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That DMX drop after he say his name is hilarious hahahaha
The height thing seems to be a very common concern for women in the last 5 years. I'd say I never heard a woman really express that until social media and the like but women are ruining their own chances at happiness overlooking guys under 6 feet. They will suffer dearly of loneliness in the future because of this.
That's one of the reasons why women are screaming where the men at now 😭
I’d arguably say a lot of women r okay w/sharing a taller guy w/another woman than just dating a guy thats their height all bc of social approval
Yeah it started with social media and since women have groupthink mentality, they all jumped on it. In the past it wasn't much of a big deal....
Height was always a factor in dating and attraction only difference now vs then is that they are forced to write their preferences down on their dating app profiles.
They won’t be lonely .. simps will always be ar😊
Never understood these humiliation rituals in general.
This is a good break down though
Generally New Yorkers look angry, but we are not angry.
Lmao. Speak for yourself my guy. Lol
@@AfriqueNY lol, do you know what generally means, I’m speaking for people I know. I wasn’t speaking for you my guy.
His Confidence was dwindling further and further with every round. Lmao.
Ironically, taller chicks will go for us shorter brothers.
Once you date overseas as a short dude it’s no going back.
Man I just proved it I drive Uber and I pulled a 6’3 African college track athlete.
It all boils down to confidence.
She said most men are “intimidated” by her height. I said idgaf I chop trees and yell timber afterwards. She laughed and I told her to let me put my number in her phone I didn’t ask I demanded she take it. Btw I’m 5’9”
@@HOOLITHEWORLDit does not boil down to confidence. It's genetics. Does a man find a man sexually arousing. Confidence comes after your looks get you in the door.
@@MegaSolopolo What are you talking about my guy. Getting a woman’s attention has nothing to do with genetics. You’re doing exactly what MM talking about. Disqualifying yourself and you haven’t even started the race. Confidence comes first. I weigh over 300lbs and have the gift of gab most in Texas have it depends on who raised you. My uncle was a mac had females buying him cars and he was broke and didn’t have a car.
I can get a woman to fwm just by being patient and having a conversation. Slow and steady wins the race. Tortuous vs the Hare youngball
You can have all the looks in the world but if you social awkward and can’t talk to them what good does those looks do?
@@HOOLITHEWORLDexactly!!! Confidence is key and always has been
@@thaiboxing67 Big facts when I say I’m not the most appealing person but my vernacular and my mouth piece so cold I freeze the yitch you hear me
He looks like he’s fresh from a Knicks game at the Garden lol!
right like damn i know they beat the sixers but sheesh the szn over with breh🤣🤣
Guaranteed this dude would have gotten a different reaction if he showed up wearing a Sport Coat with some Stacy Adams on his feet. Versus the Fan Gear.
Hell yeah,.....I am 5'5" and never had a problem with women. From 5'- 6'.
I'm 5'4" and never had an issue getting some. It's a numbers game at the end of the day, approach enough of them and you will eventually find one that's down. No different than a job search.
This show exposing women true nature…I could never be at an older age of 30+ and be degraded by old women with their unrealistic standards. He had every right to be annoyed.
He shouldn't be on that show embarrassing himself in the first place. The women on those shows don't want decent men they want guys who cosplay as hood ninjas and rappers. I myself wouldn't waste a minute of time going on that show especially to try to bag a bunch of entitled single mothers..
Why couldn't he get any younger women?
@alexisc7565 what makes you think the younger women have a lesser height shaming penchant than the older ones? That's a WOMEN thing, not an age thing, not a "older women" thing.
@@odog76543 I never said or thought that. I was asking why not be "degraded" by younger women instead? (The women you actually want)??
@alexisc7565 I know what you said, apparently YOU don't, because your 1st comment did not mention "degrading". You asked why he couldn't get any younger women, which is a question loaded with assumption.
AGAIN, why do you think it's *better* to be "degraded" by a younger woman? That's a rhetorical question of course. Degrading is the same regardless of the age of the perpetrator.
The DMX ad lib was takin me out son ! 😂😂😂
What’s crazy is that there where women in PTB who was telling men 6’ they was to short.
That’s what I was saying this whole thing is a sh!tshow. Women nowadays think 6 feet is average
@@azraelfirstofhisname8695 Exactly!💯
I’m from Brooklyn, far from angry. Very kind if anything.
He just may be a hood dude that leans into it.
I’m around a lot of dynamic guys out here. The type of guys who never get into fights but far from soft. My crowd is the young professional crowd.
Fellow Brooklynite here! 👍🏾👍🏾
Brooklynite as well! Bushwick👍🏿
Word. I'm from Flatbush.. I think it's just his social circle tbh. That angry stereotype is kept alive by his types lol
@@jag2666 yea, he’s type weird to me. Brooklyn people are mad friendly and jovial.
