Narcissism Expert Looks Inside The Mind Of ANDREW TATE

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  • Опубліковано 10 січ 2023
  • Psychiatrist Dr. Sohom Das breaks down what might be going through the mind of potential narcissist Andrew Tate, who has been arrested in Romania for all sorts of charges. Does he have narcissistic personality disorder? Or is he just a bit of a contrarian? Let me know in the comments.
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  • @AndrewGold1
    @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +19

    What do YOU think about Andrew Tate?

    • @spookyboo22
      @spookyboo22 Рік тому +22

      Hes deep inside the closet

    • @margartista
      @margartista Рік тому +10

      Is he a comedian?
      The stuff he says is so stupid that he can't be taken seriously.
      Was he holding women in his basement and selling "adult content" w/o paying the overly young girls?
      Only Fanatics seems to be all the rage.

    • @jamesrowsell9346
      @jamesrowsell9346 Рік тому +2

      Im a huge fan of his tax evasion, woman trafficking, pyramid schemes and assault.

    • @deejames1st
      @deejames1st Рік тому +10

      He’s openly stated “I’m not “likable” just like markle”. I think he’s (mostly) fully aware unlike markle. He doesn’t hide behind altruism or say he’s a victim, but instead admits what he thinks openly, unlike markle. They ARE similar IMO, one is just more honest/less ashamed. (And by saying more honest I’m not implying that he’s completely honest).

    • @jamesrowsell9346
      @jamesrowsell9346 Рік тому

      ​@@deejames1st wow he openly stated that, thats so great D J. Really amazing stuff that he would state he is a douchebag like that cause otherwise it would really be hard to tell. Like he seemed like a materialistic cunt face misogynist but glad he cleared it up for us aye, i was a bit on the fence.

  • @Bohemma
    @Bohemma Рік тому +124

    My 16 yr old daughter approached by a couple of 18 year old boys at a party last weekend was immediately asked did she know of Andrew Tate. They then went on to tell her women are there for men to use and that they are inferior. So whatever he says the interpretation is out there . Our young girls have to contend with this crap in 2022 as well as boys raised on porn who expect sexual experiences to pretty much be degrading to women. It is all so bloody sad

    • @Toeso_Loso
      @Toeso_Loso Рік тому +2

      Women are there for men to use same way as women use men wtf u talkin bout

    • @gabriellecunningham7196
      @gabriellecunningham7196 Рік тому +7

      @@Toeso_Loso Philistine 🇦🇺

    • @laurenecarter246
      @laurenecarter246 Рік тому +13

      @@Toeso_Loso ok incel 🙄

    • @Toeso_Loso
      @Toeso_Loso Рік тому

      @@laurenecarter246 womanizer maybe not an incel i fuck stupid bitches like u all the time actually not like u all the girls who say “incel” usually pale asf with rainbow hair and glasses so I wouldn’t fuck u with somebody else’s dick and 3 condoms

    • @laurenecarter246
      @laurenecarter246 Рік тому

      @@Toeso_Loso don't worry I wouldn't give you the time of day. I'm deliriously happy with my husband of 11 years who has given me the most amazing children. Good luck finding a half decent woman with a mind and mouth like yours. We can see "your sort" coming from miles away. Enjoy your lonely life.

  • @sebrinab.3859
    @sebrinab.3859 Рік тому +34

    Tate needs attention for his insecurities. Very troubling human being.
    If you really want to know what woman can do…
    1. We are not stupid
    2. We will find out and know.
    3. Women make the best Spies in the world.

  • @banshee333
    @banshee333 Рік тому +90

    Real men don't get rich by exploiting women, period. And if he was as intelligent as he claims to be, he wouldn't brag about it. Disgusting 🤢

    • @davidcarty7584
      @davidcarty7584 Рік тому +2

      Real women don't blame men for the decisions of other women if women have chosen to work in web cam that their choice am sick and tired of people blaming men for everything

    • @junehodsdon8037
      @junehodsdon8037 Рік тому +4

      @@davidcarty7584 what do men get blamed for?

    • @ytboxingshorts
      @ytboxingshorts Рік тому

      BET YOU FEEL SMART NOW HAHAHAHAAAA

    • @Gamez4eveR
      @Gamez4eveR Рік тому

      @@davidcarty7584 uuuuuuuuuuuuh
      okay buddy

    • @rhaspiece
      @rhaspiece Рік тому +1

      the woman get half of the whole money earned and became millionare, working in macdonald earns you 0.0001 percent of the whole revenue earned. what's exploitation again?

  • @SusanaXpeace2u
    @SusanaXpeace2u Рік тому +95

    Nice to hear Dr Sohom not defending Andrew Tate at all and recognising how dangerous he is. Why pity unattractive men specifically? I think ugly men can fall back on charisma, confidence, power and wealth, whereas an ugly woman is always perceived to be ugly.
    Do ugly women feel they're OWED a gorgeous man? I don't think so, they join a book club, get a dog and value their friends.
    I have a 16 year old son who is fantastic at chess and I hope he isn't following this Andrew Tate character. So depressing.

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +4

      Well said
      👏👏👏
      Just like to point out Woman can fall back on charisma & confidence, though the other two tougher to accrue if you got kids
      🌏❤️

    • @realMaverickBuckley
      @realMaverickBuckley Рік тому

      I disagree. Ugly men are just there for the draft, for suicides, for the dirty poorly paid work. Whereas, my Mrs who works at a huge NHS hospital there are , in her dept alone, many... unattractive nurses and specialists and they're on 35 to 62 grand a year with 40 holiday days and perks out the ear. And then they strike as if the average *male* wage isn't £26k . 😅 Bless her she does get embarrassed when the strikes happen and she's already earning double what my brother does as a high street manager.

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +15

      Oh & my teenager said he didn't like Tate cose he's a womaniser...v proud moment🤗

    • @CONEHEADDK
      @CONEHEADDK Рік тому

      Ugly women can "just" train their bodys to look healthy, and the reeeaaally have to have an ugly face, to not be able to get a man. Look around how ugly women who are in relationships.

