It's refreshing to see a black lady wanting a family and actually advocating for it. As weird as this sounds, this is becoming rare, most women want to be independent of men. I wish more black women would choose families over work. Like she said "catch flights, and feelings". All the best to you and yours!
I wanted to be independent, not independent of men, I wanted to be financial independence, I grew up watching many women in my family struggle to raise their children alone after the men chose to just not be part of their children’s lives, my young mind started thinking that having children is a total inconvenience and sets one back in life, I made sure to not get pregnant, finish school, work and save money. Later, when I moved to China and lived alone, I started questioning my beliefs, which were not entirely wrong. After feeling more comfortable financially, I started becoming more open to the idea of having children. After all, the men that I saw leaving the women in my family stranded with kids, were good guys that the family welcomed, their consistent actions when a child was in the picture would shock me. So, any happy, stable relationship I was in was not enough to make me feel I could start a family, I needed to feel secure in myself financially first. So, my wish is for more black men to step up and be there for their women and children, and I have met black men like that. Thank you for your comment and well wishes 😊
Welcome Back Lady❤❤❤ This is totally relatable to me. I hadn’t been home for over 3 years as well , recently went home then came back here & unfortunately i’ve checked out from here- looking for a job at home now because the DESIRE 🙌🏾🙌🏾.. Thank you for this❤ PS: I have been surviving for the longest time here & i got home ( despite all those unfavorables) and i LIVED 😊.
Shoo we went through a lot, the group that stayed in China for so long, isolated and trying to make it, I could never explain to anyone what that felt like, you would need to have been there to know. I’m glad you’re still pushing what you desire, you can make it work, it will work, it’s working! And if anything changes get up and try something else it’s okay ♥️
Oh my word I thought I was the only one, i have made pnet ,linkedIn, careers24 , my best friends . i am hoping to last till February atleast. Lets just hang in there, complete a few things that need to be done then move. I wish you all the strength. @@yveighstar
Just dropping by to say thank you for your authenticity. I don’t know you personally but I am so proud of you. You embody the spirit, strength and resilience of so many inspirational women I know. Life is ebb and flow, but something tells me you’ll be okay in all it’s ups and downs because of the essence inside of you. Ps: I just came from seeing a post by a friend of mine who I had a conversation with a few years ago- she was anxious about her age and worried that she’d never fulfill her deepest wish - become a mother and have her own nuclear family. Fast forward to a few years later, her daughter just turned 1 and she’s with a man that loves and respects her. This long winded ps is to say I think your desire is valid and I sincerely hope I’ll be around these UA-cam streets to see the day you make a video confirming this. But even if that day never comes, I wish you peace and contentment in your personal life - where it matters most.
@@chatwithtisaTisa…just dropping by to say we miss you. I hope life is being kind to you. No, this is not another message to say come back, it’s just a well wish ✨ Have an amazing day 🌻
There’s no place like home. There’s no feeling like belonging, understanding 4 languages spoken in the 1 conversation, the vibes, being around different races and the FOOD Gosh! I felt that when I was home in August. You’re brave; you’ll figure it out. Don’t go for long tuu…😅
As for the ‘desire’ I’m with you there. Having lived in China and now in Japan, I’m so ready to make my move back home. I miss my family everyday 😢 and I hope I can be financially prepared when I move back. All the best to you!
I understand the feeling, being financially prepared is important, living abroad comes with a change in lifestyle so that means you’ll probably need more for daily/monthly life in SA than you did before you left. Thank you for the well wishes ☀️
I’m so happy for you my dear 😍I also left China for SA in June 2022 and came back now July 2023, cos I needed that break from China 😩 All the best with everything.
@@rethabilethaba3334 china has certain requirements like: degree, TEFL, SAQA verified qualifications, Police Clearance, medical tests, passport. All your documents should be notarized and authenticated by DIRCO and Chinese Embassy. it can be a long dragging journey, but it's worth the wait. It's better to contact the agents when you have all your paperwork ready. Goodluck.
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Wow! I'm so happy that you took that long deserving break, I know being away from home can emotionally draining. I hope you come back.
It's our favorite Tsonga gurl! 🎉 Welcome, your delivery says it all can really tell that you've gone through some big changes. Don't worry, with time all shall get back to normal and be better. You have a lot of content to create, just based on what you said on this vid and your love life or personal stuff around that doesn't even need to be part of it. Share only what you feel comfortable with. Welcome back.👸🏿💜💪🏾
I missed seeing your long paragraph comments, I didn’t even need to read the name, I just knew it was you 😊 I can tell that you watched and listened very attentively. Thank you for this 😇
@@chatwithtisa lol! I am just glad you okay and back to business and looking forward to this new journey you are in. Lots of lessons learned already and delivering them The Tsonga gurl style they going to make a great content.
