EP #2 The Goddess Effect Podcast // Get Out Of Your Own Way // Kim Velez
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- Опубліковано 9 жов 2024
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I’m crying. Crying with joy and excitement knowing that I CAN be that woman.. I can be with the man I love and I can be the ONLY ONE, chosen and loved and cherished.
You will be married with your SP by November 2022...it's done!! Thank you Kim, you are a beautiful human being. You elevate my heart and soul. You are loved, and valued and chosen by all of us. ✨❤️✨🙏
Today I step out of my way. I will continue to improve my self-concept and self-confidence. No more telling myself that I can’t manifest what I desire. It’s my time!
It is! You're the prize
OMG this is why I love Kim because she is so freakin real, I was that nasty girl too. I created multiple 3rd parties, this version of myself was the worst. Reprograming is so important and I am so happy Kim has helped me along my journey. No evidence no big deal, circumstances do not matter, patient is key, and knowing that it's already yours. His old 3rd party is his business partner who once contacted me, never was I intimidated but she was around and I would ask about their "situationship" but she was still a trigger because of their work. Now, she nor their partnership phase me because I know for a fact that he desires me and only me he literally gives me what I ask for. At this moment, I am doing more self-concept and affirmations, I'm more consistent and I'm sticking to the story which is marriage because it's been 4yrs lol. Thanks Kim, this was super dope!!!!
Wow, go girl!! 👏🏾 💕✨
So you’ve been manifesting him for 4 years ?
🎉🎊 Yeahh invite us at your wedding🥂🥂🥂😃
@@noemibarrera5811 No we have been together for 4yrs. Unfortunately, as Kim mentioned about herself I had a lot of self-reflection to do, due to past traumas. In the beginning, he was CRAZY head over hills for me then one night rather one morning at 3am I received a call from his business partner 3rd party at the time. Once I received that one call, I started creating all kinds of bs within the 3d. Not only was I nasty, I was playing mental games which mirrored back to me, that was crazy and I also gave him a black eye, something I'm not proud of. Funny thing, even after that he still wanted to be with me. I was manifesting then and he was repeating things I wanted him to say BUT I knew nothing about mental dieting. He is an awesome guy and treats me like a Queen, honestly, he spoils the heck out of me but as most of us, he needs work also due to his past trauma. I've been following Kim for about a year now, so technically I've been manifesting our new story for a year.
@@MissRandom077 This gives me hope because I feel like my guy can be manipulative and controlling especially when we fight and I feel like he can unexpectedly act like a giant immature disrespectful child because he didnt get what he wanted and so then he sends texts like: Oh so much for ....., sigh, bye, nvm, good night, sad face emoji. And I hate that he does it, I hate that it bothers me, I hate that I then spend the day on eggshells trying to figure out the right time and way to address it where he will listen and not try and turn it around like oh but youve acted that way before too. So if your guy has turned around from mental games which to me sounds like disrespect or lack of honesty and transparency or even manipulation, and he know treats you like a Queen, respects you all the time, doesn't revert back to old fighting styles or tactics, doesnt act disrespectful, then that gives me hope.
I was a therapist for 12 years before going full into manifestation coaching. I will never go back. I'm a much healthier person now.
It's so reassuring to hear you talk about my exact relationship experience and know that you healed that in yourself. Thank you so much for sharing! ❤️
Oh my gawd!!! This is gold. My life to a T!!!! Such a vicious cycle and I’m exhausted!!! This stops now!!! You’re a Queen Kim 💜
Same! 💕
Yes, me too!! Omg, this was so needed.
Same
Thankyou so much Kim...my story also - due to my childhood is very similar, I am 54 & am still triggered bigtime by the 3D mostly romantic partners, my behaviours/actions that i have/do, the jealousy, abandonment, rejection, I'm not wanted, loved, good enough (like u) kicks in as soon as they show me some affection & have always attracted emotionally unavailable/anuaive/narcissistic men. I was unconscious up until only a few years ago, blaming the men also cause I just didn't understand, I also have never had a healthy relationship.....
