As an Australian looking to retire overseas to enjoy a simpler, more traditional lifestyle, Italy ended up on my short list. I visited Spain and Portugal last year to explore those countries, and whilst I have not yet visited Italy, that will be my objective this year. Over the last couple of years I have spent time confirming the viability of a move such as this, and for me it is about leaving the hustle and bustle behind, making an informed decision that will allow me to enjoy my later years. If it happens that this is in a smaller community, that would be a good thing. I must confess that it has long fascinated me that people can visit another country and complain that the food is different, the language is different, the transport is different, the weather is different, and as for the Italian bureaucracy - well !! . In a world with internet, I cannot understand this, but I guess that is the way of things sometimes. Anyways, it is always helpful to gain insights such as you have presented as this forms a part of the formulae to determine the viability of moving OS, and I have always found your property viewings insightful, thank you both.
The gaslighting on those people's parts is astounding. It's not your fault someone else's business isn't open. It's up to us as viewers and purchasers to do our own research. If someone's on your page thinking you are holding their hand through their own processes, they are in the wrong place. Bless both of you for doing what you do for us. We appreciate you every day! The every day living experiences that you teach us are priceless!
Understand perfectly. Things are the same in my country, Argentina. Life in Big cities is completely different than Life in small towns. We, Argentina are italians who speak spanish. Most of us come from italian families. We are very similar
What’s your asking people to do is have manners. That’s a big ask of some people these days, but mother nature is teaching us all that she’s in charge. I wish I had the money to come to Italy and live, but I don’t, but if I did, I would be polite and patient
I bought a small townhome in a small town in France last year. Life in my pied a terre is calm and quiet, peaceful, and lovely. I love the large cities but I can hop on a train to Paris and get my crowded tourist fix every now and then. I prefer the slower pace and find it deeply relaxing after the bustle of travel, hassle of traffic, hustle of the USA (I live in Houston)…. And it’s close to towns like Poitiers, Limoges, Angouleme, and Bordeaux, so in any direction I have major shopping and restaurants and busier metropolitan areas.
Wife and I have been thinking about moving there for about a year. Just by doing a little research, watching your videos, and others we have narrowed down our choice quite a bit. Less than 20,000 for the tax break, relatively flat, automobile accommodating, basic amenities, and a close by large town (45 mi). We’re pretty sure it’s going to be Angone. Especially liked when you and Aiden commented that you really liked the town. Best wishes keep up the good work.
When I moved to Germany with my soldier hubs back in the 90's, we were told that we were representing the US and to behave accordingly. Also, if you want to live like you're still in your home country, why not just stay there ?
Imagine screwing over someone in a small Italian town, moving in and supposing there's not going to be consequences. I'm suffering from second hand cringe thousands of miles away. And my goodness, if I'm visiting to buy a property, I'm going to slate a minimum of several weeks per region.
Thank you for the good information. I feel like everything you said was common sense, but then again many folks don’t have common sense. Ps. I LOVE the black n white picture of your dog in the background… adorable❤!
It is so disappointing to hear of poor behaviour and unrealistic expectations. I'd love to live in Italy for some part of each year and realise that it would be very different (which is why I'd do it)! When you show properties on your channel on an overcast day or in winter, I do appreciate it because everything looks good in sunshine, and that's not real life. Excellent tutorial, guys ❤
People from other countries should know through common research Chechen weather Chechen seasons check areas of weather 😮 you gues do a great job through your videos
Thank you for inviting us into your home today. I appreciate you sharing things we need to know. One thing we didn't realize is that most people are working 6 day weeks. That explains so much about why the time of day works the way it does. Bosses in the US are very demanding of time and energy and they don't always pay people for their time. It is one of the worst parts of corporate greed we experience on a daily basis.
I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that many people have had totally unrealistic expectations! I'm not really that surprised, having worked in customer care for many years. Just when you think you've seen or heard it all, something pops up that shocks you, and you think what on earth are they on? Where I live, a small town in Germany, smaller shops often close for lunch, shops are not open on Sundays, and on Saturdays many close at 1 or 2 in the afternoon.
Great video!! Many of the same things can be said about moving from one region in the US to another or even from a large town to a small town in the same region.
So sad that people don’t do research. This is part of the charm of Italy. I don’t expect perfection. That’s why I would use you two to navigate these issues. I would be afraid the cheat someone. I see these people as good hard working people. I hate people who don’t pay
Thank you for addressing these issues! Some people have a sense of entitlement and are used to getting everything they want. They need to learn some hard lessons.
