More likely she did or said something that immediately changed his mind. Been there. Especially when you realize a lot of people do not have a plan and are riding through life lost. No sense throwing back good sex though. 3 years is a good ride
Even so, why would you still do the same job for less benefits and pay with no chance for promotion? She should've closed her legs and lines of communication.
When KS asks women if they are dating with intention that messes them up. Because women like to comparison shop...the females I know can go shopping for something and take all weekend to finally make a decision. Men go shopping and we go with intention and will be in and out of a store in 10 minutes. Intention means a singular, focused purpose.
@Lucci Jay r exactly . There’s nothing wrong with taking time to make decisions. I agree with the overall premise of his comment though but there’s nothing wrong with taking lots of time to put thought into shit .
Yeah he Jumped the Gun a bit but upon further review KS and all of us can see she is just an orbiter that is being used to hang out have fun and hook up from time to time. She's in a Situation-ship.
He contradicts himself alot of times bruh, he's good at what he does but definitely not perfect. @7:08 she said she was just talking to him but when she told him they were talking 3 yrs HE determined that it was "a full-on damn relationship" @11:29 he said "you know this relationship isn't going anywhere" then @12:37 he said "it's not a relationship ma'am" 🤔
@@tyronesimon3742 Come on man. His comments changed as the woman revealed more information and things became clearer. It's just like how cops narrow down the description of a suspect as more witnesses etc come forward. Come on man. In full context, @7:08 he called it a relationship because they were talking (dating) for 3 years. Most people don't spend that much time together without being something (this was before she revealed how messy things were). @11:29 he said it's not going anywhere after getting more information and seeing that the woman's situation is not good. @12:37 after more talking, Kevin removes the label relationship altogether after getting a clearer picture of how messy things were and establishing that it is going nowhere.
"I don't want to give up my independence!" Then don't be asking why the man that you're having bedroom fun with won't elevate you to anything beyond a FWB at best.
I have yet to see him giving men hell. I keep hearing about it but I yet to see it. I have seen videos of him giving me advice and Pep talks but never hard cold slaps in the face
@@NODE1975 His first 3 years was basically all men, so STFU. You've known about him for all of 15 minutes and want to complain about some shut just for the sake of complaining.
I am a old girl, in my seventies. I don't go out of my house without makeup on and dressed, she look like a man.She need to leave that situation and invest in herself, the sex must be good to her. She needs to know how to cook, clean , fix herself up and be a asset to him, not a liability. Ladies you must know how to master those pots and pans, fix those down home meals from scratch. 🥰
Not a jump off lol realistically 3 years means she has good times just no reason to risk his finances and future signing a legal contract. She can hang around and share for another decade. Just no babies
That 38 year old sees her as a little pretty young thang. Met her when she was 22 and she works at UPS. If he ain’t wifed in 3 years at 38 he most likely won’t. These women wasting their prime years on men wasting their time smh
@@leroypoter4184 I can’t take it. I have yet to watch a full video because I get annoyed with the women lol. They think he’ll tell them what they want to hear and it’s delusional thinking.
Typically, things like this happen when we take the woman around our friends, family, or business associates and she behaves in a manner that embarrasses us. Since you can't tell most modern women anything without them getting butt hurt and fighting with you, it's easier to simply demote her, add someone better to the rotation and keep it pushing until she drifts away on her own.
Absolutely. 300 forms of birth control and magically she will end up pregnant by someone who dont want her. That will be his punishment for not leaving her alone period.
Whenever a vvoman thinks that she is "THE package" etc, things are definitely effed up. KS is asking her what is she doing to improve herself since being at "macaroni" grade won't cut it. I suspect that she's afraid to leave the guy because there are no other takers.
She's done nothing to prepare herself to be a wife but wants to be a wife? I'm confused. As a single woman with no major household responsibilities, she has no excuse not to be strictly disciplined. She has a job and that's it.
I love the gentleness in which you explain his videos. Your extra commentary is a great buffer. Addendum: This young lady is a great argument for why we need Home Economics back in school curriculum.
I agree with Kevin that an older man should have the intention of marrying a younger woman if he is dealing with her. Why would you want to rob a woman of her peak years and jade a younger woman so that she now becomes one of the bitter women about to hit the wall that we complain about so much?
Ennnkkkk younger women mess with young guys for looks and older men for their pocketbooks. So an even swap ain't no swindle. Men don't have to marry younger women no more than older women should have to marry younger men. This double standard must stop.
