A Conversation With Corinna Kopf About Her Break Up With Toddy Smith

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  • @boilingpigsty
    @boilingpigsty 6 років тому +3286

    that feeling of wanting to be with someone so bad, but you can't is one of the hardest things. this conversation really got me.

    • @bradrichuber9482
      @bradrichuber9482 6 років тому +5

      Same, I never knew I needed this conversation so much until now.

    • @TheLenaland
      @TheLenaland 6 років тому +3

      I felt that too, crazy how she put my conflicted feelings into words

    • @aaronjns123
      @aaronjns123 6 років тому

      Brandon you are a douche just doing this for views I lost respect for you

    • @lannnis
      @lannnis 6 років тому +1

      i’m not alone

    • @BabebrahamLincoln
      @BabebrahamLincoln 6 років тому +1

      I have been in her shoes before and watching Corinna throughout the years I developed a crush on her so knowing the pain and the exhaustion of a break up plus knowing that SHE, the person I like is hurting really makes me wish I could just give her a tight hug and remind her that she can get through it even if it takes a while. I really wish I could be there for her and not to gain anything out of it but because I genuinely care about her.
      Shit- no I've made myself really sad. I still send her so much love and warmth!

  • @ryebread4322
    @ryebread4322 6 років тому +3441

    There are ALWAYS two sides to breakups. I appreciate that Brandon did this. No victims or villains, just two people who didn’t work out. It’s life

  • @AznChick4
    @AznChick4 6 років тому +3769

    I love how aware Corinna is of herself and recognizes her own flaws

    • @KaWiReloaded
      @KaWiReloaded 6 років тому +35

      AznChick4 yessssssss. Self Awareness is so important on the road to maturity 💚

    • @kissofchaos8459
      @kissofchaos8459 6 років тому +13

      I agree she is aware to an extent , but she has things she needs to figure out about herself.

    • @vivaglamnadia
      @vivaglamnadia 6 років тому +7

      Cynthia J everyone does

    • @reganmatthews1193
      @reganmatthews1193 5 років тому +4

      Yea this is like the first time I’ve seen her outside of David’s vlogs and she is so mature and smart I’m kinda shook

  • @Jade-po1vy
    @Jade-po1vy 6 років тому +3245

    Just because people have feelings for each other doesn’t mean they should be together! I applaud her for recognizing their toxic relationship and having the strength to leave it. 👏🏻

    • @lisaraven4718
      @lisaraven4718 6 років тому +4

      Yesss

    • @zacharydavis9129
      @zacharydavis9129 6 років тому +11

      You can always work things out with someone. You just both gotta give it 100/100 it ain’t 50/50

    • @lisaraven4718
      @lisaraven4718 6 років тому +46

      @@zacharydavis9129 doesn't mean you should... some people are not meant to be together. Realizing that is part of being an adult

    • @piggy_queen0426
      @piggy_queen0426 6 років тому +1

      Hazel Rae preach!! 🙌🙌🙌

    • @phillyhippie
      @phillyhippie 5 років тому +1

      But why was it toxic?

  • @moniqueortiz1900
    @moniqueortiz1900 6 років тому +2186

    The way Corinna looks at the relationship in my point of view is like when you love a long running tv show and it ends, you love the show so much and want it on forever but it has to end because you know the episodes will never be as good if it keeps going.

  • @RachelZeglerLovesHugs
    @RachelZeglerLovesHugs 6 років тому +1219

    corinna is so well-spoken and so loved. sending so much strength to her.

  • @dawnmorante
    @dawnmorante 6 років тому +3462

    seeing corinna cry is making me cry, we must protect her at all costs

    • @rubyhhh2715
      @rubyhhh2715 6 років тому +23

      Oh no, I just started the video, I'm not ready

    • @daniellaweeks
      @daniellaweeks 6 років тому +5

      Didn’t she support Trump? Yikes

    • @charpa2891
      @charpa2891 6 років тому +31

      @@daniellaweeks So does half the country get over it

    • @nh39791
      @nh39791 6 років тому +4

      she did for a bit during the election campaign, cant blame her for looking into other parties. but she mentioned that she ultimately didnt vote for him. who knows

    • @daniellaweeks
      @daniellaweeks 6 років тому

      ItsArepo how about no?

  • @Alexandra-et3kj
    @Alexandra-et3kj 6 років тому +2793

    I think brandon is having a more difficult time with this breakup than corinna

    • @terseandtiny1746
      @terseandtiny1746 6 років тому +87

      He's invested in ppl, he can't help it.

    • @BTBGaming_
      @BTBGaming_ 5 років тому +18

      Alexandra Maybe he’s friends with both people who were involved and cares about both? Wants to see them both happy?

    • @tearkey1624
      @tearkey1624 4 роки тому +2

      BuckeyesFTW u watch too many movies

    • @Ali-Bora23
      @Ali-Bora23 4 роки тому +4

      Tear Key and you watch to much youtube

    • @simokadi9377
      @simokadi9377 4 роки тому +2

      lmaoooooooooo 😂😂😂

  • @bernadetterogers4006
    @bernadetterogers4006 6 років тому +3484

    I really hate how David portrays corina as the ditzy blonde in his vlogs. She’s an intellectual woman with emotions and recognizes what’s healthy for her. A lot of girls aren’t strong enough to do that,

    • @enadine6405
      @enadine6405 5 років тому +101

      I really commend her maturity for real. She needs a guy that knows what he wants.

    • @hariikrishnan
      @hariikrishnan 5 років тому +184

      If she doesn't have a problem with that, then it isn't really a problem for anyone else.
      Just saying

    • @bilawl9359
      @bilawl9359 5 років тому +191

      It’s just for the camera. Shes good at playing the ditsy blonde and it’s funny

    • @assburgers1908
      @assburgers1908 5 років тому +47

      I don't think you know what an intellectual is

    • @yesmipenaloza532
      @yesmipenaloza532 5 років тому +5

      Yes ! I love her !

