IS HER MISTAKE FORGIVABLE? | The Steve Wilkos Show
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Jessica admits to cheating with 3 men during her 3-year relationship with Ryan and one of them was his family member! Can Steve help their relationship?
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"He makes me feel worthless" tuh! Imagine how he feels!!! This girl is a piece of work
Why on earth would she sleep with his dad of all people? That’s gross. And that is not something that will ever be forgotten.
He still slept with her after the fact so it can’t bother him too much 😂
@@teehee83 It bothered him enough to make her take a lie detector test. I couldn’t imagine how awkward holiday dinners will be.
I think they said brother, still nasty though lol
He said brother.
That’s the trash he chose 🤷🏽♀️
I love how this woman says she's being tormented and it feels worthless when she's out here cheating and making it seem like she's the victim LOL
She is the classic " I cheated plenty of times but it's your fault " mode
😅😅
Yea she's playing the victim, real tired of women doing that
It aggravates me so much when people blame their significant other when they cheat. If you're not happy in the relationship and want to see other people be honest and Go your separate ways. The truth though is some people just want their cake and to eat it too
@@anonymous-ix6scsame man
She comes out like she's the victim when she slept with his brother. This woman is disgusting.
Jessica is neither the hero nor victim.
My brother and I are both single, but I would never sleep with his future wife and partner, and my brother would never betray me too.
That’s women for ya. They do something wrong and play the victim later
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 Not all of us are like that. That's like me saying that all men are abusive, alcoholics, manipulative, narcissistic cheaters and all they want is a mommy they can have sex with and all men don't care about anyone but themselves. I know not all men are like my ex. Not all women are like the one in this video. I'm sure that you have had bad experiences with women but don't group every woman in one group.
And Steve plays right with her. If it was him doing the cheating, Steve would be telling her to pick a door.
@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287that’s THAT woman, not all of us.
She's not sorry for what she's done. Just trying to make it on him for her wrongs.
Jessica is a narcissist, selfish, and a hypocrite.
She's a narcissist that's why
Why didn’t they do a DNA test? I’m questioning whether that boy looks like either of them.
She left when she was pregnant, called him when the baby was 3 months old?
I'm still waiting for the beautiful, intelligent woman to come out on stage.
"She's beautiful inside and out."
No x 2.
Lol that was the best comment you’re still waiting 😂
@@McKenzie-j7r it's been a week. Still watching and waiting. I wish that a beautiful, intelligent woman would walk out so I can sleep or shower or eat. I've never waited this long for something in my life.
EXACTLY. If my teeth looked that bad I would not come out yelling at my partner. It just adds to the impression that she has no class.
A person who is beautiful "inside" doesn't sleep with other people while in a relationship
It gets to me when they say they love them, they're beautiful and want to be with them. NO YOU DONT and NO THEY ARENT BEAUTIFUL if they do shitty things like that to people. Cheating is a choice not a mistake and if she keeps doing it, its a habit. He needs to accept that thats who she is and walk away.
“Wouldn’t trade him for the world” no just for a man👁👄👁
🪦 👏🏻
Dude you need to either let go of the past or let her go for the sake of yours and her sanity.
Amen
I agree 100%.
Best comment/advice ever ❤
You wouldn’t say that if a man cheated
Sexiest
omg he’s the sweetest 😢 he deserves better smh
Did you miss the part where he called her fat while pregnant? Or the fact that he promised to forgive her and then tormented her for 2 years? Or when he was found texting her best friend? He definitely deserves better but he isn't no saint.
Would you date this emotional wreck excuse for a man?
He's so humble and loves her so much she don't deserve him!!!
Bro move on. If you take a cheater back (multiple times) you’re asking for a miserable life and trust issues. When you take them back you’re suppose to forgive the cheating. Constantly bringing it up isn’t forgiving and it’s wasting your time as well. Constantly throwing the bad choices someone makes in their face is not going to help the relationship you insist on having with them. All the cards are on the table. At that point it’s your own fault for what you’re feeling because you insist on staying with someone who constantly shows you big red flags. It’s almost like she’s trying to force him away in this case and he refuses to get the message so she goes back to him.
