We'd like to remind people of what we've stated in the description above... "hopefully you will all continue to create an environment for us here where we feel comfortable to continue doing this"... Food for thought x
I don’t know if you read comments too much, but Cowslick and Gingerbeard have a great point re kids. I work in law, paedophiles take screenshots of the child’s face. Also be careful in this day and age of AI generated images… makes me feel sick but unfortunately it’s true
I also think that people that cover the face of kids just should not post them periodt. If you have the need to cover their face just don’t post Them for their safety
Hey girls, I absolutely love you both! I don’t want to sound rude and ofc I don’t know the ends of your relationship Mandi. But you are too forgiving and understanding! Its one thing finding that receipt but him getting angry with you because you were upset with it is crazy! That’s not just a red flag but absolutely toxic - no one should live the rest of their lives that way! You both should learn how to settle arguments and misunderstandings with each other without making it a warzone! And about the kids being posted online - there’s creeps and pervs online who could take screenshots and post these photos to the dark web or make AI videos… just please be very careful! ❤
I love Mandi, but as much as his behaviour may be toxic, she’s self proclaimed toxic herself 😅 If he is raising his voice and shouting, I’m pretty sure she is matching his rage too. And I love that she admits to this so openly rather than just claiming victim. Let’s enjoy their stories, but leave them to it 😅 All four of them are red flags 🚩
@hotep9544 she said herself she thinks she'd be bored in a non toxic relationship but she does deserve someone that prioritises her and wants to be around her. Seems like gingerbeard doesn't feel the same.
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Love you girls. I think we just need to stop assuming we know what a cheater looks like and behaves. Everyone's capable of being the culprit now. Its often the "good guy, theyd never cheat" whos out there doing the most and not getting caught out. Its crazy out here
i don't have the right to talk, but how can he screams at you in front of your mom ???he needs at least respect your mom's feeling . i don't think there are moms who are okey with seeing their daughters being yelled at their boyfriends\husbands
I love y’all I really do but those constant screaming matches are not normal. Not telling you to leave your man but y’all both speak about considering marrying and having children with these men so think about your reality clearly. I just want you to not think that boiling point arguments every few weeks is healthy because it’s not. It’s a pattern and as long as you’ve been with him you’ve been having these toxic vicious screaming matches. if y’all have children one day it’s not going to suddenly get better, y’all already go at each other in front of family. The childhood trauma you will inflict on innocent children will be irreversible and keep them in a therapist’s chair. You are both lovely, bright girls I hope that you both find happiness whatever that means for you.
I love you Mandy! This is coming from a place of love & not judgement but if a man truly loved you & cared for you, he would never do something that it could cause you to have all of these doubts. He will think about his actions a million times because he would sensitive to your needs. You deserve so much more ❤
Firstly you couldn’t even imagine what people do with pictures of children it’s very worry, a family member works in the electronics area of policing. Also I don’t think you need to post children all over the internet we are always talking about the impact of social media on young people but it’s being instilled on the before they even know what it is.
Awww mandy i hope your okay, the next few days after a big fight is the worst, cant wait till you feel yourself again, people saying their in toxic relationships.... theres no way they can be this glowing happy and funny if they were miserable... i love you guys ❤
I think comparing a pedophile seeing a child on the street is different to online since you can screenshot pictures online and they all have thousands of pictures of children saved when they are caught
Take a picture of the back of your child’s head if you have an itch to post them. Safeguarding is very important. The amount of cases linked to online stalking is horrendous. Protect your kids.
It might be because the child isn't able to make an informed decision on the matter. Once an image is on the net, it's on there potentially permanently and thus it should be the individual's decision.
This is literally one of 3 podcasts that I wait for a new episode because of how REAL you are! It’s so difficult to share such intimate details we appreciate you & that’s why we love you girlies 💕💕💕
God people are so quick to call everyone a cheat and plant seeds in peoples minds mandi knows her boyfriend and their dynamic better than anyone else . Strangers particularly are quick to jump to conclusions which is what’s happened looking at the comments. The anger thing isn’t a red flag everyone argues in different ways it’s a personality thing some people get angry, some people get emotional and some just can’t argue and run away 🤷🏻♀️ Relationships are seen as too disposable now days it’s okay to have ups and downs doesn’t mean someone should run. Love the realness of the pod girls it’s relatable and normal which is why you’ve had success ❤
But this has been going on for years. The only form of disrespect these girls think there is, is cheating. There are many forms of disrespect, they live it everyday with their partners.
