In case anyone needs to hear and know this " the blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb", means that the bonds you've chosen are more significant than those formed by familial or blood relations.
Fun fact! Depending on where you live, passport, driver's licenses and ID cards are considered government property. Destroying them means you get a felony, possibly even jail time! So Mr "Dad of the year I am withholding your passport from you my child" can get into big trouble if he actually does destroy the passport. Considering he also has admitted to planning on doing that via text messages, that case would be closed so fast it might also get a speeding ticket.
I seriously hope they called the police to assist in getting those documents from the dad rather than just replacing everything. Even if it's only to show him that he can't keep threatening their adult child with stuff without consequences.
For context, the woman with 6 kids one room, the bedroom is only for her and her husband, and they have a huge TV and gaming system just for the husband. So yeah, really insane parents
+ he already has kids with another woman; meaning he has to pay child support if he actually earns money... thats why he only earns a little over small jobs
@@elle9188 CPS doesn't care. They literally left my nephew in filthy conditions (rats, junk everywhere, glass and nails in the yard), surrounded by meth heads and CPs. Walked right in, looked no further than the living room, and left after tested only his parents, and they gave them advanced warning days ahead so they could get clean long enough to not test positive on the drug test (which my brother admitted to me later on). I've lost all faith in that organization.
Ok, if your insane parents is withholding your legal documents you call the police non-emergency line and have an officer accompany you to get your documents so they can't try to destroy them. This is in no way having them arrested or what ever other BS they will try.
I've seen it around and it bears repeating: there are two types of respect. You can respect someone as another living creature deserving of dignity or you can respect the authority of someone in power. Sometimes someone will say, "I'll respect you if you respect me." What they mean is, "Unless you treat me like an authority, I won't treat you like a human being."
It can come from the opposite angle too, meaning I'll respect your authority only if you respect me as a human. Depending on who's saying it, a parent or a child, a boss or a worker, a teacher or a student.
@@cheddarcheezit2647 Oh for sure, it's an extremely low bar. I was kind of thinking of a situation where someone in power is questioning your lack of respect for them, and you need to point out that they don't even respect you as a human, so why would you respect them as any kind of an authority. Respect doesn't automatically follow from that of course, but if even that level of respect isn't shown first there's no hope of any kind being reciprocated.
Warning- joke turned into a mini vent not long tho Guess who doesn’t respect the authority of the guy who’s about to be in power in my stupid country wtf were the adults thinking why can’t I vote until I’m 18 ARGHH
Legitimately afraid for that poor gf in the first tiktok. She's making threats that could lead to deadly actions. "Rip" the baby out of her? She doesn't even want to wait for her grandchild to be born before she kidnaps them. She's fantasizing about killing the mother in the process, and putting that online publicly.
I have heard of TWO cases of women obsessing over having a baby and perpetrating a vivisection on a pregnant woman and *literally* ripping the baby out
3:50 that woman is infuriating. My mother was one of seven children. She grew up in the 50's -70's. Her father constantly had to move the family around as work became available. But he always made sure there were at least Three bedrooms. They were dirt poor and he did any job he could find, but he still made sure there was a room for the boys, a room for the girls (two if he could help it since there were mostly girls) and a room for the parents. Cramming everyone in one room like it's the middle ages is irresponsible. Especially when you know you can't afford more room. Children take a lot of room.
She's treating kids like they're pokemon cards! Life isn't a video game where you can cram as many cute babies into a small space as you want with no repercussions, there's actual consequences! It's one thing to want to have a large family and a lot of children to care for, but you have to have the means to take care of them. She isn't even seeing the situation the kids are in as a problem, it's like she's just focused on getting more kids.
@@xanthemothcat Rather, she's treating them like fundamentally, toys to dangle in front of a camera. His husband owns a HUGE TV and a frickin PS5. It's sick behavior.
@@petrfedor1851 i only have one brother and I'm a girl. My mom never put us in the living room, she'd sleep in the living room or dining room if there weren't enough rooms for us to have our own. We only slept in the same room when we were really small kids. There are simply some things that growing kids need personal space for.
@@ladykoiwolfe we have only two rooms total (+ kitchen & bathroom) So there was no way to do that even if there was good reason to do So. It was really busy, one was constantly in the way of someone else. Probably reason I consider not seeing or talking to anyone for few days in row such a bliss
I think LegalEagle said something like this: "Advice 1: don't commit crimes. Advice 2: if you do commit crimes, don't film and document them on the internet"
My mom tried to withhold my medical info and birth certificate when I was moving out with my fiancé, (she was in a mood) claiming I could just call to get replacements and once saying she didn’t know where they were (she did because even I knew). Fortunately, my fiancé has a very loving and supportive family and one of his sisters is a lawyer. I took a screenshot of a conversation I had with her about the matter and sent it to my mom. All my records were left outside my door the next day. 😊
@daisyjoy242 I recommend watching videos about the situation and doing you own research because I don't want to parrot misinfo. You can find stuff about them by looking up the resilient Jenkins. The dad doesn't have a stable income and he doesn't want to get a real job because of child support payments
@@daisyjoy242Yeah the dude believes in "God told man to be fruitful and go multiple" but doesn't believe in being faithful or paying for those kids. Bro trying to create a free child army.
Watching this after Thanksgiving dinner with my parents. Who are completely accepting of me as a trans gay man, adore my bi husband, and spoil the crap out of our 2 daughters. My husband and I were hosting and they treat our home with respect and don't throw shade over some silly bullshit like us not having matching glassware or something. And my equally fantastic older was there, too. Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for my absolutely amazing family.
Having seen my mother's reaction to someone twice her size getting too close in my personal space, yeah, that is one fight I'd rather avoid. There's a reason maternal instincts are so common in animals: If you threaten a child, and the mother finds out, there aren't enough shades of gray to describe how fornicated you are.
i had this playing in the background while cleaning and the text convo at 27:25 sounded way to familar so i replayed it and realize click was reading MY post, i didn't think it would popular enough that he would see it lol
Yeah. Is it weird that I feel sorry for her? Like, something has to be seriously wrong upstairs if that's her reaction to her son having a girlfriend. I'd actually like to study her.
@@Kartoffelkamm There IS an element of "what happened to you for your worldview to be THIS messed up?" But, she's also a dangerous woman, so, I'd recommend study from afar.
Except in Sims, nobody over the age of toddler actually needs to sleep, and also pregnancies take 4 days and they are unable to die while pregnant or during labour. Can you imagine if that daft soul dies during her seventh or eighth pregnancy and the father is left with all those kids alone?
11:24 A passport isn't the property of the person it identifies, butrather of the issuing government. Douchedad is threatening to destroy government property.
Yes. Government documents usually remain property of the government. Where I live, if you can't hand in the old one, they won't give you a new one unless you file it as stolen or lost with the police. Which I assume, if you lie about that is another crime.
Pretty sure destroying someone else's documents in general is a crime in almost any country, not to talk about the withholding it too. That by itself is a pretty severe crime already
Usually the passport is, strictly speaking, the property of the issuing State so refusing to hand it over the person named in the passport is a crime that can involve prison time.
I'm extremely convinced that this specific type of mothers are the first to say: "so, when are you going to have grandchildren?", however, when their son gets engaged, they're like: "YOU DON'T WANT ME ANYMORE, YOU'LL LET ME ROT OLD AND ALONE. HOW DARE THAT ***, SHE TOOK MY SON AWAY FROM ME"
My family is like this I am not joking. My cousins need to hide their SO's for hours until they're like slightly drunk whenever they come over for New Years.
It's this goddamn weird thing of some mothers borderline treating their sons like romantic partners. It's seriously gross. You shouldn't feel jaleous of your goddamn child. :I
people who demand respect from others but show none to others and talk down to them or say hateful things don't realise that in treating others badly...YOUR RESPECT ISN'T WORTH A DAMN.
I could never really understand the "respect your elders/betters" thing. I think I always understood that respect is earned. I may be old but I don't expect anyone to respect me just for that. And the you're-my-kid-so-you-have-to-bow-to-me crap is ridiculous.
@@barrylangille3523I think it's a respect the game/grift kind of thing. They're old and they're still alive. That was a big deal when we had less advanced healthcare. I think it makes sense since older people have gone through a lot, but I don't know if it should kick in until someone is 75.
6:51 this woman also has a MASSIVE amazon wishlist of which plenty of stuff on there people have bought for her. And theres unnecessary things like ring lights. Her "man" also refuses to get an actual W-2 qualifying job because he doesnt want to pay child support for the other kid he has with another woman. Btw that kid is 8+. They both look down on people with w-2 jobs in their delusion.They have a mattress and game system in their room meanwhile the kids sleep on foam in the kitchen/living room next to the litter boxes. Their logic is "they were misbehaving and torn up their mattresses so now they have this." Its a whole mess and i hope CPS can get involved.
That’s disgusting, child neglect for everyone to see and no one does anything about it.. Why is it always the most insane neglectful parents who are so damn fertile? Meanwhile there are so many people who would be the best parents but can’t have a baby themselves. That stuff is why I don’t believe in fate or “everything is meant to be” crap, f that, it’s always the worst people who get kids they don’t deserve.