    • @themodfather9382
      @themodfather9382 Рік тому +2

      The important thing is that we get more womens' opinions about the plight of men

  • @Adipsia1
    @Adipsia1 Рік тому +27

    This ties very well into your interview with HG Tudor, particularly his explanation of the nature/nurture aspect of narcissism. It strikes me that Tate probably had some kind of genetic pre-disposition towards the condition but trauma from his childhood triggered it. Any empathy that may have been there as a child was beaten out of him and he then naturally rewired himself to become self-sufficient and get his needs met by any means possible.
    Self-defence became a means of attack and his childhood fear was projected to create fear in others through his kick-boxing prowess. His financial and physical rewards just served to fuel his ever-growing ego... and now he's become a monster with no moral-compass or capacity for empathy with others. He's very clever but only from a selfish perspective.
    He's created a prison-cell for himself that is devoid of light, but sadly he's also done the same for his victims. It's tragic for everyone concerned.

    • @troubadour1562
      @troubadour1562 Рік тому +2

      So well said Peter.

    • @damidami5064
      @damidami5064 10 місяців тому +1

      Damn.

    • @SarahHorne1
      @SarahHorne1 10 місяців тому +1

      Brilliantly put.

    • @sharondavis258
      @sharondavis258 6 місяців тому +1

      I think your assessment is spot on. Narcissist will never know what it is to genuinely love someone and be loved. What a vacuous existence. He will never be a happy or contented person.

  • @kcc-karenschroniccorner9432
    @kcc-karenschroniccorner9432 Рік тому +16

    No one person or event “forced” Tate to adopt any kind of toxic behaviour.

  • @AliceNsWonderland
    @AliceNsWonderland Рік тому +56

    Greg from the Behavior Panel has a very apropos line... "Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them."
    I think Andrew Tate was "laughed at" by a woman at one point. I fully believe he thinks this is on par with the severity of thinking someone will kill you. His poor little feelers were hurt and he hated that so he has projected this image of a guy who has no feelings blah blah blah blah.
    I think he's very insecure! I also believe he would LIKE to be the man he projects but he's nowhere near that confident or filled with anywhere near that much hubris.

    • @shelleykapp9637
      @shelleykapp9637 Рік тому +4

      Greg is so succinct!! I love The Behavior Panel....I don't know how I missed that nugget of wisdom.

    • @sheeplefree816
      @sheeplefree816 Рік тому

      It's the same for most in the incel community. It's the narcissistic tendency that all fault lies elsewhere. It is very prevalent with the incels. They all talk a big game about taking responsibility for one's self until they are accused of negative behaviour when all the sudden everyone but them is to blame. It's the old U.S.A. Republican tropes given to us by someone with a British accent. How much do you want to bet he was a Brexiteer? If you need comic relief from the Andrew Tate's of the world just follow Drew Afualo.

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому

      Sounds as reasonable a theory as any...but it's just so much bravado. Just reminds me of most geezer, giving it the biggen...10 a penny in any big city

    • @kiskakuznetsova503
      @kiskakuznetsova503 Рік тому +4

      Greg recognizes misogyny and explains why it is so important to understand and how it intersects with crimes. FWIW, that quote is by Margaret Atwood, who wrote the Handmaid's Tale, etc.

  • @SuperBjanka
    @SuperBjanka Рік тому +14

    Andrew Tate speak like he's got all his knowledge about women from porn

    • @davidcarty7584
      @davidcarty7584 Рік тому

      Know he got it from the women he was getting as a kick boxer he said it himself everytime he won a fight a got a ring girl seriously you people are bias

    • @SuperBjanka
      @SuperBjanka Рік тому +3

      @@davidcarty7584 It is seriously bias to judge all women on a few

    • @sabinebluhmentahl9275
      @sabinebluhmentahl9275 Рік тому +2

      He probably has.

    • @Melly16yr10
      @Melly16yr10 2 місяці тому +1

      I wouldn't put it past him at this point

  • @ellie698
    @ellie698 Рік тому +10

    He was born in the US and then moved to a council estate in the UK.
    He didn't grow up in Romania did he.

  • @bobkoroua
    @bobkoroua Рік тому +13

    Not a fan of Andrew but I think clinical depression is over diagnosed.
    My 7 year old son got Cancer, My business failed because of the grand financial crisis and my dog died.
    I went to the doctor for a chest infection and while we were talking he asked how life was?
    I told him about my dog and job, he knew about my son and he said he thought I was depressed.
    Why do you think that?
    " It would be unusual for you not to be depressed"
    I said I'm sad and worried but I'm not depressed, I'm getting up at 6, make my bed, get dressed and go out looking for work every day.
    Nope, you are probably depressed and I want to prescribe these tablets.
    I refused them but he wrote that on the chart as me in denial.
    Two years later I tried to change the insurance company and none of them would give me life insurance even though they would all give me $ 3 million insurance on my properties.
    Was he just after those sweet drug company kick backs ?
    How often does that happen?

    • @poponachtschnecke
      @poponachtschnecke Рік тому +6

      I'm not a scientologist, but I have had horrible experiences with antidepressants, and will never touch them again, no matter how bad things get.
      I'm so angry for your situation. There is so much...well... gaslighting of patients, it defies reason. I have so much more to say, but I realize I'm mentally foaming at the mouth with rage, so I think I'll stop now. I hope things get better for you with insurance and everything.

    • @bobkoroua
      @bobkoroua Рік тому +1

      @@poponachtschnecke crikey that's more upset that I was at the time 🤗🤘.
      Bloody doctors 🪱 they are so sure they know everything that they miss somethings.

    • @junehodsdon8037
      @junehodsdon8037 Рік тому +1

      It's called practicing medicine for a reason.

    • @bobkoroua
      @bobkoroua Рік тому

      @@junehodsdon8037 that's cryptic, he has been in practice since 1989 and I was recounting a 2011 occurrence.

