@@mahiletabera5715 menew kenash endea tadenrkew medeneke yemigebaw kehone eneam des aleg selemesekerechelet demo yaleche endalesh ewewenet new bela new yejemerechew
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
Girl, you speak my mind. I encourage you to talk about this and other related topics more frequently. My habesha women need to know their worth. I think empowered women should empower another women to break the heavy yoke that the society burdened women. Self-respect, confidence and self-reliance should be the main 3 ingredients of women's life.
Very true Diboye. I had my first daughter at age 32, first I thought I was too old for that, because our community understanding about womens age is way far from the truth , I also grow up in a Christian family who always focuses on their kids personal and spritual growth, so I don't regret for being "late" I know I'm not late. That age was a right time for me to have my daughter 😊
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
As a young man my mom and dad told me to never marry someone outside our culture. I ask them why? love is love, but they said when you’re young and looking good everyone wants to be around you, you have no clue wether all those people will be around when your looks and energy fades away, hence stick with cultural norms you know.
Absolutely 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much sis. I feel a lot better after watching this. I always feel left behind because I don’t have anyone as I’m getting older, but what’s for me will come to me🙏🏽
Ladies be your own favorite company, getting married or not shouldn't be the ultimate goal until we find someone of our choice. Invest in yourself and be educated, this is why I'm still "ቆሞ ቀር" I guess 😆😆🤷
As long as you are happy, who cares. Like you said, focus on yourself, and God brings you the perfect man when it is the right time. Don't worry, stay happy.
You’re funny 🤔🤣 koMo ker ?!🤔🤣 Taking some time to yourself should be seen as an opportunity to get to know who you really are and what you need. Don’t say “Komo ker “
I agree 💯 % with you. I am lucky, though. He is a very respectful and loving husband ❤️ The main reason I chose him was how he is respectful of women. We have been married for 12 years with 2 kids. He still treats me like a queen 👸 So there are few Habesha men who are really men.
I think the main problem also our sisters want only and only Ethiopian man. We have to be open and look around and accept the one who loves and respect us the most
OH my God !you blown my mind thank you so much! I can’t stand Ethiopia Man I am not saying all but most Ethiopia man specially many diaspora Ethiopia man I can’t stand how they treated women in general There is not way I mistreated by Ethiopia man no way I am queen I need to be treated with respect it doesn’t matter how old I am I do the same I respect people no matter what if you try to treat me bad I will show you who I am . Please ladies any age please respect your body don’t sleep with man before marriage or take time see how he treated with respect watch out red flags you know what I am saying thank you ! I look forward to watch your videos about relationships and Ethiopia man or something about domestic abuse That help so many women
Oh my goodness you are so right! I got married because of my dad, after 18 years of serving serving serving he got successful and he asked for a divorce. I couldn’t believe it, all I was thinking what I am doing for him not for me, 14 years in America, I didn’t do anything for myself but God gave me three wonderful children, brilliant, kind caring, and loving. Now I am starting over. Please don’t marry because any reason, except you want to, it will be your life not anyone’s. Our culture taught habesha wonde to be served by his wife, they can’t think otherwise. A wife is there to serve him, that is his mindset. Their EGO is sickening. At least the maid get paid, but a wife not really. Egziabher Ethiopian yemaibarkeat, we have so many mothers and wives crying behind the curtains. Wey It is so much better to be single that to be with a wrong partner. Also pray ask God who your husband is, Lucifer was like a light once upon a time.
That's absolutely right! Please we need more of this based on your experience and related to interracial relationships, there is a big cultural and personality gap. also related to sex after marriage because most men didn't agree with it because there is lots of choice around them so they don't want west their time, especially white guys...
May God give you a man who loves you enough to wait sex after marriage. Don’t pay in advance before the work is done. You are precious. God created sex for marriage or to try, May if someone don’t have patience it is not the right person. You are the prize!!!
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
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She is just talking about the man who has a lot of ego and can't give the respect she deserve for his wife. That is the topic for now. Unless you yourself has a problem, u already understand the topic. She doesn't say all women are perfect and as well as she doesn't say all men are bad. Many narcissist man are all over the world hurting women. So, just be positive or don't touch her personality.
በምእራባዊያን ሴቶች ላይ የተከሰተውን ቀውስ በኛ ሴቶች ላይ ለማምጣት ነው independent ምናምን የሚሉት 😂 We respect our women very much that’s why we don’t marry foreigners. Telling her to cook means we Ethiopian men can’t cook, it doesn’t mean cooking is easy job or we trying to disrespect our women. If I don’t know how to cook and she don’t know how to cook we will be starving lol. That’s why we ask can you cook?!