The reason for me is p*DOS. They save the pictures and use them very inappropriately & also sell them & alter the pics for.the dark web. I assume this will get a lot worse with AI. Also most child accounts are followed by men with no relation to the child (not family, friends etc). If you love it, you should protect it as much as possible. + Especially with the size of y'all's online presence, it's not letting them decide if the child actually wants to be out there like that. Personally I think children should be completely banned from the Internet.
just wanna say that I love u both and I will support u in everything. I know how it feels when u just tell ur friends (in ur case: the internet) about little things ur partner does bc u want to rant and they assume ur unhappy in this relationship... sometimes u just need to rant man. nobody knows the little moments where he treats u amazingly. the way everything is in private is what is the true relationship. I am so grateful u guys share the good and the bad bc it's real and it's true. shit like this does happen in relationships and I hate that a majority of this comment section is acting like this is the end of everything.
It’s so funny to hear Anna talk about how she thinks it’ll be so easy to have a podcast with a baby. Mandi has the best sense of reality for this one. It’ll be difficult unless they have a village to help them
Actually no, if anything ppl on Patreon feel more entitled because they’re paying! We give advice and our thoughts but it’s done in a respectful way… I’ve never seen comments like this on Patreon because we actually like them!!
Obviously none of us know him the way you do. But from the outside looking in. It seems like he’s took your concerns and anger and switched and made you look like the bad guy. Why couldn’t he just say, I hold my hands up i should’ve listened to you. I know you don’t want to jump to conclusions and you trust him. But these things happen and the reaction is the thing you have to look at because they will always deny. I love that you guys share everything, it’s an opinion obviously I could be totally wrong you love him and you know him , it’s just the way I see it x
Anna & Mandi, You’re both beautiful women, I literally wish we were besties irl! 😅 I’ve just finished watching all your seasons/episodes on youtube! You’re both so funny and can’t wait for more episodes in the future. Take care girls ❤️
Hey girlsss, I do get their opinion. Your kids should be protected from social media because they did not consent to them being broadcasted to weird people online, you can’t delete your digital footprint, especially pictures of little children that can literally get used by anyone, so I really get their point
36:47 Girls i get your point about the Babys but pls just don‘t do it, it is not only the pedofiles, the baby can’t decide if it likes to be on the internet yet so pls just consider waiting until your Kids are old enough to decide if they like to be seen. Also because people are so mean and imagine they would read mean comments about them later and get sad ❤
The whole rhetoric around teaching your partner to fear consequences is very scary. This is not normal relational dynamics at 30+. This is very toxic and insecure female behaviour.
Thank you for your vulnerability Mandi, it's not easy to forgive when a partner crosses a boundary or doesn't take your concerns seriously. I am a wife, married for 3 years but together for 8. NOBODY knows your partner like you. If Mandy is saying she believes him, I bet he is telling the truth. OR she knows deep down he's lying & she doesn't want to admit it (I do not think this is the case. I just don't see Mandi sticking around if she really thought that. She has a good support system within her family & sister). Bottom line being, when you connect with someone for that long, as a woman you simply. just. know. I have had many communication struggles in my marriage & I applaud you ladies for your honesty! You make me feel not so alone, some people just don't get it & that's okay. WE SUPPORT YOU!
Girls, I promise you a ring doesn’t change toxic behaviour or ‘make it better’. You are only convincing yourself. To all females reading this, cheating is not the only form of disrespect!
If you’re going to post pictures of your kids wait until they are at least couple of months / year old as evil eye is real. Especially the younger they are the more exposed to evil eye
You’re blessed with each other and your mummy. Mandi, never break those family ties. Men won’t ever complete or compare so don’t cross the moral boundaries unless you can live with the consequences. Anna, you’re enough and more, don’t ever compare yourself. You’re levels above the rest ❤
I love you girls, you literally get me through my journey to work listening to all your chats. but I was in a 12 year marriage and let me just say you never really know a person and you can never be so certain. The father of my kids stabbed me right through the heart and I never ever saw it coming at all. However I wouldn’t jump to conclusions but I’d defo just keep my wits about me. One of my life lessons is always make sure the guy loves you more than you love him.
