1. She make eye contact with you often and the eye contact last more than 3 seconds with her. After making eye contact with you two things can happen. First one she get shy, look away and smile it means she likes you. Second one. She keep looking into your eyes and stand in close proximity with you and do not move when you walk past her by entering in her personal space. She's attracted towards you sexually. 2. Her friends ask you if you are interested in her or like her because they have come to you and asking this question after they having conversation among themselves. 3. She asks you personal question to dig deeper and to know more about you and she is doing this because she is somewhat interested in you. If she do not give a fuck about you then she will not ask this questions. She wants to know more about you. Or she ask you deeper questions. 4. She breaks away with her group of friends to be alone with you so that you can have one of one conversation with her. 5. When you touch her she move closer to you her. This is one of the biggest signs because women do not like to be touched if they do not like you.
Ten Tips On How To Be An Assertive, Yet Confident Winner In Life: 1. Don't take shit from anyone. 2. Be brutally honest. 3. Stop apologizing for who you are. 4. Be a silent leader. 5. Be assertive, not aggressive. 6. Have a strong sense of self-value, and self-worth. 7. Exude confidence, charisma, and charm. 8. Be financially independent. 9. Use logic in a smart way. 10. Don't take life and things too personally and professionally.
The dating life is all about experiences. Some people know what they want some don't. The key is to set boundaries know your worth and be yourself. You have to except each others flaws as long as the flaws won't damage the relationship. Hopefully you and the other person are loyal truthful and can communicate often. Relationships can be healthy if two people treat each other right ✅.
Another banging video melli keep up the awesome work you do and never change who you are your just perfect the way you are and love all your content congratulations on all your success and here's to many more coming your way melli stay safe and strong and never forget your value love the energy you bring to every video too have a good rest of the week too and evening too your not crazy melli that just you expressing yourself to the world
Your exactly right bro . Theirs this really good looking chic at work that does all these things she is saying in the video, when I'm around her . Except the come to my house part . And I'm still like uumm yeah ok, now what .
Well oh well! What an example of straight out there womanhood you are. Your methods are those I have used, as they are natural. Women send mixed signals, but not complicated! I always know when something's for me. Grab her if she comes my way. You don't vacillate or excuse your advice. Cool!! You're more direct than most men. Most viewers men, but the women should be viewing, to know themselves. Few are bold and sweet as you are. If they were, your show would not exist!!!
hahahaha i say that all the time, " here comes the crazies" lol. I'd feel like a kindergartener on recess to be able to share craziness w ya bc it just gets more and more crazy! sane Ebby often has to apologize for the behavior the next day
Great tips! If a girl seems to always be locking eyes with you, or she’s constantly making eye contact with you - watch out! - she’s interested in you, trust me! She doesn’t do this with everybody - so there’s no doubt that she’s into you, and that she likes you! It might be time to make a move - don’t snooze, or you’ll lose her! Lol Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
This happened in the gym last week. She looked at me like 5 times, but I did nothing and continued to work out lol. She eventually left. Hopefully I see her again.
Hello after listening and taking in your advise interesting enough Ms.yes give me direction on how to get a Lil closer to you?!!! The fun and adventure you would be almost dangerous I love it already!!! If ya ever get bored in need of a Lil fun and excitement ? I hope this message doesn't offend anyone and is meant only in positive thinking!!! Good day
Not gonna lie im following just because your beautiful i seen you on some one elses video it escapes me but im typing this before i seen the whole video 😉 much love Keep doing what your doing💪🏾
number one sign she likes is that she spends more time with your then its socially acceptable for her to do so. If she spends 20mins with you and you just meet you know its on big time. She really cant fake that one. Other signs to look out for is hair play, standing closer then its normal to do so, asking you quistions about your life (then you really got her because women dont care about men, so for her to do so is very odd behavior for a women). Other tips: make her talk women love to talk, just look at her like you expect her to talk and dont back down then she will break under the social pressure and being talking like a waterfall..(key thing is to not break the silence before she do) at some point her ego kicks in and there is a transfer of qualities making you the best man she has ever meet. (she is really dating her self at this point but if you want to smach then this is kinda perfect) Every women thinks they are the best gift to men you can use that fact against her. You just let her talk her way of her pants and pretent to listen to her bullshit. You will be suprised how long a women can talk without you needing to say a thing... my record is 30mins.. I was a little sad when i fund this out because it shows how ego driven women are. Anyways if you just want to smach her then this is perfect. Still making me sad women react to this.
