It’s that deep? My mom always dropped me off in her pjs and I never thought twice about it 😂 she always made sure to look snatched at any school events though 👏
The mother’s priority is to drop of their kids at school so they don’t be late & get their education. There is nothing wrong with dressing up nice or look presentable (bc kids can be embarrassed by the way their parents look) but no one has the right to judge someone by the way the look especially in the morning & not everyone is a morning person lol
All I ask is that you please at least brush your teeth, brush your hair (or throw on a hat, and wash your face lol. Other than that idc what u look like. I personally just wear a T-shirt with shorts or leggings and some slippers. Not all glammed up but at least put together. And I always have sunglasses
Women are revolutionary at coming up with new ways to tear down other women. Here’s a suggestion, if this woman is so offended by the mothers with bad hair and no makeup have a Mary Kay party. Invite them over and show them how to be beauty queens. If you don’t want to do all that, then you could simply mind your business. 🤷🏽♀️ Seriously, either you’re judged for being single, having too much sex, not having enough sex, not having kids, not having more kids, not having a “natural” birth, not losing the baby weight quick enough, not breastfeeding long enough, being a stay at home mom, working outside the home, not being glammed when dropping your kid off at school, and the list goes on and on. It never ends. Just do the best that you possibly can, trying to please these “perfect” people will leave you miserable.
Dude!!!!! Yesss! I copy and shared this with my sister she works with A LOT if women.. I think she should see that its not just her its happening everywhere!!!
L Chanelle why is it that whenever women criticize other women you guys bring up your gender? Criticism will come regardless. Instead of feeling like a victim, maybe reflect on yourself.
Lol yes and I was here for it. Tamera can be so annoying sometimes like she's the 1st mom on earth like plenty of ppl have done what you're doing. And she always speaks like she's the only person who can have a valid opinion whenever the topic is about children like some things you don't have to be a parent to relate to. Anyone who's babysat kids before and had to take them to school can relate. Some kids get that experience as teens being the older sibling and maybe they've taken their younger siblings to school. Like no Tamera you don't have to have kids to be able to understand and have had the experience of taking a kid to school smh. She loves to dismiss their opinions if it's not the same as hers just bc she's the only mom but you don't have to be a parent to have a perspective on certain things, esp this topic. So glad Loni checked her.
Ty'Teana Thomas it’s not dumb...damn how old r u? A lot of women wear make up especially in LA. She was just talking . Learn to listen , continue your education girl
@@ariellewht so obviously youre dumb too. I wear makeup as well. What i said was that makeup doesnt define your beauty and that its not required to be beautiful or presentable. Continue your trolling and superficial attitude on to the next comment boo.
Ty'Teana Thomas you are staying a comment that was never mentioned lil girl. Nobody said make up is defining anybody this whole topic ain’t that serious
Paula Gomez .. I felt like Tamera was very relevant because she was saying she makes sure she looks clean and presentable..Not all done up! And she highlighted that She doesn't do it for other moms, it's done for HER OWN benefit! And like Adrienne also said, a teacher may want to talk to you etc.. Which is true, so at least people should brush their teeth. Morning breath is a No! 😷So Both Loni and Tamera were actually saying the same thing, it's just that because Tamera is the only mom there she was giving a little more detail about how she dresses and cleans up before going out. Explaining how it doesn't have to be over the top. Just basic and Presentable will do. The mom who wrote that did sound judgemental though, but she was right about the morning breath part! Tamera's explanation could be seen as top tips to some viewers who are moms who maybe don't know how to just put on a basic outfit and think they have to be dressed up to the nines. 👍
I just got a tad annoyed at Tamera using the word "very" 3 times before the word "nice," the word "chic" 3 times, the words "active wear" 3 times, and "really cute" over and over...Okay Tamera, we get it. You look cute in your active wear in the morning
Poetic Smith it’s sad because Adrienne and Jeanie both allegedly grew up under normal circumstances and seem to have forgotten. Tamera been rich longer than the others so she don’t remember life before the money lmao
I feel like as long as you are covered up appropriately and not offensive (including hygiene) I don’t care. Sometimes parents work night shift or late hours. They just want to drop their kid or kid(s) off and get back in the bed when they get home. Schools start early. Some as early as 7:45 and sometimes before care for kids as early as 6am. I think jeans and a T-shirt is good enough. Something quick to put on keep it pushing.
Z. Moore Right, my sons school starts at 7:30 on the dot and the carpool takes about 15 minutes to go through. So you really have to be there before. 7:15.
absolutely right... one of my daughter's classmate has a mom wearing spagetti string cami and micro mini skirt in school... that is the worst example kids look up to...
When I drop off my kids they are hopping out of the car literally 5 min. Yes I have my pajamas with some slippers and a beanie. No I won't be getting out of the car. Their will always be judgemental people when they start paying my Bills, I'll consider their opinions. That being said their is a time and a place for everything. Dressed up or down I'm me, don't like what you see close your eyes. 🤷♀️
It really is loni!!!!!! Single moms have to deal with the most. Vs to somebody who have a partner helping when they can’t. Cause single moms don’t have no options but taking care of that child 👶🏽. Stop being so judgmental. PERIOD!
•Shey • Saint• I use ride with a single mom and she had more than one kid. She’d often times get all of us to school on time. And she wore PJs whenever
All the people judging mom's for looking a mess clearly have never had special needs kids. I'm 1 of 7 kids, 3 of whom have special needs. The LAST thing my mom cared about was "looking cute" when dropping her kids off. She just wanted her kids to be on time, fed, clothed, and in one piece. Sometimes that's all a mom has space to do. Don't be so judgemental of other people, simple as that.
I’m that mom! 🙋🏻♀️ EVERYONE should mind their own life. I have 5. Could I get up early and put another outfit on? Yes, but I don’t. Why? Because I don’t want to, because I don’t have to AND because I know I look cute no matter what I’m wearing. ❤️ Seem like you have a good momma that took care of your needs and prioritized you guys. Best wishes to you!
Hikry Minzzy WOW what a classy act you are! Such a smart and relevant argument. ❤️ You must be the pride of your family, and just a joy to have an intelligent debate with.
Tamera’s kids school sounds scary lol like that school where the housewives all have leadership posts in the PTA and have connections to all the soccer teams...so intimidating if you’re a working parent who only has time to drop off your kid
I don’t find that scary because thats exactly what I want. As a housewife, I look forward to meeting other housewives but I’m not yet ready for kids. I feel that lifestyle is dying out and it’s super sad.
Being a housewife is only worth it if your husband is a millionaire if not then you better pray he does not injure himself or get sick and lose his job. Always have a backup plan and get your education in check. If you're going to be a housewife start your own business but don't put all your eggs into your husband. What if he wakes up and leaves you one day? there are so many reasons why that lifestyle is becoming more and more fazed out. It never benefited women in the long run.