You ladies are beautiful and funny, but boi, you sound like hard work for your partners. I guess it's an age thing, but no man wants arguments for life. Pick your battles
I love that Mandy wants to focus on her motherhood journey and focus on her kids more after marriage and having them and really really focus on her kids I love that xoxo I know you guys can do and have a right to do what you want, but you have to be really careful when posting children, especially in today’s DNA by means poster children if you guys really want to, but there were a lot of evil people and many of the comments have specified that there is paedophiles and AI, Weirdos, and just really bad people looking to do harm to children specifically & not to mention the evil eye 💔 just be careful all the love getting thrown your ways xxxoo
You guys should just post and ghost, you already give us a great podcast you don't need to interact with nutters on here . And it won't take away any success from you both in the future .
You'll hopefully change your mind when you do have kids. It's your one job as a mother to protect them from the world. Some things you have to keep private and between your family and real life friends not 'internet friends' ❤
Anna is right! Having kids will broaden your audience cause more and more women will be able to relate! ♥️ also- “stop putting your kids online to avoid pedos”? Yet the same people buy their infants internet-accessible iPads and gadgets. People need to wake up! If you put a smiley on tour kiddos face and meanwhile they are on the internet- you are only kidding yourself.
true but a lot of single mums HAVE to work in order to provide for her family. They can do a 1 hour podcast a week... no hate to u just saying lol!!!! x
Don’t usually comment but I have issues like this with my man all the time. Tbh he wasn’t there so I think it’s fine the only issue is that he should’ve listened to you but now he knows why you’ve said what you said. He didn’t mean to disrespect you which is the main thing and didn’t think it would. We think things rationally and of what could happen men are just stupid haha .It’s just that these men don’t listen to us and he should’ve listened when you told him but he probably didn’t think about this happening
No way wow you should’ve been there to get it done I would’ve been there to help you out but I don’t know what to do I just don’t know what else to do I don’t know what I can do
Anna your life is on social media and you chose that for yourself. You need to weigh up the good and the bad. There is far greater harm of posting your babies/ children online due to people exploiting and AI as we now have established. Your example of walking your child on the streets sounds like an excuse to me. On one hand you have a mother taking her child out which is necessary and probably a necessity for the child. And on the other you are CHOOSING to post your child on the internet where millions of people have easily accessible videos and pictures of your child and easily exploit. Please do not compare the 2.
We'd like to remind people of what we've stated in the description above... "hopefully you will all continue to create an environment for us here where we feel comfortable to continue doing this"... Food for thought x
Sorry for the comments, hope you continue to share with the besties that support you through it all anyways… or at least on Patreon 💗
I don’t know if you read comments too much, but Cowslick and Gingerbeard have a great point re kids. I work in law, paedophiles take screenshots of the child’s face. Also be careful in this day and age of AI generated images… makes me feel sick but unfortunately it’s true
i feel the same way, like look what happened to megan..
I also think that people that cover the face of kids just should not post them periodt. If you have the need to cover their face just don’t post Them for their safety
You ladies always keep it real and that's what we all love about this podcast! The catchups are my fave!
I feel like you’re trying to convince yourself and we’ve all been there and I hate this for you. You’re a queen x
Guys they’re being so vulnerable by sharing this, please try to not pass judgements.
Thank you x
There’s no perfect man or woman but there is better! You shouldn’t be upset so often Mandi, it’s clear nothing about his behavior is changing
I can't afford Patreon because I stay in a different country (South Africa) so I'm super grateful for this catch-up episode!!!!! I've missed it!!!
Hey girls, I absolutely love you both! I don’t want to sound rude and ofc I don’t know the ends of your relationship Mandi. But you are too forgiving and understanding! Its one thing finding that receipt but him getting angry with you because you were upset with it is crazy! That’s not just a red flag but absolutely toxic - no one should live the rest of their lives that way! You both should learn how to settle arguments and misunderstandings with each other without making it a warzone!