@@RookieAssassinThat's a good question! I honestly believe it's not a complete coincidence that the irresponsible people are so often the most fertile. For one, they often start quite young, whereas more responsible parents wait until their life situation is more stable, which can these days take a long time. Secondly the more responsible parents listen to all the recommendations and usually wait at least a couple of years between each pregnancy, effectively causing the number of children to stay lower. Thirdly the responsible parents think ahead and stop making babies before they have too many to raise well by their own higher standards. In the meanwhile the irresponsible people keep churning out babies as if there's no tomorrow. I'm not saying it's impossible to have a big family and still be a responsible parent, but it's quite rare to want that, and we don't hear horror stories about them even when that happens. It's also possible to be totally irresponsible and infertile, but again we won't hear about those cases since they don't become parents. So it really feels like the most irresponsible and horrendous parents are also the most fertile ones.
@@durabelle yep, the only people I don't blame for having more kids than they can afford (at least when intentionally getting pregnant), is when you get surprised by multiples.
Please, on April 1st, release a full episode of insane parents bingo, or women's anatomy in swedish. I would love to watch it without context with my husband. I don't know anything about swedish, I was homeschooled on an anti-vaxxer religious cult like curriculum, so it's amazing that I can semi write in my first language. Especially since I was raised to see myself as nothing but a womb. So happy I got away and I'm vaccinated now. Anywho, the intro was beautiful
I'm glad you got out of that environment, and also, that's an awesome idea! Also, speaking as someone about to complete a trade certificate in my late forties, it's never too late to get more education. If you can't afford formal tuition fees, there are a lot of people who post lessons in pretty much anything from building technology to music theory on UA-cam.
the woman with one bedroom and 6-7 kids, her and her husband HAVE THE BEDROOM AND A PS5 but her kids dont have an actual room or even proper beds edit: just wanna note im not trying to say you cant be struggling and have any luxuries at all, but ps5's arent cheap and neither are the games
If you're a parent struggling financially, and where you live only has 1 bedroom, the KIDS get the bedroom. End of story. Their needs come first before yourself always
And what's even more unhinged is that the husband doesn't want to work a regular job nor pay child support for his other child, but they want to have MORE children.
Its also illegal. This isnt like something bad happened and theyre making do, they are intentionally making thks the norm. Its illegal to have all thsoe kids skeeping in the living room like that. Especially if they dont have beds and are mixed genders. Theyre one cps call away from losing at least half those kids, if not all. Especially if they refuse to improve their situation and gets jobs to support them.@@Account_Not_Applicable
Honestly? Still better than what I was imagining, because how do you say you only have one bedroom and are "trying to get more kids"? Good thing at least the kids aren't forced to watch that horror movie...
My mom refused to leave my place of residence after being asked several times, so I told her I'll be calling the cops for trespassing. She said not to worry about it she'll go give then a heads up so they won't bother her later. Internally I was like that's not the threat you think it is and would actually save me time 😂
"Hello 911. I am illegally trespassing after being told to leave the premises amd making threats. I would like to report the resident of the property for mot allowing me to trespassing and harass them."
7:35 Bruh, I have my own room and a good-sized lounge with a balcony and I _still_ don't feel like I'm in an appropriate apartment to finally get a _cat_ , who _are_ these people??
17:12 witholding an adult's passport is insane. The only time in my life my parents kept my passport was when I was a literal child and it was for safe keeping. I've been responsible for all my own documents since I turned 18, regarless of who paid to get the passport/documents issued.
@@Aghul it is. Withholding any type of identification of another person is a crime. You can't withhold an adults ID, drivers license, passport, or even a native tribal card. Cops will either force the person to give it back or arrest them and give it back. If you destroy or tamper with it that's even worse
@@Aghul it is. Even if they aren't 18. I actually once had to help a homeless teen i worked with get cops involved to get their documents from their parents. (Note: they got kicked out and the parents refused to let them back. They wound up getting charged for a bunch of stuff too. I'm not 100% sure what happened as after that, the teen had to transfer to a new location as they, and their younger sibling, were put into foster care in an entirely different county. It's been yrs now, but last I heard they were working and just got a lawyer to get custody of their sibling which was only about 11 at the time. This way this won't have to grow up in the system.
That actually reminded me that my birth certificate is at my parents' house. Not because they're withholding it, I just never needed it for anything since I got my national ID and passport while I still lived with them.
24:37 Holy crap... that is absolutely VILE. Why have kids if you're not even gonna do the bare minimum like FEED THEM?! 100% neglect and ab*se. I genuinely hope OP is in a better, more stable place now. Good lord. That mother should be ASHAMED.
HI! Op here! Yup I'm no contact and live across the country now, I'm in a good place! ty for the kind words! i suffer a lot from imposter syndrome around that time in my life, so seeing ppl up in arms about it rlly helps HAHA
My other concern was the lack of an adult in the trailer with the teens. And were other needs being ignored for these kids, like hygiene? My heart hurts whenever I hear someone somewhere ends up suffering like this at a young age... 💔
Same! When I was younger, I didn't think much about my parents. They were...just parents. Then, when I grew up and had in-laws or talked in more depth with my friends about their parents and childhood, I realized, in the grand game of life, I have been dealt a pretty good hand. Two loving, caring, mature, supportive, normal parents.
I keep forgetting that Click speaks german and get jumpscare everytime he does😭😭 Like damn bro I did NOT expect to be greeted in my native language in an English video by a Swedish dude
This deserves a lot more upvotes. Toxic is toxic and few people take the decision to go NC lightly so the amount of crap any child going NC has gone though is often mind-boggling.
@@BlueTressym this. People learn I'm planning on going no contact with my parents as soon as I can manage to, and they think we just had one medium sized fight and I decided to throw a temper tantrum for not getting my way. Like no, they just neglected me for decades and try to gaslight me pretty much all the time.
"Did these parents never learn emotional regulation?" No, and that's why I have BPD now and several other severe disorders. Going to therapy (and hospital) because you're parents didn't, really is a true saying
I went no contact with my mother almost twenty years ago. I told her for years i was moving to Nola, planned it and did it. When i moved here she said you're not my daughter if you stay there. She doesn't know she has four grandchildren and i will never tell her. Sad but you said you didn't have a daughter so you don't have grandchildren apparently. Insane parents are wild, your kids grow up and become adults and if you want them in your life as adults then respect they grow up.
If I can give you a tip, remember to always tell your kids why they don't "have" a grandma, the way she treated you and why you don't want them near her. Otherwise, if you just tell them they don't have a grandma or don't give them an explanation they may grow a bit resentful for never meeting her. They need to know they'll never meet her for their own good, and not just because you wanted to ❤
@MaridoDoFelps she's never really asked about her grandmother so I haven't had to tell her yet. It's really a shame though because my daughter's a really good kid.
I feel this. I haven't managed no contact yet, but I will only be having kids after no contact. Before is not an option, no child should be subjected to them.
I have an aunt who has 6 kids, going on 7th. She can barely keep up rent for a small 2 bedroom apartment, let alone food for 7 children. A lot of people who have children they can't afford don't realize that they can't afford it.
That's humans. When someone has the urge to have a baby, they're going to do their damnedest to have a baby, and whether they can afford it is not a thing their brain is going to process. Our brains evolved over hundreds of thousands of years and money is a very new phenomenon. In a civilised country they would have enough income to feed and house the kids with dignity because it's not the kids' fault the parents are like that. Also, they'd be likely to be referred to financial counselling and parenthood training - the amount of parenthood skills training I was given as a young welfare-dependent single mother felt like a lot at the time, but it really does help.
If you need to recover legal documents from a parent that won't give 'em, why not just get the police involved? Watch the asshole back down like a mouse the second an officer knocks on their door.
Honestly, an insane parents video is kinda perfect for thanksgiving 😭 I’m hiding in a guest room until it’s time to eat My parents are fine, but they’re out of the country and I’m stuck here with my relatives (my thanksgiving lineup: household of trump supporters, transphobes, homophobes, a lot of food I can’t eat because I’m allergic, the always attention seeking sisters, the uncle who is the most fun but also worries me because my cousin says he yells at him and spanks him a lot even though he’s 11 years old now) My aunt is pretty chill, I don’t see her a lot because she gets bad headaches from her depression but she’s fun and she used to make paper fortune tellers with us. As far as I know she’s the only other queer person in the family (I’m closeted but I think I’ve seen a bi or pan pin on her bag before) Anyway Wish me luck, the anxiety goes hard
I actually really like the idea of Click doing videos in other languages. His voice is so soothing and hearing him speak what sounds like gibberish to me would be an immediate anxiety killer
6:00 can we also just please talk about how, if there's only that one room and the dining area, they are doing the forbidden dance either in the eating area or IN THE SAME ROOM AS THEIR KIDS WHEN THEY ARE SLEEPING?!?!!!
This gambling thing seems like mom won it big (100k),gave their child some of it and instantly went and gambled the rest away. A typical turn of events for gambling addicts.