Yeah. She’s not cute at all but I bet that’s the best sex dude has ever had and that’s why he will not leave her alone. Ever….. he will never leave that woman. She’ll have to leave him.
@ 12:43 - Kevin didn't contradict himself. He initially called it a relationship because she said she had been "talking" to a man for 3 years. Sounds like a relationship. Then, more details started coming out where it sounds like a jump off situation....not a relationship. You can change how you classify something after you've obtained more information. Doesn't mean the person is contradicting themself.
He tried to invest time in her.. She's had three years to learn how to at least cook. So basically he's been flipping the bill for them to eat. He was seeing where it was going that's why and what changed. If a person doesn't improve or stays stagnant in three years they love to be comfortable. When you're comfortable you have no drive to do better. Once new changes come up it will only get worse if you are not ready for change.
"I can make macaroni " , a lady without a college degree, can't cook no transferable technical skills and is worried about independence. ? She has got no skills .if she had a Masters degree or PhD or she is a senior Exec lady that is complaining about independence, I might make an exception. What I see ladies call independence these days is licence to sleep with multiple men without accountability This is one of KS coolest moments. He was calm and advised the lady. I hope they listen
Yep, this degree allows me to sleep with a 100 men and tell you to get over it. Plus I can marry you take your kids and half your money and not miss a beat. Then complain there are no men on my level lol
I am a Black Woman, and I work in Entertainment in Hollywood, CA. I know a script fro a mile away.C Roc Smooth here on UA-cam says Kevin is the Devil and Gay. I agree.
Actually Kevin did not contradict himself. Initially she said she was talking to someone and when asked for how long she said 3 years to which Kevin responded, that's a relationship. Then as the conversation went on she revealed that the dynamic of their situation changed at which point it became clear that it wasn't a relationship as Kevin previously thought. Clearly, he changed his mind about the situation after more information about what was going on was divulged.
At 25 I dated someone who was 38 at the time, literally wasted 5 years with him off and on finally Broke up in 2018 and he wanted to be friends with benefits at 32 I realize he was Narcissist. Currently 34 and now getting my self and sanity back. Her situation triggered those times and she definitely needs to run now if she don’t want to be 34 single and scared.
Clearly you weren't dating with intention.......Hahaha......too many women after they don't get what they want label their ex as a narcissist as a way to excuse their own terrible behaviour and choices. You're just another pissed off leftover woman.
Kevin: Do you know how to cook? Woman: mmmm, I know how to make Macaroni and I'll call my grandma and get the recipe. That ended her ambitions of getting a husband, right there and Kevin knew it. There's no man who wants a woman who doesn't know how to cook a nice home meal.
She's wasting time and her youth on a man who don't want her. She needs to release that relationship and start developing herself . He is only using her and will never marry her.
This is why women needs a strong male presence in their lives. A father would've told her to dump that dude and move on because he's not trying to go anywhere with her.
The issue is her dude wanted to let it go she wanted to hang around so says well imma hit it every once in a while so🤷🏽♂️ notice she said she goes to him
One of the things that messes us up is running into guys like this. They have no good intentions for you, they use you and rob your young years then discard you leaving you out here saying what happened? Get out now, break up with him and go work on yourself. Learn how to cook, explore other neighborhoods, take some classes of interest to you, upgrade your wardrobe, get a better job. Design a new life for yourself while you still can. You can do it! Good luck sis.
Ms thompson... U are right.... But the female has to be held accountable..... He didnt use her.... She allowed herself to be used..... REMEMBER... MEN CANT GET THE SEX IF YOU WOMEN DONT OPEN YOUR LEGS
it was once quoted "If you are not being used then you are useless" from listening SEX is all she has to offer !!! She probably dont even know how to get dolled up right to be taken out on a night on the town.
He is an older man. I believe he has found someone else who looks better. The best thing a woman can do is date a man who is starting out and both of you grow together.
Most modern woman are growing up yes, but learn not the skills to be a good wife to a man and skills for motherhood. Not until it’s point blank dropped on them and wonder why they failing or can’t lock down a man. Men take ya time to Vet woman properly.
And many of them don't want you tell them this information. They get mad when they hear the truth. They "FEEL" like they should be able to keep their status quo life and God will just knock on their door and deliver a man to them like he's Amazon Prime.