And about the kids being posted online - there’s creeps and pervs online who could take screenshots and post these photos to the dark web or make AI videos… just please be very careful! ❤
Are you new here their bfs have always been red flags 😂
I love Mandi, but as much as his behaviour may be toxic, she’s self proclaimed toxic herself 😅 If he is raising his voice and shouting, I’m pretty sure she is matching his rage too. And I love that she admits to this so openly rather than just claiming victim. Let’s enjoy their stories, but leave them to it 😅 All four of them are red flags 🚩
@hotep9544 she said herself she thinks she'd be bored in a non toxic relationship but she does deserve someone that prioritises her and wants to be around her. Seems like gingerbeard doesn't feel the same.
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Love you girls. I think we just need to stop assuming we know what a cheater looks like and behaves. Everyone's capable of being the culprit now. Its often the "good guy, theyd never cheat" whos out there doing the most and not getting caught out. Its crazy out here
i don't have the right to talk, but how can he screams at you in front of your mom ???he needs at least respect your mom's feeling . i don't think there are moms who are okey with seeing their daughters being yelled at their boyfriends\husbands
I love y’all I really do but those constant screaming matches are not normal. Not telling you to leave your man but y’all both speak about considering marrying and having children with these men so think about your reality clearly. I just want you to not think that boiling point arguments every few weeks is healthy because it’s not. It’s a pattern and as long as you’ve been with him you’ve been having these toxic vicious screaming matches. if y’all have children one day it’s not going to suddenly get better, y’all already go at each other in front of family. The childhood trauma you will inflict on innocent children will be irreversible and keep them in a therapist’s chair. You are both lovely, bright girls I hope that you both find happiness whatever that means for you.
Mandy is in denial
I love you Mandy! This is coming from a place of love & not judgement but if a man truly loved you & cared for you, he would never do something that it could cause you to have all of these doubts. He will think about his actions a million times because he would sensitive to your needs. You deserve so much more ❤
Firstly you couldn’t even imagine what people do with pictures of children it’s very worry, a family member works in the electronics area of policing.
Also I don’t think you need to post children all over the internet we are always talking about the impact of social media on young people but it’s being instilled on the before they even know what it is.
Awww mandy i hope your okay, the next few days after a big fight is the worst, cant wait till you feel yourself again, people saying their in toxic relationships.... theres no way they can be this glowing happy and funny if they were miserable... i love you guys ❤
I think comparing a pedophile seeing a child on the street is different to online since you can screenshot pictures online and they all have thousands of pictures of children saved when they are caught
No not with the anger!!! That is a red flag!!!!!!!
Take a picture of the back of your child’s head if you have an itch to post them. Safeguarding is very important. The amount of cases linked to online stalking is horrendous. Protect your kids.
THOROUGHLY enjoyed this :)
It might be because the child isn't able to make an informed decision on the matter. Once an image is on the net, it's on there potentially permanently and thus it should be the individual's decision.
This is literally one of 3 podcasts that I wait for a new episode because of how REAL you are! It’s so difficult to share such intimate details we appreciate you & that’s why we love you girlies 💕💕💕
God people are so quick to call everyone a cheat and plant seeds in peoples minds mandi knows her boyfriend and their dynamic better than anyone else . Strangers particularly are quick to jump to conclusions which is what’s happened looking at the comments.
The anger thing isn’t a red flag everyone argues in different ways it’s a personality thing some people get angry, some people get emotional and some just can’t argue and run away 🤷🏻♀️
Relationships are seen as too disposable now days it’s okay to have ups and downs doesn’t mean someone should run.
Love the realness of the pod girls it’s relatable and normal which is why you’ve had success ❤
But this has been going on for years. The only form of disrespect these girls think there is, is cheating. There are many forms of disrespect, they live it everyday with their partners.
The reason for me is p*DOS. They save the pictures and use them very inappropriately & also sell them & alter the pics for.the dark web. I assume this will get a lot worse with AI. Also most child accounts are followed by men with no relation to the child (not family, friends etc).
If you love it, you should protect it as much as possible. + Especially with the size of y'all's online presence, it's not letting them decide if the child actually wants to be out there like that.