By the way, being a “fusional” “possessive” “over protective” or “best friend” parent is often seen in incestual/incestuous families. Because if you do not consider that your child is a person of their own / do not accept their boundaries / do not keep your place as a parent and act in a way that confuse the roles and the ages in the family / put the responsibility of your own parents, friends, partner or psychiatrist on your child (counting on them for your own emotional, physical, psychological, financial and/or mental security, when you are the one that’s supposed to be the garant of security and not the other way around) / do not put boundaries between your intimacy and theirs (talking about your intimacy with your children, asking intrusive questions about their intimacy, refusing boundaries about intimacy or their bodies, refusing when they stop wanting you to wash them or kiss them on the lips or touch them a certain way or taking baths together or being naked on their presence etc etc)… you can see how it can very easily creeps its way into dangerous territories. And even if it’s never physical, never cross that line, incestuous relationships can still be awfully destructive for a child and it’s sometimes even harder for them to pinpoint why they are in pain because “nothing really happened”. Also parents that are like that often have narcissistic, authoritarian/ abusive, unstable tendencies. Please respect your children as their own persons, not as an object or an extension of yourself.
I think getting away from your abuser can sometimes be more complicated than just feeling relieved. Like you do feel that certainly, but there's also a sadness that they wouldn't improve themselves or you miss the person they could be when they're not abusing you.
This subreddit makes me concerned because some of the situations on there have happened to me, but majority of them are more extreme, so I wonder if I'm just overreacting.
It made me realize my parents are the "nice" insane, because while they did cause us some trauma and kinda treated us like cattle most of the times, at least they never hurt us or threatened to throw us in the street... still far from acceptable, but hey, at least I know what to never do when I become a parent. Learning from their mistakes
The family of 6 going on 7 there's soooo much more drama - she's not his only baby mama. He has another kid with a different lady who went on tiktok to expose the fact he doesn't pay child support and they're actively going to court about it - he purposely only does doordash/under the table jobs to avoid child support - they're not even married cause SHE'S STILL MARRIED TO ANOTHER DUDE - the one bedroom they do have is for the parents, where they have not only a massive flat screen but a PS5 along with a queen sized bed. Plus it's the only clean room - people noticed that the darker, they're all mixed, kids were the ones getting the worst stuff while the lighter kids got more/better - multiple people have claimed to call CPS on them at this point
A lot of these parents are screwed when their children take their videos and texts to the police, it also makes a restraining order much easier to prove the need of and get
Hey Click! I am fully aware you do not celebrate American Thanksgiving, that would be... a hilarious thing to assume, honestly. But I wanted to be thankful anyways, because I really am grateful for people like you! Your energy is always something that brings a smile to my face whenever I see your videos. Not only that, but you always have a thoughtful response and well formulated comment on even the most touchy subjects. You're super empathetic and understanding and seem like someone who always has great advice, no matter the situation. I appreciate you for making fun of the insane people that deserve it, and giving such valuable feedback and advice to people that may not even hear it. Thank you, Click! I hope you never change!
The gambling thing is smth I’ve gone through as the alcoholic uncle being given a bottle of vodka almost one day after I left treatment took me a long time to realize that was enabling me not caring for me
When I got Rainbow horns, my 4yo cousin became absolutely obsessed with him. I just ordered her Christmas present, and it's the normal esd. She's gonna be so happy
My mom was a boy mom when i was younger, definitely not the best of experiences as i lost good relationships throughout my childhood, but kinda glad she's taking more therapy. 🙏
HI HAHA op from 24:00 here!! yes so cps WAS called but they told us we were "too old" to go back to foster care (yes, BACK to foster care, we had gone into it 3 times before already ages 6-13). i moved across the country and am zero contact and im doing a lot better so!! ty for ur kind words :3 rlly big fan btw i watched The Click videos DURING that time in my life so i've been watching for awhile haha honestly a tiny bit surprised none of the comments on that post made it into the video: there is some CRAZY further context on a lot of the stuff that went on, i feel like enough to make a whole video HAHA
Was looking for your comment. I am so happy that you escaped and are healing. That fiesen Fotze may have given birth to you, but she was in no way your mother. I wish you well! - from your Internet Uncle-Gay🏳️🌈.
Our home has 3 adults, 2 kids (4 when the step kids visit), 3 dogs and 3 cats. It's a big house, more than enough space for everyone and the pets but sometimes it feels like it's a lot. So how the hell people can show 9 people and pets in a one bedroom apartment and not go absolutely mental is beyond me. I could never.
I'm German and I was so confused rn when you were speaking English, because, like it's my mother tongue and I was like 'wait a minute, that's not the language he normally speaks. _right?_'
Yeah, same. And it is not the first time. It is even worse if they do it in the middle of a film, show or book. Like watching "Grimm" although there you get used to it pretty quickly. I also had this confusing moment in Harry Potter And The Deathly Hollows when Voldi kills the German woman and kids. Only when she answers in broken English I realised oh wait... On the other hand there are these funny moments when you watch an English show and you understand everything except when someone starts speaking German. I had to grap the subs for American Horror Story Freaks because I had no idea what the Nazis were saying/shouting.
@@unschuldshascherl yeah, I watched that movie w/ my best friend, we both looked at each other and just stared at the TV screen for a minute, she asked, in the most confused voice I've ever heard, ''are we watching this movie in German?''
Was looking away at the beginning, Click's lovely german got my full attention haha Guten Abend zu dir auch Clicky, wenn du Deutsch sprichst klingt es wunderbar
As someone that watches a lot of german youtube videos, my brain straight up started gaslighting myself into thinking this is a german channel for a few seconds at the start.
My dad was confused when I didn’t want to talk to him after he threatened to gut someone, texted me about my grandpas death, called me dumb for supporting gay people, and so much other stuff :3
Narcissism. Seeing it a lot with trumpists these days. "Y r u cutting me off it was just an election" The good vs evil aspect aside and the values that were in play, it was probably boiling for a while and so much crap was tolerated. This was the last straw.
@@draconicfeline6177 yeah he used that line against me. He snapped one day saying, “what so you’re just cutting off this family now?” Because I didn’t feel comfortable talking to him for a couple days.
I remember once my grandmother told my mother that "you stole my son from me" (that too in arranged marriage) so my mother replied "you did the same to someone" xD
6 kids in a one bedroom apartment... I thought things like that stopped existing like 100 years ago. At least back in the days they had the functionality that people could stay warm during cold winters with no heating available.
Imagine having such a sad and miserable life that in your big age your life is consumed by feeling threatened by a young girl. These women do not love themselves!!! Pathetic and also comical.
People focusing on “respect” and accusing others of “rudeness” are usually just trying to choose words they think will get them what they want instead of admitting that they feel unable to control the person and that makes them angry.
As a german I’m always so shocked whenever you try to speak german because it’s just SO GOOD 😭 you could absolutely live here for a week and people wouldn’t be suspicious fr 😭😭😭
As an adoptive parent it boggles my mind the hoops we had to jump through, including proving we had a bedroom, with a door, for our child, before we could even start the process. Not to mention police checks, medical exams, letters from our bank to prove we had money in the bank, letters from our employers and having to take numerous courses on parenting. I don’t begrudge us having to do that stuff, but the fact that if I had been able to physically have a child I could have six kids sleeping in my living room no problem is mind boggling
Yep, as someone who will hopefully be able to adopt in the future, the amount of hoops you have to go through is a marathon, though I do agree for the most part they are reasonable (I have heard of some ridiculous ones, like requiring a full bathroom for every child, or a minimum of four windows in every room in the home). And yet two random people can just make a baby with no checks whatsoever. Obviously there's no such thing as a perfect parent, but just because someone can make a baby doesn't mean they should. I can understand people falling on hard times and having to make do the best they can, but that is definitely not begging for money on TikTok so you can keep having more babies when you can't afford the kids you already have.
Op from the passport incident is crazy, should call the cops cause the one withholding the passport, and paperwork can go to jail, its a felony in the United States to withholding someone else's social security card, birth certificate, or passport cause that's technically government property. Same with drivers liscenses.
I'm not sure where the person in the passport one is from, but I'd definitely call the cops. They should be able to come out and make sure the dad hands it over, and if the guy gets really lucky maybe he'll act a fool and get tased.
I love this subreddit because it helps me understand 1) that what my parents did to me was not normal or okay and 2) how to be a better parent to my plushies (esp my emotional support demon plushies)
I'm already mad at them. I keep reading more about them in the comments and getting even more angry. How do you not work properly and have that many children. It's not impossible to raise that many kids while being poor, I know that very well from my own family history, but they are beyond irresponsible from what I've read.
@ladykoiwolfe it the refusal to work and that they're intentionally having more while the kids not only don't have beds, but don't have rooms. Especially if it's mixed genders, that's illegal. CPS needs to get involved. They'll take the kids straight up because they refuse to work to improve the situation.
The woman with the 6 kids in 1 room is called resilient jenkins (I typed it like this so it doesn’t tag them). They are worse than it looks from just that vid. It’s a ridiculous rabbit hole.
