Remember, if you ever change your mind again, there's no shame in that. Just reach out to your friends whenever you want to reconnect and/or do another video.
Matt thank you so much for being you and writing Talk to Strangers. I finished the book within three days (first book I've finished all year) and honestly, it was life changing. I struggled with depression over the past 2 years after almost losing everything and thought I had lost my childlike wonder. However, this book made me realize that it’s been inside me all this time. It’s just dormant. And because of that, within the past 3 days of reading this book, I’ve awakened my inner child. Feeling E V E R Y T H I N G I’ve been suppressing over the past few years, from loss and grief to newfound freedom and hope. The colors are slowly coming back again. Thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish you the best on this part of your journey [and hope you sleep / rest LOTS!]. I know you're going to kill it.
I haven’t watched yes theory since you left. I started watching again when you came back for your farewell. It’s just not the same without you Matt. Best wishes on your future and thank you for everything.
Matt! Upperclassman of yours from GHS. You’ve been a huge inspiration to myself and millions of people all over the world. We will miss you big time, but we’re glad to see you pumped for the next chapter of your life. I hope I can get my high school yearbook signed by you someday. You changed my life for the better. Thank you
I'm still in denial 😢 hopefully we can keep seeing your journey, but I can only imagine how essential it is to keep it private. Much love and respect and all the best for you ✨
That ladybug story is again one of those examples why you will be so missed. So lucky to have stumbled upon your channel years ago, and so grateful for what you've evolved into, I have felt so inspired by all of those podcasts, talks - sounds cliche but it just is that way. I appreciated your thoughtful yet joyful being on here. Thank you. So much. Ugh, not ready yet 😢 Enjoy the beautiful flight through life, Matt.
Within the first 10 minutes I am crying. I feel like I have grown as a person watching you and your crew grow in age and in wisdom. You have made a difference. I have changed the way I interact with the world because of what you’ve done. I hope I can make a fraction of the impact on others as you have. Thank you.
I met you 5 years ago for a Yes Theory video in LA, and I'll always remember the light and energy you radiated that day. I know you'll take that wherever you go, and pour that light into whatever you do next. Fly high, Matty!
I realised it’s completely silent and it’s just your voice (no music), and I’m absolutely gutted. Matt you have a gift, I’m so grateful for the way you articulate everything. You know, I don’t know what it is, but every time I watch a yes theory video there’s always something in it that makes me cry. And I realised it’s not the music or the editing, it’s just the honesty you guys live life with. I’ve said quick goodbyes too, and you’re right, it’s a lot more important to celebrate your friends and life before moving on. Thank you Matt!
I am sitting on a plane currently and reading the book Talking to strangers. I’ve never cried and laughed so much. You all are phenomenal I truly hope you guys never ever stop what you are doing and also be kind to yourselves to not burn out too much. The world needs people like you guys. I’ve learned so much from you all. I only wish to meet you all one day. I bought 4 tshirts just to support your project ❤️ You are all the most special human beings I’ve virtually met. You bring a lot of happiness, fulfillment, validation and belongingness to a random girl like me. Your story makes me be different, louder, shake this world up for the better. Ema Dallas
What you have achieved in your life is never lost. I left Australia on a ship as a 21 year old on my own and immigranted to Canada. Ship pulled into New york and I stay 1 month in Philidelphia and then greyhound bus to Toronto Canada as a mothercraft nurse. Eventually met my husband and then had 2 girls on Vancouver Island. Eventually returned to Australia 13 years later. Never regreted anything. Done a little more travelling since but in my youth was fantastic. I live with no regrets. Enjoy the next chapter of your life as I did. You have so many memories
Yes you have no idear how beautifull you are all you guys are you have taught me so much i have never watched a more video of you and all your precious mates i have never witness so much love and passion i am from Australia and i appreciate each and every one of you i cannot wait to read your book God Bless you and all your beautifull friends i cannot stop the tears
4 views and I'm already here. I can't believe this is the last episode. I don't know what to feel, but everything comes from a place of love. Along the years I'm been able to learn so much from you Matt. I grew up with you. I was able to face so many things in my life because I had someone like you talking to me on youtube, or reaching me out via email. I cant express properly all my gratitude. I feel so blessed and honored by meeting someone like you. I want to say thank you. From the bottom of my heart. So many things to remember while I'm listening to you, but at the end it all leads me to a thank you phrase. You changed my life in ways I will never be close enough to explain. I will probably write another commer when I finish this episode.
I loved the book Matt, it really resonated with me. I hope you see this message because I found it was important for me: try not to put so much pressure on yourself! Even putting pressure on yourself to heal. Take it easy buddy, lots of love xxx
I'm about to move out of an apartment I can no longer afford and I've been very upset about saying this goodbye. Watching this video made me realize just how many different kinds of goodbyes we make in our life--and how we can take beautiful lessons out of these goodbyes. Thank you, Matt
Matt, I want to thank you for everything you’ve done with/for Yes Theory. I’ve learned a lot from you over the years and for that, I can’t thank you enough. I wish you the best with your future adventures and hope that maybe, just maybe, we can all see you again!!
