What is a Side, Top, or Bottom
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- Опубліковано 7 гру 2023
- We have so many descriptions in the gay community. From being a Top to a Bottom, there are so many things in between. Vers, side, Submissive or Dominate. Do we have to be one specific thing? Bedroom preferences shouldn't decide a power dynamic outside the bedroom.
Why people will allow themselves to be pigeonholed into a stereotype? Why do gays limit their dating pool based off bedroom preference? What is your preference?
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I find it so interesting the unending number of descriptions we have in the gay community.
From body types to bedroom preferences. The only annoyance I find, as you mentioned, is how these things can relate to a power dynamic inside and putside the bedroom.
Or how people will allow themselves to be pigeonholed into a stereotype.
Or worse, people limit their dating pool based off bedroom preference.
Whatever your comfortable doing in the bedroom is between you and your partner(s).
I mean well look at them. Theyre stereotypes who live in the gym. Whet else you expect from them?
I also had never heard the term side until a few months ago and I met one. Older people will remember that during the era of AIDS there was probably a majority of ‘sides’ but the term didn’t exist, they just said I don’t do an*l.
Oh that makes sense
@@koatysum Absolutely. It was like playing Russian roulette with a loaded gun. It’s so wonderful to have lived into the present time with its medical advances. Now there are Sides by choice rather than through fear.
The bottom is always in control. Sumner, a power bottom is the one that calls the moves and more or less dominates the action.
Ohhh so I was wrong haha
“I feel like we could be here for days to talk about this.” Honey I felt like I was listening for days in 6 minutes.
Interesting conversation. Clueless about “side”…just assumed it meant working from the side position . Thanks for the enlightenment. ❣️❤️
Thank You for being honest and true. ❤
Thank you guys, I just recently discovered your channel. I must say you make me think but more than not, remind me of a time, long ago, when I was becoming sexual and discovering, experimenting with what literally, felt good. I can’t speak for everyone, but there was a time with no titles, top, bottom, etc. We rolled around together, getting into each other, etc. and whatever happened, where ever we might have ended up, sort of determined what happened next. That is how I learned to like both giving and receiving. Really.
Maybe a topic for discussion would be the huge variety of toy’s available to experiment with if this generation wants to explore with ways of having fun in all positions.
Great Thanks from a new subscriber in San Francisco.
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i agree. just enjoy it.
I love the fact that you have options. One day you feel like you want to bottom and the next day you can top. Can I say I’m jealous lol
Haha yes it is nice to have options
I'm a small guy at 5'6 120. I consider myself vers but honestly I prefer to be the bottom with a taller top guy. It just feels right for me. I've topped bigger, taller guys before and it just feels "off" for me.
when i first started exploring back in the 70s. i don't remember all these titles. we didn't care. we just did what felt right and comfortable. now, people get too hung up with these roles. just do what makes You comfortable and you enjoy. then the rest will follow. you love doing these roles. go for it. it's ALWAYS your choice. ❤❤❤❤
A power bottom is a bottom who directs the action 😊
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Being Bottom is it Mean Being Like Women? Sorry Am Vers
A power bottom is someone who REALLY ENJOYS pleasing the person they’re with.
Love that!
Oh yes, a power bottom is so rare and they aim to please, are you serious? They are a dime a dozen it’s the tops that aimed to please and there aren’t enough of.
@@michaelalexics2808 A power top REALLY ENJOYS being in control. Of course there’s that age old question of who’s really in control/pleasing but these are basic definitions. Your welcome.
@@mikecole1664 I never said anything otherwise, why are you directing a question like that at me?
@@mikecole1664 being a power top or power bottom and being in control or not being in control or aiming to please or not caring to please is all subjective. It doesn’t control or rule any situation. It is what it is depending on who is involved so there’s no set rules you’re not teaching me anything new so there’s no need to tell me you’re welcome because I’m older than you and I’ve been doing this a lot longer and I was even in the business so spare your little educational tidbits for maybe these two idiots who are conducting this lame discussion. Remember people that are aiming to. Please are only aiming to please because it’s pleasing themselves at the same time so everything is a selfish act. It’s just the way it’s presented.
Hey boys a helpful word: a relationship built around having a social media presence isnt going to last. Best of luck to ya
lol we’ve been together 5 years and we’re engaged so thanks
They always have an obnoxious answer to any criticism to their stupid existence
Two girls teaching us about gay life like it’s something we don’t know already
@@koatysum yeah im sure sleeping with other guys all the time is REALLY going to make the marriage survive