    • @missstarrynight7736
      @missstarrynight7736 Рік тому +2

      You are right, it's not depression, but rational thinking and sadness. If things go wrong and you can't cope it's not depression. It's the correct response, if I may say so. If life goes well and there're no problems but a person is totally upset - that's depression.
      I was misdiagnosed with depression too, meanwhile, years later it turned out I have a very "logical" CPTSD. I fear what I already know, not some things I cannot relate to. I am anxious for very serious reasons, so this state is very rational. It's nothing but disillusionment about life and reaching the end of my abilities. I know my limitations, I know the reality of this world. It's dark side. Am I depressed? No. I know it's just normal reaction to abnormal situation.

  • @larrylyn210
    @larrylyn210 Рік тому +28

    I think its a testament to the level of misogyny in our society that these guys still trip over each other to be respectful toward this person who is clearly a monster because he is a man. Those women have spent years in pain because of him and the cops wont do anything. If we cared about women like we cared about men, we would say this is a tragedy and its a sickening lack of justice. But we just get respect for a r*pist.

  • @ianwalton284
    @ianwalton284 Рік тому +20

    "I am and I do, then I die." Pure wisdom in 9 words or less.

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +2

      Also, I don't feel like a man...
      I'm the same, just feel like me. Who happens to be a perticular sex...
      Takes all sorts🤗

    • @erciliaflores
      @erciliaflores Рік тому

      I feel weird about the word woman when used for me and not because I'm masculine-identifying either!
      I'm just a human being. And that's fine.

    • @fay5479
      @fay5479 Рік тому

      Lots of "I" isn't there?

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +1

      @@fay5479 isn't that appropriate, when talking about oneself.

    • @fay5479
      @fay5479 Рік тому

      @@lovesees4320 I don't see life as only my existence...it takes one to know one, someone else. In accepting myself I can accept others and learn...where as 1X1=1

  • @celestewarren8548
    @celestewarren8548 Рік тому +6

    Tate refuses to take responsibility for his actions and words - sex trafficking! This isn't a surprise.

  • @erciliaflores
    @erciliaflores Рік тому +8

    I've only just discovered Tate, the last few weeks. I watched him calling Meghan's supporters out and then on Piers Morgan. I didn't dislike him. He is abrasive and cocky, but like our Andrew Gold points out, there are things Tate will say that do resonate. One thing I did find strange, is I learned about Peterson's being given that ultimatum from the ...Canadian government, essentially...the same week that I read the headline re: Tate's arrest. Maybe I'm just watching too many of these cult or conspiracy channels, but it seems like not a coincidence that an attempt to put a stop to these 2 very incendiary men would happen

  • @matildacarlstedt
    @matildacarlstedt Рік тому +8

    Pro tip: Thunberg is pronounced without the H. Like Tunberg. You are also right about being a bit sceptic when it comes to how she became famous. Her mother is a well known opera singer in Sweden and had a lot of contacts with the right people…

  • @Spirit-Of-The-Age
    @Spirit-Of-The-Age Рік тому +4

    Andrew Tate is a shining example of what 'full on' Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) looks like (his being the 'Grandiose/ Overt variety of Narcissistic Personality Disorder)
    Those whom want to know more and propely educate themselves , should go study psychology and you'll then understand why this man has full blown NPD and hence is dangerous and should be called out for what he is.
    To those who 'follow' him' and whom see him as some kind of hero and worthy of admiration, you are what is classed as in 'psychiatric' terms as merely 'enablers' of him. People with 'Narcissistic Personality Disorder' require 'enablers' (minions) in their lives as this is the only way they can attempt to fill the void of emotions they feel inside.
    Sad to see by the comments section on most of Tate's UA-cam posts (and his followers posts about him) that Tate has so many 'enablers' as until he gets locked up, you are helping perpetuate his sick, psychopathic ways and the damage he does to others (particularly those whom are vulnerable)
    One of the biggerst traits of those like Tate who have Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is they not only never admit they are wroong or at fault, they aslo never feel they are at fault, no matter how bad their crimes are, or the damage they do, and this interview is a prime example whereby Tate refuses to admit he has caused any harm to anyone (not even any influence he may have over children)
    Note : Going by his violent actions and abuse towards multiple women (which he claims are 'consensual' however lots more evidence is clearly about to come forward) he is likely a full blown 'Psychopathic Narcissist' too, and hence behind his own lies and manipulation of the media, he's very dangerous. He's dangerous becuase as per this interview, anyonme can see he has no real empathy for others, and he attempts to cover up his actions by building more lies on top of each other. Everyone clearly saw aht he actually said in his prevous online websites (the ones he has since removed in an attempt to 'gaslight' and deny he ever said those things)

  • @fay5479
    @fay5479 Рік тому +9

    May be we need to talk about absent fathers, mothers who smother their precious boys and female siblings treated differently...

    • @fay5479
      @fay5479 Рік тому +2

      May be that's why young men are lost with no father figure (many fathers have been programmed to do the minimum)

  • @BarriosGroupie
    @BarriosGroupie Рік тому +53

    Andrew told the story of how he was betrayed by a girlfriend he deeply loved in his teenage years: so I think he was profoundly red-pilled by this experience, forcing him to look for ways to compensate for him looking classically lanky, geeky and feminine looking compared to his father.

    • @margaretthatcher6828
      @margaretthatcher6828 Рік тому +4

      Well said.

    • @charisma-hornum-fries
      @charisma-hornum-fries Рік тому +29

      Heartbreak usually don't lead to a charge for r..., human trafficking and organized crime.