The idea that an individual has to make money before finding love is not true. Young people have been hoarding this ideology, and it would do them more harm than good. Finding a soulmate is not solely dependent on money. You don't even need money to find love. When you find genuine love without the influence of money, it last longer. Money will just add as a sweetener and does not represent love itself. Some wealthy people get heartbroken, divorced, and even single. Why didn't their money find or sustain the love? For example, Jeff Bezos, one of the wealthiest men in the world, is divorced. He has four kids from his marriage, yet his wife divorced him. Money didn't stop the divorce from happening. Making money before you love only puts you in a comfortable position, but does not guarantee that you would find love. Money can't buy love. Even if it does, the love won't last. When young people say, "make money before you love," ignore such statements, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make money. Money is what makes you have a good life, but not a good relationship. Have money, if possible plenty of it, but don't use the money to ignite your love life. Today, people love it for different reasons. A person could love you for your personality, complexion, body structure, intelligence, talent, etc. But a person who loves you for your money is dangerous, because when the money stops rolling in, so does the love. My advice to young people, chase money because you want to live a comfortable life and not because you want to find true love. Let whosoever you find, love you for who you are and not how wealthy you are.
I would have to disagree in a pleasant manner. It's about balance ,but money especially on the man's side it does matter in this society. Love is expressed in different ways and its not like the Disney fairytale. Love can be seen as protection feeling secure and as well as tending to also the needs of the emotion. Women say they want to find true love whatever that is ,but when reality hits they want a man who is secure and has fincaial resources. I use to get angry at this concept of women ,but to be honest I've come to understand it. And more come to accept this hypergamy nature you tend not to get upset to be honest. But we gotta stop spreading this false lie about finding a soul mate this mindset gets people hurt cause it's not real in this society today. The truth is men have to put themselves in a position of power by pursing their purpose and women will naturally chase. The crazy thing is men will pick a less value girl and bring her up ,but a women would not take a less value man only if she has no choice but too lol .
This girl who calls me homie left her jacket in my crib and everytime i remind her she tells me, she will fetch it. Its going to a month now & it's still here.
Morena Mapotsela Whether she left it on purpose or not, she left a excuse for both of you to get together. Ask her if she wants to be more than a homie? Either invite her over to seduce her or get spruced up and make a appointment to drop it at her house. Have a plan to play in her place or a activity outside. 😉
@@bowsershark i swear to God imma do that, because this jacket thing is driving me insane. If she is down to date then I gotta fix my behavior since she knows what kinda nigga I em.
I had a woman looking at me with a sour/mean face and I'm not a mind reader like women think we are suppose to be ok? So what was on this person mind? Because I will not step to someone with that kind of look
Hello Melli I must confess I watch several different dating coaches and you are among my favorites, along with Aussie Dan Bacon whose eBook "The Flow" I actually bought. According to Dan, modern women expect sex on the first date as a way to start a relationship, and may even consider a man to be weak if he doesn't at least try to initiate sex on the first date. Sounds like you don't agree with his opinion on this subject. Are you both right, depending on the woman and the circumstances?
We have all been there mate. the importent things is to learn and read the signs as best we can. That only comes with pratice. Key thing: if you can get a women to talk then your half way in her pants. Rest of the time you just need to not fuck up.
This sounds like really good advice and as good as your content is, if the guy that's approaching is not the right guy she's going to let him know it in the worst possible way. More times than not the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
Naah not this showing up in my feed lmao last night this girl walked over to me, I'd say a 6 or so..and she gave me the oldschool "do I know you fro somewhere?" approach. I played it smooth, and I know what she wanted but I wasn't interested. Her friend who was winging for her was incredibly cute tho.
Lol easy. Look at it like this. Greg Popovich never played NBA basketball but he coached winning teams. Melli might be single but she givin fellas the playbook on how these chicks thinkin. A lot of these scenarios and tips have been spot on accurate in my past experiences with ex associate chicks. Lol
1. She make eye contact with you often and the eye contact last more than 3 seconds with her. After making eye contact with you two things can happen. First one she get shy, look away and smile it means she likes you. Second one. She keep looking into your eyes and stand in close proximity with you and do not move when you walk past her by entering in her personal space. She's attracted towards you sexually.
2. Her friends ask you if you are interested in her or like her because they have come to you and asking this question after they having conversation among themselves.