Could be a coping mechanism from getting picked on or bullied a lot. I'm 5'4" and figured out that if I'm hyper aggressive from at first meeting, people tend not to eff with me.
Us short guys don't care about what people think about our height, cause it shows how insecure and small minded society is
14:40 born and raised in Brooklyn, East NY. We aren't angry we are very direct and hate small talk. You will call a spade a spade and a strike a strike. Some folks, Southerns for example consider that to be rude or mean. It isn't just a different communication style. We are always on the go and have little patience for anything that waste our time.
I’m 5’11 and confident about my height. Brooklyn NY is in the building 🧡💙🎯💯
Im short and i got 7 kids. Been married for 13 years.
I'm 6"5 so I have no dog in this fight. But he was respectful. He's dealt with this treatment for over 2 decades. You saw for yourself every woman mentioned height but one. So I get why he is that way.
Born and raised NYers, not all of us are angry all the time! Just don’t piss us off!
I’m seeing guys who are taller than me who don’t have half of my confidence. Get your money up, get your muscle up and most importantly get your confidence up. Learn how to communicate with women without fixating on your height.
Grow some confidence and grow sideways 😂 that’s coming from 5’8 myself. Changes everything
I had to come back and revisit this video it’s just wayyyy too funny to watch once 😂😂😂😂 Uhhhh Huuuhhh 😂😂😂
Bro this one bad me crying 😂hahahahahaha “You mad at breakfast?” HahahahahH “I had to represent!” Really brotha? You had to?
Height isn’t the issue. It’s “rizz”. Charisma. Even if they don’t like guys who aren’t tall, they’ll love you if you’re just that dude.
Yeah. Their appearance is not that of grown men, looking to put their best foot forward. You can’t have a defeatist mind, because of your height. Once you are past 21 years old, you have to expect your place.
I’m 5’7 I never had an issue with women. I only had issues with ones that didn’t think I was there type or the ones that like tall men.
So you have had issues with women 🤦🏾♂️
@@Slow-Rolling I can see you one of the slow ones. 🤦🏿 it’s always one in every group
I think shorter men would be doing a disservice to themselves if they were to just act like women don’t prefer taller men. him keeping his balloon half the time would be “hopeful” at best.
right, and hope is a dangerous thing. His life experiences have shaped his perception.
Honestly though, why would you get on a dating show like this when you know there's a stigma against shorter men? I don't understand the point of coming onto this show with a height chip on your shoulder
I'm a short guy, am aware of the women's tall men preference, and would simply not come onto a dating show like this. I can pull women who are taller than me one on one in public though.
“You a Muslim now!” 😂😂
as a New Yorker all of us men aren't angry a lot of choose to be smooth and have finesse
I'm 5'10 and for the majority of attractive black women or unattractive black women who think their attractive, don't like men under 6ft
I always ask them about their father's height, if they start with that height stuff.... then I tell them, they want a basketball player and they are just following what ever other women do..and that is stupid... Most of the gals are under 5' 6" then I tell them they are short.....and I do not like women that wear high heel shoes, then they say why, and I tell them those shoes are for strippers....... But I do notice they do this the most in front of a camera........when a dude meet them one on one, they do not be using the height stuff especially if they know the dude got money....... Plus, the be saying they want dreads and darkskins , they even be calling brownskin dudes lightskin and the gals is lighter color than the dude......crazy stuff with these gals now......just following whatever other gals be saying.....
Yeah. And it's not going to change.
I will say, being 6'2 gives me an advantange, but knowing how to talk to women, having my ish together, and in shape, makes it too easy!
I'm 6ft3 205lbs. We pull 304s like nothing
women use that NYC disposition as an excuse too
I’m from Chicago and memphis, you gotta have a sort of demeanor about you to move in these places. Especially with the women. Women in these type of places are just as aggressive if not more than men when dealing with men. Men who not from these type of cities won’t get it cuz they used to the soft, dainty types.
I’m also from NY, he’s talking about meeting people on the street, it seems like we unset but we just street toughness!
It’s not commonplace for NY men to be mad at women lol some dudes just aren’t smooth and can come off as aggressive
Got several Homeboys from NYC (Harlem, Bronx, Brooklyn)…dudes will give you the shirts off their backs if you’re in need, they just talk aggressive sometimes, but it’s not an angry vibe. Can’t be talking too crazy to women you just met. The angry thing is specific to him.
Stationed in Korea....The Good Ol'days.
The Best kept "Secret" in the Military Ssshhh, don't tell nobody.
This guy set himself up for failure.
He should’ve never been on that show
*The crazy part is if he was Kendrick Lamar they wouldn't have rejected him...* 😂
Why wouldn’t they reject Kendrick Lamar, because his 5’5” is different, or could it be his money and social status? 🤔
@@mediumman *I think that hypergamy is part of female nature, not only are women more attracted to rich guys but they'll go the extra mile for you and even act like your second mother when your attractive or rich...😂*
They will date any broke 5'5 brad with no money and yellow teeth.
