I went to go home from Target and i put this on. When I heard Reddit on Wiki I screeched inside my car and I hope no one else in parking lot thinks I'm nuts 😭
Edit: 12/20 update. OP said his wife texted saying she will be in town for Christmas. He's got everything ready to serve her when she shows up. Small update from OP: "12/4 - nothing much has changed. Went to the in-laws with my daughter for Thanksgiving. It went well, everyone was nice and tried to apologize for their daughter/sister/cousin/niece. I told them it’s not their responsibility, I just appreciated them taking us in, it meant a lot to my daughter to be there." The wife is so short sighted. She convinced she will get dementia so she abandoned her husband and started spending all their money, fully expecting to come back with no consequences. How would OP take care of her without the money? Now after its all done, her memories will be lost if she gets dementia, everyone will hate her, no home, no money and no husband to take care of her. She's so dillusional that I expect her to be genuinely shocked when she's locked out of the house and served papers when she gets back...even though OP and his family have been telling her what would happen. Can't wait for the update.
I agree 100 with everything you typed and I want to add that she’s also selfish af. Like who just goes on a trip that was planned with a significant other alone and just assume that everything will be kosher.
If I were him, I would make an instagram account posting everyday, documenting her absence… and add every mutual friend and family member we have. Day 1: Wife left note and stole all of our money to travel the world without me. Day 20: Here you see me crying as I am drowning financially while she continues gallivanting all over the world. Day 35: Here is a picture of me with the children she left. #firstthankgivingalone Every single day. Document the struggle . Also to not let her play the victim.
This was my idea, but not just mutuals I would tag her. Depending on how big she's gotten then it could spread to her followers from there and then how well will her charade work?
As someone who considers herself a grandma of Reddit on Wiki, I’m so excited to have two new boys to listen to and bring me joy! You make me believe there is a chance for humankind….❤
Story 1: It’s highly likely that OP’s wife is fully aware she’s blown up her life but just wants to enjoy herself while she can and is simply refusing to think about the consequences. It’s still early days in her new travel adventures, so it’s probably a case of, “I’ll think about the repercussions later”. Although, I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s setting a Plan B in place by looking for a new man who can eventually take care of her in the event that OP divorces her. Her abandonment and subsequent behavior is so out of left field that she may have been having an affair, so isn’t alone and has actually been traveling with her affair partner. I wouldn’t put anything past her at this stage since her actions prove she has no moral compass in regards to her marriage.
OMG I SCREAMED!!! FINALLY!!! I started both of you around the same time and watch each Chanel every day and all the backlogs and thought THIS WOULD BE SO COOL BUT THEYD NEVER DO IT AND HERE IT IS OMG❤❤❤❤❤
This story felt insane and disgusting. Honestly I can't say I feel a shred of sympathy for the wife here. I don't doubt for a second that this is her weaponizing her mental health and possible future issues. Especially with all the planning and preplanning going into this. I really hope OP is able and successful in going 100% scorched earth. And I hope the kids can recognize just how much of a monster she is. Also, no chance in hell she isn't sleeping around.
Agreed. My family has a strong presence of dementia and it’s something I fear as I grow older, but I can’t imagine completely screwing over my partner because of it. I’d want them to take the trip with me, it would be pointless by myself. I’m not sure what she deserves more: to be alone with her dementia or to never develop dementia at all and realize her selfishness was for nothing.
So dementia and Alzheimer’s runs in both sides of my family. I wouldn’t run off and leave my family. My family is the most important thing to me and I want to be with them even if I do end up forgetting who they are. I wouldn’t want to do all that traveling alone. I would want my husband with me. Using something that she isn’t experiencing yet is BS! Maybe it’s still some sort of mental thing but I really struggle with that. Mid life crisis maybe to the extreme. Edit to add I’ve also been married for 24 years. I could never do that. Unless it happens when I actually have dementia lol
You guys are awesome! The wife who left with all the savings is insane. Lmao I totally threaten something similar when I’m over whelmed with kids, work, stress, home, school and feel like I’m drowning but to actually go through with it!? The Ballz on that woman must make it hard for her to walk or sit down! I hope she never gets dementia and has to live an incredibly long life as her body slowly traps her with no escape from her memories or mind.
A few days ago I heard that people that gaslight themselves (like what she's doing when she ignores anything about the divorce) are more likely to get dementia.
