My Son Went Missing...Emotional Day | Vlog 5
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- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- So today was a bit of an emotional rollercoaster. It all turned out ok in the end but the fear and utter dread I felt won't be forgotten in a hurry.
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Dont lose trust in him. He deserves a proper swimming survival training now that will bond you two together better. I grew up between two small rivers and a fishpond and never crossed my mind that something bad could happen.
perfectly normal to be emotional. Healing starts when you talk.
Thank you mate
Don't apologise mate, family always comes first. Hopefully be a good lesson for him today that Dad always knows best.
Above all, don't think of yourself as a bad father. From how emotional this video is, it is clear to me that you are sorry for what happened. But children do such things, they are children. By the way, I'm very glad I came across your youtube account. Your videos about my homeland are amazing, honest and accurate. Anyway, I'm glad everything went well because it was very hard for me to hear those words. I like you
Good that everything went well. It is hard for parents when kids lost. Nobody with brain and heart can not deny it.
It’s not your kids that will let you down it’s your own fear and doubt that why once you give them the foundation you have to trust them to let them fly and always want to tell you when they return i watch for the wellbeing of life in each community so they never grow up too fast be strong and focus on him as little man growing trust is sacred relation brother
Jan is always saying what lovely kids they both are. Garin is an explorer (like his Dad) and that urge to explore clouded his judgement. Seeing you upset will be punishment enough and he will remember it much longer than being grounded or having no pocket money.
Yeah I think now that my nerves are settled we have had a chat and he knows what he did was wrong. I think the fear got the better of me abit. Say hi to Jan, I hope you are both doing well.
It reminds me of when I dissapointed my mom when I was just about 6 or 7, I lied to her just to go to ski with our neighbours. I still feel sad when I recall seeing her so dissapointed and sad.
I think that your son wanted to explore. And I also want to say I have learned that children aways act as "triggers" to their parents. Whatever unresolved fears you have, they will trigger them. Some parents who have a lot of fear experience that very often, such as they catch their baby kids going to put their fingers into power plugs and things like that. You probably don´t have as much fear as you didn´t experience it before with your kids. Your son just triggered your hidden emotion. When you allow yourself to feel it, you will release it and your son will be less likely do such things anymore. Also, parents are just humans and can´t control everything. Sending hugs
To raise children is the most difficult thing in your life, to give them spiritual freedom is good, let them questions everything themselves and not to be influenced by this crazy society. Nature is the medicine for the soul. Shit happens, don’t take this too hard, it will be much more difficult when they will be teenagers, then you must breath in and breath out😊😊. When I was so young I was walking in the swamps, unfortunately I had not good parents and they did not care😒😒
you have nothing to apologise for to us, as long as your son is safe we understand completely. And if folk don't then they aren't a parent. Glad he is safe though.
Thank you Amanda.
Good you told him but living in Slovakia, kids do go walkabout. I grew up near a big river and we - especially biys - were on that river often. Now its empty and children don't play outside as we used to. It makes me feel sad, where they will learn to be responsible for their own lives? Boys always said they play football behind the block of flats but when my brother was adult admitted they often play on the (big, lowland) river. He still loves water. Its not necessarily the bad thing, although sure, the safety is an issue...
I love the fact that they are always out playing outdoors rather than in a vegetative state on PlayStation or pc, I think my fear got the best of me though. He did break the one main rule I have though and that's not to go to the water without me or another adult. All is forgiven now and we are best mates again.
Jono, they will broke the rules now or later anyway. Forbiden fruit tastes best you know yourself. Very little we as a parents can do unfortunately.
I know mate but Holy 💩 I was proper shaken up, when I saw his stuff there and couldn't see or hear him I thought the worst
@@JonoGraham i know..i would shit myself too tbh.
I guess children don't necessarily realise what risks may be involved in doing something reckless, and they may not be able to put themselves in their parents' shoes to know that they could be worried. Luckily, your son was alright and probably learned a lesson.
Oh Jono please forgive yourself. I'm so glad he's ok. Life sometimes reminds you how vulnerable we all are.
It's fine if you miss a day of a vlog. If something happened you can rest.
i am glad nothing happened, hope you will feel better
Well, you didnt missed the vlog, this video is it.
IT reminds me my childhood when i broke rules. Now he will remember that feeling and dissapointment from your side and it makes him stronger and wiser.
I hope so mate, it was a horrible feeling