Thanks for everything Matt. Your storytelling and adventures inspired myself and my children. I wish you the best in all your future endeavors and I hope to hear from you soon. You’ve made a difference in the world. And it is a much better place because of you.
Still listening but I just wanted to say I think it’s great you’re in awe of yourself… you should be; you deserve it! So proud of you! You are inspiring. ❤
Matt, I have so appreciated this series of podcasts. Your vulnerability, the look behind the scenes, your sharing of so many difficult experiences and stories... it's all been so moving and inspiring. I am so proud of who you've become, of what you've created in your book, and the atmosphere you've created in these podcast episodes. I'm proud of your work to say goodbye to so many people that are important to you, and so publicly, and to heal friendships with others and yourself. There are so many beautiful illustrations you've shared with us, from the ladybug to your own experience. I can't wait to read your book. I hope you are able to rest now... and celebrate. I wish you the most beautiful year ahead and can't wait to see what the future holds for you.
I needed to hear this for my current life season... Thank you for your vulnerability and for saying goodbye to us. I'll miss you on my screen but hope for the best for you on your next season's journey!
Matt no words can describe how incredible you are. Thank you for sharing your story, experiences, travels, and authentic self. As you go onto your next chapter of your life. Thank you for inspiring me to keep pushing myself to go after my own dreams. Love you brother, congratulations on your book and your success. 🎉❤
I wish you all the best in whatever comes your way, Matt. I'm sure there are plenty more equally wonderful adventures on the horizon. On a side note, lately my apartment has been swarming with ladybugs. This has never happened to me before in my life, and the other day I googled it and apparently this happens during the change in seasons as they're looking for somewhere to stay warm. But I read this is supposed to happen at the very latest by November, except here we are mid-December, and the ladybugs haven't died off and are still swarming my apartment. It feels like such a weird coincidence that now you're talking about this ladybug story as a symbol of resilience and letting go. Thank you for all of your incredible insights and for sharing your journey ❤🐞
Finally caught up with the podcast and just watched this episode. My book came from amazon today and I can't wait to read it. I found yes theory from watching your first goodbye video almost 3 years ago when you were going to take time off to write the book. I then went back and binged the entire channel you had up to that point and it was life changing and inspiring. It gave me the courage to get a job in a new city for a summer across the country and experience something completely different. Had I not had that experience I would have always wondered "what if" Always come back to Yes Theory for inspiration and witnessing your goodbye journey has made me remember why I loved this channel in the first place. Thanks for your vulnerability and dedication to this for the last 8 years. We will miss you but can't wait to see what you do next!!! :-)
You moved my soul in the way you can not imagine, thank you Matt for everything. Thank you for your story and showing me that change is good and necessary. May we all find our ladybug 🍀
I have a very similar story to Matt but my experience was totally different. When I was seven my family and I moved from china to Canada. I didn’t speak a word of English. Sure it was hard in the beginning but I never felt like I had any lasting trauma or scars from that. I love my life and my friends, never felt like I missed a goodbye or something. At that age honestly, you barely even remember anything. So while I admire Matt’s honesty, I cannot relate at all when he talks about all this trauma, when he left France at the same age as me AND already had an American father. I think he is a very highly emotional and sensitive person. And we each process things in our own ways. It’s good to be introspective, but I do believe there is such a thing as overthinking and dwelling.
This episode really touched my heart ♥ I just picked up the book yesterday and I can't wait for the start of the weekend to finally read it. Hearing you explain how you moved when you were young, being torn from one surrounding to the other just resonated so much with me because I've lived through something really similar. Can't wait to dive into your written story! ✨
You were my introduction to Yes Theory. You befriended a chronically ill man and touched his life and thus touched mine. Thank you. I'll miss you but mostly I'll always appreciate you.
Thanks for everything Matt, because of your Ironman video , I run my first marathon this year. I pushed beyond my comfort zone and listened to your message ❤
Oh Matt, this was so beautiful. You speak so eloquently and you absolutely should allow yourself to be in awe of everything you have done. I can only imagine that your next chapter will be full of adventures and stories to fill another book with (or at the least a whole lot of newsletters). I just finished reading the book within 24 hours of receiving it and came straight to this video after finishing the book. I expected it to be more of a behind the scenes look at you and your friend’s lives while creating Yes Theory, but it was so much more: it was a book of life advice, lessons, love, and examples of how to be a supportive person to others. I only started following Yes Theory two years ago, after I had already traveled solo to 54 countries, lived in 2 foreign countries, and stepped out of my comfort zone more times than imaginable. For me, stepping out of my comfort zone and talking to strangers has never been an issue for me. But maintaining close friendships is much harder. But seeing what you and your friends built is something so special and I’m so glad it exists for people like me (who funnily enough went to high school in the town over from you around the same time and even may have crossed paths with you many years ago in CT) but didn’t find this gem until there was already a huge back catalog of stories for us to devour. Also, not to get too personal but as a woman who has been mistreated by many, many men I have completely lost faith in there being kind, not scary men out there. Buuut seeing you guys being sensitive, aware of your emotions and even being able to talk about them openly and cry gives me just a tiny sliver of hope that one day I won’t constantly be terrified of being around men. Thank you for sharing yourself and opening up to the world. I hope to bump into you one day in the wild and get the chance to know you. Until then, I am greatly looking forward to hearing about your future life adventures. ❤
Thank you so much for being you man. You inspired me and gave me so much hope in my healing and growth . To continue to pushing forward and being hopeful and grateful for whats ahead . Thank you for everything
Matt, I grew up watching Yes Theory, it changed my life❤ Thank you! You’re flying forward into the future. I know you have to do what’s best for you. This is a new chapter in your life🌱
Thank you, Matt, for everything. Though we have never met in person, you and the boys inspired, helped and changed me, and I can't thank you all enough. I am still waiting for my pre-order and can't wait to read it. Wishing you all the best in everything you do!❤
Matt, I've been there since the very beginning. While it's sad to watch you go, watching you properly say goodbye-not only for us, but for yourself was truly so beautiful to watch. We all love you. We are all supporting you. Thank you Matt- for everything- for making all our lives better.
