Communicating our standards with love, peace and respect. You have to do that because if they are not aligned with these standards, they will argue or you will notice their energy gets less. Then you just conclude that you are not a good match for them. You say, I wish you find your perfect match, your soulmate and you walk away in peace.... No hard feeling on both sides....
@@user-vh3es8wj7x My feeling is that the.manipulators tried to confuse me and they attacked me psychologically when I expressed my boundary and explained my feeling or opinion. They wanted me to comply with their expectation and in their tempo. I only had this conflict with similar types. I am not dominant and seeking for an argument. I only communicated but they made me feel like I was tough and difficult. I started to doubt myself but I knew deep down I was simply pushed into the corner. One wanted to sex text and get to know eachother but also do nice outdoor things and if we would fall in love we would fall in love. One hour before that he said he was not looking for love but he also asked me if i am romantic He seemed smart but also dominant. I felt attracted but also also insulted on day two of the interaction. I told him i text intimately spontaneously and not.on command. I defended myself by telling him I'm an easygoing person. He said 'well this is not what I call easy pfff..". I felt so Hurt and I got angry. I am so fed up with some men project on me. I told him: then why am I not having these discussions with other people / men? He replied: bc I have a strong personality (...). Then he said 'I dont wan't to fight'. Made me feel like the conflict seeker and he would be the one calm and controlled. He said ' I dont want to be rude and hang up on you. I said, you can hang up no problem. This was day two of contact. I told him: I don't like to be pressured and eventually I said let's do a time out in interacting. We never talked again. This was 5 days ago. I should know by now to trust my first thoughts. Manipulation and projection games. He wanted his menu now according to his terms. Just my guess. He was polite and charming but also very opinionated about me and comments on any word I said. Analysing me mentally way to soon. Sometimes I really don't know who and what I'm dealing with but if it hurts so quickly in first interactions I tend to walk away. Confusing but I think I have to stay close to me and a man who is kind and decent, who won't provoke me. Weird thing is that this man is still in my head but when I will ask him how he is doing it will probably lead to discussion again bc he wants it his way but will reverse as if I want it my way He said he was looking for friends bc he immigrated for work but when we spoke it was about sex and not friendship or love. He also said he would will want me to be wild free and passionate. ...... He also said: I feel that om the other side of my phone is a nice goodhearted person and her name is (mentioned my name) 🤔
I walked away from an amazing guy who wasn't treating me as well as he should. Previously I would not gave done that because my self worth wasn't high enough. I watched your video on "it's not how you feel about him it's how he makes you feel " the same day and was blown away. He made me feel less secure. But I liked him. Thank you Mathew.
I do have a nice life but when I meet a guy I think my people pleasing gets in the way and I become over accommodating! Thanks for sharing, working on staying centred in these 3 things
Beautiful masculine? One women said “a healthy masculine.” What is that? Beautiful masculine? There are men who are not as attractive but still beautiful and are masculine.
The secret is to love and accept yourself as you are and know that you are worth it and are deserving of love just as you are. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect. If you are too caught up with your circumstances being perfect, you may be waiting for love forever. The only thing you need to believe is that you are good enough and you are valuable as you are. ❤️
This may be the the clearest formula for personal harmony that I have seen. The simplicity of the 3 components is “enough” to understand and apply, and yet individually the depth each component opens up so much self awareness, self evaluation, and opportunity for healing any old traumas. Thank you Matthew. When you said Communication, I rolled my eyes a little until you said “…how you communicate YOUR value, your needs, your standards and expectations?” Wow. Honest review: I don’t know. I’ve never been asked that; I’ve never thought about it. If I can’t give you an answer, then how can I expect to attract a partner based on those things I know I deserve and desire? It’s like there’s a disconnect between those things in me and this is the first time I am finally seeing the link. Bravo Matthew! Simple. Effective. Transformative. BRILLIANT.
The other person has his own problems so I don't care if he ignores me because not that he doesn't love me but he has his own personal problems which cause him not happy to contact me and so I can either move on or wait.and I don't blame him for ignoring me. I can decide to make my own way and don't have to hope from him anymore.yes I have to have my own life and be happy.Thank you Matthew.
