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Sitting here drunk.......heartbroken........with regret she moved on I couldn't, now she's telling another guy "I love you" already.....you know what it's time for a change......thank you my friend
I understand how it feels like. I have the same story she moved on in just a month but I couldn't until I watched this. Im glad that I'm me I don't love you ebe**
To all the guys on here, please don't do stuff to try make your ex feel bad for leaving you. Do not waste your time changing yourself to show her she was wrong because you are doing it all for her in the end and you won't be 100% free and focused on truly bettering yourself for YOUR own future. Stay strong and improve yourself for you not others.
Stan Barkworth Excellent advice. I‘d also like to mention that no man should *ever* rely on a woman for his own happiness. He should only rely on himself and nobody else.
Marcianus Valerius I've always had trouble since the end of highschool making friends because I fell out with a group of friends on the last year and met my ex gf. I literally had no friends the whole 1 1/2 year I spent with her and neither did she so we relied on eachother heavily to be happy which worked but it didn't mean it was healthy. I've actually managed to find some decent friends now and so has she since we broke up. No one should rely on eachother to feel happy and only happy when you are with them.
Stan Barkworth So many people make this mistake and they end up setting themselves up for big disappointment. A gf/bf should complement his/her partner and not become the main purpose. I‘m glad you comprehend this stuff and hope some people realize this too before it‘s too late.
My ex broke up with me a week ago, 8 years of a relationship, well solid 6 years, I begged for her back for a week straight, cried to her while she was not wanting anything to do with me. This video has changed my whole life, you will never know how much I appreciate it, I've played this on repeat for a whole day straight, stay strong. Achieve your goals and be successful one day, it hurts but do not contact them, it will reopen the scab and you will never move on. Today I feel 100% for confident because I haven't contacted her, revenge isn't what you need, being yourself and being happy is what matters. God bless you.
cole hanna I'm sorry to hear that I'm going through the same, 7 years and a daughter together, and it's over just like that, that's years we'll never see again, only in memories.
Man I'm going through the exact same. Stay strong brother we will make it through this - you have to fight and stay strong and look for the reason why God put you into this! You deserve better man stay strong.
Back to the grind...all that matters now is money and weight keep lifting...keep grinding brother...the grass is greener with out the weeds in your life
My wife of 22 years was cheating on me and then finally left me for him. Its the absolute worst feeling in the world. Even worse than losing someone to death
Just broke with my 2 years girlfriend. She said that she wants to enjoy her single life at she doesn't love me anymore ... You know what, ibelieve it's gonna be her loss ,not mine.. Improve your self and prove that bitch wrong. One day she will regreat for breaking with you and you'll enjoy your success .. We all going to make it bros.. Use the pain to gain success. We will make it through
Heartbreak teaches us to forgive, not only the person that hurt us but our selves. Heartbreak is the new beginning of life you only decide what is going to be.
Helped me out a lot. The amount of love and compassion I put into the relationship, is now going to be fueled back into myself, to make me stronger than ever before. To all my brothers out there who have been through a heartbreak or are going through one...fight. Fight along my side to become better. You got this. Spiral out, keep going.
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It´s not even holding on to any anger at all. It´s moving on with ur life. Let go, move foward and never look back... stay strong Bro!
Shits been rough for me. My girl left me. I have been down. Then I found this video, and I have improved myself so much. I’ve been in the gym 6 days a week. I turned the gym into a sanctuary, to clear my head. Thank you for this video
Well writing this it’s been a whole year and I met a new girl. I fell in love again, and then snap it was gone. This one was shorter than before but I still did love her extremely and now it’s gone. I’m glad I have this in my liked videos because I know it can get me through the rough times
This is my gospel! I live by these words now. She led me on and broke my heart. I am now determined to show myself, her and everyone how wrong they are about me. I will be a better version of myself and make everyone and her regret ever giving up on me! Boys it’s time to make a change and give life everything I got!!!!
I was really about to kill my self before I watched this... and I didn’t think I had a choice ( I’m crying while I’m typing this) I still want to end it even now... but now I can’t, because I would be going against myself, I would be going against everything I lived for, I would be going against what I want to become, my dreams... but just knowing that I won’t be around any more, that none of my friends and family would never see me again, that I would put them in a state of mind like I am right now, and all because I decided to roll in my sadness, my depression, my anger, and take my own life. It makes my stomach churn just thinking about how me killing my self, would affect the ones I love in a negative way. So please think twice and remember you always have a choice and don’t stay in a depressing state.... just live.
me too bro :( this sadness is overwhelming and nothing can stop these tears from rolling down my face... its just so hard to move on, especially when you have other burden to carry with you.
This has helped me through my darkest heartbreak days. Realizing he didn’t love me the way I loved him was hard to accept. Can only give someone so many chances to make an effort. So thankful for this.
Holy fuck. This just changed my life. For everyone that is going through something, you are not alone. There is strength in numbers. No joke, this just changed my life. i feel like ive been re programmed
I loved her man... 6 years of pure dedication and love to her and she up and left me. I've begged I've pleaded I've done everything i can but she's still not here.... You can't force someone to stay - I've done everything in my power and I hope god does the right thing. This video has made me feel strong and try push forward but I do still love her man.... wish things were easier...
Nav Bharj i feel you man hope you feel better it takes time. Been 2 months since I broke up with my girl 3 years together and i am starting to feel better..