    • @ellie698
      @ellie698 Рік тому

      So he's blaming a woman for his own problems. What an arsehole

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +1

      @@charisma-hornum-fries gotta slow down there
      I'm no friend of Tate's not lynch mobs

    • @lovesees4320
      @lovesees4320 Рік тому +3

      Interesting
      Gose some way to explain the hyper Masculinity...
      He just looks like a charismatic geezer giving it the biggen to me.
      10 a penny if you live in London, for instance
      & Everybody loves a bad boy🙄

  • @charlottetaylor9867
    @charlottetaylor9867 Рік тому +8

    I can say that looks don’t necessarily matter, if someone is funny or charming or has a good heart they just look more attractive. Andrew Tate could look like Brad Pitt he would still be ugly as hell. It’s his personality that makes him ugly. Sadly ‘ugly’ kids generally get bullied in their younger years which can make them shy and bad with social interactions not allowing people to get to know them well enough to see the funny, charming, kind hearted side.

  • @Miaow610
    @Miaow610 Рік тому +17

    People will still unfortunately follow him even if he's convicted, I agree. People still love Morgan Freeman, Woody Allen, Gandhi, Mother Theresa etc (would be great to see you talk about some of these) It's like we have this collective amnesia or denial fog blurring out the bad bits

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +14

      The bad sides of Mother Theresa & Gandhi would be great topics hmmm! Thanks Mia

    • @excel04
      @excel04 Рік тому

      @@AndrewGold1 I don't know if you've covered them but there's a hell of a lot of interesting characters in crypto and not just the obvious ones like SBF.

    • @blikewat3r
      @blikewat3r Рік тому +1

      @@AndrewGold1 yes, please cover these topics! 🙏🙏🙏

    • @aesthetics_hunter
      @aesthetics_hunter Рік тому

      I understand your point of view. However I think it comes down to individual whether he can see a certain person not as a whole but as a sum of many things that he is/did/created over their lifetime. For example I can enjoy Woody Allen's movies without supporting what he was doing in his personal life. If he did something wrong he should face the reprecussions, doesn't mean you can't take out the good bits out of some part of his existence. I'm curious to see what you think about that.

    • @excel04
      @excel04 Рік тому

      @@aesthetics_hunter I think it depends what was done, how severe that was and to whom.

  • @imago9059
    @imago9059 Рік тому +6

    Tate is a boy that can never fill his daddy's shoes, but craves the fame his father had. I have a hunch he has mommy issues. Maybe blames his mother for not having his father in his life.

    • @yiwoon_cr8s
      @yiwoon_cr8s 9 місяців тому

      And for not attempting to mend his relationship with his pathetic cheater of a daddy

  • @tonyphillips1112
    @tonyphillips1112 Рік тому +13

    I feel the same way about being a man as you do, Andrew. I just am.

  • @chicagodude8888
    @chicagodude8888 Рік тому +28

    Tate is like liver king. A WWE character. He's smoking cigars, driving expensive cars and selling his "misogynistic" (hate using isms and phobias and the like), alpha male brand he's crafted and made a killing off of it.
    I've never consumed any of their content but these guys are playing a character for $.

    • @cobrakaier238
      @cobrakaier238 Рік тому

      There are tapes of him admitting to rape, so no, it's not just a character.

    • @Toeso_Loso
      @Toeso_Loso Рік тому

      Cite some proof of him being hateful

    • @cobrakaier238
      @cobrakaier238 Рік тому +6

      @@Toeso_Loso if saying women are property isn't hateful enough for you, it makes no sense to elaborate.

    • @kellydalstok8900
      @kellydalstok8900 Рік тому

      @@Toeso_Loso

    • @ytboxingshorts
      @ytboxingshorts Рік тому

      @@cobrakaier238Won’t talk about all the good things hes done though, Preventing 1000s of fans from committing. Founding a dog shelter in romania to help with the stray dog problem.
      People such as Lil nas X, sam smith who are OPEN SATANISTS are being pushed in a positive light towards the youth of society but yeah tate is a bad influence right? 🤡

  • @ninagray4441
    @ninagray4441 Рік тому +8

    Playing a role is no excuse for such abhorrent behaviours and attitude.

  • @WiseAngelUK
    @WiseAngelUK Рік тому +12

    He's a bad influence on kids, who is applauded by Katie Hopkins who "loves his masculinity" and is "glad" her teenage son introduced her to his channels.

    • @trutherasitis2109
      @trutherasitis2109 Рік тому

      What stupidity! At least kids won’t be brainwashed into being brain dead and confused over what gender they are .

    • @ellie698
      @ellie698 Рік тому

      Oh good grief.
      Katie Hopkins likes him?
      Daft bint

    • @yiwoon_cr8s
      @yiwoon_cr8s 9 місяців тому

      Agreed!
      Dude literally brainwashed Sneako and Sneako is going to mind control young boys into soulless mass produced carbon copies of every "red pilled" "alpha males"

  • @HiHereIAm165
    @HiHereIAm165 Рік тому +5

    Glad to see he does not explain away the cluster b. Being a narcissist does not mean you never have a point when you speak.

  • @sandihill
    @sandihill Рік тому +16

    I really enjoyed this conversation. I find this Dr to be a brilliant communicator, well done to you both, this was good entertainment with a bit of education 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +4

      Glad you enjoyed it! I’ll put the full episode up tomorrow evening sandi :)

    • @ShipsKat
      @ShipsKat Рік тому +2

      @@AndrewGold1 He's a great guest.

  • @Tcoldsteel
    @Tcoldsteel Рік тому +8

    Did Thunberg ‘get herself into the limelight’ or did she have a LOT of help?

    • @bee-eu6cg
      @bee-eu6cg Рік тому

      She wanted the limelight.

  • @pamelaboswell9715
    @pamelaboswell9715 Рік тому +7

    OK, Charlie Manson managed to find a wife. Finding a spouse is not the end-all-be-all. People like this are geniuses, though. It's like they have an instinct at the right place and time to appeal to insecure people and just overtake their senses. It's very formulaic the way cult leaders catch hold, but you have to have that sixth sense to understand how to make it work.

  • @CONEHEADDK
    @CONEHEADDK Рік тому +6

    Even if convicted, he will deny, and a bunch of dorks will believe and follow - maybe even harder...

