Korean Lunar New Year 🌕 | Is Our Family Conservative? 국제커플 설 명절 저희집은 보수적인가요?
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- Опубліковано 17 лют 2018
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Happy Lunar New Year, everyone! This year we asked some of Kyuho's relatives to explain what their opinions are on how Korean holidays are celebrated in these modern times, and how (if anything) should traditions change in the future?
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Kyuho Lee #205, 8, Hwajung-ro 104beon-gil, Deogyang-gu, Goyang-si, Gyeonggi-do Postal code 10497, KOREA
(In Korean): 이규호 경기도 고양시 덕양구 화중로104번길 8, 205호 우편번호 10497
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You should make a little bonus vidoe of Kyuho's mom telling her stories. It would be really interesting to hear about it.
yeah, i was thinking the same
Almost Alicia I agree
I was thinking that too
I m from the future.. 😆
세라님 한국말 잘하시네요!!
Wanna hear Sarah speak more Korean
You have really spread an important message to the world through your video and I am very thankfull that you have take this initiative to tell the people why just women has to work it is also a holiday for them so why they just spent their time cooking and cleaning while celebrations are going on....
People has to understand that the person who makes the celebration special is a lady behind the walls of celebration, and also I am not just saying that they don't like to cook, they love to cook for their family , for their children and for evsryone and they feel happy to see their husband and children's smiling faces and for the women that is a true celebration time when the family is happy...Sarah's new family members are too supporting men's are also helping the ladies..:)
At last thank you for raising this topic ...
At last I want to say that you guys are rocking and god bless you toooo.......
So nice to see the orinary life and ordinary people in Korea, please keep uploading these kinds of videos
So fun to watch you guys.:)
I can see similarities to my family in Southern China. My mum had always complained about the exhaustion she feels during the CNY holiday. So much so she wished it hadn’t been celebrated. This year everyone decided to have the family meals in restaurants and everyone could have a good and relaxing time! Things are changing.
This reminds me so much of our tradition in turkey! Visiting relatives in their small villages and spending quality time! You guys are one of the few people I watch regularly and will continue to do that!!! 😃😃😃
I love that the Korean traditions focus around preparing and sharing meals with the whole family. We certainly have lost that kind of ceremony here in Australia with the high divorce rates. I really enjoyed this vlog. Thanks!!
Absolutely loved this Vlog! 새해 복 만히 받으세요 to you guys and Beemo! :) From what I've heard I think the table is set in the order that the Ancestors eat (Ancestors would be sitting behind on the other side of the table) So they begin with the main meal and end with the fruit (Dessert) and that's why it's placed at the front but to the ancestors it would be the back and the last thing they eat.
I’m Chinese and my mom stopped preparing food for new years after her and my dad divorced. I don’t think she minded preparing food but it was only our immediate family. These days people just buy food like all the roast meats and just prepare some smaller dishes to go with it. This makes New Years more relaxing and fun and you can spend quality time with the family instead of just crazily preparing food non-stop.
agreed!
In Tennessee USA the men in my family sit on the sofa watching sports while the women cook and clean. 😾I don’t have thanksgiving at my house anymore for that reason. I have a full time job too, dudes.
WOW! So Sad!
Resently...in korea (S.Korea) the man done like those...
they are all divorced after thanksgiving day.
Yep every Thanksgiving
I live in Mississippi and same! The only time the men help cook or anything is if its going on a grill. They will just flip it a few times while drinking beer and call that helping.
I am glad that our family shares the cooking. I have always brought something to the family dinner to help out because I know how hard it is to do a meal. But now I also will buy side dishes that are already made up. Makes meals much easier to prepare. I usually do a side dish and a pie But since our family has gone down, my dad and my Aunt are in the nursing home so it is only a few of us that get together for meals.
@@youngilman I know and they should be helping to as well. My father always helps with the meals when he was able to now he is in the Nursing home. We live in New York.
This was such a lovely vlog to watch; I love learning more about Korean culture and every day life there in more rural cities :) Thank you for sharing your celebration, and happy Lunar New Year to you both (and Beemo!) :)
Jasmine Lipska So glad you enjoyed it! We were debating how much we should film, and it ended up turning out to be way longer than we thought! 😅 Happy Lunar New Year!
I am so thankful for a husband who totally helps with meal preparation time,especially at holiday meal times.