Your channel & courses have literally been a life saver!! I took a short break as I was so overwhelmed by to much information (to quick) & only came back to u last night & OMFG!!!! IT FINALLY KICKED IN & I UNDERSTAND, WOW IM FREAKING OUT!!! I have a long way to go I know....but after a life time of massive pain, trauma, rejection, abandonment, shrinks, medication.....WORDS CAN NOT EXPLAIN!!! I am so grateful Kim, I will keep on track to the best of my ability as I have always been triggered so easily, but now I am aware...it won't be easy I know, but I look forward to the journey & hope that I have the opportunity to experience true love before my time is over.....THANKYOU SO MUCH AGAIN KIM, I will keep u updated..
Best wishes & Love to all on their journey & may they find true peace & love ❤
How is it all working out for you?
18:35 this is me ! When a man would get me feeling anxious or insecure, I will automatically cut them off, ghost them or block them completely & as you said it feels relieving . But this is a toxic trait I am highly aware of & I am focusing on changing this within myself . Changing this feels very uncomfortable but it’s gotta be done & I will get it done for sure ! Loving this podcast talk ! I’m only 21 & still have a long way to go with learning about all of this Thank you ! ❤️
Facts! I’ve done this throughout my twenties, lol. Couldn’t really figure out why it kept repeating. Just learning this at 30, still growing & learning. We got this girl🫶🏽💫
Omg Kim me and my sp work together so it’s forcing me to work on my triggers and I’ve grown so much because right before I met him I affirmed the next person I deal with is my forever person lol so I’m forced to become the best version of me to get what I asked for before meeting him. When you actually realize you’re the one creating all these experiences it’s mind blowing
So, I told him I wasn't pursuing him anymore. I probably shouldn't have, but I did because I got tired of being rejected. I wanted to give up the belief of manifestation too because of my experiences, but I have so many proofs that it makes it impossible. Now, I'm talking to other people. That wouldn't mess up anything, right? I'm having fun, but I genuinely do like him. I know you said "I only like him," so I'm guessing is me talking to other people going against my desire? These guys to me are just fun. He on the other hand is my SP.
Your story hit close to home. The way I was feeling about myself was how you were feeling and the relationship I had with my SP before is very similar as well. I’m now at the point where I’m done manifesting what I don’t want. My SP loves me because I love me and I know I’m good enough!
26:40~ made me cry. This is so beautiful. Thank you, Kim
I wish I could LOVE not just like this video! ❤️ This video was super triggering. I have the same problem of not allowing things to unfold in love. When I don’t get the emotional security I want in a relationship, my mind says F*** THIS and breaks up with the guy. This has been a cycle rooted from constantly feeling abandoned as a child and relating relationships with abandonment. I literally felt a bubble of anger/sadness coming up feeling triggered knowing that I AM THE CREATOR of my reality and I need to stop getting in my own way.
THANK YOU so much for your realness. I like the verbal asskicking. I feel like a lot of people need it. Please don’t change.
What you said towards the end about living your man so much and are thankful for him showing you and not even know it. How to become the best version of myself. I feel like this with my man, I filled with emotions and tears over this because I live him so much and even though in the 3D we are in NC I find myself seeing myself standing before him saying vows not only to him, but to me and in gratitude. Thank you for this beautiful video/podcast and the other 2 before this 💖💖💖
Listening and reading the comments gives me motivation to keep persisting on improving my self concept 💚 grateful 😇
OMG, This is scary to listen to, because I do the exact same thing and I couldn’t figure out why! I sabotage every relationship that I’m in! Thank you
You feel like home. So beautiful, brainy.
Wow! I resonate big time with the insecurity issues! I sabotaged so many relationships and dumped the guy first. Love your podcasts♥️
Rewatching again cause you are medicine for the soul. I appreciate your vulnerability. the "nasty girl" was me and its something that has waken me up with night mares and shame for the past year after I realized who and what I was. Thanks for this!