N'wana waka hehe vuya ka. Hiku tsundzukile. I literally seached for your page and did the same a year ago when posted this video. Hope ku waha pfukukile.
Awww 😊 don’t worry the UA-cam lights are already unpacked and in the living room, just looking for an opportunity time wise to start recording, but otherwise I’m ready to come back. Ni Khensa ku tsaleriwa ☀️
You are so strong sweetness I am sending you virtual hugs love. ❤️🩹❤️🩹😘😘😘❤️❤️💪💖💖🇨🇳 I went home to SA from China and stayed for about 2 weeks after 4 years without seeing my family. I totally understand everything you said in this video. I totally understand this phase you are going through. Desire o teng on my side too to have a family and China is really not a conducive place for such but we keep on moving darling. I’m back in China and yes we’re here to push di home loans etc. ausi it’s a sacrifice I am willing to make my future self will thank me especially because I have a son at university so I feel you love 😘👌❤️💖🙌💕💪
Super glad you back Tiisa it's been rough without your guidance, congratulations on your new chapter! The loadshedding and everything we are just gowishing. Stay amazing, glad you back on the grind again. Life happens, but am glad you still have you sanity.❤
Yea, back for the second time since Jan, the difference this time around is that I don’t mind the load shedding or water shedding, I feel a deep sense of peace and just working towards my next steps. When I came back initially I’d wanna cry and feel like I made a mistake , I was like, I was at a place where I things were working and things were at my fingertips, I felt I had to work ten times harder to get things done here at home. But now, I’m cool, I know better and it’s good to have these perspectives.
I remember every month searching if this phone is working, like where is our girl like Welcome Back I missed you shame I don't wanna lie like since last year yoooh 😢😢welcome back
Also that feeling of having everything you need but the people you love I think that's what brought me back more than anything, unfortunately it always seems like there has to be sacrifices to be made so yeah
I'm betting a Rosebank lady now. Yes welcome home. You have made a great change in my life and I appreciate your presence. I now invest. Bless you nwana mhani. And yes I'm single. Lol
For me, it’s really all your heart warming comments ✨
Thank you ♥️
You are beautiful🤍
We missed you sis Tisa, please come back with more financial knowledge
It's refreshing to see a black lady wanting a family and actually advocating for it. As weird as this sounds, this is becoming rare, most women want to be independent of men.
I wish more black women would choose families over work. Like she said "catch flights, and feelings". All the best to you and yours!
I wanted to be independent, not independent of men, I wanted to be financial independence, I grew up watching many women in my family struggle to raise their children alone after the men chose to just not be part of their children’s lives, my young mind started thinking that having children is a total inconvenience and sets one back in life, I made sure to not get pregnant, finish school, work and save money. Later, when I moved to China and lived alone, I started questioning my beliefs, which were not entirely wrong. After feeling more comfortable financially, I started becoming more open to the idea of having children.
After all, the men that I saw leaving the women in my family stranded with kids, were good guys that the family welcomed, their consistent actions when a child was in the picture would shock me. So, any happy, stable relationship I was in was not enough to make me feel I could start a family, I needed to feel secure in myself financially first.
So, my wish is for more black men to step up and be there for their women and children, and I have met black men like that.
Thank you for your comment and well wishes 😊
Yeeeeeaaaas our fave Tsonga girl!!!! We can literally hear your heart beating. Congratulations on your new chapter.
The mic is too close to my chest ☺️
Thank you for the warm welcome ☀️🤗
You are missed honey. Hope you are taking care of yourself sis.
So glad to see you back girl! Life happens, I'm looking forward to seeing the new content you've got in store for us
Thank you Peta 😊 learned a lot and have can’t wait to share.
Welcome Back Lady❤❤❤
This is totally relatable to me. I hadn’t been home for over 3 years as well , recently went home then came back here & unfortunately i’ve checked out from here- looking for a job at home now because the DESIRE 🙌🏾🙌🏾.. Thank you for this❤
PS: I have been surviving for the longest time here & i got home ( despite all those unfavorables) and i LIVED 😊.
Shoo we went through a lot, the group that stayed in China for so long, isolated and trying to make it, I could never explain to anyone what that felt like, you would need to have been there to know. I’m glad you’re still pushing what you desire, you can make it work, it will work, it’s working! And if anything changes get up and try something else it’s okay ♥️
l am in Korea, went home for two weeks and now l feel the same way, l am obsessing over pnet for a job. Hope l can hold on longer though.