I believe that this is exactly the family you think about. The 6(?) kids are all sleeping on the floor (they dont have beds or even regular mattresses) on I believe some bed toppers, the parents (they are blended family and some kids have other parents involved) have their own bedroom with huge tv and ps5. Mother wants to be tik tok famous with family channel (aka children exploitation channel) and get rich from that and is working part time(?), father doesnt have a regular job because he is avoiding child support. This is basically 8 Passengers & Ruby Franke 2.0 in the making. Not sharing their credentials though because I dont want to send any traffic their direction
if someone is illegally withholding your personal documents, the police (at least in the US) will help you get them back. A lot of abused people are taught they can't trust the police, not because you can't trust the police, but because the abuser knows they're doing illegal bs and don't want consequences. also, about those texts - tell me you consider your children property without telling me
The kids living in the trailer through out the winter reminds me of my cousin's son. My cousin had a bad drug habit (she has been clean for 20+ years and living the Hallmark life on a farm with a wonderful husband, dogs and lots of grandbabies now) and her son was on his own for days in the trailer. She wouldn't tell anyone where they were living. Finally she signed him over to her parents and she vanished for a year to get clean. Her son hoarded and stored food in his bedroom for a few months because he was so used to doing it. My aunt and uncle had to sit him down and reassure him that there was always food and he was welcome to any of it in the kitchen.
@@birgithiisjarv4465 We're just so proud of her. She went through rehab so many times and her 'friends' kept coaxing her to come out. Now she just doesn't come into town at the risk of seeing them and she has done so well!
So about the family in a one bedroom apartment: if it's the family I think it is, it gets worse than what the video mentions. The parents have their own room, massive bed, TV and PS5 with h plenty of floor space. The kids don't even have beds (there was one but it broke because CHILDREN WANT TO RUN AROUND) so they sleep on the floor, where the cat litter is.
The family of 6 is worse than you think. They have a nice bedroom while their children sleep on mats in the kitchen since they are not allowed to sleep in the parents bedroom. The father is doing nothing but playing video games, they claim he is working on being ready to work and have their supporters buying them shit off of amazon to start a car detailing business they never start. But they always ask for new tools and other gadgets. Ah and the dad has a child with another woman also and never paid a dime for this child to this day. This is really something were CPS should intervene.
The passport one is even worse than it seems. In lots of countries, the passport is the property of the government and the holder is simply the custodian of it. Destruction of federal property is a big time no no crime (I believe that's the legal terminology). If that dad really did destroy the passport, that's gonna come back on him fast
Fr. A high school classmates mom had her license snapped in half by a server who "knew" it was a fake ID because it had a made up state on it...yeah it was a real state. The server was immediately fired by the restaurant (who thought that meant they wouldn't get in trouble, and boy oh boy were they wrong), but they refused to do anything else to help fix the situation. Long drawn out series of events spanning over months later, the server avoided jail time with a hefty fine and 1,000+ hours of community service, the restaurant not only had to pay all of the expenses associated with replacing the license, all the costs incurred due to not having a license for a couple months (she had to go back to the other state, which being a single mom (I think dad was dead) who knew no one in the area to watch her kids (the youngest was in preschool or kindergarten I think, so definitely can't be home alone) meant she had to arrange full time child care), all of her lost wages due to dealing with this, her lawyers fees, and what basically amounted to an inconvenience fee of like $40k for dragging their feet and refusing to take responsibility. Needless to say the restaurant shortly went out of business given that they owed her like $80k when all was said and done, and that doesn't include whatever the lawyer got (my classmate didn't know that bit).
14:25 my dad put all my legal documents into this folder we kept in the kitchen, once I was an adult he gave me an envelope with my birth certificate and SSC. These items are SUPER important to have and having to ask someone else to send pictures of MY documents for me to do anything is insane. This person has my sympathies
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No. The parents have the bedroom with I think a king bed. All the kids and I think 3 cats sleep in the living room and dining room… it’s a huge thing on TikTok rn cuz the dad is evading child support for his other kid when he could work.
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In case anyone needs to hear and know this " the blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb", means that the bonds you've chosen are more significant than those formed by familial or blood relations.
I love how that's saying has been manipulated to mean the opposite of what it actually means... idk how that happened, but it did...
THIS
@MadeOfQuestions they cut it in half conveniently for them
Heck yeah, brother
@@MadeOfQuestions because it suits them better 🤷♀️
Fun fact! Depending on where you live, passport, driver's licenses and ID cards are considered government property. Destroying them means you get a felony, possibly even jail time! So Mr "Dad of the year I am withholding your passport from you my child" can get into big trouble if he actually does destroy the passport. Considering he also has admitted to planning on doing that via text messages, that case would be closed so fast it might also get a speeding ticket.
I seriously hope they called the police to assist in getting those documents from the dad rather than just replacing everything. Even if it's only to show him that he can't keep threatening their adult child with stuff without consequences.
He'd catch federal charges if he destroyed the passport and the feds have a 98% conviction rate.
For context, the woman with 6 kids one room, the bedroom is only for her and her husband, and they have a huge TV and gaming system just for the husband. So yeah, really insane parents
Can we not report this to CPS?
+ he already has kids with another woman; meaning he has to pay child support if he actually earns money... thats why he only earns a little over small jobs
@@elle9188 I believe people already have
Sounds like a more 'liberal' version of Quiverful, without as much Christian nationalism.
@@elle9188 CPS doesn't care. They literally left my nephew in filthy conditions (rats, junk everywhere, glass and nails in the yard), surrounded by meth heads and CPs. Walked right in, looked no further than the living room, and left after tested only his parents, and they gave them advanced warning days ahead so they could get clean long enough to not test positive on the drug test (which my brother admitted to me later on). I've lost all faith in that organization.
Ok, if your insane parents is withholding your legal documents you call the police non-emergency line and have an officer accompany you to get your documents so they can't try to destroy them. This is in no way having them arrested or what ever other BS they will try.
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@@Idkpleasejustletmechangeit Wo sollte denn da diener rein? das macht doch garkein sinn
I've seen it around and it bears repeating: there are two types of respect. You can respect someone as another living creature deserving of dignity or you can respect the authority of someone in power. Sometimes someone will say, "I'll respect you if you respect me." What they mean is, "Unless you treat me like an authority, I won't treat you like a human being."
It can come from the opposite angle too, meaning I'll respect your authority only if you respect me as a human. Depending on who's saying it, a parent or a child, a boss or a worker, a teacher or a student.
@@durabelle I mean, it's a low bar, but that's still necessary yeah
@@cheddarcheezit2647 Oh for sure, it's an extremely low bar. I was kind of thinking of a situation where someone in power is questioning your lack of respect for them, and you need to point out that they don't even respect you as a human, so why would you respect them as any kind of an authority. Respect doesn't automatically follow from that of course, but if even that level of respect isn't shown first there's no hope of any kind being reciprocated.
They want babies not children
Hideous narcissists
Warning- joke turned into a mini vent not long tho
Guess who doesn’t respect the authority of the guy who’s about to be in power in my stupid country wtf were the adults thinking why can’t I vote until I’m 18 ARGHH
Legitimately afraid for that poor gf in the first tiktok. She's making threats that could lead to deadly actions. "Rip" the baby out of her? She doesn't even want to wait for her grandchild to be born before she kidnaps them. She's fantasizing about killing the mother in the process, and putting that online publicly.
And that is a crime that has been committed too often already.
lets just say i wont be surprised to see those tiktoks on a true crime video.... that woman sounded deranged
@@ladykoiwolfe fr it's fucked up how much that crime has happened
I have heard of TWO cases of women obsessing over having a baby and perpetrating a vivisection on a pregnant woman and *literally* ripping the baby out
Can we say "Restraining Order" I knew we could!
3:50 that woman is infuriating. My mother was one of seven children. She grew up in the 50's -70's. Her father constantly had to move the family around as work became available. But he always made sure there were at least Three bedrooms. They were dirt poor and he did any job he could find, but he still made sure there was a room for the boys, a room for the girls (two if he could help it since there were mostly girls) and a room for the parents. Cramming everyone in one room like it's the middle ages is irresponsible. Especially when you know you can't afford more room. Children take a lot of room.
I grew up in small house with 3 siblings. Kid beds were in living room which Is probably reason I don't respect it as a concept 😂
She's treating kids like they're pokemon cards! Life isn't a video game where you can cram as many cute babies into a small space as you want with no repercussions, there's actual consequences! It's one thing to want to have a large family and a lot of children to care for, but you have to have the means to take care of them. She isn't even seeing the situation the kids are in as a problem, it's like she's just focused on getting more kids.
@@xanthemothcat Rather, she's treating them like fundamentally, toys to dangle in front of a camera. His husband owns a HUGE TV and a frickin PS5. It's sick behavior.
@@petrfedor1851 i only have one brother and I'm a girl. My mom never put us in the living room, she'd sleep in the living room or dining room if there weren't enough rooms for us to have our own. We only slept in the same room when we were really small kids. There are simply some things that growing kids need personal space for.
@@ladykoiwolfe we have only two rooms total (+ kitchen & bathroom) So there was no way to do that even if there was good reason to do So.
It was really busy, one was constantly in the way of someone else. Probably reason I consider not seeing or talking to anyone for few days in row such a bliss
“Don’t admit to crimes on the Internet, moron.” - Confucius, probably.
