Recognizing and Treating Problematic Fear & Anxiety in Children | John Piacentini, PhD | UCLAMDChat

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  • @daydreamerexo5644
    @daydreamerexo5644 6 років тому +216

    My teacher said “everyone gets anxious, everyone has anxiety you just need to try, and I’m picking on you to help you” I explained to her that it doesn’t help... she still picks on me

    • @galaxyoldacc483
      @galaxyoldacc483 5 років тому +10

      DayDreamer EXO ikr like it just makes it worse

    • @missGolightly420
      @missGolightly420 5 років тому +7

      Wow hope youre doing okay. That's really rough

    • @normalchannel7106
      @normalchannel7106 5 років тому +4

      Do you know a way for me to get my fear out of thinking ima die because when Cameron Boyce died I got pain idk what and I got scared thinking i was going to die so can you help me

    • @leamartin9868
      @leamartin9868 5 років тому +3

      This is just superb, been searching for "eliminate social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some amazing things about it and my cousin got cool results with it.

    • @afiaama1299
      @afiaama1299 5 років тому +1

      Cheers for this, I been tryin to find out about "i have social anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Qanwen Donuke Approach - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.

  • @johndeluna692
    @johndeluna692 5 років тому +81

    I have been suffering of anxiety since childhood but I thought it's just who I am.

    • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069
      @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069 5 років тому +1

      John De Luna I’m 9 and have suffered from it for years. And might end it when I’m older 😌
      I’m going to hell though.. I know it. So I’m gonna have a bad life. There are things I can’t even tell to online friends.

    • @sean_2106
      @sean_2106 4 роки тому +2

      I have anxiety in health and love ones im scared to lose my love ones and im scared to die

    • @shhjgjg
      @shhjgjg 4 роки тому

      im 9 and idk if i have one so im watching this...

    • @nura4068
      @nura4068 4 роки тому +1

      --Gacha Creations-_-_ hey I don’t know what religion you believe in but if it’s Islam or Christianity just ask for forgiveness for whatever it is, God is more forgiving than we are of ourselves ❤️ so just because we can’t over our mistakes doesn’t mean we won’t be forgiven for them. You’ll never know where you’re end up, you have to be ok with not knowing, that’s the hard part with anxiety

    • @meharg6298
      @meharg6298 4 роки тому

      @@sean_2106 same but how i can get rid off 😭

  • @DrCyrusVeil
    @DrCyrusVeil 5 років тому +32

    Always great to hear folks talking about childhood anxiety. I see it a lot in my own practice as a child psychologist. I’ll be making my own videos on that subject soon.

    • @zimpk8033
      @zimpk8033 5 років тому +2

      i have adhd and i get really horrible anxiety from separation
      i got left at home a bit longer than usual so i broke in to really bad tears and got to a point where i thought i would have to kill myself

  • @DottieMinerva
    @DottieMinerva 2 роки тому +10

    I’m watching this because my son deals with fears and I want to help him but watching this reminds me of what an anxious child I was. The difference is I didn’t verbalize it to anyone.

    • @ardmis48
      @ardmis48 10 місяців тому +1

      I hope your kid gets over it. In my culture we have spiritual people that take fear out with prayers and rituals, we sometimes look at it same as evil eye. Fear usually comes from something tragic happing or can even be passed down. Anyone with fear and anxiety can be triggered by just saying the word anxiety or fear.

  • @richardmarranca3870
    @richardmarranca3870 4 роки тому +11

    This was excellent from start to finish. It offers a vocabulary and a structure to deal with various problems that kids have based on anxiety and other issues. It has great advice at the end for both parents and kids. It's a wise action plan that all parents can learn from.

  • @BrendaNoon
    @BrendaNoon 11 місяців тому +2

    I had all of these as a child, phobias, social anxiety, selective mutism, GAD & separation anxiety, but I never knew back then that it was called anxiety, until I was 21 years old did I found out, I wish I knew sooner. My life would´ve been much easier.

  • @구양현-b9h
    @구양현-b9h 11 місяців тому

    This would be a good content that I recommend all of them prior to contact with someone whom I used to call a teacher when I was young at my 20s.
    I always appreciate all of your dedication to doing your defense and military service to make our society better and safer.

  • @apbls
    @apbls 4 роки тому +4

    This webinar is very helpful, I hope many parents get a chance to learn about the various strategies shared. One key message is that anxiety is very treatable. In my personal experience, what made the difference was a holistic approach that included mindfulness and emotional freedom techniques. There isn't a one-size-fits-all solution and a combination of strategies to help both parents and children heal their anxiety is often the best approach.

  • @KarissaAnneGMoog
    @KarissaAnneGMoog 3 роки тому +2

    I am having child anxiety until now , and this is because I am a perfectionist

  • @cjlovesyou5674
    @cjlovesyou5674 6 років тому +156

    Im tired of my self. I always feel alone even i have friends etc.

    • @prime-boys
      @prime-boys 5 років тому

      my friend you will find yourself if you leave

    • @asmrchansey5538
      @asmrchansey5538 5 років тому +1

      Same.

    • @Coco-sj5nc
      @Coco-sj5nc 5 років тому

      Cjlovesyou same !!!

    • @edward1444
      @edward1444 5 років тому +7

      Never be tired of yourself. Love more yourself. You deserve it.