Yesss this resonates sooo much with me, every thing you say is me I inspire to become like you. Thank you so much this is exactly what I need ❤️
Kim I deeply appreciate your honesty and vulnerability in telling your story. Mine is so similar, and with your help, I'm turning it around once and for all, while healing and reconciling my 18 year marriage with my beloved.
Kim this podcast is gold! I appreciate your vulnerability. This is so my journey. I am 47 years old. I have been on this journey for a year. I feel sooo much better about myself, and I am so looking forward to being fully and dominantly self-confident. Thank you for the support and encouragement.
This whole episode felt like a heart to heart with a friend ❤️
Thank you so much Kim ☺️
You were me...oh my goodness...i can laugh while you saying all this here....but omg the triggers 😂😂😂😂❤
I am so grateful to you for being so real and vulnerable... I can really relate to you 🙂
This is 100% me! I'm at the point were I really love my person, and I'm ready to work on my self-concept. So that I can have the relationship of my dreams.
I was just listening to the podcast and I said in my mind she should put this on UA-cam. 💥 Boom! I manifested ! This is information is key 🔑. You look so amazing 🤩. Keep dropping the jewels 💎!!
I love the way you explain everything. I resonate with so much of what you cover
This is the best video on the entire internet about this!!
Thoughts create my feelings, feelings create emotions, emotions are our energy in motion and that is what is reflected back 💫
Kim I appreciate you just being honest and such a great coach along with putting in respective that we are human and it’ll take time to change a thought process but it’s still possible to manifest.
Recently, it was finals week for me and I had study extremely hard for my math exam because it was extremely hard for me and I didn’t want to take it again. I had been going through a lot of stress because if I didn’t pass that class then I was fucked. My dream is to graduate with a degree in food science and become a flavor chemist. And in order to continue my path, I had to get an 100% on my exam because I had a E aka a F in the class because of how hard it was. So I kept telling myself that I would need miracle. I sat and thought one night, trying to find a way to pass my class. Every opportunity I had wasn’t possible for me except for my exam. So I decided to manifest it. I told myself that I was going to get an A on my exam. And for few weeks I kept telling myself that. I went to study sessions and tutors provided by the university. I cried a lot because I wanted to pass the class. It felt like a boss fight. A few days before the exam I began to have doubts and even the day of but I just kept focus on the goal with the thoughts that there was a real chance that I could fail again. Then this Monday I went in and took my test feeling confident. But the score came back as a 65%. I thought I was fucked. I left campus balling my eyes out and my parents started suggesting that I switched my major (which I would rather not do because I love my major and enjoy the things we do in class. I don’t know what else I would do.) I told them I wasn’t ready to give up yet and came up with a new way to succeed. I went to bed sad but hopefully I could pass next time. Then the next morning, I received an email from my Professor saying that he gave everyone an A on the exam because we were having issues with the technology before we started. I was completely in shock and speechless. I looked at my grade and I had ended with a C and not only did I get an A on the exam but the professor regraded another exam of mine with brought the grade from a C- to a solid C which are both passing. I did it! I manifested the impossible.
So for those who are skeptical it’s true it works just with time! I think it’s a lot easier for me to manifest my career, traveling and, money because I don’t doubt that I could have those great things. I make it happen. But with love… it’s the most difficult thing I’ve ever tried to tackle in my entire life. For a long time I believed that men didn’t want me because I wasn’t beautiful enough or skinny enough. So I became beautiful and skinny. It didn’t do shit but bring in more losers. I’ve always had a terrible perception on love because of my parents relationship. I think this video is so important to me because everything that being explained is exactly what I’m going through with my boyfriend and I’m having strong doubts and anxiety. Sometimes, I struggle to believe in the impossible with him because of his actions. I feel like he tends to take me for granted. I know he cares deeply but he doesn’t care enough to change his actions. And I lowkey don’t have faith in him. So by changing my mindset and believing in the impossible. I’m working on getting the results that I want to see from him. But I’m human and I know the doubts will come and all I can do is just feel them away.