The fact that she has no kids makes her valuable. Dude she with is leading her on and I believe he's seeing other women and she's a side chick. She needs to dump dude and move on, committing to this dude is a bad idea. Kevin did not contradict himself. She initially explain the situation and Kevin assumed she was in a relationship. After he broke it down, he realized she was a "side chick" at best. Dude never demoted her because he was never her boyfriend.
This is where women with high EQ and balance need to come in and advocate her to be healthier. She needs positive guidance from a WOMAN (encompasses most traits if not all), not just a woman who says she is good. She also needs a positive man, hopefully someone in her family who will give a balanced mentality ..High EQ.
Its fake. I am a Black woman and I work in Hollywood, CA. Its a script. C Roc Smooth here on UA-cam says Kevin is the Devil and Gay. I have worked in Hollywood for 20 yrs. I can see a script from a mile away.
@@maxinefowler1186 hmmm 🤔 very interesting statement. I am really putting my thinking cap 🧢 for this one ☝️ You might be on to something????? This is truly a different perspective!!!!!! God bless!
Women need to understand that with independence comes risk. The same risk men have dealt with for decades it comes with independence they asked for. Welcome to life it’s not women hating it’s reality.
*as much as i am a mgtow i feel bad for her! she isn't a contentious type of woman and quite pleasant from this interaction but she has no skills to lockdown a man!* *her smv isnt high enough to secure a relationship for now so kevin needs to red pill her lol*
She's not an attractive woman at all but she has beautiful voice and if she get her to a level of self-confidence up, prosperity will allow her to beauty-up just as she's physically is. This is a woman that education will work for her terms of self-confidence. She knows she's not attractive so that's why she is staying subdued light. I recommend therapy and church.
No contradiction.... KS called it a relationship after she said it's been going on for 3 years, but after she ran it down to KS his said oh ok you're not in a relationship...
She said "what if the guy isn't worth losing their independence for". What if a job says "we will hire you but I don't know if you're worth the pay. I won't pay you until I know you're worth what you're asking for". Is that a fair trade?
While we are trying to work with this twenty five year old, it has to be said the man she is with is using her. He's getting plenty of milk so he has no intention of buying the cow. I am truly sorry for her that she's in this position with little confidence and poor self esteem. She needs to meet a man who would value her and marry her. Lord, may she find that man. Amen.
Kevin did not contradict himself. He thought she was in a relationship until she admitted that they were not in a relationship anymore. So he changed his questions and comments based on new information.
I'm listening, learning so I can become a better person overall not just a better woman. I've listened and watched so many of Elders, followed in their foot steps until I felt how uncomfortable those behaviors were... waking up is the goal thank you for giving this information 🙏🏾
Not necessarily. Women stay because having a man is important. Sex can make someone stay longer but when someone has self esteem they won't put up bullstuff for that.
The 5 was being nice adding the 6, was so her attitude wouldn’t change, if she is 25 .... bt Kev to me seems to looking to find what her real age cuz she don’t seem 25 at all
That's a hard looking 25. I don't think KS contradicted himself. When she first said she has been with the guy for three years, he corrected her and said it's a relationship. However, when she started to talk more about the dynamics of the relationship, it took another turn and he said nah it's more like this, so he is right.
@@JRWisdom seriously bro I knew how to make pancakes, spaghetti, rice w/steak or chicken and bake a decent cake when I was 9 and I'm a man I just can't believe she actually said that. Probably makes a killer glass of water too.
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I guarantee he did not "demote" her. That is just what you were to him all along. And truth finally came out in the end.
More likely she did or said something that immediately changed his mind. Been there. Especially when you realize a lot of people do not have a plan and are riding through life lost. No sense throwing back good sex though. 3 years is a good ride
I agree.
Exactly 💯
Even so, why would you still do the same job for less benefits and pay with no chance for promotion? She should've closed her legs and lines of communication.
Right. He wasnt really her boyfriend . She just didn't know it 🙄
When KS asks women if they are dating with intention that messes them up. Because women like to comparison shop...the females I know can go shopping for something and take all weekend to finally make a decision. Men go shopping and we go with intention and will be in and out of a store in 10 minutes. Intention means a singular, focused purpose.
That messes them up pretty bad. They don't understand that at all.
Facts
100% true...
@Lucci Jay r exactly . There’s nothing wrong with taking time to make decisions. I agree with the overall premise of his comment though but there’s nothing wrong with taking lots of time to put thought into shit .