In a week, it will be one year since my ex ended our relationship, and I just wanted to leave this. I have listened to this video so many times in the past year. I have cried so many tears you could fill a lake. I remember thinking last August that I would be fine in just a couple of months. Or that the sadness would go away, surely, by the end of 2018. Well, I couldn't have been more wrong. Though I do not hurt like I used to, sad waves still hit every now and then. I still miss my ex, but I now realize why the relationship ended. I have really been working on myself and reflecting on everything that went wrong. I have decided to focus on what I did wrong. I am in much better physical and mental shape than I was a year ago. In just a little over a week, I will be traveling to Ireland by myself - I have always wanted to do something like this, and something inside of me told me I had to try it. After that, I will be attending grad school in a state over 20hrs away from my ex. None of this is to brag but to show that I worked my ass off to get to where I am now and all of you will do the same. Like the video says, don't just sit there in bed all day or on the floor. If you need to cry, then fucking cry but then get your ass up and go do something, even if its small, that will get you closer to your goals. Don't fool yourself into thinking the sadness will go away, because it will not - you will just get stronger. There were days that I would be on my lunch break at work, sitting in my car just crying. All I wanted to do was message my ex to see how she was doing or for another chance to with her. The first time I saw her new bf, it truly crushed me inside. I could go one minute without thinking about her and her new bf. Even when I was alone and feeling that overwhelming sadness, I got up and did something that would benefit me in some way. You don't want to look back in 10 years and simply wish you had done something - DO SOMETHING. Don't live with that regret. I remember reading some of the comments under this video last year and finding some kind of motivation, even though I was tremendously sad and depressed, so I hope some of you can find the same in this. "You're going to suffer no matter what, so instead of suffering while doing nothing, at least suffer while working towards your goals."
My Girlfriend just broke up with me last night, It sucks cus she told me she didn’t love me and that hurt. I gave her everything I had. But I’ll tell you what, this Is really motivating and i have to move on and prove her wrong. Show her what she missed
Keep your head up. You stayed loyal to her. Just smile coz one day you’ll meet someone you’ll love who’ll reciprocate that love. But you can’t let this ex-“girlfriend” of yours stop you from being a guy who loves his girl. Then she’s won. But this isn’t about her, it’s about you. So keep your head up, always
Video helps a lot. I can’t believe so many other people go through this pain. Why do they all have to be so difficult. I hope and pray everything will turn out good at the end not just for me but for every other guy who has to go through this shit because girls don’t understand how much we sacrifice just for them. Hopefully one day they will and will regret.
Just went through a breakup with the love of my life and though she still cares and loves me she doesn't feel committed and this is what i needed to hear thank you
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi just came back to this video bro , thank you I’m doing way better , I still sometimes feel here and there but I’m great overall . Stick your chest out Kings !
I HATE this feeling. this isn't something I would even which upon my worst enemy heartbreak will have any man in tears feeling worthless , weak and pathetic I just wonder when this feeling will start to fade away
when my ex broke up with me i really wanted her back but now i dont want to even talk to her its been 2 months since she broke up with me i think i made alot of progress in these last two months when i was with her i wasent able to do even one muscle up but now i can do 3 in a row 3 dosent seem like alot but you try to even do 1 So iam actually some what greatful for the break up even though it was really depressing for the first month but it made me angry i used that anger to get more strength
Kngcobra GAMEING Before her, you were just a guy who couldn’t even do a muscle up, who thought having a gf is the best thing in the world. Now, now you’re a heartbroken veteran, who can do at least 3 muscle ups, and who know understands how much work relationships are and how devastating it is to get into one with the wrong girl. You learnt this life lesson now. You can only learn it through experience. Thousands or millions of other guys haven’t learnt it yet. Be thankful brother. Every time you cry, or are at the gym about to die, or where ever you are seeking growth, but in pain. She was a lesson, and her leaving you was a blessing.
You guys, stop letting women mess with your head and mess up your life You are a Man, special, controller of your life, have integrity & self respect, conduct yourself like a good man and don’t let anybody bring you down, ghost their ass You are Your Mother’s & Father’s pride & joy Now do what’s best for you & your family
I don't know who are you I even don't know what made you to make this video But I promise one day I will surely make you proud. Today is 11th April 2018 Remember the date brother God bless you Thank you
Seriously needed this more than anything. Just got broken up with and its been so dam hard, and there are days when I feel like I'm going crazy. Stay strong, everyone!
Soooo Im a girl, but I listen to this every time I run into my Ex. I know a lot of people say “don’t do it to prove your ex wrong. Do it for you” But sometimes we need a little fire lit under our ass. Yes, self love is the key but not everyone can find it yet. You gotta take different paths but we can all get there soon enough. Im making silent moves and trying to move on. But my heart cries so loud for him. So I silence it with the gym 💪🏼💖
Girl same here it was a roller coaster 🎢 but I prayed for him he needs to heal and me too found out my trust someone else broke I’m bleeding on to new relationships so staying single and healing myself ❤ typing this while I’m working out 🙏💪❤️🩹
I just signed up to the usmc. I’m not scared, it was my own decision. I feel that it will teach to be a better man. To help me get over this break up.thanks to this video, I would learn to be a better person.
This video made me cry on how relatable it was thank you. Dealing with a breakup that just happened last week and this really opened my eyes. This really made me understand what I need to do. Thank u
Just came back to this vid and here to comment on this I said a while back. I’ve been great life’s been good and now I’m in college living my life and playing football. Everything happens for a purpose
I’m getting into the best shape of my life physically and mentally because of your powerful words thank you. And fellas if you need that extra motivation do it to prove her wrong and better yourself, that’s my main fuel and trust me brother that’s an everlasting fuel💯
Days after days, and year after year I still come back and listen to this. This video has changed my life. I was going through a heart break, and I have since then changed my life
6 months ago I was in the shower breaking down, crying, shouting, filled with anger. Seriously, make a change in your life, whether it’s the gym, a sport, hell if it’s knitting just do it. Everything gets easier once you accept things, and change yourself for the better.
This is as real as walking outside your house and closing the door right behind you. Not knowing what’s gonna happen but whatever can happen and you’re only mission is to make and conquer!!
watched this about 4 months ago , this speech woke something inside me , since then I lost 20 kg of fat and gained about 6 kgs of muscle , I feel like a total legend and I haven't even begun , thank you my man , I owe you
One of the best videos ever, I'm so sick of being heart broken and drinking myself to sleep every night it's time to get back into body building and quit feeling sorry for myslef
This is really amazing... Your lines give me reason to live again.. I was totally broken .. I was trying to end my self but now I have a reason thank you so much.
