This is so true I’m seeing this girl, things were so great,as I started to commit and give her more attention, suddenly she cooled down and the long loving messages turned to a trickle one word replies, then I decided to stop trying, after few weeks of not writing, she messaged using a reverse psychology Why I’m not the same , that’s what she was afraid of, things like that I continued to ignore her messages, then Love messages was pouring, and she was opening up again, I need advice of how I should reply I hate this game, I just want to have a normal relationship 😢
Bro I get it. All men wants a normal relationship. But you need to understand that if she's not putting up with her games. Then just cut her off, Never ever play on a women's play field.
EXACTLY, its called scarcity principle and can be applied to many aspects of life. A scarce product is seen as much more valuable. Attention with women should be used the same way. Only give attention to reward good behavior and remove it when you feel like your wasting your time
@@stephencoleman1312no it's Not, give her to much attention and you'll push her away. Women don't want needy men, they want the men that don't want them. Don't blame me I didn't make them that way evolution did
@@dirtysouthpyro1981 It's just straigth up capitalism and it works. You pay more (give more attention) to the best worker (the girl that behaves the best) to reward and incentive the worker to want to work more, but not too much so that the worker doesn't feel lazy and entitled.
@@ThatGuy-tx4vmwho said you have to give her your money??? That a Prostitute & actually your not paying for Sex, your paying her to leave after so you don't get attached. You can make a Million dollars a year, use that money/lifestyle you can provide the women that show up to get what you want. It's on you not Extract what you want without giving up to much (Money, Energy, Attention,Time aka your M.E.A.T)
I think he doesn't mean money. He means a man who studies, Works out, has hobbies, eats well, does sports if he likes it and works hard if he is old enough to. Reads. This is investing in yourself.
It's so true. I connected with a woman on a dating app. We met, I enjoyed her company. Then I connected with another woman on the same dating app who I actually preferred. More my style. I started ignoring the other woman (responding less) and she totally wants me more. I'm wanting the woman I haven't met yet but the woman that I have met, who I give less attention to is REALLY into me. It's laughable how it works - in my case right now, it's biting me in the ass
She found me and now after we married every thing has changed and she apparently is discusted, turned off and not flirtatious and playful towards me any more. She says (I'm pushing 50 years old, I honestly don't feel comfortable with the weirdness.No but as I've explained many, many times there's weird, there's immature and it's so forced. I think you've got alot of disinformation about what women actually want in the real world! I see this whole playful thing as what teenagers do, it's weird and to be honest it's exhausting. It's like a child who needs entertaining to feel like they're getting the attention they crave. It's definitely a psychological thing. And these discussions always happen ) I need some sort of help. She seems to be now turned off by me I haven’t started acting any differently since I proposed to her, I have always been respectful, honest, faithful, playful and flirty with her. she is now my wife and me being flirty, playful and wanting more intimacy cause it disappeared after we got married (3 time we have had sex in 1 year) and they where not even on special occasions, well 1 was Christmas morning - nothing on our 1yr anniversary of being married or our birthdays. It is driving me absolutely insane that my wife that says she loves me, told me im better, kinder, caring, more understanding and better in the bedroom then her ex's married me and then changed and our intimate relationship now sucks. All I feel like is I'm a ATM providing money paying bills and a person that puts a roof over her and her daughters head. Our discussions about it always turns into an argument and I'm apparently a crazy person who need psychological help just for wanting to talk about our areas that lack and the lack of intimacy. I feel she only truly married me for financial and a home security, cause up until we got married it was alittle more playful and intimate. I know she has 2 problems after getting the covid19 Pfizer vaccines it has affected her period and she nearly bleeds continuously she may have 1-5 day it stops and she has leukaemia which runs her down, which I am always supportive and caring towards her about her having leukaemia.what really pisses me off is being judged on stuff that her ex's have done in the past and hurt her, she calls it a red flag, I get it other guys have hurt her but I'm not those guys yes we all make mistakes and are not perfect, but why judge the person you love and are with and chose to marry because of her past ex's that literally abused, cheated on, stole, played games, ripped everyone and everything off, and when she became sick with leukaemia she was cheated on and he told everyone she had died from it didn't pay rent or bills and when she came out of the hospital to find she is being evicted WHY AM I BEING JUDGED BECAUSE OF SOMEONE ELSE!! I am not those guys. I am that MR NICEGUY and rejection is hurtful, depressing and degrading, Lowering my self-esteem. I don't want to change and be a player or someone that is closed off and angry, I love my wife!!! I want mutual respect, intimacy (in and out of the bedroom) honesty, love and caring, playful with each other, flirtatious with eachother ( it's not childish teenager bullshit) faithfulness, trusting and suportive in all areas in good or bad decisions, with understanding and being open minded with eachother. It's not hard to love and respect your loving partner.... It kills people inside when they forget themselves and loose that inner child and stop having fun , always being grumpy, angry, always being serious, it's sucks the life right out of your soul and every one that come near them ... how am I meant to be the best for my wife? Or have my wife be the best for me? This rejection is getting me really low, I mean really really low . I don't want to quit on her, leave her , run away, cheat on her, or be an arsehole towards her. I keep praying that things will get better . I don't want to feel used, undesirable , disrespected and worthless from my wife .... I NEED HELP
I tried this , it's going to hurt if you didn't stop ignoring her at the right time , she will also try to imitate you ang starts to ignore you , and act happy Infront of you , trust me it's going to hurt you soo bad.