This is so true and important. I have stayed with guys who I knew weren't good for me or treating me right because the positive moments outweighed the loneliness and emptiness :(
Thanks to your videos, instead of being sad and worried it didn't work again, after finally taking the risk to let someone in (was single for years following a break-up with an abusive partner that required a restraining order). He was flirty for months, smart, caring, funny... but as soon as I showed interest, he started breadcrumbing me. Instead of thinking "wow, I really am incapable/unworthy of having a healthy relationship" I am now thinking "wow, well I'm not wasting my time with that bs!". So yeah, thanks again!
These three things apply to your work situation some of us stay in jobs because we don't communicate what we want, we don't share our standards, and we lack confidence!!!!!
Thank you for making me see that I’m “happy enough” & that I no longer need to change anything aside from appreciating where I’m at in life! 💡 What a video! 🏅
I understood😊..but be on track of life..soon you find happiness..I also have my bad time but I focus on my health by doing a sport such as hiking and serounding myself with positive friends😁, cheer up,ok..
Well I've never felt happy about my self and life, neglected all my good friends as well as my studies. Feels hopeless. Maybe i should work on that, on myself. Follow my hobbies, make friends, get back on track.
I get this totally that you must make sure that you are doing and working your own plan to make yourself happy in life so that somebody else would be happy to join you. So the mantra would go this is where I'm going who wants to come with me. Not that I want to follow somebody else.
TRUE! I live this way and I call it my “happy life trifecta” and when you do this ( and embrace it ) your life just keeps getting better. The bonus, people will treat you better 😊
I am so excited that my relationship has been restored by 👉 (Doctor GIDEON)👈 after many years of separation with my partner. contact him also to restore yours!!
Me, a guy who has been waiting for some prince to take away my problems for years: (Not this year tho. I'm living my best life ever, can't believe how different things are now)
I have what I consider a great life: a job I love, a great group of friends who I see frequently, a healthy lifestyle of the gym and running. I’m confident. I express my needs/standards all the time. Still single. Don’t know why…
Thanks for each and every piece of advice Matthew 🙏 Since 2019 I am following you in UA-cam and due to your genuine guidance I have finally managed to attract just by bringing up my values&standards and the way I present myself with self-esteem.....without appearing " hard-to-get " and all that childish behaviour. Regardless of the future outcome, currently I am true to myself and that's my Golden Crown 👑. God Bless you 🙏 for your patience and knowledge!!!
somehow stumbled onto your profile... I know you dont know me and we have never talked but i would like to be your friend how can I contact you if you don't mind?❤
@@Malithi-P when you really need a relationship right about now (for all the bad reasons), then see you haven't got anything of what Matthew explained here... Trust me, it's too late.
I am so excited that my relationship has been restored by 👉 (Doctor GIDEON)👈 after many years of separation with my partner. contact him also to restore yours!!
The Confidence piece is the biggest hurdle for me, I have major body issues due to a previous marriage. I’m working out daily now but the results are so slow, I feel like if I could see the change I’d feel more confident.
Yes!!!!! Good Communication with yourself, others and your life !!! Confidence in yourself and in anything you do -LIFE. And yes, happiness- however that is defined by YOU! Thank youuu 🥰🙏🏼
Great short Matthew, this is exactly why you are so successful as a coach...the maturity and easy-ness of living life like this...life is hard enough no need of unfulfilling and weird " something's" with anyone ...the art of stating clear where you are and also to walk away when is time without hard feelings...the light and love in all this, I love you from a distance 😇you do ...you I"ll do me...
I failed because I am extremely independent. I never expect anything from anyone. I never ask for anything. (my needs) and this conveys the idea of being unreachable, which leads to communication failures and break-ups.
What if it was an “unattractive” guy with the same handwriting? He even mentions setting expectations. Even if you could get a guy like this, there are many men I’m sure who are attractive but you dismissed. Not being rude but saying something like that places other men in categories. If a man said that about an attractive woman but never mentioned your handwriting; men like this will see this and dismiss you.