Oh my word I thought I was the only one, i have made pnet ,linkedIn, careers24 , my best friends . i am hoping to last till February atleast. Lets just hang in there, complete a few things that need to be done then move. I wish you all the strength. @@yveighstar
Just dropping by to say thank you for your authenticity. I don’t know you personally but I am so proud of you. You embody the spirit, strength and resilience of so many inspirational women I know. Life is ebb and flow, but something tells me you’ll be okay in all it’s ups and downs because of the essence inside of you.
Ps: I just came from seeing a post by a friend of mine who I had a conversation with a few years ago- she was anxious about her age and worried that she’d never fulfill her deepest wish - become a mother and have her own nuclear family. Fast forward to a few years later, her daughter just turned 1 and she’s with a man that loves and respects her. This long winded ps is to say I think your desire is valid and I sincerely hope I’ll be around these UA-cam streets to see the day you make a video confirming this. But even if that day never comes, I wish you peace and contentment in your personal life - where it matters most.
So touching, you actually took a moment to write me a wonderful message like this, thank you for these beautiful words 😊☀️
Wow!
@@chatwithtisaTisa…just dropping by to say we miss you. I hope life is being kind to you. No, this is not another message to say come back, it’s just a well wish ✨ Have an amazing day 🌻
There’s no place like home. There’s no feeling like belonging, understanding 4 languages spoken in the 1 conversation, the vibes, being around different races and the FOOD Gosh! I felt that when I was home in August. You’re brave; you’ll figure it out. Don’t go for long tuu…😅
You’re right! There’s absolutely no place like home 🇿🇦
Thank you ☀️
Am sorry it didn't work out, keep the desire as long its what you want, you will meet the right person.
As for the ‘desire’ I’m with you there. Having lived in China and now in Japan, I’m so ready to make my move back home. I miss my family everyday 😢 and I hope I can be financially prepared when I move back. All the best to you!
I understand the feeling, being financially prepared is important, living abroad comes with a change in lifestyle so that means you’ll probably need more for daily/monthly life in SA than you did before you left.
Thank you for the well wishes ☀️
Shuu you are missed❤
We missed you Tisa
I missed you guys too 🤗
I’m so happy for you my dear 😍I also left China for SA in June 2022 and came back now July 2023, cos I needed that break from China 😩
All the best with everything.
Hi sis please can I hear your journey I really want to go to china
Also on a break since leaving last July after 9years in China
@@rethabilethaba3334 china has certain requirements like: degree, TEFL, SAQA verified qualifications, Police Clearance, medical tests, passport. All your documents should be notarized and authenticated by DIRCO and Chinese Embassy.
it can be a long dragging journey, but it's worth the wait. It's better to contact the agents when you have all your paperwork ready.
Goodluck.
@@jabulilenenzhelele2179 Wow! I'm so happy that you took that long deserving break, I know being away from home can emotionally draining.
I hope you come back.
Welcome back doll, we missed you. To be honest I thought you were in a serious lockdown in China. We were worried. Hunted you down on Instagram. ❤
And you didn’t send a plane ✈️ to get me out mara or a search party nyana 😅
@@chatwithtisa I should have..... So sorry
Welcome back Tisa, you have such a beautiful spirit. Cant wait to hear more about your experience
Awww thank you so much 😇✨
It's our favorite Tsonga gurl! 🎉
Welcome, your delivery says it all can really tell that you've gone through some big changes. Don't worry, with time all shall get back to normal and be better. You have a lot of content to create, just based on what you said on this vid and your love life or personal stuff around that doesn't even need to be part of it. Share only what you feel comfortable with. Welcome back.👸🏿💜💪🏾
I missed seeing your long paragraph comments, I didn’t even need to read the name, I just knew it was you 😊
I can tell that you watched and listened very attentively.
Thank you for this 😇
@@chatwithtisa lol! I am just glad you okay and back to business and looking forward to this new journey you are in. Lots of lessons learned already and delivering them The Tsonga gurl style they going to make a great content.
5:12 I am Sotho and so impressed that I caught that 😉 .
Only just realising now as I came back to comment that you actually had subtitles 😂.
Welcome back, I am happy you are home.
Thank you ☀️ I'm in China, but I will be back again soon.
It’s amazing how the Maslow hierarchy of needs has changed with our generation. Love needs are no longer a priority for a lot of us now.
I think there are several factors that change that and it varies of the years of our lives.