@@nikbooster1 1. If you believe you can't, then you can't. Vice versa is likewise true. 2. Never tell another man what he can or can't do. Just because you believe YOU can't doesn't mean I'm as limited as you are. Most importantly, it is OBJECTIVELY true that you can learn to think this way. Tell yourself every morning while shaving, "women aren't rare. There are more of them than there are men. I am the prize, not them." Of course, you have to actually BE that man. Work a real job, be confident(or fake it), be a safe place for women, be fun to be around. You don't have to be the 1% of men to attract women, they're honestly pretty forgiving in attraction, but you have to show up. You CHOOSE what you value and what criteria you use to evaluate women. Make better choices. Set standards, and hold to them. I will NOT date an only fans girl. They're trash, and the effects of an OF on their personality is garbage. Plus, I don't want someone that the whole internet has seen their pussy. Dating is a game, and like any game, don't take it seriously. If you do, that's on you, and that's when it hurts. Only take it serious when you find someone you want to be serious with...because she's proven that she's more.
@@nikbooster1 bro I had a gym membership in a new gym this gym coach there was obsessed with me for 2 month trying to get my attention she succeeded and I got her number I didn't text her or anything later on in 2 days i went to her in person asked if she is available for a date she was like I'm busy I got this and that i told her let me know if your going to make it or not she didn't bother to and didn't bother to reschedule and started acting cold as soon as I asked her out reminder I was not simping or anything so i played it cool like nothing happened I stop talking to her gave her 0 attention and now she always expects me to talk to her or simp I don't I simply ignore her she knew she fucked up and she is trying to find an opening to get to talk to me and catch my attention again but I won't give her a 2nd chance cuz then il be dancing at the palms of her hand unless I get to smash and dash but she ain't relationship material
@@evalilith6703 I don’t know why women will reject men and still want men to give them persistent attention. Chasing a woman who rejected you only makes you even less attractive. That’s why us men move on and don’t chase women who aren’t interested. It’s about self respect.
Wrong. That means she wasn’t into you from the beginning. You can’t just ignore a women who already doesn’t care. Of course she will disappear. She has to be pursuing you, then this helps make her wonder what’s wrong with her, what other options you have going on, etc. aka making you appear above her level. And you can’t just do this forever either.
I love that: “give her the gift of missing you”. I got dumped twice in a 3 year relationship. She begged for me with tears in on her eyes and after I returned our relationship was much better for awhile.. Since she dumped me again, she’s made effort to get my attention (even after cheating on me with our coworker and friend) and has spent more time on the phone with me than toward the end of our second attempt of making it work. I leave her alone and she takes initiative. The brain is just made to work that way. When they receive your love and attention, it’s not for nothing. They open their heart and let you know what they want. When it’s taken away, you occupy a place in their heart and mind that doesn’t soon cease to exist.
Ignoring anybody doesnt work. May work on people who are insecure .but there has to be an attachment first befofe the ignoring happens . This shouldnt be used for evil ,but many make the mistake of doing it so early.
this won't work if you aint a successful man... first step of this is become successful, woman shouldn't be your focus... I ultimately believe in this but this likely works if you are achieving your goals...
As a married wife, that’s not applicable to all. When I was single, I ignored any guy I wasn’t into and/or who were jerks, snobs, confident/braggarts, perverts, or criminals and I made that clear from the beginning. Thankfully some accepted that and backed off, but unfortunately some did not and that’s when I had to take legal precautions. As someone who was sexually assaulted, I warn all - Always legally know your rights and remember - you don’t have to tolerate unwanted stalkers and if someone won’t take no for an answer, never be ashamed to ask for help.
I think it's fine to give her a space when she feels as if you don't have things to do when your busy chasing her. When you're always calling and texting her, she begins to give you cold shoulders. That's true.
Then I'm that 1% , he was nice caring and became my first boyfriend at age 21, we're an international couple, I'm 26 now and we got married this year while we were away from each other for 3 years because of covid. So guys find a girl who loves you don't play games, if she loves you she does.
LOL...yet again another woman doesn't know what she actually wants. Women love the LONGING for a man more than loving the actual man. It's why clinginess is a term used by women and effeminate men, but never used by masculine men toward their women.
My question is: If she’s a hot woman, she would have other high-value men trying to grab her attention. If you’re ignoring her, wouldn’t she just turn her attention to another man who is just as valuable as you (or more)?