Like others, I stopped watching yes theory when u left and started watching it when you came back. I am going through a time in my life rn where I am also healing from trauma and I really resonate with your story. It makes me feel not alone, that others are healing, and it will be worth it all in the end. It also is awesome to see a man sharing his story and being vulnerable about his feelings. The impact you have is incredible and really does create a cascading effect. I genuinely relate to your story on healing and admire the work you put into showing up for yourself.
So much love Matt, can't wait to see what you do. I read the book for the first time, and it's like I fell in love with Yes Theory again. I really appreciate you and everything you have done with this community, very proud of you and this chapter, I wish you nothing but the best and happy wishes in your upcoming chapter! 🤟
I couldn't watch that video in one time, i cried almost every time i've watched it over 4 days. I hope, really hope you spend your next life living the best way you will ❤️ Helped me so much over the last 7 years. I am really greatful Matt. Thank you.
To Matt, thank you for sharing your journey writing your book, and your time at Yes Theory. This was a really heartfelt story, that no doubt sent me to tears. I am thankful you were a part of the Yes Theory team, and I wish you all the best for the future. After hearing all of this, it has made me want to read the book that you have released.
I understand your journey and I do have selfish moments where I wish this wasn't real. I respect your why and wish you the Best luck and thank you as well. This group of people have helped me on my journey and I thank you all. Much ❤️ and I pray you do ALL that you need.
Your official departure from Yes Theory is super sad but hella inspiring. I can’t imagine the courage, self-reflection, honesty & self-love it takes to leave. Best wishes and looking forward to reading the book.
Matt, beyond thankful for you. Been watching you guys since before you asked strangers to skinny dip. My career has to do with talking to strangers daily uninvited. And I don’t think I would have ever had the courage to do that without y’all. Come back whenever you please
Matt, I thank you for everything you have done so far - & thank you for sharing your story, for letting us getting to know you and to see you during all these years. And I thank you for these podcasts - thank you for your vulnerability, wisdom and openness. I am so proud of you. I got an update on my pre-order of the book and I can't wait to read it, again thank you. I am excited for this new chapter in your life and I hope it will be filled with everything you could ever hope for. Wish nothing but happiness for you. Best of luck in the future, Matt. I hope to see you again, in some kind of way. Take care of yourself make sure you give yourself the rest you deserve!
Boy, I'm a mother. You REALLY GOT IT!! I feel proud of you as if you are my own. How can anyone really love others if you cannot love and value and congratulate your self? Good-byes are only a doorway to a new phase. Memories are treasured building blocks of the miracle called YOU. Go CELEBRATE your life, you are PERFECT as you are.
Only love here man ❤, i can't wait to read the book. It was really inspiring to meet you and your friends, i will follow what is next for you and maybe we will meet someday . THANK YOU
I am so proud of you and so excited for the blank page you’re about to enter. All the love, all the best and thank you for staying (or becoming?) true to yourself! You’ve been a blessing to this community! ❤
Happy for you Matt! Gonna miss seeing you but I understand. You deserve happiness, the same happiness you’ve been able to consistently give this community.
You and Omar are my real-life heroes. thank you so much for being part of my life and also thank you so much for giving every one of us the power of not giving up. Hope to see you in some part of the world and have a quick chat. For now have a good one :)
Matt, your courage and perseverance are deeply inspiring. I look forward to your newsletter popping into my inbox. I hope to see you appear in Yes Theory videos. No matter how few and far between these are, I know your open heart and mind will bring good things to your life. I wish you so much joy and love.
Loved every podcast and I cannot wait to read the book Matt! We would welcome you back in a HEARTBEAT if you ever want to come back ❤ much love from Australia
We will miss you tremendously but wish you all the best in your future endeavors. Can't wait to read your future books. Here's to hoping to see you in future videos (maybe,hopefully, fingers crossed). Love youuu
So proud of you Matt!🐞 You as well were born to be great and pursue greatness. Although you will be very missed, I’m looking forward to hearing about your next chapter 💕
Wish you all the best Matt for the rest of your journey with your ladybug! I am happy to see that you got closure and serenity with the end of this chapter of your life. Rituals are important in mourning. Endings are just new beginnings ❤. Le meilleur reste à venir Matt! Waiting to receive my preordered book!
