Sabrina Benaim - The Loneliest Sweet Potato

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  • @serena7901
    @serena7901 7 років тому +3565

    "Nobody is in love with me but everyone loves me" WOW RELATABLE

    • @newmillennium1971
      @newmillennium1971 6 років тому +10

      Serenaa agreed, I too know that feeling

    • @karmaispsycho5878
      @karmaispsycho5878 6 років тому +3

      Yup

    • @kshirin0298
      @kshirin0298 6 років тому +24

      actually though, right? like, there are a hell of a lot of my "friends" who don't actually care for me, but if their friend's aren't around I'm like the backup, and if they feel like garbage they come to me to make them feel less like garbage.

    • @offthebeatenpodcastlife8897
      @offthebeatenpodcastlife8897 5 років тому +3

      Right??? I was like "wow...yeah....solidarity..."

    • @samanthamccrimmon3207
      @samanthamccrimmon3207 5 років тому +1

      Same

  • @kellyquitoriano
    @kellyquitoriano 7 років тому +1463

    "Everybody loves me because I'm good at making people feel good" this hit me hard

  • @kimberlyortiz3913
    @kimberlyortiz3913 6 років тому +895

    *_the loneliest sweet potato_*
    i am at the grocery store because i feel sad.
    i feel sad because nobody is in love with me.
    nobody is in love with me but everybody loves me.
    everybody loves me because i’m good at making people feel good.
    i’m good at making people feel good because i have had a lot of practice on myself.
    practice on myself because i feel sad…a lot.
    i feel sad a lot, but when i make people feel good, i feel good for a little bit.
    i feel good for a little bit, then i get lonely.
    i get lonely and i am uncomfortable in my lonely.
    in my lonely, at the grocery store
    i practice trying to make myself feel good by pretending i am a regular person,
    buying her groceries;
    and not a very sad person trying not to crying.
    crying gives me a headache.
    headaches make me want to crawl into bed.
    and crawling into bed is what sad people do.
    what sad people do when they are lonely looks a lot like me at the grocery store.
    in my lonely at the grocery store,
    i feel sad but i look just like everybody else while picking out avocados and lemons.
    items no one refers to as ‘comfort food’.
    ‘comfort food’ makes me want to crawl into bed.
    to crawl into bed reminds me of two things:
    i am sad and i am alone.
    i am alone, in the grocery store, moving slow in the condiment aisle.
    everybody knows in the condiment aisle, it is perfectly acceptable to stand around for too long.
    stand around for too long and i will begin to tap dance.
    tap dance lonely in the grocery store is a fantastic name for a book,
    i think to myself, while waiting in line to reach the cashier.
    the cashier seems surprised when i ask her how her night is going.
    her night is going "okay," she says.
    she says nothing else, except: _cash, credit, or debit?_
    she waves goodbye.
    goodbye is the saddest word i know.
    the saddest word you know is my name.
    my name walks around at the grocery store and feels less sad.
    less sad, because at the grocery store,
    _at least nobody knows there is nobody in love with me._

    • @alannahayes8132
      @alannahayes8132 5 років тому +1

      okkim thank you !

    • @antjr6929
      @antjr6929 5 років тому +3

      That's called a burger
      basic way to write a paragraph
      (bun, filling, bun)
      Eating your feelings, feeling what you eat and crying about it later

  • @AtlanticGiantPumpkin
    @AtlanticGiantPumpkin 6 років тому +692

    Her: So I'm at the grocery store because I feel sad.
    Woman in the back: SAME

  • @BethFrecks
    @BethFrecks 6 років тому +273

    "less sad because at the grocery store, at least nobody knows there is nobody in love with me" wow. My heart aches

  • @lihbdie
    @lihbdie 6 років тому +221

    I've been in love with her since I watched "Explaining My Depression to My Mother" and this, made me fall deeper in love with her.

  • @sanjivanimandloi4843
    @sanjivanimandloi4843 7 років тому +313

    help i need to tell her that i've been in love with her and her work for three years now.

  • @VinoVenitas
    @VinoVenitas 7 років тому +669

    This was a beautiful piece. I loved the creativity with which she wrote this one. Every line came together to create something epic. "the saddest word you know is my name." DAMN what an amazing line. This really got to me. Well done.