  • @user-re1sz7ss4x
    @user-re1sz7ss4x 6 років тому +5075

    Part of me always wanted her with Alex

    • @emilyc5216
      @emilyc5216 6 років тому +403

      Sara DeLaVega Alex would treat her better than Todd

    • @mynamejeffhehe
      @mynamejeffhehe 6 років тому +499

      The pastor’s son? Not a chance he’s too pure

    • @tyramaxwell2575
      @tyramaxwell2575 6 років тому +30

      Honestly

    • @avylynn4523
      @avylynn4523 6 років тому +160

      Alex would treat her like a queen but Alex is already in a relationship he already had an amount of distaste as any of the people in the friend group when they discover her used to being with all these dudes which is why she’s a great friend of their eyes but not in a different perspective of having a serious relationship ship

    • @Heybudwatsurproblem
      @Heybudwatsurproblem 6 років тому +24

      The good ol days

  • @SamanthaChristie
    @SamanthaChristie 6 років тому +3473

    Corinna is so strong minded. A woman who so desperately wants to be with a man who is toxic for her, but is standing her ground when someone states maybe she should give it time or maybe they should be with one another bc they both still have feelings... that's when you know her mind is finally made. Bc it's so easy to find excuses to go back, whether it's emotions or someone telling you it's okay to do... or both. Corinna deserves to be with someone she isn't paranoid is cheating on her 24/7, because at the end of the day he can't really love her as much as she loves him if he's deceptive and she's the one who needs to put up with it.

    • @jamiejoonks
      @jamiejoonks 6 років тому +19

      Samantha Christie perfect response

    • @emschlef
      @emschlef 6 років тому +50

      It makes me really proud of her. So many people stay in relationships that aren't right for them and don't have the courage to end it and be alone. She deserves someone who loves her and isn't going to play the chase game with her.

    • @reaganarnold9408
      @reaganarnold9408 6 років тому +3

      Samantha Christie a

    • @sirih4085
      @sirih4085 6 років тому +1

      Don't get too excited, I give them two weeks to get back together ....

    • @SamanthaChristie
      @SamanthaChristie 6 років тому +4

      @@sirih4085 hey, it's entirely possible that they could be together now and we just don't know. however, her not caving when Brandon suggested perhaps they give it another go is still impressive, even if she does get back with him.

  • @sephoralove28
    @sephoralove28 6 років тому +1430

    I think people have misunderstood Corinna for a very, very long time, but when I first started watching her personal videos, I saw something that went far beyond her being just another superficial influencer. Corinna is a deeply sensitive, shy and at times insecure girl, and at first glance she might not seem like it but its the reason why I relate to her a lot. I don't want to bash him, but what happened between her and Todd is something that a lot of girls feel, being played with emotionally. I hope she finds a man who deserves her love and I hope she can move on from the hurt.

    • @kaitlyncipko2864
      @kaitlyncipko2864 6 років тому +7

      sephoralove28 yea I relate to her on so many levels and then relate to her and toddy’s relationship as well. I’ve never really felt I’ve had anything in common with any UA-camd before

    • @THESECRETMEDICINE25
      @THESECRETMEDICINE25 6 років тому +6

      “A lot of girls feel” more like guys and girls. Both sides of the spectrum have many(always will be, there will always be people that are maturing) that are still learning, making mistakes, breaking hearts, hurting people... Growing, just saying.....

    • @sephoralove28
      @sephoralove28 6 років тому +14

      Austen M Of course I, like any sensible human being, understand that both men and women can feel as though they’re being emotionally manipulated or drained by a relationship. I really don’t see the point in you commenting that...

    • @JustCallMeCeles
      @JustCallMeCeles 6 років тому +2

      *Taps Fedora*

  • @melissataylor881
    @melissataylor881 6 років тому +9160

    Wow I had no idea about Corinna’s brother. My heart breaks for her 💔 Too often she’s seen as the “hot girl” of the vlogs and we don’t always get to see this raw side of her so it’s nice to see this real side of her

    • @jaymekarina
      @jaymekarina 6 років тому +178

      Elle milles' videos were the first time I felt like I ever saw a genuine, caring and raw version of Corinna.

    • @Thepateisgreat
      @Thepateisgreat 6 років тому +11

      What happened to him? 😢

    • @Martxi1
      @Martxi1 6 років тому +8

      When does she talks about that?

    • @Abhi-yi1pf
      @Abhi-yi1pf 6 років тому +3

      @Melissa Taylor true that

    • @emilys7031
      @emilys7031 6 років тому +56

      She mentions it in one of her videos, one of her first q&as. She also wrote about it on her Twitter, after the whole Logan paul incident

  • @alij6891
    @alij6891 6 років тому +2018

    holy shit i never realized corinna is going through the EXACT same thing as me and feeling exactly the same. wow

  • @okaysage.
    @okaysage. 6 років тому +1158

    this was a KARMIC RELATIONSHIP. it happened to help them grow, there’s intense love and intense passion but its toxic, they don’t last forever but can last a very long time. a relationship sent from the universe to help her grow and heal

    • @jassyee012
      @jassyee012 5 років тому +21

      okaysage i think this is the greatest thing I have read in a very long time. Thank you for this.

    • @savioliravioli2517
      @savioliravioli2517 5 років тому +17

      i’m glad i read this. needed to hear it, thank you.

    • @Eapp1480
      @Eapp1480 3 роки тому +1

      Well Fuck
      My past 2 relationships were Karmic 💀

  • @abbyk658
    @abbyk658 6 років тому +864

    I applaud her for being so genuine and vulnerable. Brandon somehow always brings out this side of people and I think it’s a great thing he’s doing.

  • @bellacolon350
    @bellacolon350 6 років тому +364

    pls don’t ever stop these. genuine friendships and genuine conversations are sooooo refreshing

  • @alanamarry8807
    @alanamarry8807 6 років тому +2117

    brandon's channel is so underrated.

    • @Gh0stShad0w420
      @Gh0stShad0w420 6 років тому +2

      Foreal

    • @kieranschoaf1029
      @kieranschoaf1029 6 років тому +2

      I have no idea why but I just really think these videos or 'series' is underated as well.

    • @LucasCra
      @LucasCra 6 років тому +1

      This is his second channel.

    • @alanamarry8807
      @alanamarry8807 6 років тому

      Lucas Cra ahh didn’t know that, thanks.