I can’t wait to read the book. Matt, we all love you and what you’ve done with this community. Enjoy your next chapter and know we will always cheer for your growth and happiness. We’ll be here to support you and share it with you whenever you need us.
We love you Matt no matter wat you do where you are ❤Wishing you all the success and happiness in life ✨️Do come sometimes on youtube to surprise us we would love to see you time n again 💜 also Thank you for being huge inspiration 🏁
I'm so excited for this next journey in your life. You may not know what it is at this point in time, but it will be amazing. Good luck in your endeavors 😄
Matt, I've been wathcing yes theory for so long, that it literally feels like im losing a family memeber in one way or another... I'll miss you so much, but im also so proud of you and cant wait to read what you'll do next. Sending u lots of love and support
I’m gonna miss you Matt. Thanks for being a core member of yes theory and help set up the foundation for this beautiful thing you 4 created. All the videos you’ve participated in will be cherished by all the yes fam. I wish you luck on your future endeavors!
Hi matt! I just wanted to tell you that I loved the book and all the podcast. They were so intresting for someone that has followed you guys since they were a kid. I couldn’t review the book because Amazon guidlines but for me it was 5/5.
Just finished the book, and wow. I started this thinking I was just reading a book on a group of guys I love and have been watching for years. Now, I honestly have no words to the healing this brought to me. I too am closing a huge chapter in my life, something I thought would be my forever passion. In addition I just turned 30, and was feeling anxious about starting over. This book…wow was so timely for me. It helped me feel less alone with where I’m at. Thank you Matt. This felt like a conversation with a friend I have known for 6 years. Wishing you all the best. ⚡️🤍
Loved the podcast. Thank you for everything Matt, you are so inspiring and the book is amazing! Hope you get some much needed rest and much love from Singapore!
I would never call celebrating yourself arrogant. From my POV as a person who formerly suffered from depression that stemmed from my social anxiety, I was finally able to reach a point in my life several years ago to actually utter the words: I love myself. That revelation allowed me to take pride in my achievements and talents and also recognize that I'm pretty damn awesome. At no point have I interpreted these beliefs as arrogant. Nor should you, Matt. So celebrate yourself everyday--every moment even--because you are amazing and have so much more to show this world, and yourself, what your made of! Congrats on the book BTW. I just started reading it and it's very damn good!
I believe you went through this journey of letting go and transformation on the behalf of anyone in the yes theory community and beyond who needs to go through anything remotely similar. Thanks for staying true to yourself and taking us with you on your journey of to your truth. Loved watching you in the videos and I share your quest for truth and wanting to truly listen to and act according to what feels right to you. All the best to you ❤
I cannot believe I randomly discovered Yes Theory a few months ago but it feels like I’ve been watching you guys since day one, genuinely so sad to see you leave Matt but wishing you all the best in your future endeavours x
Thanks for being you Matt and being a light in adark place . You where my role model during the pandemic lowkey 😂 . I finally decided to follow my heart and seek discomfort and am disconnecting from social media's and swiping my phone. I'm starting over at 27 and leaving most technology and addiction behind. God bless you. I will buy a book as soon as I'm stable. That's a book I can pass down
Remember, if you ever change your mind again, there's no shame in that. Just reach out to your friends whenever you want to reconnect and/or do another video.
agree.
Omg my dream house a tree house..would love that..❤
^^ this right here!
Matt thank you so much for being you and writing Talk to Strangers. I finished the book within three days (first book I've finished all year) and honestly, it was life changing. I struggled with depression over the past 2 years after almost losing everything and thought I had lost my childlike wonder. However, this book made me realize that it’s been inside me all this time. It’s just dormant.
And because of that, within the past 3 days of reading this book, I’ve awakened my inner child. Feeling E V E R Y T H I N G I’ve been suppressing over the past few years, from loss and grief to newfound freedom and hope.
The colors are slowly coming back again.
Thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart. I wish you the best on this part of your journey [and hope you sleep / rest LOTS!]. I know you're going to kill it.
I haven’t watched yes theory since you left. I started watching again when you came back for your farewell. It’s just not the same without you Matt. Best wishes on your future and thank you for everything.
Matt! Upperclassman of yours from GHS. You’ve been a huge inspiration to myself and millions of people all over the world. We will miss you big time, but we’re glad to see you pumped for the next chapter of your life.
I hope I can get my high school yearbook signed by you someday. You changed my life for the better. Thank you
I'm still in denial 😢 hopefully we can keep seeing your journey, but I can only imagine how essential it is to keep it private. Much love and respect and all the best for you ✨
That ladybug story is again one of those examples why you will be so missed. So lucky to have stumbled upon your channel years ago, and so grateful for what you've evolved into, I have felt so inspired by all of those podcasts, talks - sounds cliche but it just is that way. I appreciated your thoughtful yet joyful being on here. Thank you. So much. Ugh, not ready yet 😢 Enjoy the beautiful flight through life, Matt.