Close the car door on the mom. Like Loni said...you never know what someone is going through to get their child up for school. Some parents can suffer from depression and trying to get their life back on track. You never know. That mother or father could have death in the family and struggling to get through the day. Keep an open mind. Who are we to judge someone
Some of us deal with chronic health issues, I often wake up with a migraine and rhumatism, chronic pain and chronic fatigue so it's like trying to get up with someone sitting on your eye lids or being druged out with sleeping pills, but without the pills... fighting my own body just to get up. Gotta start waking up at 5 am alone first to then be able to wake the kids and have them ready to leave the house at 7.
Do what you want, with your body! But in my house WE LOOK PRESENTABLE, before we leave the house! PERIOD! My mother always told me “You never know, who you will run into” “Always be a representation, of your husband, children, and yourself” best believe your children, are watching every single thing.
Thank you!.Dropping your kids off at school in your Pj's is just lazy in my opinion.My Mother and Father were always bathed and dressed in the morning and they had 4 of us and 3 jobs between them.
@@Lilly-ud6qs I so respect that! Mine too.. my mom and Dad had 2--3 jobs and several children but he will never leave the house in sweatpants and she puts on lipstick before the bank or the dollar store. Clean polished nails too.
I don’t get glammed up but I make sure I look presentable. It takes literally one minute to pull on some jeans and ballet flats, and brush your hair into a quick bun.
I love Tam. "I'm representing my son!" Same here! I feel like presentation is important. Robes and bonnets are for the house, period. It doesn't take long to pull yourself together.
That’s what my mom always told me . I never cared how the other mothers looked. What I do remember is my mom always look put together no matter what . She also made sure I always looked great in elementary. My mom always color coordinated and accessories. Not going to lie , I always love it when my friends told me my mom always looked beautiful 🥰 it’s up to each mom because I also now understand as an adult , some parents are single parents or have long shift & word in medical field . I just give props to the moms who make sure their kids look great and fed a good breakfast.❤❤❤
I will show up on my pjs. Hyd? I have multiple kids, only one goes to school, the rest are homeschooled, no sitters, no one to cook their breakfast or clean up after. It’s nobody’s business what I wear! I get ready after all of them are ready for their day and I rather get my much needed extra sleep than worry about my car pool look. Dem moms can kiss my flap behind pjs bottoms. 🤪 The message for my kids is: My mom is confident no matter what she looks like that day. She knows she is beautiful. She knows her value.
We are on the process to adopt her from the foster care system, unfortunately our state doesn’t allow homeschool until adoption is final. 😊 Thank you for not being judgmental! I get that question a lot, most of the time people assume things before searching understanding. ❤️
@@ourhomeiscool of course not its hard enough for mothers already without me adding to it haha. + ohh i see, it's always best to enquire before making assumptions. Best of luck with finalising the adoption❤
Hear! Hear!😂 I'm one of those who dressed how I felt like. some days I was snatched to the gawds other days I couldn't give a pinch of puppy isht! Every woman's story is different every woman has a right to be herself whomever that is. Yes there are general standards of deportment, neatness and tidiness but we don't know every woman's story at every given period in their lives so let's just pause for a moment b4 we commence to judgeing pple! And that btw goes for me too cuz we're all guilty of it at one time or another.
But how is someone going to know you had a rough night? This mom is judging based on what she can do, not what other peoples lives may be based on. This woman may be a stay at home mom and maybe she has the time to get up and get ready. Some parents work at night and they have to rush home to get his/her child to school on time. This mom needs to walk a 0.2 miles in someone else's shoes.
What if the mom just came home from work at 5am such as working the hotel front desk (their open 24 hours) as an example and they only slept for 3 hours. Don’t judge you don’t know their schedule and life. Other moms need to mind their own business not every women is a stay at home mom/wife and has all the time in the world to look glam
jotam J three hours ?? Then I’m going to sleep in my work clothes and waking back up to take the kids to school. With that time frame I won’t even get comfortable to sleep because once I’m in sleeping clothes I’m out! 💤
My mom works from home and STILL made herself look presentable to drop me and my brother off at school whether she was being seen or not. It wasn’t about what other people thought SHE wanted to look clean and collected. Love that woman. Take pride in YOURSELF people damn
Everybody needs to mind their business. You don't know what people are going through. The mother could have just come in from an overnight job and she's just trying to get her kids to school on time. Mind your business.
my husband does drop off in the morning's and I pick up my girls.. we also have to physically go inside the school grounds and stand behind a line. when our child and their teacher's on duty see me, they send my daughter's over. my parents were always put together and taught me to leave the house clean and put together. my hair and teeth must be brushed and clothes must be clean, some days I opt out of doing makeup but I ALWAYS spritz myself with perfume before I leave the house. some parents do it and some don't. I prefer to leave a decent impression.. however I'm not gona hold it against any parent who doesn't do this. perhaps the time they took to get ready is time they prefer to chat with their kids in the car, or are heading back home to rest a little because they had a day off from the chaos of work. Keep your heart clean I think, then we can all get along just fine.
I think you should listen to the comment again. I don’t think she was being judgemental at all. She was saying their is no need to have a full complete face beat to drop of the kids
Shanell Mcdonald you might have a full face on because you have work to attend immediately after the drop off, you may be in last nights dress because it’s the only free night you had all month for yourself, and most importantly you might have it on because you simply want to and there shouldn’t be an issue with that. You have to be fair both ways to those who wear and don’t wear it, I like Adrienne but I don’t agree with her statement
I love Loni so frigging much. Love how she maintains her view despite others, who clearly dont have that type of life experience speak on matters they know diddle squat about!!! Yes Loni! Keep being the voice of reason! X
I with Tamera on this one. Tamera who is the actual mom, who does this every morning. I highly doubt Loni does this every morning and if you aren’t use to it it’s going to be a lot for you. But Tamera does this every morning therefore i’m with her on this one.
🚨Loni always preaching! 🎊 SO MY DAUGHTER IS NOW IN REMISSION FROM CANCER GOES TO SCHOOL NOW & I HAVE A SPECIAL NEEDS BABY WHO LIVES IN & OUT OF HOSPITAL (ME TOO)SO WHEN I DROP OFF MY DAUGHTER I DONT CARE HOW I LOOK AS LONG AS I AM BATHED & GET MY DAUGHTER ON TIME I DONT MIND !! 🎗🎗🎗🎗🙏🏼
Why the hell yall worried about what someone else looks like. They don’t represent you so stop tripping. All this time to be concerned about how others are presenting themselves do something more constructive with that time.
My son is the hardest child to get him up and ready and fed Bc he doesn’t want to go to school EVER it’s a huge fight EVERY SINGLE MORNING thanks for seeing me loni❤️❤️
I wanna look presentable no matter what ! My baby girl is always so proud when she sees me and she’s 9 ... I know she will never care but I care for her
I just notice tension brews up with the ladies when the less experienced one talks on a subject, than the more experienced one. Loni isn’t a Mom, and let’s say Tamera isn’t a single lady dating around, so yes very different perspectives and that’s ok!
On this show the smart one will always be the bad one. But don't EVER judge the dumb ones including their loud ass audience. Sorry not sorry, but this culture dumbs down.