I completely agree but everyone in the comments is only pointing the finger at her. He only took her back to torment her about what she did. He'll never forgive her and tbh neither would I.
In my opinion once someone cheats it’s over.
Lol yeah, I have no compassion for cheaters ! Laughed at her beginning segment . Like , if you really love someone you wouldn’t cheat ♥️
Same here. Cheaters don’t care and have remorse for hurting their spouses or partners. Although, when they have the consequences, including being cheated on, they would care. They should rethink and reflect on what they have done even with a breakup or a divorce occurs.
Exactly right. There is no excuse, ever, for cheating.
Yup u love someone and u don't want nobody else. At least for me
Every relationship is different and most start messy. The reason is that people are young and dumb and often don't think it's serious at the start. She hasn't 'cheated' since she realised/grew up/got serious with him. No it's not right she did it with a family member, that's a kind of unforgivable breaking point, but there is cheating constantly during a long relationship without regard of the partner, and then there are young mistakes at the start, which shouldn't mess up a future of loyalty [which is entirely possible]. Big difference.
@@dingo1666 going by what you said, if most relationships start out messy, and most relationships end in divorce, then it's not a good thing they start out messy. That's a red flag. Her cheating in the beginning is a red flag, and it's an indicator that she is capable of doing it again. He can forgive her, but he probably shouldn't invest any more time in that relationship.
God I'm halfway through and this woman is already getting on my nerves, can't believe she's playing victim 🤦🏻♀️
I'm not even half way through and I'm so angry at her before I've even seen her face! This man is out here pouring his heart out and defending her saying she's a good woman inside and out!! Erm... Where? She's constantly cheated on you throughout the relationship with 11 different men including with your own BROTHER! She's walked out on her son and you've had to hunt her down to be a mother! And she walked out on you while she was pregnant came crawling back when it suited her! I'm really failing to see the good woman he's talking about! One word for her and that's WHORE! Tbh with all that cheating I'd get a DNA test! (Not sure if ones being done in this segment)
You love her but she doesn't love you to the same degree, cut your losses and move on, love isn't supposed to hurt like that! I feel sorry for the little boy 😞
facts!!!!!! 🎯
She has no respect for him because he is a SIMP who puts up with her bad attitude. Walking away is the best way to teach her ass a lesson....
It’s cause she wants a man not a little girl. I had a boyfriend once that wanted to do everything I said like he was a slave. I don’t want like a woman beater but I do want a man. Have a backbone and your own personality at least. I mean I was expecting a supermodel to walk out, not frumpy Ann.
@@nicolejohnson9244 being kind doesnt make them less of a man. If u dont want that 🌟dont go with someone like that🌟 and if u do...break up! dont cheat, that's a dick move🙄 he is just too kind to people like her who dont deserve it.
@@btsxskz7866 I absolutely don’t agree w/cheating under any circumstances. I don’t mean bring a “nice guy” I mean to the extreme where you no longer are a man. My husband is a very nice man, but he’s not my bitch cause no woman really wants that unless they’re just using a guy. We want strong men that stand up for us and themselves, not a man who will just bend over and do whatever they’re told by anyone. That’s a doormat. Cheating w/1 person, making 1 mistake, that could possibly be forgiven and gotten over…11 ppl, that’s a lifestyle. There’s no point in keeping that relationship going cause no matter what he can never trust her. I don’t know how ppl cheat like that. I would be so racked w/guilt, I think I’d implode. I just couldn’t live w/myself. Then again I took my vows seriously and many people don’t.
Sleeping with his dad is a deal breaker.😬
How do ppl live w/themselves knowing they’re cheating left and right? I think I would literally implode from the guilt. I took my vows seriously. When my husband and I have an issue, I tell him not some other man.
This woman shouldn’t be made his wife. He needs to let her go and move on. He can’t get over it.
Could YOU "get over it?"
@@yomama5304I don't think he should even try to forget what she did. He should forgive her for his sake n move on
@@yomama5304 nope, I’d leave her! Like he should.