After my first wife left me I started lifting for the first time in my life. Best thing I ever did. Women were drawn to me and my new body. But that wasn't the best thing it did. It imbued me with power and a sense of worth. Keep going fellas
Needed to see this. Going through a tough time getting over a breakup after a few months. I know this woman wasn't the best for me, but still being lonely seems a lot tougher than being unhappy.
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It has been 3 years ago since I had a heartbreak. I listened to this speech everyday. It helped me. Guys I know in what kind of place you are. It’ll get better, little by little. Time heals, it really does, even you don’t think so. I am worth happines, so are you. I am at a really good place right now, I am just a regular guy so you are going to be fine.
Im really thankful for this vedio.. because this showed me my true worth the girl i was with always took me for granted always cheated me n still i forgive her because i loved her that crazy. But im thankful to god that he opened my eyes and showed me the truth. N keep postin such videos they acts as an counselling partner for the one who is suffering.... Ty once again... All the brothers out there.... Focus on yur goals first...and love your mom dad they are the one who will hurt uh....
I’d like to say thank you for this. When I feel like quitting and when I feel like giving up my dream to play on the field in front of everyone who thought I wasn’t good enough, I watch this video and it reminds me why I keep grinding. To prove everyone wrong who said I couldn’t make it in football since I’m starting so late. To live 10 years from now where I don’t live with the regret of not doing the one thing I wanted to do but let everyone tell me I couldn’t do it. Thank you for this vidoe
This got me over this girl in 4 times of watching this and got me back in lifting now I’m doing better then ever and my gains are just out of this world rn
Thank you for this ..this is gonna be my fire this year..I will not quite I will not stop till I prove them all wrong I can relate to every one on here that got their heart broken..
I have played this video 5 times back to back. I’m going thru a really emotional divorce and I really love her. It will be 5 years on Valentine’s Day and she told me she never loved me that she rather die then stay with me and that she believes her ex is her soulmate.....I cry every morning and it’s hard for me to sleep cause she is in my dreams every night. My pain is overwhelming and I feel lost at times. Hopefully I make it thru. I thought of suicide but I know that’s not the answer I just want the pain to go away and I miss my wife
glenn grainger bro it sucks yes it dose after my ex gf broke up with me it was something different from other breakups what I went through, but never think of suicide listen the pain you are feeling right now fight through it cause on the other side of your pain will be happiness trust me it will you may think not but it will then you’ll find someone 1000 times more better then her I know it sucks cause you still love her trust me I still love my ex gf a lot but your life doesn’t revolve around one person just keep your head up and keep on moving
We’re not as replaceable as they make it seem. I know a lot of us out there are in similar predicaments. We loved someone and they stopped loving us and moved on to someone else. I spent a good month or 2 feeling sorry for myself. I still get sad but I’ll be damned if I let her control my life through my emotions. Not when she couldn’t give 2 fucks about me. So to anyone reading this, wipe your tears, pick your chin up, and use that anger and pain as your main fuel. Use it until it’s all gone and you’re out of it. Use it until the progress shows in your physique and until you feel no more anger. The day you realize how much anger and hurt you’ve let go of, is the day you’ll realize you’re finally getting over it. Stay strong everyone. We are not alone.
Girls can be so cruel i dont know why girls always say guys are jerks. I have had 2 girls i loved. The first one left me for another after 3 years of close friendship and 2 years of relation. The other i really loved but she never loved me back. Then she finally did and my 1st ex destroyed that relation. I hate myself. I only ever wanted my loved one to be happy. I am giving up on ever trustkng anyone else again. Even b4 this i had trust issues. I decided to trust my gf and she betrayed me. I feel like dying but i cant and i hate that i feel so powerless
If you let yourself not trust anyone coz of those girls, then those girls have one. Don’t do the unjust thing by treating someone according to the actions of someone else.
This helped me, I’ve come so far after my 3 year relationship. Only 20 it should be easy but holy shit I couldn’t be more wrong. But I got old friends back, they help me motivate myself everyday. I was the skinny quiet kid. Now I’m buff, I feel healthy, I feel happy and now I got a bunch a girls talking to me. It took a long ass time but I feel anybody can do it if you put your mind to it. I was alone for so long, I was isolated for awhile. But self love and focusing on yourself really makes a difference. I’m starting college this fall, getting my third apartment soon. To the person reading this: YOU GOT THIS!😏👉🏻
Thank you so much for this, I really needed these words. I've been thinking about taking my own life...for so long. I'm so heartbroken, I can't even think straight on the daily. You are a true inspiration and motivation, I hope from now on I can live with myself. Much respect and heart from Belgium!
I was with a girl for a solid amount of time. Everything was perfect and then out of know where she ended it all. She was my life and meant everything to me. It’s been a month now and I still can’t get over her and I try so hard each day to forget it. This video is helping me so much to get over it all. Thank you :)
This has helped me for a long time with different relationships and now is helping with the current situation... getting blocked off everything after 2 years isnt great! But this shit year is going to be my best year to date! We all feel the pain but let's pull through it iron brothers! If your reading this and stuck in a shit place drop a comment on here I will always reply and help anybody I can! 2021 here we come!!
I always look at these comments without really looking at them at the time I saved this video I was really heartbroken and fat now 3 months later I’m slowly building my body, eating right sculpting my body I’m in greasy shape happy I got over her and proud of everyone who didn’t give up consistently go to the gym and if need be take one day off only.
Fell in love with a girl for so long,Today 3/8/20 I finally confessed,after months of having a huge crush on her and she hit me with “I see you as a friend” felt like shit.But that quote “maybe she thought she could do better,then make yourself better and prove that bitch wrong” spoke volume to me.Ngl I really need some motivation to pull through Rn,but I swear I won’t give up brothers!