But anyway, that’s my story and sign for skeptical people who that it’s possible and to never give up on their dreams. I mean why don’t you think the phrase, “anything is possible” or “you can be whatever you want” is so popular? Because it’s true!!
Omg... you are blowing my mind...I have been with my sp for 8 months and we have broken up at least 10 times and I moved in and out of his house at least 5 times...I know I will always get him back but I have to fix me ...I love him so much because he keeps showing me what I need to work on... right now I am not with him but he starting to text me again....I have to stabilize my emotions with him...he is definitely the one I am spending my life with...I know we will work... together forever...I keep seeing different versions of him.... right now I see him sooo beautiful and I am the best thing for him...I finally am seeing the beauty in myself as well as him...talk about a rollercoaster...I never blame him...it's all has to do with me... persistence for sure and self love 💕
How do you not blame him or resist the urge to correct him in the 3D and establish a boundary in the 3D when say you guys are fighting and he is acting immature, manipulative, blame shifting? How do you not react or how do you keep the focus on you and go inside your mind when your body either wants to fight back and defend yourself or shut down and not deal w it? This is my biggest weakness.... not wanting to feel like a doormat but also not wanting to continuing to give the 3D version I don't like more power.
It's amazing to have witnessed your transformation! Fabulous! I've been your fan since the inception of your UA-cam channel! Love it! Thanks Kim! ❤️💖
Kim, everything you say always makes so much sense and crystal clear! Thank you so much for all the work you put out for us. I’m starting to feel so amazing and starting to manifest the life I’ve always dreamed of!
omg I love this. I'm finally the creator of my life and nothing phases me
Inner Child practices helped me immensely. I'm still working on it and it feels so good. I do that because I've had repetitive stories in my mind based on the same experiences and my perspective was so unhealthy. Just saying this for the people who are in between about starting their inner child work. (It doesn't have to be called "inner child" btw, it's just a general name for your past)
i did a inner child mediation earlier this day and cried my eyes out. now reading this is just a confirmation more.. can i ask u how offen i did it?
@@buketmyy How can I know how often you did it girlie?
Omg perfect!! I have been listening to you for a year now , I’ve been changing me gradually but this video has made EVERYTHING so clear
You're the best teacher Kim
This was my story.
So thankful for you, Kim.
Honest as always ! Beautiful soul ❤
Kim, thank you for sharing with so much openness. I haven't been able to forgive myself for reacting to the 3D and you have set me free. Thank you for doing what you do!
Yessss another podcast!! I’m so diving deep into this one!! Thank you mama! 😘💜
Kim im sonhappy for you ❤❤ this level of relationship hits different
I love this!!! Thank you for delivering completely… on point!
I just found your channel today while I was at work....well, this video was so impactfull I had to pause it half way threw and save it until I got home so I could really listen and take notes !
Absolute queen- you are glowing, thanks for Podcast gold x
I love how honest and helpful you are. Ty!
Oh YAY! A new podcast 😍🙌🏼🤘🏼🙏🏼💃🏻 LOVE these long talks!!! Kim your increase in vulnerability and self disclosure has been awesome! Keep it coming! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
You are such an amazing person and have literally helped me change my LIFE! Thank you💜
oh my god i was hoping you would come back to podcasting!! yessssss👏🏼👏🏼💗💗💗💗
New sub here and I’ve binged watched you’re videos they are really helping me understand the way my relationships have been going with certain people and now changing myself by being a better version and starting to love myself more I now know that my sp is starting to conform for me as he is now starting to reflect back to me what I want ♥️
Thank you for this wonderful information. I feel very connected to every word and now realize what I have to do to become the woman of my dreams and 4D world. I’m doing this for me and my community. I love all of you reflections and send positive vibes for you on this new journey of experiencing and exploring peace, love, abundance, power, financial freedom, and prosperity. ❤️
this is literally what i needed today.
i just had a breakthrough! this really clicked for me. Thank you so much Kim for being so honest with us! I absolutely love your podcast!
This is a good one! I need to subscribe to your podcast.