Hey Tisa, thanks for sharing. This is so relatable, I love your transparency. All the best in your transitions
Thank you 😇✨
The voice brought me here, wow you have such a great personality and you just made me listen. I subscribed as well. You are so loveable...🥰🥰🥰🥰😇
N'wana waka hehe vuya ka. Hiku tsundzukile. I literally seached for your page and did the same a year ago when posted this video. Hope ku waha pfukukile.
Awww 😊 don’t worry the UA-cam lights are already unpacked and in the living room, just looking for an opportunity time wise to start recording, but otherwise I’m ready to come back. Ni Khensa ku tsaleriwa ☀️
Guess who is back? Our favorite Tsonga queen 🎉🎉
Welcome back Tisa
Thank you so much 😇♥️
We missed you! I'm glad you are back and doing well! 🎉
Thank you for the warm welcome 😊
😻😻😻💕💕you're soo beautiful
And I'm sad things didnt work out💔
I'm a lover of love. I hope the next one leads you down the aisle 😍❤
Oh my! You are Back! Welcome back you you😊!my favorite Tsonga girl!
I love her, seeing her for the first time and subscribe ♥️♥️♥️
Thank you 🤗☀️
You are so strong sweetness I am sending you virtual hugs love. ❤️🩹❤️🩹😘😘😘❤️❤️💪💖💖🇨🇳
I went home to SA from China and stayed for about 2 weeks after 4 years without seeing my family. I totally understand everything you said in this video. I totally understand this phase you are going through. Desire o teng on my side too to have a family and China is really not a conducive place for such but we keep on moving darling. I’m back in China and yes we’re here to push di home loans etc. ausi it’s a sacrifice I am willing to make my future self will thank me especially because I have a son at university so I feel you love 😘👌❤️💖🙌💕💪
Thank you for being open and honest. I love how you pushing your dreams
Thank you Lerato 😊✨
It's great to have you back🎉💃💃🥳 can't wait for the new content ❤️
Thank you for the warm welcome! 🙃✨
Welcome back! We've been waiting for this video!
welcome back!!!!!!!!
Thank you Kwesi 😇
Welcome back hun home is home. We missed your laughter. ❤❤
Im back in China, I’ll be home again very soon. I missed being on UA-cam creating content for you guys 😊
My heart right now 🥰🥰🥰 welcome back Sesi 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Welcome back Ms Tisa ,glad you are back 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💝💝💕
Super glad you back Tiisa it's been rough without your guidance, congratulations on your new chapter! The loadshedding and everything we are just gowishing. Stay amazing, glad you back on the grind again. Life happens, but am glad you still have you sanity.❤
Those last two sentences 😊✨
Waze wayimisa I Iife yami ekuseni 😂😂😂😂😂 ngithi ngidlala u music aybo the Tsonga gal is back ngavele ngahlala phansi🎉🎉🎉❤❤
Literally smiling at my desk at work 😊
I hope you enjoyed that music of my voice 😅
Every time I hear you speak Xitsonga I smile…you are not losing the accent one bit 😊.
Favourite Tsonga girl❤
Resonate with this. Letting the chapters of life flow to the next. Gods plan
Aah welcome back!Beeen waiting for this one and i can’t wait to hear more about finances
Thank you 😊 we have a lot to talk about regarding finances!
Been back in South Africa since May and I relate shem. There’s no money here… and it disappears so quickly
Wheee please! I was never really for the disappearing of money😣 yohhh! But try to be more frugal.
Yea, back for the second time since Jan, the difference this time around is that I don’t mind the load shedding or water shedding, I feel a deep sense of peace and just working towards my next steps. When I came back initially I’d wanna cry and feel like I made a mistake , I was like, I was at a place where I things were working and things were at my fingertips, I felt I had to work ten times harder to get things done here at home. But now, I’m cool, I know better and it’s good to have these perspectives.
Glad to have you back babe ❤
Thank you 😊✨
Misaseke kuxwa tati, welcome back. That thing that they say about face card??? Yes😭😭😭😍😍😍😍
Stuuup 🥰🤭 nakhensa ka 😇
my favourite girl on UA-cam is back
Yes she is 🤗✨
To be honest, you got me so worried😢😢
Welcome back, I have been missing your laughter that is contiguous 😂😂😂
Hi Tisa! Welcome back. You’re such a breath of fresh air ❤
I can’t wait to see you flourish in everything that you put your heart and hands to.
Wow! Thank you for these words ♥️✨
I remember every month searching if this phone is working, like where is our girl like Welcome Back I missed you shame I don't wanna lie like since last year yoooh 😢😢welcome back
Thanks u back, welcome back ....