Beautiful metaphor. The Impulsive shopper behavior.
3 years and ya'll are "talking" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he's beating the breaks off that 🐈
Definitely beating the brakes off that & blowing her back out in the back seat of her Civic.....lol .......👍
With his old ass
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I bet his name is either Rufus or Percy 🤣🤣 “You ain’t had nothing’ like this right chere!” Lol!
"It's been a while"
K.S. didn't contradict himself. She gave him more details and he changed his definition.
Yeah he Jumped the Gun a bit but upon further review KS and all of us can see she is just an orbiter that is being used to hang out have fun and hook up from time to time. She's in a Situation-ship.
Exactly. J. R. Loves trying to catch KS slipping. Sorry. He didn’t fam!
@@DressCode2005 lmao corey wayne!
He contradicts himself alot of times bruh, he's good at what he does but definitely not perfect. @7:08 she said she was just talking to him but when she told him they were talking 3 yrs HE determined that it was "a full-on damn relationship" @11:29 he said "you know this relationship isn't going anywhere" then @12:37 he said "it's not a relationship ma'am" 🤔
@@tyronesimon3742 Come on man. His comments changed as the woman revealed more information and things became clearer.
It's just like how cops narrow down the description of a suspect as more witnesses etc come forward. Come on man.
In full context, @7:08 he called it a relationship because they were talking (dating) for 3 years. Most people don't spend that much time together without being something (this was before she revealed how messy things were).
@11:29 he said it's not going anywhere after getting more information and seeing that the woman's situation is not good.
@12:37 after more talking, Kevin removes the label relationship altogether after getting a clearer picture of how messy things were and establishing that it is going nowhere.
Denial is a hell of a drug.
Talking for 3 years? She knows what’s up but doesn’t want to believe it.
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Dude is treating her like a game of blackjack. He hits whenever he wants 🤣
Facts. He don't see past a physical thing with her
She can do the same if she choose. I don't feel sorry for her next.
She's not a 5, more like a 3 and that's why the guy is doing her the way he wants.
@@ingramdavis1737 She choose.
@@wildfiregirl1556 agreed
KS: "Can you cook?"
Female caller "Uhhhhh I can make macaroni" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And that is one reason why her marriage value is little or nothing.
So she can boil water
I was like macaroni 😳😂
That gave me Katt /Wanda Vibes with making awesome Brocolli w/ Zataran's 😂😂😂😂😂
Classic 😂😂😂
"I don't want to give up my independence!"
Then don't be asking why the man that you're having bedroom fun with won't elevate you to anything beyond a FWB at best.
Kevin doesn’t hate women, he gives the men hell too.
If that is the case the their should be as many clips of his interviews. He only clips the women.
I have yet to see him giving men hell. I keep hearing about it but I yet to see it. I have seen videos of him giving me advice and Pep talks but never hard cold slaps in the face
@@NODE1975 Go to his earlier videos.
@@yaallen06 Where the fuck were you during his first 3 years on here when it was pretty much nothing but men?
@@NODE1975 His first 3 years was basically all men, so STFU. You've known about him for all of 15 minutes and want to complain about some shut just for the sake of complaining.
I've noticed a lot of women on this show start with loyal. Being loyal should be a given.
Thank you! Loyalty should come standard
Facts
I've studied linguistics as a hobby. No expert, but I definitely pay attention to what ppl say, and the words they choose.
I am a old girl, in my seventies. I don't go out of my house without makeup on and dressed, she look like a man.She need to leave that situation and invest in herself, the sex must be good to her. She needs to know how to cook, clean , fix herself up and be a asset to him, not a liability. Ladies you must know how to master those pots and pans, fix those down home meals from scratch. 🥰
Teach mother! Who have ears let them here. I am old school I know how to cook, make a bed and clean. Can food and garden, and sew. I love to dress up.
"Ma'am you can't cook" Lol This man is too entertaining
I can make a mean macaroni 😂😂😂😂
But it’s big facts. If a woman can cook, she will simply said she can cook. She won’t be talking about no macaroni.
I would just disappear, he was to old for her, younger girl's should never dates older men's, they know life's and you can in ups going nowhere.
Sounds to me like she was always a jump off. She finally is realizing this and trying to make him be a husband.
Not a jump off lol realistically 3 years means she has good times just no reason to risk his finances and future signing a legal contract. She can hang around and share for another decade. Just no babies
Hopefully he ain't married with children...
