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  • @paulakingsley1694
    @paulakingsley1694 21 день тому

    So proud of you! I been through so much too just like you you are an inspiration . Sending hugs much Love ❤️

  • @haleytrantham7424
    @haleytrantham7424 Місяць тому +5

    Wendy i am SO SO SO proud of you!! You are destined for greatness and you are ABSOLUTELY worthy of ALL good things!! I am so incredibly sorry that you have been dealing with this and that you had to make this decision. Your family is missing out because you have such a genuine heart. You stayed 10 toes down for them during all of this and during a really time in your life. I normally dont comment but i just wanted to let you know how amazing you are and you look so healthy! Your glowing and you have the light back in your eyes again. I wish you nothing but the best. Im here if you ever need anything or need someone. I can totally relate to this. I died twice in february and this year has been very difficult. But we are still here and have a story to tell. Thank God! I will praying for you continuously and sending you so much love. Stay the amazing, genuine, kind person you are. You are so loved, my friend. 💜❤️💜❤️

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  29 днів тому

      Thank you so much for reaching out and being so understanding and supportive. It means a whole lot sending you lots of love hugs and prayers. ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sharonzetty7574
    @sharonzetty7574 28 днів тому +1

    Windy your awesome and I wish I could be your friend, your going to be happy now, God bless you honey

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  25 днів тому

      If you’re in the beehive, we are already friends. Hope to catch you on a live. God bless you too.

  • @MelissaT___77
    @MelissaT___77 Місяць тому +4

    Wendy, I too had a sister named Ashlee who died in a car accident Dec 20, 2001. MY Dad’s IMMEDIATE response was “Faith don’t you EVER think that or say that again.” (When I said I wish it had been me) I’m so so SO sorry your parents and that venom they spew at you. Yes I’ve gone through MDD (major depressive disorder) since even before she passed. And many other mental struggles. On another note YOU HAVE made the right decision. You’ve tried so hard on this UA-cam page to paint your family in a GOOD light, however they continue to treat you this way? Your sister is a whole different story (Rachel). Sounds like SHE needs a visit with a therapist who will be honest with her. I’m so sorry. Keep on trucking for RYAN. Love you Wendy. ❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  29 днів тому

      I’m so sorry for your loss. And I’m so sorry for your pain. Thank you for reaching out being vulnerable and sharing a bit of your story. It makes me feel not so alone. Love you so big.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @kimber2063
    @kimber2063 2 місяці тому +10

    Wendy, I have been a silent follower for quite a while. I am sorry that you are going through this, but i have found that sometimes it is best to remove the toxic people from your life. Focus on getting stronger and making a new chapter. It seems like you are on the right track! You are in my prayers.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much! You are definitely in my prayers as well and I’m so glad that you spoke out and shared your kind words ❤️

    • @paulaagee6158
      @paulaagee6158 Місяць тому

      Your sister is raising her kids in a very very unhealthy manner!!!!! It's abusive to NOT allow them the natural ability to serve our Lord or to fellowship with people that they feel are underneath them.

    • @paulaagee6158
      @paulaagee6158 Місяць тому

      Yes, your are no longer a victim! You survived Press forward. Shame shame shame on your sistet!

    • @paulaagee6158
      @paulaagee6158 Місяць тому +1

      Praying for you and wow SHAME ON YOUR SISTER! SHE IS AS MUCH THE PERPETRATOR AS THE MEN THAT DID THIS!

    • @paulaagee6158
      @paulaagee6158 Місяць тому +1

      Complete betrayal from your sister, mom and dad!

  • @tamiimbery5579
    @tamiimbery5579 2 місяці тому +9

    I'm so sorry all of that happened to you. I was feeling like something was very off with your family and that's why I stopped following you for a while. I'm happy that you are distancing yourself from all of that and I sincerely hope you find your happy again. You are doing great and look so much healthier.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much and I’m glad that you’re back. I hope you are now subscribed. Thank you for your sincere words. 🩷

  • @sharonzetty7574
    @sharonzetty7574 28 днів тому +1

    Look at you now, your going to make it girl, I love you

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  25 днів тому

      I’m gonna hold you to that Miss Sharon. I love you right back.

  • @melodykalivretenos8856
    @melodykalivretenos8856 10 днів тому

    I followed you for years but lost track of you for the last two years. Tonight something told me to check in on you. You look the healthiest I have ever seen you. You are gorgeous and so wise. I am so sorry about what’s happened.