  • @bqwadseertg
    @bqwadseertg 7 років тому +522

    Sabrina Benaim is one of my favorite poets on this page, I just love everything she releases.

    • @ButtonPoetry
      @ButtonPoetry  7 років тому +12

      Make sure to check out her book if you haven't! :)

    • @evanbrito4573
      @evanbrito4573 6 років тому +5

      Dana T. Yeah, samee! Sarah Kay and her are the bests in my point

  • @diywrites8703
    @diywrites8703 6 років тому +40

    "Nobody is in love with me but everyone loves me. Everyone loves me because Im good at making them happy, because I've had practise on myself." This is the most relatable thing I've heard ... ever. Thank you.

  • @pantreshaloon
    @pantreshaloon 7 років тому +191

    "the saddest word you know is my name."

  • @kaylaslack9276
    @kaylaslack9276 7 років тому +217

    Goddamn. Next time someone asks me how I feel, I'm going to send them this poem.
    I don't think I've ever been able to truly say that a poem or quote or character has described me and dotted every 'i' and crossed every 't', but this poem just did.
    And I'm happy it did. But I'm still sad.

  • @mgrhetos2
    @mgrhetos2 7 років тому +103

    It's like she knows exactly what is going on in my head. The last line made me cry because I could relate so much. Thanks Sabrina for saying the things I could never say.

    • @KandiBabyy
      @KandiBabyy 6 років тому

      Mitzi Gomez same! Fr

  • @matheusborges9341
    @matheusborges9341 5 років тому +7

    The fact she proves her point at the "I make people feel good" once she makes the cashier feels good hits me. She touched that cashier the same way she want the world to touch her. And that's tough. I hope she gets the chance to be and feel touched the same way she touches people.

  • @JungianHeights
    @JungianHeights 7 років тому +128

    I relate to her poetry so much

  • @xMXSHx
    @xMXSHx 7 років тому +249

    I will not cry, I'm a grown man, I will not cry, Fuck I'm crying

    • @Kruemmel97
      @Kruemmel97 7 років тому +11

      Max Silvestre grown man can cry too, that is perfectly fine. 😊

    • @trevormogensen8033
      @trevormogensen8033 6 років тому +3

      I'M NOT CRYING, YOU'RE CRYING.
      Ok... I'm crying...

    • @carlosbarahona928
      @carlosbarahona928 6 років тому +2

      Haha! You are crying... Oh shit! Now I'm crying 😭

    • @jaredreed9278
      @jaredreed9278 6 років тому +2

      same... ;(

    • @darkangelelric
      @darkangelelric 6 років тому +1

      Why can't i stop cry?

  • @pollyanna423
    @pollyanna423 5 років тому +7

    this speaks to me on so many levels. i am her and she is me. i do that too -- at the grocery stores, malls, crowded streets. walking aimlessly. pretending.
    i love this.

  • @morgoos3735
    @morgoos3735 7 років тому +35

    she has to be my all time favorite poet and person in general

  • @TheVietnameseCatGoblin
    @TheVietnameseCatGoblin 7 років тому +10

    I usually share my favourite poems to my Facebook, but this is just too good to share and be scrolled past on Facebook. I never know a concept can exist! It hits so hard at the few last lines:
    "Goodbye is the saddest word I know. The saddest word you know is my name.
    My name walks around at the grocery store and feels less sad.
    Less sad, because at the grocery store, nobody knows there is nobody in love with me."

  • @sleepforever9793
    @sleepforever9793 5 років тому +2

    I would just like to mention how simply beautiful she is. Her words, her voice, or even just her straight looks, her pure raw talent, and everything in between, she's amazing

  • @mateotaiga5436
    @mateotaiga5436 5 років тому +3

    I wish I had friends that loved these poems as much as I do. Any time I am sad or emotional I listen to these poems

  • @SaraBee98
    @SaraBee98 7 років тому +1076

    Awkward moment when I'm sad, and in bed

  • @44626992
    @44626992 6 років тому +5

    Five years of being lonely and finally I see this video and this girl gets it. She has nailed how I feel at the grocery store :-(

  • @ButtonPoetry
    @ButtonPoetry  7 років тому +54

    Take the poem home with you! Get Sabrina's incredible debut book, Depression & Other Magic Tricks: bit.ly/sabrinamagic

  • @abigailkassing9272
    @abigailkassing9272 5 років тому +5

    I didn't realise how many times I had listen to this until I said every word with her. And doesn't that make us both a little less lonely?