@@mediumman social status Trump's everything. It's woman's aphrodisiac
Im from the Bx, NY and 5’7. I never had a problem with women shorter or taller than me. My critique is he leans on the whole NYC persona. Idk if he just did a bid or replicating a street dude. He doesn’t dress like a NY’er from that street life. Probably a stoop kid. He doesn’t have a sharp tongue with the ladies.
I won’t say we’re angry. We are blunt and in a hurry. Manhattan is not the same as the other boroughs. Next time check out Brooklyn , Queens, Staten Island, and the Bronx.
If you are a BM get in shape/ ripped and all the doors will open everywhere on earth.
thats all you can control im in shape not really for dating anymore but for health reasons lol dating is so vain and full of withcraft giving off a perception or illusion to get people to like you im just following TMH and if i find a woman i find one being single isnt really as awful as people make it seem when you are working on yourself
26:00 9/10 she is lying 🤥. Short men for these women are acquired taste.
Bo shade to the brother but he just seemed like he had personal issues or insecurities he just blames on being from New York.😂
😂 You killin' me with that "UH-HUUH" from DMX. 🤣
Bro hates that God made him short 😂
Yooo lmao
I'm 5'7 and I don't even or ever acted like this guy 🤣
@@jag2666 Exactly! Work with what gave you. Someone will like it, contrary to what society says
@tyblue4359 true lol my lady is 5'3... just got to go where the woman are that have an interest in you
@@jag2666 Exactly 👍
I'm 5'8 myself and nobody has to feel sorry for me. I retired from dating January 1st 2018. At the time i was coming off a two year mobilization with the USAR and i had like six futures in assets. One of the best decisions i ever made. I had already hit my target of 50+ bodies. I quit before I got caught up with me too in all that other stuff. Fast fwd seven years later and my assets have nearly tripled. And when i look at the dating landscape... What am i missing out on? I think a man would have to be a fool to date these days. 😂
I’m from Brooklyn we NY men we have a certain way about us I can even acknowledge that we don’t play with women they going to know what we like and don’t like let me say that 😅😅😅😂
Polo big logo shirt with plaid pants is crazy work
That woman that was thick and under his height was who i would have went for.
If you're a below 5 guy in looks, your greatest weapon to get 😸 is being a nice guy(not a simp) with a fun personality and having great hygiene. Women love clean good smelling men with fun personalities. You will never have to cold approach a wonan. She will approach u. I'm a 3 or 4 and have always had a woman trying to give me some 😸
That's 🧢. Women approach good looking guys. How would a woman who doesn't know of you ever gauge your personality if she doesn't approach you. Smelling good and having a good sense of humor doesn't work unless it's in an isolated environment. Work, or some school/college activity that demands you be near each other.
@@MegaSolopolo Didn't want to write a essay but what I mean't was that women will make the first move for a below 5 guy because they're confident they won't get rejected. Of course they always approach Chads and Tyrone's. A environment like school, work, social situations where a woman consistently sees you and gets used to your looks and personality is the best environment to get some 😸. Stay away from clubs. Even your local stores where women see u all the time and gets to know u. Ex. There's a floor supervisor at my local small neighborhood Walmart thats flirting with me all the time because I always joked and was friendly with her for a long time. I could smash if I wanted to but she has kids. The point is she's a random option that will present itself and many more if you are friendly, fun, socializing and smell good all the time. Your positive fun personality will make u look physically better to a woman. And being a clean good smelling will make her sexually attracted to you.
No lies detected.
Ha. I wish that were true.
Great video
This dude is a fool. That's all I see.
In reality most women just want to be able to wear heels and look up to their man. Even if it's only just a little bit. All u have to do is look around when you're out and about and take notice of the height difference in the couples u see. The men are typically only a few inches taller than the women. Plus for every short man there's an even shorter woman that would be happy to date him. With that said dude hs no reason to be all triggered. He just has to deal with shorter women.
He almost comes off desperate which is typically a turn off to women.
This video was hilarious 😂
Nah us new yorkers aren't angry. That brotha in particular got a chip on his shoulder and something to prove, thus the anger. We're some of the most social and friendly people you could meet.
But as someone who was once a awkward kid in his shell growing up in the Bronx? New Yorkers have low tolerance for small talk and those lacking social skills. You will get brutalized for saying awkward or dumb sh1t.
Definitely think before you speak to a New Yorker. Talk with purpose and like you got some sense.
New Yorkers are not known for their friendliness. Stop it. Y'all are very rude and standoffish. Ny accent is mad aggressive.😂
God the punishment and Desperation...smh
Im going to disagree, really take a look at the mens responses. They dont want her and are trying to disqualify themselves by placing her dislikes up front. This is done, so they dont hurt her feelings, from popping the ballon.