3. She asks you personal question to dig deeper and to know more about you and she is doing this because she is somewhat interested in you. If she do not give a fuck about you then she will not ask this questions. She wants to know more about you. Or she ask you deeper questions.
4. She breaks away with her group of friends to be alone with you so that you can have one of one conversation with her.
5. When you touch her she move closer to you her. This is one of the biggest signs because women do not like to be touched if they do not like you.
i legit never get tired of listening to this woman
Ten Tips On How To Be An Assertive, Yet Confident Winner In Life:
1. Don't take shit from anyone.
2. Be brutally honest.
3. Stop apologizing for who you are.
4. Be a silent leader.
5. Be assertive, not aggressive.
6. Have a strong sense of self-value, and self-worth.
7. Exude confidence, charisma, and charm.
8. Be financially independent.
9. Use logic in a smart way.
10. Don't take life and things too personally and professionally.
Nice
The dating life is all about experiences. Some people know what they want some don't. The key is to set boundaries know your worth and be yourself. You have to except each others flaws as long as the flaws won't damage the relationship. Hopefully you and the other person are loyal truthful and can communicate often. Relationships can be healthy if two people treat each other right ✅.
Rip Kevin Samuels🕊
Samuels kept them hoes in check now he gone.
🕊 🙏🏾
Say it again god dammit, say it again
Facts
Umma big yootoobuh 😂
the friend asking is what i alway not notice and instantly said no.
I get nothing but mixed signals from women and have no clue if they're interested or not, almost always just get rejected.
Women are certifiably crazy. There is no understanding them.
This girl always puts a smile on me😉👊🏾
She puts one on me all the time i get on her channel.
She’s my favorite!!! Potty mouthed and hilarious!!!! She’s on the fellas side!!!!
A very useful video , because mixed signals is something a lot of us guys struggle with.
I like this girls advice. She seems like the only real female who is the most accurate and puts the info out simple and blunt
2:13 yo mell that female friend we all need 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Meli is such a joy to listen to 😊
i respect and love you so much by your honesty melli and thank you!!!
Melli gonna be a household name soon
Another banging video melli keep up the awesome work you do and never change who you are your just perfect the way you are and love all your content congratulations on all your success and here's to many more coming your way melli stay safe and strong and never forget your value love the energy you bring to every video too have a good rest of the week too and evening too your not crazy melli that just you expressing yourself to the world
Interesting topic And enlighting Information from Queen melli 🧡
I love how real and raw you keep it! 💯💯💯💯 That’s how I know your a real one ☝️ 🫶👑💯😍
Me Too! is always in the back of men's minds. Tell Women to be more forthright in what they want with who. No man wants to risk jail time.
Your exactly right bro . Theirs this really good looking chic at work that does all these things she is saying in the video, when I'm around her . Except the come to my house part . And I'm still like uumm yeah ok, now what .
jump in the P lmao
These be some good tips, but I love comin here to hear Melli say "The bitch..." 🤣🤣🤣 Don't nobody say it like she say it.
Well oh well! What an example of straight out there womanhood you are. Your methods are those I have used, as they are natural. Women send mixed signals, but not complicated! I always know when something's for me. Grab her if she comes my way. You don't vacillate or excuse your advice. Cool!! You're more direct than most men. Most viewers men, but the women should be viewing, to know themselves. Few are bold and sweet as you are. If they were, your show would not exist!!!
Dodo Thokozile mlotshwa i love you.big affirmation for me girl.🎉😊
Hey Ms lady thank you for keeping it 100 💯💯 in ur videos plz keep posted you are awesome AMEN
more love from kenya, welcome to Africa❤❤
Lmaoo your sense of humor is killlllll me ! 😂😂 thanks for helping us strugglers “🙌🏾 wuuu… jump in the pwusey”
Better try n fail than not try at all
Melli always A 💯; also love your hairstyle naturally; organic.
I really love this lady, hilarious
I just started the video but your already helping me.
this a blessing fellaz!!🙌🏿🙌🏿
Love your video's, Love your swagga
Beautiful, hilarious, and dropping gems!!
So cute in many ways we will watch same info on new day...love it
It's the accent when you say "Bitches" for me it's sexy lol
I love your content 📌its so real 🔥🔥🔥
Love all the way from SA🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🔥🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌
hahahaha i say that all the time, " here comes the crazies" lol. I'd feel like a kindergartener on recess to be able to share craziness w ya bc it just gets more and more crazy! sane Ebby often has to apologize for the behavior the next day
Is that the dog snorring like crazy ?? I did listen more to him then you Melli 😂
Great tips! If a girl seems to always be locking eyes with you, or she’s constantly making eye contact with you - watch out! - she’s interested in you, trust me!