    • @gennaboffa3943
      @gennaboffa3943 6 років тому +1

      Alana Khatib I’m glad he’s starting to get more views now though but definitely deserves more

  • @samanthajophotography3684
    @samanthajophotography3684 6 років тому +293

    At 17:40 watching the corner of her lips twitch, watching her hold back tears is heartbreaking
    You're strong Corinna and you can't say you aren't because you've already gotten this far

  • @AshleyMasl
    @AshleyMasl 5 років тому +640

    I don’t think she was crying over Todd. She was crying because for once she had somebody, aside from her father, that understood her anxiety. It’s sooo hard explaining anxiety over and over to people. Being with somebody who can knock you back into reality when you get stuck in your head. I also understand when she says she lost the feelings, as a lover, towards Todd but still enjoyed his company. I had a boyfriend for 7 years and lost feelings but i couldn’t get out of the relationship because i felt like he was the only one who understood my anxiety and knew what to do to help when i would have panic attacks. I was scared to be alone. Once i got out of it, we both still have love and respect for each other. Being alone helped me build so much confidence and I feel like the best version of myself. :-) I hope you feel better, Cor!

    • @beastmasterbg
      @beastmasterbg 5 років тому +1

      I don't get how people don't understand anxiety. I've always had it but I always had to pretend to be overexited to hide it

    • @majaco
      @majaco 4 роки тому

      beastmasterbg because many people express it in many different ways in many different situations. It’s a complex thing. It’s easier to recognize anxiety in some people, and much harder to recognize in others. I have really bad anxiety at times, and as much as I wish other people could read my mind and understand why, they can’t and they won’t. I don’t expect everyone to understand it because anxiety goes a lot deeper than what you are seeing. Can’t expect everyone to understand it, but just that they respect it

    • @eviecollins673
      @eviecollins673 4 роки тому +4

      Ashley Johnson I have Anxiety, I try and hide it as much as a can,I hate telling people because they never understand, it sucks

  • @arwa1029
    @arwa1029 6 років тому +1551

    I had no idea Corinna lost her brother to suicide :(

  • @talyclouds
    @talyclouds 6 років тому +1046

    Corinna please don’t go back, you’re strong and beautiful and you deserve better

  • @gracemoore6138
    @gracemoore6138 6 років тому +402

    I feel like toddys just too immature for a relationship

    • @jamiejoonks
      @jamiejoonks 6 років тому +5

      Grace Moore 100% hes never been in one that hasn’t been rocky

    • @delaneydelatorrre
      @delaneydelatorrre 6 років тому +7

      he’s a forever bachelor

    • @Meandmeandyou1
      @Meandmeandyou1 6 років тому +11

      Hes been a fuckboy for too long. It's like he doesnt know how to be in a relationship.

  • @Seven-sb9ec
    @Seven-sb9ec 6 років тому +222

    She speaks so much truth about how when you get out of a relationship you shouldn’t get right back into another one. Knowing how to be alone is so important. I just got out of a 2 year relationship where we talked about marriage and spending the rest of our lives together. When we broke up he moved on 3 days later. I couldn’t even get over it after 2 months because I really did love this person and I spent so much time with them I forgot what’s it’s like to be alone so I kept crying and having nightmares every night. But I’m learning that being alone is okay and it shouldn’t have to make you feel horrible. You don’t need to depend on someone else all the time.

    • @NotSoFamousOfficial
      @NotSoFamousOfficial 6 років тому +4

      This is painfully relatable. Almost 3 months since a 2.5 year break up and I don't feel any better about it despite that person now effectively being a stranger. She's been with people since and it's so nauseating to think about. This is so therapeutic to read, thank you! I know that things will get better - I just wish I could know when that starts.

    • @Seven-sb9ec
      @Seven-sb9ec 6 років тому +3

      I know the pain and I honestly wish you the best. I’m glad you know that things do get better. A positive mind is honestly one of the most important things in our lives.

  • @HighVega
    @HighVega 6 років тому +1542

    I am soooo drunk rn lol. And anybody who sees this, I wish you all the happiness in the world!!!

    • @meersindi3800
      @meersindi3800 6 років тому +8

      The Buddha shame on your cows Buddha

    • @HighVega
      @HighVega 6 років тому +100

      Sober me is cringing over this rn

    • @meersindi3800
      @meersindi3800 6 років тому +2

      The Buddha 😂

    • @caitx4027
      @caitx4027 6 років тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @techn9cian09
      @techn9cian09 6 років тому +7

      Fuck it! just take a shot for me next time haha😂

  • @wolfiexbb
    @wolfiexbb 6 років тому +1250

    corinna is so strong. good for u for leaving an unhealthy relationship

  • @nickandgiannasvlog
    @nickandgiannasvlog 6 років тому +597

    It’s not supposed to be happy all the time. But it’s not supposed to be toxic. It’s not supposed to make you doubt things all the time. That’s not okay.

  • @whateverlesly
    @whateverlesly 6 років тому +125

    This was so raw, I love this series and I applaud Corinna for being so genuine and opening her feelings up so much to thousands of people.

  • @camila.ariass
    @camila.ariass 5 років тому +66

    9:18 This is honestly so true. Corinna you deserve better. Literally two weeks after saying I love you then he’s with someone else. It doesn’t make sense..

  • @staceysworld
    @staceysworld 5 років тому +94

    If you can love the wrong person that much.
    Imagine how much you can love the right person!
    ☺️💛

  • @KaWiReloaded
    @KaWiReloaded 6 років тому +1481

    The cheating was pretty obvious but I get why she doesn’t just say it. It’s a shame. Also, Toddy has some anger issues fueled by alcohol that I’m sure didn’t help and also seems like he has a very controlling aspect to him. Corinna seems more confident single. I saw her IG stories the past few days. She seems happy, with her girlfriends and her new dog Carl. I hope she keeps focusing on that. Also I get her worry for Toddy. His best friend moved out with his girlfriend (Scott) and it’s the first time since High School Todd and Scotty haven’t lived together and u could tell he was feeling sad about that. Now the breakup, I get why she’s worried for him. Toddy may look 👀 like a jock meat head type but he is actually super emo but unfortunately he is a player who looks like he didn’t appreciate what he had till she lost feelings. I understand what it’s like loving someone so much but having that love fade away with every deception, every lie, every betrayal, every disrespect, etc. I wish them both the best. I hope Corinna continues down this path of self love and I hope Toddy can find what makes him happy because he seems a bit lost right now. Much love to both and Brandon for this amazing series 💚💚💚

    • @alexis-se7or
      @alexis-se7or 6 років тому +64

      KaWi this is so well said.