Who is her??
I should have made it plural, all of them. I dont think it was about the men considering themselves out of contention because of height. I think they lead with it l,..to dismiss themselves becuase of lack of attraction...If it was a baddie up, they would have held onto their ballons.
You can get a woman. I'm 5'8. You just have to stay in shape, smell good, have a good sense of humor, and be engaging. Yes, some women like taller men, and that's fine. Their are plenty of other women who will date shorter men. If you're under 5'7, it might be a little harder. But you can get a lady. The guy in the video should've left the Knicks gear at home. It wasn't working in his favor. He didn't sound very confident either.
Confidence comes from repeated success. So if he's striking out with women more times than hitting it's a no brainer his demeanor would wane.
@MegaSolopolo
Success doesn't come easily. That's why you keep trying. Going on a balloon pop show that has a history of humiliating folks is a bad move, especially if you're trying to build confidence. He should've avoided that show entirely.
You and MM need to stop BSing. The shorter you are from the average height the worse it gets for men. Yes, if you max everything else out you can still get a lady, at least for a while. You just have to be better than any of her other options that are taller than you in whatever areas that she considers important. Statistically, around 15% of women are willing to date a man under 5'8". That's not plenty, that's some. No, they probably won't be the ones you actually want and they probably will be keeping an eye out for the version of you that's taller. It is what it is, but be honest about it. Enough with the gaslighting and fake tough love motivation.
@djangomarine6658
I'm not gaslighting. Why would I do that? I've never had a problem getting women. It's not my fault if some of these guys can't find a woman. Like I said. If you're under 5'7 it's going to be a little harder. What else are these guys supposed to do? Sit at home and play Xbox? That balloon pop show is gaslighting.
Might not be the woman you want tho
Medium man. This man does not speak for NY in general. Ny men are friendly, especially to women. Ny women on the other hand lol
17:23 facts 😂😂😂
Can you imagine the uproar if it was reversed and a man said it's not you it's your fat.thankfully I grew up b4 social media so women just wanted a guy taller than them.i feel bad for the guys that have to deal with these modern women
His life experiences have shaped his perception, is it being a defeatist or is it being a realist? Especially on a public dating show where women will purposely inflate their standards to boost their ego.
She has to get these guys height when she introduce them self For prospective
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@@mediumman meant height***
I don't think he means he is angry with women. It is a persona. I had to let go when I moved to a different state. That persona is we have to have living amongst dudes who don't back down. You meet people with you Tyson best. You should know that by looking at Mike Tyson and his persona. Brothers who talk like he is the minority are those dudes who live a safe life and not commonly around the heat of Brooklyn. I went through it, but my kids who grew up there didn't see the worst. I think those who don't understand his mannerisms never really lived in the hood. Like I said my kids never seen the worse. New York City allows you to live on the outer rim of the hard life. You have a choice. You find our where you fit in and stay in that lane. Hard-core Brothers are always willing to died. Softer guys can live there, but stay out of those sets. When you know you know.
damn.. that was hard to watch.
Now that takes heart, for a short king to do that. Black women are incredibly sensitive to embarrassment, so you get alot of immature reactions when not meeting archetypes. You CAN get over that with personality and attitude.
JA RULE X
UH HUH! 🐕🦺
I think dude was overselling New York, overall in terms of attitude and look. Part of that may be his gimmick because he is short. And that may work in MORE ISOLATED SITUATIONS. I’m sure there’s some chicks in his DMs right now because they like what they saw. But it’s not gonna work ON the show when you stand next to a panel other dudes where she can make direct comparisons physically or catch a vibe. Most women are overstimulated in this situation.
I’m from NYC most of us don’t act like that it’s mostly ppl from the hood that act like him.
NYC is urban tho
He’s not a street guy. Don’t let the clothes fool you.
I'm a short guy standing at 5'0 160 LBS, I support the channel and alot of facts are spoken by @mediumman
Is 5’11 too short!
2nd worst dating show on social media
Short guys do need to accept the fact women primarily desire taller men. Hey it's biology/evolution you want to argue with. Women/society also need to not gaslight men into thinking they need to work on personality on not dating men 5'9 and below. Honesty goes a long way.
The idea of it being a biology/evolutionary trait in women wanting taller men sounds plausible. But one thing I don’t see brought up with the argument, is the thought of social approval or social status in a day and time where things like height or not even a guarantee of whether or not someone is even a good partner.
Hey Mods, you suck for deleting my comment.
If he’s a short pretty boy, women would chose him
I'm at that 9 minute mark. This is getting cringy. However, is it more an issue of this specific individual being extremely defeatist rather than a whole pattern? Short dudes been in that show with a lot more confidence and done fine.