Very good talk! Two points, you always find what you are looking for, second if you are expecting everything to be the same as in your old country, than it's best you never move. I'd move to Italy because it is different, not necessary better or worse, just different. BTW, it's cruel to eat the delicious, Italian pastry while talking to us :)
Just watched this video and feel your pain. We run our own businesses and have experienced similar, people are funny fish and wouldn't be surprised if they do this slot on others. You're doing a good job and we enjoy seeing the beautiful places you go to and the properties you show.
I’m just “heading” home after a month in Italy. I toured some properties in Molise. I thought I’d love it and I was right. I stayed in Pescara and really didn’t like it. I’m a country person. I like the quiet. Just none of the houses were “right “ Btw-I started communicating with the realtors 2 weeks before I left and then viewed houses 3 weeks after I landed.
I am so sorry that this happens and it is sad that people would do this where is the honesty and care for others. Thank you for sharing as it is important to know and be aware. I hope this is not most people and cause it to change the nature of Italians and their culture. Thank you
Trust me... if they're pulling this crap in Italy, they're pulling this crap in their own country. Some people have no respect or decency. Entitlement has gotten so out of hand 😢
Hello guys! I'm really sorry to hear what you had to go through with certain customers. I think you both do a fantastic job at giving us as much information as possible when showing a house. I think it's all common sense to be honest, but sadly there are people who have a lack of it. PLEASE continue doing what you do. Thanks for taking the time to go over the "little things" ... My dream is to have a little summer house in Italy and every bit of information is of great help. Regards from a Panamanian in Europe. ❤
Hi guys, great truth telling this vid. I just want to know if you pay a deposit for a house is there a guranteed refund if/when conditions are/aren't met?
Me fascinó el video gracias por la tremenda información que han dado! Y sus videos son espectaculares al enseñar propiedades. Mucho éxito para ambos!❤️
I'm honestly surprised that any of these comments even need to be said. Treat others as you would like to be treated. That being said, the only country that I've experienced hostility towards me as an American more than Italy was France. Specifically Paris.
Great topic! Travelers need to do their homework. Even with preparation things change and a good traveler needs to be able to adapt. Same goes for relocating to another country, “it’s another country” that’s the whole point, and things will be done differently.
Not to be mean-spirited, but it seems to me that this kind of person is NOT someone that you would want to move to Italy. Jeez! I am sorry that you have experienced this sort of thing! Bless your hearts!
What is wrong with people. I have second hand embarrassment. I would never imagine taking advantage of people like that. I have a hard time accepting people giving me something or a service without paying. It is their business and they need to make money.
I am amazed that this is something that happens so that you must speak on it! That is shameful for people to do. This type of behavior is not acceptable anywhere one lives!! 😮
We loved the slow pace of the small Italian towns, Rome, Florence etc didn’t really excite us it was the towns, the people are amazing. I found the Italian people have a very similar sense of humour to us here in Australia. Oh yes it sure gets cold in Italy. We loved country Italy but we also live in a tiny town (300 people) in Australia.
Expectations and entitlement, those are the two things which should be taken into account. Decades ago, I had the fortune of living in Italy (as US military and then as civilian) for a bit. I LOVED it from the very first moment, felt right at home. But I had no expectation of Italy being anything other than a layering of extremely old cultures. Italians were so incredibly welcoming and understanding as I barely stumbled through grocery shopping in very inadequate Italian or asked endless questions about everything. Now, I'm trying to make my way back "home" for my 'golden years' (and introducing my adult children to the country I've spoken of for so long), and the only thing I'm having trouble with is the bureaucracy of visas! lol
Aggressive drivers---and yes sometimes even rude and dangerous---the worst tailgaters! One needs patience on the road, and have your toll payment form ready when on the highways, prepare for roundabouts on all the smaller roads. Surprisingly, I found driving in Rome not so bad.
I feel ashamed for behaviors like not paying for services or expecting always the same like in your home country. We have a saying: if you go to Rome, you have to do what the romans do!
Hi guys. Love your channel BTW 😊 I hate that there are so many ignorant, arrogant, entitled idiots coming to Italy that you need to actually address these issues they create. I’m a first gen Australian born Croatian that will be retiring in Italy in the next 3 years and I hope to hell by the time I get there they will either grow a brain or go home!!! Having said that, I understand that it’s hard for non European people to fit into the European lifestyle but maybe they should do some vacation time through Italy to see if that lifestyle something they can cope with. Otherwise…… I guess they can just sell up and go home. Keep up the awesome work, guys and try to ignore the ignorant 😝 Lotsa love, Kate 💖
I am an American and this is why I want to escape this Country. It seems more people here are embracing their worst selves and, I feel, infect every environment they encounter. Don’t let them try to put their crap on you. You are doing good for a lot of people.