    • @michellexelise
      @michellexelise 6 років тому +5

      Wait who cheated?

    • @capric0rpse
      @capric0rpse 6 років тому +10

      Spitting all the facts.

    • @capric0rpse
      @capric0rpse 6 років тому +83

      @@michellexelise Seems like Todd was kind of stringing Corrina along for a long while and seeing other girls at the same time. He was playing with Corrina's feelings and mind. Never made it official for a while then when they did, all the jealousy and trust issues never stopped. And perhaps he even cheated when he would go to bars and ignore her. It seems like a lot..

    • @devonfluellen5158
      @devonfluellen5158 6 років тому +10

      16:28 you just saying stuff with nothing to back yourself up

  • @Laraisthename
    @Laraisthename 6 років тому +469

    hi please stop telling her to not let him go. clearly the relationship was toxic, and she even said that they both did shit to hurt each other. let her move on, stop telling her not to!! there’s legit nothing to fix, even if you truly love the person, if they completely obliterate your trust and hurt you badly, you’re entitled to move on.

  • @anastasiiayamelynets9364
    @anastasiiayamelynets9364 6 років тому +330

    I love Corinna so much!! She’s so kind and sweet and nice!

  • @CM-vq9td
    @CM-vq9td 6 років тому +981

    Don’t worry Corinna, you’re explaining it perfect. Brandon is refusing to believe that yous cant get back together. I know how you feel girl I’ve been there. You deserve to be treated like the queen you are, nothing below that

  • @ercacalcarr
    @ercacalcarr 6 років тому +429

    I don’t think anyone understood what Brandon was trying to say. He didn’t mean keep loving Todd no matter what! He meant keep loving in general. He clearly stated “whether it be with Todd or anyone else”. He’s saying to not forget the feeling and to know she has the capacity to love and be loved in return. That’s what I got from it, anyway. 🤷‍♀️

    • @littlemushie
      @littlemushie 5 років тому +6

      Exactly!

    • @JoseLopez-ds1hv
      @JoseLopez-ds1hv 5 років тому +3

      Thank you I knew someone wouldn’t judge right away

    • @justmelissa7010
      @justmelissa7010 5 років тому

      ErcaCalCarr yes!!!!

    • @BTBGaming_
      @BTBGaming_ 5 років тому

      ErcaCalCarr thank god that someone in this comment section actually listened instead of just jumping to comment

  • @ChrystalIrene
    @ChrystalIrene 6 років тому +5458

    Brandon, Corinna was in a toxic relationship and it seems like you were trying to convince her “that’s love”. You should never convince someone to stay in a toxic relationship. I love this series but this was a hard one to watch.

    • @ned7754
      @ned7754 6 років тому +99

      Chrystal Irene who the fuck is Corinne

    • @briannadiprima3058
      @briannadiprima3058 6 років тому +403

      Chrystal Irene I think maybe what he was trying to get across was that love can be hard and that there’s a lot of bad that can come with the good. I don’t think he was trying to convince her to stay, I think he was just giving his opinion on the situation

    • @kylacrush6810
      @kylacrush6810 6 років тому +132

      Chrystal Irene it also quite possibly might be your inference to his interviewing style. Where he reiterates their statement so either he can understand it better by vocalizing it and there by empathizing to the situation.
      It certainly is a style that is unique to Brandon yet isn’t necessarily journalistic per se because it’s kind of leading their answers in a particular direction. This interviewing style has occurred in many of the other interviews on this channel but in Corinna’s it’s the most prevalent. However, I think it totally works for this series & being that it brings an air of familiarity & makes them feel far more comfortable. The reason she was actually able to open up & cry not only in front of him but on camera makes it feel far more authentic as if the audience is sitting in the car with them. Whether that’s due to his style of interviewing or that most of his subjects are personal friends it totally works. Just as Brianna mentioned above he wasn’t trying to get her to go running back to Todd (in fact he tells her to go home & eat an entire cake lol) he was merely emphasizing that loving someone after you end things is hard even if you know that relationship is toxic it’s hard to separate the emotions in your heart from your Brain that knows you could do better.

    • @WhyLumos
      @WhyLumos 6 років тому +115

      I was in a toxic relationship and I feel what corrina is feeling. Brandon is right. It is love. Maybe not to you, but it is love. Even if it is toxic people still want to be in it. So wrong yet so right.

    • @цветок-ш7п
      @цветок-ш7п 6 років тому

      Chrystal Irene yeah

  • @queenwizzard1853
    @queenwizzard1853 6 років тому +817

    Brandon- “so what’s going on with you and Todd?”
    Corinna- *”Thank U, Next”*
    *video ends*

  • @gucass
    @gucass 6 років тому +420

    You know it's time to move on when you more in love with the memories you had with that person more than the person themselves

    • @SamFioreMusic
      @SamFioreMusic 6 років тому +20

      Alex G Wow...This is way too real for me...Been there, done that...It’s literally the hardest thing ever...

    • @SamFioreMusic
      @SamFioreMusic 6 років тому

      @issa ceres Wow...that's a very tricky situation...I would say that you should just be honest and tell him that you still have feelings for him, and see what he says!! If he says that he doesn't feel the same way, then you'll know to move on, but if he does, then you can see where things go!! Either way, you're gonna be just fine!! I promise you that!! As cliché as it sounds, there are plenty of other people out there, and you can definitely find someone who supports you as much as he did, maybe even more, and it'll just be an easier, and because of that, probably an even better, experience overall!!

    • @aliciag8357
      @aliciag8357 6 років тому +1

      That's deep 🌊

    • @hannahpratt720
      @hannahpratt720 6 років тому

      Alex G o

    • @iliyanamarei
      @iliyanamarei 6 років тому

      yup, i've had to do this recently. you don't want to break up with the person cause you remember all the good times and forget that you haven't had those good times in a while

  • @GloriaC333
    @GloriaC333 5 років тому +73

    Brandon is emotion driven and Corinne is logic driven.

