How Dr. Richo used himself as an example with giving the lecture & others’ positive responses to him at the end, was a great way of showing what he was trying to teach. I especially liked what he said about positive shadowing.
Mr Richo, thanks for this very interesting lecture. It's been of much use to me, as a trainee in Gestalt therapy. I'd be pleased to add subtitles in Spanish and Catalan, to help spread message.
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Trust must be EARNED by all people,especially those who act as if they they do care. Must trust yourself,sit in Silence and go within. Anger is NEVER Healthy. That is why it's only safe to be Alone in the Silence
totally agree with sradims, it's almost pointless to hear a reply to a question that is not expressed, audible. Such a pity and waste of an opportunity.
If we are still working on getting what we were denied, isnt the ability to get that from another adult lost in adult peer relationships since adult relationships cannot be parental in nature…. The most an adult can provide to another is the reality of partner constancy- ie not ending a connection due to the authenticity the needs the imperfections of the other….if sufficient safety exists…. BUT they /we cannot *guarantee* a connection due to the potential for abuse and neglect . Adult relationships are conditional. I therefore wonder if transference is safe and healing in therapy but not healthy in partnership if either partner is trying to receive Unconditional acceptance and caretaking - or inversely being unconditionally loving or caretakey - as a child should get from a parent- and a parent give to a child. But not a life partner who must mutually caretake mutually be cared for mutually leave and return without incident and mutually remain bonded despite all emotions
Amazing instant follower. Does not pontificate and talk over your head. For this impossible profession, Doctor Richo is just what the doctor ordered.
All 3 brilliant lectures, learned a lot. Thanks Dave.
How Dr. Richo used himself as an example with giving the lecture & others’ positive responses to him at the end, was a great way of showing what he was trying to teach. I especially liked what he said about positive shadowing.
What a brilliant presentation, all three parts so clear. Thank you!!
Very informative , easy made especially with reference to practical examples...very beautiful
Thanks Dr.
Mr Richo, thanks for this very interesting lecture. It's been of much use to me, as a trainee in Gestalt therapy. I'd be pleased to add subtitles in Spanish and Catalan, to help spread message.
Anger is abuse going to far. I will never tolerate it after what I have experienced with abandonment and this therapist.
3 excellent lectures. I learned so much. Thank you. Ines
Hi everyone, we recently interviewed Dr. Richo on our podcast, called Angel Empire. We interviewed him about his book How to Be an Adult in Relationships and finding love in a late-capitalist society. We cover the mindfulness trend, Eastern vs. Western approaches to finding happiness, phases of relationships, when to get married, our 'shadow side', ego, and more.
(Angel Empire is a comedic commentary on life under late-stage capitalism that examines culture, politics, tech, work, and leisure. Listen anywhere you get your podcasts. Warning: explicit content.)
Outstanding …….excellent info.
Trust must be EARNED by all people,especially those who act as if they they do care. Must trust yourself,sit in Silence and go within. Anger is NEVER Healthy. That is why it's only safe to be Alone in the Silence
This is all good, but if I were a Therapist, I would be listening to his wise insights on self reflection.
Thank you for this lecture
Thank you so much, Sir
Thank you
For me,as a client, the reliance ENDS when you are abandoned by your therapist
Great lecture, thanks! 😊
The questions need to be repeated, transcribed, or subtitled in all three parts because they are not audible. Thanks.
totally agree with sradims, it's almost pointless to hear a reply to a question that is not expressed, audible. Such a pity and waste of an opportunity.
If we are still working on getting what we were denied, isnt the ability to get that from another adult lost in adult peer relationships since adult relationships cannot be parental in nature…. The most an adult can provide to another is the reality of partner constancy- ie not ending a connection due to the authenticity the needs the imperfections of the other….if sufficient safety exists…. BUT they /we cannot *guarantee* a connection due to the potential for abuse and neglect . Adult relationships are conditional. I therefore wonder if transference is safe and healing in therapy but not healthy in partnership if either partner is trying to receive Unconditional acceptance and caretaking - or inversely being unconditionally loving or caretakey - as a child should get from a parent- and a parent give to a child. But not a life partner who must mutually caretake mutually be cared for mutually leave and return without incident and mutually remain bonded despite all emotions
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I totally disagree. You as a therapist shouldn't be afraid to tell the client the truth especially when they are directly asking for it