Agreed! EVERYONE should do their part 😊
This was a really interesting video. Great idea to talk about the transition families are making at holiday time. In Australia, more families are going out to a restaurant for Christmas dinner exactly for the same reason, so that women can enjoy it more. I would LOVE to hear more of Kyuho's parents and grandparents talk about life when they were young. Fascinating.
So jealous on you two
Celebrating everything together
Wishing only happiness, prosperity and plentiful love for the Lunar New Year ✨💘❣️💟💕
I think it’s great that your family still follow tradition, and to SEE you, your father and and uncle assisting with the cooking. IMO traditions is knowlege of the past, of who I am, families reconnecting/bonding. I hope that if people feel that the females in their family are doing ALL work would help out!!! If you feel so bad, then help out!!!
I'm in Nigeria watching in an apartment provided by my company.
Thank you for sharing this warm feeling of big holiday and families getting together.
금욜에 올라오셨을텐데 편집하느라 고생하셨습니다! 비모는 여전히 귀엽네요😍 모든 며느리들이 고통받지 않는 시대가 오길 바랍니다😤
I love watching your family evolve (for the better) and seeing the male members all pitching in to chuseok preparations, thank you for sharing and I'd love to hear your mums "war" stories
제가 처음 규호&세라를 본게 EBS 다큐에서 설 인지 추석 인지 증평 할아버님 댁에 인사하러 갔던 영상인데...
그 후 구독 후 계속 보고 있지만...
시간이란 놈이 참 빠르네요
어느새 3년? 4년? 이 지난거 같아요
세라느님은 그 때 당시 안절부절한 모습은 찾아 볼 수 없고 어느덧 노련한 한국 며느리로 변신 !!!
늘 응원합니다!!
세라정도면 무척 한국문화에 적응 잘한거 같아요...우리집도 애들 이제 커서 애 볼필요 없어지니 남편 일시켜요.. 시어머니 계셔도 제가 시킨답니다.. 남자들도 같이 일하거나 아님 많이 간소화시켜 일을 줄이던가 해야죠..우리나라도 점차 바뀔거에요..
Thank you for sharing. Even though it looked freezing cold ,the country side so clear and fresh looking and that you travelled all that way for one night to celebrate with family was so nice.
+Sam Dowie Surprisingly the weather was sunny and quite mild! Perfect for a winter BBQ! 😁
I just came back from my grandmother's home as well~~~~Family reunion is the best !!!!
Always enjoy being part of your life! Love from Taiwan : )
Really enjoy your channel. My family and I are stationed at Osan and your videos really helped with the transition to Korea
저희집은 제사상 20만원대로 주문해서 간단하게 하는데 이런 방법도 좋은 것 같아요. 제사상 차릴 시간에 가족하고 더 많이 시간을 보낼 수 있고~
새해복많이 받으세요! Truly appreciate and enjoy your sharing of tradition as well as explaining differences between cultures and families. Here's wishing you continued blessings in the new year! Aloha, Darlene
이번 영상 댓글을 쭉 읽어보는데... 여러모로 영상에 관련없거나 이해가 부족한 것 같은 댓글들이 많네요 ㅋㅋㅋ 가뿐사뿐 넘겨버리고 새해 복 많이 받으시길 바랍니다 세라규호커플! 다음주에 만나요!
I truly enjoyed this video and learned a lot. Thank you Sarah and Kyuho
Thank you for showing us a glimpse of how your family spends this holiday! I had the good fortune of staying with my friend in Gapyeong during Chuseok a couple of years ago so I was able to witness similar preparations first hand. It brought back memories. I'm glad you're addressing the gender role issue especially in regards to this holiday; the stress of it always came up amongst my (female) Korean co-teachers in Yeosu, too. And Sarah, its nice to catch a bit of your Korean skills in there! So awesome! Happy Lunar New Year you guys. :)
I loved watching this. Thank you a lot for sharing. Happy New Year guys!
Yay!! I was waiting for this vlog.. I love seeing your celebrations... Have an awesome year ahead... 😊😊
Another great video! I wish only health and prosperity on your families 😊 I must add that both of your families seem really kind, and I think it’s wonderful how involved you are with them!
Such a beautiful area and such a beautiful family! I’m very happy you opened up about the expectations of women. I do hope viewers think about this.