  • @Hope8x28
    @Hope8x28 Місяць тому +3

    When people say they are going to speak their truth it makes me think it's not true. Truth is truth and doesn't need qualifiers.

    • @pamallbaugh5998
      @pamallbaugh5998 20 днів тому +1

      I agree… doesn’t need to be validated if you truly believe it’s the truth. Also, when you think everyone else is the problem….the problem just might be you.

  • @Michelle-qr4bu
    @Michelle-qr4bu 2 місяці тому +10

    I identify with your trauma. God bless you for finding the courage to give your testimony in hopes of healing and helping others to heal as well. I’m happy that you’re staying strong. Let go and let God. We can have peace knowing that the vengeance is His to handle. Keep focusing on your future. Much love to you. ❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      I’m sorry to hear that and I hope some of my words resonated and helped you realize how strong we can be with God in our lives. Much love to you, Michelle .

  • @Broken7269
    @Broken7269 2 місяці тому +7

    I so relate girl. Speak your truth. It really is a good thing you left farm. It’s way too toxic for you. You need to worry about you. Your parents are adults, let them take care of themselves. In time you will do much better. 💗

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  29 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much. It means a lot to be heard.❤❤❤❤

    • @Broken7269
      @Broken7269 29 днів тому

      @ I totally understand. You’re not alone.

  • @sheribunker7170
    @sheribunker7170 2 місяці тому +6

    Wendy I’ve “known” you since the day you got your dreads cut off.
    I’ve watched you go through highs and lows. All I can say overall is…you are one STRONG woman. Yes, Jesus gives you the strength, but you have to own it and you really do.
    I haven’t stopped praying for you, and I’m not about to now.
    I’m sorry I’ve not been around lately, but we’ve had and still have some very big giants to slay in our family. But, you wrote the book on that.
    Keep at it my friend. It’s got to feel good to have unloaded all that baggage you’ve been carrying around. Love ya!

  • @annmarie1514
    @annmarie1514 Місяць тому +2

    I haven’t seen you in a year. I’m so glad you pop up today. You’re in my heart and prayers. You got this this girl. God is showing you the way.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      I’m glad I popped up on your screen. Thank you for the prayers. I will be sending them right back to you. Much love to you AnnMarie.

  • @jameswade7287
    @jameswade7287 Місяць тому

    God is good I haven’t been watching because my husband passed away in January so it’s been awhile. No one should go through what you did. I will continue praying for you sweetie. I was the one that sent you the hanging hummingbirds quite a while ago. Have a very Merry Christmas and happy New Year ❤

  • @TammyH1014
    @TammyH1014 2 місяці тому +9

    I am so sorry for all that you have gone through, especially from those who were supposed to protect you. Keep speaking your truth…and stay out of that toxic environment. No one can thrive in that kind of home. God Bless you, Wendy. ❤ This is your breakthrough. I see it! 🎉

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      I appreciate that

    • @TammyH1014
      @TammyH1014 2 місяці тому +5

      Hold on to this Truth: Romans 8:18 ”The pain that you’ve been feeling, can’t compare to the joy that’s coming.”

    • @Michelle-qr4bu
      @Michelle-qr4bu 2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you for sharing that scripture! After almost 26 years of marriage, my husband died suddenly. It will be 10 years in March 2025 since he passed away. There is a song by Josh Wilson entitled, “Before the Morning”. Almost every time I got into my vehicle I would hear that song on the radio. Now I know where to find the verse that is associated with the song! ❤. I plan to read the entire chapter to get more insight. So thank you again for sharing! ❤

  • @LorenaBee-jp4dw
    @LorenaBee-jp4dw 2 місяці тому +7

    Good to see you. You look so healthy! Good on you for taking steps to leave the toxic behind. Onwards and upwards

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +1

      I truly appreciate your support and thank you for the compliment. I feel so much better. Much love to you.

  • @MelissaT___77
    @MelissaT___77 Місяць тому +3

    I hope your first day on the new job today goes great for you. Build up a GOOD STRONG ENCOURAGING set of friendships they will be your FAMILY. Stay close with Ryan. Don’t let the “sick” members of that so called family get their hooks in HIM! Which I know you’re doing.