  • @oliviatree
    @oliviatree Рік тому +3

    Being a man or a woman is NOT a feeling. It is not a mystical brain place. It merely is, just like a foot is or a nose. The brain is part of the body, and no one is born into the wrong body. Weaponizing empathy and "inclusion" does not change that.

  • @stephanieoconnell2343
    @stephanieoconnell2343 Рік тому +3

    Love your chats with Sohom. 🌻

  • @edwardmulholland7912
    @edwardmulholland7912 Рік тому +6

    Tate is part of a backlash after the last 25 years of woke propaganda. It’s a generational thing, things are forever changing.

    • @M-yb1cc
      @M-yb1cc Місяць тому

      25 years? I thought woke was only a recent thing. You didn’t lose your job for opposing gay marriage 10-15 years ago. Men weren’t competing in women’s sports 10 years ago. As a woman who has always liked maths the push for women in STEM certainly wasn’t there 10 years ago.

  • @Kaykavoosi
    @Kaykavoosi Рік тому +13

    I’m just thinking of myself as a human being and I don’t think of my gender a lot but I have been married for over 27 years and gender identity only comes up when I have to find outside bathrooms or something like that. I am not sure if that is normal or not but I think if you think us against them all of the time it’s a problem no matter what the situation is.

    • @realMaverickBuckley
      @realMaverickBuckley Рік тому +1

      Yeah but you're probably not a narcissist Marjan.
      40% of the girls in one of my children's year at school claim to be non binary. It's just a way of becoming 'special' but also a 'victim' .. overnight.

    • @paytongibson9488
      @paytongibson9488 Рік тому +2

      As a trans person I'd say that's pretty normal, for most of my childhood since the difference between man and woman was explained to me it was a daily constant thought, a lot more close friends who are trans also had this experience, hope this helps ☺

    • @paytongibson9488
      @paytongibson9488 Рік тому +1

      @@bobsmith5441 no the bathroom is easy just don't use public bathrooms, childhood is the most difficult part not everyone has a loving family who supports their transition, constantly having to defend your existence because people who have never questioned their gender can't fathom that I did
      You wanna know how some trans kids figure out they might be a girl or a boy instead of what they should be you tell them GI Joe's for boys and Barbie is for girls blue for boys pink for girls telling kids this through out their childhood they just might question their gender. To answer your question yes I do think like the gender I have transitioned to check the science out its on the Web

    • @Kaykavoosi
      @Kaykavoosi Рік тому

      @@paytongibson9488 I’m sorry about your child hood at age 56 I think parents need to take a class on parenting and my age I think I even need a more educated on sexuality and gender change. I’m from Iran and we came from Iran to USA in 1977 and I didn’t know what was gay or lesbian until I was 14 and my sister friend was gay. So my parents never gave us any sex talk at all in any way. Please ether write a book if you can, their needs to be more education on the subject for everyone especially for people from very conservative backgrounds

    • @poponachtschnecke
      @poponachtschnecke Рік тому

      @@paytongibson9488 I'm not trying to be argumentative, but when you discuss Barbies and GI Joes, that just sounds like stereotypes

  • @poupou9435
    @poupou9435 Рік тому +14

    I like your interviews with Sohom Das. He’s really nuanced and interesting in his analyses. Love it.

  • @davydeuce
    @davydeuce Рік тому +6

    Andrew Tate is an algorithm of the matrix.

  • @Nicci82
    @Nicci82 Рік тому +17

    I just love how he cuts about pretending to be an alpha who has never doubted himself, while armed and surrounded by armed security.
    That's not alpha, or self confident behaviour, thats someone who does doubt himself and is afraid. He can try to convince himself and us otherwise, but I see right through it. 😂

    • @erciliaflores
      @erciliaflores Рік тому +9

      Good point! Lol
      On the Piers Morgan interview, he kept complaining about how he needs his bodyguards with him to go shopping in London because the city has become so mean and dangerous. A funny image of Andrew Tate with all his alpha manhood, afraid without his men about him. Also, when he was arguing that depression didn't exist if you didn't believe in it(or something), I thought well why not apply this mentality for when you go shopping? Those robbers lurking around trying to take your stuff from you, they're not there if you don't believe they exist. That's what I do every time I step out alone, as a middle-aged female who has never once been in shape. I just go out and get on with what I got to do. So far, so good

    • @kellydalstok8900
      @kellydalstok8900 Рік тому +6

      Narcissists know deep inside that they are flawed. That’s why they fight so hard to appear the opposite. It also makes them treat others they perceive as weak in a horrible way, so they can feel better.

    • @shamblerdimensional2487
      @shamblerdimensional2487 Рік тому +1

      Maybe because he has so many haters and enemies? Why tf would he be insecure if he was 4 times world kickboxing champion. 🤦

  • @robertkeffer3361
    @robertkeffer3361 Рік тому +5

    I found your podcast by accident...very entertaining and informative. What makes people go over the edge in belief systems has always fascinated me. I'll be a regular follower of your site.
    If I may make some humble criticism: Don't be so apologetic, you will always offend some people even though you don't mean to. Secondly, concerning this podcast, you ARE a good looking chap!
    Keep up the good work.

  • @AtypicalPaul
    @AtypicalPaul Рік тому +6

    I really appreciate your humble nature Andrew

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +8

    He definitely narcissistic

  • @AbdulHannanAbdulMatheen
    @AbdulHannanAbdulMatheen Рік тому +5

    👏🙂
    I always knew Andrew was bad news from the beginning.
    I always felt like I was watching a train wreak/bomb waiting to explode

  • @SarahHorne1
    @SarahHorne1 10 місяців тому +1

    Interesting interview, thank you both! 😊

  • @HiHereIAm165
    @HiHereIAm165 Рік тому +4

    Not all successful people are narcissists, though. (Though quite a few). We need to have discernment.

  • @themysteryofbluebirdboulevard
    @themysteryofbluebirdboulevard Рік тому +4

    Antiwokism isn't just a right wing phenomenon, doc. Some of us liberals don't like woke nonsense either... I think including Andrew himself.