There are loads of us out here with a bunch of dementia in the family. I took care of my grandma, she took care of her mother, and her mother took care of her mother, and so on and so on. It is horrible. I feel for her. But that’s no excuse to do what this woman did. I mean, maaaayyybe you have a break down, and leave the note before you bounce… but, after a day or two, you come to your senses, return home, or submit to a divorce. Edit: oh, heck no… this woman isn’t in the midst of a manic episode. She’s planning. Posting pics only after she leaves a place? That’s premeditated. She knows what she is doing.
How can that wife honestly think everything will be ok. There is a chance she won’t have dementia. If she does get it now her kids will be responsible for her and not a caring husband.
YES THE DOUBLE VIDEO ON BOTH CHANNELS YIPPEE I was waiting to listen to this last night like PLS I WANT THE VIDEO NOWWW and ITS HERE ABD BETTER THAN EVER !! also fr if I wasn't broke I absolutely would get the Hoodie but hopefully the next merch ! 👀🎉
I’m a special-needs parent with multiple Special Needs children so I know what it’s like my oldest son is severe and I work with dementia patients as well and I can tell you this my son is more severe than the worst dementia patient I work yet I would never do something like that to my spouse. Because I know he was in it with me how unfair that truly is for her to ask so selfish.
Spicy John and too white to be Josh. 😂 Absolutely love it! Dementia sucks so very hard. (R.I.P Mama. Miss you.) I have been in exactly that situation. Didn't bail on life though. Quadruple F'her.
How she abandon him and not even having a open line communication, him talking to his kids that way might be his way to see if they where in contact with her or save them from her draining their accounts.
2nd story (at least beginning, haven’t finished yet) makes me think the husband knows his wife well enough to go “hey honey, look what this woman did, please have your way with her and after you’ve had your fun we can block her”.
The first story, I would be wondering if the wife was planning on committing suicide before the dementia kicks in. Maybe it's a bit dramatic, but it would make kinda sense if she just goes scorched earth on everything and not worrying about the future.
This really seems like she went into mania… like when you have bipolar disorder… maybe before she experienced depression and now she cycled into the manic phase… it can all be triggered by a great distress she experienced such as her mum being put into the facility… just thinking here…
True. That's possible. Honestly, I think the OP is just tired and can't help his wife with her mental illness any longer. Plus, she left him with a home to maintain assuming he would go back into caregiver mode and just shoulder all that responsibility. That probably messed with him mentally as well.
I would love to get a hoodie! I made some shirts about anxiety and it always starts a conversation. It would be cool to have more clothin that starts convos! Also I've been eyeing Dem orange overalls, Sam. Where do I get those?
Update from OP 12/20 Got a text from my wife that she will be in town for Christmas. Lawyer said the papers are ready so she can be served. It's like an early Christmas gift.
I dont understand why he didn't just tell her their kid was in the hospital so she runs back home. Drastic yea but um so what?! She probably wants to do this trip and instantly get dementia or get symptoms while on it. Also hello call a PI?
Exit out of the video and reopen it if there's no sound. It's UA-cams fault not there's. Just fyi. It happens alot with videos. Not just there's others also and it's a loading issue on UA-cams end. But yeah just exit out and reopen it it will play just fine.
I really wish OP's wife do not develops dementia. I hope that when she is old, alone and broken; she has the memories of how she ruined her own family. And she is sleeping around 100%
The ulimate crossover 👀
I love this so much!!!!!!!!
Muy caliente
It’s so cool to see 2 of my favorite Reddit podcasts collaborating💗
I went to go home from Target and i put this on. When I heard Reddit on Wiki I screeched inside my car and I hope no one else in parking lot thinks I'm nuts 😭
Hell yeah! I was waiting for that collab
Edit: 12/20 update. OP said his wife texted saying she will be in town for Christmas. He's got everything ready to serve her when she shows up.
Small update from OP:
"12/4 - nothing much has changed. Went to the in-laws with my daughter for Thanksgiving.
It went well, everyone was nice and tried to apologize for their daughter/sister/cousin/niece. I told them it’s not their responsibility, I just appreciated them taking us in, it meant a lot to my daughter to be there."
The wife is so short sighted. She convinced she will get dementia so she abandoned her husband and started spending all their money, fully expecting to come back with no consequences. How would OP take care of her without the money? Now after its all done, her memories will be lost if she gets dementia, everyone will hate her, no home, no money and no husband to take care of her. She's so dillusional that I expect her to be genuinely shocked when she's locked out of the house and served papers when she gets back...even though OP and his family have been telling her what would happen. Can't wait for the update.