Within the first 10 minutes I am crying.
I feel like I have grown as a person watching you and your crew grow in age and in wisdom.
You have made a difference.
I have changed the way I interact with the world because of what you’ve done.
I hope I can make a fraction of the impact on others as you have.
Thank you.
SAME SAME SAME
Relate to this man so much I did my first triathlon and marathon because of you. Thanks for everything you do man
I met you 5 years ago for a Yes Theory video in LA, and I'll always remember the light and energy you radiated that day. I know you'll take that wherever you go, and pour that light into whatever you do next. Fly high, Matty!
I realised it’s completely silent and it’s just your voice (no music), and I’m absolutely gutted. Matt you have a gift, I’m so grateful for the way you articulate everything. You know, I don’t know what it is, but every time I watch a yes theory video there’s always something in it that makes me cry. And I realised it’s not the music or the editing, it’s just the honesty you guys live life with. I’ve said quick goodbyes too, and you’re right, it’s a lot more important to celebrate your friends and life before moving on. Thank you Matt!
I am sitting on a plane currently and reading the book Talking to strangers.
I’ve never cried and laughed so much.
You all are phenomenal
I truly hope you guys never ever stop what you are doing and also be kind to yourselves to not burn out too much. The world needs people like you guys.
I’ve learned so much from you all.
I only wish to meet you all one day.
I bought 4 tshirts just to support your project ❤️
You are all the most special human beings I’ve virtually met. You bring a lot of happiness, fulfillment, validation and belongingness to a random girl like me.
Your story makes me be different, louder, shake this world up for the better.
Ema Dallas
What you have achieved in your life is never lost. I left Australia on a ship as a 21 year old on my own and immigranted to Canada. Ship pulled into New york and I stay 1 month in Philidelphia and then greyhound bus to Toronto Canada as a mothercraft nurse. Eventually met my husband and then had 2 girls on Vancouver Island. Eventually returned to Australia 13 years later. Never regreted anything. Done a little more travelling since but in my youth was fantastic. I live with no regrets. Enjoy the next chapter of your life as I did. You have so many memories
Yes you have no idear how beautifull you are all you guys are you have taught me so much i have never watched a more video of you and all your precious mates i have never witness so much love and passion i am from Australia and i appreciate each and every one of you i cannot wait to read your book God Bless you and all your beautifull friends i cannot stop the tears
Omg i m watching this episode, crying, smiling, so many emotions. The way you described saying goodbye is so helpful. Thank you for that
Dear Matt. From the bottom of my heart, thank you for being such an inspiration to us all ~
4 views and I'm already here. I can't believe this is the last episode. I don't know what to feel, but everything comes from a place of love. Along the years I'm been able to learn so much from you Matt. I grew up with you. I was able to face so many things in my life because I had someone like you talking to me on youtube, or reaching me out via email. I cant express properly all my gratitude. I feel so blessed and honored by meeting someone like you. I want to say thank you. From the bottom of my heart. So many things to remember while I'm listening to you, but at the end it all leads me to a thank you phrase. You changed my life in ways I will never be close enough to explain. I will probably write another commer when I finish this episode.
I loved the book Matt, it really resonated with me. I hope you see this message because I found it was important for me: try not to put so much pressure on yourself! Even putting pressure on yourself to heal. Take it easy buddy, lots of love xxx
I'm about to move out of an apartment I can no longer afford and I've been very upset about saying this goodbye. Watching this video made me realize just how many different kinds of goodbyes we make in our life--and how we can take beautiful lessons out of these goodbyes. Thank you, Matt
I am crying like literally MATT you have inspired a lot of people including me . Love you ❤️
Matt, I want to thank you for everything you’ve done with/for Yes Theory. I’ve learned a lot from you over the years and for that, I can’t thank you enough. I wish you the best with your future adventures and hope that maybe, just maybe, we can all see you again!!
GOD BLESS your new journey Matt!!! Thank you for sharing your amazing story ✨ Rooting for you to whatever you're going to face ahead from here 🙏
Thanks for everything Matt. Your storytelling and adventures inspired myself and my children. I wish you the best in all your future endeavors and I hope to hear from you soon.
You’ve made a difference in the world. And it is a much better place because of you.
Still listening but I just wanted to say I think it’s great you’re in awe of yourself… you should be; you deserve it! So proud of you! You are inspiring. ❤
Matt, I have so appreciated this series of podcasts. Your vulnerability, the look behind the scenes, your sharing of so many difficult experiences and stories... it's all been so moving and inspiring. I am so proud of who you've become, of what you've created in your book, and the atmosphere you've created in these podcast episodes. I'm proud of your work to say goodbye to so many people that are important to you, and so publicly, and to heal friendships with others and yourself. There are so many beautiful illustrations you've shared with us, from the ladybug to your own experience. I can't wait to read your book. I hope you are able to rest now... and celebrate. I wish you the most beautiful year ahead and can't wait to see what the future holds for you.