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +6

    Love your content

  • @chris55529
    @chris55529 Рік тому +2

    Hey Andrew -- This is off-topic, but I wanted you to know that I have joined your crusade against Scientogy. A couple of days ago, I decided to take down David Miscavige once and for all. So I ordered a pizza to be delivered to him. That may not sound like much, but check this out: it was a "Hawaiian style" pizza, with pineapple chunks and all that stuff, but I also requested ANCHOVIES!!!!
    Miscavige is done. I give him a week at the most. You can thank me later.

  • @lauramay5361
    @lauramay5361 Рік тому +1

    I don't agree with everything JP says either but you definitely can't compare Dr Jordan Peterson with Andrew Tate. Jordan peterson actually helps people and believes in transformation and redemption. His personal life is also reflective of how in line he is. He's been married for many years, no scandals, well adjusted children. An extremely successful career.

  • @Garycarlyle
    @Garycarlyle Рік тому +4

    I like that you pushed back on the "toxic masulinity" thing. I dont like Andrew Tate but I think we should look at it more on an individual basis.

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +4

    His followers would have to ignore his negative behaviour especially on women which shows he hates women narcissistic people never apologise lol they think they know it all they never change eirther no growth Andrew why don't u research narcissism its first time I've seen a narcissistic rich male online show his narcissism lol I following him to learn how rich narcissistic men act how cunning they are

  • @Ozymandi_as
    @Ozymandi_as Рік тому +2

    A good discussion. Tate actually reminds me very strongly of Trump, and interestingly they both had very dysfunctional relationships with their distant, and somewhat abusive fathers. Even though they are now dead, their sons still admire them, and are still trying to earn the paternal love and approval that neither were capable of giving. For all the grandiosity and relentless self-regard, it's like they're empty inside, neither of them can introspect, they just take about their achievements and all the great things people are saying about them, etc, etc.
    They have no empathy, but they are able to identify and channel the anxieties of groups of supporters who feel marginalised and disaffected, and play it back to them in provocative, transgressive language that shocks the libs, and they love them for it. They feel seen and cared about, and it's like kryptonite. Because both Tate and Trump get this insane loyalty and idolatry from their supporters, even though neither of them really care about anyone but themselves, as far as I can tell. And they can do no wrong, they can be arseholes, and it'll be no problem as far as their fans are concerned.
    But then narcissistic leaders can be very charismatic to certain groups of people that they target, and exert a messianic hold over them. And that makes them very dangerous. Something else Tate and Trump have in common though - they might both end up in prison. They both believe they can do as they please, a kind of myth of invincibility that allows them to flaunt the rules the rest of us live by. We shall see.

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +5

    My experience is narcissistic and self involved

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +3

    Love your guest

  • @annaandre9131
    @annaandre9131 Рік тому +3

    You don't have to be apologetic. It doesn't come out good. Just be empathetic. It's ok to criticize Tate. He's a dangerous criminal and has influence on young boys that haven't learned to deal with their aggressiveness yet! In a scale of 1-10 of f*** up things that hits 1000!

  • @mostlysky55
    @mostlysky55 Рік тому +9

    Andrew, don’t worry about what people will say whether they may get upset w you. There’s always someone that’ll complain or say rude things.
    Mr Tate is scary - many people agree w him.

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +4

    Against anyone that wasn't white and or german? He held it like a badge! How did I marry him! We are opposite in every sense! I believe I thought I would help him feel real love!! I lost the battle 💕✌️🦋

  • @ninagray4441
    @ninagray4441 Рік тому +2

    Not all of us are prepared to be blinded to the issues of people in the public eye. For me, if I respect you and you then do stuff that counters my values, you are no longer mean anything to me.

  • @celestewarren8548
    @celestewarren8548 Рік тому +1

    Tate has previously set up, "they're after me" scenario. "If I suddenly disappear....", "I'd never kill myself..." "I know too much..." He knew authorities were getting close.

  • @BeeLZBeeb
    @BeeLZBeeb Рік тому

    Did you get contact from reckless Ben in the end? He’s uploaded to his channel.
    I did leave a comment just saying he was missed but deleted it after because I thought it sounded a bit like a flying monkey attack (hope that makes sense lol)

  • @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
    @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Рік тому +3

    I wish I could see Andrew Tate go on a podcast with you guys. I guarantee you would cause a narc injury. His mask WILL slip eventually.

  • @donnamorgan2522
    @donnamorgan2522 Рік тому +2

    Andrew,you always have guests that are engaging & honest-no bull💩
    Can’t tell you how many new subscriptions I have from your podcasts
    I see everything A-a-ron puts up & HG Tudor are my top 2

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +2

      Ah that’s great. Thanks Donna!!

  • @celestewarren8548
    @celestewarren8548 Рік тому

    FINALLY, a recognition of what Tate is regarding women. A sensible idea of a man who simply is a man (are/do). So nice to see balanced views from you both. Thank you.

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +6

    Scrambling much Andrew! Speak your truth from gut! I suffer from worrying about offending others at the moment and the last few years

    • @nigelcarren
      @nigelcarren Рік тому +1

      Great name! Reminds me of Brigandine. 👍⚒️

    • @Kreepyb5
      @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +1

      @@nigelcarren had to look it up actually 🫣💯✌️

    • @nigelcarren
      @nigelcarren Рік тому +3

      @@Kreepyb5 Welcome to Fight Club, you know the rules! 👍🤣😂

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +3

    He getting the energy of other people online as u know with narcissistic people they don't care if u hate him or not he enjoy it

  • @Kreepyb5
    @Kreepyb5 Рік тому +6

    Exactly, my husband ex, spewed racial slurs always

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +5

    As u already know there good at making people believe them he reminds me of a cult leader oh he definitely dangerous he obviously not going to admit what he done how he sees women u can tell he a bad person

  • @beastyboyBlue
    @beastyboyBlue Рік тому +1

    I agree totally with the Dr. Except the way I describe him wouldn't be as clinical as the Dr. Thank you both.