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
Deborah, i feel your frustrations. I recommend Sacred Marriage. If you haven't already. I don't think the issues is in the mens identity, as you mantioned ethiopian me. I think is the issue of spritual growth. I have 2 boys, i m trying my best to help them understand the very situation you are talking about. God bless you
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
ባብዛኛው የአበሻ ወንድ ሚስት ሳይሆን ሰራተኛ ነው የሚፈልጉት። እኛ ሴቶች ደሞ ባል ለማግባት ከመሮጣችን በፊት እራሳችን ላይ ብዙ መስራት ያስፈልገናል።
በጣም 😢😢
ለራስሽ ብቻ ሮጠሽ ሰጨርሺ ባል ከየት ይመጣል ሴቶች አትሞኙ ሁሉንም ጎን ለጎን ለማሴድ ሞክሩ አለመለዛ ባል ሢጠፋ በቃ ልውለድ ይመጣል ከትዳር ውሥጥ ያላደገ ልጅ እሡም ጥሩ ባል ወይ ጥሩ ሚስት መሆን አይችልም ከዛ የፈራረሰ ማህበረሰብ ይፈጠራል። ከሌላው ውድቀት መማር አለብን።ሁሉም ሚዛናዊ አና በወቅቱ ማድረግያ ስፈሌጋል ትዳርን ማቃለል የሴጣን አላማ ነው ፈጣሪ ትዳርን የፈጠረ በምክንያት ነው
@@naomigetachew7214 የኔቆንጆ ባል የሚያከብርሽም ሆነ የሚንቅሽ በማንነትሽ ነው። ስብእናሽን ሳትገነቢ ፣ በራስሽ መቆም መቻልን ሳትማሪ ተንደርድረሽ ባል ብታገቢ ውጤቱ እዬዬ ነው፡ በተለይ ልጅ ከወለድሽማ በቃ መውጫው ይናፍቅሻል። ሴት ልጅ emotionally እና financially ጠንካራ መሆን አለባት ባል ከማግባቷ በፊት።
100%
Thank you
አፌ ቁርጥ ይበልልሽ !!! ዲቦዬ የኔ ቅመም :: ደሞ ስታምሪ ! ጸጉርሽ ሜካፕሽ አለባበስሽ ሁሉነገሽ በልክ ነው::
☺️🥰🥰🥰🙏 አመሰግናለሁ
ትክክል የእኔ ቆነጆ ከማይከብርሸ ወንድ
በብቸኘነት በ10 እጀ ይበልጣል🙏🙏🙏
ዲቦዬ ተባረኪ አንችም እንዳልሽው ሁሉም አይደሉም እና የኔ ባል ልዩ ነው ቅን መልካም ሀሳቢ ለሰዎች ሁሉ መልካምን የሚያደርግ እግዚአብሔርን የሚፈራ ነው በጣምምምም ነው የምወደው ባሌ ለኔ ሀሉነገሬ ነው በቃ ሁሉ ነገሬ እሳሳለታለው እንከባከበዋለው ወጥቶ እስኪገባ ይኔፍቀኛል እሱም እንደዝያው። 17 አመት በትዳር ኖረናል ፍቅራችን ዛሬም ልዩ ነው ለሰዎች የሚገርም። ይህ የሆነው ግን በእየሱስ ነው ስሙ ይባረክ!
እድለኛ ሴት ነሽ ባል ጥሩ መሆኑን ሚስት ከመሰከረችለት ምስክርነቱ እውነት ነው ያውም ከ17 አመት በኃላ ። ስለትዳርሽ ጌታን ይባረክ
በደንብ ሰምተሽ ከሆነ ሁሉም አላለችም አማርኛ መስሎኝ ያወራችው እንዴዴዴ !!!