  • @Cassandra3717
    @Cassandra3717 6 років тому +125

    A relationship should not get shitty. Relationships will have natural ups and downs but when one person or both start to feel that its shitty is when both need to make a change or its time to seperate. A relationship should not drain you emotionally, stress you out, or leave you feeling doubtful on a constant basis. It is not healthy for either person to feel those things. Setting boundries for yourself is the healthiest choice in a situation like this. Clearly todd and corinna are twin flames who have such an intense love for eachother, the back and forth, craving for eachothers attention, but is riddled with jealousy and trust issues when its all said and done. This kind of love will only leave you feeling less than satisfied. Best to love him from afar and move on. :)

  • @karenoropeza7122
    @karenoropeza7122 6 років тому +139

    When Corinna said “when you really like someone and they chase you enough you’re gonna go back again” i felt that 🖤

  • @TheCRazy2011girls
    @TheCRazy2011girls 6 років тому +357

    Can you do one with Heath next? About falling in love, dealing with the stress of being a "social influncer" and sobriety. Please and thank you!

  • @hailey4446
    @hailey4446 6 років тому +1215

    i think brandon made a mistake by pushing his own ideas on her. she was very strong to tell him that she is sure that even with all the feelings she has for todd she can’t be with him. i love the series but i think sometimes the best way to support someone is to just be there for them.

    • @totalbitch__3524
      @totalbitch__3524 6 років тому +8

      hailey ikr he really needs to stop trying to push his own ideas and feelings on the ppl he talks to

    • @Alurtoll
      @Alurtoll 5 років тому +2

      what happens if you get pushed? you resist.. you need one or else you won't have the other. not everything goes the way you want it to in real life.

    • @kmyyaj1963
      @kmyyaj1963 5 років тому +8

      Agreed! She know how she feels but he didn't and kept pushing his thoughts on her. Ugh. He wasnt even listening and understanding how she feels.

    • @Anna92781
      @Anna92781 5 років тому +14

      He literally is though. He's having a conversation. He's playing devils advocate here and there and asking her certain questions for her to answer in different ways. It's a conversation, not an interview.

  • @HannahBillingsly
    @HannahBillingsly 6 років тому +270

    I honestly used to not be the biggest corinna fan, but after watching this, I absolutely love her.

    • @KD-qr9ff
      @KD-qr9ff 5 років тому +3

      Hannah Billingsly stop idolising people you don’t know

    • @Xe974
      @Xe974 5 років тому +3

      @@KD-qr9ff👈🤡

    • @KD-qr9ff
      @KD-qr9ff 5 років тому

      187 :• lmao awhhhh you’re offended awhhh boo hoo

    • @Xe974
      @Xe974 5 років тому +3

      @@KD-qr9ff 👈🤡

    • @KD-qr9ff
      @KD-qr9ff 5 років тому

      187 :• 🖕

  • @joelle3343
    @joelle3343 6 років тому +183

    with all due respect Corinna should go with her instinct and not listen to you

  • @23Randomm
    @23Randomm 6 років тому +616

    I think Brandon doesn’t understand that it’s wrong to be with someone toxic just because you care about that person.

    • @madisonj5136
      @madisonj5136 6 років тому +3

      23Randomm yeah I agree

    • @mgnrwn
      @mgnrwn 6 років тому +1

      yep

    • @flamingravenmc4058
      @flamingravenmc4058 6 років тому

      No, when u love someone, there are always going to be ups and downs and if the person still wants to be in that relationship even if it is toxic than they truly love that person

    • @23Randomm
      @23Randomm 6 років тому +6

      FlamingRavenMC ofc, but there’s a difference between “ups and downs” and toxicity. For example, if a guy constantly cheats on you, that’s not an “up and down” that’s someone who’s toxic and u should leave (not saying Todd cheated on her). Even if you love that person and they love you, it’s clear they don’t value you. “Love” isn’t just love, there are other aspects like mutual respect

    • @meghan6552
      @meghan6552 6 років тому +4

      @@23Randomm to add to your point for the commenter above-- staying with a toxic person may mean you love them, but how much do you love yourself?

  • @Brumlee24
    @Brumlee24 6 років тому +625

    If you don’t do Alex next I swear.

    • @jamiesmith5429
      @jamiesmith5429 6 років тому +19

      BRUMLEE I wouldn’t get your hopes up bro lol I don’t think he’s gonna do it

    • @shai7761
      @shai7761 6 років тому +11

      Alex is so interesting and we don’t even get to see him much

    • @Rune77
      @Rune77 6 років тому +6

      He did a old podcast episode with Brandon. "I'm sorry dad" is the name of Brandon's podcast. It's about a hour long.

  • @dawnmorante
    @dawnmorante 6 років тому +1200

    i swear i’ve been waiting for this since toddy’s

  • @maddyyoutube8029
    @maddyyoutube8029 6 років тому +14

    So many girls feel this and it’s so sad, to have that inner conflict of wanting to be with someone and loving them so much but knowing it will hurt you to be with them so you don’t to protect yourself and then it still hurts, you feel like a lose lose situation and then adding anxiety on top of that. I recently got out of this situation but I didn’t do the healthy thing for myself after trying to for almost 6 months, got back with him and it ended badly, way worse than if I just would’ve done what was best for me. Now I like being alone again but it was so nice to hear someone relate and understand what that feels like. You’ll like being alone again Corinna and so many girls know what you’re going through. Heartbreak sucks but you find yourself in a way you never knew was possible after. You got this!! ❤️

  • @alshamsi-tx8gb
    @alshamsi-tx8gb 4 роки тому +1

    these conversations are the best, opening up to someone who cares about you and understands how you feel really makes you appreciate a lot of things in life

  • @maja2851
    @maja2851 6 років тому +66

    "You want to be with someone so bad and you know you can, but you know that you shouldn't." That made me cry because I'm going through the exact same thing right now. :(

  • @izzieskaa
    @izzieskaa 6 років тому +445

    Corrina’s so soft spoken yet intellectual aaaah I love her

    • @izzieskaa
      @izzieskaa 6 років тому +13

      Chrome Red is that an assumption or a fact? Either way, it doesn’t take away from her being intuitive or kind?