    • @sometimetea6956
      @sometimetea6956 5 років тому +2

      Edward 144
      It’s harder than you think

  • @Max-dr6rz
    @Max-dr6rz 5 років тому +44

    School gives me anxiety I cry everyday because I keep failing, like I can't pay attention. Even if I try.

    • @Mikhashilin
      @Mikhashilin 5 років тому +4

      MynxLynx i get really anxious and when my anxiety peaks i get terrible stomach aches, and a fear of everything

    • @synthia4020
      @synthia4020 5 років тому +1

      I have this problem too. Have you tried talking a psychiatrist about ADHD?

    • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069
      @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069 5 років тому

      Just school?? Wow. I would rather have ur life than my shitty life. I’m 9 and idc that I’m cussing. I DONT CARE.

    • @peacefullylove9566
      @peacefullylove9566 5 років тому

      Try to increase your left frontal lobe activity. It's mean we need to do activity that'd let's our brain happy.

    • @iJJ895
      @iJJ895 5 років тому +2

      @@peacefullylove9566 please how 😭

  • @alfie6061
    @alfie6061 5 років тому +93

    I can’t even speak to my teacher I’m that nervous I really hate being in front of a crowd or even a group I can’t control myself when I cry it’s almost like it’s automatic 😐

    • @brianandrew7265
      @brianandrew7265 5 років тому

      This was great, thanks, I been tryin to find out about "generalized anxiety disorder children" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my colleague got great success with it.

    • @tonylars4128
      @tonylars4128 5 років тому +1

      This was great, thanks, been searching for "free your child from anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got cool success with it.

    • @pakistanis1782
      @pakistanis1782 5 років тому

      This was great, thanks, I've been looking for "son suffers from anxiety" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Quonfen Anxiety Adirondacks - (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some interesting things about it and my neighbour got great success with it.

    • @kayme4193
      @kayme4193 5 років тому

      Thats so me....

    • @anxg_elx8410
      @anxg_elx8410 5 років тому

      RaDeZ Alfie that’s the same as me when I cry I say in my head I’m okay and I repeat it but it just happens

  • @lunchycrunchlunchbunch5287
    @lunchycrunchlunchbunch5287 6 років тому +134

    I have anxiety but sometimes even when I’m just scared of nothing ...

  • @hellomarisolmo
    @hellomarisolmo 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this. It gave me a better perspective and understanding. I also have anxiety but it has gotten SO much better after being diagnosed with ADHD and getting medicated. I spoke with my daughter's pediatrician and he suggested therapy and fish oil. I hope they can guide me . Thank you.

  • @Veryberrymalyali
    @Veryberrymalyali 3 роки тому +2

    I have symptoms of anxiety sometimes between 6 to 7 i am lost in my world i lock my self in my room i cry for no reason i feel better wen i listen to life goes on and love myself

  • @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069
    @_-_-gachacreations-_-_3069 5 років тому

    Ive been depressed for years now. I am now 9 years old. I wish I could have a better life but I’m stuck here. Kinda wish I could end it. But I still have the people I love ❤️. I give signs a lot, nobody seems to care. My brother told me im a attention seeker. But I think he is noticing.. I wasn’t acting confident today at school, my teacher told me to try and be more confident. Nobody really likes me at school. I have like 2 friends.. and I can trust them. And I have a friend online and I’ve told him about this. I always wished for a happier life. ❤️😔

    • @iblanco1
      @iblanco1 4 роки тому +1

      Hi, I am so so glad that you have friends that you can talk to and that you can trust. I am sorry that you aren't happy with how things have been going for you in your life. Have you told an adult that you trust (parents, aunt, uncle, teacher or school counselor)? Maybe talking isn't your thing, maybe it is writing, drawing, etc. Whatever does help you, continue to do that. I hope you find peace and joy. I really really do. You are young and it would be horrible if the world lost you so young and didn't get to witness what you are capable of.

  • @marinamendez7083
    @marinamendez7083 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this video. it is very informational and helpful to both me and my son.

  • @sofiyarini
    @sofiyarini 2 роки тому +1

    Ur a Godsend, thx u so much for all this tips i'm going to try it.. hopefully i'll manage to do it

  • @esmeraldacruz8646
    @esmeraldacruz8646 6 років тому +4

    I have anxiety and last year I just started worrying all over the place I want to make friends and connect with people I’m going to try to join the track team at my school so I can try and socialize and hopefully it all works out

    • @othmanechinoui
      @othmanechinoui 5 років тому +1

      Hello
      How are you?

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Yes, please tell us if ur alright now!

  • @ines180
    @ines180 5 років тому +9

    It’s literally affecting my health
    When i travel my anxiety goes up the roof and i get diarrhea and chest pain also my skin starts to itch at times. I don’t deserve this i want to get better it’s affecting my life too much

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +2

      Hope u talk to and find someone who will understand and help u! It will get better, even if it takes a while!

    • @mommaonabudget2742
      @mommaonabudget2742 3 роки тому

      Hope you are feeling better, my daughter and myself deal with high anxiety and it is so tough, good kuck

  • @jenikahorn
    @jenikahorn Рік тому +1

    I was born with ADHD and anxienty born my entire life and when thunderstorms come its kicks in really bad and i cry

  • @allawi8120
    @allawi8120 5 років тому

    no lies i almost having been trying over 2000 time to get rid of social anxiety , since i was 14 when i changed my class untill today 20 years old , i miss that days when i was friendly and lovable daily..😢😢😢😢

  • @whatshisname2497
    @whatshisname2497 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much. I felt really lost on this and the video helped guide me in the right direction.