😂😂😂
But if you do, please show your face as you record yourself committing it.
I think LegalEagle said something like this: "Advice 1: don't commit crimes. Advice 2: if you do commit crimes, don't film and document them on the internet"
- Sun Tzu, probably
@@7HEMUFFINMAN Both?
My mom tried to withhold my medical info and birth certificate when I was moving out with my fiancé, (she was in a mood) claiming I could just call to get replacements and once saying she didn’t know where they were (she did because even I knew). Fortunately, my fiancé has a very loving and supportive family and one of his sisters is a lawyer. I took a screenshot of a conversation I had with her about the matter and sent it to my mom.
All my records were left outside my door the next day. 😊
My mom tried to that too when I was trying to move out at 19. She actually called the police on ME. Predictably, it did not go her way.
5:03 he already IS a father of 7, he's been avoiding paying child support for a kid from another woman
Omg this! And he may have more kids if I'm remembering what the first mother said.
Excuse me, what
@daisyjoy242 Yeah it's a whole mess, I follow this creator called Destiny Uteh she covered the whole drama. Homeboy is a mess
@daisyjoy242 I recommend watching videos about the situation and doing you own research because I don't want to parrot misinfo. You can find stuff about them by looking up the resilient Jenkins. The dad doesn't have a stable income and he doesn't want to get a real job because of child support payments
@@daisyjoy242Yeah the dude believes in "God told man to be fruitful and go multiple" but doesn't believe in being faithful or paying for those kids. Bro trying to create a free child army.
Watching this after Thanksgiving dinner with my parents.
Who are completely accepting of me as a trans gay man, adore my bi husband, and spoil the crap out of our 2 daughters. My husband and I were hosting and they treat our home with respect and don't throw shade over some silly bullshit like us not having matching glassware or something. And my equally fantastic older was there, too.
Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for my absolutely amazing family.
"I'll take that baby" as a mom (and grandma)....I will put you so far under the jail you won't even make it to that child's college graduation. Stop.
Make It a kindergarten graduation
Having seen my mother's reaction to someone twice her size getting too close in my personal space, yeah, that is one fight I'd rather avoid.
There's a reason maternal instincts are so common in animals: If you threaten a child, and the mother finds out, there aren't enough shades of gray to describe how fornicated you are.
@@Kartoffelkamm “there aren’t enough shades of grey to describe how fornicated you are.” is absolutely beautiful, i’m stealing that
@@LeynSolista so you want her to get out earlier. Ok
@@CrisSelene I think they mean under the prison by kids kindergarten grad.
As in (more than) 6 feet under (the jails foundation).
i had this playing in the background while cleaning and the text convo at 27:25 sounded way to familar so i replayed it and realize click was reading MY post, i didn't think it would popular enough that he would see it lol
My condolences. I hope your mom is happy with her new spouse.
Same.
I net a lot of us can empathize with having like that, hope you’re in a better place emotionally, and physically.
You handled it really well! I hope everything ends up fine for you and your mother.
Sadly it's kinda relatable, I think you handled it very well
The very first parent straight up spiraled into an actual fairy tale witch.
Yeah. Is it weird that I feel sorry for her?
Like, something has to be seriously wrong upstairs if that's her reaction to her son having a girlfriend. I'd actually like to study her.
@@Kartoffelkamm There IS an element of "what happened to you for your worldview to be THIS messed up?" But, she's also a dangerous woman, so, I'd recommend study from afar.
8 people in a single room 💀. That's a Sims challenge, don't bring that into real life!
Apparently the parents have the bedroom, their kids sleep on foam pads out in the living room or kitchen
Except in Sims, nobody over the age of toddler actually needs to sleep, and also pregnancies take 4 days and they are unable to die while pregnant or during labour. Can you imagine if that daft soul dies during her seventh or eighth pregnancy and the father is left with all those kids alone?
I love people who say "stop guilt tripping me" while guilt tripping tge other person themselves
I think the appropriate response is, "The guilt you're feeling isn't me guilt tripping you. It's you knowing you're in the wrong."
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@Vox-Multis may I steal that?
@@kimicappiello5480 Feel free!
My grandma core right here
11:24 A passport isn't the property of the person it identifies, butrather of the issuing government. Douchedad is threatening to destroy government property.
Isn’t it a federal offense then like opening someone else’s mail?
Destroying a passport is a crime in a bunch of countries.
Yes. Government documents usually remain property of the government. Where I live, if you can't hand in the old one, they won't give you a new one unless you file it as stolen or lost with the police. Which I assume, if you lie about that is another crime.
Pretty sure destroying someone else's documents in general is a crime in almost any country, not to talk about the withholding it too. That by itself is a pretty severe crime already
Yeah, and the texts are proof enough for a charge.
Yes. Passports in general are property of government, not the person they identify. It is a destruction of government property.
Usually the passport is, strictly speaking, the property of the issuing State so refusing to hand it over the person named in the passport is a crime that can involve prison time.
I know it's only an American holiday but the fact that click uploaded an insane parents vid on thanksgiving is really funny
I just came in and he’s already speaking in German.
This is gonna be a super awesome video.
Real.
he said the last part wrong 😔
Misread your comment... make of it what you will
honestly didn’t realize at first, like my brain makes no difference between german and english, it felt so normal lol
@@silentlilacspoetry You are so casually fluent in both that its painful. How do I get this level of power????
"It would be funny if it wasn't so bad for the people around them" is probably the best summary of this subreddit...
I'm extremely convinced that this specific type of mothers are the first to say: "so, when are you going to have grandchildren?", however, when their son gets engaged, they're like: "YOU DON'T WANT ME ANYMORE, YOU'LL LET ME ROT OLD AND ALONE. HOW DARE THAT ***, SHE TOOK MY SON AWAY FROM ME"
That's ironicly how they get let alone by their kids
And before the grandchildren part, they don’t want their son to make eye contact with any woman
My family is like this I am not joking. My cousins need to hide their SO's for hours until they're like slightly drunk whenever they come over for New Years.
@@brambleheart they want their sons to reproduce asexually
It's this goddamn weird thing of some mothers borderline treating their sons like romantic partners. It's seriously gross. You shouldn't feel jaleous of your goddamn child. :I
people who demand respect from others but show none to others and talk down to them or say hateful things don't realise that in treating others badly...YOUR RESPECT ISN'T WORTH A DAMN.
I could never really understand the "respect your elders/betters" thing. I think I always understood that respect is earned. I may be old but I don't expect anyone to respect me just for that. And the you're-my-kid-so-you-have-to-bow-to-me crap is ridiculous.
Someone needs to tell my relatives that... haven't gotten called any slurs yet this year, hope it lasts till we go home 🤞
Respect that flows in only one direction isn’t respect, it’s submission.
@@barrylangille3523I think it's a respect the game/grift kind of thing. They're old and they're still alive. That was a big deal when we had less advanced healthcare. I think it makes sense since older people have gone through a lot, but I don't know if it should kick in until someone is 75.
Many people should not have children. Unfortunately they are the ones that are. Natural selection won't favor the thoughtful and kind, unfortunately.
6:51 this woman also has a MASSIVE amazon wishlist of which plenty of stuff on there people have bought for her. And theres unnecessary things like ring lights. Her "man" also refuses to get an actual W-2 qualifying job because he doesnt want to pay child support for the other kid he has with another woman. Btw that kid is 8+. They both look down on people with w-2 jobs in their delusion.They have a mattress and game system in their room meanwhile the kids sleep on foam in the kitchen/living room next to the litter boxes. Their logic is "they were misbehaving and torn up their mattresses so now they have this." Its a whole mess and i hope CPS can get involved.
Absolutely can if we know where they are.
@@ladykoiwolfe they're talked about loads on YT tbf
That’s disgusting, child neglect for everyone to see and no one does anything about it.. Why is it always the most insane neglectful parents who are so damn fertile? Meanwhile there are so many people who would be the best parents but can’t have a baby themselves. That stuff is why I don’t believe in fate or “everything is meant to be” crap, f that, it’s always the worst people who get kids they don’t deserve.
@@RookieAssassinThat's a good question! I honestly believe it's not a complete coincidence that the irresponsible people are so often the most fertile. For one, they often start quite young, whereas more responsible parents wait until their life situation is more stable, which can these days take a long time.
Secondly the more responsible parents listen to all the recommendations and usually wait at least a couple of years between each pregnancy, effectively causing the number of children to stay lower.
Thirdly the responsible parents think ahead and stop making babies before they have too many to raise well by their own higher standards. In the meanwhile the irresponsible people keep churning out babies as if there's no tomorrow.
I'm not saying it's impossible to have a big family and still be a responsible parent, but it's quite rare to want that, and we don't hear horror stories about them even when that happens. It's also possible to be totally irresponsible and infertile, but again we won't hear about those cases since they don't become parents. So it really feels like the most irresponsible and horrendous parents are also the most fertile ones.
@@durabelle yep, the only people I don't blame for having more kids than they can afford (at least when intentionally getting pregnant), is when you get surprised by multiples.