Shopping Beauty They're all getting paid to give their opinion on all the subjects they're presented with. The show is well aware that only one of the women has kids, but they don't expect Tamera to sit there and talk to herself for the entire subject. Tamera keeps trying to invalidate the other women's opinions on topics about kids just because they don't have kids. It's ignorant. There are topics that Tamera knows nothing about, but she gives her opinion like everyone else and I don't see the other co-hosts doing that to her. The last time this happened, that I can remember, she did it to Jeannie and it was also about kids. "you don't have kids, so you can't have an opinion"
As a teacher, we would appreciate that parents at least get dressed, brush their hair and teeth. We have many moms that come in pajama pants with tank tops or crop tops with their breast hanging out with no bra with their hair messy in a bun or not. More times than not, the students of these parents have bed head and have not washed up or brushed their teeth. As a mother of 3, I understand the difficulties but its routine and setting examples at home. There are alarms on phones that can help with setting routines.
💯 Loni! Single mama here, doing it all myself along with having a chronic illness and my baby girl always looks good, cute, fed, and on time ✅ (small town area) and I’m always wearing my pjs and hair in a bun with no makeup on 💁🏼♀️ EVERYONE’S situation is different and no one should mom shame or being judgmental because you never know what someone is going through.
Why does that mom care how the other moms are dressed? I mean as long as they're not dressed inappropriately. I do believe in being presentable whenever you leave out the house but you don't need to get dressed up for the other moms smh that's ridiculous, it's not a fashion show. That mom needs to get a life. It's not even that serious. The world would be a much better place if ppl just learned to mind their business. I would only care about how the child is dressed. Now if the child looks a mess, then we have something to talk about.
I think it’s important to show your kid to be presentable, not like glam but put together. My mom always looked nice when dropping me off and now I can’t leave the house without feeling cute. It’s simple as brushing your have picking a nice outfit and even just putting moisturizer, so I agree with Adrienne
I feel like everywhere you go as a parent you are representing and setting an example for your children. You never know what goodness you can attract when present yourself as someone who cares about themselves. You also never know what can happen each day or who you'll meet. I feel as a mom you should always look your best because it puts you in a better mind frame and makes you feel good.
I'm sorry but if you have never dropped kids off at school you don't know what these moms look like. Some look like they been at the club all night looking like the walk of shame. Then some have on bonnets and slippers. Put on some pants and throw that hair in a bun or pony tail. My kids school had to give parents a note asking to not drop the kids off I pajamas.
Tamera is a magnificent mother in my head. Loni has - clearly - a super valid point, but what Tam normally does for herself and her family is always on point - there is no handbook on how to be a perfect “presenting” mother. SLAY TAM.
Everyone has the right to look how they want but DONT BE SURPRISED! at being judged, because we will. Our kids too. It's not right but unfortunately that's the way it is.
This lady and unsurprisingly her child (who probably got it from her) are both too judgemental and need to mind their own business. For women who might not be dressed for work and just dropping kids off, dressing up is not necessary. If you have to get out of the car, the least you can do is look presentable, depending on the weather, sweats and flip flops or sneakers and maybe a hat would work just fine. What I however do not agree with is the morning breath situation. Whether or not you are getting out of the car has nothing to do with it, when you wake up and especially if you have to leave your house, brush your teeth. Morning breath is not desirable on anyone.
Issa bun and adidas gear. Chyl most of the time I don’t sleep at night I be damned if I show up st the school looking like I’m going to a Real Housewives Reunion
Come on people shouldn't be judgmental AT ALL it's the morning and people are tired. If it's the middle of the day then that's different but not everyone is a morning person.
I am sorry. But I was one of those kids that was picked on because of the dragway my mother look when she took me to school. So kids can be mean and as Tamara said the parents should be representing the child and at least consider what happens after they leave. Don't dress up but at least look decent and in order.
Am I the only one who believed that Tamera's: "let you tell it." meant "trust me I know you know, so imma let you tell it." ?? She is a good friend of Loni's so she knows that Loni knows the struggle of caring for children.
I agree with Loni, some have it rough. What if those parents want to go back to sleep after dropping the kids off, all that getting dressed might interrupt the pause on the sleep..cant do too much.
I don’t care if you brushed your teeth, didn’t put on deodorant, you’re wearing pj’s, your hair looks like it was hit by a tornado, I’m glad you’re being a responsible parent. I’m glad you are doing the best that you can. You never know what struggles or conditions, life circumstances, family issues or illnesses someone is dealing with. Everyone deserves kindness and understanding. Not judgement and criticism. Life is hard enough to get through without us judging each other over completely insignificant issues. ☮️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜☮️ Much love. ☮️ ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 ☮️
I always drop my daughter off on sweats and jacket. But i brush my teeth and atleast fix my hair. I see nothing wrong with it! As its early i have 2 kids girl i dont got time to get ready in the morning
Even in general! Why not put an effort in getting yourself together? At least do the basics, brush your teeth, hair, take a shower if you smell (cause maybe somebody might prefer to take a shower later on that day), but if you do smell take care of that. How you are going to tell you kid "brush your teeth, do this do that" but you can't be an example. At least the basics people.
I agree with the cleanliness part but don't feel like you can go by this woman.....She was obviously exaggerating and being melodramatic when talking about smelling the parent from the car.......she needed exaggeration to justify her vanity.......
I'm with Adrienne! You are setting an example. How you present yourself does matter. You don't have to get all made up but you can at least brush your teeth and hair 😔😔.
Loni Loni Loni.. I am a single mother of 6 six children it’s not about dressing up for the other parents. There is no charge for washing your face. I,ve seen parents drop their kids in every state of mess . Your child is learning from you and if you live the state of your sadness of your life to where kids and their little friends can see it . Trust me sis your child is going hear about from their friends. I was once was homeless for about six months and when I had to show up for the kids I was not glam . I was clean. It can be done. Some ppl need a stink Eye or a word to straighten up. I had talk to a parent once she was a coworker and she said I am not going to school for the other parents.the point is please make your kids comfortable. They take pride in saying that’s my mommy you should do it for your kids.
As long as I got a bra on when I drop my son off then I'm good... I'm going to my son's school not the club... geezus!!!! Loni don't even have kids and she knows what's up.
As long as your child looks nice and clean, that's all that matters. For moms like me with more than 1 child, it is hard enough to get up at 6am, get everyone up, dressed and at the school by 7:20am.
Even though some parents may not care how other parents dress, the staff at the school DEFINITELY do and they will treat your child accordingly! Parents have to understand that they are as much a reflection of their child as their child is a reflection of them.
My mother raised us as a single mom, she worked really hard and having to get us up and get to work on time is a huge challenge. I remember she used to paint her nails in car on her way to work because that’s the only time she had to do it. Great if you have the time and are able to get ready and look great but that is not everyone’s life. People shouldn’t judge what they see on outside. But then that’s the world we live in.