    • @olgabushak2942
      @olgabushak2942 2 роки тому

      Look up 'anxiety guy' by Dennis Simsek on youtube. VERY good videos

  • @stanleymessiless9717
    @stanleymessiless9717 5 років тому +17

    Anxiety is making me worked up ...My heart race so first and i have all the physical symptoms of anxiety .

  • @nadinesimpson6135
    @nadinesimpson6135 3 роки тому

    My grandson is in fear of most things n have memory lost and don't understand things easily when you explain to him n can't believe ng a message straight he is right years old

  • @singing-gamestv997
    @singing-gamestv997 5 років тому +8

    When I was 9… I was an “early bloomer”. I was in 4th grade with “HUGE” boobs… I would no longer wear my fav clothes if my “boobs” looked too big in them. I would wear big baggy sweaters and 0 long-sleeves or shirts that are tight. I had so much anxiety that I didn’t know what to do, I wanted to blend in w/ the other kids. I didn’t want to go to school because I thought kids would make fun of me… so, my dad set me up for therapy. I noticed that I had a mental health disorder where I see things on my body that other people didn’t… I DO NOT HAVE BOOBS!!!! I would tell myself every night, and when I did have boobs…I LOVED THEM!!!!!!! Never think ur not good enough. That’s a mistake I made…

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Oof glad ur feeling better now!

    • @brittasings
      @brittasings 3 роки тому +1

      You had a good dad!!

  • @philcooper2408
    @philcooper2408 5 років тому +11

    Maybe pupils are anxious for entirely rational reasons. If you face intimidation or abuse in an adult workplace its socially unacceptable and you complain or go to the police. Yet we expect kids to cope with brutalising conditions that often resemble prison rules where bullys rule and authority turns a blind eye. If you complain then you are the one that is blamed. Teachers and parents say fight back, but if you do it just escalates the violence and always leads to the victim getting the blame.

  • @allisonhazelwood102
    @allisonhazelwood102 3 роки тому +1

    I really appreciate this video. So helpful. Thank you for sharing!

  • @xypheir_
    @xypheir_ 4 роки тому +2

    Back in elementary till 7th Grade I didn't have any problems about anxiety I was just shy but when I reached 7th and 8th grade I would always feel anxious and thinking too much about everything and that's when I would have panic attacks too it's really hard to control especially when public speaking. I just wanna overcome it during this quarantine

    • @olgabushak2942
      @olgabushak2942 2 роки тому

      Look up 'anxiety guy' by Dennis Simsek on youtube. VERY good videos

    • @hitshering
      @hitshering 2 роки тому

      I found this video when looking for guidance for my 6 yr old son experiencing anxiety. Your response was posted 2 yrs ago, how are you feeling now with your fear? I hope you have overcome it with success 👍
      While growing up I had the same fear as you of public speaking and it was extreme since I left one school in the middle because I was so scared to speak on stage. After finishing college, I started to work on my fear/weakness and now I have overcome the fear of public speaking. In fact I enjoy it 😊 We have the ability to overcome our fear.
      Now, as a mom I am looking for solutions to help my son cope with his anxiety/fear.

    • @hitshering
      @hitshering 2 роки тому

      I found this video when looking for guidance for my 6 yr old son experiencing anxiety. Thank you for posting this video, very helpful!
      While growing up I had the same fear as you of public speaking and it was extreme since I left one school in the middle because I was so scared to speak on stage. After finishing college, I started to work on my fear/weakness and now I have overcome the fear of public speaking. In fact I enjoy it 😊 We have the ability to overcome our fear.
      Now, as a mom I am looking for solutions to help my son cope with his anxiety/fear.

  • @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911
    @ibelieveinjesuschrist8911 2 роки тому +1

    so helpful in so many ways!!!!

  • @suulapoola6447
    @suulapoola6447 5 років тому +5

    I have anxiety, autism and i have a fear of abandonment which means i can never get too close to people incase they leave me but psople i get close to i end up going to extremes to make sure they don't leave me

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 5 років тому

      i have anxiety and a fear of abandonment but im more scared of getting close to people and getting hurt so i don’t like getting close to people to the point where im afraid of it.

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому

      SEEK 👏 HELP 👏 PLEASE 👏
      You poor souls... Please do... Its not fun to keep it hiding...

  • @tinat1974
    @tinat1974 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Sir.

  • @Oobservatory_X
    @Oobservatory_X 2 роки тому +3

    I have anxiety issues I get anxious my heart starts beating fast whenever I talk to someone

  • @liorliv3Gaming
    @liorliv3Gaming 5 років тому +3

    I wish this was on spotify so I could listen on the way :)

    • @AndreaWanting
      @AndreaWanting 5 років тому +1

      Download Tubemate. Then download this to phone

  • @nildatsubaki7758
    @nildatsubaki7758 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much. It is very informative.

  • @latinamm7013
    @latinamm7013 5 місяців тому

    I teach Pre-K ESE and have a 4 year old boy whose autistic
    His mom cannot leave his sight at home such as go to the bathroom shower etc otherwise he’ll have a huge meltdown
    In my classroom, I cannot leave the classroom otherwise he will have a huge meltdown and become extremely aggressive and hurt anyone in the room.
    If I sneak out the room and if he notices that I’ve left the room he’ll still have a huge meltdown. Nobody can figure out why the child reacts like that towards the mom and teacher.