Please, on April 1st, release a full episode of insane parents bingo, or women's anatomy in swedish. I would love to watch it without context with my husband. I don't know anything about swedish, I was homeschooled on an anti-vaxxer religious cult like curriculum, so it's amazing that I can semi write in my first language. Especially since I was raised to see myself as nothing but a womb. So happy I got away and I'm vaccinated now. Anywho, the intro was beautiful
If I'm reading this right it sounds like you're in a better place now! Congrats on the escape, and all the best
Jag hoppas att allting blir bättre för dig i framtiden. Lycka till!
Sadly that's going to be more common now
I'm glad you got out of that environment, and also, that's an awesome idea!
Also, speaking as someone about to complete a trade certificate in my late forties, it's never too late to get more education. If you can't afford formal tuition fees, there are a lot of people who post lessons in pretty much anything from building technology to music theory on UA-cam.
the woman with one bedroom and 6-7 kids, her and her husband HAVE THE BEDROOM AND A PS5 but her kids dont have an actual room or even proper beds
edit: just wanna note im not trying to say you cant be struggling and have any luxuries at all, but ps5's arent cheap and neither are the games
and also have like 10 pets
If you're a parent struggling financially, and where you live only has 1 bedroom, the KIDS get the bedroom. End of story. Their needs come first before yourself always
And what's even more unhinged is that the husband doesn't want to work a regular job nor pay child support for his other child, but they want to have MORE children.
Its also illegal. This isnt like something bad happened and theyre making do, they are intentionally making thks the norm. Its illegal to have all thsoe kids skeeping in the living room like that. Especially if they dont have beds and are mixed genders. Theyre one cps call away from losing at least half those kids, if not all. Especially if they refuse to improve their situation and gets jobs to support them.@@Account_Not_Applicable
Honestly? Still better than what I was imagining, because how do you say you only have one bedroom and are "trying to get more kids"? Good thing at least the kids aren't forced to watch that horror movie...
3:25 You just summarised the Pick-Me-to-Boy-Mom pipeline which is well-discussed online.
A Click video? On Thanksgiving? Yet another thing to be thankful for.
@@israelbarron6964 YIPPE
I am thankful for the click
i always forget that thanksgiving isn't something invented by american cartoons.
Real, I am thankful for the click
*to give a thank to
Gotta say, as a German, my brain adapted, and I was confused when you started talking English again. Guten Abend to you, too :)
My mom refused to leave my place of residence after being asked several times, so I told her I'll be calling the cops for trespassing. She said not to worry about it she'll go give then a heads up so they won't bother her later. Internally I was like that's not the threat you think it is and would actually save me time 😂
"Hello 911. I am illegally trespassing after being told to leave the premises amd making threats. I would like to report the resident of the property for mot allowing me to trespassing and harass them."
Were you able to get her out of your place?
@@MaridoDoFelps luckily the threat after repeated a few more times was enough to get her to leave. I think her brain finally caught up with her mouth.
@@Mintyjoltix2569 oh, good to know! ❤️
7:35 Bruh, I have my own room and a good-sized lounge with a balcony and I _still_ don't feel like I'm in an appropriate apartment to finally get a _cat_ , who _are_ these people??
17:12 witholding an adult's passport is insane. The only time in my life my parents kept my passport was when I was a literal child and it was for safe keeping. I've been responsible for all my own documents since I turned 18, regarless of who paid to get the passport/documents issued.
I feel like this should be a criminal offense actually....
@@Aghul it is. Withholding any type of identification of another person is a crime. You can't withhold an adults ID, drivers license, passport, or even a native tribal card. Cops will either force the person to give it back or arrest them and give it back. If you destroy or tamper with it that's even worse
@@Aghul it is. Even if they aren't 18. I actually once had to help a homeless teen i worked with get cops involved to get their documents from their parents. (Note: they got kicked out and the parents refused to let them back. They wound up getting charged for a bunch of stuff too. I'm not 100% sure what happened as after that, the teen had to transfer to a new location as they, and their younger sibling, were put into foster care in an entirely different county. It's been yrs now, but last I heard they were working and just got a lawyer to get custody of their sibling which was only about 11 at the time. This way this won't have to grow up in the system.
@@dre1978 I hope the daughter really DID call the cops on her dad then... I wonder why she stays in contact at all.
That actually reminded me that my birth certificate is at my parents' house. Not because they're withholding it, I just never needed it for anything since I got my national ID and passport while I still lived with them.
24:37 Holy crap... that is absolutely VILE. Why have kids if you're not even gonna do the bare minimum like FEED THEM?! 100% neglect and ab*se. I genuinely hope OP is in a better, more stable place now. Good lord. That mother should be ASHAMED.
She should be in prison.
@@theuncalledfor HARD agree!
HI! Op here! Yup I'm no contact and live across the country now, I'm in a good place! ty for the kind words! i suffer a lot from imposter syndrome around that time in my life, so seeing ppl up in arms about it rlly helps HAHA
@@mmellohi Good for you! I'm really happy you got away from that nightmare. Nobody deserves anything like that.
My other concern was the lack of an adult in the trailer with the teens. And were other needs being ignored for these kids, like hygiene? My heart hurts whenever I hear someone somewhere ends up suffering like this at a young age... 💔
I love German click, makes me feel like I'm part of some exclusive club of german speakers. 😂❤
What did he say 😭😭😭😭
YES EXACTLY
Basically just his normal intro
Part of the club!
@Adventuring_Korok thanks
Edit: typo
“You kind of have to be a little bit likeable for people to want to stick around” - NAILED IT (Click Academy Family Wisdom 101™️
So glad my parents are normal and caring
Same! When I was younger, I didn't think much about my parents. They were...just parents. Then, when I grew up and had in-laws or talked in more depth with my friends about their parents and childhood, I realized, in the grand game of life, I have been dealt a pretty good hand. Two loving, caring, mature, supportive, normal parents.
And super supportive
Same, they have some faults, but my parents would never do anything like this (except my stepmom who isn't family).
Same.
I keep forgetting that Click speaks german and get jumpscare everytime he does😭😭
Like damn bro I did NOT expect to be greeted in my native language in an English video by a Swedish dude
I want you guys to know that if you have parents like this that it is okay to go no contact with them and ignore societal pressure to stay in touch.
This deserves a lot more upvotes. Toxic is toxic and few people take the decision to go NC lightly so the amount of crap any child going NC has gone though is often mind-boggling.
@@BlueTressym this. People learn I'm planning on going no contact with my parents as soon as I can manage to, and they think we just had one medium sized fight and I decided to throw a temper tantrum for not getting my way. Like no, they just neglected me for decades and try to gaslight me pretty much all the time.
"Did these parents never learn emotional regulation?"
No, and that's why I have BPD now and several other severe disorders.
Going to therapy (and hospital) because you're parents didn't, really is a true saying
I went no contact with my mother almost twenty years ago. I told her for years i was moving to Nola, planned it and did it. When i moved here she said you're not my daughter if you stay there. She doesn't know she has four grandchildren and i will never tell her. Sad but you said you didn't have a daughter so you don't have grandchildren apparently. Insane parents are wild, your kids grow up and become adults and if you want them in your life as adults then respect they grow up.
If I can give you a tip, remember to always tell your kids why they don't "have" a grandma, the way she treated you and why you don't want them near her. Otherwise, if you just tell them they don't have a grandma or don't give them an explanation they may grow a bit resentful for never meeting her. They need to know they'll never meet her for their own good, and not just because you wanted to ❤
@MaridoDoFelps she's never really asked about her grandmother so I haven't had to tell her yet. It's really a shame though because my daughter's a really good kid.
I feel this. I haven't managed no contact yet, but I will only be having kids after no contact. Before is not an option, no child should be subjected to them.
"Should I talk in other languages in episodes"
Yes, but make it just Ikea Furniture names in random order so even people form Sweden are confused
I have an aunt who has 6 kids, going on 7th. She can barely keep up rent for a small 2 bedroom apartment, let alone food for 7 children. A lot of people who have children they can't afford don't realize that they can't afford it.
That's humans. When someone has the urge to have a baby, they're going to do their damnedest to have a baby, and whether they can afford it is not a thing their brain is going to process. Our brains evolved over hundreds of thousands of years and money is a very new phenomenon.
In a civilised country they would have enough income to feed and house the kids with dignity because it's not the kids' fault the parents are like that. Also, they'd be likely to be referred to financial counselling and parenthood training - the amount of parenthood skills training I was given as a young welfare-dependent single mother felt like a lot at the time, but it really does help.
If you need to recover legal documents from a parent that won't give 'em, why not just get the police involved? Watch the asshole back down like a mouse the second an officer knocks on their door.
Honestly, an insane parents video is kinda perfect for thanksgiving 😭 I’m hiding in a guest room until it’s time to eat
My parents are fine, but they’re out of the country and I’m stuck here with my relatives (my thanksgiving lineup: household of trump supporters, transphobes, homophobes, a lot of food I can’t eat because I’m allergic, the always attention seeking sisters, the uncle who is the most fun but also worries me because my cousin says he yells at him and spanks him a lot even though he’s 11 years old now)
My aunt is pretty chill, I don’t see her a lot because she gets bad headaches from her depression but she’s fun and she used to make paper fortune tellers with us. As far as I know she’s the only other queer person in the family (I’m closeted but I think I’ve seen a bi or pan pin on her bag before)
Anyway
Wish me luck, the anxiety goes hard
Good luck!