I can give feedback as a woman. I'm told I have the capacity to be with a single, and shoot in some cases, committed man of my choosing. I am an introvert, very hermit like but driven, and stay celibate for long periods to focus my energy. A long-time acquaintance reached out and started doing the hot/cold ignoring thing. It triggered a lot of attachments wounds in me, and he ended up ghosting me for seven months. He reached out again a couple months ago, and then started the hot/cold thing, AGAIN. He revealed to me last weekend he read a book about how to hook women psychologically and biologically using these techniques. I told him, I like you for you. I truly believe we are simply soul mates, you don't have to use mind tricks on me. So now, I'm feeling there really is no love, just manipulation. Thankfully in his absence, I worked on my attachment and self esteem issues. I'm turned off and ready to just go back to hermit mode. So I say, choose wisely. Know that you are just activating inner wounds by ignoring, not true connection. If you give a woman attention and she starts the hot/cold behavior, those are HER attachment wounds. A secure woman will reciprocate in a healthy way or leave you alone. That's what's happened to this guy over and over. The women end up leaving him for someone else, like I'm about to, except for myself.
9 times out of 10 she is getting validation from her beta orbiters. You want her to turn to another man, because she knows they are going to be there..she will get her validation, but she's still going to wonder about you because She's trying to figure out why you aren't texting her like the rest. It works
@@DG38594 So this makes you guys betas, potentially deltas. You've studied the psychology to make women with attachment, and likely personality disorders- all ego dysfunction - want you. You clearly aren't securely attached, or without ego-dysfunction, or you'd desire securely attached women. By virtue, the fact that you exploit mental and emotional instability means you reflect the same dysfunction.
@@DG38594 But you said “Beta-Orbiters”. If shes hot, guarantee you that she has at least 2-3 alpha men talking to her, and they’re just as valuable as you are.
@celica9098 Nah, see most women like that can't attract high value men or alphas like you think. Yes they have a bunch of beta guys because those are easy, she uses them to her advantage, but most only have 1 at most alpha and he usually doesn't have much to do with her. That's why they like the beta guys..they can get the ego boost and not have to do anything. Women are lazy, they don't want to do more than they have to.
They never want you more - this is pure Hollywood fiction. Nobody who genuinely likes you would cancel on you, or stop texting you. If you walk away, they're gone for good. They won't come back because they never liked you.... And good riddance. Find someone who truly wants and wants to be with you. If she likes you, she won't play games. Only those looking for attention off just anyone plays those kind of shenanigans.
Wtf no. When a guy ignores me I’m not longing or think omg I want him more, I’m thinking this man has terrible communication, this doesn’t look like a suitable mate or a healthy relationship now on to my next meeting and errand, I’m sure the next one will be better. What kind of broken ass man thinks she wants you more?!?!
As a woman I agree. I was thinking about agreeing to make this man my husband but he’s been using hot/cold behavior too often and it’s turning me off and recessing our whole relationship. He can I agree for a man like that to be my husband and father if my kids? The uncertainty is too scary. How can I be sure he won’t even toy more with my emotions in the future?? It hurts and I liked him for him so why is he using games to activate stupid insecurities?
Women need to rethink their game plans. If I'm ignoring a woman it's because by that time I lost interest and moved on to other work. I'm not chasing shit!
Im part of the 1% of women if whom is ignored! I figure oh doesn’t value my communication! So that means he doesn’t want to be bothered! & I leave that situation behind.
Not quite. You only feel that way because 99% of the guys who approach you are guys you don't actually want. You're holding out for a Top 1% guy. And if that guy EVER approached you, you would behave just like 99% of women do in that circumstance when he begins to keep distance between you two.
@@EriPages I feel a euphoric sensation when I’m alone. It makes me feel, Think & taste the best part of what it means to live in this paradigm.. I’m always looking forward to alone time! So I would never behave like 99% of women who can’t stand be alone or distant from a man. I’m celibate as well! So it makes sense to me that when I’m not approached in public it’s god giving me protection & more time to spend with myself!
@@cryptickink You evoked God & celibacy, so are you wanting to be a nun? If not, why not? Becoming a celibate nun is the logical step for your purported psychology.
How do you deal with your woman being in touch with ex's, such as if she works with them. Or in touch with someone she previously slept with? How to set and enforce boundaries for this.
Ask her how would she feel if the situation would be othervice, that if you were still working with your ex. Woman are emotion-intelligence. If talk it right to her, not make her feel like you attack on her on this, she will understand your point of wiew. You can and you must talk it trought to solution that fits for both of you. Also remember, if she had kids with her ex and they are in good terms because those kids, you just have to deal with it. Both man and females cheat, even for different reason. As woman we heard all the time, that if man is about to cheat you, he will cheat you no mather what. We woman just has to deal with that fact, 'cos man can cheat without emotion in it. Ifnwe start to think or fear that where his d* has been swimming in, we will come crazy. I mean therapy state crazy. So we hope for the best amd deal it if it happends. This goes for woman to. If she about to cheat you, you can't stop it. You just have to learn to deal it without coming crazy. And if it happends, it happends. But usually when ex is ex, she is really had with it, that why she is ex. Woman are very, very ( x billion times more) patience and give man another billion chance, they nag and nag and when man don't grow up, woman stop naging and finally leave. That is mostly the reason why he is the ex. They get lazy, manipulative or cheated, and no woman takes that forever.