Personally I think children should be completely banned from the Internet.
100% the Internet is absolutely no place for the innocence of a precious child
just wanna say that I love u both and I will support u in everything. I know how it feels when u just tell ur friends (in ur case: the internet) about little things ur partner does bc u want to rant and they assume ur unhappy in this relationship... sometimes u just need to rant man. nobody knows the little moments where he treats u amazingly. the way everything is in private is what is the true relationship. I am so grateful u guys share the good and the bad bc it's real and it's true. shit like this does happen in relationships and I hate that a majority of this comment section is acting like this is the end of everything.
ill be honest maybe keep the catchups on patreon bc these ppl seem to be casual listeners that haven't heard the good stories of gingerbeard xxx
You have no idea how much we appreciate people like you ❤
I’ve started reading “Gingerbread” instead of Gingerbeard 😂
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why are you screaming tho?
It’s so funny to hear Anna talk about how she thinks it’ll be so easy to have a podcast with a baby. Mandi has the best sense of reality for this one. It’ll be difficult unless they have a village to help them
When he came back from holiday would you not have asked how it was and he would’ve said his friend got with someone in his room though?
If we sign up to patron now can we watch the previous episodes you guys have posted before we signed up?
You guys want more catch ups on the main account but look at these comments… Patreon comments are so much more better and understanding!!
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People have more freedom to speak the truth on here, which they probably don’t feel they can do on their patreon
Actually no, if anything ppl on Patreon feel more entitled because they’re paying! We give advice and our thoughts but it’s done in a respectful way… I’ve never seen comments like this on Patreon because we actually like them!!
Besties for a reason x
Obviously none of us know him the way you do. But from the outside looking in. It seems like he’s took your concerns and anger and switched and made you look like the bad guy. Why couldn’t he just say, I hold my hands up i should’ve listened to you. I know you don’t want to jump to conclusions and you trust him. But these things happen and the reaction is the thing you have to look at because they will always deny. I love that you guys share everything, it’s an opinion obviously I could be totally wrong you love him and you know him , it’s just the way I see it x
Love you girls and the pod but 10 mins in and and this sounds like a lot of excuses 🤷🏾♂️
Anna & Mandi, You’re both beautiful women, I literally wish we were besties irl! 😅 I’ve just finished watching all your seasons/episodes on youtube! You’re both so funny and can’t wait for more episodes in the future. Take care girls ❤️
Hey girlsss, I do get their opinion. Your kids should be protected from social media because they did not consent to them being broadcasted to weird people online, you can’t delete your digital footprint, especially pictures of little children that can literally get used by anyone, so I really get their point
Love the podcasttt I play it while I’m at the gym
This is my fave one so far ❤ keep going girls ✨
36:47 Girls i get your point about the Babys but pls just don‘t do it, it is not only the pedofiles, the baby can’t decide if it likes to be on the internet yet so pls just consider waiting until your Kids are old enough to decide if they like to be seen. Also because people are so mean and imagine they would read mean comments about them later and get sad ❤
The whole rhetoric around teaching your partner to fear consequences is very scary. This is not normal relational dynamics at 30+. This is very toxic and insecure female behaviour.
I love them but I agree if a man had said this…
Thank you for your vulnerability Mandi, it's not easy to forgive when a partner crosses a boundary or doesn't take your concerns seriously. I am a wife, married for 3 years but together for 8. NOBODY knows your partner like you. If Mandy is saying she believes him, I bet he is telling the truth. OR she knows deep down he's lying & she doesn't want to admit it (I do not think this is the case. I just don't see Mandi sticking around if she really thought that. She has a good support system within her family & sister). Bottom line being, when you connect with someone for that long, as a woman you simply. just. know.
I have had many communication struggles in my marriage & I applaud you ladies for your honesty! You make me feel not so alone, some people just don't get it & that's okay. WE SUPPORT YOU!
Thank youuu x
I love Ana’s laugh so much😂❤
Girls, I promise you a ring doesn’t change toxic behaviour or ‘make it better’. You are only convincing yourself. To all females reading this, cheating is not the only form of disrespect!