She might actually be in the early stages of dementia. First sign is erratic behaviour
I agree 100 with everything you typed and I want to add that she’s also selfish af. Like who just goes on a trip that was planned with a significant other alone and just assume that everything will be kosher.
Let us know if you see any updates!!!!
I hope she doesn’t get dementia so she’ll have to live with knowledge she nuked her marriage for nothing.
But I’m also incredibly petty.
@@CircusoftheMoon Same, I'm a Petty Potato like that!
If I were him, I would make an instagram account posting everyday, documenting her absence… and add every mutual friend and family member we have.
Day 1: Wife left note and stole all of our money to travel the world without me.
Day 20: Here you see me crying as I am drowning financially while she continues gallivanting all over the world.
Day 35: Here is a picture of me with the children she left. #firstthankgivingalone
Every single day. Document the struggle . Also to not let her play the victim.
This was my idea, but not just mutuals I would tag her. Depending on how big she's gotten then it could spread to her followers from there and then how well will her charade work?
As someone who considers herself a grandma of Reddit on Wiki, I’m so excited to have two new boys to listen to and bring me joy! You make me believe there is a chance for humankind….❤
There's need to be an update special for stories like the first one when the real drama/confrontation goes down.
My two favorite reddit reader podcasts together no way. I love it
Story 1: It’s highly likely that OP’s wife is fully aware she’s blown up her life but just wants to enjoy herself while she can and is simply refusing to think about the consequences. It’s still early days in her new travel adventures, so it’s probably a case of, “I’ll think about the repercussions later”. Although, I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s setting a Plan B in place by looking for a new man who can eventually take care of her in the event that OP divorces her. Her abandonment and subsequent behavior is so out of left field that she may have been having an affair, so isn’t alone and has actually been traveling with her affair partner. I wouldn’t put anything past her at this stage since her actions prove she has no moral compass in regards to her marriage.
OMG I SCREAMED!!! FINALLY!!! I started both of you around the same time and watch each Chanel every day and all the backlogs and thought THIS WOULD BE SO COOL BUT THEYD NEVER DO IT AND HERE IT IS OMG❤❤❤❤❤
This was so fun! I loved all the chanting 😂
This ep is so chaotic 😂😂😂😂 it’s hilarious
This story felt insane and disgusting. Honestly I can't say I feel a shred of sympathy for the wife here. I don't doubt for a second that this is her weaponizing her mental health and possible future issues. Especially with all the planning and preplanning going into this. I really hope OP is able and successful in going 100% scorched earth. And I hope the kids can recognize just how much of a monster she is.
Also, no chance in hell she isn't sleeping around.
Agreed. My family has a strong presence of dementia and it’s something I fear as I grow older, but I can’t imagine completely screwing over my partner because of it. I’d want them to take the trip with me, it would be pointless by myself.
I’m not sure what she deserves more: to be alone with her dementia or to never develop dementia at all and realize her selfishness was for nothing.
Two of my absolute fave reddit pods finally did a collab hell yeah 😄
I need another collab video with these two asap. The chemistry that you guys have is contagious and I love it
So dementia and Alzheimer’s runs in both sides of my family. I wouldn’t run off and leave my family. My family is the most important thing to me and I want to be with them even if I do end up forgetting who they are. I wouldn’t want to do all that traveling alone. I would want my husband with me. Using something that she isn’t experiencing yet is BS! Maybe it’s still some sort of mental thing but I really struggle with that. Mid life crisis maybe to the extreme. Edit to add I’ve also been married for 24 years. I could never do that. Unless it happens when I actually have dementia lol
You guys are awesome!
The wife who left with all the savings is insane. Lmao I totally threaten something similar when I’m over whelmed with kids, work, stress, home, school and feel like I’m drowning but to actually go through with it!? The Ballz on that woman must make it hard for her to walk or sit down! I hope she never gets dementia and has to live an incredibly long life as her body slowly traps her with no escape from her memories or mind.
This was the best episode you've done. The 4 of you are just gold together, please find a way to continue this
I've been binging Reddit on Wiki for about a month and been binging okop for about 4-6 months. So this collab made my day ❤
Yay, all the best reddit guys! Shaun is missed but definitely included on "the best" list ❤
So happy to see this mashup! Big fan of both shows, so...thoroughly enjoyed this episode!!!