Funny cuz I just dumped a boy trying to play games like this! He’s been texting trying to explain himself. Blocked! Play stupid games win stupid prizes!
I was in a good relationship its been 1.5 years with her at first she was a good friend of mine and then we became more than that...for 1 year our relationship was like she always wanted my attention wanted to talk to me texted me but from past 5 months its been a very normal its like we are just doing business with each other no passion like before then she started ignoring me i remember she always used to tell me that if we don't talk throughout the day i want you at night to talk about my whole day this was our daily routine we used to talk at night daily but now she just talks abt 5-10 mins and then she says im feeling sleepy im gonnna go through insta for reels and then go to sleep she started working as a teacher to be added I don't know what to do can someone please help me out
its rubbish u need to engage with a woman but do It with respect don't overwhelm her play it cool show ur busy show u have ur own life show ur not a creep show her that she is not the only option be polite behave like a gentleman give her space and never compromise on yourself respect flirt with her sometimes to keep her guessing ... out of sight out of mind ... all this ignore crap is useless
Yea, until you get married, then she starts to devalue you if your gone or don't text right away. Oh wait, thats what a female narc does. Sorry, I got confused. 😂😅😮😅
I've been ignoring women for the past 10 years and the results are incredible! I'm still single!
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because your a soyboy beta 😂😂
Awesome
I gave her the gift of missing me n now she's missing from my life
lol
Distance makes the heart grow fonder (old saying)
This is so true
I’m seeing this girl, things were so great,as I started to commit and give her more attention, suddenly she cooled down and the long loving messages turned to a trickle one word replies, then I decided to stop trying, after few weeks of not writing, she messaged using a reverse psychology
Why I’m not the same , that’s what she was afraid of, things like that
I continued to ignore her messages, then Love messages was pouring, and she was opening up again,
I need advice of how I should reply
I hate this game, I just want to have a normal relationship 😢
Bro I get it. All men wants a normal relationship. But you need to understand that if she's not putting up with her games. Then just cut her off, Never ever play on a women's play field.
Dump her. She’s clearly not mentally stable nor ready for commitment. Anyone who’s going to play games with your heart aren’t really worth it.
I’m the same now , I was busy for 2 weeks and went no contact, she got pissed off I didn’t reach out to her
My advice is to sleep with her. Then she will be pursuing you.
Just an ego boost. She's not serious about you. Move on to someone else.
EXACTLY, its called scarcity principle and can be applied to many aspects of life. A scarce product is seen as much more valuable. Attention with women should be used the same way. Only give attention to reward good behavior and remove it when you feel like your wasting your time
It’s called being immature ,todays society is goofy
@@stephencoleman1312no it's Not, give her to much attention and you'll push her away. Women don't want needy men, they want the men that don't want them. Don't blame me I didn't make them that way evolution did
@@dirtysouthpyro1981 It's just straigth up capitalism and it works. You pay more (give more attention) to the best worker (the girl that behaves the best) to reward and incentive the worker to want to work more, but not too much so that the worker doesn't feel lazy and entitled.
Focus on yourself and theyll come to you when they see youve increased your value
meaning money... why even accept them if they want you for money?
@@ThatGuy-tx4vmyou don’t you stay single by this guys logic😂😂
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@@ThatGuy-tx4vmwho said you have to give her your money??? That a Prostitute & actually your not paying for Sex, your paying her to leave after so you don't get attached. You can make a Million dollars a year, use that money/lifestyle you can provide the women that show up to get what you want. It's on you not Extract what you want without giving up to much (Money, Energy, Attention,Time aka your M.E.A.T)
I think he doesn't mean money. He means a man who studies, Works out, has hobbies, eats well, does sports if he likes it and works hard if he is old enough to. Reads. This is investing in yourself.