새해 복 많이 받으세요 세라&규호님
This is such a lovely collection of memories~^^ happy new year 😊 such a sweet family^^
오 제가 명절에 대해 늘 생각하던점을 정확히 집어서 얘기해주셨네요. 한국에 많은 가정이 있고 그 가정마다 명절이 다르겠지만 모두가 즐거워야 할 명절이 누군가에겐 고통으로 다가온다면 그건 더 이상 모두가 즐거운 명절은 될 수 없죠.....저도 많은 가정이 제사를 지내건 지내지 않건 그들만의 전통을 이어나가는 것은 존중해 주어야한다고 생각합니다. 다만, 그 전통을 유지하고 지켜나가는 과정에서 어느 한 쪽이 큰 희생을 하고 있고 그 것을 계속 외면한다면 그건 정말로 큰 문제겠죠. 그리고 더 이상 그러지 말아야 하구요 ㅎㅎ 변해가는 사회에서 명절마다 대두되는 문제라 점차적으로 변해가고 있는건 알지만 규호님이 먼저 브이로그로 자신의 가족분들을 대상으로 인터뷰 해주신 점이 뜻깊네요 ㅋㅋ 물론 자세한 내용을 담지는 못한게 아쉽지만, 대부분의 어른들이 보수적이며 점차 변화해 나갈것이다 라는 생각을 갖고계신다는 점, 이 문제점을 정확히 인지하고 계시고 환경을 개선해 나가야한다는 의견을 말씀해주신게 인상깊었어요. 어르신들이 이런 말씀하시는 분이 드물다 생각해서...ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
여튼 설 잘 보내신것 같아서 저도 기분이 좋네요! 새해 복 많이 받으시고 이번 한 주도 행복하게 보내세요:)
ps. 비모가 생각보다 어른스럽게 집지키고 있어서 놀랐슴닼ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 그리고 세라님 한국어 인토네이션 거의 원어민 수준이시라 한번 더 놀람....
This is a lovely video! Thank you for posting :)
This is my fav every year. I always love to watch you guys when you celebrate this day. And of course when you travel to Canada. Sending love from Chicago 💜
Thank you for sharing this experience! So much fun!
Oh my god! The sky is soooooo beautiful❤️ Happy new year!
So beautiful and pleasant! You always choose the appropriate soundtracks for your travels!
This is so interesting. Thank you for taking the time to ask your family these questions and share it with us :)
Happy New Year :D
I’m glad Sarah was comfortable and included with your family gatherings, my experience with my now ex’s family was very different. She is a lot quieter around Kyuho’s family and that reminded me of myself. Kyuho didn’t get scolded for eating snacks this entire blog 😂😅
I love this. Thanks for talking about this issue! Definitely not just a problem in Korea. Love that Kyuho brought it up, too. :)
I love these kinds of videos! It would be great so see more comparison or differences between the generations, and the traditions :)
너무 좋아요 제가 하고싶은 말이 다 들어가있네요 ㅠㅠ♥ 항상 영상 잘보고있어요 감사해요♥
Enjoyed watching this video so much! Food looked sooo good
Happy New Year to the both of you. May you have a happy and healthy one :) Lovely video...thank you for sharing something so intimate like that with your viewers. I'm SO hungry now!
Great video! Really highlights all the good stuff! Also happy lunar new year to you guys!!
Happy belated Lunar New Year 🎉🎊 2018! Sarah and Kyuho, beemo and your family too!
This is really informative and interesting! I really enjoyed you guys talking to your family and learning stuff! :) I also like how open your family is to change and growth, it's really neat that they embrace it! Happy lunar New Year guys!
Thank you for sharing the tradition of your family and it is nice seeing how everyone is helping. Also, nice tonask that question and so refreshimg to hear the answer.
Also, family video like this is very sweet and I think you guys will treasure it for a long long time 💖
oh my god, finally I saw Sarah speaking korean! yaaaassss so happy!
This was awesome!
Omg the opening scene with beemo on the table and sarah kneeling in the background made the depth of Field weird and i thought beemo we massive, bigger than sarah for a second i was so confused haha!! Also at around 8:14 on the table between the apples? And the mandarins? I think there is thar odd looking dotted brown biscuit ? What is that they sell something that looks just like it in the local korean supermarket here? But its tiny and is a great snack it's really sweet and is Like a soft doughy biscuit? What is it exaclty and whats it called? Thanks! (Also would love to hear those stoires kyuho's parents shared most definitely!)
Belts14 That biscuit is called yakgwa. It's made by flour, honey, ginger juice. Actually there are a lot of different types of yakgwa. That biscuit is one of yakgwas.