@@reginaldmagee3586 real talk
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She ain't no 25, either.
That 38 year old sees her as a little pretty young thang.
Met her when she was 22 and she works at UPS. If he ain’t wifed in 3 years at 38 he most likely won’t.
These women wasting their prime years on men wasting their time smh
Why do women call in just to avoid the questions that he asks? Beating around every single bush 🤦🏽♀️
Typical woman who always have something to hide and be deceitful about but want an honest relationship with an honest man
@@leroypoter4184 I can’t take it. I have yet to watch a full video because I get annoyed with the women lol. They think he’ll tell them what they want to hear and it’s delusional thinking.
@@snc99 To be fair most people do tell them what they want to hear. In fact that's the primary problem.
Right. I don't get that sh#t. Men get to the point.
@@leroypoter4184 they call in to get attention from the godfather. Even if he's rough with the questions.
Typically, things like this happen when we take the woman around our friends, family, or business associates and she behaves in a manner that embarrasses us. Since you can't tell most modern women anything without them getting butt hurt and fighting with you, it's easier to simply demote her, add someone better to the rotation and keep it pushing until she drifts away on her own.
As soon as she is knocked up, he will leave on his own.
Absolutely. 300 forms of birth control and magically she will end up pregnant by someone who dont want her. That will be his punishment for not leaving her alone period.
This is why UPS’s packages end up all shattered and effed up at your doorstep.
lol
Lol bruh
You wrong lol but you right
Whenever a vvoman thinks that she is "THE package" etc, things are definitely effed up. KS is asking her what is she doing to improve herself since being at "macaroni" grade won't cut it.
I suspect that she's afraid to leave the guy because there are no other takers.
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My wife was a real one, RIP
Sorry man, if you never date again I don’t blame you, the modern dating landscape is rough so it’s unlikely you’ll ever find your wife’s equal
My sincere condolences brother. Keep your head up.
My condolences
My condolences for your loss ❤
Sorry man
We need to clear something up here, when a woman says high value man, what she's really saying is "high earning man".
a booty call ain’t a wife
lol
That's a man
If you can't take care of yourself, how can I expect you to take care of me? You don't have to be fit, but you have to be trying.
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She thinks because she is already slim that working out is not necessary.
@@rogers5622 Facts.
You were dating with Hope not intention... That hit home right there
When he showed her on video...I died laughing 😂😂
"I can cook, I just need the ingredients" 😂
Lmao
I can drive I just need someone to show me which gears do what and what this wheel thing in front my seat does
When a woman says this- guys KNOW she's NOT wife material.
She's done nothing to prepare herself to be a wife but wants to be a wife? I'm confused. As a single woman with no major household responsibilities, she has no excuse not to be strictly disciplined. She has a job and that's it.
I love the gentleness in which you explain his videos. Your extra commentary is a great buffer.
Addendum: This young lady is a great argument for why we need Home Economics back in school curriculum.
Cook macaroni? So basically she can only boil water.
First you boil the water.
You make me choke on my food!
I'm willing to bet, she can't slam macaroni either
She sound like Wanda arguing with Katt Williams lol.
Hey hey now, to be fair, you have to open a box too. 😂
I agree with Kevin that an older man should have the intention of marrying a younger woman if he is dealing with her. Why would you want to rob a woman of her peak years and jade a younger woman so that she now becomes one of the bitter women about to hit the wall that we complain about so much?
This makes sense
Right. He is wasting her time .
Ennnkkkk younger women mess with young guys for looks and older men for their pocketbooks. So an even swap ain't no swindle. Men don't have to marry younger women no more than older women should have to marry younger men. This double standard must stop.
@@MrYtubenewsanchorman Blah blah blah
Everybody got choices
Your face at 9:19 when KS finally showed her face killed me. It said it all!
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Killed you? I'm still dying.
Killed you? I'm still dying.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Your face expression when she popped up on screen....your expression echoed my exact thoughts 🤣🤣
Exactly she isn’t a 6…she’s a 4 at best
A 3 the highest and the man just want sex with her it seems like she isnt someone who he wants too be seen with
Yeah. She’s not cute at all but I bet that’s the best sex dude has ever had and that’s why he will not leave her alone. Ever….. he will never leave that woman. She’ll have to leave him.
@@danielphagans2066 Yup. Splashtown. Then bounce.