Chic or sleek. She prolly meant sleek with the pulled back bun.. Thats right loni some of us have a tribe to get them up !!!!! Who threw the shade telling Loni "let u tell it" 😒😒
Tam Tam ain’t having it anymore... spicey... “yeah let you tell it “ rolling eyes and everything ...cause you obviously have more to say than me ...” (w/ all the kids of yours)
But she's experienced more than tam because loni has been taking care of children a lot longer than tamera kids have been around that's all she was implying so she does know how hard it is to get kids up and hopefully e everything is put together correctly the night before smooth in the rush time
I agree with Tamera about representing her child because when your child is in Pre-K or kindergarten your you actually have to get out of the car for drop off and pick up. On the other hand we also have to remember thatsome households have two parents so you have a helping hand when getting the children together and yourself in the morning. Unfortunately when it's a one-parent household and especially when there are multiple children you end up putting yourself last to make sure that the children get what they need and arrive on time. As parents we just have to learn to find balance and for some that can be a hard task.
Thanks Loni, when my kids were younger I was always fully dressed when dropping them off, but I do understand it’s very hard as a single parent getting and keeping my kids together, thankfully my babies ( now teens ) have not skipped a beat. There is too much judgement going on.
Aniya Raine she has a nanny when she's at WORK... she only works on this show Monday-Wednesdays... having a nanny doesn't mean you're hardly with your kids... being able to have those 4 days off to spend time with her kids and her family is enough for her to feel complete before going back to work th next week
Can we just appreciate parents that ACTUALLY Take their kids to school and pick them up. Kids where I live are getting on the public bus system. Kids are coming up missing and killed on public transportation......thank you parents for being parents and making sure they are where they should be and get there themselves safely.
Amy K coming from someone who grew up in a poor neighborhood, it’s really nasty to show up looking like a mess. Yeah, some rough days are a thing, but CONSTANTLY?? No
Its 8am, Im not gonna put on makeup to drop of a kid at school. Most of the time I come home n pass out on the couch, so dressing up when Im not leaving the car, not gon happen. I do brush my teeth, wash my face, n put on clothes, but no makeup or fancy heels. Its 8am, whos lookin at me that early anyway.
4:26 Tammy "Sometimes they hang a little low" the audience claps (mostly females) the one guy thats there screams "WOO" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣DKM Love this show to #REAL!
The way I dress to go to work and the way I dress to drop off kids are two different things. My kids are not going to be a failure in life just because I what I wear to drop them off in less than 5 mins.
Also, I agree- it’s important to look clean but I also agree that it’s probably exhausting AF putting yourself and kid (s) together at 6am. And the ones that do get themselves together, good for you! I need some of that energy lol
A good representation isn’t in the clothes- doesn’t mean look like a bum! But more people should worry about the representation of your household when it comes to their behavior that seems to be the lack of focus
It’s that deep? My mom always dropped me off in her pjs and I never thought twice about it 😂 she always made sure to look snatched at any school events though 👏
Daniella Alexandra Me too girl! I’m honestly proud of my pjs. I get to show it off if someone looks inside my van. 😎🤪
Lol snatched is such a funny term to me
Adrienne was talking like a child could be a failure in life because of that lol smh.
Right we know when to do the right thing
We didn’t even have a car like we took the bus and my mom went to work and I walked into school by myself
People waste their mental energy caring about things that are irrelevant...
Stop judging!
So true
Olivia 5757 😂😂
I would make sure when dropping my kids off to school i would want to look presentable cause your appearance is very important
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The mother’s priority is to drop of their kids at school so they don’t be late & get their education. There is nothing wrong with dressing up nice or look presentable (bc kids can be embarrassed by the way their parents look) but no one has the right to judge someone by the way the look especially in the morning & not everyone is a morning person lol
Preach!!
Mariama Sesay I agree. My motto is to always look presentable when leaving the house but by no means do you need to be all glammed up...
All I ask is that you please at least brush your teeth, brush your hair (or throw on a hat, and wash your face lol. Other than that idc what u look like. I personally just wear a T-shirt with shorts or leggings and some slippers. Not all glammed up but at least put together. And I always have sunglasses
On point
Fresh breath put on cap or nice scarf if needed
Women are revolutionary at coming up with new ways to tear down other women. Here’s a suggestion, if this woman is so offended by the mothers with bad hair and no makeup have a Mary Kay party. Invite them over and show them how to be beauty queens. If you don’t want to do all that, then you could simply mind your business. 🤷🏽♀️
Seriously, either you’re judged for being single, having too much sex, not having enough sex, not having kids, not having more kids, not having a “natural” birth, not losing the baby weight quick enough, not breastfeeding long enough, being a stay at home mom, working outside the home, not being glammed when dropping your kid off at school, and the list goes on and on. It never ends. Just do the best that you possibly can, trying to please these “perfect” people will leave you miserable.
Dude!!!!! Yesss! I copy and shared this with my sister she works with A LOT if women.. I think she should see that its not just her its happening everywhere!!!
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Preach it! 🙌🏼
I love your comment!
L Chanelle why is it that whenever women criticize other women you guys bring up your gender? Criticism will come regardless. Instead of feeling like a victim, maybe reflect on yourself.
People need to mind their business!
lilian makori that's what I'm saying sis
Thank ya!!! People need to mind their mf business.
Facts 😭
Im 26 years old my mother does not even see/know wtf was dropping off their kid at school. This is the correct answer to this debate!!
Yes. Like if you want to look nice...look nice if you don’t....don’t 😂😂. Who cares.
My mom dropped me off in Pajamas, dressed up, in her hospital scrubs and I never gave a damn. As long as I was looking good 😂
Dalayna Wallace okay 😂😂😂
Exactly right as long as your mumma had you looking good that's all that matters
facts!!!! i’m that mom! long as my child looks good & she’s on time, that’s all that matters!!😂
For reals I drop of my kids off in pjs and as longest they look good is all that matters
Loool
Drop your kid off and mind your business.
Naomi Jones BLOOP
Right, mk sure their on time & looking presentable. Homework in that bag completed 😉✅
WHO CAUGHT THAT! "I've gotten kids up, sweetie"
Angie Mares after tam says let you tell it
Meeeee!!!! Shocking moment
Right the two big ballers brawling
Yes! People assume that because you are the child-free auntie that you've never interacted with children. I'm glad Loni said that.
Lol yes and I was here for it. Tamera can be so annoying sometimes like she's the 1st mom on earth like plenty of ppl have done what you're doing. And she always speaks like she's the only person who can have a valid opinion whenever the topic is about children like some things you don't have to be a parent to relate to. Anyone who's babysat kids before and had to take them to school can relate. Some kids get that experience as teens being the older sibling and maybe they've taken their younger siblings to school. Like no Tamera you don't have to have kids to be able to understand and have had the experience of taking a kid to school smh. She loves to dismiss their opinions if it's not the same as hers just bc she's the only mom but you don't have to be a parent to have a perspective on certain things, esp this topic. So glad Loni checked her.
The fact that she said 'no makeup' is so dumb. You do not need makeup to be beautiful or presentable.
Ty'Teana Thomas it’s not dumb...damn how old r u? A lot of women wear make up especially in LA. She was just talking . Learn to listen , continue your education girl
@@ariellewht so obviously youre dumb too. I wear makeup as well. What i said was that makeup doesnt define your beauty and that its not required to be beautiful or presentable. Continue your trolling and superficial attitude on to the next comment boo.