으하핫 좋은 방법이네요. 그런 사람에게 이 영상을 공유해야겠어요! ㅋㅋ
올 한 해도 즐거운 일로 가득하길 바랄게요! ^^
I adore hearing Hyuho speak Korean
I really like when you guys are talking in korean. **
Great video as usual ♥
규호님
언제가는 아 옛것을 진정
망각할수 없다는 것 자각
하게될것이라 사료됩니다
두분 건강하고 행복하고
화목하시길 기원합니다
Sarah looks like understanding what kyuho mom said :) and she speaks korean very well !!!!!!!!! I have subscribed this channel from the beginning of it. I’m glad that Sarah looks getting more comfortable to be with Kyuho’s family than before. 😍😍👍👍 Thanks for the videos always !
when you guys upload a video,it makes my day every sunday. btw sometimes i write comment before i watch your recent video. it became like a habit or something ㅋㅋㅋㅋlast week when you reply my comment,i was so happy to know that you read our comments as much as possible. Love you!
Happy Lunar New Years Guys... I am celebrating mine too ~
Thank you for letting us join your holiday!
Happy holiday guys! It is so fascinating to see families carry on traditions when they don't really know the origins of it. I know I wouldn't bother, their dedication is commendable. I do have traditions I keep because I know why I'm doing them, but I pass for the outdated ones haha I am not to be trusted to carry a cultural legacy!
I think being conservative, tradition-wise, really isn't that bad. It is part of the culture. But they should rethink the role of women for holiday-related work for sure. Old habits die hard...
Hi! I'm new here and I'm currently watching your old vlogs and I love them .Have a great week! :))
+Sandra Matthew Ohh wow, thank you! ☺️You too!
원래 매주 챙겨보는데 좀 늦게 봤네요! 역시 규호님,세라님답게 너무 좋은 영상 감사드려요ㅠㅠ 서로 다른 생각을 이야기하고, 이해하고, 신기해하고.. 평소에도 두 분이서 한 토픽을 가지고 이야기하는 컨텐츠를 특히 좋아했는데, 이번 영상은 정말 감동이에요. 영상 끝자락, 두 분이서 성 역할에 대해 언급하시기 전에 제사준비모습을 보고 참 멋진 집안이라고 생각했어요! 남자 어른은 부엌에 들어가지도 않아야한다는 이상한 규칙이 있어왔던 한국에서 규호님의 어머니, 그리고 앉아서 앞으로 자유로운 집안분위기가 만들어져야한다고 말씀해주신 분의 모습이 정말 대단하다고 생각했고, 한편으로는 신기하기도 했답니다😂 보통 시어머니가 일이 생기면 며느리를 먼저 부르시잖아요, '이규호, 컴!' 단호한 목소리에 한 번, 재빨리 달려가시는 규호님 모습에 또 한 번 놀랐답니다ㅋㅋ😆
영상을 다 보고나니 우리 집안은 언제쯤 저렇게 될까라는 생각이 들었어요ㅠㅠ 매 명절마다 나름 소심한 반항(?)으로, 앉아서 시키기만 하시는 어른분들께 '먹고싶은 사람이 가져다 드셔야지!'라며 말하곤 한답니다. 아무도 들어주진 않지만요ㅋㅋㅋ 또 그런 상황이 당연하다는 듯이 영혼없는 눈으로 일하고 계시는 엄마, 할머니, 작은엄마를 보면 도대체 뭘 위해서 저렇게 열심히 하실까,하는 안타까움도 들어요. 새벽인데 참 많은 생각이 들게 하는 영상이네요😅 말이 주저리주저리.. 아 그리고 세라님 이제 정말 존경스럽기까지 해요😢 규호님을 존중하고, 규호님 가족을 존중해서 생활하시는 거 너무너무 예뻐요❗
행복한 한 주 되세요💕
Your Vlogs are honestly sooo amazing! I’ve been following you guys for a long time and seriously it gets better and better! You are fun and charismatic! And tbh even in your most “uneventful” day you get my full attention and satisfaction after watching your vid... anyways... Idk if I explained myself well but summarizing: I
Nice... happy lunar new year 💥✨
That's the way it is in the United States for Thanksgiving. All of us women do all of the work. Cleaning before family arrives, cooking and serving the meal and doing all of the cleanup after. 🦃
I used to do all the Thanksgiving dinner, but now I put the guys on side dish duties. At first they needed instructions because they can't cook but now the guys have their speciality side dishes. It makes Thanksgiving so much easier and I'm not in the kitchen all day. Everyone's had a hand with the dinner and things get done fast.