  • @rebeckadanielle7452
    @rebeckadanielle7452 6 років тому +6

    as she said the last word i burst into tears. this is my exact life at the moment

  • @jennisawesome000
    @jennisawesome000 6 років тому +8

    i fell in love with this poem, i can relate to everything.
    “at least at the grocery store no one knows that nobody is in love with me” or something like that, my fav line 🙌🏼🌸

  • @andibardan7059
    @andibardan7059 6 років тому +10

    how is it even possible that nobody is in love with this woman

  • @fiji7485
    @fiji7485 6 років тому +32

    sabrina: so im at the grocery store because i feel sad
    person: same
    0:08 gets me every time

  • @jaz-wi3no
    @jaz-wi3no 7 років тому +30

    "goodbye is the saddest word i know
    the saddest word you know is my name"

  • @shreya31july
    @shreya31july 5 років тому +1

    "the saddest word you know is my name" GODDAMN IF IT ISNT THE MOST RELATABLE SHIT EVER.. depression really really sucks but thanks Sabrina, you make it suck a little less.

  • @kerajoyner927
    @kerajoyner927 6 років тому +2

    Its like she reached into my soul and wrote this.

  • @lilyblish3995
    @lilyblish3995 7 років тому +7

    "The saddest word you know is my name." That line hit me like a truck.

  • @ThePurpleCosmos
    @ThePurpleCosmos 4 роки тому +2

    I came back here to rewatch this after watching her latest poem. It's so heartening to see her growth

  • @nickbeauchamp5330
    @nickbeauchamp5330 Рік тому +1

    This poem spoke to me long ago. Now it resonates way too hard. You are a muse to me. Know that. 🖤

  • @AnkushMudgal0396
    @AnkushMudgal0396 6 років тому +4

    This piece Moves Me, and when I say 'Moves Me" I mean a mental packing up of all my sadness in the empty tattered cartons of my thoughts and taking the highway towards my Lonely.

  • @andreeac7501
    @andreeac7501 7 років тому +12

    just read this in her book. such a nice collection of poems!

  • @gabrielbertizoli1942
    @gabrielbertizoli1942 7 років тому +8

    Sabrina thanks for every single world you write, you're amazing ❤️

  • @calgakispict3652
    @calgakispict3652 3 роки тому +2

    This is me and the reason why I stay lonely, I don't know how to hang onto the fleeting moment where I feel like dancing in public without music.

  • @virginiahelzainka
    @virginiahelzainka 6 років тому +4

    naww that just makes me want to hug her xx

  • @aditichatterjee9736
    @aditichatterjee9736 6 років тому +1

    Hi, I had goosebumps because I was literally having flashbacks of myself thinking and doing the same things. I listened to all your available poems in a go just now and I cannot possibly explain how grateful I am to you for making these.

  • @Jackssocoollike
    @Jackssocoollike 5 років тому +2

    This captures every single thing I've felt in the past 5 months...

  • @jessartist25
    @jessartist25 6 років тому

    So when she said the last few words I started to cry. This was such a good poem and im so glad I found her.

  • @josephdemaree8401
    @josephdemaree8401 5 років тому +1

    And now I’m crying. I feel so lonely even though apparently a tone of people love me. But for someone like me it’s really hard for someone to be in love with me. Life is dark in the sea of the different.

  • @djdonekdnd6514
    @djdonekdnd6514 6 років тому +4

    This was amazing. I absolutely adore her poetry.

  • @zucker8224
    @zucker8224 7 років тому +4

    Another wonderful poem by Sabrina

  • @cerclesvicieux
    @cerclesvicieux 6 років тому +1

    This is my favorite. Probably becuseit's exactly how I feel sometimes. I am loneliest at the grocery store when I have forgotton to go shopping before the holiday hits and I'm standing there with allthese other lonely people who forgot to shop before the hnoliday, and then we all form a chorus line.
    Excellent poem. Hugs.