This is so powerful. My partner for years and my daughters mother cheated with my brother. I walked away and left everything. Ofcourse I still have regular contact with my child and I’m glad I did as she is the only reason I’m still here. Although this video played a massive part in that. It’s the hardest thing in the world to move on. I havnt yet but that’s only because I need to find and fix myself first for me and my kids sake. It takes time. I still have massive feelings for this woman as she was a big part of me. There’s a fine line between love and hate isn’t there? Gotta keep fighting brothers. Gotta keep moving. Gotta keep stepping forward even if it’s baby steps as they all count. Peace out
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I have been listening to this for many years after my first break up,struggled alot but didnt stop,there were many times i failed and got knocked down but i didnt quit,i have a better body now,a gf who stayed with me for 2 years who supported me through my grind,got my ACE cert,finally got my first job as a fitness trainer and joining my first bodybuilding competition next march,to all my bros just trust me,life will slowly get better,trust the process
Lift heavy, learn to love yourself and give a fuck you to all the women that cheated on you because they will come crawling back one day. Happens all the time and i tell them it’s too late. Lift yourself up and leave all the weakness behind. Do not listen to sad songs, do not drink because you feel it’s the way out. I let my anger fuel me in the gym. Live life and everything will fall into place
Coming with mental health issues it’s tough, I lost my mom when I was younger & never wanted to get attached to anyone again.. then I found her my ex & I did everything for 2 1/2 years. She lied & did everything behind my back but I forgave her because I had hope. She would leave & come back & just repeat it. I’ve never been so hurt once again.. she did me dirty.. but great video, I’ll try my best to become better.. love ya bro’s
Her i go again.... heartbroken, not going to the gym, not working out and not being fucking happy. Someday this would all be a great memory where i learned from
Broke up with my ex after 8 years and I’m having such a hard time. I miss him so much and he’s moving on and seeing someone new only after a few months. I need the motivation to become better. 💔
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thank you sir.. she left me to.
Thank you for this video.. this helped me alot.. do you know the song to this video?
The Anonymous thank you for this video I really need this...
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Why this video doesn't have +10M views ? Its worth it
Sitting here drunk.......heartbroken........with regret she moved on I couldn't, now she's telling another guy "I love you" already.....you know what it's time for a change......thank you my friend
Josh Nadeau same bro..
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Josh Nadeau going through that now
Same bro has a new guy two days later
I understand how it feels like. I have the same story she moved on in just a month but I couldn't until I watched this. Im glad that I'm me I don't love you ebe**
Thank you. My wife cheated on me on deployment. And this video helped me more than you’ll ever know.
Chris Scipio I know exactly how you feel brother. My fiancé left me 2 days before I left.
Same. My fiance left me yesterday, even though I was coming back to the states soon.
That bitch broke up with me cause I’m station in Germany
That dick cheated on me before his deployment . And thought I wasn’t going to find out .
Chris Scipio I live in a van down by the river...
I turn my broken feelings into agression in the gym.
Doing the same rn😅
Go on but do that only for yourself. Not for your ex
Amen!! Let’s go brother let’s go kings!!🙏🏼
thats my plan to do
Yeahhhhhhhhh man.
To all the guys on here, please don't do stuff to try make your ex feel bad for leaving you. Do not waste your time changing yourself to show her she was wrong because you are doing it all for her in the end and you won't be 100% free and focused on truly bettering yourself for YOUR own future. Stay strong and improve yourself for you not others.
Stan Barkworth
Excellent advice.
I‘d also like to mention that no man should *ever* rely on a woman for his own happiness. He should only rely on himself and nobody else.
Marcianus Valerius I've always had trouble since the end of highschool making friends because I fell out with a group of friends on the last year and met my ex gf. I literally had no friends the whole 1 1/2 year I spent with her and neither did she so we relied on eachother heavily to be happy which worked but it didn't mean it was healthy. I've actually managed to find some decent friends now and so has she since we broke up. No one should rely on eachother to feel happy and only happy when you are with them.
Stan Barkworth
So many people make this mistake and they end up setting themselves up for big disappointment. A gf/bf should complement his/her partner and not become the main purpose. I‘m glad you comprehend this stuff and hope some people realize this too before it‘s too late.
Stan Barkworth and also don’t head Butt her new “friend” and get arrested
ZtmolickA Tyler lol yes, that would.be a good idea but that made me laugh, so thank you for that.
My ex broke up with me a week ago, 8 years of a relationship, well solid 6 years, I begged for her back for a week straight, cried to her while she was not wanting anything to do with me. This video has changed my whole life, you will never know how much I appreciate it, I've played this on repeat for a whole day straight, stay strong. Achieve your goals and be successful one day, it hurts but do not contact them, it will reopen the scab and you will never move on. Today I feel 100% for confident because I haven't contacted her, revenge isn't what you need, being yourself and being happy is what matters. God bless you.
cole hanna I'm sorry to hear that I'm going through the same, 7 years and a daughter together, and it's over just like that, that's years we'll never see again, only in memories.
Man I'm going through the exact same. Stay strong brother we will make it through this - you have to fight and stay strong and look for the reason why God put you into this! You deserve better man stay strong.
Back to the grind...all that matters now is money and weight keep lifting...keep grinding brother...the grass is greener with out the weeds in your life
good one brother 👏
keep moving forward brother 🔥
My wife of 22 years was cheating on me and then finally left me for him. Its the absolute worst feeling in the world. Even worse than losing someone to death
I have just been through this . Wife 25 yrs.
She is never coming anywhere near me ever again.
I have never been throught this but dude I hope you ok because rn I’m hurting of a 2 year relationship I can’t imagine 22
Same here i hope everything is Okey now you have a better thing on your live
That sucks tbh it scares me to get married as well.