Yess🎉. Welcome back, Tisa. 😅❤
You such a nice person I loved watching your videos. Proper content.
18:33 😢😢😢 Just know that some of us love you, you are beautiful and attractive.
Nwana mhani is back 🎉our favourite tsonga girl! Missed you ❤
Looking forward to your next video
Coming soon 😊
I totally relate with everything you said here cause I also came back home in December 😅 I'm now here and I'm just like no
Also that feeling of having everything you need but the people you love I think that's what brought me back more than anything, unfortunately it always seems like there has to be sacrifices to be made so yeah
We missed you so much Tisa 🎉 ❤thank you for coming back🫂😭😭❤ also audio is 👍🏾😅
Tisa uyabhora yazzzz we've been worried about you. It's so heart warming to see you again though hey.
Welcome back, your absence was felt ❤
Welcome back Tisa. Good to see you on your beautiful face.
Welcome back🌹 I look forward to seeing what you have in store for us
Bra we missed you, :) Welcome back
Aww 😊✨ thank you!
If I had ur number I was definitely going to give you a call ,I have been asking myself, where is this tsonga girl ,🙏 welcome back
Yay! Look who is back🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 such a relief to see dearest Tisa.
the way I always checked for videos on your channel! so happy to have you back
That was me 😅
hey you glad you back i was about to message you never leave us for this long
Im sorry, I’ll try not to 😊
oh my world, i'm glad to see you. just love your energy!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰
Heheeeee ngwana mane😍🤩, welcome back. We've missed that laugh after stating a missive point😃😃....... aaaaah no, indeed we have arrived🥂
I wanna disappear as Tisa do❤️❤️I miss you my sister please finish wat u doing we really need you and I hope u gonna bring us some info, love u
Allow yourself a disappearance it's necessary. I'm definitely working on better content to put out. ☀️
@@chatwithtisa thank you Girl, I miss you shame
Honestly glad to have you back. We love you soo much and can't wait for more educative content you have for us! Welcome back home!
Definitely looking forward to sharing all the financial lessons. Thank you 😇✨
Welcome back Tisa. I truly missed your content
Yes🎉🎉🎉girl , welcome back ❤
Welcome back my favorite Tsonga girl, love from Kenya, next week, u have to sing ...ok.
Welcome back 🎉🙏
Thank you 😊☀️
Our Tsonga fav❤ girl 🎉🎉
I love you welcome back ❤
Our favourite Tsonga girl is back!!! Just glad to hear that you are well. Live long and prosper Tisa
Thank you so much 😇✨
Tiiiiissaaaaaaa, I missed you so much. Been wondering where you are. My fave Tsonga gurrrrl.
This is a great CANVAS to create something GREAT😊🎉❤
My fav is back 😍😍welcome back Tisa, I missed you so much ❤
I'm one of the ppl who missed my Tsonga girl . Welcome back 😊my darling
Queeeeeeeen🇿🇦🇨🇳 we love you. Welcome back and enjoy the food, Savannah, the people 💙
I don’t drink alcohol 🤣😅
Thank you ☀️ I was home for 8 months, I left again.
Glad to see you here again ❤
Really happy to see you back... 🎉🎉🎉
I'm betting a Rosebank lady now. Yes welcome home. You have made a great change in my life and I appreciate your presence. I now invest. Bless you nwana mhani. And yes I'm single. Lol
" we are not made to be alone".. is waar ngwana mani !
😻😻😻😻oh my Good
I'm so happy you're back💕💕
I can't wait for more😍😍💕
I missed seeing your profile picture in the comments section. Thank you for the warm welcome 🤗☀️
Yhooo you were gonne forever Tisa .😢😢😢😢 i started buying share because.of you .i was lost like really 10months a whole months😂😂😂😂loveeeee You💜💜💜💜
Tisa!!❤im so happy to see you.I was even thinking where can i see you cz im not on instagram🎉🎉
Wow haven’t even listened bcz really missed. So happy 🎉
Your content it’s amazing babe … welcome back 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you 😊✨
Welcome back ,our favourite Tsonga girl. We really missed you
Thank you for this warm welcome 🤗
Welcome back Tia
Welcome back😊
Welcome back!!!
I was just talking about you yesterday yazi. So glad you uploaded ❤ welcome back sister
Welcome back mama♥ Happy to see you back on this App.
I’m back, I’m here! I’m not leaving, more videos coming soon.
Thank you 🤗
Pls Tisa, is there any specific 120-hour TEFL course recognized and required by China employers?
I'm super excited and glad that you are back ❤🎉
I’ve missed you babe, I’m so happy to see this ❤🥰