  • @sarahhajko8910
    @sarahhajko8910 6 років тому +1

    This is exactly where I am right now, she spoke to my little heart wow

  • @AnkushMudgal0396
    @AnkushMudgal0396 6 років тому +1

    I've seen this a dangerously large number of times in the past 2 months. Like, I'm here almost every day, a couple of times a day. She is that good, and this piece hits me just right because I don't think I've ever seen a piece of work describe my loneliness in such a perfect manner, except for maybe the song "Breathe Me" by Sia.

  • @mk-zo4kw
    @mk-zo4kw 7 років тому +1

    its tragic how much i can relate to this

  • @cynthia5102
    @cynthia5102 6 років тому +1

    This was so beautiful. I feel the same way . Everybody loves me bu t nobody is truly in love with me . And I go to the groceries as well pretending to have someone that doesn't exist.

  • @shaymamahmoud8753
    @shaymamahmoud8753 7 років тому +1

    Sabrina reminds me of me but at least she had the courage to read to people what she has been writing and hiding to let go what's inside and to tell people like me and her that we're not alone .. the only difference that I'm still hiding behind a pile of papers which probably no one will ever read ..

  • @bgNightmareTunaRoT
    @bgNightmareTunaRoT 7 років тому +3

    I love how simple this is but on point!!!
    I woke up today feeling like that, and then i found this!!

  • @azeez9828
    @azeez9828 4 роки тому

    Wow this made me realize that I may be sad, but not lonely.

  • @kallihartford557
    @kallihartford557 6 років тому +5

    “I’m in the grocery store because I’m sad” person in the back ground “same.”

  • @veggiet2009
    @veggiet2009 4 місяці тому

    Anyone else like the audible "oh come on!" At the end? Sure that's an annoying response sometimes, but it tells you just how invested her audience is in her telling

  • @aidseleram8927
    @aidseleram8927 4 роки тому +1

    AT LEAST NOBODY KNOWS NOBODY IS IN LOVE WITH ME 😭😭😭😭. IT'S BEEN 2 YEARS SINCE I WATCHED THIS VID BUT DAMN . THE WORDS STILL RESONATE

  • @gloriamaria7032
    @gloriamaria7032 6 років тому +1

    I'm crying now, she says exactly what Iam feeling

  • @genuineinterest
    @genuineinterest 7 років тому +5

    We had a school elocution today and one girl performed "Explaining my Depression to my Mother" and I had to Contain Myself^TM

  • @gabrieldiasmelo
    @gabrieldiasmelo 6 років тому

    I have never been a poetry person, but recent discovery this channel and my view change immediately. That's happen mostly wen i watch for the first time Sabrina's poetry and start wonder " Holly this world's hit me like a 30kg sledgehammer in the nose...."
    * English is not my first language so if i wrote something wrong please let me know

  • @MyCreations4Life
    @MyCreations4Life 6 років тому +2

    'Not a very sad person trying not to cry' so today was a day, and well not a good one. And this made me laugh in a sad and horrible kinda way, but still a laugh sooo thanks!!!

  • @siobhansalter6641
    @siobhansalter6641 6 років тому +1

    This entire poem hit me so hard.

  • @seliees9223
    @seliees9223 3 роки тому +1

    What a beautiful piece of art! I haven't related to a poem this much in a while. Or ever. Yeah, probably ever, because I can't stop crying right now

  • @Crossfired193
    @Crossfired193 7 років тому +61

    well fuck I think I'm in love with you

  • @dekira3545
    @dekira3545 5 років тому

    her voice sounds so nice

  • @swadha4732
    @swadha4732 7 років тому +1

    i relate to this on a spiritual level

  • @lojupitermoon
    @lojupitermoon 7 років тому

    Wow, so much love for this girl for putting it in words

  • @jcanthony16
    @jcanthony16 7 років тому

    Every poem that I have heard from her seems to convey exactly how I am feeling. She is amazing

  • @chloedessaint8173
    @chloedessaint8173 6 років тому

    Sabrina is so good...she really makes us think and we can really absorb all her emotions

  • @marianayoudontknow4671
    @marianayoudontknow4671 7 років тому

    I love this woman. She makes me feel less alone and less sad. I hope we do the same for her .

  • @phl.k
    @phl.k 6 років тому +1

    It’s scary how relatable this is ..