Ty'Teana Thomas you are staying a comment that was never mentioned lil girl. Nobody said make up is defining anybody this whole topic ain’t that serious
@@ariellewht Goodnight sis. You clearly bored.
Ty'Teana Thomas She was letting people know how far she goes. It was helpful because most people would assume she would wear makeup.
Loni was the only reasonable one
Triple check
Paula Gomez .. I felt like Tamera was very relevant because she was saying she makes sure she looks clean and presentable..Not all done up! And she highlighted that She doesn't do it for other moms, it's done for HER OWN benefit!
And like Adrienne also said, a teacher may want to talk to you etc.. Which is true, so at least people should brush their teeth. Morning breath is a No! 😷So Both Loni and Tamera were actually saying the same thing, it's just that because Tamera is the only mom there she was giving a little more detail about how she dresses and cleans up before going out. Explaining how it doesn't have to be over the top. Just basic and Presentable will do.
The mom who wrote that did sound judgemental though, but she was right about the morning breath part!
Tamera's explanation could be seen as top tips to some viewers who are moms who maybe don't know how to just put on a basic outfit and think they have to be dressed up to the nines. 👍
True
I just got a tad annoyed at Tamera using the word "very" 3 times before the word "nice," the word "chic" 3 times, the words "active wear" 3 times, and "really cute" over and over...Okay Tamera, we get it. You look cute in your active wear in the morning
hello 10 you had to be prejudicial
The others need a reality check...loni is the only one who can understand average living circumsatnces lol the rest are out of the loop for real ☕
But Loni needs to stop judging, everybody can do what they want, all that pessimism and judging gets on my nerves.
Poetic Smith it’s sad because Adrienne and Jeanie both allegedly grew up under normal circumstances and seem to have forgotten. Tamera been rich longer than the others so she don’t remember life before the money lmao
@@fruitsarelife148 loni wasnt judging!
Poetic Smith you are so right. They pretend to be out of the loop. They don’t understand the real world at all.
Loni doesn’t know anything about consistently getting children up so she should have just deferred to the actual caregiver.
I’m not about to get all dressed up to drop a kid off, I’ll look decent but that’s it 🤷🏾♂️
T Y huh? Who?
I feel like as long as you are covered up appropriately and not offensive (including hygiene) I don’t care. Sometimes parents work night shift or late hours. They just want to drop their kid or kid(s) off and get back in the bed when they get home. Schools start early. Some as early as 7:45 and sometimes before care for kids as early as 6am. I think jeans and a T-shirt is good enough. Something quick to put on keep it pushing.
Z. Moore Right, my sons school starts at 7:30 on the dot and the carpool takes about 15 minutes to go through. So you really have to be there before. 7:15.
Simply Outspoken that’s weird to think that’s disgusting lmao
Simply Outspoken lmao “looking repulsive” you must really hate yourself. As you should. Get a life and a personality.
U just told my story
absolutely right... one of my daughter's classmate has a mom wearing spagetti string cami and micro mini skirt in school... that is the worst example kids look up to...
Today I’m with Loni on this one!
That judgmental bag of pessimism gets on my nerves
Peace 1 which one do you find a pessimist??
Im always with Loni with just about everything
It's not that deep.
lmfaoo
Courtni Lachelle exactly! As long as the kid is there, safe, fed, and happy.
Courtni Lachelle right smh
Courtni Lachelle I’ll be dressed when I pick my children up .... 🤣
It's not
When I drop off my kids they are hopping out of the car literally 5 min. Yes I have my pajamas with some slippers and a beanie. No I won't be getting out of the car. Their will always be judgemental people when they start paying my Bills, I'll consider their opinions. That being said their is a time and a place for everything. Dressed up or down I'm me, don't like what you see close your eyes. 🤷♀️
That's right girl! 👏👏
Exactly
U go girl
😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Veronica Rios --
It really is loni!!!!!! Single moms have to deal with the most. Vs to somebody who have a partner helping when they can’t. Cause single moms don’t have no options but taking care of that child 👶🏽. Stop being so judgmental. PERIOD!
•Shey • Saint• I use ride with a single mom and she had more than one kid. She’d often times get all of us to school on time. And she wore PJs whenever
amanda kenya nobody said there weren’t single dads, stop being a ‘pick me’. The original comment was talking about a personal experience.
@@hikkrzminzzy5946 dont judge. Single moms do it all on their own. Be proud of the job u do single moms!!!
@OutSpoken Maya no excuse. I give alot of credit to single moms and dads. Its very hard doing evetything on their own...they dont get enough credit.
All the people judging mom's for looking a mess clearly have never had special needs kids. I'm 1 of 7 kids, 3 of whom have special needs. The LAST thing my mom cared about was "looking cute" when dropping her kids off. She just wanted her kids to be on time, fed, clothed, and in one piece. Sometimes that's all a mom has space to do. Don't be so judgemental of other people, simple as that.
Aniya Raine 🍪
I’m that mom! 🙋🏻♀️ EVERYONE should mind their own life. I have 5. Could I get up early and put another outfit on? Yes, but I don’t. Why? Because I don’t want to, because I don’t have to AND because I know I look cute no matter what I’m wearing. ❤️ Seem like you have a good momma that took care of your needs and prioritized you guys. Best wishes to you!
@Aniya Raine my god STFU and get off your judgmental high horse!!
Hikry Minzzy WOW what a classy act you are! Such a smart and relevant argument. ❤️ You must be the pride of your family, and just a joy to have an intelligent debate with.
@@hikkrzminzzy5946 sometimes most physical and mental disabilities are genetic you need mental health treatment.
Tamera’s kids school sounds scary lol like that school where the housewives all have leadership posts in the PTA and have connections to all the soccer teams...so intimidating if you’re a working parent who only has time to drop off your kid
I don’t find that scary because thats exactly what I want. As a housewife, I look forward to meeting other housewives but I’m not yet ready for kids. I feel that lifestyle is dying out and it’s super sad.
Rusty Shackleford lol that’s what I was thinking the school sounds a bit high maintenance but as long as their safe and all
I see, but truly she would not impress me, TRYING to impress me😅pathetic rather.
Right lineup doing inspections before and after checkin
Being a housewife is only worth it if your husband is a millionaire if not then you better pray he does not injure himself or get sick and lose his job. Always have a backup plan and get your education in check. If you're going to be a housewife start your own business but don't put all your eggs into your husband. What if he wakes up and leaves you one day? there are so many reasons why that lifestyle is becoming more and more fazed out. It never benefited women in the long run.
Close the car door on the mom. Like Loni said...you never know what someone is going through to get their child up for school. Some parents can suffer from depression and trying to get their life back on track. You never know. That mother or father could have death in the family and struggling to get through the day. Keep an open mind. Who are we to judge someone
Some of us deal with chronic health issues, I often wake up with a migraine and rhumatism, chronic pain and chronic fatigue so it's like trying to get up with someone sitting on your eye lids or being druged out with sleeping pills, but without the pills... fighting my own body just to get up. Gotta start waking up at 5 am alone first to then be able to wake the kids and have them ready to leave the house at 7.