She doesn’t do this with everybody - so there’s no doubt that she’s into you, and that she likes you!
It might be time to make a move - don’t snooze, or you’ll lose her! Lol
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
This happened in the gym last week. She looked at me like 5 times, but I did nothing and continued to work out lol. She eventually left. Hopefully I see her again.
@@solodolo_mma3971 I hear ya! Lol
Melli is my first celebrity crush for real for real
Hello after listening and taking in your advise interesting enough Ms.yes give me direction on how to get a Lil closer to you?!!! The fun and adventure you would be almost dangerous I love it already!!! If ya ever get bored in need of a Lil fun and excitement ? I hope this message doesn't offend anyone and is meant only in positive thinking!!! Good day
Dr. Melli, the mixed signal can be embarrassing⁉
Love It😂😂😂
You are so cool I genuinely enjoy your videos the energy is great
tysm melli, im really trying my best.. :)
02:14 This made me laugh during breakfast.
Your right.. LoL
I love❤this damn lady😂
U a whole vibe luv..I would luv to link and chop it up wit u...u definitely have an rare unique energy and u solid af❤❤
Nice content 👌
I only get some if I give her money. Fridays are the best
Not gonna lie im following just because your beautiful i seen you on some one elses video it escapes me but im typing this before i seen the whole video 😉 much love
Keep doing what your doing💪🏾
I like this woman she gives good advice
So Complete as a Woman and when u speak the Truth.
Love your accent so much
You always make me smile 🥰🌹🌹🌹❤️💯
truth💫
Can you do a video about how to state your intentions?
Wet kitty rain checks are what I live for😍
number one sign she likes is that she spends more time with your then its socially acceptable for her to do so. If she spends 20mins with you and you just meet you know its on big time. She really cant fake that one. Other signs to look out for is hair play, standing closer then its normal to do so, asking you quistions about your life (then you really got her because women dont care about men, so for her to do so is very odd behavior for a women). Other tips: make her talk women love to talk, just look at her like you expect her to talk and dont back down then she will break under the social pressure and being talking like a waterfall..(key thing is to not break the silence before she do) at some point her ego kicks in and there is a transfer of qualities making you the best man she has ever meet. (she is really dating her self at this point but if you want to smach then this is kinda perfect) Every women thinks they are the best gift to men you can use that fact against her. You just let her talk her way of her pants and pretent to listen to her bullshit. You will be suprised how long a women can talk without you needing to say a thing... my record is 30mins.. I was a little sad when i fund this out because it shows how ego driven women are. Anyways if you just want to smach her then this is perfect. Still making me sad women react to this.
Bulldog snooring! 😂
The idea that an individual has to make money before finding love is not true. Young people have been hoarding this ideology, and it would do them more harm than good.
Finding a soulmate is not solely dependent on money. You don't even need money to find love. When you find genuine love without the influence of money, it last longer. Money will just add as a sweetener and does not represent love itself.
Some wealthy people get heartbroken, divorced, and even single. Why didn't their money find or sustain the love?
For example, Jeff Bezos, one of the wealthiest men in the world, is divorced. He has four kids from his marriage, yet his wife divorced him. Money didn't stop the divorce from happening.
Making money before you love only puts you in a comfortable position, but does not guarantee that you would find love. Money can't buy love. Even if it does, the love won't last.
When young people say, "make money before you love," ignore such statements, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't make money. Money is what makes you have a good life, but not a good relationship. Have money, if possible plenty of it, but don't use the money to ignite your love life.
Today, people love it for different reasons. A person could love you for your personality, complexion, body structure, intelligence, talent, etc. But a person who loves you for your money is dangerous, because when the money stops rolling in, so does the love.
My advice to young people, chase money because you want to live a comfortable life and not because you want to find true love. Let whosoever you find, love you for who you are and not how wealthy you are.
I would have to disagree in a pleasant manner. It's about balance ,but money especially on the man's side it does matter in this society. Love is expressed in different ways and its not like the Disney fairytale. Love can be seen as protection feeling secure and as well as tending to also the needs of the emotion. Women say they want to find true love whatever that is ,but when reality hits they want a man who is secure and has fincaial resources. I use to get angry at this concept of women ,but to be honest I've come to understand it. And more come to accept this hypergamy nature you tend not to get upset to be honest. But we gotta stop spreading this false lie about finding a soul mate this mindset gets people hurt cause it's not real in this society today. The truth is men have to put themselves in a position of power by pursing their purpose and women will naturally chase. The crazy thing is men will pick a less value girl and bring her up ,but a women would not take a less value man only if she has no choice but too lol .