ባልሽን ማድነቅ ከፈለግሽ ለራሱ ንገሪው
@@mahiletabera5715 menew kenash endea tadenrkew medeneke yemigebaw kehone eneam des aleg selemesekerechelet demo yaleche endalesh ewewenet new bela new yejemerechew
You are blessed my dear
@@mahiletabera5715ደና ነሽ አይዞሽ ለአንችም እንደ እሳ የምትመስክርለት ባል ይስጥሽ እግዚአብሔር
ትክክል ነሽ❤❤❤ ወንዶች ልብ ግዙ እስኪ ወንድ ሁኑ ጥሩ ማለት ለሚስቱ ጥሩ የሆነ ወንድ ነው ይሉናል ውዱ ነብያችን ሰላትና ሰላም በነብያችን ላይ ይስፈን❤❤❤
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اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
اللهُمَّ صَلِّ وسَلِّم علَى نَبِينَا مُحَمد ﷺ
እኔ የአበሻ ሴት ፍቅር ይገባታል የሚል እምነት የለኝም። ወንዶች በእርግጥ በሆነ ባልሆነው የሚዋሹ ያልሆኑትን የሚቀባጥሩ ይኖራሉ።
ዲቦዬ ሀበሻ ወንድ ባፍንጫዬ ይዉጣ ብዬ ከሌላ ዜጋዎች ጋር ነበር የምተዋወቀዉ። ሁሌ ከፍ እንድል አስታየታቸዉ እራሱ ደስ ሲል። ቤተሰቤ ኢትዮጵያዊ እንዳገባ ስለሚፈልጉ የሀበሻ ወንድ ተዋወኩ። እነዛ ጎበዝ ያሉኝን ነገር እሱ አትችይም ይለኛል። ከፍ ለማለት ስጥር ዝቅ ያደርገኛል። እኔ እነዛ ስለገነቡኝ ከልቤ አልሰማዉም ነበር። ዝም ብዬ ሳየዉ የቤት ሰራተኛ ሊያረገኝ ያሰበ መሰለኝ። ዘመኑ የሶሻል ሚዲያ ነዉ። ተመልሼ ወደዉጪዎቹ ልሄድ ነዉ።
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
ጥሩ ነጥብ ነው ያነሳሽው ለብዙ እህቶች ትምህርት ይስጣል አስተዳደግንም ለማረም ይረዳል ተባረኪ
ዲቦ የተናገርሽው ሁሉ ልክ ነው አንድም ስህተት የለውም ግን አብዛኞቹ ሴቶች እራሱ ችግር አለባቸው አግብታ የፈታች ሴት የወለደችን ሴት እድሜዋ ከሰላሳ ያለፋትን ሴት ፈላጊ እንደሌላት አድርገው ነው የሚያስቡት መናናቅ ከወንዶች ይልቅ ሴቶች እርስ በራሳቸው የሚናናቁት ይበልጣል ወንዶችን ያበላሹት ሴቶች እራሳቸው ናቸው
ትልልል
ባይሆን አንቺ ያልሽው በተወሰነ ደረጃ ትክክል ነው።
Beautiful and timely message! " Wendoche esti Wende hunu!"
Girl, you speak my mind. I encourage you to talk about this and other related topics more frequently. My habesha women need to know their worth. I think empowered women should empower another women to break the heavy yoke that the society burdened women. Self-respect, confidence and self-reliance should be the main 3 ingredients of women's life.
እውነት ብለሻል የሀበሻ ወንዶች መመከር አለባቸው ።በጣም አስፈሪ እየሆኑነው አላህ ይምራቸው !!!
Very true Diboye. I had my first daughter at age 32, first I thought I was too old for that, because our community understanding about womens age is way far from the truth , I also grow up in a Christian family who always focuses on their kids personal and spritual growth, so I don't regret for being "late" I know I'm not late. That age was a right time for me to have my daughter 😊
Very true🥰🤗🥰🥰
@@EthiopianBeauty I had my twins at 37 after 6 years marriage
በጣም ልክ 🙌
እኔ በእምነት ጉዳይ ብዙም አውቃለሁ ባልልም ግን ከእኔ በተሻለ ያውቃሉ የምላቸው ሰዋች የማይጠየቅ እና የማይባል ሲሉ ይገርመኛል አረ አንዳንድ በሽተኛም ሊያረግሽ ይችላል 😅 ስላልወለድሽ ስለ ሳራ እና ሀና እየተናገርኩኝ አልፋለሁ ከእነሱ የተሻለ እውቀት ባይኖረኝም
ለመጀመሪያ ግዜ ነዉ ስፅፍ በጣም በጣም ነው ማመሰግንሽ Thank u so much 🙏🥰 የውስጤን ነው የተናገርሽው ተባረኪ ....
ትክክል ነሽ አልተሳሳትሽም ። የልቤን ነው የተናገርሽው በቃ ትንሽ ከበለጥናቸው ወደታች ማውረድ ነው እሚፈልጉት። ልብስ ይመስል ሴት ይቀያይራሉ መጨረሻቸውም አያምርም ትውልድም ያበላሻሉ ልብ ይስጣቸው ።
ዲቦ ከወንዶቹ ሴቶቹ ይብሳሉ ካገባች ከወለደች ካላገባች ሴት እሷ እንደበለጠች አድርጋ ነው የምታስበው ሴቶቹ ይብሳሉ
Ewnte naw
Thank you so much! our community has this problem. especially in North America.....I'll looking forward for watching the next video....