Lets not spoiled the show. Grab some popcorn, and hold on to your seat 😁
Finally! The first comment I see doesn't spoil the video 😂 thanks!
Thank u, I appreciate it!!!
Relationships can be very complicated, not always gonna be sunshine & rainbows
You ain’t lying !
No argument there!
That’s y I m single
She's like a doorknob, everyone gets a turn. If you're that insecure you need to get custody and move on! How do you even know it's yours? You deserve it if you put up with it. No sympathy for anyone but the children. 11 different guys and family members? You're not a man, you're a simp. You can forgive but unfortunately you can't ever forget. I divorced my wife of 28 years because of her infidelity. Cheating isn't an accident or mistake. It's a choice.
every time steve asks someone "why do you stay with this person" i always expect a very very stupid and shallow answer that has no real thought behind it.
"Orgasms" is the correct answer 99% of the time
She sounds like a narcissist how she’s expecting him to just get over it even tho ppl need to grieve and that’s one of the common traits of a narcissist
I was thinking the same thing. He's an empath.
Family members should be off limits on cheating because when the man do it it's wrong it's wrong both ways
Wow thanks capt obvious
Cheating is off limits to any human with a shred of self respect lol
@@Bomberhi312 Hahahahahahaha
@@benwalters4808My thoughts exactly!
This is why sometimes it doesn't pay to forgive a cheater, because your mind will never let you forget which will force you to live a tortured future.
Run from that horrible woman
They're a little bit so adorable and I feel so bad for having a mother like that. But at least the boy has a good dad.
How in the hell is Miss Piggy talking about loyalty? The only loyalty she has is to buffets
Oh poor, poor girl 😂😂😂 she has some nerve making it out to be all his fault that she permanently keeps her legs open for anyone who wants some fun. She seems to forget the concept of free will. Obviously she has to blame anyone other than herself. Ridiculous! He needs to move on and get shared custody at the very least. Poor guy
When Jessica gets hurt, she is going to care and wishes that she never hurt Ryan to begin with. She is a true hypocrite.
Her baby should stay with the dad.
i REALLY dislike her.
There’s clearly trust issues and some insecurity between the two, and I worry that it may boil over into the relationship they have with their kids. Unless they can somehow miraculously rebuild the bridge that they burned on both ends, I don’t know if this relationship is going to work in the long run, and they would just have to coparent for the sake of their kids.
They should not b 2gether. Sometimes it's best 4 the kids if they separate & this is 1 of those cases. If they'll fight n front of cameras they'll do it n front of their kids. My parents fought thru my childhood it traumatized me I was relieved when they finally divorced
@@wendya.presley7316I don't want it Steve, but there are some stories need more than one part.
She's treating him like a doormat, hope he leaves her or he will be in for a life of pain and heartbreak
Some people get off on being treated like doormats. He seems to be the type.
This dude is the ultimate SIMP.... "As a man I have to be there for her".. Real men won't tolerate disrespectful women like this... Let her ass go and go fix yourself!!!!😒
I feel sorry for Ryan because Jessica cheated on him. And I do sense that she maybe a hypocrite.
whether it was 3 guys or 11 she really did him dirty also by cheating with ppl he's close to.. i can understand his insecurities for sure
He should have left her after she cheated on him. What they can do is co-parent.
@@sd_justice_duty9564 seriously! he deserves better & so does the kids
This girl got more gaps between her teeth than clothes hanging up at... The Gap!
yes i wondered if it was from doing drugs
She says she comes from broken family yet she chooses to leave her child and not see her child for a while great example of parenting what not to do a lot of people come from broken homes and they go to work and they come home and they don't leave their children and they love their children no matter what
Goodness, that is one precious baby boy!
Ppl who do wrong seem to always expect others to get over it. It takes work. Sometimes it an be years
Even if he had cheated nothing is worse than her sleeping with his family members, that is unforgivable.
“I believe in 2nd chances…” This is when I say: SUCK IT!
But clearly she did.