It's so true. I connected with a woman on a dating app. We met, I enjoyed her company. Then I connected with another woman on the same dating app who I actually preferred. More my style. I started ignoring the other woman (responding less) and she totally wants me more. I'm wanting the woman I haven't met yet but the woman that I have met, who I give less attention to is REALLY into me. It's laughable how it works - in my case right now, it's biting me in the ass
Just tell her that you found someone. It hurts you know lol
She found me and now after we married every thing has changed and she apparently is discusted, turned off and not flirtatious and playful towards me any more. She says (I'm pushing 50 years old, I honestly don't feel comfortable with the weirdness.No but as I've explained many, many times there's weird, there's immature and it's so forced. I think you've got alot of disinformation about what women actually want in the real world! I see this whole playful thing as what teenagers do, it's weird and to be honest it's exhausting. It's like a child who needs entertaining to feel like they're getting the attention they crave. It's definitely a psychological thing. And these discussions always happen ) I need some sort of help. She seems to be now turned off by me I haven’t started acting any differently since I proposed to her, I have always been respectful, honest, faithful, playful and flirty with her. she is now my wife and me being flirty, playful and wanting more intimacy cause it disappeared after we got married (3 time we have had sex in 1 year) and they where not even on special occasions, well 1 was Christmas morning - nothing on our 1yr anniversary of being married or our birthdays. It is driving me absolutely insane that my wife that says she loves me, told me im better, kinder, caring, more understanding and better in the bedroom then her ex's
married me and then changed and our intimate relationship now sucks. All I feel like is I'm a ATM providing money paying bills and a person that puts a roof over her and her daughters head. Our discussions about it always turns into an argument and I'm apparently a crazy person who need psychological help just for wanting to talk about our areas that lack and the lack of intimacy. I feel she only truly married me for financial and a home security, cause up until we got married it was alittle more playful and intimate. I know she has 2 problems after getting the covid19 Pfizer vaccines it has affected her period and she nearly bleeds continuously she may have 1-5 day it stops and she has leukaemia which runs her down, which I am always supportive and caring towards her about her having leukaemia.what really pisses me off is being judged on stuff that her ex's have done in the past and hurt her, she calls it a red flag, I get it other guys have hurt her but I'm not those guys yes we all make mistakes and are not perfect, but why judge the person you love and are with and chose to marry because of her past ex's that literally abused, cheated on, stole, played games, ripped everyone and everything off, and when she became sick with leukaemia she was cheated on and he told everyone she had died from it didn't pay rent or bills and when she came out of the hospital to find she is being evicted WHY AM I BEING JUDGED BECAUSE OF SOMEONE ELSE!! I am not those guys. I am that MR NICEGUY and rejection is hurtful, depressing and degrading, Lowering my self-esteem. I don't want to change and be a player or someone that is closed off and angry, I love my wife!!! I want mutual respect, intimacy (in and out of the bedroom) honesty, love and caring, playful with each other, flirtatious with eachother ( it's not childish teenager bullshit) faithfulness, trusting and suportive in all areas in good or bad decisions, with understanding and being open minded with eachother. It's not hard to love and respect your loving partner.... It kills people inside when they forget themselves and loose that inner child and stop having fun , always being grumpy, angry, always being serious, it's sucks the life right out of your soul and every one that come near them ... how am I meant to be the best for my wife? Or have my wife be the best for me? This rejection is getting me really low, I mean really really low . I don't want to quit on her, leave her , run away, cheat on her, or be an arsehole towards her. I keep praying that things will get better . I don't want to feel used, undesirable , disrespected and worthless from my wife ....
I NEED HELP
I tried this , it's going to hurt if you didn't stop ignoring her at the right time , she will also try to imitate you ang starts to ignore you , and act happy Infront of you , trust me it's going to hurt you soo bad.
Learn that she's NOT valuable. She's not rare. Then it won't hurt.
@@jeremygrimes9006 you can't
@@nikbooster1 1. If you believe you can't, then you can't. Vice versa is likewise true.
2. Never tell another man what he can or can't do. Just because you believe YOU can't doesn't mean I'm as limited as you are.
Most importantly, it is OBJECTIVELY true that you can learn to think this way. Tell yourself every morning while shaving, "women aren't rare. There are more of them than there are men. I am the prize, not them." Of course, you have to actually BE that man. Work a real job, be confident(or fake it), be a safe place for women, be fun to be around. You don't have to be the 1% of men to attract women, they're honestly pretty forgiving in attraction, but you have to show up.
You CHOOSE what you value and what criteria you use to evaluate women. Make better choices. Set standards, and hold to them. I will NOT date an only fans girl. They're trash, and the effects of an OF on their personality is garbage. Plus, I don't want someone that the whole internet has seen their pussy.
Dating is a game, and like any game, don't take it seriously. If you do, that's on you, and that's when it hurts. Only take it serious when you find someone you want to be serious with...because she's proven that she's more.
@@nikbooster1 bro I had a gym membership in a new gym this gym coach there was obsessed with me for 2 month trying to get my attention
she succeeded and I got her number I didn't text her or anything later on in 2 days i went to her in person asked if she is available for a date she was like I'm busy I got this and that i told her let me know if your going to make it or not she didn't bother to and didn't bother to reschedule and started acting cold as soon as I asked her out reminder I was not simping or anything
so i played it cool like nothing happened I stop talking to her gave her 0 attention and now she always expects me to talk to her or simp I don't I simply ignore her she knew she fucked up and she is trying to find an opening to get to talk to me and catch my attention again but I won't give her a 2nd chance cuz then il be dancing at the palms of her hand unless I get to smash and dash but she ain't relationship material
@@Gharbalshe just want the attention , bruh. They dont care about us
When a woman cancels on me I move on and dont look back!