  • @missycollier4964
    @missycollier4964 2 місяці тому +3

    Girl, first of all I just wanna say it is so good to see you. You have to be one of the strongest people that I have ever ever seen in my life. I can tell you are an amazing person, you give with all your heart, we have something in common because I’ve always had a big heart as well. God bless you on your journey, we love you girl🙏🙏🙏

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  29 днів тому

      Thank you for reaching out and being so kind and understanding. ❤❤❤❤

  • @peggybruner7270
    @peggybruner7270 2 місяці тому +3

    I’m watching this on replay this morning, and I can relate to so much of what you’ve shared

  • @kristymathys7563
    @kristymathys7563 2 місяці тому +4

    Wendy you are on the right path. As painful as it is you must set boundaries from toxic people whether family or whomever. You are so on the right path. Stay in prayer as God will never leave you. Sending prayers for your healing.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Amen to that. Boundaries can suck sometimes but they’re so necessary.

  • @Gingersnap-uv9rg
    @Gingersnap-uv9rg Місяць тому +4

    Wow im speechless. I dont know u but im so proud of u! Praise God always! Amazing testimony wow! Wow!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Well, welcome. So glad you ran across our community. I hope you become a subscriber and fall in love with all of us as we will do with you. Thank you so much for your kind words and yes, of course praise God always.

  • @timewithtrina5197
    @timewithtrina5197 2 місяці тому +4

    Super big love sis! I get it. Xoxo I'm in Lake Havasu, AZ if ya ever wanna visit! You got this. Now go be you!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Oh my gosh, it is so good to see your name pop up. Miss you so much and absolutely Arizona. Here I come. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @CindyKing1813
    @CindyKing1813 2 місяці тому +8

    Wow just wow! Sounds like a movie script. So sad! You look/sound so determined & healthy. I’m so happy to see your bumblebees coming together once again.You are not alone 💗🙏

  • @JacquelynHerron
    @JacquelynHerron Місяць тому +4

    You are blessed. You have a son who loves you. As someone who has lost a loved one to suicide, please stay in life for his sake. You never want to devastate him that way, trust me. God bless you.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Never ever do I wanna leave my son or leave him motherless. That was only the bad medication I was on God bless you, honey.

  • @KathleenSpera
    @KathleenSpera 2 місяці тому +11

    Wendy...today is the first day of the rest of your new life. God knew you before you were forned in your mother's womb. He will never forsake you sweetie. Be who you are destined to be...you are a miraculous child of the living God. You are loved Wendy...I love you and I am so very proud of the beautiful young lady you are. ❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your kind words and I love you right back. I wish God would send us a handbook sometimes lol

  • @nancylee8985
    @nancylee8985 2 місяці тому +2

    I am so sorry this happened to you, breaks my heart. You deserve better and you know that. I agree with you about the farm being cursed. Nothing good has happened. Keep being strong! Take care!

  • @amandamann1650
    @amandamann1650 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks

    • @amandamann1650
      @amandamann1650 Місяць тому +2

      Happy Christmas Wendy 🥰

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +2

      Oh hunny. How sweet of you. I wish I could send you something 🩷

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +3

      Love you so much. Thank you 🙏

    • @amandamann1650
      @amandamann1650 Місяць тому +1

      @@JERSEYBAILEY81 Just be happy and healthy will be the best gift I could ever get from you 💕 God Bless you 💕

  • @PixieTayls
    @PixieTayls 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh Wendy🥺 I’m so Sorry.. Your such a courageous and strong woman.. So beautiful inside and out. Sending you so much love💓
    May your kind heart now lead you on a healing path full of love and light that you so deserve. Big hug sent
    Much Love ~♥️

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      Thank you for your kind words and sending so much love. I can feel it from everyone. Sending you love hugs and kisses.

  • @janiefairfield5897
    @janiefairfield5897 2 місяці тому +5

    I identify with your trauma. I’m so glad you had the courage to speak out. You look so much better and you’re at peace with it. We all LOVE YOU so much. ❤️

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for your support and love. I feel so much better. And I love all of you right back.

