. As shown on Hoe_Math channel's zones chart, you can't fun, status, or friend zone your way into Passion. So, it boils down to transactional relationships 99% of the time and ROI isn't so good anymore. "Only-Chads" are loved. All other's it's Only-Simps in one form or another.
Well true to a certain extend, however there is Passion even in Age gap relationships as women here look at expats as a prize not just because of security but also due to there different looks. Of course if you are 75 years old overweight with a 21 year old model I will agree with you :)
So, ugly people can never be loved in a relationship?
It sucks because it seems like in general cases were hardwired to go for appearances first. But I can't speak for all, there are definitely people who are not shallow and can fall in love from how they see the person from the inside. It's a complicated topic.
@@marchoman1776 It might help to look at the statistics on the topic of looks. Romantic love (not every type of love) is largely looks driven (based in evolutionary psychology). Channels like Wheat Waffles shows the basics of this. As women mature, security (not romantic love) become more important.
Gio married an used bar girl😂😂😂
I think this great advice is applicable to all countries - esp. the west..
hello. Paul thought you were living in Saudi with your wife. What happened are you living in the philippine now
Yes I retired (Again), back in the Philippines. Not sure still where we will end up eventually. We are also looking at maybe moving to Europe as our Final destination.
@@paulsasianadventure8050 Oh ok i see but honest i would stay in the Philippines since you have a Filipina wife. taking her to another country where you both will be foreigners. You will lose the advantages a local has in the Philippinnes.
@@ntech1507Quality of life is crap
What if you’re 50 and in good shape and don’t stink?😂 Can you find models like the thumbnail to date?
To date and have fun yes, but nothing serious.
Just tell them that you want some sweet mango...isn't that what you did?
Usually it's just how much to her owner then send her to the fields for work.
HOW TO PICKUP GIRLS IN THE PHILIPPINES ....... PLACE ONE HAND UNDER EACH ARM AND LIFT GENTLY
😂 🤣 😂
It’s much harder than UA-camrs say. There are millions of cute girls in Philippines but you need to have confidence to approach and make a connection.
The hard part is getting any girl to take a foreigner seriously. Just to a date from online could take weeks; prepare to get ghosted and catfished. Just take your time. 3 weeks is not even close to enough and most of the girls online will waste a ton of your time with zero payoff. Just do the in person thing. I’m a younger fit guy, even I can’t get a super hot girl here. It’s an uphill battle. Optimize your instagram or she won’t be interested
What? your young and fit and cant get a fit girl in the Philippines? Where do you live in the Philippines? I agree with you though its not AS easy as most youtuber's pretend it is, but its still way easier than the west
Was never ghosted or catfished once on a date in PH. It's a problem of her not being attracted enough to you bro. Truth is painful sometimes.
Lol what? 36 year, I have zero and I mean ZERO PROBLEMS with them. "Uphill battle" tf dude? What u doing wrong, this is like fishing with a grenade
@@paulsasianadventure8050 He must be crazy. Im 36, swedish software engineer on roids (i know i know) and getting girls in PH is the easiest shit ive ever done in my life LOL
@@sundvallen Agree. Easiest place to date in the world. Full stop.
This is untrue, these women are very serious about relationship.. westerners sense humor is not funny in the south east Asia.. do y’all homework
Bredzisz, dziadu
He has been to there since like 2008, i think he knows better than you.
@@ST-TVnah, he’s a red pill
@@andyperez7342 And what is your problem with that?
@@ST-TV you keep responding, so get off of my 🍖
Gio tell us what happened in your marriage? Inquiring minds want to know.
Paul, serious question. You probably heard this many times. Why you not make your wife pregnant? If there is a technical reason than you can ignore my comment but if everything is healthy than you are doing your wife injustice by letting her stay childless.
🤦🏽♂️
Does Gio have that hat glued to his head? He wears a hat indoors and outdoors 24hrs,,,,hahaha