Yes but there’s a line, too much over the line and she may think you’re not interested.
Well maybe SHE shouldn’t ignore u for so long 🤷🏾♂️
Very True I really wonder how many days is too long
Depends on the girl.
@@alexflips393 cheers man lol it's only the first two weeks but would 3 or 4 days sound about right?
I remember at the beginning with my girlfriend I would only really go 1-2 days maximum. But she had high interest and she’s not avoidant.
The reality is when you ignore a woman she just forgets about you and moves on. This is what really happens in real life.
Yes!
@@evalilith6703 I don’t know why women will reject men and still want men to give them persistent attention. Chasing a woman who rejected you only makes you even less attractive. That’s why us men move on and don’t chase women who aren’t interested. It’s about self respect.
@@timmorisma4800facts bro
Wrong. That means she wasn’t into you from the beginning. You can’t just ignore a women who already doesn’t care. Of course she will disappear. She has to be pursuing you, then this helps make her wonder what’s wrong with her, what other options you have going on, etc. aka making you appear above her level. And you can’t just do this forever either.
@@evalilith6703I don’t give attention to women who aren’t reciprocating or ignored me tho
I love that: “give her the gift of missing you”. I got dumped twice in a 3 year relationship. She begged for me with tears in on her eyes and after I returned our relationship was much better for awhile.. Since she dumped me again, she’s made effort to get my attention (even after cheating on me with our coworker and friend) and has spent more time on the phone with me than toward the end of our second attempt of making it work. I leave her alone and she takes initiative. The brain is just made to work that way. When they receive your love and attention, it’s not for nothing. They open their heart and let you know what they want. When it’s taken away, you occupy a place in their heart and mind that doesn’t soon cease to exist.
Ignoring anybody doesnt work. May work on people who are insecure .but there has to be an attachment first befofe the ignoring happens . This shouldnt be used for evil ,but many make the mistake of doing it so early.
Sure, it doesn't need to happen so early!
this won't work if you aint a successful man... first step of this is become successful, woman shouldn't be your focus... I ultimately believe in this but this likely works if you are achieving your goals...
That's brilliant advice.. it's all working slowly with my crush..
The truth of the matter is when women don't care about you and won't pay attention to you. But you can be rich and happy by focusing on you.
Yea until she doesn’t want you at all because she’s tired of being ignored and is no longer attracted to you.
As a married wife, that’s not applicable to all. When I was single, I ignored any guy I wasn’t into and/or who were jerks, snobs, confident/braggarts, perverts, or criminals and I made that clear from the beginning. Thankfully some accepted that and backed off, but unfortunately some did not and that’s when I had to take legal precautions. As someone who was sexually assaulted, I warn all - Always legally know your rights and remember - you don’t have to tolerate unwanted stalkers and if someone won’t take no for an answer, never be ashamed to ask for help.
I wish I had bumped into your videos while I was in high school. Would have made a huge difference before I started dating.
I think it's fine to give her a space when she feels as if you don't have things to do when your busy chasing her. When you're always calling and texting her, she begins to give you cold shoulders. That's true.
Then I'm that 1% , he was nice caring and became my first boyfriend at age 21, we're an international couple, I'm 26 now and we got married this year while we were away from each other for 3 years because of covid. So guys find a girl who loves you don't play games, if she loves you she does.
honestly this is so stupid
if u ignore me then i feel hurt
plus not everyone wants to chase
scracity works depending on the phase of relaionship and other factors - it s not that siple all the time
It’s a double-edge sword. It doesn’t matter if she does not find you attractive or she might interpret that you might not be interested. Cheers!
"He's ignoring you"
"Who?"
I guess the secret is just ignore their text messages
When a guy ignores me, I think he's no longer interested in me and so I move on.
What if you just never talk to them? Because I'm an expert at that
I love it when men speak for women lol. Women DO NOT equate longing with love. We think you're playing games and will move on.
What woman say they're attracted to vs what they're actually attracted to. I'll trust a guy in this arena any day.
@@SethVanhaelst-f7ldon't ask the fish how to catch it.. 😂 ask the fisherman..😮
Yeah ok😂 I'm sure bet you had a few guys that ignored you and you went crazy..lol stalking his social media and everything else
Yeah, sure. Your word trumps our own lived experiences.
LOL...yet again another woman doesn't know what she actually wants.
Women love the LONGING for a man more than loving the actual man. It's why clinginess is a term used by women and effeminate men, but never used by masculine men toward their women.
You guys, he's talking about a chick youvr established a strong connection with (minimum), not a chick you just met.
Exactly! Are so many men that dense?
You ignor a woman ...she moves on. She ain't waiting around
I don't know about that one part. If a chick cancels our date, it makes me lose interest. Fast. I literally will start talking to another woman.
How about when u say I’m done !! And delete her from your instagram!