  • @donaldmoore6737
    @donaldmoore6737 Місяць тому +1

    You gonna be all right keep God on your side and have faith🌺🌹🤙

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +4

    My heart just breaks for you ….im so sorry to hear this …prayers defiant go out to you😊

  • @HeatherSmith-i8p
    @HeatherSmith-i8p 23 дні тому

    Me too ❤

  • @nancyhaynes8846
    @nancyhaynes8846 2 місяці тому +3

    I'm so happy that you've found the light!!!! GOD'S got you and your future looking bright!!! Hugs!!!! God Bless you Wendy.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Hugs and kisses right back to you, Miss Nancy

  • @loriking3319
    @loriking3319 2 місяці тому +3

    I never had a dad until i left home. Had to build up my family myself. But youre right our faith in our heart hurts others cause their demons they hide! I seen. Crying listening to you. I feel your pain!!!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      Oh honey, please don’t cry for me. I hope they’re happy tears. I’ve cried enough for all of us. Sorry to hear about your situation but I guess it just makes us stronger sending you love.

  • @puppetmaker2800
    @puppetmaker2800 Місяць тому +3

    So glad to see you being a strong Woman in your life💐

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +2

      Well, I’ve realized that if things are gonna get done, I gotta do it myself. Thank you.

  • @witchescorner543
    @witchescorner543 2 місяці тому +5

    Sending you all the love and hugs and my own prayers in my way xxx I love you always xxx

  • @charlottewilson4367
    @charlottewilson4367 2 дні тому

    Love ❤️ you Wendy .... Take care of you .....

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +4

    The best thing is you are getting healthy again I’m so proud of you

  • @julieteague6122
    @julieteague6122 Місяць тому +2

    You look so much happier. Love ya gal.

  • @47thatgirl
    @47thatgirl Місяць тому

    God loves you 💕 Great things await YOU. Carry on🙏🏻

  • @karma0771
    @karma0771 Місяць тому +1

    You look wonderful Wendy. God bless you

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much and God bless you too happy holidays

  • @annedelgado7593
    @annedelgado7593 2 місяці тому +4

    Good job on speaking your truth! Your words just flowed. I think God definitely has his hand on your shoulder. You look super healthy too. Keep the faith! ✨✨✨✨

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      I appreciate that, I was really nervous, but yeah once I started the video it just flowed like a river. I did however watch it with Karen and had great anxiety afterwards and had to take an anxiety pill. Lol

  • @DonnaDickson-jj8vj
    @DonnaDickson-jj8vj Місяць тому +2

    Good to see you again Wendy always enjoyed your videos sending lots of hugs and prayers

  • @Whiskeyjack4
    @Whiskeyjack4 2 місяці тому +4

    Sending hugs and love your way. Sorry for all your pain.ive been there. ❤ u

  • @debrabondoc7543
    @debrabondoc7543 2 місяці тому +4

    Wendy, You are beautiful and so strong! You sound of clear mind. Life is going to be just great! So, go get you some girly! ❣️🙏❣️

  • @rekindledlovewithbeth
    @rekindledlovewithbeth 2 місяці тому +5

    Wendy I’m so sorry to hear that you are struggling in so many ways. Prayers for resolutions and ways to move forward in a healing manner for all involved. 🙏🏼❤️✌🏼

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much that means the world to me. Prayers go your way as well.

  • @colleenmurray9805
    @colleenmurray9805 Місяць тому +2

    God BLESS YOU!!!
    Keep going!!
    GODS GOT YOU🙏

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      God bless you, Colleen. Much love to you.

  • @lauriebarrington8521
    @lauriebarrington8521 2 місяці тому +4

    Totally understand. I'm in that .. Including the sister. She walked away at 86 and 90, both very sick. That makes me be the only child. Praying for all...love you too ❤❤

  • @faith4rest562
    @faith4rest562 2 місяці тому +4

    I am praying for you Wendy! I watched since way back in Guatemala. Yah Loves you! 💜

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      I’m glad you’re still around and thank you for the prayers. I’m sending them right back to much love.

    • @faith4rest562
      @faith4rest562 2 місяці тому +2

      @JERSEYBAILEY81 I remember when you took such amazing care of your dad when he was sick. You were making him food, etc. And I remember when you took your mom to Guatemala with you after you had been. It's really sad how they treat you, it's no way to treat a sweet daughter. It's no way to treat anyone for that matter! 🙏💜

  • @KM-sv5qd
    @KM-sv5qd 2 місяці тому +2

    You’re not alone. Speak your truth and it’s true our spirits really❤️🙏💐 bother others demons! God bless you as well!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Amen to that and I’m sorry to hear that if you’re insinuating, you’ve been through similar circumstances. Sending love your way and hugging you really tight.

  • @jcrewify
    @jcrewify 2 місяці тому +2

    Loved this! Heading in the right direction!