AYYYE THE TRUMP SUPPORTERS/ALWAYS NEED YOUR ATTENTION KIDS AREN’T HERE 🥳
Good luck :D
have a hug
🫂
@ thank you ^^
I actually really like the idea of Click doing videos in other languages. His voice is so soothing and hearing him speak what sounds like gibberish to me would be an immediate anxiety killer
I fall asleep with Click every night❤
0:19 We need a whole video in German
Sadly i wouldnt be able to understand it 😢
I would, I'm from Macedonia x we learn German as a 3rd language , so I roughly understood that intro
I learnt German for years, and I've finally found out why! 😂
I would LOVE it. Not fully understand it, but still! Worth it for the fun! Maybe a shorter video, though. X)
Please
6:00 can we also just please talk about how, if there's only that one room and the dining area, they are doing the forbidden dance either in the eating area or IN THE SAME ROOM AS THEIR KIDS WHEN THEY ARE SLEEPING?!?!!!
I've seen the thing with that family, the parents have a room and the kids are in the dining/living space
@airacummins5076 Still terrible but at least they're not fornicating with their kids in the same room 💀
'I thought you'd support me!!"
Yea, thats WHY im not giving you the money, get therapy
This gambling thing seems like mom won it big (100k),gave their child some of it and instantly went and gambled the rest away. A typical turn of events for gambling addicts.
This is what my German professor has prepared me for… click speaking German!
THIS 😂
By the way, being a “fusional” “possessive” “over protective” or “best friend” parent is often seen in incestual/incestuous families. Because if you do not consider that your child is a person of their own / do not accept their boundaries / do not keep your place as a parent and act in a way that confuse the roles and the ages in the family / put the responsibility of your own parents, friends, partner or psychiatrist on your child (counting on them for your own emotional, physical, psychological, financial and/or mental security, when you are the one that’s supposed to be the garant of security and not the other way around) / do not put boundaries between your intimacy and theirs (talking about your intimacy with your children, asking intrusive questions about their intimacy, refusing boundaries about intimacy or their bodies, refusing when they stop wanting you to wash them or kiss them on the lips or touch them a certain way or taking baths together or being naked on their presence etc etc)… you can see how it can very easily creeps its way into dangerous territories. And even if it’s never physical, never cross that line, incestuous relationships can still be awfully destructive for a child and it’s sometimes even harder for them to pinpoint why they are in pain because “nothing really happened”. Also parents that are like that often have narcissistic, authoritarian/ abusive, unstable tendencies. Please respect your children as their own persons, not as an object or an extension of yourself.
GUTEN ABENDDD
Diese kommentarsektion ist nun eigentum der BRD
I love u click
Oikean yläkulman rasti on nyt Suomen valtion omaisuutta. Kiitos.
I think getting away from your abuser can sometimes be more complicated than just feeling relieved. Like you do feel that certainly, but there's also a sadness that they wouldn't improve themselves or you miss the person they could be when they're not abusing you.
I love this subreddit because it makes me realise how nice my parents actually are
My parents are only sometimes sane
This subreddit makes me concerned because some of the situations on there have happened to me, but majority of them are more extreme, so I wonder if I'm just overreacting.
It made me realize my parents are the "nice" insane, because while they did cause us some trauma and kinda treated us like cattle most of the times, at least they never hurt us or threatened to throw us in the street... still far from acceptable, but hey, at least I know what to never do when I become a parent. Learning from their mistakes
The family of 6 going on 7 there's soooo much more drama
- she's not his only baby mama. He has another kid with a different lady who went on tiktok to expose the fact he doesn't pay child support and they're actively going to court about it
- he purposely only does doordash/under the table jobs to avoid child support
- they're not even married cause SHE'S STILL MARRIED TO ANOTHER DUDE
- the one bedroom they do have is for the parents, where they have not only a massive flat screen but a PS5 along with a queen sized bed. Plus it's the only clean room
- people noticed that the darker, they're all mixed, kids were the ones getting the worst stuff while the lighter kids got more/better
- multiple people have claimed to call CPS on them at this point
A lot of these parents are screwed when their children take their videos and texts to the police, it also makes a restraining order much easier to prove the need of and get
Hey Click! I am fully aware you do not celebrate American Thanksgiving, that would be... a hilarious thing to assume, honestly. But I wanted to be thankful anyways, because I really am grateful for people like you! Your energy is always something that brings a smile to my face whenever I see your videos. Not only that, but you always have a thoughtful response and well formulated comment on even the most touchy subjects. You're super empathetic and understanding and seem like someone who always has great advice, no matter the situation. I appreciate you for making fun of the insane people that deserve it, and giving such valuable feedback and advice to people that may not even hear it. Thank you, Click! I hope you never change!
I have little to contribute here, but I'm +1ing this. His videos have definitely made more than one shitty day significantly better
@@calibricalypso This c:
The gambling thing is smth I’ve gone through as the alcoholic uncle being given a bottle of vodka almost one day after I left treatment took me a long time to realize that was enabling me not caring for me
When I got Rainbow horns, my 4yo cousin became absolutely obsessed with him. I just ordered her Christmas present, and it's the normal esd. She's gonna be so happy
That reminds me I had to order one for my bro who wants it
My mom was a boy mom when i was younger, definitely not the best of experiences as i lost good relationships throughout my childhood, but kinda glad she's taking more therapy. 🙏
HI HAHA op from 24:00 here!! yes so cps WAS called but they told us we were "too old" to go back to foster care (yes, BACK to foster care, we had gone into it 3 times before already ages 6-13). i moved across the country and am zero contact and im doing a lot better so!! ty for ur kind words :3 rlly big fan btw i watched The Click videos DURING that time in my life so i've been watching for awhile haha
honestly a tiny bit surprised none of the comments on that post made it into the video: there is some CRAZY further context on a lot of the stuff that went on, i feel like enough to make a whole video HAHA
Was looking for your comment.
I am so happy that you escaped and are healing. That fiesen Fotze may have given birth to you, but she was in no way your mother.
I wish you well!
- from your Internet Uncle-Gay🏳️🌈.
What John said. I'm glad you're out of there and doing better now. Stay safe!
As a german going to sweden to study this will never not be my favorite UA-cam channel
Swedish lessons with Cliccy? I wished I could go to Sweden studying, just for that. 😂
Our home has 3 adults, 2 kids (4 when the step kids visit), 3 dogs and 3 cats. It's a big house, more than enough space for everyone and the pets but sometimes it feels like it's a lot.
So how the hell people can show 9 people and pets in a one bedroom apartment and not go absolutely mental is beyond me. I could never.
I'm German and I was so confused rn when you were speaking English, because, like it's my mother tongue and I was like 'wait a minute, that's not the language he normally speaks. _right?_'
JAAA GING MIR AUCH SO 😭😭 Verwirrung at an all time high an der Stelle 😅
Fr aber, ich habe es mir gerade noch einmal angeschaut, wtf, wieso kann er diese Sprache so gut@@mentally.not.stable393
Yeah, same. And it is not the first time. It is even worse if they do it in the middle of a film, show or book. Like watching "Grimm" although there you get used to it pretty quickly. I also had this confusing moment in Harry Potter And The Deathly Hollows when Voldi kills the German woman and kids. Only when she answers in broken English I realised oh wait...
On the other hand there are these funny moments when you watch an English show and you understand everything except when someone starts speaking German. I had to grap the subs for American Horror Story Freaks because I had no idea what the Nazis were saying/shouting.
@@unschuldshascherl yeah, I watched that movie w/ my best friend, we both looked at each other and just stared at the TV screen for a minute, she asked, in the most confused voice I've ever heard, ''are we watching this movie in German?''
Same me too 😂😂
Holy sh*t I hope someone is calling CPS on the crazy woman with 6 kids in one room. Absolutely unfit and unhinged! 😬
They should certainly have plenty of evidence!
If she's white will they do anything?
I love unhinged parents videos, it makes my life seem so much better! And a video in German or Swedish would be amazing 🤩
12:49 it's also important to point out that in some places, purposefully destroying or damaging government issued ID and stuff is illegal.
Was looking away at the beginning, Click's lovely german got my full attention haha
Guten Abend zu dir auch Clicky, wenn du Deutsch sprichst klingt es wunderbar
0:07 unglaublich diese wundervolle bewegtbildproduktion von der klicken.
i was lowkey so concerned that i accidentally clicked on a german only video
Same, but I legit would have watched it even though I don't speak German. For Click I'd learn.
@ so real
As someone that watches a lot of german youtube videos, my brain straight up started gaslighting myself into thinking this is a german channel for a few seconds at the start.
My dad was confused when I didn’t want to talk to him after he threatened to gut someone, texted me about my grandpas death, called me dumb for supporting gay people, and so much other stuff :3
K
Narcissism. Seeing it a lot with trumpists these days.