I needed to hear this for my current life season... Thank you for your vulnerability and for saying goodbye to us. I'll miss you on my screen but hope for the best for you on your next season's journey!
I hadn't heard "life season" before .. I like it
Matt no words can describe how incredible you are. Thank you for sharing your story, experiences, travels, and authentic self. As you go onto your next chapter of your life. Thank you for inspiring me to keep pushing myself to go after my own dreams. Love you brother, congratulations on your book and your success.
🎉❤
Goodbye is another form of Thank You.
I wish you all the best in whatever comes your way, Matt. I'm sure there are plenty more equally wonderful adventures on the horizon.
On a side note, lately my apartment has been swarming with ladybugs. This has never happened to me before in my life, and the other day I googled it and apparently this happens during the change in seasons as they're looking for somewhere to stay warm. But I read this is supposed to happen at the very latest by November, except here we are mid-December, and the ladybugs haven't died off and are still swarming my apartment. It feels like such a weird coincidence that now you're talking about this ladybug story as a symbol of resilience and letting go. Thank you for all of your incredible insights and for sharing your journey ❤🐞
Finally caught up with the podcast and just watched this episode. My book came from amazon today and I can't wait to read it. I found yes theory from watching your first goodbye video almost 3 years ago when you were going to take time off to write the book. I then went back and binged the entire channel you had up to that point and it was life changing and inspiring. It gave me the courage to get a job in a new city for a summer across the country and experience something completely different. Had I not had that experience I would have always wondered "what if" Always come back to Yes Theory for inspiration and witnessing your goodbye journey has made me remember why I loved this channel in the first place. Thanks for your vulnerability and dedication to this for the last 8 years. We will miss you but can't wait to see what you do next!!! :-)
You moved my soul in the way you can not imagine, thank you Matt for everything. Thank you for your story and showing me that change is good and necessary. May we all find our ladybug 🍀
bye MATT... we will miss you to YES THEORY/SEEK DISCOMFORT... good luck...Merry Christmas 🌲
I have a very similar story to Matt but my experience was totally different. When I was seven my family and I moved from china to Canada. I didn’t speak a word of English. Sure it was hard in the beginning but I never felt like I had any lasting trauma or scars from that. I love my life and my friends, never felt like I missed a goodbye or something. At that age honestly, you barely even remember anything. So while I admire Matt’s honesty, I cannot relate at all when he talks about all this trauma, when he left France at the same age as me AND already had an American father. I think he is a very highly emotional and sensitive person. And we each process things in our own ways. It’s good to be introspective, but I do believe there is such a thing as overthinking and dwelling.
This episode really touched my heart ♥ I just picked up the book yesterday and I can't wait for the start of the weekend to finally read it. Hearing you explain how you moved when you were young, being torn from one surrounding to the other just resonated so much with me because I've lived through something really similar. Can't wait to dive into your written story! ✨
Such a profound statement when you addressed losing a part of yourself when you have to say goodbye… needed this. ❤
You were my introduction to Yes Theory. You befriended a chronically ill man and touched his life and thus touched mine. Thank you. I'll miss you but mostly I'll always appreciate you.
Thanks for everything Matt, because of your Ironman video , I run my first marathon this year. I pushed beyond my comfort zone and listened to your message ❤
Oh Matt, this was so beautiful. You speak so eloquently and you absolutely should allow yourself to be in awe of everything you have done. I can only imagine that your next chapter will be full of adventures and stories to fill another book with (or at the least a whole lot of newsletters). I just finished reading the book within 24 hours of receiving it and came straight to this video after finishing the book. I expected it to be more of a behind the scenes look at you and your friend’s lives while creating Yes Theory, but it was so much more: it was a book of life advice, lessons, love, and examples of how to be a supportive person to others.
I only started following Yes Theory two years ago, after I had already traveled solo to 54 countries, lived in 2 foreign countries, and stepped out of my comfort zone more times than imaginable. For me, stepping out of my comfort zone and talking to strangers has never been an issue for me. But maintaining close friendships is much harder. But seeing what you and your friends built is something so special and I’m so glad it exists for people like me (who funnily enough went to high school in the town over from you around the same time and even may have crossed paths with you many years ago in CT) but didn’t find this gem until there was already a huge back catalog of stories for us to devour.
Also, not to get too personal but as a woman who has been mistreated by many, many men I have completely lost faith in there being kind, not scary men out there. Buuut seeing you guys being sensitive, aware of your emotions and even being able to talk about them openly and cry gives me just a tiny sliver of hope that one day I won’t constantly be terrified of being around men.
Thank you for sharing yourself and opening up to the world. I hope to bump into you one day in the wild and get the chance to know you. Until then, I am greatly looking forward to hearing about your future life adventures. ❤
just left my review and i didn’t think i’d be able to read it yet, but there was a free trial for audible, i’m so excited lol, congrats matt!
Hey Matt good luck with your new life! Loved these last videos and podcasts with you!