Kevin was being waaaaayyyyyy too generous
No he doesn't want to marry you... you're just access to decent vjj....
That's it!!!
@ 12:43 - Kevin didn't contradict himself. He initially called it a relationship because she said she had been "talking" to a man for 3 years. Sounds like a relationship. Then, more details started coming out where it sounds like a jump off situation....not a relationship. You can change how you classify something after you've obtained more information. Doesn't mean the person is contradicting themself.
He tried to invest time in her.. She's had three years to learn how to at least cook. So basically he's been flipping the bill for them to eat. He was seeing where it was going that's why and what changed. If a person doesn't improve or stays stagnant in three years they love to be comfortable. When you're comfortable you have no drive to do better. Once new changes come up it will only get worse if you are not ready for change.
Hot damn ... Shawty said "food prep" like she getting a taco truck ready for the lunch rush LMAO 😂 😂 😂😂 😂 😂😂 😂 😂😂 😂 😂
She knows why he fell back from her. She’s not cooperative and has nothing going for herself.
I can cook I just need the ingredients 😂 😂 😂
Lol
"I can make macaroni " , a lady without a college degree, can't cook no transferable technical skills and is worried about independence. ? She has got no skills .if she had a Masters degree or PhD or she is a senior Exec lady that is complaining about independence, I might make an exception. What I see ladies call independence these days is licence to sleep with multiple men without accountability
This is one of KS coolest moments. He was calm and advised the lady. I hope they listen
Yep, this degree allows me to sleep with a 100 men and tell you to get over it. Plus I can marry you take your kids and half your money and not miss a beat. Then complain there are no men on my level lol
@@changed4life871 unfuckin believable
Macaroni had me rolling
I am a Black Woman, and I work in Entertainment in Hollywood, CA. I know a script fro a mile away.C Roc Smooth here on UA-cam says Kevin is the Devil and Gay. I agree.
@@maxinefowler1186 what's your point as Its not making any sense
Actually Kevin did not contradict himself. Initially she said she was talking to someone and when asked for how long she said 3 years to which Kevin responded, that's a relationship. Then as the conversation went on she revealed that the dynamic of their situation changed at which point it became clear that it wasn't a relationship as Kevin previously thought. Clearly, he changed his mind about the situation after more information about what was going on was divulged.
yeah... once she started explaining it went from possible relationship to something dead in the water...
Exactly what I was saying to myself and then I seen your comment
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On point.
Everything is a relationship. She’s in a non-commital relationship or at least one that’s not going anywhere.
Yo Kevin Samuels gets right to it 🤣
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We lost Kevin too soon. He was a like a father to many women and men.
At 25 I dated someone who was 38 at the time, literally wasted 5 years with him off and on finally Broke up in 2018 and he wanted to be friends with benefits at 32 I realize he was Narcissist. Currently 34 and now getting my self and sanity back. Her situation triggered those times and she definitely needs to run now if she don’t want to be 34 single and scared.
City boys up 100 points
Lol get over it
@@flipflop5195 Facts.
Clearly you weren't dating with intention.......Hahaha......too many women after they don't get what they want label their ex as a narcissist as a way to excuse their own terrible behaviour and choices. You're just another pissed off leftover woman.
Women think sex is love, they be in imaginary relationships all by themselves.
Did I just hear baby girl say “i can make macaroni “I didn’t just hear that did i?? Say it ain’t so😂😂
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Cant make this ish up!! 😅
@@neilnewton4427 😂😂
Hehehe
@donald johnson 😂
Kevin: Do you know how to cook?
Woman: mmmm, I know how to make Macaroni and I'll call my grandma and get the recipe.
That ended her ambitions of getting a husband, right there and Kevin knew it. There's no man who wants a woman who doesn't know how to cook a nice home meal.
That’s why she not the main now
Friends with benefits is a relationship but not in the conversation of marriage
She's wasting time and her youth on a man who don't want her. She needs to release that relationship and start developing herself . He is only using her and will never marry her.