  • @好喔谷弟漢個
    @好喔谷弟漢個 3 роки тому

    yeah, it's a good program, it helped me out a lot

  • @sujathabehere1247
    @sujathabehere1247 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks a lot lot of inputs... It was really good

  • @CharlieMansfield22
    @CharlieMansfield22 4 роки тому +1

    anxiety is where there’s a rush of stress when anyone comes close to you exc. you may feel like you can’t breathe and there’s an elephant on your chest type feel,breathing in and out is a good method for calming yourself down.

  • @brettconv83
    @brettconv83 4 роки тому

    I just noticed my son who just turned four is doing things that worry me. He uses my phone for a short time to watch kids UA-cam and play learning games. Well I noticed my phone case which is a life proof case he is picking the rubber clean on the phone case. It started with just the buttons and after a couple weeks my phone case is stripped clean. He’s a very sweet loving boy so I am worried about him .

  • @contentedspirit9022
    @contentedspirit9022 5 років тому +6

    There needs to be an effort to determine WHY the anxiety exists to begin with. ASD, ADHD, PTSD, abuse, executive functioning dysfunction, sensory processing disorders, twice exceptional child, developmental disorders. Can't just treat the symptom. Good information however.

    • @mandacole8703
      @mandacole8703 4 роки тому +1

      I would really love to know as well. I assumed my anxiety was trama induced from a crap upbringing, but my son has been shielded from the abuse I had to live with and I see it starting in him. 😭😥 Both my parents and grandparents have anxiety and mental health issues on different levels. I never want him to feel how I do 😭

  • @brother-qofficial8163
    @brother-qofficial8163 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the explanation

  • @alphaw1748
    @alphaw1748 2 роки тому

    Excellent video

  • @ajinkyakhandare4748
    @ajinkyakhandare4748 3 роки тому +1

    Very valuable video thank you so much sir ❤

  • @bharatinayudu
    @bharatinayudu 5 років тому +1

    Thank you very much!!! This was helpful

  • @brilliantwriter4856
    @brilliantwriter4856 5 років тому +2

    I walk aimlessly through the store
    Do I look up or down
    Left or right
    If I look at you
    Wouldnt it cause a fright
    I try not to think about you but
    I cant help but feel you're thinking about me
    Why cant I concentrate
    I forgot why I came here
    Now I'm really causing a sight
    My heart beats faster
    My thoughts losing control
    I feel hot
    Oh please make it stop
    I walk outside
    I sit in my car
    I go home
    Finally
    An end to these crazy thoughts
    🤩

    • @brilliantwriter4856
      @brilliantwriter4856 5 років тому +1

      @julesdownunder we you must know what you're talking about because I do suffer from PTSD because of trauma as a child. The trauma was being left alone at age 5 hours into the night, sitting at the window, waiting for someone to come home, scared someone would break in and hurt me, it became ocd, I cried every night it was a ritual my father never listened to me. It was intense then I started to have nightmare, sleep walk and talk, to this day it doesnt go away. Also my mother told me that I cried alot as a baby and once she left me in the closet alone to cry. Ugh... i dont know what else she did but maybe theres more

    • @mylink.orb17
      @mylink.orb17 3 роки тому

      Whoa, get outta my head dude.

  • @shelbeecoulter6219
    @shelbeecoulter6219 6 років тому +6

    I have anxiety about everything well almost everything everything that he said I have anxiety towards it

  • @ar1eea.
    @ar1eea. 3 роки тому +3

    I’m a 10-year-old, and I am afraid of Natural Disasters, Ghosts, Kidnapping, Hacking. I’m a Extrovert, but still, I’m very concerned if people like my videos and stuff.

    • @Veryberrymalyali
      @Veryberrymalyali 3 роки тому +1

      Me too i was 9 wen i had symptom s now im 12 im still having issues

    • @ar1eea.
      @ar1eea. 3 роки тому

      I hope you get cured! 💜

  • @BiscuitYT-n6v
    @BiscuitYT-n6v 3 роки тому

    I don’t know why.. but sometimes I forget about being sane, and I think bad things about the people I love.. Like, their gonna do something bad. I trust them all 100% except my uncle. So I don’t know why I feel like that. It’s hard to explain so sorry!

  • @vanessakyrillos9406
    @vanessakyrillos9406 5 років тому +2

    really good video!! we need more of that :)

  • @arksadian
    @arksadian 5 років тому +4

    I have anxiety and i want to go to the new idea school and ik im going to have anxiety and im afraid that i might get bullied again and i don't want that to happen again and i always feel left out on everything and i also felt really different beacuse i were boy shirts and shorts and when im in stores people stare at me and i dont like how they stare at me it scares me prob beacuse i never really get out of the house

  • @Hellohellohello5
    @Hellohellohello5 5 років тому +3

    That was fantastic doctor thank you a million !🙏

  • @RocketUsa
    @RocketUsa 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for this video. 🙏🏼

  • @islamabadthebeautiful9261
    @islamabadthebeautiful9261 5 років тому +4

    my 4 year old daughter has just started school.earlier she cried and denied to leave for school.but now she knows she has to go to school so she dont cry alot but her anxiety triggers her to vomit once during the school timings or just before leaving the school....