Thank you so much for being you man. You inspired me and gave me so much hope in my healing and growth . To continue to pushing forward and being hopeful and grateful for whats ahead . Thank you for everything
Matt, I grew up watching Yes Theory, it changed my life❤ Thank you! You’re flying forward into the future. I know you have to do what’s best for you. This is a new chapter in your life🌱
so proud of u matty. yes theory has touched me so deeply. i cannot wait to see what else u accomplish in your future adventures
Thank you, Matt, for everything. Though we have never met in person, you and the boys inspired, helped and changed me, and I can't thank you all enough. I am still waiting for my pre-order and can't wait to read it. Wishing you all the best in everything you do!❤
Matt, I've been there since the very beginning. While it's sad to watch you go, watching you properly say goodbye-not only for us, but for yourself was truly so beautiful to watch. We all love you. We are all supporting you. Thank you Matt- for everything- for making all our lives better.
Like others, I stopped watching yes theory when u left and started watching it when you came back. I am going through a time in my life rn where I am also healing from trauma and I really resonate with your story. It makes me feel not alone, that others are healing, and it will be worth it all in the end. It also is awesome to see a man sharing his story and being vulnerable about his feelings. The impact you have is incredible and really does create a cascading effect. I genuinely relate to your story on healing and admire the work you put into showing up for yourself.
So bitter sweet. I found yes theory through the taxi cab episode. All my best in your new chapter.
So much love Matt, can't wait to see what you do. I read the book for the first time, and it's like I fell in love with Yes Theory again. I really appreciate you and everything you have done with this community, very proud of you and this chapter, I wish you nothing but the best and happy wishes in your upcoming chapter! 🤟
Just a big big thank you!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤❤
We are so glad you did finish this book - thank you ladybug! 🤗
I couldn't watch that video in one time, i cried almost every time i've watched it over 4 days. I hope, really hope you spend your next life living the best way you will ❤️
Helped me so much over the last 7 years. I am really greatful Matt. Thank you.
To Matt, thank you for sharing your journey writing your book, and your time at Yes Theory. This was a really heartfelt story, that no doubt sent me to tears. I am thankful you were a part of the Yes Theory team, and I wish you all the best for the future. After hearing all of this, it has made me want to read the book that you have released.
I understand your journey and I do have selfish moments where I wish this wasn't real. I respect your why and wish you the Best luck and thank you as well. This group of people have helped me on my journey and I thank you all. Much ❤️ and I pray you do ALL that you need.
Thanks for sharing your journey, great friend. I hope we will cross paths some time. All the best❤
Best of luck with everything in your future and thanks for the memories!!
Your official departure from Yes Theory is super sad but hella inspiring. I can’t imagine the courage, self-reflection, honesty & self-love it takes to leave. Best wishes and looking forward to reading the book.
Matt, beyond thankful for you.
Been watching you guys since before you asked strangers to skinny dip.
My career has to do with talking to strangers daily uninvited. And I don’t think I would have ever had the courage to do that without y’all.
Come back whenever you please
Matt, I thank you for everything you have done so far - & thank you for sharing your story, for letting us getting to know you and to see you during all these years. And I thank you for these podcasts - thank you for your vulnerability, wisdom and openness. I am so proud of you.
I got an update on my pre-order of the book and I can't wait to read it, again thank you.
I am excited for this new chapter in your life and I hope it will be filled with everything you could ever hope for. Wish nothing but happiness for you.
Best of luck in the future, Matt. I hope to see you again, in some kind of way. Take care of yourself make sure you give yourself the rest you deserve!
Boy, I'm a mother. You REALLY GOT IT!! I feel proud of you as if you are my own.
How can anyone really love others if you cannot love and value and congratulate your self?
Good-byes are only a doorway to a new phase.
Memories are treasured building blocks of the miracle called YOU.
Go CELEBRATE your life, you are PERFECT as you are.
Thank u Matt for sharing yr lovely soul with me. U r a courageous man. I am celebrating u as well❤️
Only love here man ❤, i can't wait to read the book. It was really inspiring to meet you and your friends, i will follow what is next for you and maybe we will meet someday . THANK YOU
I am so proud of you and so excited for the blank page you’re about to enter. All the love, all the best and thank you for staying (or becoming?) true to yourself! You’ve been a blessing to this community! ❤
Thank you Matt. An intersting take on good-bye. I like it, and I will think about it. See ya when we see ya. All the best.
Thank you, Matt. For your honesty, and your work building this community.
Happy for you Matt! Gonna miss seeing you but I understand. You deserve happiness, the same happiness you’ve been able to consistently give this community.
You and Omar are my real-life heroes. thank you so much for being part of my life and also thank you so much for giving every one of us the power of not giving up. Hope to see you in some part of the world and have a quick chat. For now have a good one :)
Matt, your courage and perseverance are deeply inspiring. I look forward to your newsletter popping into my inbox. I hope to see you appear in Yes Theory videos. No matter how few and far between these are, I know your open heart and mind will bring good things to your life. I wish you so much joy and love.
Loved every podcast and I cannot wait to read the book Matt!