    • @SkizzyMajin
      @SkizzyMajin 6 років тому +2

      izzie Golunska I could tell your a cookie cutter

    • @SkizzyMajin
      @SkizzyMajin 6 років тому +2

      Crystal Marsh see Fucking cookie cutter

    • @SkizzyMajin
      @SkizzyMajin 6 років тому +1

      Crystal Marsh Good one Cookie cutter

    • @SkizzyMajin
      @SkizzyMajin 6 років тому +1

      Crystal Marsh Go play with Husky pickle boy

  • @fiImedeterror
    @fiImedeterror 6 років тому +84

    i'm not really caught up with all the vlog squad drama but the way she talked about having someone who finally understood her anxiety and shit really hit me and losing that regardless of what type of relationship you had with said person hurts so much... i really hope corinna can heal

  • @brunettepotato6133
    @brunettepotato6133 6 років тому +37

    Not only is this video so insightful of toxic relationships, the comments are some of the best pieces of advice that I’ve ever come across. Really glad I clicked on this video❤️

  • @ballonninjaa
    @ballonninjaa 6 років тому +833

    Brandon you really seemed misguided in this one. Instead of really listening and understanding what corrina was saying you projected your own ideologies of what it mean to have love for someone. By telling Corinna you need to hold on to the love she has for Todd you are literally telling her to never move on from, to stay in that place full of jealousy and resentment.

    • @HannaMoki
      @HannaMoki 6 років тому +11

      exactly.........

    • @lexingtonimbraguglio3744
      @lexingtonimbraguglio3744 6 років тому +14

      No hes leading her through the healing process. STOP HATING

    • @MrsAmbMcC
      @MrsAmbMcC 6 років тому +2

      🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

    • @HannaMoki
      @HannaMoki 6 років тому +25

      @@lexingtonimbraguglio3744 that person is NOT HATING. Plus is he some kind of therapist, he can't lead her through healing process lol xD It's her own thing to do. It's a conversation, not a therapy session.

    • @lisaraven4718
      @lisaraven4718 6 років тому +2

      EVERY ONE LIKE THIS. BUUUMP TO THE TOP ☝️☝️👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @zaracruse972
    @zaracruse972 6 років тому +91

    I liked Brandon's other videos like this, but this one specifically rubbed me the wrong way. He kept pushing that they should get back together, that her points actually meant it was "love", then she was constantly saying it was a bad and toxic relationship but it was like he wasn't even putting her feelings first. She has chosen to move on and for you to keep hinting that they are meant to be together is offputting. And saying you cant let love go away with Todd? Come on man. Enough. Let her heal.

  • @angelo6506
    @angelo6506 6 років тому +517

    Brandon is my favorite member of his friend group

    • @nataliaalicja6010
      @nataliaalicja6010 6 років тому +3

      insert name here really?

    • @jazzyjerica6878
      @jazzyjerica6878 6 років тому +4

      I like how you don’t even have to say “his” name and everyone still knows who you’re talking about.

    • @rubicurran
      @rubicurran 6 років тому +5

      insert name here same he’s so real and genuine, he’d be such a good friend

  • @xoxdesireedior
    @xoxdesireedior 6 років тому +27

    Corinna’s situation with Todd is something so many of us have gone through before. I really appreciate her putting these feelings into words. It’s therapeutic.

  • @sabrinaevans8388
    @sabrinaevans8388 6 років тому +120

    "You're emotionally invested but he also brings you pain. I think that's love. " NO. Brandon is right about relationships having ups and downs and needing to work through them. But like she said, there was so many downs. You should not stay with someone who is repeatedly causing you pain. I know that is not what Brandon meant, and he had good intentions. But it came out all wrong lol

  • @sleepyr0730
    @sleepyr0730 5 років тому +3

    this is the best thing to listen to, they understand everything so well and the way they talk about it makes me want to cry too, love you both

  • @EsmeLovesFood
    @EsmeLovesFood 6 років тому +282

    i want him to upload a compilation of him going back to turn the camera off

    • @motherof2angels85
      @motherof2angels85 6 років тому

      Esmeralda Llerenas lol yesssssss I’ve been thinking about that several videos ago!!!

  • @Natasha-oz6ik
    @Natasha-oz6ik 6 років тому +671

    It takes a lot of strength to accept and move on from a relationship with someone that you love but a grownup relationship needs more than love to survive and thrive, it needs purpose. Corinna is a beautiful human being, (so is Toddy) she and Toddy are still very young and still evolving and maturing so they may need some time and space. Women generally cannot ‘eat the cake’ without expectations so its best for Corinna to leave it alone lol.

    • @vonmjau
      @vonmjau 6 років тому

      Natasha Vink z a.

    • @africanliving294
      @africanliving294 6 років тому +3

      ‘Relationships need more than love’ wow

    • @EmmaAus
      @EmmaAus 6 років тому +8

      Nina Neenaah: They sort of do... If you don't have similar values to whomever you're sharing a life with, it can quickly become problematic. Basically, if our actions aren't in line with our values, that creates cognitive dissonance... & Sometimes we can be with people that make it harder to live a life in line with our own values...
      Love is wonderful, & enough in the short term... But long term there are definitely more facets that come into account ❤

    • @Natasha-oz6ik
      @Natasha-oz6ik 6 років тому +1

      PositiveEnergy absolutely! Beautifully expressed ✅♥️

    • @adamwarlock1
      @adamwarlock1 6 років тому +3

      Yeah I think Brandon missed part of the point of the cake thing. But he was doing a big job just getting her to talk things through, which is a lot harder than me sitting here watching.

  • @ryebread4322
    @ryebread4322 6 років тому +137

    Very interesting to see how things were and how they are from another perspective. Reminds me that we never know what other people are thinking/feeling, unless we’re vulnerable enough to communicate honestly in the present

  • @vannesamagallon4592
    @vannesamagallon4592 6 років тому +3

    She’s speaking on a majority of relationships. I can really feel on this one. Glad she’s sharing her story. This is beautiful🖤 and helps me a lot!

  • @terseandtiny1746
    @terseandtiny1746 6 років тому +49

    There's a difference between single and alone.

  • @chelseygarrett4221
    @chelseygarrett4221 6 років тому +266

    It's okay to cry and mourn the loss list of a relationship even if you aren't in love anymore.

  • @uphillchill6975
    @uphillchill6975 6 років тому +114

    Corinna, just admitting that you know it’s toxic is growth. Time actually does heal, while maybe not completely... you might get more upset later, you might feel better later, it ebbs and flows. You trust your intuition and do what makes your heart and head feel right. I will say that sometimes “out of sight, out of mind” in the beginning is super helpful, especially when you’d be seeing them with someone else. You brain has to “detox” for lack of a better word from this constant that has been going on in your life for a year. I’m sure you’re getting plenty of advice but just know that you’re not alone girl.