  • @marcodeluca4068
    @marcodeluca4068 5 років тому

    I had a kid who is extremely shy and feel afraid to do anything because he will be judged

  • @evelyneloiterstein7085
    @evelyneloiterstein7085 5 років тому +1

    Being in school may lead to an existential crisis, i.e. does my presence in school have meaning, purpose, or value? Is my life wasted by spending so many hours, years in school and not learning much or not learning what I want to learn?

  • @isamic_amol
    @isamic_amol 6 років тому +7

    I think it's really helpful

  • @Cr4zy3lf
    @Cr4zy3lf 5 років тому +2

    I just found out I have a Anxiety disorder, and honestly I'm anxious about having anxiety 😖 I mean I already have so many things going on. I see 6 different doctors for different things. I now have to take Anxiety Medicine. I'm having my first surgery a major surgery in a couple months. I have problems with eating and might have to get a feeding tube. I'm getting braces sometime soon. On Sunday it will have been a year since my best friends dad passed away, I'm horrible at comforting people. My Grandpa's having surgery the 22nd.
    I feel like I can't talk to anyone, even when I'm with family and friends I feel like I'm alone. I'm just so scared. I also haven't seen my other best friend I've known for 8 years in 2 years. Everyday I just wish my sibling who died before they were born could be here on Earth. I don't know what to do, I'm just lost in a world where I feeling like I'm drowning- I have had a near drowning experience. I keep worrying about something happening to my parents- mostly caused by my dad's car catching on fire with him inside when I was 4 and my friends Dad's death. Someone help please I'm just a lost 12 year hoping for someone to grab my hand and understand.😖😩😟
    I know this may sound stupid or like a cry for help- but online is the only place I feel like I can share my true feelings. Have a great day Everyone 🤩✨🤓💖 You're all awesome beloved children of God. Just remember this qoute "Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day"💝❣️💌✨💓💗💖💬 I thought that quote was cute!!!🤓✨😁🤩👌 P.s. if you read all of this congratulations... Your crazy✨ Remember keep Calm and Smile Wide😁🤓🤩😃😇😺😸😻😍😝😋😉

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf 5 років тому

      I use too many emojis 😐😑

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 4 роки тому

      It’s going to be ok! You have so much to live for and I might not know much about you but I know that you are strong! I like that quote I’m going to write it in my journal🙏🏽

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf 4 роки тому +2

      @@brandoncarrillo951 Thank you! You are a very kind person!

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 4 роки тому +1

      RandomGirl4 O_o thank you I believe we need to be like that with anyone. We need to be the good in a bad place. Good attracts good and we should strive for improving. Hope you have a blessed day🙏🏽

    • @Cr4zy3lf
      @Cr4zy3lf 4 роки тому +1

      @@brandoncarrillo951 Thank you it is night. I hope you have a good night/day too!

  • @tangokan7494
    @tangokan7494 4 роки тому +1

    My daughter 15 and half is very smart but doesn't want to go to school. She will start crying, her anxiety will trigger even if 2 family members are taking about something but she thinks they are referring to her. I'm her dad but she stopped talking to me since I unfortunately had argument with her 3 months ago. She's afraid to be in same room as me. Please suggest how to handle her phobia and normalise relationship with her. Thanks.

  • @mujjuuu
    @mujjuuu 4 роки тому +3

    I have fear of mosquitoes cause in my precious house there where tons of mosquitoes they always bit me like evry second so mosquito's fear started growing and growing If they aren't there I still rubbed or scratched my body

  • @lynnkay2348
    @lynnkay2348 6 років тому +7

    I keep advocating for my son. He is almost 6 years old with high anxiety and sensory issues. On the surface his problematic behavior displays as ADHD or even ODD. He appears to not hear or be aware of his surroundings. Any advice on how I can help him?

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Dang a year and STILL NO ADVICE, idk what to do in his case but i hope hes better now!

  • @AlbanianGladiator
    @AlbanianGladiator 3 роки тому +1

    im 13 and i had anxiety for all of my life and it just keeps getting worse

  • @unidentifiedleiviathan7250
    @unidentifiedleiviathan7250 5 років тому +2

    But I can't stand I be the spotlight of a crowd I don't know what's wrong with me I cried when I was little if I had to do anything in front of a crowd I once even ran away the school gym when I had to do some Christmas song thing this continued well into my middle childhood and it hasn't completely stopped

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому

      Seek 👏 Help 👏 Please 👏
      Seek help from someone who understands (find another if they dont), hope it gets better!

  • @davinderrehal9391
    @davinderrehal9391 2 роки тому

    Excellent

  • @lil_timmy7443
    @lil_timmy7443 6 років тому +9

    I am a child I have anxiety and stress when in the class two weeks ago I had a panic attack😢 usally when I have tests or something is going to happen I am scared when the door knocks and I will randomly cry. It is very annoying. Also when I talk about it my chest hurts or else If I am around crouded places or else even loud places I will freak my mucles tense I sweat I get pains in my chest and I begin to feel sick

    • @xnet8346
      @xnet8346 5 років тому +1

      Ginga Ninja o that’s happening with me man

    • @Olivia-he8ew
      @Olivia-he8ew 5 років тому +1

      Same, I cant lean toward my window at night, I cant think about anything without wanting to cry, I keep having dreams that seem so real, etc...