Girlies I love you but pls don’t promote bum filler 💔
If you’re going to post pictures of your kids wait until they are at least couple of months / year old as evil eye is real. Especially the younger they are the more exposed to evil eye
You’re blessed with each other and your mummy. Mandi, never break those family ties. Men won’t ever complete or compare so don’t cross the moral boundaries unless you can live with the consequences. Anna, you’re enough and more, don’t ever compare yourself. You’re levels above the rest ❤
I love you girls, you literally get me through my journey to work listening to all your chats. but I was in a 12 year marriage and let me just say you never really know a person and you can never be so certain. The father of my kids stabbed me right through the heart and I never ever saw it coming at all. However I wouldn’t jump to conclusions but I’d defo just keep my wits about me. One of my life lessons is always make sure the guy loves you more than you love him.
You ladies are beautiful and funny, but boi, you sound like hard work for your partners. I guess it's an age thing, but no man wants arguments for life. Pick your battles
I love that Mandy wants to focus on her motherhood journey and focus on her kids more after marriage and having them and really really focus on her kids I love that xoxo
I know you guys can do and have a right to do what you want, but you have to be really careful when posting children, especially in today’s DNA by means poster children if you guys really want to, but there were a lot of evil people and many of the comments have specified that there is paedophiles and AI, Weirdos, and just really bad people looking to do harm to children specifically & not to mention the evil eye 💔 just be careful all the love getting thrown your ways xxxoo
You guys should just post and ghost, you already give us a great podcast you don't need to interact with nutters on here . And it won't take away any success from you both in the future .
Lol so true, helps the algorithm though 😉
Are they talking about Dr Aslani?
Think so they did mention before they went Spain for a bbl
You'll hopefully change your mind when you do have kids. It's your one job as a mother to protect them from the world. Some things you have to keep private and between your family and real life friends not 'internet friends' ❤
Anna is right! Having kids will broaden your audience cause more and more women will be able to relate! ♥️ also- “stop putting your kids online to avoid pedos”? Yet the same people buy their infants internet-accessible iPads and gadgets. People need to wake up! If you put a smiley on tour kiddos face and meanwhile they are on the internet- you are only kidding yourself.
love you ladies all the way from Miami💕😘
Absolutely love you guys!
Anna honestly you have no idea how tired it is, wait until you have kids lol
true but a lot of single mums HAVE to work in order to provide for her family. They can do a 1 hour podcast a week... no hate to u just saying lol!!!! x
@@renee5335we’ll see lol
@Anna, Please you need to do MORE UA-cam videos!!! Patreon Gets everything!!! come on MORE UA-cam
Mandi you look so good here. Glowing.
💁♀thank youuuu xxx
Where is the denim jacket from pleease
Am I the only one who believes him? Not every guy is a cheat! If you think this you need to work on your relationship with men.
We miss the Love Island reviews
Where is mandys top from its soo nice? xx
This makes me so sad
Don’t usually comment but I have issues like this with my man all the time. Tbh he wasn’t there so I think it’s fine the only issue is that he should’ve listened to you but now he knows why you’ve said what you said. He didn’t mean to disrespect you which is the main thing and didn’t think it would. We think things rationally and of what could happen men are just stupid haha .It’s just that these men don’t listen to us and he should’ve listened when you told him but he probably didn’t think about this happening
Ur both glowing
run for the hills boys....It's going to get worse.
No way wow you should’ve been there to get it done I would’ve been there to help you out but I don’t know what to do I just don’t know what else to do I don’t know what I can do
no body else needs to know how you are behind closed doors.
whyyyy would you wanna put your kids on the internet you weirdoooooos
Anna your life is on social media and you chose that for yourself. You need to weigh up the good and the bad.
There is far greater harm of posting your babies/ children online due to people exploiting and AI as we now have established.
Your example of walking your child on the streets sounds like an excuse to me. On one hand you have a mother taking her child out which is necessary and probably a necessity for the child. And on the other you are CHOOSING to post your child on the internet where millions of people have easily accessible videos and pictures of your child and easily exploit.
Please do not compare the 2.
🔥❤🙏👍👋💪👏
these comments are not passing the vibe check
and no one really cares
Loved this episode SO much!! Best one for a while❤ loved the switch up of seats also 🫶🏻 x x