My question is: If she’s a hot woman, she would have other high-value men trying to grab her attention. If you’re ignoring her, wouldn’t she just turn her attention to another man who is just as valuable as you (or more)?
I can give feedback as a woman. I'm told I have the capacity to be with a single, and shoot in some cases, committed man of my choosing. I am an introvert, very hermit like but driven, and stay celibate for long periods to focus my energy.
A long-time acquaintance reached out and started doing the hot/cold ignoring thing. It triggered a lot of attachments wounds in me, and he ended up ghosting me for seven months. He reached out again a couple months ago, and then started the hot/cold thing, AGAIN. He revealed to me last weekend he read a book about how to hook women psychologically and biologically using these techniques. I told him, I like you for you. I truly believe we are simply soul mates, you don't have to use mind tricks on me. So now, I'm feeling there really is no love, just manipulation. Thankfully in his absence, I worked on my attachment and self esteem issues. I'm turned off and ready to just go back to hermit mode.
So I say, choose wisely. Know that you are just activating inner wounds by ignoring, not true connection. If you give a woman attention and she starts the hot/cold behavior, those are HER attachment wounds. A secure woman will reciprocate in a healthy way or leave you alone. That's what's happened to this guy over and over. The women end up leaving him for someone else, like I'm about to, except for myself.
9 times out of 10 she is getting validation from her beta orbiters. You want her to turn to another man, because she knows they are going to be there..she will get her validation, but she's still going to wonder about you because She's trying to figure out why you aren't texting her like the rest. It works
@@DG38594 So this makes you guys betas, potentially deltas. You've studied the psychology to make women with attachment, and likely personality disorders- all ego dysfunction - want you. You clearly aren't securely attached, or without ego-dysfunction, or you'd desire securely attached women. By virtue, the fact that you exploit mental and emotional instability means you reflect the same dysfunction.
@@DG38594 But you said “Beta-Orbiters”. If shes hot, guarantee you that she has at least 2-3 alpha men talking to her, and they’re just as valuable as you are.
@celica9098 Nah, see most women like that can't attract high value men or alphas like you think. Yes they have a bunch of beta guys because those are easy, she uses them to her advantage, but most only have 1 at most alpha and he usually doesn't have much to do with her. That's why they like the beta guys..they can get the ego boost and not have to do anything. Women are lazy, they don't want to do more than they have to.
make her very annoyed. work on yourself, girl. you do not need anyone's validation or attention. Love the SELF.
Ok ol all girls ,are also watching men's videos right right.......that's why all these are not working......
Noted.
This only applies to women who are very interested in you otherwise she'll move on as social media gives her much more opportunities these days
Can I ask what’s the goal? To sleep with her? To marry her? To make sure she loves you back???
I don't want to make a woman want me more. I want her to humble herself
We know the game, if he ignores me I’m gone
This is called manipulation. Treat women (any all people) with respect.
Scarcity = Value..😊
I gave her feeling of missing me and now she is riding 34th guy after me within a 2 months
They never want you more - this is pure Hollywood fiction. Nobody who genuinely likes you would cancel on you, or stop texting you.
If you walk away, they're gone for good. They won't come back because they never liked you.... And good riddance. Find someone who truly wants and wants to be with you.
If she likes you, she won't play games. Only those looking for attention off just anyone plays those kind of shenanigans.
They got no money for school uniforms
Wtf no. When a guy ignores me I’m not longing or think omg I want him more, I’m thinking this man has terrible communication, this doesn’t look like a suitable mate or a healthy relationship now on to my next meeting and errand, I’m sure the next one will be better. What kind of broken ass man thinks she wants you more?!?!
As a woman I agree. I was thinking about agreeing to make this man my husband but he’s been using hot/cold behavior too often and it’s turning me off and recessing our whole relationship. He can I agree for a man like that to be my husband and father if my kids? The uncertainty is too scary. How can I be sure he won’t even toy more with my emotions in the future?? It hurts and I liked him for him so why is he using games to activate stupid insecurities?
Finna try this for 24 hours and we'll see how it goes
There’s a whole study on this that’s wild asl
Women need to rethink their game plans. If I'm ignoring a woman it's because by that time I lost interest and moved on to other work. I'm not chasing shit!
How about if i ignore before meeting?
If a woman doesn't seem interested in me, I lose attraction.
Im part of the 1% of women if whom is ignored! I figure oh doesn’t value my communication! So that means he doesn’t want to be bothered! & I leave that situation behind.
Not quite. You only feel that way because 99% of the guys who approach you are guys you don't actually want. You're holding out for a Top 1% guy.
And if that guy EVER approached you, you would behave just like 99% of women do in that circumstance when he begins to keep distance between you two.
@@EriPages I feel a euphoric sensation when I’m alone. It makes me feel, Think & taste the best part of what it means to live in this paradigm.. I’m always looking forward to alone time! So I would never behave like 99% of women who can’t stand be alone or distant from a man. I’m celibate as well! So it makes sense to me that when I’m not approached in public it’s god giving me protection & more time to spend with myself!