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Holy crap same currently... But i hope things are better for u now!

  • @dd-vy5lb
    @dd-vy5lb 6 років тому +3

    I have knew I've had anxiety since I was 7 years old; I Remember my first bad panic attack , I started hearing screaming in the upstairs .
    I want to know if anyone else has the worst anxiety when you are ill?

    • @ruthie4197
      @ruthie4197 5 років тому +2

      You might not see this, but I'll comment anyway. Mental and physical health are interconnected; when one takes a downturn, so does the other.
      So feeling more anxious when sick is probably normal, yes.

  • @DrAmna-pr6zl
    @DrAmna-pr6zl 4 роки тому

    A 32-year-old woman presents to her primary care physician complaining of overwhelming fear and apprehension. The patient states that for the past 8 months she has been feeling anx- ious and worried about many things. She has difficulty concentrating and difficulty sleeping because she “can’t seem to keep [her] mind off of the everyday issues of life.” She also says she often feels tense and restless. She denies past substance abuse. Which of the following drugs would be considered first-line treatment for her illness?
    (A) Amitriptyline
    (B) Buspirone
    (C) Diazepam
    (D) Flumazenil
    (E) Midazolam
    Which would be suitable?

  • @Sapphiremoonskulls
    @Sapphiremoonskulls 5 років тому +1

    I can deal with a HUGE audience because im in choir and I've been doing it for 5 years now. But i can't handle classroom sizes

  • @amnotthegirl87
    @amnotthegirl87 3 роки тому

    I have a 4 years old girl… and she is scared off everything new around her. I was ok because when I explain to her and get familiar, the fear goes away… but now am into the Monsters Fears… she refuse to be alone and don’t want to go to her own room by herself and cry and ask for hugs all the time… I think it’s normal since this is her first Halloween party at daycare and after we talk or change the topic she is fine… but I really want to know the right way to help her going true all that… :(

    • @sabianova4304
      @sabianova4304 3 роки тому

      Play some prayers over her. UA-cam Robert Clancy fear prayers

  • @ijbuilders2171
    @ijbuilders2171 4 роки тому +2

    I always try to find therapists so i can get rid of this separation anxiety and im still a child and i always cry every night so pls anyone help me

    • @brandoncarrillo951
      @brandoncarrillo951 4 роки тому

      I’m trying to find my own way as well. I’m 20 years old and I have finally accepted that I have separation anxiety. My advice is to always fight no matter what to improve yourself in any way that you can. Mentally and physically if you work on it rn you’ll have a better understanding of yourself and more love with yourself when you are older. This will help not only with yourself but also with relationships. Girlfriend boyfriend, friends, parents siblings you’ll appreciate them more and by knowing yourself you can also let them know how you are feeling. You are never alone 🙏🏽

  • @laxmipriya6259
    @laxmipriya6259 3 роки тому +1

    I have very seriously phobiaa..in my case I don't leave my parents anymore ...but fact is i am a indian girl..in my country..after marriage we leave our parents house..😭😭😭I am very scared and anxiety... please help me 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 please

  • @TN-Cajun
    @TN-Cajun 2 роки тому

    I see early childhood separation.. but my child is 9 and just now having major separation anxiety.

    • @jensuttie74
      @jensuttie74 2 роки тому

      Same! Did you find any strategies to help??

  • @natrisp6809
    @natrisp6809 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this series, so helpful, thank you 😊

  • @myragatchalian1
    @myragatchalian1 5 років тому +4

    When you said treatment for young children with anxiety...do you mean taking medication to manage it?

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 5 років тому

      yes

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Nah, could also mean someone who helps them through speaking/therapy

  • @Hanabi782
    @Hanabi782 5 років тому +1

    I tried to have a friend in school and i tried everything but the only thing that i get is everyone hates me for a reason that i dont understand at all...

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      Like u think everyone hates u or they visibly show that they hate u?
      They probably dont understand what we are going through... Sadly.

  • @gageedwards2780
    @gageedwards2780 4 роки тому +1

    My 2 year old recently started having some type of fear or frightened about something. Which she starts to cry and clings to me, she has been in day care since she was 24 mos old. And she is used to the environment around her as well the other todddlers with her, but I’m not sure why she is clingy.

    • @norleng2
      @norleng2 3 роки тому

      Hi, my 3yr old is doing the same now, can u share anything abt how it went? Did She get over it? Mine gets really upset and clingy

    • @DarkAngel-cj6sx
      @DarkAngel-cj6sx 3 роки тому

      My 3.5 years old has been scared of everything since he was born.
      Only mom and dad and now he is terrified of other children and dogs

    • @liila52
      @liila52 2 роки тому

      guys mine is the same, she is 4 and started when is was 4 and not sure what caused? how your children doing now

  • @abhilashapriya1005
    @abhilashapriya1005 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you doctor for information.My child is 18 months old.What I find he is fearful in walking.He has an execcive fear of stranger.He starts crying for long.what should I suppose to do?