  • @candaceenicole
    @candaceenicole 6 років тому +373

    Toooo much time talking about Todd. She’s more than that.

    • @Clawedbysteph
      @Clawedbysteph 6 років тому +34

      candaceenicole she is more than Todd, of course, but the video is about their breakup. Corinna AND Todd’s break up.

    • @awsomeG360
      @awsomeG360 6 років тому +2

      @@Clawedbysteph FAX

    • @NikkoNikko98
      @NikkoNikko98 6 років тому +10

      read the title dude...

    • @ashleyburgos4921
      @ashleyburgos4921 6 років тому +1

      candaceenicole THANK YOU. RIGHT.

    • @lizard694
      @lizard694 6 років тому

      Same I feel you

  • @lisaperalta7942
    @lisaperalta7942 6 років тому +2

    Authenticity on UA-cam, this is a breath of fresh air. Love this series Brandon I get excited when I see a new one pop up in my notifications

  • @willegacy9055
    @willegacy9055 6 років тому +2

    I actually thoroughly enjoy these videos. They really show the humanity behind each of these "vlog characters". I definitely wouldn't be upset if these continued

    • @et5895
      @et5895 6 років тому +1

      I love them. And I think Brandon really makes them great. I hope it helps people realize that we are all human and humans fuck up all the time and go through things but we love the same!

  • @PoutyForest
    @PoutyForest 6 років тому +28

    I love these genuine conversations Brandon is able to have with people. This is my favorite one so far. I also really love how Corinna actually got to show her real and true self in this video. Well done.

  • @omgwhateven
    @omgwhateven 6 років тому +39

    This is the most genuine series and I'm so grateful for content like this, you're really doing something special here.

  • @meganstringer7376
    @meganstringer7376 6 років тому +95

    I literally get everything that corinna is saying. Legit. It happened to me recently with someone and I still think about him and care about him but I know I shouldn’t. It’s hard to forget about someone that made an impact on you so much. I love you corinna ❤️

  • @michellegarrett6752
    @michellegarrett6752 6 років тому +32

    I think I get what Corinna is saying though. You can love someone, but if they have historically treated you like an object an option, or a backup and not respected you as person of value, you can never trust that they really love or respect you. Being treated like less than a person, like an option or a backup makes you feel powerless and worthless. At some point you realize you have given your power away to someone who was willing to abuse it. You realize that if you don't stand up for yourself and love yourself the way you deserve than no one else will. Asking that person to love you and respect you still gives them the power over you. Walking away is the only way to take back that power. You stop asking for the love you deserve and you give it to yourself.

    • @Justcruzinn
      @Justcruzinn 5 років тому +1

      Well spoken young lady 💯👌

  • @kyliestewart3873
    @kyliestewart3873 6 років тому +251

    Can we see the David and Liza break up explained

  • @sofiehabesland
    @sofiehabesland 6 років тому +416

    DONT YOU GET IT SHE IS CRYING BECAUSE SHE LOST HER REALLY GOOD FRIEND, NOT NECESSARILY BECAUSE SHE IS SINGLE. also love is not being jealous of each other, when you are with the right person you trust them even if they dont call you back right away when you are at a club and so on. Yes arguing can be healthy to a degree, but if its about the right things, not about the smallest insecurities.

    • @sofiehabesland
      @sofiehabesland 6 років тому +17

      btw corinna, seems like you are really making the right choices for yourself. I am really happy for you!

  • @corkymariee6
    @corkymariee6 6 років тому +1220

    thank u, next

  • @katlyngiberson
    @katlyngiberson 6 років тому +85

    Brandon is a natural counselor, obviously. Good to see Corinna feel a sense of release. Love this Brandon, keep these coming. And Corinna, so much love and sending prayers for you 💕

  • @joshburnett2799
    @joshburnett2799 6 років тому +1

    this series is actually great. you're a phenomenal listener. you're actually using a major component of humanistic therapy, which is to reiterate what they're saying so that you can understand them yourself and so that they can work through it. this is an important thing to show people because we should all have these types of conversations with our friends where we are actively listening. so it's good you're showing people this.

  • @s.ourstiles
    @s.ourstiles 6 років тому +18

    i know everyone kind of dislikes brandon’s standpoint in this, but i do think it’s interesting to hear from someone in the toxic relationship and the perspective of someone from the outside.

  • @TheBeastFatboy
    @TheBeastFatboy 6 років тому +201

    Loving someone isnt the same as being in love.

  • @BerlinCityGirl84
    @BerlinCityGirl84 6 років тому +433

    sorry Brandon but your theory about Corinna's feelings for Tod is bullshit. She is sad over the loss of a very close person in her life which is totally natural and is going to fade away over time. That does not necesseraly mean that she wants to be in a romantic relationship with that person.

    • @nba_danii
      @nba_danii 6 років тому +1

      BerlinCityGirl84 stfu prince charm. No one knows how she feels

  • @krystalnieves4565
    @krystalnieves4565 6 років тому +440

    I’m waiting for him to do a conversation with David and Liza break up

    • @naomis5613
      @naomis5613 6 років тому +12

      Krystal Nieves it will probably not happen because David loves to be in control

    • @mgnrwn
      @mgnrwn 6 років тому +12

      why? it was very black and white in their video. they gave us an explanation and regardless if it was the truth or just some story, they gave us a reason. no need to dive into it more because we don’t deserve to know everything about it.

    • @youtuberreinactments1329
      @youtuberreinactments1329 6 років тому +7

      Krystal Nieves it’s been 10 months let it go. Every interview Liza does, they ask her about it. The conversation should be if she finally has all her self love in check

    • @doviddabrik1828
      @doviddabrik1828 6 років тому +1

      they gave us all the reasons, why need for another video? the video was pretty clear.

  • @elisadiaz
    @elisadiaz 6 років тому +42

    I wanna be Corrina's friend so bad after this. It's rare to have someone who can understand what it's like to have trust issues and anxiety on top of it but the thing is she's already been in the situation that I'm avoiding whereas I can't take the risk to be in that kind of situation because I feel like when I finally leave my "alone" self I couldn't be able to go back to it and just constantly crave for someone and that's fucking terrifying. Lol thank you for listening to my ted talk.