  • @Open_Space0718
    @Open_Space0718 Рік тому +5

    Andrew Tate isn't Romanian born he's American born and moved to the UK in his teens. His father was American and his mother is English. Try and do research before talking about the stuff you talk about it lazy! There is a reason why his accent is transatlantic.

    • @stst77
      @stst77 Рік тому

      True he wasn’t born in Romania but that accent is fake.

  • @eugenm
    @eugenm Рік тому +1

    12:10 till 12:26 - He speaks about clinical depression and mentions that "It's just there".
    This reminds me that I've discovered some important connections : The food you're accustomed with, may also lead to clinical depression.
    ua-cam.com/video/dBnniua6-oM/v-deo.html

  • @pixie3760
    @pixie3760 Рік тому +2

    I cannot listen to Andrew Tate's voice for any longer than two seconds

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +3

    He was brought up by his mum as she divorced his dad she got him into boxing but he slags of men who have been brought up by there mum as been not man enough because have no man around how come he tough he brought up by his mum he don't make any sense

    • @erciliaflores
      @erciliaflores Рік тому +1

      Oh really?! That's rather sad for his mum

  • @jagilo9677
    @jagilo9677 Рік тому +3

    Wait! Did Andrew Gold called the psychiatrist ugly??? I think the dude is sexy!!!

    • @AndrewGold1
      @AndrewGold1  Рік тому +2

      Who Sohom? He’s a very handsome man

    • @erciliaflores
      @erciliaflores Рік тому

      I liked these jokes from Andrew. I liked, too, how the Dr. took it in stride. Good rapport between the two

    • @SylviRay13
      @SylviRay13 Рік тому

      I was gonna say! Dayymmm

  • @sunshineindisguise
    @sunshineindisguise Місяць тому

    I speak about my ex narcissist
    I understand why survivor tell that male narcissist if they 30 to 35 they don't seek lot of supply but seek 2 or 3 to make their planning as life partner.. so why i understand why he back to me to reaching me.. i respect about dark masculine.. dark masculine is different with toxic masculine.. dark masculine teach man to be power, leading, contructive control, attract woman by their charismatic energy, mystery and privacy.. but still they sees a woman as their partner, not their supply, not their teacher, their mother and their competitor.. but toxic masculine.. just like andrew tate.. my ex idolize andrew tate mindset now.. oh no andrew tate is toxic masculine.. he teach man to be patriarchy without chivalry, he sees woman like his property, and wanting sex without sacraling the relationship and is not sacred masculine being.. being sacred is balancing light and dark within us.. so we are so powerful yet gentle.. he is so desperate wanting a woman like andrew tate mindset and wanting a woman to be like a s*x slave.. oh gosh.. i grateful that i'm aware..

  • @HiHereIAm165
    @HiHereIAm165 Рік тому +1

    👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼so well said. I do not go around feeling I am a man. I just am. 🎯🙏🏽

  • @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
    @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Рік тому +2

    Even if he is convicted, there will still be his loyal followers who will swear he was set up and it's all a lie. Those will be the ones who are trauma bonded to him. Then there will be the rest who will quietly step away because they will feel too embarassed to admit they were wrong about him.

  • @KimCarmenWalsh
    @KimCarmenWalsh Рік тому

    Andrew Tate may or may not be a misogynist, but he dances like a wild gypsy flamenco dancer of the female persuasion.

  • @brynleyjones2674
    @brynleyjones2674 Рік тому

    I love how Andrew roasts himself and Dr Das

  • @SusanaXpeace2u
    @SusanaXpeace2u Рік тому +9

    Exactly Dr Sohom DAs, Greta did *not* get in to debate with Andrew Tate. It'd have been pointless.

    • @ellie698
      @ellie698 Рік тому +4

      It would have been like playing chess with a pigeon

  • @remnant1018
    @remnant1018 2 місяці тому

    At 4:03 when he said “if you’re an ugly man - which you and I suffer terribly from being”, was that sarcasm? Neither of them is ugly. Is that why the other guy is smiling?

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +3

    Pizza Gate was funny

  • @imago9059
    @imago9059 Рік тому

    Jordan Peterson, Jesse Lee Peterson and Tate. Could you guys do an analysis?

  • @WiseAngelUK
    @WiseAngelUK Рік тому +2

    AT also converted to the Muslim faith too didn't he?

  • @eugenm
    @eugenm Рік тому +2

    Why is everybody mentioning Narcissism ONLY, and forget about the similar Histrionic PD ?
    ( Wikipedia : "People with HPD have a high desire for attention, make loud and inappropriate appearances, exaggerate their behaviors and emotions, and crave stimulation." )
    Wikipedia, NPD : "Narcissism exists on a continuum that ranges from normal to abnormal personality expression." Only the extreme part is Narcissistic PD.

  • @kylegreen5085
    @kylegreen5085 9 місяців тому

    2:39 "they are scarred their male privilege is being challenged'' Matrix agent identified. We used to live in a patriarchy, however, we've shifted to a matriarchy.

  • @chindi17
    @chindi17 Рік тому +4

    This was a very interesting perspective regardless of the outcome of Tate's allegations, it is partially Tate's words that has got him in trouble. I know some say it is a Persona. However, whatever you say publicly especially can be used against you. Whatever Tate said is being used against him whether he is innocent or guilty.
    Excellent analysis of Tate in this video.

  • @themysteryofbluebirdboulevard
    @themysteryofbluebirdboulevard Рік тому +1

    Expert! Real narcissism expert! Booya

  • @hala9175
    @hala9175 Рік тому +1

    Never heard of him. Sounds like a good thing!

  • @ursulayost2371
    @ursulayost2371 Рік тому

    He will be held up as an example of a masculinity dispite the charges or conviction.
    Raoul Mote is admired for his actions!