  • @vanessabayardo9788
    @vanessabayardo9788 4 роки тому

    Today my nephew got home. He didn't want anyone near him. We also have another nephew in the house. The 19 month old has hit the 3 year old. I've noticed whenever my 2 yr old get near the 1 year old, the 1 year old's mom will put her giant hand on her face and tell him not to get near him. When her son has hit him or even tried to hit him, she hides behind the excuse of "it was as accident". Now that my 3 year old finally has learned to tell him no, his grandma starts telling him oh stop saying no. Hello, the 1 yr old was trying to hit him. I'm just so exasperated with all of the adults. Whenever my nephew comes over, I follow him all over the place, I become his bodyguard. Now my nephew doesn't want to come to our house anymore and people wonder why. Are they kidding me?!

  • @daisy8489
    @daisy8489 5 років тому

    Because of my social anxiety my teacher put me at the front of the class and i scared me and still does I never raise my hand in a early age if I ever did wish was once my teacher said my answer was wrong :(

  • @anish6295
    @anish6295 3 роки тому +1

    I am feeling so scared to sit inside classroom after this Covid🥺 pls help me today at 4pm I have to be there😭 already my hands are cold and I am tensed 1 week before pls help

  • @ameliaiqbal367
    @ameliaiqbal367 4 роки тому +1

    I'm 10 years old and I suffer from anxiety.. Sometimes I can't figure out why I'm so stressed out. I've been diagnosed with cyclic vomiting syndrome (cvs) when I was 6. And because of that syndrome, I have severe anxiety problems. It takes the simplest things like not understanding my homework, to me locking myself up in the bathroom and just sit there and cry. When I calm down a bit, I will just wash my face and put a fake smile on before going out of the bathroom. I remember this one incident when I kind of forgot how to do this one math problem and I just stayed up all night crying and feeling that I am so dumb. One of my biggest fears is Maths. Ever since I've started school, it's been the most hated subject by me and it's still a nighmare. The worst part of all these stuff is that I never feel like sharing it to anyone and I just keep it to myself.

    • @ameliaiqbal367
      @ameliaiqbal367 4 роки тому

      @@lahmsauce5759 thank you for this, I really needed it 🥰🤍

    • @sallyann985
      @sallyann985 3 роки тому +1

      If you were actually ten when you wrote this, you sound like an extremely smart kid. I wish you good luck in your journey through life. It's hard but it's worth it, I promise you.

  • @prime-boys
    @prime-boys 5 років тому +4

    Anxiety is society unless you have values its confusing
    there is a answer

  • @nauka7565
    @nauka7565 4 роки тому

    Idk if I have social anxiety or no but I really fear talking to someone, I really hate being yell at because of my attitude, I dont want to be rude at all. I just want to help others but maybe if Im right there with the person the person would hate me. And other says that "You hate me" even though I do not. Its very common from others to say that I hate them. So I hate myself right now, idk what I do that makes other hate me. I want to change but it seems that I still not a changed person. I really hate myself. Sorry for everything. I really sorry.
    Edit: but if I know that the people care for me I would not fear to talk to them, I can talk everything to them.

    • @nauka7565
      @nauka7565 4 роки тому

      Sorry for the poor grammar I really didnt think about it

  • @rahulagrawal3484
    @rahulagrawal3484 6 років тому +2

    Hi, My son is having fear about loosing his mother since he has seen a bollywood movie in which an actress is kidnapped, Raped and killed. Off course there were no actual rape or killing shots. But there were mention of that orally for many times. Now he feels if something similar happens to his mother then. He cries in school fearing about mother. What shall I do?

  • @kamalpreetrakhra8071
    @kamalpreetrakhra8071 5 років тому +1

    We started taking our 18 months for storytelling classes and other activities. he enjoys them a lot and does not show any sign of stress or anxiety. However, he does not sleep well at night. He wakes up at 2 or 3 am and does not go back to sleep for a couple of hours. Next day is happy and cheerful but naps for a longer time. Can you explain why he is showing this behavior.

    • @cygnus2206
      @cygnus2206 5 років тому

      Depression can do that. It’s easy to fake happiness when your depressed, especially if your surrounded by happy people and have been doing it for a while.

    • @mylink.orb17
      @mylink.orb17 3 роки тому +2

      Because he's a baby.
      Did he grow out of it?

    • @rajshreekeny8369
      @rajshreekeny8369 Рік тому

      I can help you in this as have gone thru and overcome the same problem

  • @cupcakeratyt1338
    @cupcakeratyt1338 4 роки тому +1

    anybody have emetaphobia? I think I do, it's the fear of vomiting, and I have had it for about four monthss, and let me tell you, it has been the worst 4 months of.my.life.
    I
    I really don't want to get the stomach flu, and I having had the stomach flu since I was 6 I think.I'm so anxious, most of the day, and it makes my stomach hurt, and then I get scared I'm going to be sick, and then I start crying. I'm getting therapy soon, and I just really hope it helps for good. I never want to get sick ever, but I know I will some day and that makes me very anxious and scared.

  • @bunbun8595
    @bunbun8595 2 роки тому

    What does it mean if you’re anxious to tell you parents that you feel anxious so you can get treated? Or even diagnosed?

  • @bannisteryort5330
    @bannisteryort5330 5 років тому +1

    My child is 13 and I’m trying to help him he suddenly started displaying signs of severe worry and fear he also feels physical problems that I don’t think exist after taking him to 3 different doctors someone please give me some advice?