I love the topic you choose for today ❤ Wow!!! Great respect for your Mother ❤
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ለሁሉ ነገርሽ ቤተሰብሽን አደንቃለው።
@@EthiopianBeautyyemtechey kehon banagersh des yelgnal yen konjo
ዱቦዬ የምኖረው እዚህ ሀገር ነው ከሴት ልጄ ጋር ስለወደፊት ባል ስናወራ አበሻ እንድታገቢ ስላት አላገባም ትላለች ለምን ስላት ገና በመጀመሪያው date "Cook ማድረግ ትችያለሽ" ነው የሚሉት ለሴት ልጅ ክብር የላቸውም ትለኛለች እና ልክ አንቺ እንዳልሽው እናቶቻቸው ጥሩ አድርገው አላሳደጓቸውም ወይም አቅብጠዋቸዋል ትላለች። ዛሬ ያነሳሽው ሃሳብ እዚ ተወልደው ያደጉትንም ያካትታል እባካችሁ እንንቃ ሴት ልጆቻችን መከበር ስለሚፈልጉ ወደሌላ ዜጋ እየሄዱብን ነው Cook ማድረግ በኛ በእናቶች ያብቃ ልጆቻችን ወንዱም ሴቱም እኩል እንዲሰሩ አድርገን እናሳድግ እላለሁ።
ይሂዱ መንገዱን ጨርቅ ያድርግላቸው 😅
@@sahle7029 ስትወልጂ ይገባሻል
ዲቦዬ የልቤን ነው የተናገርሸዉ ተባረኪ ወንዶች ስሙት በደንብ
ሁሉም ወንዶች ይህን ቪዲወ ማየት አለባቸው ።እናመሰግናለን ቆጂት ዲቦ👍
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
9 years ago I promised to myself to never ever date an Ethiopian guy, and guess what? That was one of the best decisions I've ever made.
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Go to Nigeria man marriage or black America that is your choice
@@dawitjenbere9329 I rather be with them than with Ethiopian guy like you.
@dawitjenbere9329 I believe she clearly knows whom to date/marry. Also, you forgot to mention the majority of the population, white, white men.
As a young man my mom and dad told me to never marry someone outside our culture. I ask them why? love is love, but they said when you’re young and looking good everyone wants to be around you, you have no clue wether all those people will be around when your looks and energy fades away, hence stick with cultural norms you know.
Ehe topic part 2 yasfelgewal Deboye. Bale enjera adelem.this is a big motivation
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You forgot one big thing Diboye “ what about their jealousy “ they are jealous of women !!
Wendoch Betam mikegna nachew Betam sebeletu ayiwedum
Wiyyyyy ewnetshin new😓
100%, they completely forgot u are thier partner or thier kids mother and try to compete with you as stranger.
Very true! You made wise decision!! Angeten arashiw! You nailed it!! The majority ayrebum period.
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እኔ የአበሻ ሴት ፍቅር ይገባታል የሚል እምነት አሁን በቃ የለኝም። በሕይወታቸው የሚፈልጉትንም ጠንቅቀው አያውቁም። አንዳንድ አበሻ ወንዶች በእርግጥ በሆነ ባልሆነው የሚዋሹ ያልሆኑትን ሆነው የሚቀባጥሩ አይጠፉም።
Absolutely 👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much sis. I feel a lot better after watching this. I always feel left behind because I don’t have anyone as I’m getting older, but what’s for me will come to me🙏🏽
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I was married at 27 and I was so pressured by my own family and friends. It’s sad but thank god I ended up with my amazingly husband❤
It's good you are happy🥰🥰🥰
@EthiopianBeauty 😮6😮😮😢😮75
Ladies be your own favorite company, getting married or not shouldn't be the ultimate goal until we find someone of our choice. Invest in yourself and be educated, this is why I'm still "ቆሞ ቀር" I guess 😆😆🤷
As long as you are happy, who cares. Like you said, focus on yourself, and God brings you the perfect man when it is the right time. Don't worry, stay happy.
You’re funny 🤔🤣 koMo ker ?!🤔🤣
Taking some time to yourself should be seen as an opportunity to get to know who you really are and what you need. Don’t say “Komo ker “
You need to listen to Kevin Samuel sis lol
የኔጀግና ዘርሽ ይብዛ እራሳችላይ ወተዉ ተቀመጡ
I agree 💯 % with you. I am lucky, though. He is a very respectful and loving husband ❤️ The main reason I chose him was how he is respectful of women. We have been married for 12 years with 2 kids. He still treats me like a queen 👸 So there are few Habesha men who are really men.