    • @KD-qr9ff
      @KD-qr9ff 5 років тому

      Elisa Jean lmao what is this

  • @omgeeilovefrank
    @omgeeilovefrank 6 років тому +9

    damn shes really out here preaching. glad you walked away from something that is unhealthy for you, it's one of the hardest things to do. the fact that youre able to articulate how youre feeling so well and able to be so raw is really beautiful, I commend you.

  • @Gigaikev
    @Gigaikev 6 років тому +506

    Brandon needs to have a car conversation with me bc idk about y’all but man I’ve been going through it lmao 😂

  • @halleraesingsongs
    @halleraesingsongs 6 років тому +80

    This is amazing, I love how genuine this side of your channel is ❤️

  • @abisislo378
    @abisislo378 6 років тому +12

    This hit me on such a deep, personal level. I just recently went through a breakup with someone and our relationship mirrored Toddy and Corinna's so much. I felt like I also needed to hear all of that. This is maybe the rawest video I've seen on youtube. Thank you
    I'd also like to add perspective to the people being afraid they won't find anyone or being afraid of being alone. I grew up feeling very isolated from my family. My dad was gone for months at a time for work and my brother was always the clear favorite. So I never grew up feeling overwhelmed with love. I felt like I was always chasing it. Then my freshman year of high school I was bullied so intensely all year that eventually we had to report to the police and the school board. My best friend of 10 years turned on me and made my life hell. I lost the only support system I ever really had. Being depressed and feeling isolated was hard. Not having the option of an outlet for your emotions is crippling. Eventually I saw that the only time people really gave me the time of day was if they wanted to date me or sleep with me, causing me to chase those sorts of relationships since it was my only escape from being so completely isolated. After 7 years of clinical depression and anxiety, I have poured my heart and soul into making sure my mental health is top notch and loneliness is still my number one struggle. I don't know how to be alone and I associate being alone with the darkest times in my life. I have an incredible support system and now I have healthy coping mechanisms to deal with the loneliness but it is an everyday battle for sure. Hopefully if you see this, this gave you some insight on people fearing being alone.

  • @itsssnic
    @itsssnic 6 років тому +24

    The way Brandon handles this whole situation and asking Corinna if she wants him to pull over when she's crying etc. is so admirable and not easy to do with a topic of this nature.
    And big credit to corinna for being so open and vulnerable on camera aswell, that shit would not be easy to do

  • @dimatadore
    @dimatadore 6 років тому +1

    I'm liking no cuts videos. I don't get bored. It's a natural pace that relaxes a bit I think.

  • @marcelab1or
    @marcelab1or 6 років тому +234

    Damn Corinna serving Ariana grande thank you next vibes 💪🏼

  • @capric0rpse
    @capric0rpse 6 років тому +90

    This was the best conversation you've had with anyone yet. Thanks Brandon!

    • @umnia4316
      @umnia4316 6 років тому +7

      The duo I never knew we needed, they have such similar vibes.

  • @TaraGxD
    @TaraGxD 6 років тому +1370

    I loved hearing Corinna's side and she seems like such a beautiful person but Brandon you were pushing it, just because you believe something should be some way doesn't mean it's the right thing for someone else. Wish you were a bit more empathetic. I still love what you're doing but if you're going to let someone tell their story let them and don't push your opinion on them.

    • @bubblewubble4632
      @bubblewubble4632 6 років тому +24

      Tara2018 thank god someone thought the same thing.

    • @chloehaigley827
      @chloehaigley827 6 років тому +24

      Nahhhhhh no he was good

    • @FreemanPoems
      @FreemanPoems 6 років тому +33

      Tara2018 what do you think...advice is...

    • @bannaanlana
      @bannaanlana 6 років тому +22

      he was just saying that the obvious answer for feeling lonely and missing him when breaking up is to go back but that he understands that there is more to it than simply going back because there was so much more going on and it wasn't the best solution

    • @TeamStevers
      @TeamStevers 6 років тому +8

      Depresso & Meme advice is helpful, being a nosed creep offering zero helpful input is not advice.

  • @beleneguren
    @beleneguren 6 років тому +17

    It is obvious that she really loves him, but sometimes loving someone just isn’t enough. It didn’t work out and that’s fine. Maybe with time when they no longer have feelings for each other they can be friends cause they care about each other but right now I think they should try to let it go, you can’t get over someone if you see them and talk to them all the time. It takes a really strong person to leave a relationship even tho they love the person so let’s give them BOTH some credit and stop pushing them to be together

  • @dr3ambaby161
    @dr3ambaby161 6 років тому +470

    Brandon real dumb in this lmao

    • @BathgateToushiru
      @BathgateToushiru 5 років тому +18

      Hes not, he actually asks good questions. He just wont take sides thats all.

  • @Zaddyz2
    @Zaddyz2 6 років тому +27

    Most underrated channel out there right now, should be hitting 500k already

  • @rosiemoore2285
    @rosiemoore2285 6 років тому +66

    Would be nice to know more about Corinna for things not related to men

  • @tarbyn
    @tarbyn 6 років тому +345

    This should be titled ‘Brandon subtly trying to get Corinna and Todd back together’

    • @LG-xx3ti
      @LG-xx3ti 6 років тому +19

      I honestly feel the same, but I think he just wants them to not be in pain anymore and the only solution he has is for them is to be together, know what I mean?

  • @TeamJacob0714
    @TeamJacob0714 6 років тому +15

    I liked seeing Brandon and Corinna as like actual friends talking about their feelings

  • @florence944
    @florence944 6 років тому +11

    25:25 Being capable of loving yourself sometimes is greater than being capable of loving and giving love to someone.
    This is what Corinna's trying to do. She's trying to put herself before others, for her own mental well being and for the well being of others. After she's capable of loving herself, she then will be able to spread love to others, even better than before.
    Like what Liza said, "I really wanna spread love, but I have to have it first" "It's like saying you're going to spread mayonnaise when you only have mustard. You need the mayonnaise."
    I've been through this and I think this is what Corinna's trying to do, she's trying to find her mayo. All the best for Corinna 💕
    Brandon may not have intended to push his intentions on Corinna, I understand that he was just trying to "repair". I hope his future interviews will be better as well 💙