@@FitWithRyan_ Ffs, she just complimented a guy's handwriting. Why are you acting like that has all these horrible broad implications, even while you throw catty negging around about it? You _do_ realize how straight-up hypocritically xbox-chat-levels-of-toxic that is, right? That is a _stranger_ from whom you've read a max of _twelve words._ Are you okay? Serious question. (Edit: And after seeing that you made several other replies to positive comments on this video, reading way too much into them and being really weirdly defensive and critical and tbh sounding jealous, I hereby double down on this question. /edit) Your comment also doesn't really make a clear point at all, and just conveys hurt emotions instead. That matters and it's valid, but it's not going to accomplish much. I care a hell of a lot about the insufficient social discourse on men's issues, and I tried to give your comment a thorough and generous and slow reading, but it literally makes no sense as it's currently written. It's totally possible that you've got a legit criticism of OP's rhetoric and truly aren't just lashing out about something you and only you brought to this thread -- but if that's the case, it'd really help if you clarified and contextualized that criticism.
@@ItsAsparageese Another person said "the clearest formula for personal harmony that I have ever seen." "Thank you, Matthew (like she knows him) "I rolled my eyes until you said..."
@@FitWithRyan_ Picking an actually somewhat cringey comment to deflect towards doesn't magically make this discussion not be about your concerningly fervent weirdly sensitive comments. Can you actually take a criticism and take a second to reflect? If that's not in your skillsets yet then that's a very good place to start down the road of you not being this upset about strangers talking harmlessly to each other.
When you are happy with you and “you” are enough… you can then invite someone that you chose to share your life or continue doing YOU! It’s that simple. The ball is in your court! You ant blame the man, blame yourself for allowing it 😘
This is super clear because I don't have my life together and didn't have standards and expectations communicated between us and I didn't have my goals or dreams in mind So I settled on someone because I had no close friends of family and sadly wish I new this because the breakup hurts after dating her 3 years. 😔
I think the secret to have a happy relationship is to don't give too much of yourself so you will always have something inside you that will let you evaluate things objectively without being clouded by feelings. You have to be vulnerable without ever losing control of yourself
@@himiaamaliah If you're not right with yourself then you can't ever gel with or identify that "right" person you speak of. Having your own life and your own happiness first isn't "games". It's literally the opposite of games. It's just being your own person and letting that determine your standards instead of settling for any attention you can get.
Happy enough as he puts it - makes it possible for us to live either with someone or not. You see as humans it's a pleasure to share with others, but the important fact is we decide whether we want to share or not. If we are happy and content we don't "need anyone" we choose to invite others but not one person can be the "be all and end all of our lives". Thanks for these common sense talks, videos and the words you share to us....
Commicated is the key for all...sense of humor also.if someone have something to share, perfect. But I don't go create like a mother, make they life. From Lisboa Portugal
How to communicate your needs, value, standards and expectations without feeling scared to but also without sounding controlling
Communicating our standards with love, peace and respect. You have to do that because if they are not aligned with these standards, they will argue or you will notice their energy gets less. Then you just conclude that you are not a good match for them. You say, I wish you find your perfect match, your soulmate and you walk away in peace.... No hard feeling on both sides....
Look up effective communication skills.
Practice writings and saying in the mirror
Setting and enforcing boundaries
Trust me I can understand...
Same question ...same shit...
They feel like we are controlling them
@@user-vh3es8wj7x My feeling is that the.manipulators tried to confuse me and they attacked me psychologically when I expressed my boundary and explained my feeling or opinion. They wanted me to comply with their expectation and in their tempo. I only had this conflict with similar types. I am not dominant and seeking for an argument. I only communicated but they made me feel like I was tough and difficult.
I started to doubt myself but I knew deep down I was simply pushed into the corner.
One wanted to sex text and get to know eachother but also do nice outdoor things and if we would fall in love we would fall in love.
One hour before that he said he was not looking for love but he also asked me if i am romantic
He seemed smart but also dominant.
I felt attracted but also also insulted on day two of the interaction.