  • @annamaddox428
    @annamaddox428 2 місяці тому +4

    Your hair is beautiful!

  • @joangaither3871
    @joangaither3871 2 місяці тому +7

    Go back again go to a different police officer. Keep fighting for justice. Don't let them get away with this.
    You had outburst because they wouldn't protect you. You needed protection and love from your family and they chose to turn their back on you. That is disgusting! I am so sorry they did that to you and I'm so sorry that you went through all what you did. I hope that you consider yourself a survivor because you survived a lot and you shouldn't have had to do that

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      Thank you so much. And yes, I am a survivor and I know there’s so many more out there. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @thomaskenny4486
    @thomaskenny4486 Місяць тому +1

    Just remember God will hold you in the palm of his hands and raise you up on eagles wings

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      That’s very sweet and touching and I appreciate the kind words.

  • @shannondimmen7863
    @shannondimmen7863 2 місяці тому +3

    You are always in my prayers❤

  • @janiefairfield5897
    @janiefairfield5897 2 місяці тому +3

    Oh my goodness!! You are stronger than that. Don’t hurt yourself you have so much to live for.

    • @Midnight-gx7fj
      @Midnight-gx7fj 2 місяці тому +2

      Ran across your video today. Seems like you were the family scapegoat and had additional trauma. I understand and agree with everything you say. In 1999 I was able to gain a voice in therapy. I had a work associate who told me that once you have a nervous breakdown, you never fall again. Know that you are doing what you have to do, the truth about others can be hard to accept, God is stronger than everything you have been through and you're still here! I'm 69 now and wish you the best. You go lady, live life on your own terms!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +2

      That was the demons trying to win, but God always conquers it

  • @sharlenesullivan9892
    @sharlenesullivan9892 2 місяці тому +2

    I love you so big wendy 💙 u and I are so a like and I admire your determination and the grace ur allowing urself. You're a bright and beautiful soul. We cannot change others but we can control our own lives. I'm always here honey.. God bless you. 🙌

  • @wendicollinsworth6964
    @wendicollinsworth6964 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for opening up....what are you doing now? As far as job place to live..glad your doing much better.

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +5

    Woah, I am stunned by this

  • @katiepoole6449
    @katiepoole6449 2 місяці тому +3

    Glad your doing better. Look forward to seeing your beautiful face more often!!!!❤❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +2

      Thank you, Katie you’re so sweet. Hope to be back soon. Much love to you, honey.

  • @cindyeyler
    @cindyeyler 2 місяці тому +4

    Wendy your heart is loving, sensitive and compassionate and is everything they all are not. That’s the first issue. You are too contrasting to them and it makes the worst flair up in them. Their demons attack you to try to lower you to their level. They feel much more comfortable to have you upset, angry, etc like they are so they try to drive you to those levels. You did the best thing… you finally decided to care more about your own well-being than their’s. You finally chose to love yourself enough that you refuse to stay where you’re not respected and loved anymore. You tried but you see it won’t change as long as you keep doing the same thing with them. I’m proud of you for choosing for you and you will be healthier and happier as you keep persisting forward FOR YOU ❤. Sending love and praying for you. All your needs will be provided for 💯. PS all those people will pay for their words and hurtful actions. You don’t need to think about them again. Hugs. 🫂

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +3

      Well, it takes a sensitive and compassionate soul to see another so right back at you Cindy

    • @cindyeyler
      @cindyeyler 2 місяці тому +1

      @ ♥️♥️♥️

  • @MelissaT___77
    @MelissaT___77 Місяць тому +1

    Thanks!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Wow!!!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!! Means so much in this time of my uncertainty. Much love

    • @MelissaT___77
      @MelissaT___77 Місяць тому

      Love u Wendy. You’re a strong woman.

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +4

    GOD BLESS YOU GIRL

  • @terriziemba9170
    @terriziemba9170 2 місяці тому +8

    You're growing in the Lord Wendy. You're going to be ok. Let go and let God 💚💚💚

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      It may be my make up lol. But I agree. I feel him so deeply. Thank you for the encouraging words.

  • @EMILYMANESTAR
    @EMILYMANESTAR Місяць тому +1

    No one ever knows what people go through. Be patient and always know that you have God watching over you.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      Very true, thank you for your sweet message. Sending you lots of love.

