A Brutally Honest Hysterectomy Q+A | FTM

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  • Опубліковано 8 лют 2024
  • It's been 5 years since my last surgery and looking back through my old youtube videos, I've realised how much things have changed.
    * I want to make it clear that my regret is not a trans specific thing. I am disappointed in the lack of resources available for trans people to make more informed decisions. I am disappointed in the healthcare system not doing their job to support their patients. I am disappointed that I have been left to cope with these issues alone. This does not mean trans affirming healthcare should be more restricted, it means healthcare professionals should be doing their jobs.
    Here is the guide on hysterectomies I illustrated:
    www.folxhealth.com/library/hy...
    Here are the old videos documenting my hysterectomy:
    1 week post op: • 1 Week Post Hysterecto...
    2 weeks post op: • Two Weeks Post Hystere...
    1 month post op: • One Month Post Hystere...
    6 weeks post op: • 6 Weeks Post Hysterect...
    Hysterectomy Q+A (old) • Hysterectomy Q+A | FTM...
    4 months post op: • 4 Months Post Hysterec...
    6 months post op: • Six Months Post Hyster...
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  • @uskidsknow19
    @uskidsknow19 4 місяці тому +19

    I woke up after my hysterectomy and opened youtube and this was the first video on my feed 😂

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +4

      It's a siiign! Hope your recovery is going well :D

    • @theharshtruthoutthere
      @theharshtruthoutthere 4 місяці тому

      @@Ocean_Grove Patients are deceived, but doctors are pure evil.
      Doctors have duty to know more and understand good and evil. The doctors of this generations are all gone mad.
      There is non who is trans, ever. All what you, deceived souls deed was: you step out from gender. GOD formed you either male or female and you went and took it away from yourself. You destroyed the HOLY TEMPLE OF GOD = YOUR BODY.
      1 Corinthians 3:16KJV
      Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
      1 Corinthians 6:19
      What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
      1 Corinthians 3:17
      If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
      Deuteronomy 22:5
      The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
      You have became genderless, not trans nor intersex.
      And may I ask: what`s up with the masonry 666 hand sign, many of you show off?

  • @anthonygreen5160
    @anthonygreen5160 4 місяці тому +17

    I transitioned in 2000. I'm 51 now and only got around to having my hysterectomy last year. I experience hot flushes and night sweats at first but they did improve over time. Anti- depressants have helped. My gender consultant said that increasing testosterone levels might help. Unfortunately this is not an option for me as it has had nasty side effects. Sorry you are not getting the care you need. You do have the right to register with another practice. I did and what a huge difference in the standard of care I get. It's one of the best things I did. If you are LGBT my doctors practice is the way to go. They have a positive and knowledgeable attitude towards trans people. I'm very lucky.

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +5

      Thank you for this perspective! Upping my T isn't an option either as my blood is too thiccccc.
      Congrats on your hysto though, and I'm so glad the symptoms went away!

    • @eeweeweew
      @eeweeweew Місяць тому

      ​@@Ocean_GroveAre you using Sustanon? In that case it might be that the lower trough levels makes you not produce enough estrogen from your T, while the higher peaks are know to be cause high hematocrit. Have you tried switching to gel or Nebido?

  • @TerraUmbraVampWriter
    @TerraUmbraVampWriter 4 місяці тому +7

    It’s good to know I’m not the only trans masc with the pelvic pain.
    I don’t live in a very trans health informed place, and my gyno doesn’t think surgery will help, but the pain is constant, distracting, and getting worse even though estrogen cream and increasing the dosage does seem to help some.
    Nice to know having everything removed made it stop hurting so much.

    • @jasper6164
      @jasper6164 4 місяці тому +2

      you need a new gyno. if youre having chronic pelvic pain you should get checked out ASAP with a trans informed gyno, even if it means going out of your area. testosterone can have profound affects on the uterus, vagina, etc, and its essential to go to someone who understands that.

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +2

      I'm sorry you don't feel super supported at the moment :( I hope you can find a remedy!

  • @rununun
    @rununun 4 місяці тому +9

    Ahhhh shooty butt pains! I used to get those when I had periods, I totally forgot they existed! And thanks for answering my question. Also I've been deliberating over keeping an ovary because of hormone shortages since Brexit so that is really really great insight without even considering the menopause side of things. I'm getting my referral very soon so this video was perfectly timed and really helpful, thank you!