ክፍል 2ይዘሽ ነይ
እንዳትፋቻቸው ደጋፊሽ ነኝ እሞታለሁ እንጅ እማይረባ ወንድ ላይ ወድቄ ራሴን አላረክስም
ትክክል ነሽ ዲቦየ ❤ ሀበሻ ወንዶጅ ሴት ልጅን ይንቃሉ እና በጣም ያናድደኛል😠 ህብረተሰቡ ነው ያበላሻቸው, ከሀበሻ ጋር ዳታኒግ ከቆረጥኩ 1 አመት ሆኖኛል አሰልቺ ነው😂😂
Debo thanks for great talk.
Can u pls film a full tutorial on your look? Hair and makeup please
Of course!!😊🥰🥰
እንዴት ነሽ ዲቦዬ የኔ ቆንጆ እሰይ የልቤን ነገርሽልኝ በተለይ እድሜያችሁ ሄደ እያሉ ራሳችንን ለሚያዞሩት ጥሩ መልእክት ነው ዲቦዬ እግዚአብሔር ይባርከሽ
I think the main problem also our sisters want only and only Ethiopian man. We have to be open and look around and accept the one who loves and respect us the most
You are right
OH my God !you blown my mind thank you so much! I can’t stand Ethiopia Man I am not saying all but most Ethiopia man specially many diaspora Ethiopia man I can’t stand how they treated women in general There is not way I mistreated by Ethiopia man no way I am queen I need to be treated with respect it doesn’t matter how old I am I do the same I respect people no matter what if you try to treat me bad I will show you who I am . Please ladies any age please respect your body don’t sleep with man before marriage or take time see how he treated with respect watch out red flags you know what I am saying thank you ! I look forward to watch your videos about relationships and Ethiopia man or something about domestic abuse That help so many women
@kidest100 - You're spot on.
Yes and the fact that they attack other sisters for having non ethiopian husband is crazy.
Yes, I am praying God please not Ethiopian man, not another project to do. 🙏🏽😩
ዲቦዬ የልጅ አዋቂ ነሽ እግዚአብሔር ይባርክሽ በጣም ልክ ነሽ ❤️❤️❤️👏👏👏👏
Oh my God I will give you 10000000....% you are absolutely right
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የኔ ኮንጆ: ተባረኪልኝ: የ ኢትዮጵያውያ ወንዱች: በ ባህል የተከበቡ ሲትን: እንዲት: መንከባከብ: የማይችሉ ናቸው: አብዛኞቹ: ልብ: ይስጣቹ
Great topic Dibo keep us posted more .. so true !!
You speaking my mind 😂 big respect to you sis
I agree 100% with you. We need part 2 please.
Preach it Girl, I like your approach to teach our Ethiopian Man .
እናት ውለደችሽ ጀግና
ብዙ ወንዶች ይመኙሽ ነበር የተመኙትን ሁሉ በዚህ ስንፍናቸው እሚያገኙ ይመስላቸው ነበር ወገባቸውን ጠበቅ አርገው ወንድ ካልሆኑ በቃ ተስፋ አስቆረጥሽልኝ እሰይ የኔ ቅመም ።
እንደዚህም የራስሽንም ዘር የተሸከምንውን ውርድርድ አታድርጊን። እኛ ምንም ሁኑ ብቻ እንወዳችኋለን። ግን አንቺም የሌላ አገር እንደመረጥሽ ያስታውቃል
My suggestion is, do not get married if u r not independent enough. DONE!
ጌታ ይባርክሽ ቦይ ፍሬንድ ግርል ፍሬንድ ይላሉ ሰዎች ጋብቻን ዋጋ እያሳጡ ነው
Wow Wawa Wawa. Wow, you talking amazing thank you very much woman. When she of successful the men they treat to the down.