Right
Just broke with my 2 years girlfriend. She said that she wants to enjoy her single life at she doesn't love me anymore ... You know what, ibelieve it's gonna be her loss ,not mine.. Improve your self and prove that bitch wrong. One day she will regreat for breaking with you and you'll enjoy your success .. We all going to make it bros.. Use the pain to gain success. We will make it through
OH YEAH!!!!! 🙀
Thx man, im in the same situation and this comment helped
How are you now?
Cheers bro the same things just happened to me
You won bro
Heartbreak teaches us to forgive, not only the person that hurt us but our selves. Heartbreak is the new beginning of life you only decide what is going to be.
johnmark maynes
Very true, man. I’ve learned forgiveness of self is what makes you truly gives you freedom.
Helped me out a lot. The amount of love and compassion I put into the relationship, is now going to be fueled back into myself, to make me stronger than ever before.
To all my brothers out there who have been through a heartbreak or are going through one...fight. Fight along my side to become better. You got this. Spiral out, keep going.
I'm here with you! Toughest thing i've ever had to endure, but i will build self love and a new body from the pain
Excellent work my man. I'm destroyed. The first words made me cry a lot.
But I gotta surge again.
Me too man :( How are you doing?
6AM Training fucking hard with full of anger. I'm gonna prove that bitch wrong.
Don't give up. Give it your all!
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It´s not even holding on to any anger at all. It´s moving on with ur life. Let go, move foward and never look back... stay strong Bro!
The first words got to me as well. fuck fuck.
Shits been rough for me. My girl left me. I have been down. Then I found this video, and I have improved myself so much. I’ve been in the gym 6 days a week. I turned the gym into a sanctuary, to clear my head. Thank you for this video
Well writing this it’s been a whole year and I met a new girl. I fell in love again, and then snap it was gone. This one was shorter than before but I still did love her extremely and now it’s gone. I’m glad I have this in my liked videos because I know it can get me through the rough times
@@yankees11205 how are you now? Still going strong i hope?
This is my gospel! I live by these words now. She led me on and broke my heart. I am now determined to show myself, her and everyone how wrong they are about me. I will be a better version of myself and make everyone and her regret ever giving up on me! Boys it’s time to make a change and give life everything I got!!!!
Heard this 3 years ago after a bad break up, here I am now. Reliving it from my old likes videos so much happier , so much better.
I was really about to kill my self before I watched this... and I didn’t think I had a choice ( I’m crying while I’m typing this) I still want to end it even now... but now I can’t, because I would be going against myself, I would be going against everything I lived for, I would be going against what I want to become, my dreams... but just knowing that I won’t be around any more, that none of my friends and family would never see me again, that I would put them in a state of mind like I am right now, and all because I decided to roll in my sadness, my depression, my anger, and take my own life. It makes my stomach churn just thinking about how me killing my self, would affect the ones I love in a negative way. So please think twice and remember you always have a choice and don’t stay in a depressing state.... just live.
youll always have someone to support you. suicide is not an option right now... we all are here for you
Lovable Potato thanks man
me too bro :( this sadness is overwhelming and nothing can stop these tears from rolling down my face... its just so hard to move on, especially when you have other burden to carry with you.
BlackSora we’re here for you because mostly everyone here watching this is hurting too buddy
BlackSora stay strong shit gotta get easier eventually
This has helped me through my darkest heartbreak days. Realizing he didn’t love me the way I loved him was hard to accept. Can only give someone so many chances to make an effort.
So thankful for this.
Holy fuck. This just changed my life. For everyone that is going through something, you are not alone. There is strength in numbers. No joke, this just changed my life. i feel like ive been re programmed
I loved her man... 6 years of pure dedication and love to her and she up and left me. I've begged I've pleaded I've done everything i can but she's still not here.... You can't force someone to stay - I've done everything in my power and I hope god does the right thing. This video has made me feel strong and try push forward but I do still love her man.... wish things were easier...
Nav Bharj i feel you man hope you feel better it takes time. Been 2 months since I broke up with my girl 3 years together and i am starting to feel better..
Same boat as U man.
Donno what to say. 😔
All this time I thought I was alone in my mess.
I still love mine too.... how pathetic 😔
Much Love man
In a week, it will be one year since my ex ended our relationship, and I just wanted to leave this. I have listened to this video so many times in the past year. I have cried so many tears you could fill a lake. I remember thinking last August that I would be fine in just a couple of months. Or that the sadness would go away, surely, by the end of 2018. Well, I couldn't have been more wrong. Though I do not hurt like I used to, sad waves still hit every now and then. I still miss my ex, but I now realize why the relationship ended. I have really been working on myself and reflecting on everything that went wrong. I have decided to focus on what I did wrong. I am in much better physical and mental shape than I was a year ago. In just a little over a week, I will be traveling to Ireland by myself - I have always wanted to do something like this, and something inside of me told me I had to try it. After that, I will be attending grad school in a state over 20hrs away from my ex. None of this is to brag but to show that I worked my ass off to get to where I am now and all of you will do the same. Like the video says, don't just sit there in bed all day or on the floor. If you need to cry, then fucking cry but then get your ass up and go do something, even if its small, that will get you closer to your goals. Don't fool yourself into thinking the sadness will go away, because it will not - you will just get stronger. There were days that I would be on my lunch break at work, sitting in my car just crying. All I wanted to do was message my ex to see how she was doing or for another chance to with her. The first time I saw her new bf, it truly crushed me inside. I could go one minute without thinking about her and her new bf. Even when I was alone and feeling that overwhelming sadness, I got up and did something that would benefit me in some way. You don't want to look back in 10 years and simply wish you had done something - DO SOMETHING. Don't live with that regret.
I remember reading some of the comments under this video last year and finding some kind of motivation, even though I was tremendously sad and depressed, so I hope some of you can find the same in this.
"You're going to suffer no matter what, so instead of suffering while doing nothing, at least suffer while working towards your goals."