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +3

      Ahaha I guess forgetting they existed is a good sign that they're not annoying you anymore! I haven't had any in a few years which is great!
      Yess the mess of the country has just made me feel so vulnerable when it comes to medical care! It's hard to feel secure enough to know it'll be there for us if we need it.
      Hope everything goes well with you my love!

  • @sophieen6145
    @sophieen6145 4 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for sharing your story and for being so clear with the pros and cons.
    "What Fresh Hell is This" by Heather Corinna is a really amazing book that covers everything mono-pause in a gender neutral (and quite entertaining!) way. Heather covers a wide range of symptoms, remedies and issues, and as a trans individual, they have a much more approachable way of talking about meno-pause in transmen, women, and all!
    (I get the butt pains on my period! They're HORRIBLE, I'm often found collapsed on the bathroom floor by my partner!)

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +2

      Oh thank you so much for the reccomendation! I'll check it out :D
      Why does nobody talk about the butt pain!!!! Omg i'm so sorry!!!

  • @dalailarose1596
    @dalailarose1596 4 місяці тому +8

    Cats always have perfect timing.

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +1

      She's a natural comedian ;)

  • @satunbreeze
    @satunbreeze День тому

    This was insanely valuable! Im currently trying to figure out which surgery I want to get first, and how to make that happen. I think I have to figure out which will be more relieving for me, top surgery or a hysterectomy. A hysterectomy might give me a mental sigh of relief due to not having the risk of pregnancy, it costs less to get, and I dont have to continue taking birth control (which has historically messed with my head), but getting top surgery would make it so I wouldnt have to worry about my chest all the time, whether Im being misgendered because of it, and feeling more freedom in how I move in the world. I wish I didnt have to choose like this.
    Thank you, though. I feel far more informed!

  • @arthur_rockwell
    @arthur_rockwell 4 місяці тому +2

    This was very interesting and informative. Thanks for the video!

  • @jaidenlove2419
    @jaidenlove2419 4 місяці тому +7

    Ever since my hysto, my bladder has to be pretty full before I will even feel the urge to pee anymore! Olive TOTALLY made me smile hanging off the arm of the couch!! 😄❤

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  4 місяці тому +2

      Oh that's so interesting! I'm the opposite haha!

  • @suzanneburn9873
    @suzanneburn9873 2 місяці тому +1

    Im currently recoving from a hysterectomy this video just come up, i kid you not, thank you and yes i have an answer to those shooting bum pains 😭

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  2 місяці тому

      I'm sorry you're having shooty bum pains!! I hope your recovery goes smoothly

  • @eeweeweew
    @eeweeweew Місяць тому +1

    Did you have your estrogen levels checked ever? And do you know for sure that your testosterone dose is high enough. Everyone needs estrogen, and cis men produce it out of the excess of testosterone they have. If you don't have ovaries anymore and your T is not high enough, or your body is just bad at making E from T I could be that you just do not have enough estrogen.
    I came back to your channel because a Dutch TERF is a tiktok with clips from this video for her agenda. I am sorry you have been let down by the medical system so much, happy to see you are back.

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  Місяць тому

      Yeah! I get them checked before my injections usually - all the hormones! Changing to gels soon so hopefully that helps!

  • @shaymabrahem9203
    @shaymabrahem9203 4 місяці тому

    in which clinic you did it please?

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  2 місяці тому

      This was in newcastle, uk!

  • @rebeccatrishel
    @rebeccatrishel Місяць тому

    I seem to remember a video you did that had you drawing a pregnant man and you said "I regret my hysterectomy"

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  Місяць тому

      Yes! It’s on private now as I didn’t want it to be visible :)

    • @rebeccatrishel
      @rebeccatrishel Місяць тому

      @@Ocean_Grove Oh my God, thank you for replying because I thought I was going crazy for a minute.

  • @harleyhalsey
    @harleyhalsey 3 місяці тому

    You remind me of Winnie the Pooh in the best way 🫶

    • @Ocean_Grove
      @Ocean_Grove  2 місяці тому

      Hahahaha is it the cardigan?