He's a catch, he's a good man
No, he’s not. He’s a sloppy, drunk hey, if you think he’s such a catch, why don’t you go find out where he lives and marry him and let’s see if your opinion changes then
Sometimes " the prize" isnt a prize at all, its a burden
If you can't stop thinking about the betrayal: move on. It will always be an issue and you will not be happy
Can't make a relationship work when there's no trust & that's not love.
Her t e e t h .....
I couldn’t help but keep looking at them😭
He needs to take the kid and move on. She is a piece of work.
Yes. Why have your baby around the way she is
Women really do love the justify why they cheat. And it's pathetic. But even though she told the truth, kind of, that relationship is still too toxic
Honestly I don’t think their relationship would continue after this segment aired . Sorry but I highly doubt they lasted after the fact .
Tbh, I feel kinda scared for the kids to deal with their parents' arguing like siblings.
@@jonathansmith8672 yeah , tell me about it .
I can't see them working whatever this is out, sorry not sorry, they both need to be single and work on successful co-parenting.
@@jonathansmith8672 It's so unfair to the children, choas makes them nervous, it makes their stomach hurt....No headphones in the world could drown out that fighting in the next room, smh.
@@ItsAllLove4Real either that or couples counseling . But I bet they just co-parented
He is lush inside and out. She doesn't deserve him.
catering to the feelings of men won't make them like you any more.
@@SloppyxJoeCatering to the feelings of women won’t make them like you anymore. She’s quite obviously in the wrong. Don’t be an idiot.
I think the family member is either his brother or his dad.
It looked like he said “15 year old brother” to me 😳
He isn't going to forget what she did. He needs to let her go.
I believe her about that smug bastard-
People tend to want revenge when you verbally abuse them. Not saying it’s right or wrong, just stating facts
He was also abusive towards her children one towards me for being gay for making fun of Jordy for being overweight or Jordan and then talks about my little sister, that is three years of age saying I don’t want her gaining weight?
@@Soculus_vrso you are you her child
I received a message stating that i don't know the truth and should'nt comment unless i know the truth. Well for that person i say this. She came on Steve Wilkos show WILLINGLY . She told what she had done. She cheated. If you don't like the comments that others put , don't go onto television
I agree. If they go on tv and tell their life on here then we have a right to say what we want
There's no way I would ever trust my partner of they cheated she sabotaged their relationship and I would not trust her either then she barks at him for feeling that way from what she created he's in his right not to trust her but wjen you stay with the cheater you cant keep bringing the past up or leave!!!
Husband: She's beautiful on the inside and outside.
Me: After 11 guys, her inside looks like a train station, and the outside looks like a roast beef sandwich.😂😂😂
If these thoughts tormented me I’d leave there is no way especially after only 4 years
this is a man god damn. absolute legend
Dude just leave her
And take his baby
The audacity to cheat on your husband and wear a cross necklace is insane
This man should cut off all the people in his life doing him so dirty. Family or not
I agree with you on this, also, they deserve to face disgrace.
I love when the word my best friend is censored, but we can clearly make out what she saying
If you got to go knock on doors to track this girl down to be with her kid why don't you take custody from her?
Why are these guys, accepting this kind of woman back in their life. No idea..
Seems like a decent partner but a wonderful parent , but his mental health is suffering from him not being able to trust her and to let go of the past. And the whole list thing was a super bad idea, by the way. They really need couples therapy if they want to move forward. Hopefully, if they put in the work, then it will all work out.
The ONLY solution is for him to get rid of her. Theres no fixing what she did
The trust is broken, time to move on. The only one that is going to be stuffing is the kids.
i love watching the steve wilkos show
Dude you've to get DNA test to be sure that you're the father because there's 11 more possibility including your dad, imagine the DNA prove that your dad is his father and you'll become his brother instead of his father!!!! you've to run away of this 💩 woman because once a cheater always a cheater, and she's not made it once she made it 11 times... move on with your life and get who you deserve to stay with as you in loyal and respect... she won't stop cheating at all (fact 💯)
If he lets her get away with that he deserves her
5:09-5:18
"I'm a simp, let me sing you the song of my people"
Seriously he deserves all this bad sh*t for not immediately ghosting her after the first time she cheated
Lol 😂 this still ain’t a healthy relationship they gonna keep fighting and keep kid out of the toxic relationship
It's always lopsided love when u see a good one with a good heart. We can all b so mean...