Thank you Omar.. you give me hope everything will be fine. 5 months ago i got dumped after 5 years. It still hurts but it gets easier
Wow thank you. I thought I was the only 1 feeling this way. This helps amd is inspiring. Thank you so much!
Suffer while working towards your goals 🔥
My Girlfriend just broke up with me last night, It sucks cus she told me she didn’t love me and that hurt. I gave her everything I had. But I’ll tell you what, this Is really motivating and i have to move on and prove her wrong. Show her what she missed
She doesn´t deserve you bro
Keep your head up. You stayed loyal to her. Just smile coz one day you’ll meet someone you’ll love who’ll reciprocate that love.
But you can’t let this ex-“girlfriend” of yours stop you from being a guy who loves his girl. Then she’s won. But this isn’t about her, it’s about you. So keep your head up, always
1:24 i needed that
Same that part really let's me get the extra reps in the gym bro
That shit gave me goosebumps ngl
Video helps a lot. I can’t believe so many other people go through this pain. Why do they all have to be so difficult. I hope and pray everything will turn out good at the end not just for me but for every other guy who has to go through this shit because girls don’t understand how much we sacrifice just for them. Hopefully one day they will and will regret.
Just went through a breakup with the love of my life and though she still cares and loves me she doesn't feel committed and this is what i needed to hear thank you
I remember a year ago , my ex broke up with me . I found this video and would listen to it everyday on my way to work. It helped me . Life is crazy
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi just came back to this video bro , thank you I’m doing way better , I still sometimes feel here and there but I’m great overall . Stick your chest out Kings !
I HATE this feeling. this isn't something I would even which upon my worst enemy heartbreak will have any man in tears feeling worthless , weak and pathetic I just wonder when this feeling will start to fade away
Rynhardt van der Poll how u doing now ?
Rynhardt van der Poll NEVER GIVE UP!!! HAppened to me yeasterday still feel bad but you gotta go forward
Took me 12 years to fade almost completely, you make take it to the grave.
After 2 years , I finally feel way better but also here and there it’ll hit me again but I’ll shake it off real quick , time will make you stronger
I needed this, I hope in 10 years I can look back at this comment and say wow I never wanna go back
when my ex broke up with me i really wanted her back
but now i dont want to even talk to her
its been 2 months since she broke up with me
i think i made alot of progress in these last two months
when i was with her i wasent able to do even one muscle up
but now i can do 3 in a row
3 dosent seem like alot but you try to even do 1
So iam actually some what greatful for the break up
even though it was really depressing for the first month
but it made me angry
i used that anger to get more strength
Kngcobra GAMEING
Before her, you were just a guy who couldn’t even do a muscle up, who thought having a gf is the best thing in the world.
Now, now you’re a heartbroken veteran, who can do at least 3 muscle ups, and who know understands how much work relationships are and how devastating it is to get into one with the wrong girl.
You learnt this life lesson now. You can only learn it through experience. Thousands or millions of other guys haven’t learnt it yet.
Be thankful brother. Every time you cry, or are at the gym about to die, or where ever you are seeking growth, but in pain.
She was a lesson, and her leaving you was a blessing.
You guys, stop letting women mess with your head and mess up your life
You are a Man, special, controller of your life, have integrity & self respect, conduct yourself like a good man and don’t let anybody bring you down, ghost their ass
You are Your Mother’s & Father’s pride & joy
Now do what’s best for you & your family
This is without a doubt, one of the hardest year of my life so far. This video helped me more than anything else. Thank you.
Yeah, 2020 has been a rough one. Hopefully good things are on the horizon for us.
I don't know who are you
I even don't know what made you to make this video
But I promise one day I will surely make you proud.
Today is 11th April 2018
Remember the date brother
God bless you
Thank you
JYOTIRMOYO PATNAIK How’re you holding up now bro?
@KenZo hahahahaha jesus
@@donmarco4502 I m doing good bro and trust me heartbreaks are good for our career.
@KenZo yeah dude killed my old self and I am a new person now, strong and kind.
JYOTIRMOYO PATNAIK aye real shit, i went through one this year and i feel better than i have before
Some kill, some steal, some break your heart...the greatest speech I ever heard..., thanks brother
Seriously needed this more than anything. Just got broken up with and its been so dam hard, and there are days when I feel like I'm going crazy. Stay strong, everyone!
Omar Ibarra how are you doing right now?
Damn, listened to this 2 years ago over and over when she left, she came back and now 2 years later here I am again. Right back at the start
I keep on hearing this over and over and over. It's really helping me. Thank you
Soooo Im a girl, but I listen to this every time I run into my Ex. I know a lot of people say “don’t do it to prove your ex wrong. Do it for you”
But sometimes we need a little fire lit under our ass.
Yes, self love is the key but not everyone can find it yet. You gotta take different paths but we can all get there soon enough.
Im making silent moves and trying to move on. But my heart cries so loud for him. So I silence it with the gym 💪🏼💖
Girl same here it was a roller coaster 🎢 but I prayed for him he needs to heal and me too found out my trust someone else broke I’m bleeding on to new relationships so staying single and healing myself ❤ typing this while I’m working out 🙏💪❤️🩹
I just signed up to the usmc. I’m not scared, it was my own decision. I feel that it will teach to be a better man. To help me get over this break up.thanks to this video, I would learn to be a better person.
epic gamer Pavon respect to you sir thank you for your service
I'm joining soon too
This video made me cry on how relatable it was thank you. Dealing with a breakup that just happened last week and this really opened my eyes. This really made me understand what I need to do. Thank u
Just came back to this vid and here to comment on this I said a while back. I’ve been great life’s been good and now I’m in college living my life and playing football. Everything happens for a purpose
I’m getting into the best shape of my life physically and mentally because of your powerful words thank you. And fellas if you need that extra motivation do it to prove her wrong and better yourself, that’s my main fuel and trust me brother that’s an everlasting fuel💯
Days after days, and year after year I still come back and listen to this. This video has changed my life. I was going through a heart break, and I have since then changed my life
6 months ago I was in the shower breaking down, crying, shouting, filled with anger. Seriously, make a change in your life, whether it’s the gym, a sport, hell if it’s knitting just do it. Everything gets easier once you accept things, and change yourself for the better.