We would welcome you back in a HEARTBEAT if you ever want to come back ❤ much love from Australia
We will miss you tremendously but wish you all the best in your future endeavors. Can't wait to read your future books. Here's to hoping to see you in future videos (maybe,hopefully, fingers crossed). Love youuu
So proud of you Matt!🐞 You as well were born to be great and pursue greatness. Although you will be very missed, I’m looking forward to hearing about your next chapter 💕
This is simply beautiful. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing that beautiful synchronicity with the ladybug. Everything is connected. ;- )
🐞 Thank you so much Matt for sharing the story of the ladybird - so inspiring! ❤
I didn't expect that explanation on the purpose of the podcast. Now I have to watch the other episodes
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Wish you all the best Matt for the rest of your journey with your ladybug! I am happy to see that you got closure and serenity with the end of this chapter of your life. Rituals are important in mourning. Endings are just new beginnings ❤. Le meilleur reste à venir Matt! Waiting to receive my preordered book!
So beautifully profound. Thank You.
Ima miss seeing the original gang and seeing u on videos. But I wish you luck Matt on your new journey and hope to see u in videos again someday,
I never really care for tattoos but that ladybug tattoo is phenomenal. What a story! And the story goes on Matt, take it east and look after yourself!
We love you forever Matt thank you for everything you've done and inspiring us
Thank you too Matt for everything! You and Yes Theory made a huge impact in my life 🥹
I can’t wait to read the book. Matt, we all love you and what you’ve done with this community. Enjoy your next chapter and know we will always cheer for your growth and happiness. We’ll be here to support you and share it with you whenever you need us.
Thank you Matt for just being you. You are so inspiring, good luck for your next adventure 🤍
We love you Matt no matter wat you do where you are ❤Wishing you all the success and happiness in life ✨️Do come sometimes on youtube to surprise us we would love to see you time n again 💜 also Thank you for being huge inspiration 🏁
Congratulations, Matt! Can’t wait to see what other adventures lie ahead of you!
Love you Matt!!!! I ordered the book a few days ago, I can't wait to read it.
We miss you so much already. May God bless your journey, Matt! Good luck out there!
Man it’s finally hitting me that Matt is starting his new chapter without us. I get it but still sad 😢. All the best mate.
I'm so excited for this next journey in your life. You may not know what it is at this point in time, but it will be amazing. Good luck in your endeavors 😄
Matt, I've been wathcing yes theory for so long, that it literally feels like im losing a family memeber in one way or another... I'll miss you so much, but im also so proud of you and cant wait to read what you'll do next. Sending u lots of love and support
I’m gonna miss you Matt. Thanks for being a core member of yes theory and help set up the foundation for this beautiful thing you 4 created. All the videos you’ve participated in will be cherished by all the yes fam. I wish you luck on your future endeavors!
Hi matt! I just wanted to tell you that I loved the book and all the podcast. They were so intresting for someone that has followed you guys since they were a kid. I couldn’t review the book because Amazon guidlines but for me it was 5/5.
Just finished the book, and wow. I started this thinking I was just reading a book on a group of guys I love and have been watching for years. Now, I honestly have no words to the healing this brought to me. I too am closing a huge chapter in my life, something I thought would be my forever passion. In addition I just turned 30, and was feeling anxious about starting over. This book…wow was so timely for me. It helped me feel less alone with where I’m at.
Thank you Matt.
This felt like a conversation with a friend I have known for 6 years. Wishing you all the best. ⚡️🤍
Loved the podcast. Thank you for everything Matt, you are so inspiring and the book is amazing! Hope you get some much needed rest and much love from Singapore!
I would never call celebrating yourself arrogant. From my POV as a person who formerly suffered from depression that stemmed from my social anxiety, I was finally able to reach a point in my life several years ago to actually utter the words: I love myself. That revelation allowed me to take pride in my achievements and talents and also recognize that I'm pretty damn awesome. At no point have I interpreted these beliefs as arrogant. Nor should you, Matt. So celebrate yourself everyday--every moment even--because you are amazing and have so much more to show this world, and yourself, what your made of!
Congrats on the book BTW. I just started reading it and it's very damn good!
Thank you Matt, Thank you!
Thanks for the memories and best of luck Matt
I believe you went through this journey of letting go and transformation on the behalf of anyone in the yes theory community and beyond who needs to go through anything remotely similar. Thanks for staying true to yourself and taking us with you on your journey of to your truth. Loved watching you in the videos and I share your quest for truth and wanting to truly listen to and act according to what feels right to you.
All the best to you ❤
Thank you for everything! You have been a huge inspiration and I wish you nothing but the best for whatever's next on your journey. 💛
Thank you for everything you’ve done over years and i wish you all the best in your future plansb
I cannot believe I randomly discovered Yes Theory a few months ago but it feels like I’ve been watching you guys since day one, genuinely so sad to see you leave Matt but wishing you all the best in your future endeavours x
Thanks for being you Matt and being a light in adark place . You where my role model during the pandemic lowkey 😂 . I finally decided to follow my heart and seek discomfort and am disconnecting from social media's and swiping my phone. I'm starting over at 27 and leaving most technology and addiction behind. God bless you. I will buy a book as soon as I'm stable. That's a book I can pass down