I wonder why it don't tell you which family member of his she slept with. Does anyone know what they said? They bleeped it out.
His brother
@@Joe-kc1eg That's messed up
It looked like he said his “fifteen year old brother” to me 😳
Ewe maybe that's why they bleeped it out because he is underage @@julesmay1615
He needs to just leave her he will never be happy
He cannot get past it he cannot and he doesn’t have to but he cannot expect her to just tolerate constant berating. Maybe counseling would help them 🙏
1:32 text book book billy🤣🤣love it
It's TRUE. Some things CAN'T be forgiven or forgotten. Especially sleeping with your man's brother. I push for most relationships to stay together but in THIS case I beg to differ. They didn't need to be together 💔 too much damage has already been done
This is not love. They don't respect each other. I'm not saying it's toxic, but they need to work together for their kids.
Too late hon relationship over take it for me her son
he has to run, and run far and fast
It's only OK for the WARDEN to bring up the past. The inmates must fall in line
He cheat. He will later on. She should divorce him.
If you have to chase her that hard, is it really worth it ?
No matter the woman, it's never worth it.
I've Dealt With Ryan's Non As Mature And Faithful As Him
Men really want a applause for being there for their own children. Come on man. Be it a normal thing.
I remember my demonic toxic narcissist. I fell deeply in love with her and all 7 of her kids. I put up with her mental physical financial and spiritual torture and cheating because I loved her and her kids so much. I remember telling her that I wanted to adopt the kids because I love them so. When she left me because I was disabled permanently the biggest hole in my heart was losing her kids forever. I had no rights to seeing them because they weren’t mine. Beware of narcissist with children. It’s not worth the drama and torture of not seeing the kids you adored at one time. Women have the power and they know it. 🤬🤬🤬
I hate people who "stay together for the children". I've seen one way that ends...with one behind bars and the other in a hospital bed.... My dad got a steak knife thru his throat kus she was HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGH on who the hell cares what. Don't try to "make it work" for the kids... If you're not happy, your kids ain't happy.
You should go, the sooner the better. He’ll recover. Too much baggage in this relationship. Young or not, you know right from wrong. He really deserves better. He’s pathetic and not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship.
His ssa so damn sensitive all that cryin shit would’ve ran me off too
He forgave you not he forgive me LOL and how could you expect your cheating to just be forgotten
He can do so much better! I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, buttttttt...
Why would any1 want 2 be in that kind of relationship. Torture omg I want 2 laugh and have a good life I wouldn't live like that
She's a player....let her go and you will meet later an amazing woman who deserves you. She doesn't even have shame behaving as if She's a victim.
Look I’m sorry but I think it’s for the best that they separate. I know she doesn’t want a broken home for her child but people can coparent beautifully. He’s never going to be able to let it go or stop reminding her of what she did and honestly she’s dead wrong for sleeping with his brother. It’s just time to end it. It’d be healthier to coparent and be friends than stay together and have your kids see such toxic interactions.
She’s not even really crying. I don’t know if anybody else noticed that, but no real fucking tears and then she immediately straightens up and she talks she’s full of shit I could see it in your goddamn face that guy is way too sweet and tender to be with someone like her😢
Im confused so she slept with his dad and his brother? I guess keep it in the family is her whole motto. In all honesty she has no remorse for what she has done. She is tacky and i hate her crying, like why is she crying? I would be accusing her too. She's trying to play the victim and its definitely not working.
It's possible that cheaters are hypocrites. They don't have remorse and care when they cheat on their spouses or partners, but they would care when they get cheated on. Cheating is unjustifiable. Although I never been in a relationship, I do not show sympathy towards cheaters.
of course hes going to feel that was you cheated smh
Regardless of what she did in the past, now he has to make the decision to let it go or leave her. To keep rehashing it over and over will never be healthy for their son. Child has to come first. This means staying together and agreeing on a fresh start or living separate lives while coparenting .