This is why women needs a strong male presence in their lives. A father would've told her to dump that dude and move on because he's not trying to go anywhere with her.
lmao he gave the perfect advice in 1 minute 22 seconds 😂 the rest of the video was just him tailoring it for her to accept
The issue is her dude wanted to let it go she wanted to hang around so says well imma hit it every once in a while so🤷🏽♂️ notice she said she goes to him
The fact that she stayed fckin with dude is the whole problem
5/6 is not an insult ... none to laugh at
Kraft come with the instructions on the box BIG FACTS😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He said she look Like Michael Blackson! Omgg!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
Can't cook......✔
Works at UPS...✔
Looks like Dave Chappelle....✔
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I read this comment just as her face flashed on the screen. It was perfect timing. 🤣🤣🤣
Nah, Darryl Chill. You know, the dude in the wheelchair.
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Aye na, working at UPS ain’t a bad thing lol plus I think she lying about everything 🤣
Kevin was being Very generous with her rating btw. If Saweetie is a 6 this woman is a 2
I was nice enough to give her a 4😩😩😂😂😂
Probably bad lighting and angles
One of the things that messes us up is running into guys like this. They have no good intentions for you, they use you and rob your young years then discard you leaving you out here saying what happened? Get out now, break up with him and go work on yourself. Learn how to cook, explore other neighborhoods, take some classes of interest to you, upgrade your wardrobe, get a better job. Design a new life for yourself while you still can. You can do it! Good luck sis.
Ms thompson... U are right.... But the female has to be held accountable..... He didnt use her.... She allowed herself to be used..... REMEMBER... MEN CANT GET THE SEX IF YOU WOMEN DONT OPEN YOUR LEGS
it was once quoted "If you are not being used then you are useless" from listening SEX is all she has to offer !!! She probably dont even know how to get dolled up right to be taken out on a night on the town.
You saying Kevin contradicted himself tells me your not listening or paying attention bro.
@Jason White true but doesn't Kevin's vids say that you cant use his vids without his consent? maybe ks gave him the okay 🤷🏾♂️
This woman sounds over 40. She lacks accountability. Three years and no talk about marriage, let it go.
Shes easily 35 years old.
I appreciate how you deciphered the situation. Sometimes things aren't crystal clear.
"I'll call my grandma and get the recipe." 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Even if she gets into another relationship, that dude will always be able to hit it whenever he wants.. 😆
Her best bet is to leave this situation.
He is an older man. I believe he has found someone else who looks better. The best thing a woman can do is date a man who is starting out and both of you grow together.
JR Wisdom Facial expression when he seen what Shorty look like. PRICELESS 😂😂😂😂
Most modern woman are growing up yes, but learn not the skills to be a good wife to a man and skills for motherhood. Not until it’s point blank dropped on them and wonder why they failing or can’t lock down a man. Men take ya time to Vet woman properly.
And many of them don't want you tell them this information. They get mad when they hear the truth. They "FEEL" like they should be able to keep their status quo life and God will just knock on their door and deliver a man to them like he's Amazon Prime.
The fact that she has no kids makes her valuable. Dude she with is leading her on and I believe he's seeing other women and she's a side chick. She needs to dump dude and move on, committing to this dude is a bad idea. Kevin did not contradict himself. She initially explain the situation and Kevin assumed she was in a relationship. After he broke it down, he realized she was a "side chick" at best. Dude never demoted her because he was never her boyfriend.
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This is where women with high EQ and balance need to come in and advocate her to be healthier. She needs positive guidance from a WOMAN (encompasses most traits if not all), not just a woman who says she is good. She also needs a positive man, hopefully someone in her family who will give a balanced mentality ..High EQ.
That would definitely be beneficial.
Almost impossible to whip that mind back into shape. Those habits are very very difficult. To learn how to be a compatible wife to a good guy is hard.
Its fake. I am a Black woman and I work in Hollywood, CA. Its a script. C Roc Smooth here on UA-cam says Kevin is the Devil and Gay. I have worked in Hollywood for 20 yrs. I can see a script from a mile away.
@@maxinefowler1186 hmmm 🤔 very interesting statement. I am really putting my thinking cap 🧢 for this one ☝️ You might be on to something????? This is truly a different perspective!!!!!! God bless!
I believe you meant IQ.
Kevin did call it a relationship before she disclosed she was downgraded to friends with benefits. So it's no longer a relationship after that right?
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Plus, if a woman will not strive for good health for herself, she will become a medical liability to the high value man she wants.
Any man period
Women need to understand that with independence comes risk. The same risk men have dealt with for decades it comes with independence they asked for. Welcome to life it’s not women hating it’s reality.