በሀሳብሽ በጣም እማማለሁ👍 እንለኛ ነኝ ባለቤቴ በጣም ደግ ና እፍቃሪ ነው በዚህ በጣም ደስተኛ ነኝ🙏🏽😊 እንዳልው ደግሞ ወንድሜም ለሴት እጅግ ክብር ያለው ትሁት ነው ::
በእርግጥ የራሴን እደምሳሌ ቆጠርኩ እንጅ ብዙ መልካም ኢትዮጵያውያን ወንዶች ይኖራሉ ::
ለማንኛውም እንደዚህ በግልፅ ወጥተሽ የብዙዎችን ችግር በመናገርሽ በጣም አደንቅሻለሁ✊🏾👍❤️👏👏👏
ጎሽ! የምትወደን እና ትንሽ የምትረዳን አንድ ተገኘሽ
የኔ ውድ እኛ ተቃጥለን አቃጥለው ሊደፉን ነው ወንዶቹ አይይ ተይኝ😂😂😀😀😀😀
እኔ የአበሻ ሴት ፍቅር ይገባታል የሚል እምነት አሁን በቃ የለኝም። በሕይወታቸው የሚፈልጉትንም ጠንቅቀው አያውቁም።
Oh my goodness you are so right! I got married because of my dad, after 18 years of serving serving serving he got successful and he asked for a divorce. I couldn’t believe it, all I was thinking what I am doing for him not for me, 14 years in America, I didn’t do anything for myself but God gave me three wonderful children, brilliant, kind caring, and loving. Now I am starting over. Please don’t marry because any reason, except you want to, it will be your life not anyone’s. Our culture taught habesha wonde to be served by his wife, they can’t think otherwise. A wife is there to serve him, that is his mindset. Their EGO is sickening. At least the maid get paid, but a wife not really.
Egziabher Ethiopian yemaibarkeat, we have so many mothers and wives crying behind the curtains. Wey It is so much better to be single that to be with a wrong partner. Also pray ask God who your husband is, Lucifer was like a light once upon a time.
👌👌👌👌👌 perfect said
አይ ዲቦራ መቸ ነው የምታገቢው ስትባይ ነበር አሁን ደግሞ መቸ ነው የምትወልጅው አያሉ ይቀጥላሉ 🤪🤣🤣🤣ወንዶች ሊገዙ ይፈልጋሉ ደነዞች 🤣🤣🤣በዛ ላይ ሴቶችን ማስለቀስ ነው ስራቸው🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
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Habesha eko dedeb new tinish ye timihiret etiret ena ye ewuket etiret selalachew astesasebachew idiotic new
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@@mesobethiopian121ኧረ የተማሩት ይብሳሉ።
@@EthiopianBeauty😅😅😅😅
Thank you, tired of this issue especially my family pressure 😢, boys are scared if u are strong women 😂
That's absolutely right! Please we need more of this based on your experience and related to interracial relationships, there is a big cultural and personality gap. also related to sex after marriage because most men didn't agree with it because there is lots of choice around them so they don't want west their time, especially white guys...
May God give you a man who loves you enough to wait sex after marriage.
Don’t pay in advance before the work is done. You are precious. God created sex for marriage or to try, May if someone don’t have patience it is not the right person. You are the prize!!!
@@mercyz6252 Amen! 🙏🙏🙏 Wow....Thank you for this powerful advice! ❤️ God bless you!
you are strong, wise and beautiful woman!
Diboraye everything you said is true
I habesha ወንድሞች ማስተካከል ያለባቸውን ያሰተካክሉ እላለው
ብዙ ሴቶች ከስንት ጅላንፎ ወንድ ጋር እየተንገላጀጁ ነው!? ያ የበሰበሰ ኃላ ቀር ሴትን ዝቅ ዝቅ የሚያደርግ ባህል ሴቶችን ወደ ማይፈልጉትን ትዳር አስገብቶ እያሰቃያቸው ነው::ወጥ ቀቃይ ና ቤት አጽጂ የቤት ሰራተኛ ለምን!?
"ወጥ ቀቃይ" ወይኔ አንጨረጨራችሁ::
Exactly you are absolutely true specially ethiopia west yalut meset serategha new metmeslchew
እውነት ነው deboye ደነዞች ናቸው and also z society
😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you weda you are absolutely right ❤
Good job my sweetheart!!! You speak my mind !
ዲቦዬ ትክክል ነው የተናገርሽው እግዚአብሄር ይባርክሽ
Hi sister, I'm speechless for this topic today!!!!👏👏👏👏
It is very easy for you to say that you should have done this video before you get married
ለዚህም ነው በሀገራችን መፍታት የበዛው ሴት ስትማር ስታድግ ስታውቅ የበታችነት ይሰማቸዋል.
Thank you so much a great message God bless you!
እውነት ነው የኔ ታላቀ ውንድሜ በጣም ጉረኝ ነው !!