Do what you want, with your body! But in my house WE LOOK PRESENTABLE, before we leave the house! PERIOD! My mother always told me “You never know, who you will run into” “Always be a representation, of your husband, children, and yourself” best believe your children, are watching every single thing.
Thank you!.Dropping your kids off at school in your Pj's is just lazy in my opinion.My Mother and Father were always bathed and dressed in the morning and they had 4 of us and 3 jobs between them.
@@Lilly-ud6qs I so respect that! Mine too.. my mom and Dad had 2--3 jobs and several children but he will never leave the house in sweatpants and she puts on lipstick before the bank or the dollar store. Clean polished nails too.
Absolutely!
I don’t get glammed up but I make sure I look presentable. It takes literally one minute to pull on some jeans and ballet flats, and brush your hair into a quick bun.
Same!👍
Right. People acting like that one minute of preparation on themselves is going to end the world.
Exactly.
*laughs in type 4 natural hair*
+Dee Sa I have type 4 hair too. Put a hat on or put a pretty wrap on.
I love Tam. "I'm representing my son!" Same here! I feel like presentation is important. Robes and bonnets are for the house, period. It doesn't take long to pull yourself together.
That’s what my mom always told me . I never cared how the other mothers looked. What I do remember is my mom always look put together no matter what . She also made sure I always looked great in elementary. My mom always color coordinated and accessories. Not going to lie , I always love it when my friends told me my mom always looked beautiful 🥰 it’s up to each mom because I also now understand as an adult , some parents are single parents or have long shift & word in medical field . I just give props to the moms who make sure their kids look great and fed a good breakfast.❤❤❤
I will show up on my pjs. Hyd? I have multiple kids, only one goes to school, the rest are homeschooled, no sitters, no one to cook their breakfast or clean up after. It’s nobody’s business what I wear! I get ready after all of them are ready for their day and I rather get my much needed extra sleep than worry about my car pool look. Dem moms can kiss my flap behind pjs bottoms. 🤪 The message for my kids is: My mom is confident no matter what she looks like that day. She knows she is beautiful. She knows her value.
Can I ask why one child goes to school and the others homeschooled? Not being judgemental, genuinely curious😊
We are on the process to adopt her from the foster care system, unfortunately our state doesn’t allow homeschool until adoption is final. 😊 Thank you for not being judgmental! I get that question a lot, most of the time people assume things before searching understanding. ❤️
@@ourhomeiscool of course not its hard enough for mothers already without me adding to it haha. + ohh i see, it's always best to enquire before making assumptions. Best of luck with finalising the adoption❤
PREACH IT GIRL!! 👏👏👏
Hear! Hear!😂 I'm one of those who dressed how I felt like. some days I was snatched to the gawds other days I couldn't give a pinch of puppy isht! Every woman's story is different every woman has a right to be herself whomever that is. Yes there are general standards of deportment, neatness and tidiness but we don't know every woman's story at every given period in their lives so let's just pause for a moment b4 we commence to judgeing pple! And that btw goes for me too cuz we're all guilty of it at one time or another.
But how is someone going to know you had a rough night? This mom is judging based on what she can do, not what other peoples lives may be based on. This woman may be a stay at home mom and maybe she has the time to get up and get ready. Some parents work at night and they have to rush home to get his/her child to school on time. This mom needs to walk a 0.2 miles in someone else's shoes.
Right or maybe she has someone helping her and takes the edge off axlittle
What if the mom just came home from work at 5am such as working the hotel front desk (their open 24 hours) as an example and they only slept for 3 hours. Don’t judge you don’t know their schedule and life. Other moms need to mind their own business not every women is a stay at home mom/wife and has all the time in the world to look glam
jotam J three hours ?? Then I’m going to sleep in my work clothes and waking back up to take the kids to school. With that time frame I won’t even get comfortable to sleep because once I’m in sleeping clothes I’m out! 💤
My mom works from home and STILL made herself look presentable to drop me and my brother off at school whether she was being seen or not. It wasn’t about what other people thought SHE wanted to look clean and collected. Love that woman. Take pride in YOURSELF people damn
Exactly.
Everybody needs to mind their business. You don't know what people are going through. The mother could have just come in from an overnight job and she's just trying to get her kids to school on time. Mind your business.
Good for her
WHEN TAMERA SAID... "Sometimes I pop my collar.. sometimes I don't" lmao 😂
my husband does drop off in the morning's and I pick up my girls.. we also have to physically go inside the school grounds and stand behind a line. when our child and their teacher's on duty see me, they send my daughter's over. my parents were always put together and taught me to leave the house clean and put together. my hair and teeth must be brushed and clothes must be clean, some days I opt out of doing makeup but I ALWAYS spritz myself with perfume before I leave the house. some parents do it and some don't. I prefer to leave a decent impression.. however I'm not gona hold it against any parent who doesn't do this. perhaps the time they took to get ready is time they prefer to chat with their kids in the car, or are heading back home to rest a little because they had a day off from the chaos of work. Keep your heart clean I think, then we can all get along just fine.
Adrienne’s comment about some women looking like they’ve been to a nightclub is equally unnecessary.
Anas Grey exactly in the night club mom
I think you should listen to the comment again. I don’t think she was being judgemental at all. She was saying their is no need to have a full complete face beat to drop of the kids
Shanell Mcdonald you might have a full face on because you have work to attend immediately after the drop off, you may be in last nights dress because it’s the only free night you had all month for yourself, and most importantly you might have it on because you simply want to and there shouldn’t be an issue with that.
You have to be fair both ways to those who wear and don’t wear it, I like Adrienne but I don’t agree with her statement
Exactly!! Maybe a mom is in full glam because she's on her way to work. Smh she's annoying!!!!
Right! But look at her Instagram.... Never see her ass with a "fresh face" she always has a ton of makeup.
Are you serious, I'm dropping my kids off in my PJ.
thank you me too
I’m with Tamera! I just want to look good for my kid! This family is nice and neat.
I love Loni so frigging much. Love how she maintains her view despite others, who clearly dont have that type of life experience speak on matters they know diddle squat about!!! Yes Loni! Keep being the voice of reason! X
I was raised that before I get out of the house I look presentable and I put effort in how I look. I follow that rule at all times. ❤️
hlnl56 me too. I remember being punished for wearing t shirts, or not putting earrings on. But makeup was off limits😂😂😂😂
I with Tamera on this one. Tamera who is the actual mom, who does this every morning. I highly doubt Loni does this every morning and if you aren’t use to it it’s going to be a lot for you. But Tamera does this every morning therefore i’m with her on this one.
🚨Loni always preaching! 🎊
SO MY DAUGHTER IS NOW IN REMISSION FROM CANCER GOES TO SCHOOL NOW & I HAVE A SPECIAL NEEDS BABY WHO LIVES IN & OUT OF HOSPITAL (ME TOO)SO WHEN I DROP OFF MY DAUGHTER I DONT CARE HOW I LOOK AS LONG AS I AM BATHED & GET MY DAUGHTER ON TIME I DONT MIND !! 🎗🎗🎗🎗🙏🏼
Why the hell yall worried about what someone else looks like. They don’t represent you so stop tripping. All this time to be concerned about how others are presenting themselves do something more constructive with that time.