Decades? Try ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY
*as much as i am a mgtow i feel bad for her! she isn't a contentious type of woman and quite pleasant from this interaction but she has no skills to lockdown a man!*
*her smv isnt high enough to secure a relationship for now so kevin needs to red pill her lol*
She looks like Don Cheadle in the dark bro lol
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Not Earl Manigult! 😂😂😂😂
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@@cityboithump She got the Hotel Rwanda face. 🙄
War machine Avengers assemble!
She's not an attractive woman at all but she has beautiful voice and if she get her to a level of self-confidence up, prosperity will allow her to beauty-up just as she's physically is.
This is a woman that education will work for her terms of self-confidence. She knows she's not attractive so that's why she is staying subdued light. I recommend therapy and church.
A beautiful voice????? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@joebidens_touchyhands9477 Micheal Jackson had a prettier voice!
Nah Buy a cat boxed wine n die alone
Not church....😶. Therapy and gym Therapy 💪
She sounds more mature than what she's saying, I don't think she's 25
That is NOT a 25 year old voice! She must be gargling cigarettes.
No contradiction.... KS called it a relationship after she said it's been going on for 3 years, but after she ran it down to KS his said oh ok you're not in a relationship...
Hope she took his advice to heart & is getting herself together. She's a decent person.
This is an entertaining channel, thanks.
Thanks for watching! I appreciate it!
4:34-5:00 - The Godfather aka The Undertaker leaves no stone unturned.
She 25 in biblical years. She look way older in modern years.
She look 35
Biblical years 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
He said she look like Michael Blackson I say Brother polite😂😂😂😭😭
OMG! She's the homie 🤣. Is this that mindset of women like that?
I appreciate your content bro. Your reactions be on brief and straight to the point. I like how u dont do alot of talking 💯💯
Doesn’t work out, no discipline.
She said "what if the guy isn't worth losing their independence for". What if a job says "we will hire you but I don't know if you're worth the pay. I won't pay you until I know you're worth what you're asking for". Is that a fair trade?
While we are trying to work with this twenty five year old, it has to be said the man she is with is using her. He's getting plenty of milk so he has no intention of buying the cow. I am truly sorry for her that she's in this position with little confidence and poor self esteem. She needs to meet a man who would value her and marry her. Lord, may she find that man. Amen.
"Can you cook?"
"I can make macaroni!"
She should have gotten taps right there.
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Kevin did not contradict himself. He thought she was in a relationship until she admitted that they were not in a relationship anymore. So he changed his questions and comments based on new information.
I'm listening, learning so I can become a better person overall not just a better woman. I've listened and watched so many of Elders, followed in their foot steps until I felt how uncomfortable those behaviors were... waking up is the goal thank you for giving this information 🙏🏾
They really calling KS for affirmation & approval. Not even really for the advice
To be demoted and she is still hanging around means… he has some good peter.
Not necessarily. Women stay because having a man is important. Sex can make someone stay longer but when someone has self esteem they won't put up bullstuff for that.
@@pennyproud1621 Facts.
If kevin is lowkey lying saying she's 6 or a 5. There's no way an adjustable 6 and 6 can look so vastly different in terms of his scale.
I think he was being gentle with her on that point.
@@thejourneyofraymond5752 definitely 5
The 5 was being nice adding the 6, was so her attitude wouldn’t change, if she is 25 .... bt Kev to me seems to looking to find what her real age cuz she don’t seem 25 at all
Ironically him doing exactly this quite often proves he doesn't hate women. The dude is real but still can't bring my himself to crush her.
She is very uneasy on the eyes. I'd give her a two.
KS said dating with intent to marry... Older men look to settle down.
They all want a husband and a family but none of them have any homemaking skills. WTF was their momma teaching them all these years?
Exactly JR, Kevin contradicts himself, often
That's a hard looking 25. I don't think KS contradicted himself. When she first said she has been with the guy for three years, he corrected her and said it's a relationship. However, when she started to talk more about the dynamics of the relationship, it took another turn and he said nah it's more like this, so he is right.
KS was nice. She's a solid 2. 🤷
Its the Michael Blackson for me 😅🤣 subscribed
I can make macaroni 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@@JRWisdom seriously bro I knew how to make pancakes, spaghetti, rice w/steak or chicken and bake a decent cake when I was 9 and I'm a man I just can't believe she actually said that. Probably makes a killer glass of water too.
@@uptriverside157 probably burn that too 😆
When a man can do all these things...clean, laundry, cook...she doesn't have a leg to stand on.