You are right diboye GOD Bless You
Divo thanks for advice you are amazing 😊 girl
You Make me laugh! Very true, they don’t have confidence, lazy, most of them gaslighter, lairs, ……….I like your hard fact ❤❤❤
😂🥹👍👍👍
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
We have to respect each other according to the word of God that is perfect way of Respecting each other.
እህቴ ተባረኪ ዲቦራየ እድሜሽ ሄደ እያሉ የሚደክሙኝ ሰወች አበረታሽኝ🥰🥰🙏😘
ውይይይ የኔ ጌታ ክብር ላንተህ ይሁን እኔ ሃረብ ሃገር ሰርቼ ነው ቤተሰቤን እምረዳው ግን 2020 ሃገርቤት ሄጄ እዳልሽው ገፋፍተው ህይወቴን አበላሽተውብኝ ነበር ዛሬ ላይ ሆኜ ሳስብ ትዳር ብዬ ሲኦል ውስጥ እደምኖር ታየኝ። ሃጉን ግን መልሴ እግዚአብሔር በፈቀደው ግዜ ብዬ ምመልሰው ለማንኛውም ለኛሃገር ሰው ማስተዋል ይስጣቸው ተባረኪ ♥
I am proud of you sis speaking the true❤❤❤
ወይኔ የኔ ማር thank you for speaking this ኡፍ እንዴት እንደሚሰልች የኛ ወንዶች እኮ
እኔ የአበሻ ሴት ፍቅር ይገባታል የሚል እምነት አሁን በቃ የለኝም። በሕይወታቸው የሚፈልጉትንም ጠንቅቀው አያውቁም። አበሻ ሴቶች ቁንጅ ያላቸው ጥቂት ናቸው። ቁንጅና እንዳላት ስታውቅ ግን እጅግ መንቀባረርና ቁንጅናዋን ወደ ገንዘብ ትቀይረዋች።
Yenea konjo des steyi tebareki Egziabher tsegawen yabezalesh
Frist build soalid relationship with God and easy to make relasionship with others.
Your hair soo dope. Pleaese please the link I want to buy it. Tried to find video on your content gn I can’t find this hair. Pleaese give me the link
Thanks
Yes thank you ❤
አይ ሰው ሲጠፋ ማንም ተነስቶ አማካሪ ልሆን የሚልበት ዘመን ላይ ስላላን ምንም ማለት አይቻልም። ዘመናችን የፈጠረብን ችግር ወንድም ሴትም ላይ ብዙ ችግር አለ ነገር ግን ሴቶችን ፍጹም አድርጎ ወንድ ላይ ብቻ ያዙዝ ልቀቁኝ ማለት ምን ይሉታል። ሲጀመር የራስሽን ኢጎ ነው ቱሩ ያልሽው። ገንዘብ አለኝ ውጤታማነኝ ብሉ መመጻደቅ እንዳለ ሁኖ እሪሱ ውጤታማ ሴት/ ሰው ማለት የገባሽ አልመሰለኝም ቅሪቅንቦ መሰብሰብ ወይም ታዋቄ መሆን ከመሰለሽ ትልቁ ስተትሽ እሱጋ ይጀምሪል። መጽሐፍ ቅዱስን አነባለሁ ከሚል ሰው ይሄ አይጠበቅም ክርስቶስ እሪሱን ዝቅ ስለ ማድረግ / ትህትና ትምህርት ሲጀመር የገባሽ አልመሰለኝም። ማንም የቆመ የሚመስለው እንዳይወድቅ ይጠንቀይ የሚልም ልጨምርልሽ። በርግጠኝነት የሆነ የበደለሽ ወንድ አለ እንዲህ ፀጉርሽ እሲቶም የሚያንደገድግሽ ግን አይዞሽ ፈጣሪ የሪስሽን ሰው ይሰጥሻል ከስሜታ ወጣ በማለት የሚጠቅም ሚዛናዊ የሆነ በ መጽሐፍ ቅዱስን ወይም በሳይንስ እይታወች በመንተሪስ ለሰው የሚጠቅም ነገር ብታስተምሪ መልካም ነው። ሚዲያ አገኛን በማለት ይህን ሞኝ ማህበረሰብ አትቀልዱበት።
አግብታለች😂😂 ብዙ አትበላት
@@lt963 ካገባች ይመቻት ግን ያገባች ሳይሆን ግሪ የተጋባች ነው ምትመስለው። ባል ያለው ሰው እንደዚህ ጭፍን ባለ መንገድ ወንድን መኮነን ይከብዳል። ሞሪል የሚባል ነገርም አለ። በፊት ዱቂትና የህንድ ለአምልኮ የተሰጠን ሂማን ሄር ስለማድረግ መድስኮር ስሪየ ብለው ከያዙ ሰዎች ምንም አትጠብቅም። ፈጣሪ ሙሉ አድርጉ የፈጠረውን ሰው ዱቂትና ቅሪቅንቦ ማስዋብያ በማስተማር😀🫣/በማሳሳት ገቢ እያከበቱ መመጻደቅ ምን ይሉታል።
She is just talking about the man who has a lot of ego and can't give the respect she deserve for his wife. That is the topic for now. Unless you yourself has a problem, u already understand the topic. She doesn't say all women are perfect and as well as she doesn't say all men are bad. Many narcissist man are all over the world hurting women. So, just be positive or don't touch her personality.