  • @AliciaM5555
    @AliciaM5555 Рік тому +4

    Well done having Richard Grannon on I agree about Peterson and Tate. I love how you said you were born a man, and you do what you do and eventually die.....I feel exactly that way about myself and life and it's freeing to not tie up one's identity around ideologies. 💖

    • @CaroAbebe
      @CaroAbebe Рік тому +3

      Being trans is not about an ideology. You being comfortable as you are is great. Someone having trouble with their identity isn’t comfortable, that’s the point, not an ideology.

    • @blikewat3r
      @blikewat3r Рік тому

      @@CaroAbebe ​ I have to push back here because if we’re going to say that one should be comfortable with who they are, then their body is part of who they are. If someone is unhappy with their body, they are unhappy with themself. We should encourage healthy behavior like self acceptance of the WHOLE person (mind, body, and spirit). Choosing to alter superficial aspects of the person doesn’t deal with the crux of the problem: why the person doesn’t accept who they are in these aspects and the failure to address this opens up the individual to be victimized by an industry that will gladly convince them to butcher themselves for profit. Outwardly playing pretend will not resolve the inner conflict of a person. It’s the lipstick on a pig “solution”. It IS an ideology and it conveniently plays into the hands of transhumanists and the depop agenda at play.

  • @davidevans9992
    @davidevans9992 Рік тому +3

    A woman claiming to be the one he made the spicy video with and allegedly assaulted has gone public saying it was consensual and that she is not a victim. If that's legit, that charge should be dropped. Whatever other kind of villain he might be, it's too soon to cry R.

    • @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
      @spiritofhonuguidanceforlife Рік тому +1

      I hope you understand that narcissists will pay off and even threaten their victims to not go against them.

    • @davidevans9992
      @davidevans9992 Рік тому

      @@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife What do you mean?

  • @audreyroche9490
    @audreyroche9490 Рік тому +2

    All different types of men same as there all different types of women everyone has a different life path mines a life path 33/ 6

  • @Elizabethselby
    @Elizabethselby Рік тому

    Fathers American mom is Irish. He's dual citizen USA/uk

  • @StregaLeia77
    @StregaLeia77 Рік тому +2

    Isn’t Tate’s dad CIA? That could help give him a boost in the media, even more than his words.

    • @davidcarty7584
      @davidcarty7584 Рік тому +1

      🤦‍♂️ he father was a CIA translator that was fired

    • @missstarrynight7736
      @missstarrynight7736 Рік тому

      @@davidcarty7584 If it was true. People made up unbelievable things.

  • @richieandmona
    @richieandmona 6 місяців тому

    Not Romanian born. In fact, not Romanian at all. Please don’t insult us by association. 😜 He just thought he could get away with his misogynistic crimes in Romania. That’s going well for him, isn’t it? 🙄

  • @mitchellperry3462
    @mitchellperry3462 Рік тому +1

    Where does mysogynism or however it’s spelt originate from?

    • @mitchellperry3462
      @mitchellperry3462 Рік тому

      No one knows?!

    • @missstarrynight7736
      @missstarrynight7736 Рік тому

      You mean the behaviour? Two options: either a child is abused/neglected/not protected against violence by the mother, OR the child is a "golden calf" of the mother, who idealizes it to the point of absurd. Or sometimes both. My ex's mother worships him like god. He can't do no wrong. She openly admitted to me that she got used to being treated baldy (because it's her cuuute little boy after allllll). And as far as I know this woman used to neglect the guy when he was a toddler and his father was abusive. His other brother is a human wreck, deeply emotionally traumatized, yet not aggressive or not a bad guy. Also, I my ex's case, his told me when he was younger he was ridiculed for his ugliness.
      Trust me, I tried to recompensate him all these bad experienced and I really loved him unconditionally, but unfortunately, he was always mad at me and treated me badly as soon as he felt "threatened" by my presence, my will, my ideas, my attractiveness, etc. Read as : all the time. He doesn't know what love is, because as some point he decided that no woman will ever hurt him, and it became not only a reactive pattern, but also a preventative pattern. Something like : "If I destroy you, you won't have enough power to ever do anything against me". I'm a decent woman, I never did anything wrong, anything against him to deserve such treatment. At some point I quit the relationship, because my life with him became unbearable.

  • @emilyhoffmeyer8040
    @emilyhoffmeyer8040 Рік тому

    The bathroom makes us depressed all the water

  • @WillClowADHD
    @WillClowADHD Рік тому

    The thing is, In recent times Andrew was not charged because these allegations were false.
    Andrew and Jordan Peterson are helping young men that are on the dark end of the spectrum and the proof is in the pudding. Numerous men are improving their lives because they have a figures to stand for them

  • @Stephen-xc3jz
    @Stephen-xc3jz 9 місяців тому

    Dr Das also belongs to a core group of ppl. If Dr Das was as popular as Tate, then his views about mental illness would be just as malignant because it would influency society to believe that someone with mental illness could attack someone any moment and that there should be more incarcerations, castrations and death penalties. That is right wing. I don't dislike Dr Das, he is a character but he is relentless with his referencing Jeffery Dahmer under the umbrella of what he calls Borderline and Schizo-Typal. There's a lot more to JD than just a standard diagnosis of them 2 disorders. He was a sociopath way high on the spectrum and a necrophilia, amongst others.

  • @Walua
    @Walua Рік тому

    I think what would serve you the best is to quit trying to please people. You can’t be authentic if you’re being concerned about which group is going to think what about you. Just have your own thoughts and be your own person. Otherwise you won’t be authentic in your channel

  • @poponachtschnecke
    @poponachtschnecke Рік тому +3

    I don't think you should be so hard on Greta. I totally understand your desire to be cautious about enthusiastic support of her, I'm like that with basically everything too, but she shot to fame as a minor, and a part of why she's so driven towards awareness on climate change has to do with being autistic. The focus that being neurodivergent can bring can act almost like a super power at times. I'm not a fan girl or anything, but I don't think she did all her climate change work for fame hungry reasons, so I do think that she is on unusually high ground for a public person, and doesn't deserve the hate she gets. She's only 20, after all.