This is as real as walking outside your house and closing the door right behind you. Not knowing what’s gonna happen but whatever can happen and you’re only mission is to make and conquer!!
watched this about 4 months ago , this speech woke something inside me , since then I lost 20 kg of fat and gained about 6 kgs of muscle , I feel like a total legend and I haven't even begun , thank you my man , I owe you
One of the best videos ever, I'm so sick of being heart broken and drinking myself to sleep every night it's time to get back into body building and quit feeling sorry for myslef
The best video on UA-cam.
i wrote down the exact words on my wall. this is some real shit bro. you changed my life...
Powerful shit bro, helps a lot. Stay strong boys, they don't know what they lost.
This is really amazing... Your lines give me reason to live again.. I was totally broken .. I was trying to end my self but now I have a reason thank you so much.
After my first wife left me I started lifting for the first time in my life. Best thing I ever did. Women were drawn to me and my new body. But that wasn't the best thing it did. It imbued me with power and a sense of worth. Keep going fellas
Needed to see this. Going through a tough time getting over a breakup after a few months. I know this woman wasn't the best for me, but still being lonely seems a lot tougher than being unhappy.
If it was not for this video I would not be here.It has taught me a lot on how to go through pain
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It has been 3 years ago since I had a heartbreak. I listened to this speech everyday. It helped me. Guys I know in what kind of place you are. It’ll get better, little by little. Time heals, it really does, even you don’t think so. I am worth happines, so are you. I am at a really good place right now, I am just a regular guy so you are going to be fine.
Im really thankful for this vedio.. because this showed me my true worth the girl i was with always took me for granted always cheated me n still i forgive her because i loved her that crazy. But im thankful to god that he opened my eyes and showed me the truth.
N keep postin such videos they acts as an counselling partner for the one who is suffering....
Ty once again...
All the brothers out there....
Focus on yur goals first...and love your mom dad they are the one who will hurt uh....
I’d like to say thank you for this. When I feel like quitting and when I feel like giving up my dream to play on the field in front of everyone who thought I wasn’t good enough, I watch this video and it reminds me why I keep grinding. To prove everyone wrong who said I couldn’t make it in football since I’m starting so late. To live 10 years from now where I don’t live with the regret of not doing the one thing I wanted to do but let everyone tell me I couldn’t do it. Thank you for this vidoe
This got me over this girl in 4 times of watching this and got me back in lifting now I’m doing better then ever and my gains are just out of this world rn
Thank you for this ..this is gonna be my fire this year..I will not quite I will not stop till I prove them all wrong I can relate to every one on here that got their heart broken..
thank you very much for this .... from last 4 months this video is my pre-workout before hitting the gym . 04:27
Depressed, heart broken, alone, in pain 😪screw love
This has helped me 2 years ago!
And it's helping me again tonight!!
I have played this video 5 times back to back. I’m going thru a really emotional divorce and I really love her. It will be 5 years on Valentine’s Day and she told me she never loved me that she rather die then stay with me and that she believes her ex is her soulmate.....I cry every morning and it’s hard for me to sleep cause she is in my dreams every night. My pain is overwhelming and I feel lost at times. Hopefully I make it thru. I thought of suicide but I know that’s not the answer I just want the pain to go away and I miss my wife
Who is the misc man
Dam bro that must of hurt :(
The best revenge is not getting revenge its just to get better
glenn grainger bro it sucks yes it dose after my ex gf broke up with me it was something different from other breakups what I went through, but never think of suicide listen the pain you are feeling right now fight through it cause on the other side of your pain will be happiness trust me it will you may think not but it will then you’ll find someone 1000 times more better then her I know it sucks cause you still love her trust me I still love my ex gf a lot but your life doesn’t revolve around one person just keep your head up and keep on moving
Life goes on, love yourself and trust God
Ive been listening to this video the whole three yrs its been out and whenever i feel down this is wat i listen to..
Bro this made me smile thank you for this ...she is nothing
I listen to this at 6am every morning. Shall I need to say more?
We’re not as replaceable as they make it seem. I know a lot of us out there are in similar predicaments. We loved someone and they stopped loving us and moved on to someone else. I spent a good month or 2 feeling sorry for myself. I still get sad but I’ll be damned if I let her control my life through my emotions. Not when she couldn’t give 2 fucks about me. So to anyone reading this, wipe your tears, pick your chin up, and use that anger and pain as your main fuel. Use it until it’s all gone and you’re out of it. Use it until the progress shows in your physique and until you feel no more anger. The day you realize how much anger and hurt you’ve let go of, is the day you’ll realize you’re finally getting over it. Stay strong everyone. We are not alone.
This is actually incredible, thank you my dude
Man thank you , I just broke up with my girl, i will prove her wrong
Girls can be so cruel i dont know why girls always say guys are jerks. I have had 2 girls i loved. The first one left me for another after 3 years of close friendship and 2 years of relation. The other i really loved but she never loved me back. Then she finally did and my 1st ex destroyed that relation. I hate myself. I only ever wanted my loved one to be happy. I am giving up on ever trustkng anyone else again. Even b4 this i had trust issues. I decided to trust my gf and she betrayed me. I feel like dying but i cant and i hate that i feel so powerless
DCsorcery
Take back your fucking power brother.
If you let yourself not trust anyone coz of those girls, then those girls have one.
Don’t do the unjust thing by treating someone according to the actions of someone else.