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому +1

      If the problems are in his abdomen/belly, chest, jaw, or forehead, its probably part of his anxiety.
      in the case of a panic attack (might happen if he admits too much emotion, or is experiencing something traumatic to him, and he starts to talk faster than usual and is very shaky, there might be some pain as well) DONT give him water or food (very dangerous to do so) and calm him down, call emergency services if its taking more than 4 min to calm.
      And if he is unmotivated to do anything in general/lazy, or hiding anything (there is more but i wont go into much detail as this is about anxiety), assume little to major depression as well.
      Seek professional help like therapy (dont try to fix it alone), but let him a choice of the method of help, anxiety only gets worse if left untreated.
      I know all of this from personal experience (doctors couldnt find what was wrong with me in terms of pain either). Sadly i dont know enough to help ur son in all cases, but i hope it gets better!

    • @arrietty1619
      @arrietty1619 3 роки тому

      I wish I had a parent like you who actually wants to help their child. I probably would have turned out better if my parents actually cared when I was younger

    • @arrietty1619
      @arrietty1619 3 роки тому

      I wish I had a parent like you who actually wants to help their child. I probably would have turned out better if my parents actually cared when I was younger

  • @johnglennmercury7
    @johnglennmercury7 2 роки тому

    Add to your list of fears the hysteria forced upon kids by neurotic parents about covid, climate change, etc

  • @zenseed75
    @zenseed75 2 роки тому +1

    I had severe anxiety for as long as I can remember. Parents never did anything to help me. No guidance whatsoever. My dad even lost hours at work because of it. Still nothing. So, I ended up shutting up about everything and being an angry angry child. Everything internalized. Stuffed down. Would you ever guess I'm gen X?
    Wish all this info was available decades ago. Better late than never.

    • @bbbbb7813
      @bbbbb7813 Рік тому

      I would guess that because you’re still blaming your parents for all your issues when you’re a grown adult. Grow up

    • @zenseed75
      @zenseed75 Рік тому

      @@bbbbb7813 they did help get me here.

  • @evna9246
    @evna9246 5 років тому +10

    Why am I parenting myself by watching this?

    • @hectorloks3377
      @hectorloks3377 5 років тому +1

      Evna 😂 because parenting isn’t handed to you like a handbook with instructions

  • @roudynicolas3832
    @roudynicolas3832 5 років тому +1

    I had anxiety for 2 years and distressing me but, i'm dont want to talk about it to anyone even my family so i'm not going to a therapist. What shall i do??

    • @nyancat8655
      @nyancat8655 5 років тому

      Hm well if your going to school still you could try to talk to a school counselor.

    • @bdhdh27mviewsd93
      @bdhdh27mviewsd93 5 років тому

      I have erythrophobia and anxiety and i just got out of my comfort zone and talked to people who cares if you blush its just a color its not a big deal as your mind makes it

    • @roudynicolas3832
      @roudynicolas3832 5 років тому

      @@bdhdh27mviewsd93 you know, this is a big deal because i dont have anyone to talk to and, my mom wont allow me to go to cure my anxiety because she thinks i'm just making this shit up

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому

      @@roudynicolas3832 talk to friends, teachers (they are mandatory reporters BY LAW, and have to get u help), or even take matters into ur own hands (idk how tho)!
      Ur mother clearly doesnt know what its like to have something this serious. I really do hope it gets better.
      (Also do u mean ur mother wont let u go AT ALL? Even if another adult tells her otherwise?)

  • @JoseRojas-bu9ts
    @JoseRojas-bu9ts 4 роки тому

    When ever I see someone like dieing or something very scary and that stuff and I get anixty 😔

  • @dababy3790
    @dababy3790 5 років тому

    I started having anxiety in school because I threw up and now I can’t leave the house without my parents

  • @Madebyjasndk
    @Madebyjasndk Рік тому

    Hi, my daughter is 7 years old, and i think she is having anxiety attacks she said that her tummy hurts her hands and gets cold she wants to heat things and worry that she eats she will be sick

  • @zimpk8033
    @zimpk8033 5 років тому +1

    how do i get over my anxiety of not being with my parents is it to do with my adhd

    • @NoNo-nz2tb
      @NoNo-nz2tb 5 років тому

      Ask for help, ask ur parents, or any adult u KNOW (like a teacher) if u mean ur parents arent around for u, probably not adhd but could be PART of it

  • @simplybuyer1
    @simplybuyer1 4 роки тому

    Hi, Please can you help me and advise on the anxiety I suffer with. I suffer with death anxiety and need help. Had it for over 10 months and take medicine too. If you can make contact, I would appreciate it very much

  • @samrt-boro
    @samrt-boro 5 років тому +1

    Practice self enquiry for permanent solution. We feel anxiety because we are so unconscious and ignorant about our true nature, most of us identify ourselves as thoughts and body therefore the ego arises and the problems starts.. Search for actualized.org on youtube..

    • @zenseed75
      @zenseed75 2 роки тому

      THIS. Just figuring it out at 46 years old.

  • @SrilathaVishantha
    @SrilathaVishantha Рік тому

    My son-in-law has OCD
    Will that affect my grand daughter genetically who is now 6yrs old n by nature doesn't like crowd n now this academic year from the beginning says that she doesn't want to go to school
    Kindly reply

  • @randomaccountthatparentsta6701
    @randomaccountthatparentsta6701 4 роки тому

    I have anxiety when I wake up in the morning at six And here sounds coming from my parents room