Small towns are different to big towns/cities?!!!!! What a revelation. That is applicable ALL over the world. Only ignorant people would not realise or understand that. People want to move to these places because they are seeking a change of pace. I know you mean well, but this sort of thing happens all over the world, people who want stuff done for free; people with unrealistic expectations...
It's so sad that you have had to address these issues. The whole reason that we want to retire in italy is because of the lifestyle. The hustle and bustle of the USA is horrible. The entitlement is also unbelievable. It makes us embarrassed to live here.
As an Australian looking to retire overseas to enjoy a simpler, more traditional lifestyle, Italy ended up on my short list. I visited Spain and Portugal last year to explore those countries, and whilst I have not yet visited Italy, that will be my objective this year. Over the last couple of years I have spent time confirming the viability of a move such as this, and for me it is about leaving the hustle and bustle behind, making an informed decision that will allow me to enjoy my later years. If it happens that this is in a smaller community, that would be a good thing.
I must confess that it has long fascinated me that people can visit another country and complain that the food is different, the language is different, the transport is different, the weather is different, and as for the Italian bureaucracy - well !! . In a world with internet, I cannot understand this, but I guess that is the way of things sometimes.
Anyways, it is always helpful to gain insights such as you have presented as this forms a part of the formulae to determine the viability of moving OS, and I have always found your property viewings insightful, thank you both.
The gaslighting on those people's parts is astounding. It's not your fault someone else's business isn't open. It's up to us as viewers and purchasers to do our own research. If someone's on your page thinking you are holding their hand through their own processes, they are in the wrong place. Bless both of you for doing what you do for us. We appreciate you every day! The every day living experiences that you teach us are priceless!
Thank you for this important and candid conversation. You are both wonderful and caring people. We appreciate you so very much!❤ jul and family ❤
This was a really different type of video; I agree it’s important to adapt to where you are and do it with patience and kindness. Thank you.
Understand perfectly. Things are the same in my country, Argentina. Life in Big cities is completely different than Life in small towns. We, Argentina are italians who speak spanish. Most of us come from italian families. We are very similar
What’s your asking people to do is have manners. That’s a big ask of some people these days, but mother nature is teaching us all that she’s in charge.
I wish I had the money to come to Italy and live, but I don’t, but if I did, I would be polite and patient
I bought a small townhome in a small town in France last year. Life in my pied a terre is calm and quiet, peaceful, and lovely. I love the large cities but I can hop on a train to Paris and get my crowded tourist fix every now and then. I prefer the slower pace and find it deeply relaxing after the bustle of travel, hassle of traffic, hustle of the USA (I live in Houston)…. And it’s close to towns like Poitiers, Limoges, Angouleme, and Bordeaux, so in any direction I have major shopping and restaurants and busier metropolitan areas.
Wife and I have been thinking about moving there for about a year. Just by doing a little research, watching your videos, and others we have narrowed down our choice quite a bit. Less than 20,000 for the tax break, relatively flat, automobile accommodating, basic amenities, and a close by large town (45 mi). We’re pretty sure it’s going to be Angone. Especially liked when you and Aiden commented that you really liked the town. Best wishes keep up the good work.
When I moved to Germany with my soldier hubs back in the 90's, we were told that we were representing the US and to behave accordingly. Also, if you want to live like you're still in your home country, why not just stay there ?
Imagine screwing over someone in a small Italian town, moving in and supposing there's not going to be consequences. I'm suffering from second hand cringe thousands of miles away. And my goodness, if I'm visiting to buy a property, I'm going to slate a minimum of several weeks per region.
Thank you for the good information. I feel like everything you said was common sense, but then again many folks don’t have common sense.
Ps. I LOVE the black n white picture of your dog in the background… adorable❤!
Thanks from nz ❤
It is so disappointing to hear of poor behaviour and unrealistic expectations. I'd love to live in Italy for some part of each year and realise that it would be very different (which is why I'd do it)! When you show properties on your channel on an overcast day or in winter, I do appreciate it because everything looks good in sunshine, and that's not real life. Excellent tutorial, guys ❤
People from other countries should know through common research Chechen weather Chechen seasons check areas of weather 😮 you gues do a great job through your videos
Thank you for inviting us into your home today. I appreciate you sharing things we need to know. One thing we didn't realize is that most people are working 6 day weeks. That explains so much about why the time of day works the way it does. Bosses in the US are very demanding of time and energy and they don't always pay people for their time. It is one of the worst parts of corporate greed we experience on a daily basis.
great video, very helpful, thank you
First time watching you guys.