What loni said YES
My son is the hardest child to get him up and ready and fed Bc he doesn’t want to go to school EVER it’s a huge fight EVERY SINGLE MORNING thanks for seeing me loni❤️❤️
“Sometimes I pop my collar sometimes I don’t “ lmaoooo 😂
"poor Aiden" Loni makes me die of laughter everytime I watch the show 😂
Loni the voice of reason! 🙌🏼 if my man ain’t complainin I don’t need your input periodt!
Ooooh Tamera you better tell them “Yes I look nice, I look nice but I’m not doing it for that mom boo I’m doing it for myself “👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I wanna look presentable no matter what ! My baby girl is always so proud when she sees me and she’s 9 ... I know she will never care but I care for her
I heard that as well thanm you for being real. 😊
thats cute!!
I just notice tension brews up with the ladies when the less experienced one talks on a subject, than the more experienced one. Loni isn’t a Mom, and let’s say Tamera isn’t a single lady dating around, so yes very different perspectives and that’s ok!
On this show the smart one will always be the bad one. But don't EVER judge the dumb ones including their loud ass audience.
Sorry not sorry, but this culture dumbs down.
Shopping Beauty They're all getting paid to give their opinion on all the subjects they're presented with. The show is well aware that only one of the women has kids, but they don't expect Tamera to sit there and talk to herself for the entire subject. Tamera keeps trying to invalidate the other women's opinions on topics about kids just because they don't have kids. It's ignorant. There are topics that Tamera knows nothing about, but she gives her opinion like everyone else and I don't see the other co-hosts doing that to her. The last time this happened, that I can remember, she did it to Jeannie and it was also about kids. "you don't have kids, so you can't have an opinion"
As a teacher, we would appreciate that parents at least get dressed, brush their hair and teeth. We have many moms that come in pajama pants with tank tops or crop tops with their breast hanging out with no bra with their hair messy in a bun or not. More times than not, the students of these parents have bed head and have not washed up or brushed their teeth. As a mother of 3, I understand the difficulties but its routine and setting examples at home. There are alarms on phones that can help with setting routines.
Tamera is a great mom! I agree that you should dress and look presentable for your kids not others .
💯 Loni! Single mama here, doing it all myself along with having a chronic illness and my baby girl always looks good, cute, fed, and on time ✅ (small town area) and I’m always wearing my pjs and hair in a bun with no makeup on 💁🏼♀️ EVERYONE’S situation is different and no one should mom shame or being judgmental because you never know what someone is going through.
Why does that mom care how the other moms are dressed? I mean as long as they're not dressed inappropriately. I do believe in being presentable whenever you leave out the house but you don't need to get dressed up for the other moms smh that's ridiculous, it's not a fashion show. That mom needs to get a life. It's not even that serious. The world would be a much better place if ppl just learned to mind their business. I would only care about how the child is dressed. Now if the child looks a mess, then we have something to talk about.
Close the car door !!
Angela M 😂😂😂
I think it’s important to show your kid to be presentable, not like glam but put together. My mom always looked nice when dropping me off and now I can’t leave the house without feeling cute. It’s simple as brushing your have picking a nice outfit and even just putting moisturizer, so I agree with Adrienne
I am dying 😂😂😂. That mom went offf. “I think I smell morning breathe from the car 🙄😒” 😂😂😂😂.
Just get your kids to school. Be careful though with the pjs you never know when you may have to get out of the car! Learned that the hard way. Lol
Tamera’s eyeroll said “I felt tried”
I love how Adrienne drops puertorrican words everytime hahaha “tira”
I feel like everywhere you go as a parent you are representing and setting an example for your children. You never know what goodness you can attract when present yourself as someone who cares about themselves. You also never know what can happen each day or who you'll meet. I feel as a mom you should always look your best because it puts you in a better mind frame and makes you feel good.
I'm sorry but if you have never dropped kids off at school you don't know what these moms look like. Some look like they been at the club all night looking like the walk of shame. Then some have on bonnets and slippers. Put on some pants and throw that hair in a bun or pony tail. My kids school had to give parents a note asking to not drop the kids off I pajamas.
Thank you Loni
It's dam hard, mom of 5 here 😊
Tamera is a magnificent mother in my head. Loni has - clearly - a super valid point, but what Tam normally does for herself and her family is always on point - there is no handbook on how to be a perfect “presenting” mother. SLAY TAM.
Idc what I wear...i get both my kids up, feed them breakfast, get their bags packed, get um in the car and take them to school ON TIME!!!
Everyone has the right to look how they want but DONT BE SURPRISED! at being judged, because we will. Our kids too. It's not right but unfortunately that's the way it is.
This lady and unsurprisingly her child (who probably got it from her) are both too judgemental and need to mind their own business. For women who might not be dressed for work and just dropping kids off, dressing up is not necessary. If you have to get out of the car, the least you can do is look presentable, depending on the weather, sweats and flip flops or sneakers and maybe a hat would work just fine.
What I however do not agree with is the morning breath situation. Whether or not you are getting out of the car has nothing to do with it, when you wake up and especially if you have to leave your house, brush your teeth. Morning breath is not desirable on anyone.
Issa bun and adidas gear. Chyl most of the time I don’t sleep at night I be damned if I show up st the school looking like I’m going to a Real Housewives Reunion
Come on people shouldn't be judgmental AT ALL it's the morning and people are tired. If it's the middle of the day then that's different but not everyone is a morning person.
*Life Rules 101* : why are women dressing up for men, and women. What the heck happened to dressing up for yourself? 😮🌏
I am sorry. But I was one of those kids that was picked on because of the dragway my mother look when she took me to school. So kids can be mean and as Tamara said the parents should be representing the child and at least consider what happens after they leave. Don't dress up but at least look decent and in order.
Am I the only one who believed that Tamera's: "let you tell it." meant "trust me I know you know, so imma let you tell it." ?? She is a good friend of Loni's so she knows that Loni knows the struggle of caring for children.
this show couldn't be called "the Real" if it wasn't for Loni and Jeannie
Tamera's face: "I feel personally attacked"
😂
You jealous?
You can tell Loni was extra annoyed with Tamera, and seems there’s more tension brewing, I wonder is Tamera the one getting paid the most 🤔💅🏽
Jillian Buntin lmaoo yess it was “reported” that tam is the most paid then loni the 2nd most paid then Jennie and ade
Yes she is
Could be seems tamera is back to herself again been noticing she works the camera again
No everybody is just jealous of Tamera.
I agree with Loni, some have it rough. What if those parents want to go back to sleep after dropping the kids off, all that getting dressed might interrupt the pause on the sleep..cant do too much.
I don’t care if you brushed your teeth, didn’t put on deodorant, you’re wearing pj’s, your hair looks like it was hit by a tornado, I’m glad you’re being a responsible parent. I’m glad you are doing the best that you can. You never know what struggles or conditions, life circumstances, family issues or illnesses someone is dealing with. Everyone deserves kindness and understanding. Not judgement and criticism. Life is hard enough to get through without us judging each other over completely insignificant issues.