  • @blackcoffeechan1993
    @blackcoffeechan1993 5 років тому

    I used to relate a lot and probably I still do, but now I have someone who loves me and I start to cry just thinking about it, tears of happiness. Someone will realize how amazing you are, but if it doesn't happen, you don't need someone to realize something that already exists. (Hope you understand, sorry English isn't my language)

  • @crazy-fan6305
    @crazy-fan6305 3 роки тому

    I am on the edge of getting a depression and her book is helping me out!

  • @lostgypsygurl
    @lostgypsygurl 6 років тому +1

    Damn. This. This is what I am feeling these days. Sad and lonely.

  • @SA-kq5yf
    @SA-kq5yf 5 років тому

    This is the second poem of Ms. Benaim that I have heard and I am already in love with her works- if not in love with her

  • @elisearguson5719
    @elisearguson5719 6 років тому

    i love how she used the last words of each sentence to create a new one. so creative!!! ❤️ will use this as a writing exercise soon

  • @josethomas6560
    @josethomas6560 4 роки тому +1

    I love her soo much lol if only she knew she would feel less sad

  • @wakeupindia3258
    @wakeupindia3258 2 роки тому

    I just want to thank Sabrina for writing this..this is something that doesn't make me feel like the mascot anymore.
    PS: I was referring to her poem "a plain truth" from her book Depression and other magic tricks.

  • @reynalynarendain4443
    @reynalynarendain4443 7 років тому

    sabrina never fails to amaze her listeners

  • @upsidedowndaisy
    @upsidedowndaisy 7 років тому

    Have watched this about ten times yet come back to it everyday!❤️

  • @wtf.iswrongwithella
    @wtf.iswrongwithella 3 роки тому +1

    One of my favourite pieces. Sabina's a gem fr 🙌

  • @vicas1717
    @vicas1717 7 років тому

    Made me cry.so relatable.

  • @JaysNest
    @JaysNest 6 років тому

    I have listened to this so many times. Sabrina, you speak to my soul ❤

  • @giammona94
    @giammona94 7 років тому +24

    Hahaha i just read this in her book!

  • @stevenhunt6271
    @stevenhunt6271 4 роки тому +1

    Lonely sucks because it is not about being alone. Loneliness is about wanting to be wanted. I know because I have spent so much time alone, even in a crowd.

  • @chasitywojtas492
    @chasitywojtas492 6 років тому +1

    This is actually my favorite poems 😍😍

  • @maezyreign
    @maezyreign 7 років тому

    I love all of her work so much.

  • @Alahamamra
    @Alahamamra 2 роки тому

    She’s great!

  • @ajaranki5887
    @ajaranki5887 6 років тому

    I related to this during a very bad day. Thank you so much . I realised its ok to feel that way.

  • @procrastius
    @procrastius 6 років тому

    I felt every bit of this poem deep in my soul

  • @claudiaismakingmusic
    @claudiaismakingmusic 6 років тому

    how can we feel exactly the same way? loneliness is my greatest battle at the moment. at least, i'm not the only one.

  • @montrelladanielle4715
    @montrelladanielle4715 5 років тому

    I love her poems

  • @august-5085
    @august-5085 7 років тому

    Im basically a grown ass man but whenever I hear her poems i have to actively fight back tears because I relate too much.

  • @lindsay6525
    @lindsay6525 7 років тому +2

    I really needed this right now, thank you

  • @mayurinegi9624
    @mayurinegi9624 7 років тому

    god..i am replaying this one again and again

  • @claramiranda46
    @claramiranda46 7 років тому

    SHE'S SO GOOD OMG

  • @ash2933
    @ash2933 6 років тому +6

    "Crawling into bed is what sad people do"
    Me: oFFenDeD
    "Comfort food makes me wanna crawl into bed"
    Me: OfFenDeD

  • @TheAsstdir
    @TheAsstdir 4 роки тому +1

    In 42 years alive, I have only fallen in love once. The problem was that she fell for me too. It was only a problem because it scared the heck out of her. She dropped out of college midyear and moved in with her Gran a mother on the east coast a mewhere. Though I apparently don't fall often, I have never been scared by it. I think I still love her.

  • @yulmarodriguez4
    @yulmarodriguez4 4 роки тому

    “Nobody is in love with me but everyone loves me” that hit hard.

  • @emz10000
    @emz10000 6 років тому

    This poem speaks to me on SO many levels. 'Nobody is in love with me but everyone loves me' - did you write this poem for me?