Sam is so pure. I just wanna knit him a sweater
Hahaha I like sweaters!
@@OKOPShow unfortunately I don't actually know how to knit 😂 I just have the urge
@@letsgetsomecake do it😢 you'll break his heart otherwise
this has the same feeling when your fav cartoons would cross over ♥️♥️♥️
A few days ago I heard that people that gaslight themselves (like what she's doing when she ignores anything about the divorce) are more likely to get dementia.
21:51 what’s the point of her going on the trip if she ain’t gonna remember anything?
So this collab made my day ❤
Just got home and saw the ping. Love OKOP
Came over after seeing you guys on RedditOnWiki!
Me too
There are loads of us out here with a bunch of dementia in the family. I took care of my grandma, she took care of her mother, and her mother took care of her mother, and so on and so on. It is horrible. I feel for her. But that’s no excuse to do what this woman did. I mean, maaaayyybe you have a break down, and leave the note before you bounce… but, after a day or two, you come to your senses, return home, or submit to a divorce.
Edit: oh, heck no… this woman isn’t in the midst of a manic episode. She’s planning. Posting pics only after she leaves a place? That’s premeditated. She knows what she is doing.
Hell yeah, she is doing this probably so nothing happens to her, what a selfish person who is also delusional why tf would op come back
The crossover we all needed!!
Don't ask me why I almost cried over this crossover
I love that the people that you guys bring on the show are down for Divorce chant xD
2 of my fave podcasts. Living for this crossover ❤
You all make me laugh so much ❤❤
That first story!! The wife is the most selfish inconsiderate person! I really hope there will be an update on this story!
I like these guys more than the ones previous:)
How can that wife honestly think everything will be ok. There is a chance she won’t have dementia. If she does get it now her kids will be responsible for her and not a caring husband.
YES THE DOUBLE VIDEO ON BOTH CHANNELS YIPPEE I was waiting to listen to this last night like PLS I WANT THE VIDEO NOWWW and ITS HERE ABD BETTER THAN EVER !! also fr if I wasn't broke I absolutely would get the Hoodie but hopefully the next merch ! 👀🎉
Hey! The merch store went live for the Red Flag vs. Green Flag drop! 😊 okop.show/shop
Okop you guys should try animated one of these stories with your voice overs 😂 that would be one awesome epic 🎉
Yassss my fav crossover!!!
😂😂 I love your humour guys 😂😂 and Sam love your hoodie looks amazing on you
9:53 I'm geeking the f out rn bc my comment's featured!! I'm a huge fan of the show!
Let’s gooo you rock
Omg, this is such a treat to see my fav reddit podcasters together. I needed this so bad after putting my baby to bed ❤
Thank you so much for doing the hoodies!!! I just ordered mine! Thank you, I was hoping you guys would sell them. ❤
I loved this one! Thank god I work from home cuz it had me snort laughing.
I’m a special-needs parent with multiple Special Needs children so I know what it’s like my oldest son is severe and I work with dementia patients as well and I can tell you this my son is more severe than the worst dementia patient I work yet I would never do something like that to my spouse. Because I know he was in it with me how unfair that truly is for her to ask so selfish.
No I need to know the ending of the first story!!!
Spicy John and too white to be Josh. 😂 Absolutely love it!
Dementia sucks so very hard. (R.I.P Mama. Miss you.) I have been in exactly that situation. Didn't bail on life though. Quadruple F'her.
Dang no shipping to Canada for the sweater 💔 the Northern love stories shall be waiting patiently until that opens up!
Heyoo! Canada is open! We just updated it :)
Yaaas OKOP, you are absolute kings of people
I would immediately close everything and file for divorce in story 1. Idc what your future may hold, we’re done if you do this crap to me.
I so want to hear an update on the wife leaving on vacation
Great story’s guys as always!!
Perfect timing was just looking for something to listen to while I clean 😅
This one was so funny 😂 I love RedditonWiki!
I love that hoodie yall 🥹 so cute
YESS thank you
This video is hilarious. Loved seeing this collab ❤❤
We get an episode from BOTH channels?!😭💗
How she abandon him and not even having a open line communication, him talking to his kids that way might be his way to see if they where in contact with her or save them from her draining their accounts.