I told him i text intimately spontaneously and not.on command.
I defended myself by telling him I'm an easygoing person. He said 'well this is not what I call easy pfff..".
I felt so Hurt and I got angry.
I am so fed up with some men project on me.
I told him: then why am I not having these discussions with other people / men?
He replied: bc I have a strong personality (...).
Then he said 'I dont wan't to fight'.
Made me feel like the conflict seeker and he would be the one calm and controlled.
He said ' I dont want to be rude and hang up on you. I said, you can hang up no problem.
This was day two of contact.
I told him: I don't like to be pressured and eventually I said let's do a time out in interacting.
We never talked again.
This was 5 days ago.
I should know by now to trust my first thoughts. Manipulation and projection games.
He wanted his menu now according to his terms.
Just my guess. He was polite and charming but also very opinionated about me and comments on any word I said. Analysing me mentally way to soon.
Sometimes I really don't know who and what I'm dealing with but if it hurts so quickly in first interactions I tend to walk away.
Confusing but I think I have to stay close to me and a man who is kind and decent, who won't provoke me.
Weird thing is that this man is still in my head but when I will ask him how he is doing it will probably lead to discussion again bc he wants it his way but will reverse as if I want it my way He said he was looking for friends bc he immigrated for work but when we spoke it was about sex and not friendship or love.
He also said he would will want me to be wild free and passionate.
......
He also said: I feel that om the other side of my phone is a nice goodhearted person and her name is (mentioned my name) 🤔
You are not looking for someone to create a life for you, you have an amazing life to share with another person.
Hello beautiful
Well said! We need to be happy in the other areas of our lives so that we are not relying on a relationship to be the main source of our happiness! ☺️
1. Your communication is up to par.2.Confidence. 3. Your life is already amazing
I liked when you hit on Confidence, "how you treat yourself and how you allow others to treat you." That was huge!
I walked away from an amazing guy who wasn't treating me as well as he should. Previously I would not gave done that because my self worth wasn't high enough. I watched your video on "it's not how you feel about him it's how he makes you feel " the same day and was blown away. He made me feel less secure. But I liked him. Thank you Mathew.
If he wasn’t treating you well then he’s wasn’t amazing , isn’t it?
What about the guy who can make you feel great and happy, then suddenly make you feel awful and sad?
Same here
@@leopardsnlionsthat’s where I’m at 🤷🏾♀️ I made one mistake in our 4month relationship an all hell broke loose
Happy enough to walk away from any relationship. Thank you. ❤️
I'm laughing, because I'm 55 yrs old and this is all so true...the younger generation is lucky to have your advice ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I do have a nice life but when I meet a guy I think my people pleasing gets in the way and I become over accommodating! Thanks for sharing, working on staying centred in these 3 things
This beautiful masculine is destined to raise strong daughters. God bless 💛
Beautiful masculine? One women said “a healthy masculine.” What is that? Beautiful masculine? There are men who are not as attractive but still beautiful and are masculine.
The secret is to love and accept yourself as you are and know that you are worth it and are deserving of love just as you are. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect. If you are too caught up with your circumstances being perfect, you may be waiting for love forever. The only thing you need to believe is that you are good enough and you are valuable as you are. ❤️
Thanks for that!! ❤
Well said and I do agree. But it is so hard sometimes to believe that!
This may be the the clearest formula for personal harmony that I have seen. The simplicity of the 3 components is “enough” to understand and apply, and yet individually the depth each component opens up so much self awareness, self evaluation, and opportunity for healing any old traumas. Thank you Matthew. When you said Communication, I rolled my eyes a little until you said “…how you communicate YOUR value, your needs, your standards and expectations?” Wow. Honest review: I don’t know. I’ve never been asked that; I’ve never thought about it. If I can’t give you an answer, then how can I expect to attract a partner based on those things I know I deserve and desire? It’s like there’s a disconnect between those things in me and this is the first time I am finally seeing the link. Bravo Matthew! Simple. Effective. Transformative. BRILLIANT.