It would be nice to introduce yourselves at the beginning fir those of us who do mot know you. Thank you.
I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that many people have had totally unrealistic expectations! I'm not really that surprised, having worked in customer care for many years. Just when you think you've seen or heard it all, something pops up that shocks you, and you think what on earth are they on? Where I live, a small town in Germany, smaller shops often close for lunch, shops are not open on Sundays, and on Saturdays many close at 1 or 2 in the afternoon.
Great video! Thank you for taking time out of your day to produce this. 😊
It’s called integrity and dignity….unbelievable
It amazes me how kindly and gently you made these great points. 👍
Thank you kindly!
Great video!! Many of the same things can be said about moving from one region in the US to another or even from a large town to a small town in the same region.
So sad that people don’t do research. This is part of the charm of Italy. I don’t expect perfection. That’s why I would use you two to navigate these issues. I would be afraid the cheat someone. I see these people as good hard working people. I hate people who don’t pay
Thank you for addressing these issues! Some people have a sense of entitlement and are used to getting everything they want. They need to learn some hard lessons.
Beautiful words and message, thank you ❤
You are 100% on the money with this episode!! Keep up the great work!
Very helpful... What a great job you.re doing....
.. Thanks
Very good talk! Two points, you always find what you are looking for, second if you are expecting everything to be the same as in your old country, than it's best you never move. I'd move to Italy because it is different, not necessary better or worse, just different. BTW, it's cruel to eat the delicious, Italian pastry while talking to us :)
Just watched this video and feel your pain. We run our own businesses and have experienced similar, people are funny fish and wouldn't be surprised if they do this slot on others.
You're doing a good job and we enjoy seeing the beautiful places you go to and the properties you show.
I’m so sorry you had to experience that! The thought that someone could be so self centered and inconsiderate to another’s culture blows me away.
I’m just “heading” home after a month in Italy. I toured some properties in Molise. I thought I’d love it and I was right. I stayed in Pescara and really didn’t like it. I’m a country person. I like the quiet. Just none of the houses were “right “
Btw-I started communicating with the realtors 2 weeks before I left and then viewed houses 3 weeks after I landed.
I Love You Guys, Dinner's On Me Next Time I'm In Italy! ❤
So true!!! All of it. Thank you for you videos.
LoL the guy looks so tired.
I like the fact they are natural and their environment/place is simple. They dont meed to impress.
It's Carlos and Alice from USA that was a great video. We love your content. Happy New Year.
Well said and thank you!
You asked people not to be stupid. That all. It will be nice to talk about the war between agencies! Love you! 😊
Superb advice! Thank you.
Great video. Thanks. ❤
I am so sorry that this happens and it is sad that people would do this where is the honesty and care for others. Thank you for sharing as it is important to know and be aware. I hope this is not most people and cause it to change the nature of Italians and their culture. Thank you
Trust me... if they're pulling this crap in Italy, they're pulling this crap in their own country. Some people have no respect or decency. Entitlement has gotten so out of hand 😢
Buying is not for everyone. What be great for me is renting for a year in each country!!
Hello guys! I'm really sorry to hear what you had to go through with certain customers. I think you both do a fantastic job at giving us as much information as possible when showing a house. I think it's all common sense to be honest, but sadly there are people who have a lack of it. PLEASE continue doing what you do. Thanks for taking the time to go over the "little things" ... My dream is to have a little summer house in Italy and every bit of information is of great help. Regards from a Panamanian in Europe. ❤
Incidentally, what was that little filter thingy you put in your coffee pot?
I love you guys!
Hi guys, great truth telling this vid. I just want to know if you pay a deposit for a house is there a guranteed refund if/when conditions are/aren't met?
That cake looks delicious 😋 ❤
Me fascinó el video gracias por la tremenda información que han dado! Y sus videos son espectaculares al enseñar propiedades. Mucho éxito para ambos!❤️
Gracias ❤️
I'm honestly surprised that any of these comments even need to be said. Treat others as you would like to be treated. That being said, the only country that I've experienced hostility towards me as an American more than Italy was France. Specifically Paris.
great video
You guys are great! And cute. I also love your advice.