I, the court reporter ; you rang? 😂
Do you guys go back to stories that have updates? Would love to see that kind of content :)
2nd story (at least beginning, haven’t finished yet) makes me think the husband knows his wife well enough to go “hey honey, look what this woman did, please have your way with her and after you’ve had your fun we can block her”.
Please keep up with the first story for an update because I knooooow it will be so good
Wow he is a trooper but she's definitely selfish!
The first story, I would be wondering if the wife was planning on committing suicide before the dementia kicks in. Maybe it's a bit dramatic, but it would make kinda sense if she just goes scorched earth on everything and not worrying about the future.
If she's capable of leaving her husband and kids in financial difficulties for a year to have fun alone, she's capable of doing anything...
This really seems like she went into mania… like when you have bipolar disorder… maybe before she experienced depression and now she cycled into the manic phase… it can all be triggered by a great distress she experienced such as her mum being put into the facility… just thinking here…
True. That's possible. Honestly, I think the OP is just tired and can't help his wife with her mental illness any longer. Plus, she left him with a home to maintain assuming he would go back into caregiver mode and just shoulder all that responsibility. That probably messed with him mentally as well.
What if she comes home and starts pretending to have dementia??
Ayo what happened to sean, jine's all alone in middle of the Caucocean 😮
3:43 yall got me rolling😂🖤
Is so funny how they are slowly devolving into monke mode and I love it 😂😂😂
JINE AND JAWSH!!!! ❤
I have to point out the typo on the website tho 😂😂 “Limited SUPPY” 💜 ordering now!
Thank you!
I wasn’t pointing it out to be an AH lol I just got a laugh out of it. 😂 Love love love you guys!
Haha I know! It was helpful and we def needed to fix it 🚀 Thanks for looking out for us ❤️
Who needs 300 when all u need Is 1 woman. Love being apart of ok op fam
Last story was satisfying
Y'all better follow this first story and give us an update🔫😤
I would love to get a hoodie! I made some shirts about anxiety and it always starts a conversation. It would be cool to have more clothin that starts convos! Also I've been eyeing Dem orange overalls, Sam. Where do I get those?
Orange overalls will be coming soon 👀
@@OKOPShow ☺️☺️☺️😁😁😁
Y’all share one braincell that came from the brain of a seagull from Finding Nemo
Ouch 🐠
Update from OP 12/20
Got a text from my wife that she will be in town for Christmas. Lawyer said the papers are ready so she can be served. It's like an early Christmas gift.
Came from tik tok cos I could not wait to hear the update on this story
Too bad the sizes are limited on the hoodies
We updated it with more sizes! So sorry about that!!!
I dont understand why he didn't just tell her their kid was in the hospital so she runs back home. Drastic yea but um so what?! She probably wants to do this trip and instantly get dementia or get symptoms while on it. Also hello call a PI?
Aye big ups to the husband in the second story because he upgraded from a cheating pos to a baddie
Hoping the author of the first story reads the comments.... What about a private investigator to help in serving papers?
My two worlds colliding!!!
Update! There is now sound!
Sound is working!
The wife is so egoistic, baffling. The delulu is too strong in this one 🤦🏻♀️
The way they say HELOC 😭
That moment you want a hoodie but you can't afford anything to eat after bills. 😅
Exit out of the video and reopen it if there's no sound. It's UA-cams fault not there's. Just fyi. It happens alot with videos. Not just there's others also and it's a loading issue on UA-cams end. But yeah just exit out and reopen it it will play just fine.
Well find you 😂
I really wish OP's wife do not develops dementia.
I hope that when she is old, alone and broken; she has the memories of how she ruined her own family.
And she is sleeping around 100%
Hey guys!!!
Whats up
SAM 👏🏽
Hope you check for updates after Christmas or New Years for the first story. 🙏🏼
I want 1!
Oh I watch some of your guests videos
listen, I know you guys don't typically go back to stories but can we come back to the first story when she comes back?
isnt running a creditcard debt. an insanely costly decision. i alway heard they have insane intrest rates.
Dont know if its true but i saw a video talking aboit a couple 50 First Dates based off of.
They come up with adorable merch and my card got hacked yesterday, so i cant buy it. Oo the humanity
Cut everything off
Hey guys! No sound on here!
Looks like it is thru the entire video too
weird, I do have sound but only lowest quality ( 360p).
I have sound
Ok sound should be fully there :)
Chrismath