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The other person has his own problems so I don't care if he ignores me because not that he doesn't love me but he has his own personal problems which cause him not happy to contact me and so I can either move on or wait.and I don't blame him for ignoring me. I can decide to make my own way and don't have to hope from him anymore.yes I have to have my own life and be happy.Thank you Matthew.
This is so true and important. I have stayed with guys who I knew weren't good for me or treating me right because the positive moments outweighed the loneliness and emptiness :(
‘You have an amazing life’, I barely have a life 😒😂
🤣
A peaceful autonome life 😁😊
@@souventudubanned hi
Hope you are just joking. You are precious and you have amazing life
Lol
Thanks to your videos, instead of being sad and worried it didn't work again, after finally taking the risk to let someone in (was single for years following a break-up with an abusive partner that required a restraining order).
He was flirty for months, smart, caring, funny... but as soon as I showed interest, he started breadcrumbing me.
Instead of thinking "wow, I really am incapable/unworthy of having a healthy relationship" I am now thinking "wow, well I'm not wasting my time with that bs!".
So yeah, thanks again!
These three things apply to your work situation some of us stay in jobs because we don't communicate what we want, we don't share our standards, and we lack confidence!!!!!
Thank you for making me see that I’m “happy enough” & that I no longer need to change anything aside from appreciating where I’m at in life! 💡
What a video! 🏅
Communication, confidence, your life.
Dude, these are things we all should know but thank you for illuminating them in this detailed way 😊
many things taught on what so called "shorts". i'm thankful, matthew.
Wow ...hit me hard ....when they start treating you bad ...U MOVE AWAY ....COZ UR HAPPY ENOUGH .....👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
That's the problem, I'm not happy with my life and I'm treating myself badly at the moment.
I understood😊..but be on track of life..soon you find happiness..I also have my bad time but I focus on my health by doing a sport such as hiking and serounding myself with positive friends😁, cheer up,ok..
Best teacher ever to learn from 🤠👏!!! Ty
Oh hes so fit and so handsome,I couldn’t even let it all sink in 😂
Wakeup
You still aren’t following his advice. You’re going for looks.
Yeah leting ”it sink in” is all you want….
Well I've never felt happy about my self and life, neglected all my good friends as well as my studies. Feels hopeless.
Maybe i should work on that, on myself.
Follow my hobbies, make friends, get back on track.
Best of luck, you're not alone in the slightest.
Communication is number one - without good communication in a relationship its very difficult to continue
I love happy ENOUGH to date and meet someone. If you're patient, it should only get better. If not, dump them like I did.
Wise Man ❤
God Bless you!!!
Totally agree!
Had to figure this out the hard way!
I get this totally that you must make sure that you are doing and working your own plan to make yourself happy in life so that somebody else would be happy to join you. So the mantra would go this is where I'm going who wants to come with me. Not that I want to follow somebody else.
matt you are a blessing
TRUE! I live this way and I call it my “happy life trifecta” and when you do this ( and embrace it ) your life just keeps getting better. The bonus, people will treat you better 😊
The men that I attract are treating me like shit. I scream into my pillow and cry myself to sleep on most days. They're not worth it. 😭
don't cry 😭 dearest 💖💖💖💖⚘God has someone special for you!!
There are decent guys like myself out there, don’t give up hope x
Go for the guys in your dms
Totally understand. I just spent 900 on an asshole.
I love his!!!in my opinion most ppl don’t enter a relationship like this
I love this guy as a person He is so smart. Every time I do what he is saying it works out great.
Creating an ideal life is on us, not on some prince charming 👸🏻
I am so excited that my relationship has been restored by 👉 (Doctor GIDEON)👈 after many years of separation with my partner. contact him also to restore yours!!
I leave you his number, contact him immediately now with the number below to get help now!!
➕𝟮𝟯𝟰8167987281 (☉｡☉)! ❤❤
🥳
Me, a guy who has been waiting for some prince to take away my problems for years:
(Not this year tho. I'm living my best life ever, can't believe how different things are now)
Gold. Really love this.