This helped me, I’ve come so far after my 3 year relationship. Only 20 it should be easy but holy shit I couldn’t be more wrong. But I got old friends back, they help me motivate myself everyday. I was the skinny quiet kid. Now I’m buff, I feel healthy, I feel happy and now I got a bunch a girls talking to me. It took a long ass time but I feel anybody can do it if you put your mind to it. I was alone for so long, I was isolated for awhile. But self love and focusing on yourself really makes a difference. I’m starting college this fall, getting my third apartment soon. To the person reading this: YOU GOT THIS!😏👉🏻
This video means a lot to me. Thank you for motivation to move on and live my life.
Thank you so much for this,
I really needed these words. I've been thinking about taking my own life...for so long. I'm so heartbroken, I can't even think straight on the daily. You are a true inspiration and motivation, I hope from now on I can live with myself. Much respect and heart from Belgium!
Man I'm listening to this video every single day, every single moment. Just thank you.
I was with a girl for a solid amount of time. Everything was perfect and then out of know where she ended it all. She was my life and meant everything to me. It’s been a month now and I still can’t get over her and I try so hard each day to forget it. This video is helping me so much to get over it all. Thank you :)
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This has helped me for a long time with different relationships and now is helping with the current situation... getting blocked off everything after 2 years isnt great! But this shit year is going to be my best year to date! We all feel the pain but let's pull through it iron brothers! If your reading this and stuck in a shit place drop a comment on here I will always reply and help anybody I can! 2021 here we come!!
she left after promising me the world...now shes hella happy and i jus dont get how...
@@hrhhci don't give up brother dig deep it can only get better
@@curt-123 in the iron safehaven we stay brother
@@hrhhci exactly that my brother. Always here if you need a chat... just pop up on here
How are you doing now? Are you still with the person you're comment is about? If so does it still feel painful or have you found someone else?
I always look at these comments without really looking at them at the time I saved this video I was really heartbroken and fat now 3 months later I’m slowly building my body, eating right sculpting my body I’m in greasy shape happy I got over her and proud of everyone who didn’t give up consistently go to the gym and if need be take one day off only.
Fell in love with a girl for so long,Today 3/8/20 I finally confessed,after months of having a huge crush on her and she hit me with “I see you as a friend” felt like shit.But that quote “maybe she thought she could do better,then make yourself better and prove that bitch wrong” spoke volume to me.Ngl I really need some motivation to pull through Rn,but I swear I won’t give up brothers!
This is so powerful. My partner for years and my daughters mother cheated with my brother. I walked away and left everything. Ofcourse I still have regular contact with my child and I’m glad I did as she is the only reason I’m still here. Although this video played a massive part in that. It’s the hardest thing in the world to move on. I havnt yet but that’s only because I need to find and fix myself first for me and my kids sake. It takes time. I still have massive feelings for this woman as she was a big part of me. There’s a fine line between love and hate isn’t there? Gotta keep fighting brothers. Gotta keep moving. Gotta keep stepping forward even if it’s baby steps as they all count. Peace out
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I have been listening to this for many years after my first break up,struggled alot but didnt stop,there were many times i failed and got knocked down but i didnt quit,i have a better body now,a gf who stayed with me for 2 years who supported me through my grind,got my ACE cert,finally got my first job as a fitness trainer and joining my first bodybuilding competition next march,to all my bros just trust me,life will slowly get better,trust the process
I’ve stepped in to the make myself better stage. I have a big plan. Thank God for that pain.
Never beg! Never beg to someone to come back. you are better than that. Never go so low man. Respect yourself.
"Don't be that guy that says he going to do something and never follows through" Powerful words.
I really needed this.
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Lift heavy, learn to love yourself and give a fuck you to all the women that cheated on you because they will come crawling back one day. Happens all the time and i tell them it’s too late. Lift yourself up and leave all the weakness behind. Do not listen to sad songs, do not drink because you feel it’s the way out. I let my anger fuel me in the gym.
Live life and everything will fall into place
Coming with mental health issues it’s tough, I lost my mom when I was younger & never wanted to get attached to anyone again.. then I found her my ex & I did everything for 2 1/2 years. She lied & did everything behind my back but I forgave her because I had hope. She would leave & come back & just repeat it. I’ve never been so hurt once again.. she did me dirty.. but great video, I’ll try my best to become better.. love ya bro’s
i watch this video every night and i use it as motivation for the next day
Thank you for this!! I needed this!!
This is really helping me after finding out my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me with 4 different dudes
Shes a dirty little scumbag, aint nobody wanna wifey a woman thats cheated. She aint going anywhere in life brother.
@FastFox Basel Qawasmi yes sir. Or, just become a redpill. I choose redpill.
The beginning is the best part 🙏🏼 great video 🤙🏻
I’ve been looking for the right motivation after I got cheated on. This was it. Thanks. I needed this
This is truly the best! Thank you for such super positive video
I appreciate this so much, its been a hard couple months for me, and honestly ive been listening to this almost daily..
Feel like you were talkin to me....Thanks bro
Her i go again.... heartbroken, not going to the gym, not working out and not being fucking happy. Someday this would all be a great memory where i learned from
Beau Krastel The gym will help you feel happier
How you getting on man, feel better now? Does it still hurt?
@@SALEH_4K_POV hey man found my way again….sort off, how about you?
Whoever said the truth is ugly is a lier.Its beautiful.
It's Beauiful indeed
Thanks. I was feeling sorry for myself and needed a boost to keep myself going.
Broke up with my ex after 8 years and I’m having such a hard time. I miss him so much and he’s moving on and seeing someone new only after a few months. I need the motivation to become better. 💔
he's just in a rebound relationship and those usually do not last..
“ well make yourself better and prove that bitch wrong “ hits me very time
Thank you for posting this video. A real eye opener
This is beautiful...thank you so much!
Bro,😢 I'm working out right now and your voice and your words is everything I need right now.
Use to listen to this one year ago every single morning. A year later i could care less if she dies im better now.
How are you feeling now, much better? I am curious because I want to know if it truly gets better.
wow man, you speak directly to the heart and soul!