@@cryptickink You evoked God & celibacy, so are you wanting to be a nun?
If not, why not? Becoming a celibate nun is the logical step for your purported psychology.
@@cryptickink why aren't you becoming a nun since you've evoked God & celibacy?
How do you deal with your woman being in touch with ex's, such as if she works with them. Or in touch with someone she previously slept with? How to set and enforce boundaries for this.
Ask her how would she feel if the situation would be othervice, that if you were still working with your ex.
Woman are emotion-intelligence. If talk it right to her, not make her feel like you attack on her on this, she will understand your point of wiew.
You can and you must talk it trought to solution that fits for both of you.
Also remember, if she had kids with her ex and they are in good terms because those kids, you just have to deal with it.
Both man and females cheat, even for different reason. As woman we heard all the time, that if man is about to cheat you, he will cheat you no mather what. We woman just has to deal with that fact, 'cos man can cheat without emotion in it. Ifnwe start to think or fear that where his d* has been swimming in, we will come crazy. I mean therapy state crazy. So we hope for the best amd deal it if it happends.
This goes for woman to. If she about to cheat you, you can't stop it. You just have to learn to deal it without coming crazy. And if it happends, it happends.
But usually when ex is ex, she is really had with it, that why she is ex. Woman are very, very ( x billion times more) patience and give man another billion chance, they nag and nag and when man don't grow up, woman stop naging and finally leave. That is mostly the reason why he is the ex. They get lazy, manipulative or cheated, and no woman takes that forever.
@@minnaripatti-terho1275 Wrong. You simply cease being her boyfriend if she persists after you bringing it up to her once.
@@EriPages
So if you would be working with your ex, she should left you? Is this what you mean?
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He’s setting you all up 😬
Ok. Now I'll keep staring at them so they leave me alone.
Every women want a piece of Zeke Moores
Don’t listen to crazy eyes here
This is so inaccurate that ima leave it alone
Now she is missing from my life😂
They dont understand I have personality disorders.
The weird psychology of men that are liberated from their desire for women
Awesome Bro
A big lie ....we replace u en stop caring
it really happens in my real life.
Is there such a thing as that of waiting/ignoring too long?
Bobby did u remove the webinar?
Im the 1% that they forget about me
When u want to be a pro in fishing... U do not ask a fish u ask a fisherman.
More truth
Everyone has so much bad advice to give. As a woman being ignored means he is after someone else or not into you. Women like to be chased.
what women say they want, and what women respond positively to, are totally different things.
@@BobbyRio Our problem is modern man is gay. not that they are hot or cold. they are not men enough all aspects!!!!
@@BobbyRio So gay that you have to invent stupid games to get attention. Try being a traditional guy. Then I will chase.
Funny cuz I just dumped a boy trying to play games like this! He’s been texting trying to explain himself. Blocked! Play stupid games win stupid prizes!
How long were yall together?
I forget
Everytime I see a board out 💀
Forget about him
This only applies when you're hot/handsome/sexy/nerd hot....
This don't work 4 me though it never works 4 me
How long do you have to wait? The girl Im talking to used text me right away. Im going to wait for the third day to text her, or should I wait more?
No
Do what to want to do...... Honestly..... I don't like to play games .....😂😂😂
Do what to want to do honestly. Dont play games....
I ignore that much
i dont recognise her face😢
I was in a good relationship its been 1.5 years with her at first she was a good friend of mine and then we became more than that...for 1 year our relationship was like she always wanted my attention wanted to talk to me texted me but from past 5 months its been a very normal its like we are just doing business with each other no passion like before then she started ignoring me i remember she always used to tell me that if we don't talk throughout the day i want you at night to talk about my whole day this was our daily routine we used to talk at night daily but now she just talks abt 5-10 mins and then she says im feeling sleepy im gonnna go through insta for reels and then go to sleep she started working as a teacher to be added I don't know what to do can someone please help me out
Not working
Not working
Not working
its rubbish u need to engage with a woman but do It with respect don't overwhelm her play it cool show ur busy show u have ur own life show ur not a creep show her that she is not the only option be polite behave like a gentleman give her space and never compromise on yourself respect flirt with her sometimes to keep her guessing ... out of sight out of mind ... all this ignore crap is useless
Do whatever you want honestly . I don't like to play games...
Toxic!
Yea, until you get married, then she starts to devalue you if your gone or don't text right away. Oh wait, thats what a female narc does. Sorry, I got confused. 😂😅😮😅
The amount of views on your vids and the fact that you paid for ads is soul crushingly sad
Wrong
Wow..
👏👏👏👏👏
I HAVE BEEN IGNORING HER FOR PAST 7 YEARS. AND NOW I STARTED IGNORING HER DAUGHTERS TOO..
BUT ATLEAST I ATE CAPSICUMS FIRST AND WASHED MY HANDS BEFORE
Everything just a game huh , all of this is wack
Hi
So fake
Not really