Best short of Matthews I've seen
I have what I consider a great life: a job I love, a great group of friends who I see frequently, a healthy lifestyle of the gym and running. I’m confident. I express my needs/standards all the time. Still single. Don’t know why…
"I fall in love with myself, and i want someone to share it with" - Eartha Kitt
Thanks for each and every piece of advice Matthew 🙏 Since 2019 I am following you in UA-cam and due to your genuine guidance I have finally managed to attract just by bringing up my values&standards and the way I present myself with self-esteem.....without appearing
" hard-to-get " and all that childish behaviour.
Regardless of the future outcome, currently I am true to myself and that's my Golden Crown 👑.
God Bless you 🙏 for your patience and knowledge!!!
somehow stumbled onto your profile... I know you dont know me and we have never talked but i would like to be your friend how can I contact you if you don't mind?❤
Thanks guy, you are a great coach.
I love you Matthew. I wish I had heard this 25 years ago
It’s never too late!
@@Malithi-P when you really need a relationship right about now (for all the bad reasons), then see you haven't got anything of what Matthew explained here... Trust me, it's too late.
NAILED IT! 👊😎
I feel so good about myself and my life now. Thank you for being an inspiration on my path.
I am so excited that my relationship has been restored by 👉 (Doctor GIDEON)👈 after many years of separation with my partner. contact him also to restore yours!!
I leave you his number, contact him immediately now with the number below to get help now!!
➕𝟮𝟯𝟰8167987281 (☉｡☉)! ❤❤
Thank you for great advice
The Confidence piece is the biggest hurdle for me, I have major body issues due to a previous marriage. I’m working out daily now but the results are so slow, I feel like if I could see the change I’d feel more confident.
Keep going. Do not give up. The hard work will pay off
This is a great break down thank you!😊
I have all 3 ☺️ 🙌🏽
Thank you, so clear👍🙏
Yes!!!!! Good Communication with yourself, others and your life !!! Confidence in yourself and in anything you do -LIFE. And yes, happiness- however that is defined by YOU! Thank youuu 🥰🙏🏼
Communication
Confidence
Our life
Your so sweet Matthew 😊
Spot on thanks Mathew!
I love that Matthew is a lefty lol 🫶🏻
Thanks for explaining about the 3 things …. it sticks in my head now. Work in progress now
This is one good advice. Thank you!
Great message. ❤
Fantastic formula. Love it! ❤️ 😊
Thank you Matthew! Love all your videos! 🤗🙏🏻👏🌟🥰
How are you
I am happy enough! 😮 Holy shit, I've finally reached this point 😅
Great short Matthew, this is exactly why you are so successful as a coach...the maturity and easy-ness of living life like this...life is hard enough no need of unfulfilling and weird " something's" with anyone ...the art of stating clear where you are and also to walk away when is time without hard feelings...the light and love in all this, I love you from a distance 😇you do ...you I"ll do me...
I thank you Matt for your lessons
Great advice. Thank you. When you have a happy enough life you will manage relationships. Communication, confidence and good life. Yes
Excellent observation
I failed because I am extremely independent. I never expect anything from anyone. I never ask for anything. (my needs) and this conveys the idea of being unreachable, which leads to communication failures and break-ups.
I AGREE WITH WHAT HES SAYING..
Even his handwriting is attractive…
What if it was an “unattractive” guy with the same handwriting? He even mentions setting expectations. Even if you could get a guy like this, there are many men I’m sure who are attractive but you dismissed. Not being rude but saying something like that places other men in categories. If a man said that about an attractive woman but never mentioned your handwriting; men like this will see this and dismiss you.
@@FitWithRyan_ sounds like you have chicken scratch handwriting
@@FitWithRyan_ Ffs, she just complimented a guy's handwriting. Why are you acting like that has all these horrible broad implications, even while you throw catty negging around about it? You _do_ realize how straight-up hypocritically xbox-chat-levels-of-toxic that is, right? That is a _stranger_ from whom you've read a max of _twelve words._ Are you okay? Serious question. (Edit: And after seeing that you made several other replies to positive comments on this video, reading way too much into them and being really weirdly defensive and critical and tbh sounding jealous, I hereby double down on this question. /edit)
Your comment also doesn't really make a clear point at all, and just conveys hurt emotions instead. That matters and it's valid, but it's not going to accomplish much. I care a hell of a lot about the insufficient social discourse on men's issues, and I tried to give your comment a thorough and generous and slow reading, but it literally makes no sense as it's currently written. It's totally possible that you've got a legit criticism of OP's rhetoric and truly aren't just lashing out about something you and only you brought to this thread -- but if that's the case, it'd really help if you clarified and contextualized that criticism.