  • @videostar323
    @videostar323 2 місяці тому +3

    Wendy I am so glad you are okay! I had no idea you were so sick and suffering so much. I really admire your strength and honesty in this video. If more men were called out for what they have done to women maybe there wouldn’t be so many rapists or molesters in this world. I am glad you also found the strength and courage to get out of an unhealthy toxic situation. I feel your pain as my father was also verbally abusive to me. I put up with it for many years as a kid but eventually came to the conclusion I couldn’t have a relationship with him. Luckily my parents divorced when I was a kid so I didn’t live with him anymore and I eventually gained my self esteem back but it took quite a while. For many years I always doubted and second guessed myself. I also was in abusive relationships since that is what I was used to and for some reason couldn’t break that pattern until I realized I deserve better. I am looking forward to more lives with you in the future and I am excited for your next adventure. Love you Wendy ❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for being vulnerable and sharing a little bit of your past and your world. I needed to get it out like so many people do and I hope that it helps a lot of people. I’m sending you lots of love and really tight. Hugs and if it helps, I believe you and I believe in you. Sending you so much love.

  • @sharlenesullivan9892
    @sharlenesullivan9892 2 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤❤❤ ur beautiful smile is contagious.

  • @witchescorner543
    @witchescorner543 2 місяці тому +6

    You are not alone Wendy xxx

  • @judyroberts8224
    @judyroberts8224 Місяць тому +1

    So sorry all of this has happened to you. Prayers🙏❤️

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for the prayers sending them right back to you

  • @drawnmcphie3091
    @drawnmcphie3091 Місяць тому +3

    Wendy, I'm so sorry for your heart. Look after yourself sweetie. Get rid of that hurt. Surround yourself with positive people.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      It took me a while, but I’m getting there. Thank you for leaving a message and sending such kind words. Much love to you.

  • @anitahigginbotham6237
    @anitahigginbotham6237 Місяць тому +2

    God is good ALL the time 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      It can be hard to see at times, but he’s always the one I lean on so amen to that

  • @lauriedodson1753
    @lauriedodson1753 Місяць тому +2

    Wendy, don't let it consume you. I have been thru alot myself, and have had to release it. Move on, and trust that the Lord will help you make it thru.
    Keep on keeping on, Wendy. 🙂

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Yes! Thank you! Ironically, that’s what my dad always says. Keep on keeping on.

  • @MX-tu9yr
    @MX-tu9yr 2 місяці тому +4

    Sorry for what has been happening in your life. I hope blessings shine down upon you.🙏🙏

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you so much. I hope blessings shine down on you as well.

  • @mzcorinnecole
    @mzcorinnecole 2 місяці тому +3

    Im so proud of you❤

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much!!! 😊 it means a lot coming from you

  • @Laurhas1829
    @Laurhas1829 2 місяці тому +5

    Wendy I'm so sorry. There is NO excuse that your dad would ever talk to your abusers. Ever, he is just as guilty as the perpetrators for not protecting you. The same with your mom. It's a parents job to protect their children. I'm so sorry they didn't do that for you. Sending you all the love and prayers. God 11:12 your Father loves you. Don't ever forget that ❤

  • @AndreaE33
    @AndreaE33 2 місяці тому +3

    💛

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +4

    GOOD FOR YOU FOR LEVING FARM AND FAMILY ❤

  • @pamstauffer8492
    @pamstauffer8492 2 місяці тому +2

    So good to see you...I was worried...God WILL take care of you...❤ you

  • @abinaministriescostaricaor1901
    @abinaministriescostaricaor1901 Місяць тому +2

    I haven't been around much online; glad I couldn't sleep and decided to see how you've been doing. WOW, speak it!
    I am proud of your new choices and am praying for your fresh start. Be transformed; you are a child of God.
    Romans 8:14-16
    For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship.
    And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.”
    The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you so much for saying such amazing things and reciting scriptures that are always welcome. I am definitely a child of God and I love it but the people that are not don’t lol. Thanks for reaching out and being so kind. Oh and make sure you’re subscribed. It’s free. 😉

  • @mzcorinnecole
    @mzcorinnecole 2 місяці тому +3

    What cindy said is so true.I kinda know how you feel alot of that shit happened to me but it was family.Wendy sometimes people just don't belong in our lives even when we love them. My heart hurts for you and I miss you.

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Yeah, Cindy has a lot of good words. Lol I don’t know if I’m numb or it hasn’t hit me yet but I’m doing pretty OK. I’m surrounded by people that truly do love and care for me and I’m working so that’s a plus. I miss you too.