☮️❤️🧡💛💚💙💜☮️
Much love.
☮️ ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 ☮️
I always drop my daughter off on sweats and jacket. But i brush my teeth and atleast fix my hair. I see nothing wrong with it! As its early i have 2 kids girl i dont got time to get ready in the morning
Even in general! Why not put an effort in getting yourself together? At least do the basics, brush your teeth, hair, take a shower if you smell (cause maybe somebody might prefer to take a shower later on that day), but if you do smell take care of that. How you are going to tell you kid "brush your teeth, do this do that" but you can't be an example. At least the basics people.
I agree with the cleanliness part but don't feel like you can go by this woman.....She was obviously exaggerating and being melodramatic when talking about smelling the parent from the car.......she needed exaggeration to justify her vanity.......
trinigrl09 absolutely she was being really spiteful.
Lol I loved Tam’s eye roll in the beginning
I'm with Adrienne! You are setting an example. How you present yourself does matter. You don't have to get all made up but you can at least brush your teeth and hair 😔😔.
Loni Loni Loni.. I am a single mother of 6 six children it’s not about dressing up for the other parents. There is no charge for washing your face. I,ve seen parents drop their kids in every state of mess . Your child is learning from you and if you live the state of your sadness of your life to where kids and their little friends can see it . Trust me sis your child is going hear about from their friends. I was once was homeless for about six months and when I had to show up for the kids I was not glam . I was clean. It can be done. Some ppl need a stink Eye or a word to straighten up. I had talk to a parent once she was a coworker and she said I am not going to school for the other parents.the point is please make your kids comfortable. They take pride in saying that’s my mommy you should do it for your kids.
As long as I got a bra on when I drop my son off then I'm good... I'm going to my son's school not the club... geezus!!!! Loni don't even have kids and she knows what's up.
Loni's "poor Aiden" at the end had me dead 😂😂😂
Tamera’s face is perfect for the scenario😒💀🤣💕
As long as your child looks nice and clean, that's all that matters. For moms like me with more than 1 child, it is hard enough to get up at 6am, get everyone up, dressed and at the school by 7:20am.
Don't embarrass your kids ...put something together for your kids
Even though some parents may not care how other parents dress, the staff at the school DEFINITELY do and they will treat your child accordingly! Parents have to understand that they are as much a reflection of their child as their child is a reflection of them.
My mother raised us as a single mom, she worked really hard and having to get us up and get to work on time is a huge challenge. I remember she used to paint her nails in car on her way to work because that’s the only time she had to do it.
Great if you have the time and are able to get ready and look great but that is not everyone’s life. People shouldn’t judge what they see on outside. But then that’s the world we live in.
Chic or sleek. She prolly meant sleek with the pulled back bun.. Thats right loni some of us have a tribe to get them up !!!!! Who threw the shade telling Loni "let u tell it" 😒😒
Angela M Tamera meant chic* :)
@@honh4859 oh man ! Oops thank u!!! 😊😊😊 what was i thinking 😂😂
Angela M haha no worries girl 😂
Right let me look again
Tam Tam ain’t having it anymore... spicey... “yeah let you tell it “ rolling eyes and everything ...cause you obviously have more to say than me ...” (w/ all the kids of yours)
But she's experienced more than tam because loni has been taking care of children a lot longer than tamera kids have been around that's all she was implying so she does know how hard it is to get kids up and hopefully e everything is put together correctly the night before smooth in the rush time
anne Vaughn yeah but Loni isn’t a mother , Tam was trying to say that she want to represent her children ...
I agree with Tamera about representing her child because when your child is in Pre-K or kindergarten your you actually have to get out of the car for drop off and pick up. On the other hand we also have to remember thatsome households have two parents so you have a helping hand when getting the children together and yourself in the morning. Unfortunately when it's a one-parent household and especially when there are multiple children you end up putting yourself last to make sure that the children get what they need and arrive on time. As parents we just have to learn to find balance and for some that can be a hard task.
Thanks Loni, when my kids were younger I was always fully dressed when dropping them off, but I do understand it’s very hard as a single parent getting and keeping my kids together, thankfully my babies ( now teens ) have not skipped a beat. There is too much judgement going on.
tamera is sounding extra pretentious today😒 girl hush
How so? Girl bye fake ass fan
Shut up, y'all don't want to be judged but are aggressive hypocrites.
Hush.
@@@tiffanykim2773 look up the word pretentious, replay the video.. And CHECK YOURSELF!
@@@fruitsarelife148 Pardon me dear, but this is a comment section. There is nothing hypocritical going on, I'm stating what I see
I honestly don't see how she in the wrong .... Do she not have the right to wanna dress nice for when she meets with her kid teacher's?
Tamera you only got 2 calm down there are Mothers out there who have more 🙄
Let her express her damn self, what a pessimistic audience is this, always complaining complaining complaining.
@@fruitsarelife148 Tamera, is that you?!!! Girl byeee! Lol!
Aniya Raine she has a nanny when she's at WORK... she only works on this show Monday-Wednesdays... having a nanny doesn't mean you're hardly with your kids... being able to have those 4 days off to spend time with her kids and her family is enough for her to feel complete before going back to work th next week
I don’t even know how people have two. One is already a handful.
Preach Loni Preach! She knows and doesn't even have kids, smart smart woman!
Can we just appreciate parents that ACTUALLY Take their kids to school and pick them up. Kids where I live are getting on the public bus system. Kids are coming up missing and killed on public transportation......thank you parents for being parents and making sure they are where they should be and get there themselves safely.
They need another Mom on the panel!!! As a mother of 2 I agree with Tamera and Adrienne! LONI 😑
We don’t need another mother on the panel if she’s going to be as condescending as Tamera 🙄
Loni was just trying to represent the lives of normal ppl
Amy K coming from someone who grew up in a poor neighborhood, it’s really nasty to show up looking like a mess. Yeah, some rough days are a thing, but CONSTANTLY?? No
Some people clearly have nothing better to do than stick their noses in other people's business.
Its 8am, Im not gonna put on makeup to drop of a kid at school. Most of the time I come home n pass out on the couch, so dressing up when Im not leaving the car, not gon happen.
I do brush my teeth, wash my face, n put on clothes, but no makeup or fancy heels. Its 8am, whos lookin at me that early anyway.
4:26 Tammy "Sometimes they hang a little low" the audience claps (mostly females) the one guy thats there screams "WOO" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣DKM Love this show to #REAL!
The way I dress to go to work and the way I dress to drop off kids are two different things. My kids are not going to be a failure in life just because I what I wear to drop them off in less than 5 mins.
Why is there such an onus on women to look cute? Maybe I don't care about looks.
Also, I agree- it’s important to look clean but I also agree that it’s probably exhausting AF putting yourself and kid (s) together at 6am. And the ones that do get themselves together, good for you! I need some of that energy lol
A good representation isn’t in the clothes- doesn’t mean look like a bum! But more people should worry about the representation of your household when it comes to their behavior that seems to be the lack of focus