@@kalkidanayele304 የተናገረችው ነገር ስራ ለሌበት ሰው ምንም አያናድድም!!
በምእራባዊያን ሴቶች ላይ የተከሰተውን ቀውስ በኛ ሴቶች ላይ ለማምጣት ነው independent ምናምን የሚሉት 😂
We respect our women very much that’s why we don’t marry foreigners. Telling her to cook means we Ethiopian men can’t cook, it doesn’t mean cooking is easy job or we trying to disrespect our women. If I don’t know how to cook and she don’t know how to cook we will be starving lol. That’s why we ask can you cook?!
ነጭ ስታገቡ ትልቅ ነገር ይመስል መጣቹ እኛን ትሳደባላቹ እንግዲህ ነጫጭባ ባልሽን አቅፎ መተኛት ነው
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
Wow That is the excellent message❤
ችግራቸው ተወርቶ ስለማያልቅ ይለፈኝ 😂😂😂😂
The point is Back ground,
Not only Ethiopians but also eritreans habesha in general
We raised the same culture
Eritreans are way better than ours. They are very responsible guys.
@@ethio4421 teygn ema yebasu sdbachew ena dulachews
Deborah, i feel your frustrations. I recommend Sacred Marriage. If you haven't already. I don't think the issues is in the mens identity, as you mantioned ethiopian me. I think is the issue of spritual growth. I have 2 boys, i m trying my best to help them understand the very situation you are talking about. God bless you
Thank you!!🥰 you are a wise mother😊🙏
She is already gone for a non-Eth.
@@keftam what do you mean 🤔
@@ethiosolomon3315 She is already given to a Brit.
I love the topic Deboye 👌👌
stay blessed!
Tik Tok yes koshasha mesebsebiya newu 💯💯💯🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
Thank you my konjo sister🥰you speak my mind ❤❤ no Ethiopian man for me never ever 🙅🏻♀️
ይህ የአንቺ አስተያየት ነው። አስተያየት ደግሞ እንደ እውነት ወይም የወል ሃሳብ ተቆጥሮ ሌሎችን ለማስተማሪያነት አያገለግልም። ምዕመናን ሆይ አንድ አንዴ ዩቱዩቡን ወደ ጎን ትተን ትምህርት ቤት እንግባ ወይም መፅሃፍትን እናንብብ። አለቅን እኮ ጎበዝ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
አፍሽ ይባረክ የኔ ቆንጆ😘😘👍👍
100% agree. God bless you !
Debi Good point, I really agree with you exactly! 👏🏽👏🏽 👏🏽
ወንዶች ጆሮአችሁን አጽድታችሁ ስሙ ሴቷ እንዳትበልጣችሁ ጫና የምታበዙ ደነዞች እናንተም ስሙ📢
Habesha man please don't marriage over 30 years old women's most of them to sleeping different men from different countries. When they are old the want to habesha man only come for children . Don't respect to them most of have sexual effecting prostitute business habesha women's
እሰይ የኔ ውድ እንደኔ እናት ጥበበኛ የሆነች እናት ናት ያሳደገችሽ 😊😊❤❤🎉🎉
Ejeg aderege hasabeshen edegefalehu self confidence lenoren yegebal
Well said I agree 100%
Thank you Deborah for your advice, I like your dress where can I get it?
You are right my dear, ብሎ እንጀራ አይደለምም እይቀመስም??!!? ለማለት ነው።
ውይ ስወድሽ
ሴትን እሚያከብር የተከበረ ነው ብለዋል ነብዩ ሙሀመድ ስለላሁ አለይሂ ወሰለም ወንዶች ለክብራችሀ ስትለ ሴትን አክብሩ በቃ ሴት እኮ በምድር ላይ አለ ከተባሉ ውድ ነገሮች በላይ ውድ ነች
I loved everything about you… I was enjoying everything you were saying.