  • @dirk_08
    @dirk_08 10 днів тому +1

    Afternoon, sorry catching up on all the videos on your Channel, this Video is heart breaking, shocking and makes me extremely angry. They should not be called parents... the parents that I know will live and Die for their kids... ride or die I call it. I am sorry for your trauma. To the people that hurt you... they must hope I never pit foot in America because I would be knocking on their door. God bless you... I prayed that God will heal you and protect you at all cost. That he will restore you,your body ,mind and soul. And i know he will. Forgive the people that hurt you but cut them off for every. As hard as this sound. A new Journey awaits

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  10 днів тому +1

      Thank you for your kindness and understanding your empathy. Also for just caring. Sometimes people with such trauma just need to be heard. So thank you very much.

    • @dirk_08
      @dirk_08 10 днів тому

      @@JERSEYBAILEY81 song : Gavin James - Always ... special song just for you.💐

  • @MargaretMcminn-v5f
    @MargaretMcminn-v5f 2 місяці тому +3

    Life your life to the fullest. Live us short. You just have to put yourself first.let everyone but your son take care of themselves

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +2

      Very true Margaret. Oh my son is number one all the way. And he’s so supportive and loving. We talk every single day.

  • @kellystewart1348
    @kellystewart1348 Місяць тому +1

    Love you Wendy

  • @julieteague6122
    @julieteague6122 Місяць тому +2

    Brand new beginnings. God is leading .

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Yes, he is and I’m so glad to see your name. I hope you’re well and I’m sending you love.

  • @loriking3319
    @loriking3319 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for putting their names our. So others can know and speak out too. I jailed my molester and later my rapist. At 14 i was so loat alone. I lost my family for awhile. I gadvto protect my kids. And uts been hard. When he died i finally found peace.

  • @candiekirbybaldridge8182
    @candiekirbybaldridge8182 Місяць тому +3

    ❤ You will get stronger. Keep the Lord close!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Yes ma’am that’s the only way to keep growing. Thank you for reaching out. Much love.

  • @lizcusano6345
    @lizcusano6345 2 місяці тому +2

    Gods love and light surrounds you 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @charlottewilson4367
    @charlottewilson4367 2 дні тому

    # Replay Hi Wendy

  • @brendaduncan7272
    @brendaduncan7272 2 місяці тому +2

    You look so much better. God is great ❤

  • @kristymathys7563
    @kristymathys7563 2 місяці тому +4

    Smiling now Wendy. You got this!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Well, you just made me smile. Thank you so much.

  • @203pacem
    @203pacem 2 місяці тому +4

    Sending u so much love

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      I’m sending you so much love right back

  • @JenBerry-s7y
    @JenBerry-s7y 2 місяці тому +4

    Best wishes for you.

  • @joangaither3871
    @joangaither3871 2 місяці тому +4

    I was molested/ raped as well. I am so proud of you for telling people who they are. Don't protect them. Also walk away from your dad. You do not ever deserve the abuse your dads treatment. You are worthy, loved and deserve the best. When you feel weak reach out 🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰🥰

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      Honey, thank you so much for saying that and I’m so sorry for what has happened to you, but you know what God only gives us what we can handle and we must be too bad asses!!!! Much love

  • @michaelandersen7260
    @michaelandersen7260 2 місяці тому +4

    Wishing you the very best!!!

  • @dawngoksel337
    @dawngoksel337 2 місяці тому +4

    Prayers go out to you wendy idk what to say on this

  • @tinaringer5748
    @tinaringer5748 2 місяці тому +3

    Prayers for you, Wendy!

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for the prayers Tina sending them right back to you much love, honey

  • @debbiemclennan4497
    @debbiemclennan4497 2 місяці тому +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DebbieMelhorn
    @DebbieMelhorn 2 місяці тому +5

    Wow 😢Gods with you dear child 🙏🙏❤️

    • @JERSEYBAILEY81
      @JERSEYBAILEY81  2 місяці тому +2

      Thank you, Miss Debbie that means a whole lot

  • @LibbyOakes-e6n
    @LibbyOakes-e6n Місяць тому

    Hay sweet baby girl. Do u and keep that crown straight. Remember I love you and I’m ALWAYS here for you

  • @michelegilmore5644
    @michelegilmore5644 2 місяці тому +2

    Proud of you girl!!!❤