"Y r u cutting me off it was just an election"
The good vs evil aspect aside and the values that were in play, it was probably boiling for a while and so much crap was tolerated.
This was the last straw.
@@draconicfeline6177 yeah he used that line against me. He snapped one day saying, “what so you’re just cutting off this family now?” Because I didn’t feel comfortable talking to him for a couple days.
I remember once my grandmother told my mother that "you stole my son from me" (that too in arranged marriage) so my mother replied "you did the same to someone" xD
6 kids in a one bedroom apartment... I thought things like that stopped existing like 100 years ago. At least back in the days they had the functionality that people could stay warm during cold winters with no heating available.
Imagine having such a sad and miserable life that in your big age your life is consumed by feeling threatened by a young girl. These women do not love themselves!!! Pathetic and also comical.
Me, pretending I understand what language was just being spoken:
🤓
German !
Thanks!
It was my first guess but I gaslit myself into thinking I was completely wrong lmaaoo
People focusing on “respect” and accusing others of “rudeness” are usually just trying to choose words they think will get them what they want instead of admitting that they feel unable to control the person and that makes them angry.
As a german I’m always so shocked whenever you try to speak german because it’s just SO GOOD 😭 you could absolutely live here for a week and people wouldn’t be suspicious fr 😭😭😭
😅 that's a lie
@@garfieldkater5469Yeah, everyone knows Germans are supicious about anything. To get into Germany, you have to pasd the Aldi test.
His German is good but very clearly with an accent lmao
As an adoptive parent it boggles my mind the hoops we had to jump through, including proving we had a bedroom, with a door, for our child, before we could even start the process. Not to mention police checks, medical exams, letters from our bank to prove we had money in the bank, letters from our employers and having to take numerous courses on parenting. I don’t begrudge us having to do that stuff, but the fact that if I had been able to physically have a child I could have six kids sleeping in my living room no problem is mind boggling
Yep, as someone who will hopefully be able to adopt in the future, the amount of hoops you have to go through is a marathon, though I do agree for the most part they are reasonable (I have heard of some ridiculous ones, like requiring a full bathroom for every child, or a minimum of four windows in every room in the home). And yet two random people can just make a baby with no checks whatsoever. Obviously there's no such thing as a perfect parent, but just because someone can make a baby doesn't mean they should. I can understand people falling on hard times and having to make do the best they can, but that is definitely not begging for money on TikTok so you can keep having more babies when you can't afford the kids you already have.
Ich hätte nicht erwartet das du uns in deutsch begrüßt! Du sprichst sehr gut deutsch!!
I think he said in a previous video that he has relatives in Germany
@@airacummins5076 He’s also Swedish so his first language is not too dissimilar from German
Op from the passport incident is crazy, should call the cops cause the one withholding the passport, and paperwork can go to jail, its a felony in the United States to withholding someone else's social security card, birth certificate, or passport cause that's technically government property. Same with drivers liscenses.
I'm not sure where the person in the passport one is from, but I'd definitely call the cops. They should be able to come out and make sure the dad hands it over, and if the guy gets really lucky maybe he'll act a fool and get tased.
My german ass was COMPLETELY confused for a second and didn't even pick up you not talking in english 😂
If I feel like a bad mom I can always count on Click to make me feel better by uploading an insane parents video 😂
I love this subreddit because it helps me understand 1) that what my parents did to me was not normal or okay and 2) how to be a better parent to my plushies (esp my emotional support demon plushies)
The 1 bedroom 6 kids people is Resilient Jenkins, Inabber did a long video on them if you want to know more.
I'm already mad at them. I keep reading more about them in the comments and getting even more angry. How do you not work properly and have that many children.
It's not impossible to raise that many kids while being poor, I know that very well from my own family history, but they are beyond irresponsible from what I've read.
@ladykoiwolfe it the refusal to work and that they're intentionally having more while the kids not only don't have beds, but don't have rooms. Especially if it's mixed genders, that's illegal. CPS needs to get involved. They'll take the kids straight up because they refuse to work to improve the situation.
I really hope someone contacted CPS, those poor kids and animals
Salem Tovar did too
@@Insertia_Nameia exactly! That's what is infuriating me.
The woman with the 6 kids in 1 room is called resilient jenkins (I typed it like this so it doesn’t tag them). They are worse than it looks from just that vid. It’s a ridiculous rabbit hole.
4:36 if that's the same family as a previous video I've seen, I'm pretty sure the kids sleep in the kitchen while the parents sleep in the bedroom.
I believe that this is exactly the family you think about. The 6(?) kids are all sleeping on the floor (they dont have beds or even regular mattresses) on I believe some bed toppers, the parents (they are blended family and some kids have other parents involved) have their own bedroom with huge tv and ps5. Mother wants to be tik tok famous with family channel (aka children exploitation channel) and get rich from that and is working part time(?), father doesnt have a regular job because he is avoiding child support. This is basically 8 Passengers & Ruby Franke 2.0 in the making. Not sharing their credentials though because I dont want to send any traffic their direction
28:40 I’m sorry “ can’t talk being gay” is the best response ever😂😂
a cliccy video on thanksgiving is truly a gift from hell ❤
if someone is illegally withholding your personal documents, the police (at least in the US) will help you get them back. A lot of abused people are taught they can't trust the police, not because you can't trust the police, but because the abuser knows they're doing illegal bs and don't want consequences.
also, about those texts - tell me you consider your children property without telling me
Hello click, you smell amazing today as well!
Hard agree
He definitely smells amazing
The kids living in the trailer through out the winter reminds me of my cousin's son. My cousin had a bad drug habit (she has been clean for 20+ years and living the Hallmark life on a farm with a wonderful husband, dogs and lots of grandbabies now) and her son was on his own for days in the trailer. She wouldn't tell anyone where they were living. Finally she signed him over to her parents and she vanished for a year to get clean. Her son hoarded and stored food in his bedroom for a few months because he was so used to doing it. My aunt and uncle had to sit him down and reassure him that there was always food and he was welcome to any of it in the kitchen.
I'm happy that your cousin got clean because it takes a lot to understand you need help. Wishing her the best life, she is very strong.
@@birgithiisjarv4465 We're just so proud of her. She went through rehab so many times and her 'friends' kept coaxing her to come out. Now she just doesn't come into town at the risk of seeing them and she has done so well!
So about the family in a one bedroom apartment: if it's the family I think it is, it gets worse than what the video mentions. The parents have their own room, massive bed, TV and PS5 with h plenty of floor space. The kids don't even have beds (there was one but it broke because CHILDREN WANT TO RUN AROUND) so they sleep on the floor, where the cat litter is.
The family of 6 is worse than you think. They have a nice bedroom while their children sleep on mats in the kitchen since they are not allowed to sleep in the parents bedroom. The father is doing nothing but playing video games, they claim he is working on being ready to work and have their supporters buying them shit off of amazon to start a car detailing business they never start. But they always ask for new tools and other gadgets. Ah and the dad has a child with another woman also and never paid a dime for this child to this day. This is really something were CPS should intervene.
The passport one is even worse than it seems. In lots of countries, the passport is the property of the government and the holder is simply the custodian of it. Destruction of federal property is a big time no no crime (I believe that's the legal terminology). If that dad really did destroy the passport, that's gonna come back on him fast
Fr. A high school classmates mom had her license snapped in half by a server who "knew" it was a fake ID because it had a made up state on it...yeah it was a real state. The server was immediately fired by the restaurant (who thought that meant they wouldn't get in trouble, and boy oh boy were they wrong), but they refused to do anything else to help fix the situation. Long drawn out series of events spanning over months later, the server avoided jail time with a hefty fine and 1,000+ hours of community service, the restaurant not only had to pay all of the expenses associated with replacing the license, all the costs incurred due to not having a license for a couple months (she had to go back to the other state, which being a single mom (I think dad was dead) who knew no one in the area to watch her kids (the youngest was in preschool or kindergarten I think, so definitely can't be home alone) meant she had to arrange full time child care), all of her lost wages due to dealing with this, her lawyers fees, and what basically amounted to an inconvenience fee of like $40k for dragging their feet and refusing to take responsibility. Needless to say the restaurant shortly went out of business given that they owed her like $80k when all was said and done, and that doesn't include whatever the lawyer got (my classmate didn't know that bit).
14:25 my dad put all my legal documents into this folder we kept in the kitchen, once I was an adult he gave me an envelope with my birth certificate and SSC. These items are SUPER important to have and having to ask someone else to send pictures of MY documents for me to do anything is insane. This person has my sympathies
Wait does that mean the couple with the 6 kids is having no-nos in front of them? They only have one room 💀
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NNOOOOOOOOOOO NO NO NOOOOOOO
From what other comments were saying, the parents have the bedroom with a nice bed so yeah. They get privacy.
No. The parents have the bedroom with I think a king bed. All the kids and I think 3 cats sleep in the living room and dining room… it’s a huge thing on TikTok rn cuz the dad is evading child support for his other kid when he could work.
@@emilyharrington2219 bro wtf
@@ladyrheanon THEY get privacy. the children don't