So does her asking to huge you , mean she likes you
Serious question tho 😂 🤔
Hi Melli I’m a new subscriber, you are a very interesting person I think your conversations are hilarious but truthful and raw..😂
Love you Millie❤️❤️❤️🥰🖤
Melli*
Loves me some Melli
This girl who calls me homie left her jacket in my crib and everytime i remind her she tells me, she will fetch it. Its going to a month now & it's still here.
Morena Mapotsela
Whether she left it on purpose or not, she left a excuse for both of you to get together.
Ask her if she wants to be more than a homie?
Either invite her over to seduce her or get spruced up and make a appointment to drop it at her house. Have a plan to play in her place or a activity outside. 😉
@@bowsershark i swear to God imma do that, because this jacket thing is driving me insane. If she is down to date then I gotta fix my behavior since she knows what kinda nigga I em.
😂🤣😅🤣 Can you imagine though, a bunch of men blaming Melli for making the wrong moves.
Broh 😂 that’d be fucked up ! But Melli beats it 99% fit ! Those work each and every time 🙌🏿✊🏿🤙🏿
Honestly I be watching these videos cuz you fine 😍 funny too lol
Gerald et Julie, very french of you 😂
I had a woman looking at me with a sour/mean face and I'm not a mind reader like women think we are suppose to be ok? So what was on this person mind? Because I will not step to someone with that kind of look
Is that a dog snoring... LoL
Hello Melli I must confess I watch several different dating coaches and you are among my favorites, along with Aussie Dan Bacon whose eBook "The Flow" I actually bought. According to Dan, modern women expect sex on the first date as a way to start a relationship, and may even consider a man to be weak if he doesn't at least try to initiate sex on the first date. Sounds like you don't agree with his opinion on this subject. Are you both right, depending on the woman and the circumstances?
What’s my favorite word? B****! Why they gotta say Melli! 🤣
Who raised you that energy special
I'm 67, on SSI and of average looks so I know ain't no woman interested in me. But I do like Ms. Monaco and I think she's hilarious.
dont doubt yourself
I'm so naive all kinds of choosing signals are flying over my head ..it makes me come across as innocent.. idc I don't mind 🤣 🤪 😌
We have all been there mate. the importent things is to learn and read the signs as best we can. That only comes with pratice. Key thing: if you can get a women to talk then your half way in her pants. Rest of the time you just need to not fuck up.
Luv you so much... wonderful lady
Jessica OS said these same things like 6months ago on her UA-cam channel. Hummmmm
4:12 "😏 I mean, I myt fucking do it" 😅
You funny girl lol!!
I love her
So DEEP AS A WOMAN, YOU END THE SEARCH FOR A MAN THAT'S REAL & KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS.
And you keep me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
This sounds like really good advice and as good as your content is, if the guy that's approaching is not the right guy she's going to let him know it in the worst possible way.
More times than not the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
She crazy in the best way
I don't know if I want a girl to tell me her psy on fire!! But since you locking eyes with me thru this lens does that mean I need my snorkel??
💯❤️😘🤗 LOVE YOU
Naah not this showing up in my feed lmao last night this girl walked over to me, I'd say a 6 or so..and she gave me the oldschool "do I know you fro somewhere?" approach. I played it smooth, and I know what she wanted but I wasn't interested. Her friend who was winging for her was incredibly cute tho.
Great vid💯
🔥
If she’s looking goofy at you, she’s ready. Her hormones have kicked in and she can’t resist anymore.
Signs tell a lot
WOW, wheeeww baby thank you :D
Really wish you could move all these type of videos to a channel named, "The B*tch." 🤣
Someone is snoring loud there, lol
2:15 ...😂😅😂
Who is snoring in the background or is that just how they breathe?
Melli, the thumbnail is fucking hilarious 😂 😃
You got all the game . But you single why listen to you. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
SAY IT AGAIN
Lol easy. Look at it like this. Greg Popovich never played NBA basketball but he coached winning teams. Melli might be single but she givin fellas the playbook on how these chicks thinkin. A lot of these scenarios and tips have been spot on accurate in my past experiences with ex associate chicks. Lol