You two are great & do a wonderful job. Much appreciated by hopefully soon to be in near future Italian home buyer. Ignore the ignorant people.
Great topic! Travelers need to do their homework. Even with preparation things change and a good traveler needs to be able to adapt.
Same goes for relocating to another country, “it’s another country” that’s the whole point, and things will be done differently.
Not to be mean-spirited, but it seems to me that this kind of person is NOT someone that you would want to move to Italy. Jeez! I am sorry that you have experienced this sort of thing! Bless your hearts!
French and spanish people are the same on those points, i agree with everything you told in this video.
What is wrong with people. I have second hand embarrassment. I would never imagine taking advantage of people like that. I have a hard time accepting people giving me something or a service without paying. It is their business and they need to make money.
I am amazed that this is something that happens so that you must speak on it! That is shameful for people to do. This type of behavior is not acceptable anywhere one lives!! 😮
Places closed from 1pm to 4pm the same in towns up to 50000 inhabitants in Argentina
We loved the slow pace of the small Italian towns, Rome, Florence etc didn’t really excite us it was the towns, the people are amazing. I found the Italian people have a very similar sense of humour to us here in Australia. Oh yes it sure gets cold in Italy. We loved country Italy but we also live in a tiny town (300 people) in Australia.
Expectations and entitlement, those are the two things which should be taken into account. Decades ago, I had the fortune of living in Italy (as US military and then as civilian) for a bit. I LOVED it from the very first moment, felt right at home. But I had no expectation of Italy being anything other than a layering of extremely old cultures. Italians were so incredibly welcoming and understanding as I barely stumbled through grocery shopping in very inadequate Italian or asked endless questions about everything. Now, I'm trying to make my way back "home" for my 'golden years' (and introducing my adult children to the country I've spoken of for so long), and the only thing I'm having trouble with is the bureaucracy of visas! lol
Aggressive drivers---and yes sometimes even rude and dangerous---the worst tailgaters! One needs patience on the road, and have your toll payment form ready when on the highways, prepare for roundabouts on all the smaller roads. Surprisingly, I found driving in Rome not so bad.
Bless your hearts you had to make this kind of video. But WOW, I LEARNED SO MUCH!! EVERYONE PLZ WATCH THIS VIDEO. 😮❤❤
Same As It Ever Was
(favorite Talking Heads song)
Same for expats in Mexico
Change of attitude / attitude adjstment = assimilate. Good video!
I feel ashamed for behaviors like not paying for services or expecting always the same like
in your home country. We have a saying: if you go to Rome, you have to do what the romans do!
Sadly, working with the public is eye opening and disappointing. Thank you for the cash point... I was thinking it was a selling point for me lol
Hi guys. Love your channel BTW 😊 I hate that there are so many ignorant, arrogant, entitled idiots coming to Italy that you need to actually address these issues they create. I’m a first gen Australian born Croatian that will be retiring in Italy in the next 3 years and I hope to hell by the time I get there they will either grow a brain or go home!!! Having said that, I understand that it’s hard for non European people to fit into the European lifestyle but maybe they should do some vacation time through Italy to see if that lifestyle something they can cope with. Otherwise…… I guess they can just sell up and go home. Keep up the awesome work, guys and try to ignore the ignorant 😝 Lotsa love, Kate 💖
I am an American and this is why I want to escape this Country. It seems more people here are embracing their worst selves and, I feel, infect every environment they encounter. Don’t let them try to put their crap on you. You are doing good for a lot of people.
Do you only show homes in Puglia?
Hey guys, I know that you’re an Australian couple but I can’t place Fiorella’s accent. Please share! ❤
Some people are so entitled. Smh.
Small towns are different to big towns/cities?!!!!! What a revelation. That is applicable ALL over the world. Only ignorant people would not realise or understand that.
People want to move to these places because they are seeking a change of pace.
I know you mean well, but this sort of thing happens all over the world, people who want stuff done for free; people with unrealistic expectations...
It's so sad that you have had to address these issues. The whole reason that we want to retire in italy is because of the lifestyle. The hustle and bustle of the USA is horrible. The entitlement is also unbelievable. It makes us embarrassed to live here.
When in Rome do as the Romans do. I get what you are saying, " 30 minutes or it's free" doesn't exist here.
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The same thing happens in Saipan.... Folks thinking the Island going to change it's timing for them ....
ROFLMAO you want bad drivers go to Russia 2 lane roads turn int 4 lane they will do anything to get in front of 1 car was there for 7 years I know....