@@ItsAsparageese Another person said "the clearest formula for personal harmony that I have ever seen." "Thank you, Matthew (like she knows him) "I rolled my eyes until you said..."
@@FitWithRyan_ Picking an actually somewhat cringey comment to deflect towards doesn't magically make this discussion not be about your concerningly fervent weirdly sensitive comments. Can you actually take a criticism and take a second to reflect? If that's not in your skillsets yet then that's a very good place to start down the road of you not being this upset about strangers talking harmlessly to each other.
Thank You for this insightful message Matthew Hussey.☆☆☆☆☆☆☆
Preach! Thank you
Thanks-you mat great advice thanks!!
Oh, Matt mmmmmmmmmmmmm❤❤❤❤❤❤😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰💋💋💋💋👅👅👅👅😅😅😅😊😊😊😊
Thank you for sharing this.
I hear this video so many times. You are amazing!!!!
This guy's accent, sounds like heaven
Hello beautiful
Enough Said! ❤
When you are happy with you and “you” are enough… you can then invite someone that you chose to share your life or continue doing YOU! It’s that simple. The ball is in your court! You ant blame the man, blame yourself for allowing it 😘
Yes listen very well the 3
Absolutely! Nothing else needs to be said!!
Beautiful.
This is super clear because I don't have my life together and didn't have standards and expectations communicated between us and I didn't have my goals or dreams in mind So I settled on someone because I had no close friends of family and sadly wish I new this because the breakup hurts after dating her 3 years. 😔
The respectful teacher you trust. Omg this dude must be a millionaire.
I’m happy enough to watch this video and see those amazing things from that handsome British guy 💕😍😂
Yeah, he has no ring…. 😅
@@wherethewildflowersare oh yeahhh…..hi Mathewwww! Lol
I’m happy enough 🤷🏾♀️
I think the secret to have a happy relationship is to don't give too much of yourself so you will always have something inside you that will let you evaluate things objectively without being clouded by feelings. You have to be vulnerable without ever losing control of yourself
Yesssss🎯💯 I am working on purging bs that no longer serve me🙂❤️
I think I can sum up all of your advice in two words "Dump him".
Too right Matt 👍
Thank you very much Matthew ❤️
When you realize you have nothing...
This is what I think. Most of ppl don't have that. We just want to feel the love. Simply finding a right person. No games.
Cause you try to have it all aligned. You ll never have 100%
Talk about yourself only
Lol😂
@@himiaamaliah If you're not right with yourself then you can't ever gel with or identify that "right" person you speak of. Having your own life and your own happiness first isn't "games". It's literally the opposite of games. It's just being your own person and letting that determine your standards instead of settling for any attention you can get.
Best advice I love your beautiful words God bless you stay blessed .🙏🙏👌👌❤️🥰
Great breakdown
I really appreciate this video.!
Happy enough as he puts it - makes it possible for us to live either with someone or not. You see as humans it's a pleasure to share with others, but the important fact is we decide whether we want to share or not. If we are happy and content we don't "need anyone" we choose to invite others but not one person can be the "be all and end all of our lives". Thanks for these common sense talks, videos and the words you share to us....
This is wonderful. Thank you.
post more of these loved it
Commicated is the key for all...sense of humor also.if someone have something to share, perfect. But I don't go create like a mother, make they life.
From Lisboa Portugal
That’s a great analogy
Thank you! ❤
My rule are simple : Trust and Loyalty, Communication and Investment of time...
This is facts!! Gotta love MH ❤️
This is key! Key! KEY! You are awesome!☀️
Thank you