My family just started doing pot luck style. My uncle does the core of the prep and hosting since my Grandma got too old to continue hosting. I agree with the other comments, we have the power to change traditions if we find them unfair. Nothing wrong with getting the guys to pitch in over the holidays.
Holiday syndrome it's really sad/bad thing... I remember how stressed my mom was at Christmas'. But we have changed somethings to better and got a new tradition :)
규호님 세라님도 새해복 많이 받으세요!! 항상 잘 보고있답니당:)
Happy Lunar New Year to you both 🎊😊🎉
So very interesting, thanks for sharing!
That was a great point of view👍
새해복많이 받으시고 ㅎ 영상 뜻깊게 보고갑니다 : )
오...오늘방송 상당히 신기하고 잼나네요. 기획력 좋았습니다 ㅋㅋㅋ 한국의 설명절 문화, 시골집 알아보기 등등
I really like this type of video of you two going outside Seoul to the village countryside and also visiting smaller towns - and of course also family life. I hope I get to experience more inland travel in my future trips to South Korea :) Thank you so much
+Gung Fu Thank you so much! We’d love to travel around more too if we are able. So glad you enjoyed the video :)
Yes, but remember those travels does not have to be far or abroad. Just travel to nearby cities and villages, or walking in different parts of Seoul are my favorite adventures to watch. That is why I am watching your channel :)
Happy lunar day !...beautiful country house... stay warm
+2heartsoneseoul 새해 복 많이 받으세요!🎎🎉🎉🎉🎊😙
Everything looks soo delicious!
In my family we also celebrate Lunar New Year in Vietnam. And yes, women are the main cooks, but men do help too. But then it is getting easier nowadays as we tend to order alot and just cook the basics
음식에 정성이 가득담겨있네요!
Sarah's hair colour is to die for!!! i'm in loveee
Please thank your family for showing your traditions. They are so interesting to watch.
yes! thank you for sharing about hte korean culture!
Notification squad haha
Met you Sarah at the station. Forgot to write a comment. You are so sweet. Sucks I was in such a rush but I was still fangirling on the train to my friends haha.
+Hafsa A S Omg, hi! Haha, it was so nice to meet you-you totally made my day! Sorry if I seemed a bit distracted-I was also in a bit of a rush~!
둘이 같이 아~ 하면서 상쾌한 공기 마실때 넘 귀여워욤 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 보기 좋은 두 분❤️
한국의 이런 문화도 소개 하시니..
영상 참 좋습니다
영상 계속 올려 주세요
Sarah! How did you learn Korean so well?
I love the dishes as well
행복하세요.
We haven't celebrated Seollal or Chuseok for over 20 years or so since moving to Europe. I still remember my mother and all the other women in my family preparing the food for days, sitting on the floor and laughing. The workload was MASSIVE. I just tried to steal some snacks since I was too young for being useful anyway lol.
I'd love to be able to attend a lunar new years event at a korean family as you did
새해 복 만히 받으세요 🙏🙏 건강한 한 해 보내세요
새해 복 많이 받으세요 😍 프로필사진 과자 맛있어보여요 Kettle chips라니 🤤
2hearts1seoul ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 나는 과자매니아이다
저도 제발 한입만ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 아😲
2hearts1seoul ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ ✋✋ i wish i could !! it is very late to be having some 과자 now 😂😂
It doesn't seem a whole lot different than Canadian or American moms at say Thanksgiving or Christmas. They spend a couple days prior, buying all the food, making all the arrangements, and then the entire day preparing food for a meal that might last less than one hour. And then the cleanup.
+Bill Anderson I’ve experienced both sides, and although every family is different, there and are usually far more dishes to be prepared during Lunar New Year and Chuseok compared to Thanksgiving. My parents and brother and I each had our own food prep jobs. In my house, if you don’t help out, you don’t eat. Plus, for the cleanup, most American and Canadian households have dishwashers. They are not so widespread in Korea, especially in older homes, and all those little dishes pile up and take a long time to clean.
The first shot i thought beemo became a giant lol
Ps i love holidays in our country too, cos thats the only time to be with family to meet/travel.
Ps2 i need more Sarah speaking korean! :)
Ps3 the mandu soup looks sooo goood!
Ps4 (sorry if this might sound disrespectful) but does someone get to eat the food for the ancestors? Im curious since we really dont have that kind of ceremony back here.
Thanks and much love again Sarah and Kyuho! ❤️
아버님 목소리 너무 좋으세욥..ㅠ
김지현 인정
동감합니다~!
It’s a beautiful holiday