Amazing!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
girl congrats on 44.4k subs!!!
That's was really helpful ❤❤ thanks kiim
Kim this has been me so much 😢you are helping me so much ❤thank you ❤️
Yes the podcasts are back with a vengeance and this one is almost a hour long ❤️❤️❤️😊
OMFG! YOU SOUND LIKE MY TWIN!!! (history)
Thankyou so much for your vulnerability & truth!! Immensely powerful & Inspirational!! 💕
You're incredible Kim, thanks for your words. ❤❤❤
yess i was wondering when a new podcast ep was coming out 🙌🏽🙌🏽💜💞💞💞 love you kim
its like I’m listening to myself LOL
so glad I manifested your channel 😊
I love this! Thank you so much! I use your goddess meditation everyday and listen to your videos and honestly I love how much you have opened my eyes and how much I have grown and learned from you ❣️
This has been the best hour of listening seriously!! Thank you for your vulnerability ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Yes been waiting for this all day, waiting to be open to receive this x thank you x
I relate so much to you. I'm so thankful for you sharing your journey, it feels me with so much hope and confidence that I can do the same for myself 🥰
One of your best girl! Keep it up. Thank you for you! Happy for you!
amazing as always ✨
You are amazing! I always love your voice on podcast. You are a real goddess! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank youuuu for this. Detail by detail is exactly how my relationship was
I’m gonna just continue to go within
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This is Gold
Thank my Kim ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
My story is almost modeling what you have gone through Kim. Dammit if you can get it then I am to! Thank so much for giving so much. I am truly grateful. 🙏🏾
Right on time 🙌🏼
I need girlfriends like you in my life! You’re amazing keep up the amazing work and thank you 😘💕
please continue to put your podcasts on here 💗
You are changin my Life... Thanks Kim
Oooooffffff wow this one hit me
Hahaha I love that you gave a warning for the language. I have my 3 year old running around, currently school vacation time
UA-cam needs a repeat/replay button so i can loop this.
37:00 🥺🥺🥺
P-O-W-E-R QUEEN
Love seeing your gorgeous self, great podcast.
I need to follow your paid FB group bc I have been doing this almost wanting to give up, but now I have definitely hit the place where 3D doesn't bother me so much anymore
Thank you so much for the amazing podcast kim... Can you do a one on Mental diet? I know that you have an old video about this, but now I would like to hear about how to do a mental diet from the NEW you❤
Thank you for sharing your personal experience/story it's much like mine it helps so much ❤ 😊 ♥
You're so amazing 🎊🎉 the best will come to you😇
Kim! What lipstick are you wearing? It’s absolutely divine! Please share 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Excellent as always
Brilliant and beautiful 😍❤ love this! xxx
@Kim Velez this is amazing. Love your transformation and so happy for you. I am in the process now of shifting my SC. I have been listening to night time affirmations. How did you shift your SC? Was it affirming during the day or listening to them at night or both? Thank you so much!
Amazing 👏 I love it 😀😍❤
This is what i needed
Would be nice to hear how it started coming in xx
The thing is for me is that i have fallen bavk into poor self esteem, not feeling good enough, thin, pretty etc. YET my bf of 1.5 yr (who manifested new 3 months after starting to consciously manifesting) no matter how low I have been, deep depression, not wanting sex, looking into lipo and even suicidal thoughts even through all this poor mental health HE has not mirrored ANY of that back to me. He loves me deeply and even when i want to just be alone and single, he reassures me and says I am stuck with him. He is not mirroring the negative thoughts and feelings back to me. So seems as though Everyone is you pushed out is not happening.
Do you have insecure thoughts about him or do you know he’s there for you and will always be there ?
Great video ❤️ do you offer one on one coaching? Thanks! ❤️
Amen Kim amen
Loved this ♥️
my girl!!!
Isn't expectation play a huge part in assumption.. How to draw a line between Expectation and Assumption ?
Can you show how you script? Just a scene you wanna play out with your sp or writing affirmations (is that scripting?)